How To Save A Marriage | The Difference Between Sex and Intimacy
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A lot of men think that sex is intimacy.
Great topic, great video Rabbi Friedman.
I learned soooo much with this interview. Since then, I’ve been watching many other of your messages.
Thank you, beloved Rabbi.
I believe that the internet has ruin alot of relationship people are more interested in vanity than true love.
and porn and lust, yes, have replaced true love and intimacy!
Pornography is what kills relationships faster than anything else. Men are highly visual in everything sexual, so when a man sees something that ends in a very intense release, he tries to re-create that very release in bed with his wife. The important thing it, _SHE DOESN’T KNOW THE AGENDA,_ bc most men view porn alone. *THEY KNOW IT IS SHAMEFUL.* So as he’s going at it with the film in his head, he has his eyes closed, he’s not looking at her or responding to her signals or even requests....he’s just hammering away to that dirty film in his head. And I’m telling you from experience, _this behavior makes women feel cheap and used, like sexual objects instead of a much loved partner....she’s simply the living receptacle for his pornographic experience. And everybody knows, men have to systematically find more and more extreme sex in his pornographic experiences, bc the ones that used to turn him on are soon stale. _And when THAT happens, the intimacy is killed in the marriage, bc the man becomes ashamed about what has to happen for him to achieve orgasm, so he’ll turn to strangers-prostitutes-in order to feel the “thrill.” And don’t kid yourself....this rejection of the wife in the relationship kills something inside her, too, bc *SEXUALLY OBJECTIFYING YOUR WIFE OR PARTNER IS ABUSIVE.*
@@voraciousreader3341 Well said! ♥️But not for me.🔥 Shalom😑
Continue to teach my friend 👍
I love your teaching Rabbi.
May Hashem bless you Rabbi
And you as well Alfonso! (my grandpa's name) Shalom
Rabbi manis thanks for you Wisdom. You make me understand God better cause I always seek His kingdom, knowledge.
What like to here your views about sex before marriage
This has a lot of good meaning to it. Except the man that is doing the interview is very immature and doesn't understand it would be nice if somebody understood and failed to ask the questions for us to get the answers. And don't have it be about him
Thank you very much, Union of Souls. ( Intimacy )
Saludos desde México . More than ever we need this. Gracias.
Necessary advice thank you rabbi Friedman
I have enjoyed and gotten a great deal from your videos (and enjoyed your participation in the Patterns of Evidence films). The question I have from this video is can the women, during the two weeks outside her “period”, initiate the intimacy? Or is she expected to wait to see if her husband is “in the mood”. Thank you
First of all it's not if only her husband is in the mood it's if both of them are in the mood. He was just speaking about himself and not as him and his wife. And yes the wife can initiate intimacy whether it's even a peck on the cheek or whatever. But But should be intimate to both of them or if one initiates intimacy it should be sincere and meaningful not just routine. From both sides
@@edenpapich8259 thank you!
Thank you for a wonderful message 🙏🙏 may god bless you 🙏
Wisdon.. Baruch Hashem
Got the book now I will read
Thank you
Great! Thank you for sharing this. I have watched the interviewer’s channel also. So great for two great humans to get together! ❤
Great thank you for sharing
@SonistheFatherofMan thank you for being my husband. I hope our marriage can be preserved and strengthen
I have spent 16 years “BEGGING” my husband to make love to me. He has only had “sex” with me. I feel conviction every time we have sex, bc it was “naughty”, “rough”, “ECT”. I went to him very early on, telling him my natural desires- to be intimate with me- gentle, caressing, French kissing, make love to me, establish a bond, connection, intimacy. I asked him 2 years ago, to French kiss me (had an intimate talk in our bedroom bc he never would french kiss me) later that day, I go to kiss him (thinking we are going to French kiss), I start to French kiss him and he bites my bottom lip out of anger. I’m terribly scarred! I’m very pretty, I should have turned away from the very beginning. I’ve set myself up for failure. 4 children together. It’s heartbreaking! YOU SHOUKD NEVER HAFT TO BEG FOR YOUR HUSBAND TO MAKE LOVE TO YOU, even one time, let alone, 16 years!
Rabbi no one talked like you did..thank you
should give Peter a link in the description
Several times. As I was hearing this I was thinking that this interviewer just needed to (bless his heart) stop talking. He's trying so hard to grasp what is being said and get this objective applied that and some formula to DO this that it's not something that is really felt or known. Good job, but no need to try so hard 😊 PS The Rabbi is not speaking about only hasidics.
PS: "So you're marrying the love, you're not marrying her": Does this work the same way for women? If she is marrying the love but not marrying him, is that also a likely disaster? (I would imagine so).
I married to get on his insurance policy…I got pregnant at 20…31 years later 🥰…what an experience 😜
Thank you rabbi
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Rabbi Manis Friedman I always learn good things from your lecture, the secret of marriage is great, but who can be a judge for the challenges that husband and wife facing in their everyday life? Who knows the problems between husband and wife? Who is the judge between the two copulas? Only the Almighty God! Sometimes the Jews Rabbis, advices good to know before marriage. To build a good marriage life, both couples should understand and practice what is given the rules of God about marriage that is written on the holy bible about Marriage. Marriage life is very very challenged. But if both couples are committed and taking all good responsibilities throughout their marriage life, tmarriage
I am not married. Is marriage possible if one of the two people don't agree on having any relationship? What if a person who never drink, drunk by someone and is made to sleep with a girl he is not married. Is he even responsible or sinner if he is drunk by someone and is made to commit wrong with his own sister?
Nobody “makes” anybody do what’s wrong, OK?? Even when you’re drunk, you have free will, and you know right from wrong....you inhibitions are lowered, that’s all. A man can force a woman to have sex, but a man has to have an erection to have sex. *And anybody who has sex with his sister IS AN ANIMAL, DRUNK OR SOBER.* So if you’ve done that you *WERE NOT FORCED, even if you were drunk.* That’s just a sick excuse.
@@voraciousreader3341 Prophet Lot was also animal you fool. What you want to say? He was also sinner?
You are absolutely mad. You have no good logic.
I will try to find your book here instead of on Amazon. Thank you for your sharing. X
I am consumed and debilitated with pain.
I die. Just absolutely die inside.
I am suffocated and bereaved.
I am alone and terrified.
I cannot breathe.
I do not breathe.
I truly want to die.
I can no longer bear this pain and panic and loneliness.
I'm in hell with no escape.
I'm drowning.
I'm suffocated.
I'm all alone.
So very very very alone.
PANIC ATTACKS FLOOD MY BEING.
Every moment of every day: PANIC PANIC PANIC.
The past rapes me.
Rapes my soul.
He raped me.
He raped my soul.
HOW THE FUCK COULD HE DO THIS TO ME?
I am submerged in rage and grief
and terror an panic and SEVERE PTSD.
SEVERE SEVERE SEVERE PTSD.
I'm so all alone, and all I feel is trauma.
I am abandoned and betrayed; discarded.
LIKE GARBAGE.
I thought he was my best friend.
Debilitating paralyzing panicked pain:
My best friend abandoned and betrayed me.
I am suicidal and despaired.
Desperate. Breathless. Hyperventilating.
However, in the midst of this, I've learned these lessons:
- what him and I had: was an AMAZING BEAUTIFUL adventure!
for whatever reason, it wasn't meant to last...
I'm grateful though, to have had it for the 17-months, that we did
- everything happens gradually then suddenly...
- children make everything about themselves,
adults still do the same (very erroneous)
- I'm better without him because I want TRUE LOVE,
THE REAL THING. THE FULL MEAL DEAL.
he's better without me because he wants 100% focus on his businesses
and moving off-grid. ultimately, eventually: we'd just be in each other's way...
- NO MORE: Victim mindset
- NEVER talk shit about myself
- stop comparing self to others, put self on a pedestal
- stop taking shit personally, he has his wounds and traumas and insecurities, too!
- standards and boundaries
- inner child healing
- prioritize self
- be how you would be as a confident person
- be in alignment
- me and my two sisters are the generational curse/trauma breakers
in our blood line...🔥🔥🔥
Thank you Rabbi! No one can really argue on this topic.
This guy went into this chat rather cocky with a smirk on his face. Rabbi Friedman talked with intelligence and wisdom, so much so that this young guy was put in his place. The youngster's of today put having a boyfriend/girlfriend as one of their top prioritys in life, but have no idea what any of it is truly about, most are just ashamed to be single. Rabbi Friedman spelt it out, it's all about "respect".
Don’t think you really read that well. I think he was just nervous.
Marriage is social security.... And as a married woman I think there are better carreers available to women then never ending drudgery we call marriage.
Yep, how can you be intimate with someone who views you as a servant? Yuck.