A Very Honest Update... | Mental Health at Oxford University
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- Опубликовано: 1 окт 2024
- A few ways I am helping myself:
1) Doing Bollywood dance/ Bhangra twice a week (following a passion)
2) Cooking more (it forces me to eat!)
3) Being honest with the people I care about the most about what's going on and what they can do/ stop doing to help and REACHING OUT
4) Using my university counselling service. Check this out too:(www.oxfordheal...)
5) Going to the gym in the evening so I sleep better at night
Big love x
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And side note: Oxford is by no means the definition of success or intelligence - in fact being here has helped me learn that sometimes it feels like the opposite - feel empowered in whatever you do and achieve because it is VALID.
Thank you. I really do appreciate you. Keep smiling :)
This spoke to me on another level... I got rejected from Oxford (got into St Andrews though...) this year and then I felt horrible ... the exact same way that you did... could not wake up, stayed in bed ... I was definitely feeling like shit. Ate shit, did absolutely nothing. Didn’t study for my mocks in Jan and I’m so behind on work. But I trusted the process. Last night was horrific and I felt like giving up. And then this morning I woke up feeling like I had some control of my life. I went for a walk and actually did some work. Things get better. Thank you so much for being real. This spoke to me in ways nothing else really did . God Bless and hope you smash ur mocks ❤️❤️
Defo keeping you in my prayers, you got this, keep going, you’ll defo get through this and smash uni next term and onward 🙌🏾.
Thank you so much for your comment Nishita, the crazy thing is, we all go through this together and yet feel so alone, power to you and God bless, your kind words have done wonders for me, it makes me feel like these videos are worthy of sharing! Big big love 🥰
Hi I need your opinion I know that you can’t 100% say anything to my question but I was going to say my mental health got worse when I was doing my GCSES and I was predicted high grades but I did not get the grades and I could not do my 3 Alevels at college and got put onto BTEC level 1 I passed that and my resits then I did level 2 business and got D/M now I am doing Musical Theatre Psychology and Music performance I am so behind my course work and work in general I have felt so depressed and sad I am so behind my deadline for my work is tomorrow but I haven’t even started it but I was going to say if I get my grades I need I always had a dream to study at oxford and music is my passion and they said they do accept BTECS for the course I am interested in however I do really want to go to oxford and apply next year but this year has been so painful for me how am I supposed to get my life back I feel like I can’t go to Oxford now because I am so behind in my work and feel so depressed so you have any advice for me thanks
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Thank you so much for this video. I feel this so hard. I'm also at Oxford in 2nd year two and have just had a wrecker of a term - it just becomes so much worse in high pressure environments because it feels like everyone is moving at 1000 miles an hour and it's embarrassing coming out your room at 4pm in your pyjamas when your flatmates have been to the gym, written 2 essays and have their lives together. Prioritising the things that made you sane is such a good idea and I hope next term and the rest of your time at uni is a bit easier - you're right. Pain is only transitory.
Gigi Williams Thank you so much for sharing this Gigi. This is exactly it, that feeling of unworthiness when it seems like everyone else is just able to get on with the intensity of Oxford. Big power and strength to you x
Big up yourself for your honesty, mental health defo ain’t a joke, you’ve got this, your gonna look back at the end of 2nd year and be like I went through all that and came out on top 🙌🏾🙌🏾.
Shrey Chandran Thank you so much for this kind message Shrey, big big love 💪🏽
My friend don’t commm kill yoselfff for these collections. This was my ethos throughout Michaelmas and will be my ethos throughout Hilary
these mock exams are a way to figure out how oxford exams work, otherwise it’s soooo irrelevant looooool
i hope you're better now :)
This is adorable! I am :)
Sis I love this video! Thankyou so much for sharing this side of yourself and your story with it. It’s so reassuring to know that someone else went through a similar thing especially this term. Neetu honestly you’re so strong and inspiring! Keep going and growing and glowing girl! Love it ❤️❤️❤️
Simply Fran Thank you so much!!! I cannot wait to see you grow and excel, drop me a message pls if big Oxford tries bully you 🤨❤️❤️
Felt this soooo deeply! Proud of you and you got this 💪🏾💪🏾
Isabella Thank you sooo much!! Proud of you 💪🏽
Really appreciate and respect you for posting this. Need a lot more people to open up about these kind of topics. Big up
Wasim Chowdhury big love Was :))
Love this video your honesty and ability to be so open is commendable. We all struggle but speaking about it is something that is hard to do often. Hope it all gets better until then keep striving 💕
fizpopbangwallop Thank you so much! 🥰💪🏽
Thank you so much for sharing this
Singing Sonnet you are a whole queen Memoona, I cannot believe the amount of Oxbridge brown queens going through this, thank you for sharing this xxx
Big-up yourself Neetu! 💪
Hassan Raja Big love my g
I'm an English Literature student as well. I totally understand what u're talking about. Sometimes it just doesn't work the way it should.
Hi, thank you so much for your comment! Completely the case, best of luck!
True Londoner accent.
Haha always!