Who is Amy Allebest and What is Breaking Down Patriarchy?

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  • Опубликовано: 18 янв 2025

Комментарии • 62

  • @ReeseHarper
    @ReeseHarper 10 месяцев назад +12

    So stoked for the work you are doing Amy!

  • @supercrawfordcrawford5865
    @supercrawfordcrawford5865 10 месяцев назад +10

    I love your face, Amy! But really, you're so thoughtful, intelligently curious, and above all, caring. Erik took his role seriously and did a great job. Note, I think steak is a good Family Feud answer, but I think Bratwurst would rank #1 patriarchal food 😂

  • @sarahcourtney8066
    @sarahcourtney8066 Месяц назад +11

    I’m a 77 year old Australian woman. I started to cry for no reason when I watched one of your videos. Then I subscribed and watched your interview which was heartwarming!
    I just wish there was a list to watch your videos in order. Do you think it’s necessary (or possible 😁)?

  • @ValerieReese0613
    @ValerieReese0613 10 месяцев назад +6

    So excited for this new project within your project! I have listened to every episode of the Breaking Down Patriarchy podcast, and am working my way through them again, this time reading all of the books and materials with each episode. I have recommended the podcast to so many people. Thank you a million times over for the great work you do!

  • @janeagreene2849
    @janeagreene2849 10 месяцев назад +4

    Loved this fun intro video! Loved all the questions, especially clarifying that you are in fact NOT anti-man, and that the alarming rates of death and mental health are very concerning and linked to patriarchy! ❤❤❤

  • @AnnaRudolfChess
    @AnnaRudolfChess 10 месяцев назад +2

    This was such a great introduction about you and your channel, Amy! Can't wait to see the videos and all the valuable information and knowledge you're going to share with us now via video form as well -- with a mission and goal as important and pure as yours the sky is the limit! ❤️
    PS: Erik, you'd make a great reporter, I can vouch for you at this chess site I'm really fond of if you're interested 😎

  • @holyman5802
    @holyman5802 9 месяцев назад +4

    Bring it. The world is primed and ready.

  • @MariaSCarr
    @MariaSCarr 21 день назад

    I love that YT recommended your videos to me. This is the third I have watched this evening, and I completely feel akin to you and your views (at least from what I have seen so far). I am looking towards watching and learning a whole lot more from you! Thank you for taking this on Amy!

  • @karenjessop1666
    @karenjessop1666 28 дней назад

    So glad I found this channel. I'm fascinated. Thank you so much!

  • @artapothecary53
    @artapothecary53 13 дней назад

    I have spent much of my free time diving into ancient history with similar questions about patriarchy and feminism on my mind. I read Beard, Wilkerson, Weil, Power Privilege and Difference, learned about how Christianity evolved from the early church and considered the influences of Greek, Roman, Egyptian and Canaanite societies, and on and on. The more I learned the more I realized how much more there was to learn. I discovered things that challenged the original foundations of my faith and loved making connections between seemingly disparate topics. I felt so strongly about what I was learning that I considered returning to school for theology, but that really is not realistic for me. Finding your work has been enlightening. Many half baked thoughts in my mind are now beautiful loaves of bread with the right ingredients. Your work has strengthened me on my own path and my ability to communicate my perspectives more readily with those around me. I can focus more on what I do have to contribute which is art. Much support and gratitude, so be it

  • @doloresmiller6646
    @doloresmiller6646 10 месяцев назад +3

    Yes!

  • @kimcrump7176
    @kimcrump7176 10 месяцев назад +1

    This is going to be great. I’m so looking forward to your episodes. This one was entertaining and I’m glad to get to know you better :)

  • @littlemissabyss
    @littlemissabyss Месяц назад +1

    Way to go Amy! You are doing a fabulous job!

  • @blaisedupuy3531
    @blaisedupuy3531 Месяц назад

    Thank you!, this is brilliant!

  • @justbelit
    @justbelit 23 дня назад

    Found this channel yesterday and so glad i did. I understand now why it wasnt titled unpacking patriarchy although its alot to unpack. Hoping you'll get to the episode of how patriarchy affects singles and the decrease in marriages and/or birthrates soon

  • @kathebridges4736
    @kathebridges4736 Месяц назад

    Delightful… both of you.

  • @therealdeal3672
    @therealdeal3672 27 дней назад +1

    I've been enjoying your videos so much! Nice to see you in this context and to get to know you in a different way along with your husband. You're great at making these videos! I've learned a lot from you and it's a very important topic! I hope that you get to 5 million subscribers! 💞

  • @strwbryblondi07
    @strwbryblondi07 Месяц назад +2

    I think it's very important and a major credit that you have friends and loved ones on "both sides" politically. I do too, but seems few do and most people become so tribal, acting like the other side are complete morons, or worse, evil, without understanding reasons they may have for their leanings. I hope this channel reaches many! Your intellectual and compassionate approach is a welcome breath of fresh air.

  • @goldenfluidart
    @goldenfluidart Месяц назад

    Yes yes yes!!!!

  • @truthlovenow
    @truthlovenow 28 дней назад +1

    🙏🏼 thank you 🙏🏼 After watching this interview I love your views (on everything) and the concept and purpose of this channel and these VERY WELL RESEARCHED video offerings EVEN MORE 😊

  • @jacqibelle
    @jacqibelle 2 месяца назад +1

    Enjoying the videos on your channel. Just came across your channel today. Very educational. I can tell you care. Me too :)

  • @CaroleHansen-f2e
    @CaroleHansen-f2e 10 месяцев назад +1

    So excited for this!!! 🎉❤

  • @rtmusicvideos431
    @rtmusicvideos431 Месяц назад +1

    You guys are such a cute couple! I love how supportive and understanding of feminism your husband is! 👏🏼

  • @andraingebretsen8009
    @andraingebretsen8009 9 месяцев назад

    Love this so much you guys!!! Congratulations and a big thank you for your incredible contributions!!!!

  • @kathebridges4736
    @kathebridges4736 Месяц назад

    Delightful… both of you. As someone who Is Religious and liberal… I am enjoying your work.

  • @ACE-ef1xz
    @ACE-ef1xz 10 месяцев назад +1

    Haha, I love the dynamic here!

  • @crystalagena1348
    @crystalagena1348 9 месяцев назад

    This is so exciting!! 🎉 This was such a fun interview with your husband too! ❤

  • @mooa_anatta_
    @mooa_anatta_ 10 месяцев назад +1

    So lovely :)

  • @danielrensch
    @danielrensch 9 месяцев назад

    Loved this.

  • @oreocarlton3343
    @oreocarlton3343 4 месяца назад +2

    3:49 If you dismantle patriarchy (and its an oppressive system, every system is oppressive towards certain groups that dont share its values), what will you replace it with and what guarantees do you have that it will be superior to the previous system?

    • @andreiadetavora8471
      @andreiadetavora8471 4 месяца назад

      Evolution mate... evolution.

    • @oreocarlton3343
      @oreocarlton3343 4 месяца назад

      @@andreiadetavora8471 what about evolution?

    • @trithos7308
      @trithos7308 3 месяца назад

      @@oreocarlton3343 an eligantarian system. You hate that of course because it makes oppressing women harder and you don't want them to not be oppressed

    • @oreocarlton3343
      @oreocarlton3343 3 месяца назад

      @@trithos7308 egalitarian system = tall poppy system
      All equality is based on injustice.

  • @littlebitoflys
    @littlebitoflys 9 месяцев назад

    Erik is out here asking what the people (people named Erik) need to KNOW hahaha.
    I think these videos will greatly expand your reach and I'm parasocial-relationship-proud of you for jumping into the RUclips ring, Amy! This education is so so important and I'm grateful you are offering it. Thank you thank you thank you thank you

  • @FishareFriendsNotFood972
    @FishareFriendsNotFood972 9 месяцев назад

    Very excited!

  • @1ReikiFloW
    @1ReikiFloW 15 дней назад +1

    i won a whole volleyball set on my own just using my serve. COED teams, the males were fairly mad a little 5'3" woman destroyed their pride so easily. It's pretty clear size doesn't matter in all sports so it depends on the sport~

  • @anahidkassabian4471
    @anahidkassabian4471 5 месяцев назад

    I'm so psyched to watch your videos! One comment, though: the problem with democracy is that in majority rule, there is no reason for the minority to continue to participate, since they've lost before they start. I don't have an answer, and I'm definitely no advocate of consensus-based systems (at least not if you want to accomplish anything), but there's a problem there that *needs* thinking through.

  • @blueberrymuffin_
    @blueberrymuffin_ 20 дней назад

    I have a lot of those books (behind them)😂

  • @missymack2003
    @missymack2003 10 месяцев назад +3

    Love this intro. And my spouse is also a back seat driver with me. Not a fan of that dynamic.

    • @vklnew9824
      @vklnew9824 8 месяцев назад

      Poorly aged white ♀️

  • @danielsykes7558
    @danielsykes7558 2 месяца назад +1

    8:10 I would say, best case scenario the wedding ritual itself, dad handing off daughter

  • @websurfer5772
    @websurfer5772 10 месяцев назад +1

    I played co-ed soccer as an adult and it was great until we made it to the finals. I'm female and a woman from the opposing team said, "Get the little girl!" Well, she meant me, and a guy from their team kicked the soccer ball as hard as he could into my stomach. I went to the side and walked off the pain and got back in the game but I never played again after that. I'd just lost my zeal for it, among other unrelated reasons.
    I believe the patriarchy exists because men are stronger than most women on the whole, and they can beat us up anytime they want to when push comes to shove.
    Good news - chocolate is a vegetable. 😋🍫

  • @sumnerbrent
    @sumnerbrent 9 месяцев назад +1

    Amy, do you think you will be replying to these messages?
    I'm wondering, as a father, when and how to introduce these topics to my teenage daughters. They spend half their time in a patriarchal culture. I'd like them to understand the water they are swimming in, but I also want to keep from overwhelming them.

    • @laura1000
      @laura1000 9 месяцев назад

      Where do they spend the other half?

    • @laura1000
      @laura1000 9 месяцев назад

      @sumnerbrent Where do they spend the other half?

    • @vklnew9824
      @vklnew9824 8 месяцев назад +1

      You are whipped

    • @sumnerbrent
      @sumnerbrent 8 месяцев назад

      @@laura1000I’ll just say that half the time they live with me.

  • @coll4455
    @coll4455 9 месяцев назад +1

    If we are playing a sport play the sport. That goes for both sides

  • @anainesgonzalez8868
    @anainesgonzalez8868 5 дней назад

    I learned to drive very recently and I know it is not realistic but I would love to just ride with women. I feel so nervous when my brother or my partner are backseat driving. I can not stand it

  • @Kurooganeko
    @Kurooganeko 10 месяцев назад +3

    Are getting videos about how the patriarchy led to the objectification of women's bodies and domestic abuse?

  • @1amnutz
    @1amnutz Месяц назад

    This is off topic, but I want to know what’s on your bookshelves.

  • @victoriajankowski1197
    @victoriajankowski1197 9 месяцев назад +1

    I've watched all your vids and enjoyed them, so no intended shade, but there is a question that keeps occurring to me. Your channel is very young, has no add sense, no patreon etc but the production value is quite high, not asking about your personal day to day, but how's the channel getting paid for? Grant, cooperate backing, you just happen to be independently wealthy? Where funding comes from matters in as much as it can color the messaging, so I would like to know. Also if you two Are funding this whole thing privately I think you should get a Patreon or Ko-Fi and memberships when the become available to you this is real labor, you deserve to be paid for it (maybe a bit of inherent patriarchy is thinking caring and teaching don't count as real labor ;) )

  • @danielsykes7558
    @danielsykes7558 2 месяца назад

    0:33 I'm so baffled by committed couples. I hope it's a real thing
    Idk if it's relevant, but I'm gay & in grad school, so dating doesn't seem to work well
    I think I'm a decent person & am modestly attractive
    I guess we'll have to see

  • @bill-e2p
    @bill-e2p 5 месяцев назад

    Some interesting information/commentary here, have you watched anything by Karen Straughan or Dr. Janice Fiamengo? Might be worth your time ;-D

  • @danielsykes7558
    @danielsykes7558 2 месяца назад

    7:18 I'm gonna say Mediterranean food, but I'm joking & it's my favorite
    Otherwise, maybe it's like placenta. Or alcohol