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  • @nora.fl28
    @nora.fl28 4 месяца назад +512

    the timing for this is crazy...

  • @briannau.9492
    @briannau.9492 4 месяца назад +208

    Timing is impeccable, it’s scary . 😭😭😭thank you !!!

  • @zoeyedo6521
    @zoeyedo6521 4 месяца назад +173

    " once you understand the fight, you understand how to love difficult people " wow, emy
    wow
    holy spirit move

  • @joyouse9085
    @joyouse9085 4 месяца назад +85

    YOOO TODAY AND YESTERDAY I PRAYED TO GOD TO HELP ME LOVE THE PEOPLE I HAVE TROUBLE LOVING!!!😭 God is good

  • @saranox7319
    @saranox7319 4 месяца назад +119

    Be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to anger.

  • @corysecrets5005
    @corysecrets5005 4 месяца назад +42

    "God Loves the People that you HATE. " ❤

  • @joannachristene1667
    @joannachristene1667 4 месяца назад +119

    "Jesus was the bigger person for you" I CANNOT THIS IS SO GOOD

  • @Georginna123
    @Georginna123 4 месяца назад +28

    People are not the enemy, the spirit behind their actions are, but their actions are their free will. And people need to be held accountable for their free will choices against other people. People are not entirely blameless.

  • @cambryiawhitfield-suber9539
    @cambryiawhitfield-suber9539 4 месяца назад +34

    Thats why repentance, renouncing, denouncing, divorcing from those things are IMPORTANT!!! Binding it with the blood of Jesus Christ and then establishing a new covenant with God and ask him to wash you clean with his blood to be renewed ❤

  • @chaejordan
    @chaejordan 4 месяца назад +45

    That prayer ??!!! Amen! 💗

  • @maggieriordan7769
    @maggieriordan7769 4 месяца назад +20

    hahaha no way this ep just came out. this was a word for so many of us clearly and so timely, thank you for your obedience !!!!!

  • @destinynkechi3053
    @destinynkechi3053 4 месяца назад +21

    Perfect timing. Seem's like a lot resonates, me included✨

  • @stephanieramirez4418
    @stephanieramirez4418 4 месяца назад +14

    Stop!!! I HAVE BEEN PRAYING FOR AND ABOUT THIS 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️ Lord have mercy on us!!! PRAYING FOR YOU EMY

  • @leila_alexis_
    @leila_alexis_ 4 месяца назад +20

    Also I want to add that in order to forgive and love difficult people, it needs to be Jesus in us that is doing the loving and forgiving but it is impossible to do it if we are not being spiritually filled with things of the Lord. If we are dwelling too much in the flesh than it is impossible to love and forgive our enemies so get close to Christ and you will develop love for them naturally.

  • @ItsAryanna56
    @ItsAryanna56 4 месяца назад +12

    Ooh God is good! The timing of this!! The lord knows I’ve been praying and struggling with loving the difficult people at work 😭

  • @joy2510
    @joy2510 3 месяца назад +4

    "Jesus already did the work on that cross evertthing else is up to you" woowww!!!

  • @memethegreatest2299
    @memethegreatest2299 4 месяца назад +6

    This is such a great video! Thank you for breaking this down the way that you did. I heard something the other day and it mentioned how sometimes the enemy will make you recall offenses because he can’t predict the future he can only remind you of the past. Don’t get stuck in offenses, over come them, as Jesus over came the world.

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart 4 месяца назад +8

    We see absolutely NOTHING in the new testament about generatíonal curses or them being broken. Just about being dead in trespasses and sins and being quickened or made alive through the law of the Spirit of life in Christ. His Blood cleanses and restores and delivers and His Spirit enlightens and empowers renews and transforms. I've often wondered about this teaching of generational curses (coming from an abusive alcoholic background) and it's not supported in the scripture. When God saved me he made me a new creature. Old things are passed away and ALL things have become NEW!
    Thank you Jesus for your love, mercy and grace and the delivering power of the gospel of God!

    • @tessb.1576
      @tessb.1576 4 месяца назад +2

      A lot of SUPERSTITION is what I hear.
      For some time I used to believe this, but Jesus took all curse and sin to the cross. Hallelujah!

    • @RoDaMochi
      @RoDaMochi 4 месяца назад +2

      Literally the first thing I thought

    • @jesusiskingofmyheart
      @jesusiskingofmyheart 4 месяца назад +1

      @@RoDaMochi YES! God bless you:)

  • @hopecoleman3375
    @hopecoleman3375 4 месяца назад +7

    Girl, you must’ve hopped on here fresh off of fast because the way you just ate me up!!! I am speechless and grateful… I’m walking out in conviction and obedience as we speak lol Thank you times two💛✨

  • @leahraisin
    @leahraisin 4 месяца назад +6

    you know what’s funny, as soon as i casted out anxiety I got an ad that said “it’s not about getting rid of anxiety, it’s about dealing with anxiety.” That’s crazy!

  • @trinitysavala
    @trinitysavala 3 месяца назад +5

    EMY CLOCKED MEEE😫 “jesus was the bigger person for you”

  • @ccg9623
    @ccg9623 4 месяца назад +5

    Probably the 100th person to say this but the timing is justttttt👀 I work in Customer Service jobs for 10 years now and every year every day I start hating humans even more. I start fighting with my own family members, and even with my mother. Coming back slowly to God, the past month, to Jesus and I prayed so hard for him to send someone to explain to me and help me with this. And now, your video. You might not see this but THANK YOU for this video🙏

  • @loganwilliams173
    @loganwilliams173 Месяц назад +2

    Jesus Christ Is My Lord And Savior, Whom Shall I Fear 🙌🏾❤️

  • @tuscanyfairer9547
    @tuscanyfairer9547 4 месяца назад +8

    Definitely needed to hear this one!😮

  • @JocelynFlowersBloom
    @JocelynFlowersBloom 4 месяца назад +4

    Such an important topic.
    We aren’t called just to love the loveable- we got to love our ENEMIES!
    Christ is the most beautiful example!
    Thank you for this 🎉💕‼️

  • @briannaferreira5496
    @briannaferreira5496 4 месяца назад +5

    Christ is really moving and speaking through you

  • @emeraldcollier178
    @emeraldcollier178 4 месяца назад +3

    I've come back to this about 4 times since it aired as a reminder when I'm facing TOUGH situations... this episode TRULY has centered me and stopped me from fighting battles that aren't even mine. Thanks so much!!!

  • @londonamiyah5388
    @londonamiyah5388 4 месяца назад +6

    God knew i needed thisss

  • @bri6880
    @bri6880 4 месяца назад +4

    God is good. i love reading thru the comment section here. This ep was also for me, God has been speaking to me about putting on the full armor and loving on my coworker and im like but how??? shes sooo difficult 😣😩And i also have been asking God to show me His love more because i dont fully know/ grasp His love for me. So when I can connect the love He has for me to the love He has for her then i think thats when the lightbulb will go off and ill know how to love her. but yeah thank you Emy for your obedience to the Spirit ❤ God Bless you girl. May the Lord continue to bless you and use you in mighty ways!! In Jesus name!✝️

  • @tedriunas
    @tedriunas 4 месяца назад +4

    God’s timing is crazy !!! I was angry and stormed in the shower came to RUclips and boom this popped up !

  • @ShelbyHarris09
    @ShelbyHarris09 4 месяца назад +4

    Emy ❤ you are giving the spirit of Deborah with this one 🙌🏾 a true tenacious and amazing leader! Warrior for Elohim, Al Shaddai 🙌🏾🙏🏾 Glory to God in the highest ✨

  • @aidynjones9683
    @aidynjones9683 14 дней назад +1

    this showed up randomly and i believe God has drawn me to you n your channel to help me seek him and navigate my current situation n struggles, in a way I am able to grasp! So I thank the Lord for using and speaking through you to help me and anyone else going through something!

  • @Catalina_22
    @Catalina_22 Месяц назад +1

    This was amazing and has helped so much BUT can I just sayyy that the amount of ads in this video was crazyyyy... I realize the prayer in the beginning about distractions while watching this video was about the ADS lolll

  • @damilolaipadeola
    @damilolaipadeola 4 месяца назад +3

    What is this timing!? And I’m earlyyy? Wow 🥹

  • @supzhu
    @supzhu 3 месяца назад +2

    that’s crazy. right after the podcast ive got to my Bible study and ive just opened at Psalms 94:1: “The Lord is a God Who avenges.” The Word is alive yall! The Father is always communicating with us.

  • @jtwlover
    @jtwlover 4 месяца назад +4

    I’m literally doing a devotional over loving difficult people! The timing of this video!!

  • @coconutpie7007
    @coconutpie7007 4 месяца назад +3

    EMY GOD BLESS YOU, and may God keep using you

  • @mirandafloress7709
    @mirandafloress7709 4 месяца назад +1

    Please somebody what is the video she is talking about where she talks bout trust issues I can’t find it

  • @thaliasintjago9927
    @thaliasintjago9927 4 месяца назад +2

    Its Like every time i watch your video’s I’m in the same situation at the same time like now. Its like God is always speaking through you to me. Its like he is convicting me or just talking to me. And some times explaining why I’m in this season or situation.

  • @raquel8078
    @raquel8078 4 месяца назад +2

    Truly this was well said and a message for believers everywhere. It was so encouraging.
    One correction I will make is the point about generational curses. What you’ve explained about your grandma struggling with something , your mom struggles with it and then you struggle with it is learned behaviour, not a curse.
    We cannot be saved, free indeed with Jesus in our hearts and still have a curse over our family, that’s not biblical and it’s implying the holyspirit living in us isn’t powerful enough to over come it.
    As you said we can come against things in the name of Jesus and be freed from strongholds. But again, a stronghold is not a curse.
    I hope this is well received ❤

  • @camillefaith2005
    @camillefaith2005 4 месяца назад +6

    The timing of this is crazy lol. 💀

  • @oziomaanyanwu902
    @oziomaanyanwu902 4 месяца назад +3

    Wheww this episode is itttt!!! 😮‍💨

  • @liquidleaves
    @liquidleaves 4 месяца назад +2

    This was so eye opening. Good reflection for us and come to the Lord.

  • @cailingoodwin6870
    @cailingoodwin6870 4 месяца назад +1

    Can walking out of someone’s life be a kind of love ?

  • @Bellakallon
    @Bellakallon 4 месяца назад +1

    What type of prayers can I pray (from the Bible) over my family?

  • @naomicollazo838
    @naomicollazo838 4 месяца назад +3

    i’m so glad you’re talking about this!!!!!!! this is one of the first things i did when i came to christ. denounced all generational agreements alters and curses. changed my entire life

    • @naomicollazo838
      @naomicollazo838 4 месяца назад

      please read john ramierz books he talks a lot about these generational spirits

  • @estherbaffour2993
    @estherbaffour2993 3 месяца назад +1

    The possession vs oppression part!!🔥🔥🔥and referencing the scripture when Peter cut of the servant’s ear🔥🔥🔥I never saw the scripture that way- Peter retaliated towards the wrong person!!! Thank you so much Emy for sharing

  • @Ayomide0987
    @Ayomide0987 4 месяца назад +1

    Quick question, I want to love people right? But there is some people in my life that hanging out with them is usually draining, or ends with me feeling guilty and regretting even being with them sometimes

    • @Ayomide0987
      @Ayomide0987 4 месяца назад +1

      So I don’t know what to do, is me hanging out with them, showing them love? Although I feel the way I feel

  • @vikkinech
    @vikkinech 4 месяца назад +2

    what!!! this is an answered prayer. thank you Jesus!! needed it ❤ I've been praying for God to help me and give me the strength to love difficult people

  • @mannuellagomes6625
    @mannuellagomes6625 4 месяца назад +3

    Jesus touch my heart behind this mensage. God is good💓

  • @Themarisaramirez
    @Themarisaramirez 4 месяца назад +2

    This couldn’t have came at the right time. Thank you for this. My 23 YT old brother relapsed over a month ago after being sober (alcoholic) for a little under a year. I’ve been praying for him and I’m hoping he comes to God and leaves his life to take up a new one with Christ at the top.

  • @avilalovee
    @avilalovee 4 месяца назад +1

    Love your Voice! You are very Feerless in the Spirit of the Lord 🪽🙏

  • @katherine8932
    @katherine8932 4 месяца назад +3

    Thank you Jesus for this ! The timing is so intentional 🙏🏼

  • @melaninmanifestingqueenpod5040
    @melaninmanifestingqueenpod5040 4 месяца назад +1

    Man this is so timely especially when my Bible study was heavy on forgiveness and I think this ties hand and hand! I can see your aura and your spiritual maturity is GLOWING. I had to look away and back and look at other things because I don’t always see auras and especially light that’s bright. Thank you for your obedience and your ministry ❤ this is needed

  • @sxt4447
    @sxt4447 4 месяца назад +1

    I know God created me for such a time as this to be the generational curse breaker in my bloodline ❤ Jesus gave us the authority to overcome ALL the power of the enemy. NOTHING will harm us!

  • @briannaferreira5496
    @briannaferreira5496 4 месяца назад +2

    This episode is so goooooddddd, you betterr

  • @jordyn8784
    @jordyn8784 4 месяца назад +1

    wow, such an powerful message! You can see God working through Emy. Praying everyone has a blessed week and continues to lead with love !

  • @issyagurl_
    @issyagurl_ 4 месяца назад +2

    timing is a blessing😭😭

  • @leslieperez5494
    @leslieperez5494 4 месяца назад +1

    I can’t believe I watched this video! Definitely switched my perspective and reality.God bless you Ive never heard this before❤

  • @destinyamaya7783
    @destinyamaya7783 4 месяца назад +1

    Gods timing is perfect always! Thank you God & thank you Amy for this amazing opportunity to hear this word today. 💕

  • @shaylafarrell6283
    @shaylafarrell6283 4 месяца назад +1

    the timing on this... this message is life changing. thank you for your obedience and openness to the Holy Spirit to share this message and for allowing Him to use you to touch His children.

  • @MzLopez_BlaaksheepDisciple
    @MzLopez_BlaaksheepDisciple 4 месяца назад +1

    This was Gods word ! Thank you for letting him use you to deliver it!! ❤ GOD IS GOOD ALL THE TIME

  • @Lifetogether-t1p
    @Lifetogether-t1p 4 месяца назад +1

    I love this really because you just helped me ❤ thank you really

  • @alexisaariel
    @alexisaariel 4 месяца назад +1

    This was so powerful Emy and life changing AND right on time. Thank you for your obedience 🙏🏽 God has blessed you with an amazing anointing to teach his word 🤍🤍

  • @jubileegabriella
    @jubileegabriella 2 месяца назад +1

    i literally was talking to God about this...this morning -and i see this on my YT page...

  • @Amoregenesiss
    @Amoregenesiss 3 месяца назад

    I love Emy’s content!!! Her devotion towards God is beautiful.
    💕💕💕💕💕

  • @reine8042
    @reine8042 4 месяца назад +1

    WHEN I TELL YOU THAT I JUST BINGED WATCHED ALL THE HUNGER GAMES MOVIES BEFORE I CLICKED ON THIS VIDEO DSKFKDFDSSDK 14:21
    God’s timing is SO crazy

  • @estherbaffour2993
    @estherbaffour2993 3 месяца назад

    Emy thank you so much for sharing this! You have so much wisdom and I know you have consistently availed yourself to be used by God! You are definitely studying The Word and praying! Thank you so much, I really needed to hear this message😢❤️God bless you

  • @Godforbidtherockscryout
    @Godforbidtherockscryout 4 месяца назад

    Hey Emy! I love seeing how God has grown your Christian influencer presence and I had a question. I’m trying to leave my flip flopping on being on fire for God phase, but I don’t know how to fight this spirit of religion I’ve been facing. Every time I get close to God, it feels like I am so unworthy and like I can’t even pray to God for very long because I feel like I can never do things right in His presence. You are the most wise young follower of Jesus I know so if you could help me or get divine insight on what I should do, it would be greatly appreciated! Because I really want to be more like Jesus in the way I have seen Him work in you! 💕💕

  • @ZEROMARS22
    @ZEROMARS22 24 дня назад

    Amazing job in this episode.. much needed, thank you and God bless you...

  • @Tnhender
    @Tnhender Месяц назад

    God bless you Emy! I've been on a journey coming back to Christ and your videos/podcast have helped so much. You are such a light and may He continue to shine on you.

  • @estherherah5060
    @estherherah5060 4 месяца назад +1

    The Lord has an agenda cause tell me why I've been talking to Him about this today😭. Like ok God I see what you did there...

    • @alexisaariel
      @alexisaariel 4 месяца назад

      No because me tooo… like the way he’s always on timeeeeahhh

  • @kamilleaustinmusic
    @kamilleaustinmusic 4 месяца назад

    Thankyou for wisdom. Prayers that God will continue to use you as a vessel to spread his good news.
    I wanted to share with you to check out the women of Better Together if you didn’t already know them. An amazing Christian women’s podcast to refer people to as well. Have a blessed day.

  • @honeypot4650
    @honeypot4650 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much for this. God brought me to your message in this video right when I needed it. I have been going through it this past week and a half. And this message helped me shift my perspectives. I took notes on it too so I can start casting out spirits for myself and on behalf of my family as God directs. Thank you so much for your ministry and what you share and how you share it. Peace be with you 🕊️❤️🌈

  • @CarmenOrduño-r1c
    @CarmenOrduño-r1c Месяц назад

    I feel like I’m where you are now or on my way there and it helps so much knowing that u have similar experiences. Thank you for doing this podcast it helps so much!

  • @alexismouaa
    @alexismouaa 3 месяца назад

    THISSS! I NEEEEEEED THIS RN! 😭👏 haven't even listened yet but just by the title!! I NEEEEED THISSS 😭😭😭👏👏👏

  • @JaylaMcMillan8
    @JaylaMcMillan8 3 месяца назад

    Mannn this was good!!! PERFECT TIME! All glory to God!!!

  • @rachellesandoval4121
    @rachellesandoval4121 2 месяца назад

    Thank you so much for your wisdom has been a huge guidance and simplification of steps and understanding in my newest walk . Thank you ❤

  • @CreatedByGod-t5x
    @CreatedByGod-t5x 4 месяца назад

    You prayed about casting distractions down, but you have way too many ads in a short period. As soon as you would speak there was another ad. Ads are very distracting especially when there is a message that someone is trying to convey about God! I could barely enjoy it and I am only 8 minutes into the video!

  • @abbyososki4815
    @abbyososki4815 4 месяца назад +1

    THIS IS FREEING - thank you! ❤

  • @kaizafaudey
    @kaizafaudey 4 месяца назад +2

    Uh oh let her cook now ‼️

  • @angelllllllllllllllllll
    @angelllllllllllllllllll 4 месяца назад +2

    Love you Emy!! Thank you for this!

  • @FridaVergara-b2q
    @FridaVergara-b2q 3 месяца назад

    "Bold love" by Dan Allender goes deep in this topic! 100% recommend

  • @TabasumMahajabin
    @TabasumMahajabin 20 дней назад

    Lee Mary Martinez William Robinson Elizabeth

  • @mishkepetrus8609
    @mishkepetrus8609 2 дня назад

    Sjoh! This is soooo good & needed! BLESS YA EMY!

  • @Organicially.a
    @Organicially.a 4 месяца назад +1

    Very important video !!!

  • @MashuduMaswanganye
    @MashuduMaswanganye 4 месяца назад

    Hey Emy I'm currently suffering from health anxiety please pray for me

  • @rayhadali7354
    @rayhadali7354 4 месяца назад +1

    Love this video you inspire me so much ❤🙌🙏

  • @WildeMarshall
    @WildeMarshall Месяц назад

    Williams George Gonzalez Edward Williams Carol

  • @Solodolo18
    @Solodolo18 3 месяца назад +1

    God got you emy and god protects all his people amen 🙏

  • @YooDarius
    @YooDarius 4 месяца назад +1

    I appreciate you dropping this vid, this was well needed

  • @kasial2335
    @kasial2335 4 месяца назад +1

    I needed it! Thank you God and You sis❤

  • @igabutman4568
    @igabutman4568 4 месяца назад +2

    That timing!!!!! Wow

  • @Kayo-07
    @Kayo-07 4 месяца назад +1

    Talk about prayer warrior 🖤🖤

  • @mokeso7553
    @mokeso7553 4 месяца назад

    Did anyone write down all the scriptures she mentioned

  • @alyssiatorres6532
    @alyssiatorres6532 4 месяца назад

    I think he cut the ear off because he didn’t want them to take Jesus to jail

  • @peacebeuntoyoupodcast
    @peacebeuntoyoupodcast 4 месяца назад

    Yeah you came for Satan’s neck with this one Emy ❤

  • @BKTY1997
    @BKTY1997 4 месяца назад

    Can you talk about confidence in yourself?

  • @Bigdog23504
    @Bigdog23504 4 месяца назад

    Do you want to change your language on your videos?

  • @bree-rose1885
    @bree-rose1885 4 месяца назад +1

    this s so on timeeeeee