Always believe your child when they say they are being abused mentally, emotionally or physically. I’m surprised he didn’t see the warning signs. Gosh with physical abuse, hatred from his dad and the love of his life getting murdered. No wonder he turned out the way he did. Props to every single actor that’s played Ben Mitchell over the years
It's ironic, that after getting abuse from a woman that was Phil's girlfriend, he actually murdered Shirley's friend, who was completely innocent, and just wanted to help him by letting Phil know- would have been better if he had seen a counsellor then, maybe he wouldn't have been so mentally disturbed in his teenage years.
I got ptsd to I got raped and groomed by a 23 year old and manipulated by a girl but I am here for you if you have any problems I got PTSD from it she threatened to say it I tell anyone she will say I raped her I’m here for you ❤
This was Ian’s relative calm before the storm (the car crash, Lucy/Craig, being stalked and kidnapped, Jane getting shot by Steven). He had a lot going on in 2007. A lot.
Phil was just as if not even more abusive towards Ben than Stella ever was. It's ridiculous how the writers turned Phil into a abusive father considering he was a pretty good Dad when Ben first arrived. No wonder Ben is vile towards his Dad and treats him like a piece of dog shit on the bottom of his shoe now lol.
Wtf Phil wasn't an abusive father. YES he did hit him in 2010. YES he did strip him naked on the motorway. The only time Phil was ever verbally abusive was when he was drunk, and that verbal abuse increased when Ben became a teenager. Phil was never letting Ben be himself (e.g. dancing, baking, watching musicals, being gay) and tried to force Ben into being a man (e.g. boxing, football, being straight). I blame Kate Harwood who had the audacity to kill off Kathy back in 2006, I'm guessing they were really desperate to bring Ben back rather than wait a while.
Nah I agree with you dude. But stripping him naked and throwing him in the middle of a city motorway is just as bad if not worse than what Stella did to him. Phil actually got a kick out of indecently humiliating his own child. He clearly wanted to further traumatize Ben and get right under skin. Tbh, the whole thing didn't make any sense anyway; how they somehow ended up on the central reservation without having a car accident is beyond puzzling lol. The writers screwed with Phil's character there.
I can't deny that Ben has been beyond vile to Phil at times over the years. Just look at how horrible he was to Phil when he was gravely ill: throwing him out of his own house and changing the locks when Phil almost died, humiliating him in the pub and trying to physically attack him more than once, constantly yelling verbal abuse and telling Phil to "go die" and trying to murder him by smothering him with a pillow. Phil deserved it though; both father and son show psychopath traits and are equally as abusive to one another.
@@sammyboy13ify The Mitchell's are baby snatchers: When Tiffany tried to take Courtney away from Grant she ended up being struck by a car, when Phil found out that Louise was his daughter he threatened to push Lisa off the cliff, and when Phil found out that Lexi was his granddaughter he tried to do the same to Lola, and let's not forget Ronnie swapping her dead child. For these reasons, Kathy took baby Ben away from Phil and kept Phil from seeing his son, resulting in Ben growing up calling Gavin his dad. Kathy went as far away as South Africa to get away from Phil, taking Ben with her before Phil ever had the chance to snatch Ben from her.
There were hardly any other decent-ish stories running that side of 2007 so things like this, Dawn/Mad May and Stax they had to milk for all they were worth and drag out to infinity.
He only just had the courage to tell Ian, he didn't want to upset Phil or make him mad, because he was scared about what Stella would've done to him. Can't blame him really.
Phil just didn’t want to believe it. He would have seen through Bens lie about it actually being the boys at school if he wasn’t so convinced Ian wasn’t trying to fuck him over
Why doesn't Billy Mitchell fight against Jay in most of those episodes of Jay Brown Still Fouling in Love with Honey Mitchell because Lola doesn't want to marry Jay and then Billy Mitchell will start to break most of the Furniture including Breaking Peoples's Glass and doors with a very Long Sledge Hammer because Jay Brown is still having feelings and he begins to grab Honey Mitchells Hips and then Passonantly Slowly Lizerdly Kisses her for about 27 Miniuts, then Billy Mitchell Starts to break his cousins' house again with a very Long Sledge Hammer when Billy Mitchell starts to go on a rampage, also make the running time for at least 54 minutes Please?
@Jameshobbs123 he could of told the truth to phill. But abuse is very hard to reveal even to your well known ones and loved ones. It’s Stellas fault for abusing him. Not bens fault. He could of.
IF anyone reads this...who REALLY beat that brat? Was it really Stella? OR was it that little girl that walked out of the room,with the guilty face??? I forget her name..Maxs kid.
0:51 man called her Cruella DeVille😂😂🤣
That's funny
At least she didnt a coat out of Ben
@@millietaylor3798 I don't find it funny soz
@@paulgoodwin7751ok? Good for u
@@dominiquepilon5764at least Ian knew the truth about Stella. Its sad that ben couldn't tell Phil his dad
I love how no one believes Stella could hurt a child
Always believe your child when they say they are being abused mentally, emotionally or physically. I’m surprised he didn’t see the warning signs.
Gosh with physical abuse, hatred from his dad and the love of his life getting murdered. No wonder he turned out the way he did. Props to every single actor that’s played Ben Mitchell over the years
Yes I say guilty until proven innocent
@@hannahgoodchild5255 you're the problem.
Chism about what
@@hannahgoodchild5255 With people alive today "I say guilty until proven innocent"
Ugh. Please.
This is why we need a new plague
Chism yes rub his feet
you know someone is evil when they get called Cruella DeVille 😈😂😂
ben at 1:01 when he walks into the room and out is the biggest mood
Beg
True😂
Keep replaying that thinking about how true it is 😂
@@wilkinsonb257 OPEN UP!
he yeeted outta there real quick
Phil often gets one on ian. But when it comes to Ben, that's when Ian comes back
6:53 when you put your hand in ur chips bag and there’s nothing left
7:00 when you going to the shops to get more
Munkasaur LOL XD
That was the most virgin joke I’ve ever heard
Lmao
@@qxv8617 That is the most virgin profile picture I've ever seen
I got nuffink left :(
These days Ben would have Killed Stella, I bet if she didn't kill her self Ben or Phil would have killed her
Bus And Tube Train Lover Or Abi would have locked her in the freezer after somehow getting her into the Vic kitchen!
@@alexanderjones9572 i taught you well girl 😂😂
Stoneryoda 937 you are awesome.
or bobby lol
Stella is a evil cow🐄
Ben’s total look of fear when Stella finds him hiding under the kitchen table.😦
Poor Billy he always gets the shitty end of the stick 😂
4:09 - u can tell she has been abusing by the look on her face. 😨
Same when the mum says that shell talk to him and his face goes white
Best kid actor ever 😂😂😂
Im glad you agree.
It's ironic, that after getting abuse from a woman that was Phil's girlfriend, he actually murdered Shirley's friend, who was completely innocent, and just wanted to help him by letting Phil know- would have been better if he had seen a counsellor then, maybe he wouldn't have been so mentally disturbed in his teenage years.
Ben looks really cute when he was little xxx
True
Oshana Boushara i was convinced for ages that they had the same ben
Oshana Boushara He has a punchball face
Nah he looks butters
Big John Fan Club 😂😂
the fear in the poor boy's face when he heard her voice..
Brilliant storyline - that Stella was evil - no wonder Ben has become the way he has - emotional abuse 💯
1:01 When you enter a party but you spot the hard kids
BRUHmoment9 e
Great upload here thank you so much for sharing this
Abuse is the reason why they all become killers
You find your child hiding under a table and you don't guess that he's hiding something? Phil really screwed up here.
Like Ian acknowledging that Billy used to abuse kids the same way Stella was doing to Ben.
4:07 That had be like prey being found by a carnivorous creature.
Everybody needs a brother like Ian Beale...
I’d have to pass on that if it was an offer.
When Eastenders was good
love you Ronan sweet heart xxxxxxxx ❤❤❤❤❤❤
All I can hear is Munich playing in the back ground at 3:50 😂
6:29 LMAO the way she is mocking people
Thanks for this
Good Acting from a young Kid
Cruella DuVille 😂😂😂😂
Billy's forehead. So smooth!
Nonce
Nonce
Sorry I thought you meant ben
I forgot max used to have a lil hair
I have anxiety and panic attacks and flashbacks PTSD because of my past and I have two panic attacks everyday at school and one at home ones a days
I got ptsd to I got raped and groomed by a 23 year old and manipulated by a girl but I am here for you if you have any problems I got PTSD from it she threatened to say it I tell anyone she will say I raped her I’m here for you ❤
0:30 tell them Ian 👏
One of the only times I agreed with Ian
Well Ben is his brother
Used to love eastenders
I still watch it well i haven't been watching it for that long, a few years possibly more
Tell me why phils face never changes😂
This episode was on on my 19th birthday
Omg looking at all the kids now there so grown up
Poor Ben:(
Love you so much Ronan
The scariest thing you could ever encounter 4:06 😜😨
Unless you fall over the partition in the lion enclosure at the zoo. Or run out of caviar before a dinner party.
You mean 4:09😂
was like the scene in jurassic park when the t rex looks into the car window
WWF : The Music oh shit that’s so true
The fact Ben's brother is the same age as his kids is still crazy.
you mean ian’s brother?
Stella looks, sounds and acts just like my orthodontist 🦷
This is the only time I've ever liked Ian
This was Ian’s relative calm before the storm (the car crash, Lucy/Craig, being stalked and kidnapped, Jane getting shot by Steven). He had a lot going on in 2007. A lot.
Phil was just as if not even more abusive towards Ben than Stella ever was. It's ridiculous how the writers turned Phil into a abusive father considering he was a pretty good Dad when Ben first arrived. No wonder Ben is vile towards his Dad and treats him like a piece of dog shit on the bottom of his shoe now lol.
Wtf Phil wasn't an abusive father. YES he did hit him in 2010. YES he did strip him naked on the motorway. The only time Phil was ever verbally abusive was when he was drunk, and that verbal abuse increased when Ben became a teenager. Phil was never letting Ben be himself (e.g. dancing, baking, watching musicals, being gay) and tried to force Ben into being a man (e.g. boxing, football, being straight). I blame Kate Harwood who had the audacity to kill off Kathy back in 2006, I'm guessing they were really desperate to bring Ben back rather than wait a while.
Nah I agree with you dude. But stripping him naked and throwing him in the middle of a city motorway is just as bad if not worse than what Stella did to him. Phil actually got a kick out of indecently humiliating his own child. He clearly wanted to further traumatize Ben and get right under skin. Tbh, the whole thing didn't make any sense anyway; how they somehow ended up on the central reservation without having a car accident is beyond puzzling lol. The writers screwed with Phil's character there.
I can't deny that Ben has been beyond vile to Phil at times over the years. Just look at how horrible he was to Phil when he was gravely ill: throwing him out of his own house and changing the locks when Phil almost died, humiliating him in the pub and trying to physically attack him more than once, constantly yelling verbal abuse and telling Phil to "go die" and trying to murder him by smothering him with a pillow. Phil deserved it though; both father and son show psychopath traits and are equally as abusive to one another.
@@sammyboy13ify The Mitchell's are baby snatchers: When Tiffany tried to take Courtney away from Grant she ended up being struck by a car, when Phil found out that Louise was his daughter he threatened to push Lisa off the cliff, and when Phil found out that Lexi was his granddaughter he tried to do the same to Lola, and let's not forget Ronnie swapping her dead child.
For these reasons, Kathy took baby Ben away from Phil and kept Phil from seeing his son, resulting in Ben growing up calling Gavin his dad. Kathy went as far away as South Africa to get away from Phil, taking Ben with her before Phil ever had the chance to snatch Ben from her.
The Mitchells tend treat each other like crap anyway and constantly abuse each other in some way or form.
Billy came in at the wrong moment... poor sod
Seriously Stella should have gone into comedy she's hilarious and brilliant
the actress? i think she did actually
@@robynd4546 Yes coming back to this. She's quite funny
I, for the life of me, cannot understand how this wasn't the end of Stella.
They dragged it right out until July!!
There were hardly any other decent-ish stories running that side of 2007 so things like this, Dawn/Mad May and Stax they had to milk for all they were worth and drag out to infinity.
If Ian is bens brother does that mean Phil is Ians dad
No,they have the same mother but different fathers
step dad. ian's mum is kathy who phil had ben with
Cheneil Campbell’s World 😂😂
Simply Cheneil no they have same mother
Yes, Phil is Ian’s Dad.
Omg she literally reminds me of a witch - The way she just seen him like that under the table lol. Creepy as hell.
Looks like george and fred from harry potter
Awww so young wow
Why didn't Ben just tell Phil?
Char Aznable because Stella threatened him
Char Aznable you can’t always just tell someone that you’ve been abused
He only just had the courage to tell Ian, he didn't want to upset Phil or make him mad, because he was scared about what Stella would've done to him. Can't blame him really.
1:25 is so sad
1:12 is that Lauren?
yea. she used to be portrayed by someone else
@@oreomonogatari ik she used to be played by Madeline Duggan from 2006-2010 before she was replaced by Jacqueline Jossa from 2010-2018
If Ian had been putting words in Ben's mouth, he would have said that Phil did that. I don't get why that wasn't clear to Phil.
Hiya Ron can we go to see Jess and family love Clare 😍 xxxxx
I feel sorry for you Ben
You are the best
And strong. And kind and cute
Uhhh he's not real
Um it’s a tv show......and he’s not a real person..........and this isn’t his RUclips channel.....and me never saw ur comment
Could you do one on MAD MAY!! like a compilation! 👏🏼
Phil is so funny and mick
Ellen Liston Mick wasen’t in it that year...
Phil just didn’t want to believe it. He would have seen through Bens lie about it actually being the boys at school if he wasn’t so convinced Ian wasn’t trying to fuck him over
Go ian
I have a big brother like Ian
0:53 - FFS, why did the music have to stop? How awkward for everyone!
He’s the same age as me
I neeeed to know what that background song is at 2:00
Stella WAS A right BUGGER to Ben.
Stella did to it Ian just to ask Phil where Ben being abused by evil stella
Reminds me of a pig that took a shit then ate it then shut it out again then lies in it
Why has billy not aged
He's a Mitchell, Mitchell's don't age fast, probably takes them 20 years to age from 40-45.
Just bloated out a little
7.20 she was gonna get him.
i hate stella poor ben
Why doesn't Billy Mitchell fight against Jay in most of those episodes of Jay Brown Still Fouling in Love with Honey Mitchell because Lola doesn't want to marry Jay and then Billy Mitchell will start to break most of the Furniture including Breaking Peoples's Glass and doors with a very Long Sledge Hammer because Jay Brown is still having feelings and he begins to grab Honey Mitchells Hips and then Passonantly Slowly Lizerdly Kisses her for about 27 Miniuts, then Billy Mitchell Starts to break his cousins' house again with a very Long Sledge Hammer when Billy Mitchell starts to go on a rampage, also make the running time for at least 54 minutes Please?
Pour ben :(
Ohh if Kathey didn't fake her death and witness this. The things she's do to Stella.
Nice
Where was Peggy when all this was going on?
Bulgaria
She was only a landlady. Of course she’d be busy serving up punts and tequila shots.
The bog
Ian was a great man nowadays he’s scum 😢😢😢😢
So who hit him
Ben or Phil must of killed Stella
Sweetdior Phipps she killer herself x
She jumped off of a roof 😂😊
why? ha, yes you better have a good explanation or else i'm not listening!
1:01
Nicole Barrett
😢😢
Ian is a g❤
3:46
You lot need to calm down
fetus deletus
Stella has psycho written all over her
i was abusing my neighbor :D
damge
4:40
Eastenders ben tells Ian that stella has been abused him ilke me too send too maxo miller instagram video
Hehe
The start of Ben being gay was wearing abbys top
It was Lauren's top. He poured juice all over his shirt, and Tanya gave him Lauren's top, as it looked like a boy's top.
Being gay is simply being light and happy, rather. * I am COOLY Heterosexual and gay. I am rightly Anti lbtq. !
I guarantee if someone like Stella did this to someone child she would be dead
No.
I understand that Stella is a nutcase and has somthing wrong with her but it is bens fault for not telling anybody
Wtf none of this is Ben's fault, he's the victim here so stop with the victim-blaming.
I understand what you mean but he could have had a bit more balls in this clip to say to phill that it was her
@@bezestio4169 Rape victims sometimes never speak but it's not their fault either, just like Stella's abuse isn't Ben's fault.
Again I get where your coming from but I’m just saying Ben could have spoken out then but he didn’t
@Jameshobbs123 he could of told the truth to phill. But abuse is very hard to reveal even to your well known ones and loved ones. It’s Stellas fault for abusing him. Not bens fault. He could of.
:-)
Hello ben im your great great great. G g g g g g g g g gramar
IF anyone reads this...who REALLY beat that brat? Was it really Stella? OR was it that little girl that walked out of the room,with the guilty face??? I forget her name..Maxs kid.
Do you mean Abi?
yeah@@_z0mbiesatemyhomework
@@mrpoohbearlvr no of course it wasn't Abi looool it really was Stella
huh???? @@mimi9192
@@mrpoohbearlvr Stella abused Ben! what's so hard to understand?
Stella has beaten him he’s just scared to tell Phil