Callum's "no" at the end is what got me. Just getting that confirmation made everything snap into focus and shatter his world at the same time. Brilliant acting on both parts
Callum's last little broken, "who" breaks my heart, and then Ben looks up and they share a look and Callum just knows. Beautiful acting by Max and Tony, great job by both of them.
@@littlemissxtra756 True, there is knowing, and then there is knowing it out loud. Makes sense, something that evil, takes a while for anyone to let come to the light.
This is my new go to scene when I wanna rewatch some heartbreaking Ballum scenes. Max an Tony did such a perfect job portraying them. Ben nervously rubbing his lip with his fingers trying not to chew his fingernails. The look between him and Callum and Ben's fake smile instead of a verbal answer.
I gasped so loud when I saw this title! I’ve been waiting since the day it happened to Ben for Callum to find out. I love them together and they need each other.
I think this was such a clever way for Callum to find out. Rather than just being told by ben or finding out through someone else. It was really touching and I feel so emotional. Callum's soft 'who' makes my heart break!!!!!!
Also it lends far more credibility to Ben's story. It's one thing to say it to Callum's face, it's quite another to find him at the police station, reporting it. I've said this time and time again, I don't think Callum really could have accepted this revelation as fact any other way. Callum was so filled with anger, he needed something more to show the validity of Ben's words.
But they have a room especially for interviewing SA-victims? Is this a more than daily occurrence that they have a room for just this purpose or do they just have too much space?
That's exactly how a raped person reacts. They pull back. Btwn fear & shame & they put up walls of what they think they're protecting themselves. It's traumatic & bad enough for a woman but a guy feels more shame cuz they feel they should of stopped the rape. I was raped 4 seperate times (yrs apart but it's still rape) & it's something no one should go thru
Well, Ben didn't have consensual sex with Lewis. Yeah that was why they broke up and I do see a future where they get back together. But they did have problems before though, like when Ben willingly kissed Lewis in public.
@@regishel not to excuse him, but he was pretty drunk and he didn't initiate that kiss, Lewis did. Soon as his brain caught up with them Ben put a stop to that kiss immediately and told Lewis that he loved his husband. Looking back, you now realize that Lewis was setting it all up in my opinion.
I’ve been repeating the clips starting this part…🥺🥺🤭🤭 Ben doesn’t even need to say out his name and Callum knows exactly whom!! See!! That’s the tacit understanding between them, I wonder if even jay can do this compared to Callum🤗🤭
05/26/2022---08/18/2022!!! Literally I’m counting the days ever since that night!! Till today finally the moment we’ve been waiting for!! I got scared even when I saw the clip title!! I was like really!!! What!! This is not a trick right!!! Thank goodness zebra you are the best!! You didn’t trick us!!😅😅😅😅😅🤣🤣🤣
@@zebra5702 of course I know you won’t, you are literally the best!!!👏👏😊😊😊, I’m just doubting myself and be like omg is this actually happening or it’s just too good to be true!😆😆😆😆😅😅😅🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, being hurt by these soaps all the time leaves you some trauma definitely😂😂😂😂 and you always doubt yourself are they actually giving you what you want or just another trick to play with you😄😄😄😄, I honestly thought that they would drag this up till Christmas🥶😱😱😱😅😅😅😅😅
I love this! Tho I find it rather odd that Callum just vaguely barges into the room … but he prob though Ben got assaulted by someone at a sex party. Tho I did love Ben not wanting him near him. I think Ben learning again to “enjoy” sex could be a really interesting storyline to pursue cause Ben has been such a sexual person. Also Ben zoning out when Callum walked in. And then Callum’s “who” getting more desperate cause he realizes it was lewis before Ben admits it but he doesn’t want to fully face it
Now I hope they turn Stewart loose on Lewis. That would be a great way to write him out, he beats the shit out of Lewis. Phil uses his contacts to whisks him away from the old Bill.
Callum say he nearly broke me and you up but they not get her as it is and Ben won’t go back there as I feel he kinda believe what Lewis as saying about there relationship
No, he knew but tbf it shouldn't have been so easy for Callum to know Ben was in there. It's kept pretty confidential unless you are the officer on the case. I assumed either Callum caught a glimpse of Ben on the CCTV or someone MAYBE mentioned that Ben was there?
Je viens de decouvrir ces vidéos découlant d une série, je suppose, je suis française, donc je ne la connais pas Je retrouve la situation exacte que ma niéce a subie quand son petit ami l' a violée, :la peur, la honte Aucune personne ne doit et ne peut pas disposer de l autre, jamais. Aucune excuse ne peut pas étre donnée ni acceptée Rien ne peut pas justifier cet acte, RIEN
Callum knows now that Ben never had a consensual encounter with Lewis Butler. I hope that Callum can gain Ben’s forgiveness for being himself when he believed that Ben cheated on him.
I know you're hurting right now Ben. But you really need Callum right now. You tell him what Lewis did he will be on your side and he will support you and help you through it Ben. Like Phil and Jay and Kathy did but Callum he's a cop but despite the fact you guys are not together anymore and you fellas marriage is over but once Callum knows then this will be way for you guys to be reunited with each other again. Callum loves you Ben.
It's not copying storylines, all soaps have done the same stories as each other but they do it to spread awareness It's not like they can do an alien invasion storyline or a galactic war, they stick to real life issues and male rape is one of those and anyway David Platt got drugged and passed out, Ben was held down whilst he was saying no the whole time so it's different in that sense, so what happened in the two storylines were completely different mabye it'd be copying if they had the story play out EXACTLY like David Platts but no they didn't
The writers were sloppy the way callum found out… n then he had a complete 180, forgetting the inherent problems of his n ben’s relationship 🥴. Swiftly asking Ben for a reunion, like…. Ben needs time to heal…. Unrealistic and out of character 🫠
Learning that his husband was raped comes first and he’ll forget about everything else in order to help him. That’s very realistic except for sociopaths who lack any compassion
So that means he should be raped? Wow. Seek some therapy friend because if you feel that way about a fictional character I'd hate to think how you deal with people in real life.
"If someone's hurt you I need to know" aww
Callum’s final “who” was gut wrenching, one little word said with breathtaking knowledge
Callum's "no" at the end is what got me. Just getting that confirmation made everything snap into focus and shatter his world at the same time. Brilliant acting on both parts
Callum's last little broken, "who" breaks my heart, and then Ben looks up and they share a look and Callum just knows. Beautiful acting by Max and Tony, great job by both of them.
Yeah tony and max did a great job
Deep down Callum already knew who it was.
@@littlemissxtra756 True, there is knowing, and then there is knowing it out loud. Makes sense, something that evil, takes a while for anyone to let come to the light.
Ben didn't even have to say anything callum knew who it was straight away
100 percent
This is my new go to scene when I wanna rewatch some heartbreaking Ballum scenes. Max an Tony did such a perfect job portraying them. Ben nervously rubbing his lip with his fingers trying not to chew his fingernails. The look between him and Callum and Ben's fake smile instead of a verbal answer.
Yeah I have rewatched the scene so many times
Callum is so loving and kind. Really great and emotional acting.
Tony did a brilliant job
I gasped so loud when I saw this title! I’ve been waiting since the day it happened to Ben for Callum to find out. I love them together and they need each other.
I had a feeling this is how Callum would find out seeing him at the station, the "if someone has hurt you" you could feel the pain in Callums voice
so thankful we have Max and Tony as our Ballum. this scene killed me. fantastic acting from both. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I think this was such a clever way for Callum to find out. Rather than just being told by ben or finding out through someone else. It was really touching and I feel so emotional. Callum's soft 'who' makes my heart break!!!!!!
I totally agree
This was unexpected
Didnt think they would do it this way
The writers surprise me
Also it lends far more credibility to Ben's story. It's one thing to say it to Callum's face, it's quite another to find him at the police station, reporting it. I've said this time and time again, I don't think Callum really could have accepted this revelation as fact any other way. Callum was so filled with anger, he needed something more to show the validity of Ben's words.
To see Ben freeze up at the fear of Callum knowing what happened to him is so heartbreaking 🥺
Yeah it is poor ben
It’s like Ben slowly falling into pieces 😢
Stellar performances this ep from both actors! I'm so glad Ben is finally opening up to his husband....
This was most sweetest scene, The whole thing was heart breaking.
With what little they give Tony Clay to do, he certainly rocks it.
This two's acting is amazing
So brave going to the police all by himself.🥺
Yeah it definitely was brave to do that 💯
This scene is so heartbreaking 😢
Ik I actually cried 😭❤️
@@laceyturnerfansuk same here
@@sharonpaterson788 awwww :(
This was played so beautifully 🥰
The fact that Callum knew because of the room he was in 😭
But they have a room especially for interviewing SA-victims? Is this a more than daily occurrence that they have a room for just this purpose or do they just have too much space?
@@meikyes739 Sexual assault is horrifyingly common.
@@lexi219 And hospitals usually have rooms specifically for SA too
I bloody love Callum so much 😭
Never knew the word who would bring me to tears
as a sa survivor i know how hard it was for him
I'm SO SO sorry this happen to You
You áre Brave and strong
💓💓
That's exactly how a raped person reacts. They pull back. Btwn fear & shame & they put up walls of what they think they're protecting themselves. It's traumatic & bad enough for a woman but a guy feels more shame cuz they feel they should of stopped the rape. I was raped 4 seperate times (yrs apart but it's still rape) & it's something no one should go thru
I'm sorry that happened to you
@@angelaholmes8888 Ty I appreciate that. God bless u
Aww I really hope they get back together I love Ballum 💙💙🥺.
Not Happening
@@KaleemAkbar786 they did get back together.
Callum finds out that Ben never cheated on him but to be sexually assaulted is just ten times worse
Well, Ben didn't have consensual sex with Lewis. Yeah that was why they broke up and I do see a future where they get back together.
But they did have problems before though, like when Ben willingly kissed Lewis in public.
@@regishel not to excuse him, but he was pretty drunk and he didn't initiate that kiss, Lewis did. Soon as his brain caught up with them Ben put a stop to that kiss immediately and told Lewis that he loved his husband. Looking back, you now realize that Lewis was setting it all up in my opinion.
I’ve been repeating the clips starting this part…🥺🥺🤭🤭
Ben doesn’t even need to say out his name and Callum knows exactly whom!! See!! That’s the tacit understanding between them, I wonder if even jay can do this compared to Callum🤗🤭
It must be hard to report it. Even though it’s just a tv show but huge respect for Ben to do this.
😇😇🥺 my poor babies this is so sad
I glad he told him but the fact he saying still staying no to be back with Callum break my heart Eastender I want more Ben and Callum alright
Yeah me too but ben needs to heal from what happened to him hopefully they will get back together
This was pure pain omfg
No words.... 💔💔💔
05/26/2022---08/18/2022!!!
Literally I’m counting the days ever since that night!! Till today finally the moment we’ve been waiting for!! I got scared even when I saw the clip title!! I was like really!!! What!! This is not a trick right!!! Thank goodness zebra you are the best!! You didn’t trick us!!😅😅😅😅😅🤣🤣🤣
Of I wouldn’t trick you, it’s day we’ve all been longing for and you’re most welcome 😊
@@zebra5702 of course I know you won’t, you are literally the best!!!👏👏😊😊😊, I’m just doubting myself and be like omg is this actually happening or it’s just too good to be true!😆😆😆😆😅😅😅🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, being hurt by these soaps all the time leaves you some trauma definitely😂😂😂😂 and you always doubt yourself are they actually giving you what you want or just another trick to play with you😄😄😄😄, I honestly thought that they would drag this up till Christmas🥶😱😱😱😅😅😅😅😅
“i dont need you in my face” LMFAO 😂😂
Go on lads.. GET IN THERE..
It’s likly someone from the police would of found Callum’s told him what room Ben was in not said why just Ben was there and he was in the room
Please Ben don’t split up with Callum please x
This made me cry 😢
I love this! Tho I find it rather odd that Callum just vaguely barges into the room … but he prob though Ben got assaulted by someone at a sex party.
Tho I did love Ben not wanting him near him. I think Ben learning again to “enjoy” sex could be a really interesting storyline to pursue cause Ben has been such a sexual person.
Also Ben zoning out when Callum walked in. And then Callum’s “who” getting more desperate cause he realizes it was lewis before Ben admits it but he doesn’t want to fully face it
Now I hope they turn Stewart loose on Lewis. That would be a great way to write him out, he beats the shit out of Lewis. Phil uses his contacts to whisks him away from the old Bill.
Calum his reaction
Just ❤️
Callum say he nearly broke me and you up but they not get her as it is and Ben won’t go back there as I feel he kinda believe what Lewis as saying about there relationship
God I just love Ballum! Do you have a link to the whole episode?
There's a channel on RUclips called ballum offical you should check it out
He forgot his husband works at the local police station?
tbf we all did
@@danbonnibell lol
No, he knew but tbf it shouldn't have been so easy for Callum to know Ben was in there. It's kept pretty confidential unless you are the officer on the case. I assumed either Callum caught a glimpse of Ben on the CCTV or someone MAYBE mentioned that Ben was there?
ben shutting down cuz he cant manage the stress , so on point !
The scene is so heartbroken to me on the show!!
Eastenders is better and we not even in September man clenshaw must be busy
Tell him Ben!!!!
Je viens de decouvrir ces vidéos découlant d une série, je suppose, je suis française, donc je ne la connais pas
Je retrouve la situation exacte que ma niéce a subie quand son petit ami l' a violée, :la peur, la honte
Aucune personne ne doit et ne peut pas disposer de l autre, jamais.
Aucune excuse ne peut pas étre donnée ni acceptée
Rien ne peut pas justifier cet acte, RIEN
Callum knows now that Ben never had a consensual encounter with Lewis Butler. I hope that Callum can gain Ben’s forgiveness for being himself when he believed that Ben cheated on him.
Callum say poo
Callum say 💩
Callum said how
I know you're hurting right now Ben. But you really need Callum right now. You tell him what Lewis did he will be on your side and he will support you and help you through it Ben. Like Phil and Jay and Kathy did but Callum he's a cop but despite the fact you guys are not together anymore and you fellas marriage is over but once Callum knows then this will be way for you guys to be reunited with each other again. Callum loves you Ben.
sorry, who did that to ben?
im trying to watch but i cant find...is there a previous video?
Lewis Butler.
@@Guitar-qv6gu Thanks!
Is this the original ben?
Yes
No.
It is the same Ben
It is the same Ben
When is this?!
Episode of 8/18
@@chenzhou7288 Thanks
@@Julie-ok4ht you’re welcome 😇
Cal发现ben是被rape的，而且ben尝试跟callum解释很多次，ben也让别人瞒着callum这些事实之后，callum肯定很自责😢
ben got arrested
this video
?
No.
How did they break up?
Callum thought Ben cheated on him with Lewis, but what really happened is Ben got raped and Callum didn't know until this episode
ben was raped and callum thought ben cheated
Callum thought Ben cheated on him.
I would have asked for another copper.
Wow
Copying story lines again
It's not copying storylines, all soaps have done the same stories as each other but they do it to spread awareness It's not like they can do an alien invasion storyline or a galactic war, they stick to real life issues and male rape is one of those and anyway David Platt got drugged and passed out, Ben was held down whilst he was saying no the whole time so it's different in that sense, so what happened in the two storylines were completely different mabye it'd be copying if they had the story play out EXACTLY like David Platts but no they didn't
The writers were sloppy the way callum found out… n then he had a complete 180, forgetting the inherent problems of his n ben’s relationship 🥴. Swiftly asking Ben for a reunion, like…. Ben needs time to heal…. Unrealistic and out of character 🫠
Learning that his husband was raped comes first and he’ll forget about everything else in order to help him. That’s very realistic except for sociopaths who lack any compassion
@@itsallagame7354 I totally agree 💯
are we supposed to feel sorry for poor ben? he's ruined many peoples lives,
So that means he should be raped? Wow. Seek some therapy friend because if you feel that way about a fictional character I'd hate to think how you deal with people in real life.
Yes, cos he was raped.