Use Your Intuition To Make Decisions That Are True To You | Dr. Henry Cloud

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  • Опубликовано: 2 фев 2023
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    Are you letting your experiences speak to you? All of us have gone through periods of needlessly beating our heads against the wall. So why do we keep doing it? Dr. Cloud focuses on one big reason we keep doing it: we’re trying to be someone we’re not. Are you finding it hard to make decisions that are true to yourself? When you have to morph into someone you’re not, that's unsustainable. Listen to your experience, and ask yourself, is this difficult because it’s hard work, or is this difficult because I can’t be me? If something requires you to be something you’re not, it’s not going to work. We can learn how to use our own experience and intuition to help guide our decision-making. Learn the key strategies on how you can start being more authentic today!
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Комментарии • 55

  • @TetyanaS-vi7gx
    @TetyanaS-vi7gx 2 месяца назад +3

    Dr. Cloud, I am glad you didn’t become a banker or accountant. I am glad that you have decided to be yourself and chose the path that in result keep blessing and changing lives of so many people. Thank you!

  • @crshia
    @crshia Год назад +22

    Your commentary on repentance brings to mind Bob Newhart's routine on going to the psychologist and telling him that something hurts, and the psychologist says, "Well - stop it." I find it very funny. Know that's not where you were going with that, but it came to mind.

  • @linneasimchah1621
    @linneasimchah1621 Год назад +7

    I heard this from psychologist Sadia Khan on youtube:
    There are 2 needs in life: attachment and authenticity.
    If you sacrifice authenticity (being true to yourself) for attachment (relationship with someone you think you want), it won't last long-term. If you sacrifice an attachment for authenticity, you will set yourself up to attract someone who will truly match who you are, and it will be able to stand the test of time.

    • @JChristd4u
      @JChristd4u 6 месяцев назад

      FYI: Sadia Khan did not get a PhD in psychology.

    • @nathanielturner8733
      @nathanielturner8733 3 месяца назад +1

      Pure gold, thank you for sharing

    • @JessCyph
      @JessCyph 2 месяца назад

      Gabor Mate talks a lot about those, too.

  • @bethtaylor9773
    @bethtaylor9773 Год назад +9

    'Shoulda gotten to know his parole officer'...LOL! Love your straight face delivering these lines 😊 My dad was like this, 'OK, what can you do differently next time?' when teaching me a skill. God is my Father.

  • @sharieallen2719
    @sharieallen2719 2 месяца назад +3

    I cannot help fix people for me!

  • @angelastarling9001
    @angelastarling9001 3 месяца назад +1

    Current time of video is 18:13/20:17. Dr. Cloud, for me your topic, your delivery and your content is taking my breath away given the accuracy of your content. You are AMAZING in helping to transform those of us who are aware of having been shaped by patterns for not being true to themselves. I applaud you and your work!
    Angela

  • @CocoShade
    @CocoShade 10 месяцев назад +2

    You r so lucky you realised your mission so yearly!!!

  • @BlessedForever888
    @BlessedForever888 Год назад +6

    This is so comforting! Thank you! It's helpful to think about how something will be sustainable over the long run.

  • @caroldmaner1316
    @caroldmaner1316 Год назад +5

    Thank you, I can relate so much to what your saying ❤ I appreciate your help and support in getting ourselves into the order of things ❣️

  • @manuelag2128
    @manuelag2128 Год назад +2

    Wisdom only comes from GOD, Dr. Cloud!
    Knowledge and Insight IS lerned, even by experience.

  • @judyosborne1113
    @judyosborne1113 7 дней назад

    Great truth

  • @mattsturm9194
    @mattsturm9194 Год назад +5

    So hard. I pretend to be fine when with my Daughter in Law, because I love my Son and Grandchildren. I do what I am suppose to do to appease her meanness. ( She is a Narcissist) I believe in my heart, that I do this because I know my son is going to need support in the future. I put on my happy Face, grit my teeth and play the game. I know God has a plan, and I must be patient.

    • @HeavenlyLights
      @HeavenlyLights Год назад +2

      I hear you. My brother is with a similar woman who has contempt for our whole family for no good reason and has cut him off from us.

  • @sharonsteigers4162
    @sharonsteigers4162 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you Dr Cloud.

  • @josephineclark3239
    @josephineclark3239 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you Dr. Cloud ❤

  • @maryhenderson4929
    @maryhenderson4929 Год назад +2

    Yet again Dr. Cloud, you nailed it! Just what the missing piece to to puzzle of what do I do now. Instead of How can I make this work it's how can this work for me? Brilliant. I wish I'd learned this years ago. My life is better from what you've shared about your life! Wow. Truly

  • @prettylilyflower326
    @prettylilyflower326 6 месяцев назад +1

    You are a blessing! Thank you for sharing your gift ❤

  • @marnim8574
    @marnim8574 6 месяцев назад

    Last relationship was not “sustainable to my soul”, but gave in, thinking it was love. God broke it up, by causing him to bolt, for no valid reason, after two years. Thank you for being my confirmation for this. 25 year follower, you are so amazing. 💖

  • @lindamolyneux3536
    @lindamolyneux3536 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you ! Wow!

  • @godzillamanstreb524
    @godzillamanstreb524 Год назад +4

    Wow this is extremely helpful….thank you so much!!💙👏🏻👏🏻🎯

  • @rdbeckett590
    @rdbeckett590 Год назад

    Never go back is a better title because it reaches more people.

  • @amycaldwell216
    @amycaldwell216 Год назад +2

    I am so grateful for this video, Dr. Cloud. It is quite powerful, and I've gleaned a lot from it. Very helpful advice!!

  • @triciahallknaut6932
    @triciahallknaut6932 Год назад +2

    Thank you Dr. Cloud, praise God for you! I will try and share what I have learned from the Holy Spirit through His Chosen Church Family! I hope to write about this too how much the Lord loves us as He says giving us His Word! yes! repent! Fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom! I have received the gift of repentence from thinking the Lord didn't love me and turned towards Him so that His Perfect Love and Grace (His Choice) flows over me and the World! This is True Worship with joy with soul harmony with the Lord! woo hoo! Bless you ! 😇

  • @HeavenlyLights
    @HeavenlyLights Год назад +1

    This is GREAT. ThankYou.

  • @slm2021
    @slm2021 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for your wise And wonderful words. ❤ 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @titarivera4655
    @titarivera4655 Год назад +1

    Excellent!!

  • @clancykeegan748
    @clancykeegan748 Год назад

    Thank you🙏

  • @NB-2020
    @NB-2020 8 месяцев назад +1

    Than you; very helpful

  • @andreawright3505
    @andreawright3505 Год назад +1

    Thank you for this Godly wisdom. 🙏

  • @ThisisPam
    @ThisisPam 3 месяца назад

    I signed up to do something where I have to not “be myself” all day and all week. After resigning teaching, I took another teaching job when I moved back to my hometown. I thought it would be ok. I needed to make money to help my kids, and to pay our mortgage.
    It was not - is not - ok.
    Every day is a struggle with so much anxiety and stress. I can’t enjoy anything in life, can’t sleep, feel ill and exhausted all the time.
    I knew better, but I have a habit of always saying yes.

    • @tinamceldowney2670
      @tinamceldowney2670 Месяц назад

      Fast and pray about it! Ask the Lord to help you find something that you really like to do! He will answer you, and help you find out what it is that you are supposed to be doing.

  • @brendinacollelo2556
    @brendinacollelo2556 Год назад

    Ty

  • @sharieallen2719
    @sharieallen2719 2 месяца назад +1

    I take on people who I feel I can help... codependent controller. Why do people do this? I wanted to fix my disfunctional family.
    I need to stop only God can fix people if they surrender.

  • @clancykeegan748
    @clancykeegan748 Год назад +1

    "Talked to his patrol officer" 👌😁

  • @singloudlove
    @singloudlove Год назад +1

    🙏🏽❤️

  • @alaraleget1983
    @alaraleget1983 Год назад +4

    I don't like the word repent. I agree with your publishers. It is too evangelical. It is something I hear zealots saying and preaching in the streets. Although that is not your meaning, it had the feeling of condemnation. It comes of as repent now or your going to hell. Take care and thanks.

    • @manuelag2128
      @manuelag2128 Год назад

      You could die today and you would go to hell.
      WE can choose, thats the Love of GOD ,free will . My decision can Take me to hell or to heaven. Choose today.
      Dont Miss out on LIFE ✝️✨🙌🏻🕎.

    • @Bluelightcheaphotel
      @Bluelightcheaphotel 4 месяца назад

      Repent is a hard word. Jesus said it. It stinks following scripture. All you really need to know are the words "narcissist," and/or "gas-lighter." Follow your heart, abandon those harsh words in scripture and read more Dr. Cloud and Lysa

  • @mikaisdiamond
    @mikaisdiamond 9 месяцев назад

    😂

  • @himankaghosh7307
    @himankaghosh7307 Год назад

    Romans 12, 1-2 tells to find God's will for You. 1. Pray 2. Don't let the world squeeze you into a mould you are not. Don't do something to change yourself into something unsustainable.

  • @user-kl1kf4wy9k
    @user-kl1kf4wy9k 2 месяца назад +1

    Yep, sadly liabilities Dr. C. 😖!!

    • @user-kl1kf4wy9k
      @user-kl1kf4wy9k 2 месяца назад +1

      Andrew, I did not have a business choice to make a decision.

    • @user-kl1kf4wy9k
      @user-kl1kf4wy9k 2 месяца назад +1

      Repent means to change LOL.

  • @Bluelightcheaphotel
    @Bluelightcheaphotel 4 месяца назад

    This pop psychology sweep in the church has demonstrated what's wrong with eisegesis. Take your bent and shoehorn scripture into it. Presto, you can sell books and people will lap it up

  • @brendinacollelo2556
    @brendinacollelo2556 Год назад

    Plse contact me if like to set a appt if I could