Totally agreed sir..♥️ Focus on yourself & career ,because now I realised No one will help you when you are left with problems. so plan how to face the crucial situations alone. God doesn't give a problem which you cant solve.
Loved this point "ladko ko daant sakta hun sab mere chote bhai ki tarah hai", yes sir sab aapki chote bhai ki tarah hai.. Your daant have changed many life. Thank you sir ❤️
NO offence but sometimes the person is nice but he becomes too clingy at time and we don't want to hurt that person so girls often ignore their texts to secretively let them know that we're not interested in them. However, some girls like to play hard to get, that might be the reason I personally feel I'm more attracted towards guys who are hardworking and ambitious and dedicated towards their goals, so i guess being clingy won't get you girls but your personality being hardworking or ambitious will get you both success and someone to share your success with. So don't chase girls, chase your dreams and not only girls but everyone will be attracted towards you. PS : just my thoughts, don't get offended because this might not be true for everyone :)
If someone follows all what you say , that person will be limitless. All these things seem to be very small but I think these are the biggest obstacles which Stop someone from excelling in life. Thank you sir for guiding us of all such problems which others think to be silly . This channel deserves to be subscribed by entire youth ! ❤️🔥
Some girls do this because they want attention. They give importance at first because they were lonely and wanted to pass time, but then when they got the attention and importance, the guy don't matter to them. Whether you're a friend or anyone in their life, it was all a lie. They will find someother person. Try not to get attach to a person until a certain amount of time or certain level. And when you reach that level, treat her good, but make sure you receive the respect and love
Today I felt same thing it's to painful when you give to much importance someone in your life and they ignore you but thanks sir your videos are eye opener when ever I feel stuck in my life your videos are always there for me thankyou so much 🙏🙏
Amazing sir 👏 I am girl & I love you watch your lectures, Sir this same situation with me I have a crush on boy I decide to tell my feeling to him without any filter whatever I feel I texthim on Instagram but he seen and didn't reply and my mind stuck to him . Sir I text him in Oct 2021 now 2022 I try a lot to forgot him but day by day my heart told me aesa kya likh diya ya itni buri hu kya ki ek reply bhi nhi diya In jam 29 2022 I again text him he again didn't reply This hurts me a lot but today I feel jaise bde bhaiya ne samjhaya ho thank u thank u so much sir
Reason is girls gets many messages, so they just miss or ignore. Girls talks to every way in nice manner, and boys things they talk only to him in that way😃 GIRLS DO YOU AGREE?
@@harapriyamohanta5557 naah I think most of the girls are like this only. There's nothing bad about it in fact it's quite good if you talk to everyone in a nice way but hum launde launde hi rahenge we think we are the special one and end up getting hurt in the process
Big fan Chetan sir it's a humbly request.Please make a video on how to deal with unruly teenagers.They don't have any sense of respect and basic etiquettes.
oh Chetan - you are so funny :) Personally I wouldn't Ghost as long as the guy is not creepy. And if the guy is nice to me , then I would give the reason to him before fading away. Having said that, Guys Ghost girls as well. Ultimately its all about how much respect do you have in another person's eyes. I 'd say Raise your standards by Ghosting them back!
Sir competitive exam pr ek video baniye I'm consistent and self motivated because of you ..❤️ still working 9 to 10hr /day but want some more stuff from you!😊
Best video ever I have scene on YT 💯.. hats off 2 u sir🙏 much needed and really eye opening.. Conclusion- girl is not interested(she is not the one) Action- Build your worth, work on yourself... have a purposeful life... Your self-respect first... Become deserving rather than desiring #aukat
this may sound weird but in majority of the cases its like , if someone likes girl gives them the BHAV they wont like them , they run behind someone who isnt giving them the BHAV lmao u get it right
Yes sir as i am girl it happens with me but after 2days i realise it's a stupid things 😄....just focus on our career that makes the sense ...do not chase anybody in our life if anyone who actually deserve they comes to in our life
Sir you're very good at understanding such big problems of life, of which nobody talks. Your content is highly relatable to every teenager or adult. It felt like you're our big brother and guiding us.
there is only one reason for no reply : NOT INTERESTED..... END OF STORY . . FACT : THE PHONE IS IN YOUR HANDS 24 HOURS IF THEY WANT THEY CAN REPLY BUT THEY CHOSE NOT TO REPLY. BITTER TRUTH : THIS IS THE ONLY REASON.
Sir i just watched only first 4min of your this video......one thing I only say......You are the game changer for our generation sir....thnqqq so much sir.... ❤️...much love. ❤️ for every boys....Khud ko thappad maar lo....but ye harkat kabhi na Krna..... because God have planned much better for you... 🙏girls ka respect jarur karo....but apni ijjat k sath....kyu ki life mai sab chala jyga....lekin tm aur tmhara self respect akhri saas tk rahega..... 👍
This is very relevant 👏 I have faced issues in life. There is no ..absolutely no support / material for boys / men in our society. Even if guy is always nice hardworking and good. There is always male bashing whatever happens...and then .. People misuse these good people. Happy to see at least some insightful content...for guys...and its actually for both male and female.😀👍
Chetan Sir Many Youth's Are Influenced By 90s films - Ashiqui , Saajan , Mithun Chakraborty Films . Ye Log Pyar me pagal ho jate hai , Doob ke pyar karte hai. Dil Toota hai fir bhi pyar karte hai. 😀
Most of the time reality is that ki larki ko larka me interest nehi hota hai..... Isliye raasta alag kar leti hai Remember boys jab larki ko aap me interest hota hai.......larki khud msg karti hai... otherwise not.... Bhau bhi nehi degi
Being a girl and being in similar situation, it's really irritating guys when you message and we just don't want any communication. We simply ignore because we don't wanna be rude. Believe me if she ignores you just let her go. Because if she is interested she will atleast reply.
One girl of my online classes always riply me but topic is only related to study , but she never text first , just riply of my message. 2 times I told her you looks very gorgeous in DP and she riply thank you so much with smiling emoji. But I have huge regret that why I am doing all this because i know there is nothing between us and nothing will happen , i doubt am i really going cheap by message her everytime? what she thinks about me that am i interested in her ? Problem is that if i have that love at first sight and one sided love problem , whenever I see a extremely beautiful girl , i Got out of control and began to think of her everytime, on this matter i have no control over my emotions despite knowing that nothing will gonna happen.
Bilkul mere sath bhi esa hua hai...ak ladka jo pehle mujhmei interested tha mujhe lagi thi and now I told him i like him and he said sorry, don't take it otherwise. But for the first time I felt something strong connection with a guy.
Right sir I improve myself regularly and focus on my CDs exam....Tq Sir your word make me a different man than previous one day by day....tq sir...keep motivate
bikul shi me mila 1 bar physically or kiss wagera bhi kia first time really me bhot care bhi krta hu me usko bolta bhi i care u so much har din or abhi kuch time se massage me hi bhjta hu wo only seen krti h or emog bhej deti hai no chat or really me thoda stress feel kia but i am devote of #mahadev or #krishan i chanting hare karishna and i look shiva krishna in everyhing or every person so thats why ita frk nhi pdta but ya ye hota me ye hi bolunga apni self respect ke sath relation ship me jao and aware rkho khud ko ki me flow me na chla jau chil kro yr spritual.. smjho sb kuch and ye sb tempori.hai mst rho khud se pyar kro self respect ko upr rkho and good video sir ap mst ho 1 #exercise kro 2 #meditation kro 3 #chetan bhakt sir dost bnao nhi h to 4 #bhakti kro mst rhoge meri trh hahah hare krishna hare krishna, krishna krishna ,hare hare ,hare ram hare ram , ram ram, hare hare
I'm 27 years old and I know how toxic this can be. Young guys be careful, don't screw your life for a girl
You are still young 27 is a young age not that old
@@rahulkumar-we2jt mujhe 26 me hi yeh baat samajh aa gyi 😅
ab bol 😕
Totally agreed sir..♥️
Focus on yourself & career ,because now I realised No one will help you when you are left with problems. so plan how to face the crucial situations alone. God doesn't give a problem which you cant solve.
Ho sakta h wo v apna career bna rhi ho.
Loved this point "ladko ko daant sakta hun sab mere chote bhai ki tarah hai", yes sir sab aapki chote bhai ki tarah hai.. Your daant have changed many life. Thank you sir ❤️
5:18 The most important line of this video which is the solution "Tum Disaheeen ho, you are purposeless" 🙏🥺
Thank you for highlighting that bro🙏🙏
Sir you have no idea, apki videos kitni zada help karri hai.. Thank you so much thank you🙏
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Bus train aur ladki - ek jati hai doosri ati hai.
NO offence but sometimes the person is nice but he becomes too clingy at time and we don't want to hurt that person so girls often ignore their texts to secretively let them know that we're not interested in them. However, some girls like to play hard to get, that might be the reason
I personally feel I'm more attracted towards guys who are hardworking and ambitious and dedicated towards their goals, so i guess being clingy won't get you girls but your personality being hardworking or ambitious will get you both success and someone to share your success with. So don't chase girls, chase your dreams and not only girls but everyone will be attracted towards you.
PS : just my thoughts, don't get offended because this might not be true for everyone :)
Exactly true words u said it's a hard core truth and I have experienced
@@chetanjoshi2058 Thanks!✨
I agree. Bitter but true.
Right, thnx for giving this perspective.
@@supersuper3493 you're welcome.✨
I wish we had this videos 10 years back. It would have saved me from making a lot of mistakes.
If someone follows all what you say , that person will be limitless.
All these things seem to be very small but I think these are the biggest obstacles which Stop someone from excelling in life.
Thank you sir for guiding us of all such problems which others think to be silly .
This channel deserves to be subscribed by entire youth ! ❤️🔥
Sahi samjhane k liye or sahi rashta dikhane k liye bahut bahut dhanyabad sir
I think every one can relate to this at some point of their life 😂. Another amazing lecture from Sir.
True 🤣🤦🏻
Exactly I was going through the same before a month.
True😂
Me too right now
Not everyone
Some girls do this because they want attention. They give importance at first because they were lonely and wanted to pass time, but then when they got the attention and importance, the guy don't matter to them. Whether you're a friend or anyone in their life, it was all a lie. They will find someother person. Try not to get attach to a person until a certain amount of time or certain level. And when you reach that level, treat her good, but make sure you receive the respect and love
Love u sir... U r my favorite super hero...... ❤❤
I never seen on RUclips these types guys who say by only heart.... salute sir....
Today I felt same thing it's to painful when you give to much importance someone in your life and they ignore you but thanks sir your videos are eye opener when ever I feel stuck in my life your videos are always there for me thankyou so much 🙏🙏
Put yourself on yours first priority.......then to others 🙃
Kabiliyat ke piche jao, what a message sir!! 👍👍
Love love ❤ for u!
Amazing sir 👏
I am girl & I love you watch your lectures,
Sir this same situation with me I have a crush on boy I decide to tell my feeling to him without any filter whatever I feel I texthim on Instagram but he seen and didn't reply and my mind stuck to him .
Sir I text him in Oct 2021 now 2022 I try a lot to forgot him but day by day my heart told me aesa kya likh diya ya itni buri hu kya ki ek reply bhi nhi diya
In jam 29 2022 I again text him he again didn't reply
This hurts me a lot but today I feel jaise bde bhaiya ne samjhaya ho thank u thank u so much sir
Expectations always hurt.
Don't think that your are bad
Se sabse. Bada sabak h zindagi ka kai log hote hi bosdike h 😢🤣
Keep your self in busy in other works and Stop watching his insta account, active status..
Focus on your self and your goals.
Aukad bana ......nahi to arrange marriage kar lo
@@japshankar4051 Tu phele aukat ki spelling likhna to seekh le 😂😂... Har dusri ladki ke comment box me same reply kar raha hai.
Excellence...hat's of your real thought & motivation..changes happing 🙏🙏🌺
Videos like this are proof that How Chetan Bhagat sir is so relevant, and touching to youth of India..you are my role model sir..🙏
Awesome Chetan ! Although I am a single child, I wish I had an elder brother like you. Thanks to Internet !!!
मुझे भी ऐसा लगता था कि उसके जैसा दुनिया में कोई नहीं है, लेकिन कई सारे हैं।
My real motivator, love you sir from kerala😍
Be the change that you wish to see in the world...~ Mahatma Gandhi
🎉🙏 Sir❣️
Sir.. Your words directly connected to the people... Love you sir ji
☹Bhaiya ek overthinking pr bhi video bana dijiye.
Whatever you have said sir it had happened with me too 🤦🏻🤣... Thanks for guiding sir ❤️
It is the way to tell girl is not interested in you that much. She doesn't want to directly tell the guy , because guy is nice person.
Precisely articulated sirji, this is exactly 💯 what a guy goes through when she doesn't reply.
Why we care.... that's the point 👏
Oh now i know 😱btw tq sistor
Purpose yeah bahut kamaal ki cheez hai agar ek baar dill se AAA gayi na duniya badal jati hai.
Kese
Motivational to ni daat zrur h 💕
Chetan Bhagat won't start the actual video until he explains the video is for female audiences too. Everytime😄
This video is so relatable😂😂😂lol..Love you Chetan Sir❤️
Reason is girls gets many messages, so they just miss or ignore.
Girls talks to every way in nice manner, and boys things they talk only to him in that way😃
GIRLS DO YOU AGREE?
Haan ye bhi ho sakta hai 😂
Damn it hurts but it's just so fucking true
@@anmol2757 yah but not every girls do that .some of are
But the guy they like....they will definitely reply....they have their priorities set ....
@@harapriyamohanta5557 naah I think most of the girls are like this only. There's nothing bad about it in fact it's quite good if you talk to everyone in a nice way but hum launde launde hi rahenge we think we are the special one and end up getting hurt in the process
Sir Sir, your topic touches directly on the heart. This scan has just come in my life too. now with a purpose I started my life😇😇
U r the savior
Spreading the true shit 🙏
Not like other fake 2 min motivators
Never been in a relationship but this so good advice. Shall keep in mind
Big fan Chetan sir it's a humbly request.Please make a video on how to deal with unruly teenagers.They don't have any sense of respect and basic etiquettes.
Great to see you Frank, from house of cards
Indian male ne jo ego boost kr ke rakha hai ladkiyon ka uske liye👏🏻👏🏻
Sir आपके पैर कहा है? आपको चरण स्पर्श करना है 🙏🏻🙏🏻😭😭
Because it's her choice
-Neha mam
oh Chetan - you are so funny :)
Personally I wouldn't Ghost as long as the guy is not creepy. And if the guy is nice to me , then I would give the reason to him before fading away. Having said that, Guys Ghost girls as well. Ultimately its all about how much respect do you have in another person's eyes.
I 'd say Raise your standards by Ghosting them back!
He's like my True friend who make me understand something special with abusing But i really bless i got u at utube
Sir you big brother of millions of young people thank you so much for such type of guidence ❣🙏
Always appreciate your words sir... 👌
उस जैसी कोई नही, तुम जैसा चू कोई नहीं , क्या वाक्य है सर 😂😂♥️
Bhaiya please make a video on overthinking how to avoid stress in life for younger generation.
Banna hi nahi hai Chu.. Sir !! Jai Hind.
Pls make videos for young girls also we are mature enough to listen to your advice, Thanks for creating such an amazing content ❣️
Sir competitive exam pr ek video baniye I'm consistent and self motivated because of you ..❤️ still working 9 to 10hr /day
but want some more stuff from you!😊
Konsi exam ke liye bro
Best video ever I have scene on YT 💯.. hats off 2 u sir🙏 much needed and really eye opening..
Conclusion- girl is not interested(she is not the one)
Action- Build your worth, work on yourself... have a purposeful life...
Your self-respect first... Become deserving rather than desiring #aukat
Yrr chetan आप ह ना ,सच मे यरर सही कहते ह , you are real hero of our life
Boy audience of chaten sir : sala ye to hamari hi maar rha hai 😀😂😂😂😂😂
this may sound weird but in majority of the cases its like , if someone likes girl gives them the BHAV they wont like them , they run behind someone who isnt giving them the BHAV lmao u get it right
Uss jaisi koi nahi hai 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I think I am blessed because I found your channel...
Pls make a video on how to more focus and avoid distraction and how to prioritize things.. ❤❤
This video came at the very moment I was needing it the most 💕
Yes sir as i am girl it happens with me but after 2days i realise it's a stupid things 😄....just focus on our career that makes the sense ...do not chase anybody in our life if anyone who actually deserve they comes to in our life
Don't ever do this to nice guys , this really hurts a lot , be straightforward, it really helps .
Sir you're very good at understanding such big problems of life, of which nobody talks. Your content is highly relatable to every teenager or adult.
It felt like you're our big brother and guiding us.
Honestly she is not interested on him .but she can't say it directly...if she was spent some Good moment with him...
Kaas ye pahle pata chal gya hota.... Mere ch __ __ dost boys... Ulta pulta bta diye..
But why they can,t say directly
Hello...Hello..Are you there 😂😂
there is only one reason for no reply : NOT INTERESTED.....
END OF STORY
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FACT : THE PHONE IS IN YOUR HANDS 24 HOURS IF THEY WANT THEY CAN REPLY BUT THEY CHOSE NOT TO REPLY.
BITTER TRUTH : THIS IS THE ONLY REASON.
Sahi bole
Agreed 👍👍
Suggested by a friend.. now I am feeling better. Thank you very much sir.🙏🙏🙏
Hattss offf to you sir Chetan Bhagat .
I got clarity now 😂😂
Finest line in this video is "take care"
Is chaanal pe agar India ke saare youth jud jaate to unaka future best version me hota
Sir i just watched only first 4min of your this video......one thing I only say......You are the game changer for our generation sir....thnqqq so much sir.... ❤️...much love. ❤️ for every boys....Khud ko thappad maar lo....but ye harkat kabhi na Krna..... because God have planned much better for you... 🙏girls ka respect jarur karo....but apni ijjat k sath....kyu ki life mai sab chala jyga....lekin tm aur tmhara self respect akhri saas tk rahega..... 👍
sir aap itna relatable topic par kaise bana lete ho, jo currently meri life me chalta hai aap us topic ko utha hi lete hai, love you sir🥰
This is very relevant 👏 I have faced issues in life. There is no ..absolutely no support / material for boys / men in our society. Even if guy is always nice hardworking and good. There is always male bashing whatever happens...and then .. People misuse these good people. Happy to see at least some insightful content...for guys...and its actually for both male and female.😀👍
gee shakar aap kae moo mae sir.I love you sir ❤
So nice of you. Thanks!
Chetan Sir Many Youth's Are Influenced By 90s films - Ashiqui , Saajan , Mithun Chakraborty Films . Ye Log Pyar me pagal ho jate hai , Doob ke pyar karte hai. Dil Toota hai fir bhi pyar karte hai. 😀
Sir you are like my big brother, so please guide us just the way big brother do🙏🙏🥳💝
Sir kitna achcha bolte ho ap
Most of the time reality is that ki larki ko larka me interest nehi hota hai.....
Isliye raasta alag kar leti hai
Remember boys jab larki ko aap me interest hota hai.......larki khud msg karti hai... otherwise not....
Bhau bhi nehi degi
But bhai vo sedhe kiyu nahi bolti
Thanks big b I am trapped in this cage , but now , I feel better and inspire , aur agli baar nahi hoga pkaa , chase the excellence not the girls
Love you sir. You are the lamp of my hardest and darkest time phase.
Must must listen carefully and must implement in our life
Being a girl and being in similar situation, it's really irritating guys when you message and we just don't want any communication. We simply ignore because we don't wanna be rude. Believe me if she ignores you just let her go. Because if she is interested she will atleast reply.
One girl of my online classes always riply me but topic is only related to study , but she never text first , just riply of my message. 2 times I told her you looks very gorgeous in DP and she riply thank you so much with smiling emoji. But I have huge regret that why I am doing all this because i know there is nothing between us and nothing will happen , i doubt am i really going cheap by message her everytime? what she thinks about me that am i interested in her ?
Problem is that if i have that love at first sight and one sided love problem , whenever I see a extremely beautiful girl , i Got out of control and began to think of her everytime, on this matter i have no control over my emotions despite knowing that nothing will gonna happen.
Why they atleast don,t say we don,t want to talk ,at least pain toh kam hota
🙏🙏
Ek kamre me Khali baithkar jo emotions generate hote hai wo bahar ki struggled life dekhkar gayab ho jate hai.
Make money, Make Muscles.
It must be with subtitles of South Indian languages. Especially Telugu.
Admonition of this video "Don't work for attention".
Love u sir your guidance can help in improve my habits
Bilkul mere sath bhi esa hua hai...ak ladka jo pehle mujhmei interested tha mujhe lagi thi and now I told him i like him and he said sorry, don't take it otherwise. But for the first time I felt something strong connection with a guy.
When he says aarti ...i remember raghav 😂...#revolution2020
Main bhi aisa hi sochta hoon, thank for showing me mirror
Sir.. such type of act guys also do
Great ❣️
or datiye sir,,we need such thrust on a daily basis,,love you sir...
Right sir I improve myself regularly and focus on my CDs exam....Tq Sir your word make me a different man than previous one day by day....tq sir...keep motivate
To all girls!
Chase excellence. Don't chase boys
5:12 sir sare aaamm beijjati kar dia aap 😅
जैसे जैसे मेरी हैसियत बड़ रही है मेरे साथ घोस्टिंग कम हो गया है, और अब मुझे परवाह भी नही है!
I wish I could see this video long before.... thank you so much sir....
His words are slap for improving self
Thnkss sir 😂😂m reply ka wait krra tha Lekin ab m kaafi kuch samjh gya thnksss again Chetan sir ❤️Shi kha hm khud ko ch... Bnate h
aapki video jabh bhi dekhya hu na aisa lagta hai bade bhaiya smjha rahe hai
bikul shi me mila 1 bar physically or kiss wagera bhi kia first time really me bhot care bhi krta hu me usko bolta bhi i care u so much har din or abhi kuch time se massage me hi bhjta hu wo only seen krti h or emog bhej deti hai no chat or really me thoda stress feel kia but i am devote of #mahadev or #krishan i chanting hare karishna and i look shiva krishna in everyhing or every person so thats why ita frk nhi pdta but ya ye hota me ye hi bolunga apni self respect ke sath relation ship me jao and aware rkho khud ko ki me flow me na chla jau chil kro yr spritual.. smjho sb kuch and ye sb tempori.hai mst rho khud se pyar kro self respect ko upr rkho and good video sir ap mst ho
1 #exercise kro
2 #meditation kro
3 #chetan bhakt sir dost bnao nhi h to
4 #bhakti kro mst rhoge meri trh hahah
hare krishna hare krishna, krishna krishna ,hare hare ,hare ram hare ram , ram ram, hare hare
Moral of the story : Don’t be Chu dash dash 😅
Please make more videos ayse... Mere friends hy unhe may share krta rahte huuu