Things we shouldn't talk about
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- Опубликовано: 9 июл 2024
- I'm showing up authentic and a bit raw this week so I hope you don't mind. Sometimes we need to say things and even rant a little don't we, to let it all out! I have some things really bothering me and sometimes I hesitate on here to say things because well, it's RUclips isn't it!? But sometimes I think we should open up more about the things that seem a bit taboo and it might just encourage us all to share honourably and honestly about the stuff that really should be discussed more... Shine a light as I say... As usual, please feel free to leave your comments down below. We can shine lights, share, inspire & support in this very special community of like~minded beings! Thank you so much for keeping me company in our little corner of RUclips. Love you all to bits, Biggest, Softest, Everythings, Wendy. Xx
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💜💜💜 I agree with you! I never, in my 68 years, EVER thought I would be ashamed of my country (USA)! I’m glad I’m old and don’t have to see it in another 30 years! Sad, but true!
I'm your age and live in the U.S. and agree. Even though I live in California, the area I'm in is very (since we have these categories) Red.
I don't indulge in political conversations anywhere with anybody much any more. I find that I'm either preaching to the choir or falling on deaf ears
It's showing everything that has always been there just hidden. After it all is shown, we will be heading in the direction of a great future. The Age of Aquarius
Yes. I’m politically embarrassed - of both major parties. I’m also appalled at the everyday violence and honestly don’t feel as safe in public as I used to. I get anxious. I truly hope change is coming as the corruption comes to light. I know several people who are simply choosing to live abroad in other countries.
yup! i feel you!!! they are all gangs of crooks!
@@andreapretlow2897 yup it's a tricky one for sure!!
I live in America if you want to talk political BONKERS. I am with you. I wanted winter to last longer so I could hibernate and try to make sense out of this world...as well as craft on my own and try to figure things out. I enjoy living in a fantasy world and to be surrounded with uplifting music, items and food and the whole works of what is peaceful and that which brings love and cheer. I am 75 and never was ashamed of my country until now. I have been losing loved ones a lot lately do to aging and its all a muddle. Yes, lets try to keep our lights shining brightly. Heres my coffee cup saying...to a better more sane world.
I agree with you!
Wendy, you light up my life.. where would we be without you🖐🏼
I feel the same about winter and I live in Canada. The weather suits my mood😂
I must say I find you one of the most unique and refreshing presences in the creative space on RUclips. You gently encourage others to be their best within their capabilities on the day, to not be defeated by setbacks and disappointments and to celebrate themselves and to nurture their souls. You are so right on so many things and your art is beautiful - thank you for sharing your creative journey with us all. I think your community is here to share a cup of kindness with you and keep you company in this little corner of the internet. Thankyou for this little cosy corner, waves from Australia.
what a most beautiful sentiment thank you so much xxxx happy to have you keeping me company for sure x big loves to you in Australia xxx
People saying we shouldn't talk politics are usually not having their lives affected by them. How can we not when in the whole world over, people are starving, not able to find a place to live, pay their rent, heat their homes or in some countries not have control of their bodies? Wendy, you are right to talk about politics because it's not just a abstract thing. It's our very lives that are affected.
Keeping shining that light bright. Love your vids.
you are so right Lauren thankyou for this comment xxxx you too angel x
I love that James calls you every night even though he is tired. Sleep well James, we need you too. You are a loving stalwart archetype who we all need to see represented in life.
We do live in crazy times, but everything runs in cycles and "this too shall pass". Thank you for your positivity and brightening up the world for us all.
Sorry to hear your back is still an issue. Sending love and healing as always x
The studio is looking so inspirational and the plant babies are beautiful.
Our country has gone bonkers too! Food prices! Rentals interest rate. And support for wars! Our Governments have control and the people dont agree with any thing they are doing! Sadly I think the people have lost all elections and immigrants pouring in. God bless us all!! Love watching you. So relaxing and de-stress!❤
Hello from Northern California❤ New to the channel. Grateful for a place that allows for things not being okay all the time. 😅I feel like I just got permission for sinking into my chair & staring at the fire. I can turn the "keep your vibration high" loop off for a bit. I'm blessed with the Pacific ocean, Redwoods, happy cows on green pastures....homeless, weed dispensaries, empty storefronts, abandoned vehicles. Sometimes I just need to stare at the fire to reconcile the layers.
❤ thank you to this amazing loving community. You all know I lost my hubby to Covid but in the last two weeks I lost both my mom and dad. 😢 I also found out that I am having a total thyroidectomy on April 25th praying it’s not cancer. I’m so tired! My oldest got married and now lives in Leeds. I am praying I can fly out to the UK this August for a long visit. I needed your words today Wendy!!
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My prayers are going up for you🙏. Life has so many unexpected difficulties and pain. Try to be who you are through your creativeness. I know that’s the only way I get through it. I need to do that first before I can tackle the hard things.🌷
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❤❤❤sending you love, light and fierce hugs! Find love and soak it up. ❤❤❤
So sorry you are facing so many challenges at once. Blessings on you!
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I appreciate how you feel about the light. I feel this way. I'm so sensitive and I prefer the dark cold days of winter. I feel so over exposed in the summer. So I'm looking forward to spring but summer is the worst. I feel sad when it's winter solstice because the light returns and jubilation on summer solstice because the light will dim. Being the opposite of the majority is ugh often as a sensitive person ❤
yes, summer can feel v intense can't it. x big loves
Lesa, I also love the comfort of shorter days. I am afraid to mention to people that I don't look forward to longer, brighter days because I'm of a few rare people that feel this way. I love dark, cold days,and "Nesting" with my books and watching You tubers.I'm always happy when it rains, it keeps the "Crazies" in the house !
I’m the same. I really dislike the heat and humidity of the English summers (which are becoming more intense of course), I feel uncomfortable in my own skin and don’t want to go anywhere or do anything, I feel strange as though I’m under a magnifying glass and completely laid bare body and soul. I realise how weird this must sound but it’s true. My favourite season is spring when we have the bright sunshine and blue skies but the sting of cold weather on our skin. The days are still short which I love and we need to wear our coats and scarves like protective armour against…what? I don’t know, but I do know that I feel better cocooned in layers of clothing for some reason. My 2nd favourite is winter, short days and every reason to stay comfy by the fire with a good book and a big mug of coffee/tea/hibiscus tea etc. We’re in August now and I can’t wait for the summer to be over. I’ve never said these things out loud in case people think I’m beyond strange. I’m definitely an introvert HSP 🫢💛
@@ExLibris-AlysI know I am 10 months late lol 🤭😄 but you have echoed and described exactly how I feel about the summer months. As I age, I find I prefer my own company and love the security and safety of my own room. I am also an empath and feel drained every time I return from a shopping trip or a day out. The one positive thing that evolved out of the pandemic was learning so much about myself. Who I really am!
Re: this bonkers world and corrupt politics, I do my best to avoid talking about it because it upsets my equilibrium so I prefer not to engage as it just makes me angry. We can see how it is affecting others too due to the high toxicity permeating social media.
@@sandrafisherhayes3219 I loved the pandemic for that reason too! The isolation was exactly what I needed to ‘find’ myself. I loved the peace and quiet as well if I’m honest 🤭
“Tickety-boo” is definitely going to be my new go to phrase.
it's a keeper!!! xxxxx
@@theunexpectedgypsy I agree!
I agree!!
Hi Wendy. I'm a newish follower and your videos are always such a breath of fresh air. Your effervescent personality always bubbles with sparkles even while.youre dealing with back pain. After many decades of denying myself enjoyment in creative activities, I'm stepping back into my true self. Your insights and wisdom are so appreciated and I always end up with new ideas, perspectives and energy after watching your channel. ❤ Thank you so much for sharing your authenticity with us. 🤗
aww thank you so much xxxxxxx your comment makes me so happy! xx Thankyou too for keeping me company xxxx big loves x
From one artist to another- Thanks so much for showing up here each week for all of us. Here in the U.S. of A it is also totally bonkers! 👺 I live near NYC and have been too caught up in all the drama of the big, long awaited news this past week. 🤡 But today I was determined to get back into my art studio and getting on with MY life. Real life, not our leaders drama. 🎃 It sure is a challenging time right now for all. 😿 And it’s so helpful to have international colleagues like you who are willing to speak the TRUTH of how you’re doing. 👩🏻🎨 Keep holding that beautiful light of yours. 🙏🏼✨🌿🪶
Well said .👍
I retired in January and it's a shock. Half the money and everything's so expensive. And I'm so fortunate. I cry thinking about those in who choose between heat and food. We need to talk to each other and be good neighbors.
I find I'm hibernating more. My mind and body need it. Some days I make the bed, make a cup of tea and then get back into it. I'm enjoying that. I find I'm isolating myself more. I went out last week and I was in a store queuing up at the till and a woman started having a go at me for not using the self service till. For a start, I can't use one. She just kept going on at me. There was other tills open so I wasn't holding anyone up. It really was uncalled for. But I got so upset , I started crying. It felt as though I'd committed the crime of the century.
I was annoyed with myself for crying. But I do think the world is definitely back to front, inside out, wrong way round, totally distorted. I felt it really strongly . I was exhausted. This week I've been resting. To try and regain some energy.. 💕🧚♀️
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It's so bumpy out there, i'm often the same in that staying in is easier, we just need a message on our shirts like Bog Off !!!xxx
Nobody deserves what you experienced. I am sorry it happened to you.
@@theunexpectedgypsy Absolutely
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Pluto is now in aquarius. When it was in aqua last time we saw many revolutions which overturned autocracy. It's already happening but it will be a slow start. BTW my juicer exploded cos I didn't tighten the lid. So I got covered in blueberry and kiwi juice as did the kitchen cupboards. 🤭🤭
eek!!! and eek!!! i have done that too!!! green smoothies everywhere!! eek!
Last week was a disaster for me. All I wanted to do was just sleep....and sleep...cry...and sleep... I think it has to do with this crazy time and the weather. One day spring like and back to gloomy skys and rain. It's the dual between winter and spring trying to break out...
I live in the countryside in 2 rooms which is my studio as well. I don't mind though because as a creative person and without a car, it's my space, cozy and well, a little bit messy... plant babys all over, etc. I managed to finish a painting and am very pleased with it. It's just a difficult time for everyone and when spring finally arrives I hope our spirits like beautiful flowers awaken. Lots of love and creativity ❤🧡❤🧡
oh soft hugs for your tricky week xxxx big loves back to you too xx
Wendy, this was a wonderful video! Just what I needed to hear this morning! Love your videos and words of wisdom, but today’s was spot on. You are so appreciated ♥️ By the way, great outfit!
awww, glad it helped xxx and thank you!!! xxx
@@theunexpectedgypsy more than you know 🥰
You're so right on about inspiration and creativity, Wendy. We breathe in all that is Good, according to Latin in-spirare. And then we create, as we're created in the image of divine, and here to literally create, invent, produce. Not consume, but create! Thank you!
well, mz wendy, i offer two suggestions from my 70y/o lady perspective ... make it a point to laugh ... everyday, at every opportunity, with others or when all by yourself ... laughter really IS the best medicine ... and a reminder here, i know you have mentioned it before, but it bears repeating ... practice being grateful ... when in a space of feeling overwhelmed, or guilty about action or inaction, think of 5 things to be grateful for ... it seems that the wonkiness goes away when the feeling of gratitude is a conscious practice
I must say I really respect the fact that you have spoken out. I live in Kent, and I 100% agree with your views. The quality of our lives has deteriorated exponentially within the last 12 years. The governments pursue their own agendas and have never been so removed from public opinion as they are now. Incredibly strange times....
100% with you on the world bonkers scene. Here in Australia, cost of rent, house utilities, food, petrol all continuously going up. Homelessness is growing as well. Love and creativity to you and all.❤
Soft hugs for your crazy stuff too! It can get on top of us it's such a lot! xxx
❤ty so much for sharing this...these videos are so uplifting, from Michigan USA... trying to figure out how to be creative, frugal and steady does it😂
Crazy in the USA here too. Paryers for blessings to rain on you and al of us!
@@Happily418 aww thank you, glad you enjoyed... it's def difficult to navigate everything atm!!! xxxx
@@joannbaumann4028 aww big prayers and blessings to you too xx
Writing in from Chicago, and in the same place as you. Looking for a new place to live so my husband and I don't have to sleep in our living room! Would love a bit of green space, too. But we can't afford anything in our neighborhood, and we would hate for our kiddo to have to change schools. It's just impossible. Sending good thoughts your way!
I desperately need to do a whole house de-clutter and deep clean. The pandemic didn't help my outlook. I need to give up on some crafts; they're pushing me out of my home. In the past few days, I've kind of told myself when I didn't want to tackle any chore, to just do it, and do it early. I reminded myself that I'm doing it for me and that, once done, I'll be that much closer to having the whole job done. Then, I'll have the room to create, read, sit. Like freedom without the weight. Thank you, Wendy. 😊
Very timely video, we cannot change the crazy world, only how we react! Art is the best escape, even doodling calms the mind and soul for me.
yes sooo true xxxx
It's ''Strawberry Laces'' for me . . . but today I had a satsuma instead! I'm doing all the things you suggest, a collage journal, sewing cooking, walking etc . . . turned a corner and was able to phone the bank today about an investment I needed to cash in. I was quivering like an aspen, but I did it and now I can relax about my financial probs for a couple of years. Yaay! Thank you Wendy.
"Show Up" - thank you, Wendy 💝
You are absolutely correct on all the topics you shared. I need to learn how to parent myself, never really learned. As a survivor of childhood abuse it hasn't been easy, but I will rewatch your video and put some of your words into practice. Thank you for sharing your insight on how to care for ourselves. Keep your light shining and thank you for being real.
it's definitely not always easy to self parent... and it's not something we are taught really... you can learn at any point though, xx we got this xx
I'm a semi hoarder. Not dirty with poop and rotting food. With art stuff! I DUMPED lots and now have my house back! Got rid of clothing, art supplies and stuff. I'm MUCH happier! AAAAAMEN!
Oh, I do relate. Thank you for being real; sharing the ups and downs. It's human and makes me feel seen. Dark days here in the U. S. Trying to enchant my days and do what I can. Appreciate you ❤️
Wendy, you are such a comforting presence. I’m away from home (regional South Australia) for a few weeks for work, in my own little worker’s cottage in the city (Adelaide, Australia)
Over the last week or so, I have been rummaging around in op shop’s to find books, magazines, maps vintage dress patterns and bits of craft, pencils and coloured bits and I’ve started journaling for the first time in years, with you set up on the table next to me.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and words your beautiful videos. Thanks for allowing us into your world. You are making a difference. 💚💚💚💚 😊
You are my favorite artist that I follow. You make so much common sense and what the world is about. I am a retired nurse who now gets to spend her time painting and I love your web site. I am 73 years old and still feel like I am no more than 50 years old. I am a believer that you are as old or young as you choose to be in the later stages of life. You can be bored or you can do what you love to do. I am in America . Sandi
Thank you, Wendy! Thank for being so kind to be here for us.. in good times, tough times, all the time! It all comes from your kind heart. A huge hug to you! ❤
At 62 I am looking for ways to help my local community... not big things, just little things like buying from small shops and local owned restaurants. I gave up on being a world changer some time in the middle of chemotherapy last year.
Hope you are healing well. 🙏
Thanks for your authenticity!! When I'm anxious or stressed, as I usually am, I spend time in prayer with God. I know I can't fix things, but I know who can! I also like to work in my art journal or do decorative planning. When all else fails, I lay in bed and try and sleep it off! I hope the coming days bring your joy!!
Oh! Yes!!! I sit in the sun and listen to the birds! I just soak it up!
Peace and ❤ to you Wendy - thank you for sharing. Hearing that others share many of the same concerns helps!
What would I do without you my Fairy Princess. I have no family or friends and my partner leaves today for a three week diving trip.
I will take all your wonderful thoughts and try to let my fading light shine bright as I sit here 3am in the morning watching you in Australia and being comforted.
I have been worried about your back. I am so pleased to see you happier again.
I am so sorry some sad 'thoughtless' person would steal your words. They are to be pitied.
On we go, showing up, one day at a time. 🌷🌷
What a lovely person you are. 💞. Thank you. I find things come into my life when I need them. Love that I recently found your site. I'm 72 and believe one is never too old to keep on learning, creating and 'remolding' ones life. 💞
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Hello sweet Wendy😘,you know, I talk to myself al the time when I ‘m alone! So I must be bongus big time!🤭
Maybe I should start a RUclips channel too! By the way, We have also troubles with liars in politics in Holland too! And they won’t leave 😡
I love that you are out there🤗❤️🌹
Yes indeed… I’m nesting until I’m not. Thank you for this lovely tender video. Sending lots of love to you💗
yes! exactly!!!! soft hugs xxxxx
Prices continue to rise on nearly everything in the US as well. No one can give any logical reason. The grocery store has become a bit of a scary place at the register. Painting and my little flower garden are healthy coping measures. 💞
Greed.😒
As this vid unfolds, I’m realising that I do do a lot of stuff for myself (self-care)… My nemesis? Sugary stuff and/or carbs. Being diabetic, it makes me so unwell. Managed to finally stop smoking, after 51 years 🎉 I’ll be able to paint and draw again once the flat is sorted. It’s taken me 5 years to get to this point (“this point” being “nearly sorted”). Yeah, you know what… I’m ok 😊 Thankyou for helping me realise it Wendy ❤
Yes yes yes. I
Most people would think I'm crazy, but I'm not quite ready for Spring...it means getting down and dirty in my yard and cleaning things up. But one day the temperature will warm up and the air will smell just right, and I'll be ready. I force myself to get out and walk for an hour. It does clear the head and makes your body stretch, stand tall and walk fast (or sort of fast). Sugar is my nemesis. For me, just cutting back is good and almost doable:) What gets me going? Coffee, usually one will do it. You are a sweetie. Best wishes.
Dear lady, you are one of the most talented people I have watched on utube. I love your mindset, the percolating, the puttering and letting your creativity to flow naturally. You are truly a lady of many talents. I hope more than anything you will find the perfect place to be and things all work together and that stress can be lifted for you.
I also hope your back pain can get resolved. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Yes yes ! I put out my “ tools”, drink a coffee and then off I go. I built a 6x8 A frame with no building experience using this method. Absolutely-show up and do some resetting. I wake up with anxiety but this kicks me into action.
it's a good way ! xxxx
Hi Wendy, You are so brave to speak out loud on what our world has become. I live in the USA, and for the first time in my life I feel like being an ex patriot. We do not have free speech on any social media unless it's in agreement with the "Powers That Be", Our State, and town has become a hub for building high rise apartment buildings on every open space we once had, it's housing loud,noisy,inconsiderate people. I don't watch the news anymore..TV commercials are in different languages...I don't understand what has happened ???? It's sad when people are looking forward to dying so they won't have to deal with the current problems of the world. My neighbors are noisy, and inconsiderate. I gave up drinking my wine which did relax me. Many people are seeking Therapy for their mental health ( If you can find one who will see you in person and not through a computer). People just don't care anymore about our fellow human beings. Thank you for offering us HOPE. You are greatly appreciated. Sending you loving, healing thoughts, Cindy
Yes, at 70 I can say this country has become the greatest disappointment of my life. 😒
Hi! I am an artis in my 60s and have lived in a very multicultural inner city area in the UK for many years now. I love the variety of cultures, clothes, styles and languages. I find it fun to try and learn some basic conversational words in different community languages. We also have a lot of drug related problems and homelessness in the area, and sometimes people can be quite loud in their opinions. But i also know that that each of us has a story... and I don't think anyone actually chooses to be unlikeable. So I find it helps (my own state of mind at least) to try being more compassionate when someone's behaviour gets on my nerves.... What they choose to do with that is not my business. How I respond to people is...
i am not done hibernating, either! financial woes are weighing heavy on me, and i need to move but haven’t decided where to. life can be a muddy blob sometimes!
Great to see you dear Wendy, as always I agree with so much of what you say 👍.
Like you, I am not ready for spring yet. That said I have sown so many veg & flower seeds that I have to get up & tend them daily.
Having been caught up in grief & the menopause for quite some time, if I get up, shower & feed us Im doing well.
Very difficult some days as I had always been full of energy, drive & passion. Some days I just don't recognise the person I am.
I do agree whole heartedly with your tips. Out in nature & doing something creative does help.
Its getting started that is the most difficult for me.
Thank you for the chat Wendy, it was spot on for me ❤
Monday mornings with Wendy 🤗...it is a new ritual for me. I start my workday and enjoy all the wendyisms while I work 💕
First I have to say how happy your plant babies look!! Beautiful!!❤ I hear you with all the crazy things happening around us. I live in Florida and it's really getting to be scary with all of the building they are doing and all of the people that are moving here. Our infrastructure isn't there to support so many people. Not to mention all of the wetlands they are building on! I'm afraid we will be a concrete jungle just like parts of California!! Forget about buying or renting anything!! That's enough ranting from me!! Thank you for all that you do for us!! Love everything you write and your beautiful artwork!! Sending lots of love your way!!❤❤❤
i keep getting overwelmed n then not getting my creations done, i have had huge tidyup of fabrics & cut out pile of patchwork yogabags, celtic bags & crochet hook wallets, ready to sew, then yesterday wipeout, n couldnt do anything, i spend anything ive got on materials for new creations, but did a ladys dreadlocks last sunday, and spent my earning on a new low penny whistle - for ME , i felt bad buying it n argued in my mind, as im broke, but the constant cycle of just getting by n having to watch every single penny, n goes back into buisness, but then realised playing music takes me to another place , so it is kinda self care, im ready to be out - spring !!! but literally keep having to go back into my cocoon, def slowly doing de-clutter -slowly but surely...love all ur tips....just lil step by step, ive started my youtube channel, to show my rebuild / restoration of my vanhome, thats a good step forward ..thanks wendy big love xxx
Thanks for sharing all the highs and lows in such a constructive loving way Wendy❤ we can keep on going together!! One step at a time. I walk everyday and sometimes I’ll see a special bird or a rabbit and I tell my children about it at the end of the day and we call these animal stories. Sometimes they have animal stories too. These little things are special and help me get through the tough stuff. Lots a warm hugs xxx
oh yes, love your animal stories.... xx and so true, always the littlest of things, soft hugs to you too x
💜Quilt of ideas.
Well said Wendy you found the right words to say about being copied.
We all copy from day one…….we learn to eat, move, talk and walk by copying others.
No one is totally unique.
Yes Just Be Yourself. 💜🙏
Love the new stickers and postcards.
Thank You For Sharing.
Big Hugs.
I definitely think all our worlds/country's are losing the plot. We have the extreme of building homes the size of rediculas, no yards for green space. Then the other end of no homes at all. We want everything now without the work and self gratuation of achievement with our hands and hard work. I'm extremely lucky to be on land, but also worked hard to achieve what we have. I have been an anxiety queen and stayed beyond my boundary, so Thankyou for encouragement, your cheekyness and bubbly personna is always welcome in my space❤❤❤.
Great video! So glad you addressed these times as they have been challenging as the corrupt establishments are exposed. This month is supposed to be intense so grounding and centering will be important as you said 😊 things are going to get much better though we will be creating the new systems which are of integrity after the corrupt ones are dismantled. Sending Love and Comfort to all.❤
I really appreciate the way you concretely encourage us as artists in your videos. As 1 example your drawing warmups have really helped me. Also I enjoy your lovely style of dress: today's is especially nice. And the frock in your postcard photo is THE most beautiful dress ever.
aww thank you xxxxx happy creating xxx
Love you too Wendy. Love from South Africa
Definitely now know that a glass of wine tastes like sadness the next day. Too much screen time also starts the circling the drain behaviour as I try to fall asleep. I know the nemesis(s) that make me need a reset. It is true what you say about knowing what is comfort and what is good for you and finding a balance. Great video, Wendy! I love your honest look at life.
Good morning Wendy, thank you for sharing your thoughts and ideas stickers and postcards are really interesting too, your artwork is so unique to you, what you have to say is very much as most people the world over, including myself, yet even now they that shouldn't be are, and somehow manage to come back time and again,
Keep on painting journaling, enjoying the world at its very best in harmony with all that really matters.Nurtue nature nurture love.cultivate peaceful harmony as above so below..
Hugs and Blessings.💚🌹
Thank you for your videos and the music in them. I have seen some of your videos and they are very entertaining. I love your plants. They look healthy and add a relaxing look to your work area. You said your birthday is in April, we are in April. You tell us the day so we come here and leave our greetings. I hope your week is going well.
Nature is such an important part of my mental health. We must protect this beautiful planet at all costs. So many of those in power forget how truly integral this environment is😢
Love all you said ,soooo helpful so glad Ive found you Wendy, you are doing the light work, we all need it really brave and of course such a big generous heart. Bless you.
Kind Soul, i have 20 years soberity,yes there are hills and valleys on my walks of this journey thru my life,I am grateful!,my spring steps are my walks with grandchildren to find natures treasures to make fairy furniture,for a little garden,your kind words you say, and artistic talents has shined a bright light on us! I kindly Thank you! Blessings
wowo!!!! thankyou so much for sharing xx truly inspiring and blessings to you too xxxx
The extra light after winter is just SO bright, yes you are right. Into the hibernation cave I retreat until my spirit decides to soar once more!
I don’t know you, and I’m a new subscriber-but after watching your videos I think you are so lovely! And beautiful as well:) I found your channel in January of this year and you’ve been such an encouragement. I love your spirit and wit. Thanks so much Wendy. From a young woman who needed someone to look up to.
Oh I’m so sorry you’re dealing with a copy cat 😔 that’s so hard as an artist-but you’re right. The second you put your work out there-it will happen. I find getting inspiration from artists who work with different mediums really helps make that “quilt” you’re talking about and prevents adopting one person’s style💕 Keep being you, Wendy! I could listen to you talk all day and you’ve inspired me so much to expand my artistic practice. Your style is so unique and your perspective on all things creative always helps me get out of ruts.
it does, it's so sad but true! Completely different from us all inspiring each other, it's blatent theft... the quilt is the best! thanks for such a lovely comment xxxxxxx big loves
There's an Artist on RUclips that I've seen, whose work is too similar to yours, for her not to be a copy cat. 😢
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@Jobes who's the thief so I know not to support he/she's channel? ☹️
@jenns_artlandia7896 I like to know as well...
Ah! I really like the advice about showing up to the mat (page, easel, whatever you're about in the moment) makes so much sense. I stop myself from starting (or continuing) a piece or project by thinking about all the steps required to get the the part I want to do. Thanks!
Yes, mine is definitely alcohol. I have limited myself to indulging only over the weekends as I can tell my weight suffers for it. I maintain a very low carb lifestyle, and alcohol inhibits fat burn. And lately it makes me disappointed with myself when I have drinks. It doesn't make me feel better, or to even relax. You are so right that making yourself feel better shouldn't be bad for you. Unhealthy treats are detrimental to me personally.
I so do understand your frustrations. When the parties in power atm were elected, I was so hopeful for change in Germany. The reality is that I‘m frustrated and disappointed. It seems like it‘s going like that everywhere in Europe and it’s hard to stomach. Being outdoors does help as well as journaling and I admit sometimes even binge eating or random shopping sprees (but they come with regrets). As far as copying people goes, I always find it fair if a creator mentions the creator they were „inspired“ by. You should be given credit by the person using your work as inspiration.
In this one comment thread I've found my tribe! Californian, 64, registered Independent, and appalled by what's happening to our country. But, like another commenter suggested, what goes up must come down. Countries, entire civilizations, are no exception. Read 'The Fourth Turning' for an interesting and scary take on that.
Good morning from Pittsburgh, PA! I just love your videos! Just a thank you for your thoughtful videos! Just like the person who is 68, I’m 65, and this world is just a VERY HOT MESS!! Now they are going to raise airline prices so bad, no one will fly! I dislike the GOVERNMENT!! My daughter had to move in with me, cause she couldn’t afford to live on her own(and she does have a good job). If my husband was still living, he would be so upset on how this world is now! Enough of this nonsense! With your thoughtful words, and videos you are real like me! And I just love your PLANT BABIES! If you can just take a deep breath, and hopefully we can get through this! Thank you Wendy!❤❤❤ Becky
Even when you are ranting or listing how bumpy your week has been, your light is shining and despite the neighbors, you seem more calm. Your little changes appear to be working!
I do not comment very often on RUclips, but I love your channel. I find your videos, creativity, and authenticity to be very comforting and reassuring. I appreciate your encouragement to put oneself out there regardless of the inevitable unscrupulous conduct of people who take advantage of the ideas and information that is "free to take." It was especially helpful to hear you say that inauthenticity is detectable as well as well as genuine authenticity. Thank you for shining your light in your gentle, beautiful way.
You're spot on! We're all in the same boat of feeling anxious about what our leadership is up to and what to believe. Life shouldn't have to be this hard. Thanks for all your great advice. I have to push myself everyday day to show up but like you said once you start you find the energy to carry on. Keep showing up for us because we all need positive encouragement everyday 😊❤
Wendy you are such an original and genuine person. Your connection with nature makes me smile. I live in the desert so the beauty is different but it always fills my soul and calms me. Thank you for sharing your light with us.
Yes, I'm trying to continually take little steps. 1. Haircut 2. Dentist (3 visits ugh). 3. Covid shot. 4. Art every day, but in a mix like journal, craft show, research, paint, draw, creating ephemera, your youtube vlogs. 5. Keep diary of daily achievements (incl bits of housework) and grateful thoughts 6. Me time and planning new adventures in imminent retirement. Thanks Wendy, loving your encouragement!
i hear ya! i also have dentist soon!! eek!! we can do it!! xxx
The United States has been upside down and all twisted up with darkness for years and it's only getting worse. The light has to shine in all the darkest places to help set things clear and bright again. These are hard times for everyone for sure. Add to that any kind of personal issues and times can feel very tough. When things are like that for me I definitely give myself everything that I know will help me feel comforted and safe. Whether it's in my PJs all day long binge watching my favorite programs or not eating as well as I typically do... it's okay. I have to be careful to make sure I exercise enough when I'm feeling particularly tender. Sitting down at my art table always makes me feel better as it is a wonderful distraction from reality. Or better said, it creates the kind of reality that makes me feel good! Everything you speak of is pretty much what I also engage in. I do also spend an extra bit of time in the mornings and evenings when I'm just going to sleep or just waking up in a deep state of Prayer. In hard times I call upon my guides and ancestors to step things up for me and help in any way they can to make a situation lighter and brighter and give hope to darker times. Take care everyone! These are hard times and eventually they will get better. I think it's extremely important to envision the best outcome for any troubling issue in your life. See it as you wish it to be and believe that this is a possibility. Miracles do happen. We do create our world and lives, so it is very important to have the best thoughts and visions and hopes and dreams. Do not fall into a place of fear.. Remember to ask for help when times get particularly rough. You have guides and angels and ancestors all around you just waiting to be of assistance. Much love and Aloha to all. And a huge thank you, Wendy, for creating this lovely platform for all of us to share and not feel so alone with all of our struggles and challenges. 💖💫🌺💞🌈🙋♀️
All I need to say is that I’m just so happy and encouraged to know that we’re all in this crazy world together. What happened? I’m ashamed of my country too USA. I want to stay in my winter hibernation nest too it seems safe there. Thank goodness that we’re all normal. 💕 thank you Wendy and please know that you’re an inspiration.
YES speak truth! I think we should start our own camp, let's call it Camp Kindness!
Oh the financial crunch is a float in America! seriously I went to the grocery store and keep in mind this is a low end grocery store...one bag of nothing was $100 us dollars. I was so pissed! I am about to become a Breath-a-terian...cause that is all I can afford working full time and generally like living indoors and basic things like that. So, we are all connected in the 💩show called life, one way or another.
Well said. 👍
Thank You for caring... this vid helps to know we're not alone. The Richest of Blessings to Us All!🙏🙏🙏🎨🎨🎨Creativity is key. Tons of LOVE.
How lovely. Thank you for being so genuine - always. Think I need a t-shirt with BONKERS on it.
Ah, Wendy, I absolutely love your videos and the inspiring ideas you bring! Thank you so much for putting your artwork out there for us to share with you ❤️..I know I have sometimes felt as though I were using someone's art but I agree with you about possibly taking bits from everyone around and then using a bit here and there... 😊 thank you!
Wonderful, thank you, Wendy dearest!!!
Watching your videos gets me going! And hey, I took two pages of notes. Plus thanks for the song "Georgia," which really made me happy/happy/happy. I live in south Georgia USA-and no, it's not that cold hardly ever! Thank you so much!
I agree! I’m not quite ready to come out of hibernation as well.
nooooo! nor me!!
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Your words are from your soul and are so special where as her stolen words are just words....although it is a horrible feeling when someone copies your work, your words are the genuine article Wendy's. I have had this happen to me you just have to let it go over the head and move on ❤
Love you Wendy! You’re like a fairy godmother reminding us all the take care of ourselves ❤
Your words of advise are so therapeutic and healthy. Thank you for the tips they are so attainable and realistic, but moves mountains if you take the small steps to healing when you feel a little broken.
Thank you - I just came back from the funeral of a dear longtime friend… she was an angel on earth. This happened on top of 6 months of stress - a major move to a new state, to start a new job, to help with elderly parents… leaving the state that I’d lived in for 30+ years… on top of recently turning 60… Your video is a gentle and lovely reminder for me to take care of myself - even if it’s just ‘little’ things. So, I decided to work from home today with my balcony door open, the sun shining in… and, I won’t let myself open my work computer until the ‘normal’ start time versus my habit of getting to work an hour to hour and a half early and staying an hour late 🤦♀️ because I’m the ‘newbie’ & I’ve been ‘feeling my age’ mentally… like I can’t keep up. So, maybe I can’t keep
up or maybe I need to find the way that works for me… like starting with not beating myself up…😊
I really appreciate your rants and honesty. One of the things that can be a little disconcerting about You Tube is that many creators seem to never have a bad day, or any negative thoughts. It's important that we talk about politics or world events. We need to be able to have conversations. Thank you so much for the effort and care that you put into your videos Wendy. I just love you! ❤
Hi Wendy. Effective on the 26th of this month, I'll officially be a Patreon ! I'm so excited! My 'dirty' little secret is CHOCOLATE! The thing is, I have no other bad habits, so I don't think I can go forward without anything that brings me joy. I need chocolate! Looking forward to our conversations. "One huge tree-hugger to another".
wahhooo!! chocolate!! yes!! you need i see this!! xxxx big loves xx
Funnily enough, I am spending more time in my Bullet Journal and reflecting on things as well. I need to build back the habit of using it every day. I've decided to leave it open on top of my closed laptop overnight, so it is right there in front of me to look at in the morning.
I haven't been using my writing journal at all lately. I need to find it and begin again. Art hasn't happened much at all. I hope that being more reflective will spill over and I'll write more and even paint a bit.
Well, perhaps “bonkers” has gone global. I’m here in the states & we’ve certainly had our share of bonkers, too.
Anyway, I’ve been in my winter cave for so long, that when on the first warm day I took a long hike around the wormhole loop & then I was so sore, I had to take a warm bath & then I just collapsed. But, I’m ready for spring. I need to stretch & see the world in bloom.
You have so much energy and flutter your hands, eyes & dance around so much, it looks like you could almost fly. You probably draw your positive energy from your colorful art studio & paintings.
I always feel so much more energetic by your vlogs. And, by the way, talking about things we shouldn’t, is very liberating. And, a release of energy, too.
Your outfit is beautiful and really suits you.
Thank you for your chats. I just love them
Hip pain is awful, and does interfere with a lot of activities i have had mine for about 8 months and doing housework gardening walking the list goes on then the sciatica starts so i understand what you are going through.and yes it does affect your mood. Hang in there. Love you and James
So cute to see you put your slippers next to James' when he is away! 🥰🥰🥰
So my favorite beautiful Gypsy has confirmed that I'm not bonkers for being so disgusted. So glad to know "we are not alone" Agent Skully. Reading the comments below, I feel even better. Living through what's happening today and watching the news to be informed is like driving past a very bad wreck on the highway. You know it's a horror but you can't look away. Please someone save America, save our planet.
xx the soft souls with shining lights are gonna win! xxx big loves dear soul xxxx
Hi there - new to your channel, and so happy I found you! "Creativity heals the soul"
Wendy I took a break from several things to watch your video…I never watch you tube videos during the day unless I need a tutorial for a task or getting specific information about something. Partly because you tube has become like a bag of potato chips for me…. Can’t eat just one - well, usually I can’t watch just one! Everything you had to say was sensible, spot on, and certainly good for me today! I’ve had a very disrupted life for the past month or so…. Some of the disruption was due to something that, in itself, isn’t a bad thing, but it totally turned my schedule upside down, disrupted my sleep, and interfered with getting things done. It is a time that doesn’t have an exact end date, and no short term expectation of being “over”. We should be aware that any change in our lives, even a positive one, can be “bumpy”as we integrate the new thing, routine, person, pet, job, living space, job, into our life. Your reminders of self care were awesome. Great specific tips. I’m very fatigued and getting over an infection so need to try to get a rest later. It’s OKAY! And I am totally missing my creative time. That impacts me a lot!
Keeping you “company” as you put it has great benefits for me! My day is better for having spent some time with you! Thanks!
Thank you Wendy. Things are indeed bumpy and the thing that I need to let go of is my job. Unfortunately I can’t quit without another one in place and the one I do have is draining everything out of me - including the energy to start the job search. I’m trying to keep as bright as I can and have hope that I can make me life better. I appreciate you putting the video up when you are coping with pain and stress as well ❤️ thank you
I hope you find a new one that uplifts you ! ❤