Husband’s past, more “experience”, and being intimate?? | Girl Talk with my SISTER IN LAW!
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- Опубликовано: 23 июл 2024
- Hi everyone!
Welcome back to another video- it feels like we’ve been gone for a super long time. We were away on a work trip for a few weeks and are just getting back into our regular schedule.
We hope you enjoy this Girl Talk video with Summer, and let us know if you want to see another video like this!
As always, thank you for all the love & support. We’ll see you guys in the next one- a video of our Antalya all-inclusive resort experience! 🤍
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Summer is a natural in front of the camera! She did so good 🥰 please have her on for more videos 🤍
Samar* 😂😂😂
@@Minminel I already was thinking how does she have a white girl name 🤔😂
@@s.devries2644 😂😂
Summer is a natural! Loved her views too and how confident she is in herself. Her future husband will be a very lucky man ( if she wants to get married of course)
The beauty of nikaah, and the barakah Allah puts in your relationship once you're married, is unimaginable. Allah makes it so easy for the two of you to be intimate with each other, despite not being able to hold hands before marriage. It's beautiful, and calm, and understanding, but that beauty, calmness and understanding is placed in each other directly from Allah. That's the best way I can explain it.
I'm really scared to marry the wrong person but you give me hope. May Allah bless your marriage ❤
And that’s why it’s important to do things the halal way, so we can have Allah’s barakah. That means being very careful with “the talking stage” and having a mahram with you at all times before nikhah. That also means being careful with how you go about your wedding (intermixing/music/tabarruj are all ways that your barakah can be taken away)
May Allah grant us righteous spouses that will be the coolness of our eyes and may He put barakah in our relationships
Summer is so naturally beautiful, I don't even think shes wearing makeup. Whoever marries her is a lucky lucky man lol
Yes she is so beautiful. Her eyebrows are goals!
This RUclips video was so much fun to watch !! Hoping for a part 2. Please have Summer on for more video's she is so natural and her perspectives are so great to listen to. Sending love from South Africa!
Marriage is not a joke! Ideally it’s a forever thing! So yeah the sex talk is definitely recommended if you don’t trynna marry Christian Grey! You can have a respectful and non detailed conversation about expectations and boundaries.
Once you’re in, you can’t get out so easily.
Very interesting video 🥰
Totally agree! Great advice 🤍
I totally agree 😂💓
I busted out laughing when you mentioned Christina Grey!😂😭
Christian grey pls 😭😭😭
Yes, truee! It can be like a conversation about "what are your thoughts on sexual intimacy? Do u think consent is needed? Do you know about the postures that are forbidden in sexual intimacy? (eg: anal sex, etc.)" I think that would be a good, serious conversation to have on sexual intimacy before marriage.(edit: but you should definitely ask these questions when you've already established a close relationship with the person later on in life. It wouldn't be a good thing to ask these questions after getting to know them for like less than 6 months. To me personally, I wouldn't think it's an appropriate time to ask those questions)
summer is sooo pretty and i love the way she thinks please let her know shes precious and a such an intelligent lady may god bless you
I think it’s important to spread awareness about women’s rights and standing up against oppression in a marriage or standing up against the oppression thats happening around the world
Girls that was so much fun!😂♥️ Thank you & summer is a natural!
Summer is so inteligent and smart! I love how she talks and explain things. Love it! She can motivate and educate girls! Please do this duo again! 😍
Hey.. we are namesakes😁😁.. it's rare to find someone with the name Aida
I disagree with the question about talking about sex. I think it’s super important to talk about boundaries. some guys might think “oh I’m gonna get married, she’s gonna do x, y, z” when maybe in reality, the girl might only be ok with x or only okay with x and y. (i’m trying to say this as PG as possible). so I think 100% talking about expectations is important before you do ur kat-kitaab and bring families involved. you don’t want your marriage to start with you two having totally different expectations for your sex life
@@samaalduwaisan I know what u mean, but 11:30 they said “it’s def an after type of discussion”
Yes but if both parties know what is permissable in Islam
You actually don't need that discussion?? There's some things you can't do.
Firdows Kahn that’s not the only thing that matters. Some people have higher drives than others. Some people have unrealistic expectations too
@@firdowskahn1158 oh you’d be surprised. just because someone is Muslim doesn’t mean they adhere to what should be followed. just because someone’s muslim doesn’t mean u can assume they pray 5 times a day, fast, go to the Mosque, don’t smoke, don’t party, don’t sleep with other women etc. so yes, a conversation should be had unless you wanna get married only to realize your husband expects you to give him a blow job. you can’t assume someone follows their religion to the extent you do.
@@NarutoUzumaki-ky5jn exactly. if a guy I’m talking to had/have watched porn that’s something I need to know before marriage, not after.
As an aspiring lawyer YES TO THE CAREERS TALK it will be so insightful and interesting to see Summer’s perspective and how her experience as a hijabi has been in the legal industry EKKKKK PLEASE MAKE IT HAPPEN JASMINE I’D BE GRATEFUL FOR LIFE
It’s so good that you guys are discussing such a “taboo” questions.
I appreciate the rawness of this conversation💯
The way Jasmine talks is so heartwarming ngl
Jasmine I must say you are so spot on with the way you answer questions 💕also who wants another QnA careers related cause I do 😅😅❤️
Yes! I’d love to see a video about your careers! ♥️
Summer is so lovely 🥰 hopefully we can see her again in your channel 🙏🏼❤️
Jasmine your sister in law is GORGEOUS
Yes, please do a career Q&A! Great video and advice 🙏🏽
Ahh I love this girls! You guys are so inspiring and helping me to become a better person ❤💗
Summer is so cute and natural in front of the camera actually and she has some intresting point of views. Absolutely enjoyed this.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I needed this, perfect timing!!
This video opened my mind so much, you both gave such great advice! JazakAllah Khair
I LOVE yall together 🤣🤩!! I would LOVE to see a Q&A from Summer regarding her career as a lawyer as an aspiring attorney myself
i’ve always loved your girl talks!!!
Wow loved listening to you two🤗🤗 great advise, very similar or better said exact to my faith and I’m a Conservative Christian.
Blessing to you too!!
Loveeee these girl talk discussion videos! 🥰🤍
i love y’all relationship, and i loved this video you guys should definitely do a part 2
The most beautiful thing is that you guys have the same opinions cause of your religion which answers alot ❤
WE LOVE a jasmin with sister girl talk 💖💖
So funny !!😂😂I would love to see a career Q&A please love you so much guys❤️❤️🤲
We need more videos like this please! Ps : you both are sooo gorgeous MashAllah ♥️
In regard to the question about 'more sexual or emotional experience with other people', I wish I would have waited for my forever partner. It makes it so much more special, I think (and I'm not even religious). However, dating doesn't necessarily mean having sex with multiple people. Dating people, in my eyes, means getting to know them to see if something for long term could be in the cards. Please correct me if I'm wrong, but I feel like for Muslims and Christians as well, courting is seen as this huge thing that you only do with a potential partner, and it's seen as a 'bad' thing if it doesn't work out, but I see it more as in getting to know multiple people in order to get to know myself and what I do and don't like, without it being this sexual thing.
Yea as Muslims we believe that when you date someone your intentions have to be that this is someone i could marry unless you discover things about them that you don't like or if your morals or outlooks don't align.
@@nasrinsultana3319 I totally get those intentions. I think going into a relationship/courtship with someone should always be about that intention. I just also like to believe that dating could be more normalized (without the sexual parts of course) as a form to learn oneself and know what you do and don't like from a potential partner.
Yeah I get where you’re coming from. From an Islamic perspective and also a south Asian and middle eastern cultural perspective, you’re encouraged to wait until you’ve gotten yourself together and know yourself before adding another person into your life. I don’t know if dating should be used as a tool to learn about oneself. When one is ready to make that commitment, they’re a lot better at filtering out people that won’t meet their standards/needs without having to emotionally drain yourself with multiple people.
There is still a process of learning that happens when you seek out a forever partner. When both sides are looking for the same thing - cards are laid out upfront and things become clear as to whether or not you should be with this person very early on.
Lol that was a lot … I hope it made sense?
@@XoskittlezzoX It definitely makes sense! And maybe it is the 'better' way to go about it, I don't know... I've never given much thought about it all before, since culturally for me, it was seen as 'the normal thing' to date.
There is heaps of pretty good things about Islam in my opinion, but some things just don't really make sense to me as well. But I'm still trying to learn about the religion, so I might change my opinion on those things.
I am a muslim and i 100% agree with this. Casual dating can just be about getting to know someone inorder to find someone you like.
Your sister in law is so beautiful and natural and confident 🤍
"please dont give me a thumbs down"
I instantly gave you a thumbs up Summer
In regards to talking about intimacy before marriage is most definitely something to talk about even if it’s awkward because it is critical and you may find out something that’s important in making the decision to get married or not, and don’t delay too long in asking such related questions before getting emotional connection with the person because it’s important like asking about STDs, sexual history- as a potential partner you have all the right to ask and you should because you don’t want to end up finding out about your partner having STDs after the wedding, of course people can lie but that’s the wrong way to start a marriage and Islam doesn’t say you cannot ask/talk about intimacy before marriage because there are things that people may want to know before getting into the courtship and marriage .
I can always count on you for giving the best advice mashallah. Thank you for these girl talk videos you have no idea how much they help🙏🏻 may Allah bless you❤️❤️
a career oriented video would be amazing!
Love to see more videos with Summer😂😂😂
This was such a good video! Please invite her to be a guest star more often!!
These types of videos should be turned into podcasts!
Yesss, it would help the modern world a lot!
Summer you did fantastic! Would love to see you in more videos! And jasmine your sister as well!
OMG YESSSS TO THE CAREER TALK VIDEO !!!!
Jasmines expression in the thumbnail was so funny, I can’t 😂😂😂
Summer is so sweet and has such a calm energy, masha’Allah!
Big YESSS to career discussion videos🙌❣️
Heyy jasmine!! Woohooo new vid's out🤩
Interesting n fun bond w ur sister in law, u both look so great masyaAllah haha💕
This was really fun to watch! 😆
Excited for this video❤️❤️❤️
I love how both smile a lot 💖
These girl talks are soo interesting ❤️❤️
imo talking about sex before marriage is very important cause you need to understand and see if you two aligns on sexual boundaries. It's also important to figure out if your partner has any sexual disorders (both in physical health perspective and mental perspective) before you are married for the rest of your lives. For me personally it's a bit immature to not discuss that topic at all before marriage because I can't imagine how much of a nightmare it would be to only find out "red flags" related to sex after I am married to someone.
Agreed! I think two mature people can talk about sexual expectations and boundaries before marriage without disrespect!
Now! This is something that you can’t do with someone you just met, it has to be serious!
What would be classified as red flag?
@@bbydino I don't think there's "right" or "wrong" answer when it comes to red flags because everyone has their own preferences. What I can think of on top of my head right now is that I would definitely want to know if my partner (whom I am in a serious committed relationship with) has any sexual transmissive diseases. Some people might find it important to know if their sex drives aligns too. It could also be a deal breaker if between a couple one person finds something sexually arousing while the other find it hard to accept. Again there's no right or wrong answer but I think it's important to make sure the person you choose to be your life partner is a good fit for you in all aspects.
I agree. Its very uncomfortable and should be kept at a vrry respecful and factual conversation but certain expectztions should be discussed, like what you would not feel comfortable with, see if they are understanding of not doing "it" on the firsf night. Also due to waiting for marriage many guys in the muslim community turn to pornography and i would like to know about that since it can have a huge negative impact on our sex life as a couple. But def an awkward convo and should not turn flirtacious, boundaries should be kept as you are not yet married.
I agree, I think it should be factual and formal, just setting a couple boundaries and facts, like any STD’s or can’t get pregnant, I don’t think you should talk about kinks and arousing things before marriage tho.
Definitely need to do more videos with Summer tht would be great!!! X
Really enjoyed your talk and different perspectives! You look like sisters, both beautiful MashaAllah x
Both of you are adorable! I binge on your advice!
love her! a business q&a would be amazing!!
More Jasmine and Summer videos please!! I love the SIL duo 😍😂
Please more videos with summer! ❤
Summer is so prettyyyy I like her teeth xD MashaAllah she’s so beautiful. That joke in the beginning, anyone would be lucky to look like you but she’s just amazing as herself already
Summer, you and jasmine together rock!
I think having a talk about it sex is important. Keeping the intention of the reason for talking. Not to get turned on but to get informed. Make sure both parties are safe, learn about them, etc
1- it's religiously not accepted to get so intimate and open to a non-mahram.
2- What kind of questions are you going to ask? Like what position he likes most? How often he wants sex? I mean whatever question, it is so inapropriate and cringy.
3- Say you two could'nt get along, that person will know your very very personal and intimate information, are you going to let it happen? Do you trust that person that he will not spread rumours about you?
@@m.s.b4332 and there are always gentle and okay ways to talk about it, without talking intimate details….
@@m.s.b4332 See the thing is you’re taking it too far, and not once did I talk about being inappropriate. Of course you’re going to keep the right intention when talking and you’re going to be appropriate and an adult when wanting to learn about that. So I don’t appreciate you making that kind of assumption saying that this is what I will be talking about if I’m trying to learn that about the person. There are other ways to learn about a person without going too far and crossing boundaries boundaries.
@@samartime4374 exactly sis!
A man needs to know that he should be respectful in the bedroom as well and respect a womens intimate desires and comfort level!
Thats the main thing to get across if ur going to be talking about sex!
Someone else also said sex safety! Stds not being able to have children all of that should be told sooner rather than later!
@@mfar7400 I swear the guys on social media act like such a prude and think it’s such a taboo topic to discuss!
And then when they do make assumptions, they go completely past the line and make it seem like the women are sexual being who are being inappropriate. SMH…
Like if I want to learn that you have STDs, I have every right to…
Safe sex should 100% be discussed
Anyways. He’s an umbilical boy. Who can prob never please a lady
Thank you for your reply!
More videos with summer please 😂 y'all made me laugh
I feel like I was listening to my favorite podcast. Please do more girls talk vid.
I’m not Muslim but I feel like these topics are important because there is many young women with questions I know I was one lol I was clueless 💖
I love this duo ngl ❤
Masha Allah loved your video. The answers to the questions was spot on. Excellent answers as it should be like that. Lots of love from England.
I really loved Summer 😍I wish you'll take more video with together🥰 I want to watch your conversation about how you grew up as a Lebanese in a foreign country. 🙏
Loveeeee youuu guys😩💓
That was so interesting!!! I love this new duo 😎
Wow!! MashAllah Summer is so intelligent and wise 💗💗
Thank you soooo much for this. 😭😭😭❤️
So glad you're back Jasmine!!!
Sits to watch girl talk video even though I'm a guy and have no business being here LOL
For your future reference bro 😉
Ahhh she is so cute Ma Shaa Allah,🥺🥰 Allahuma barik to both of you❤️
amazing. i love this ❤️
Omgg Jasmine is so cool as always
But i love Sammar more and more after every answer
I hope there are more videos with Sammar
Girls talk are best
Lots of love Jasmine and Sammar 💕
I LOVE ur videos and i actually enjoy watching them hhahahh
Samar you are so. Natural and spontaneous on the camera and i liked the way you have talked so much keep it and let see you again
I love them togethert their bants and energy together 😂😂
yesss pls more with summer
Love Summer! She's so wise and mature and gives really good advice! Jasmine as always is so fun!! ❤️ May Allah bless you all. Aameen🤲🏻
Great video. I see a trend where Muslim women are told to lower their standards, or settle when it comes to finding a husband, but Muslim men are told to have very high standards and not to settle. They get to say they want someone that looks like Barbie but we are expected to go for badly built bodies, bad teeth, bald heads, and he may have a past.
Facts
Lower standar is the worst thing to do because the things you settled for will eventually bother you few years after.. never settle
What is considered a “Badly built body”?
@@arabianprinceflyeaglesfly1700 Maybe fat, smelly, unhygienic beard or body
@@arabianprinceflyeaglesfly1700depends on the person.
Summer 😍 is so the girl every Muslim mom wants for her son! quelle belle 👌loved xoxo this vid
It’s the smile your guys have the same smile
Yes, please do a career orientated Q&A! I'm also a law student in Germany and I would love to learn from your experience in Canada!
What do mean career orientated
Great thanks for your time ladiess🤗🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Waaw guys, I've just got a lecture about marriage lovee this kind of videos
I was totally against marriage idea until I turned 24 , it's like a sudden switch I didn't decide to get but it happened automatically
i want more videos with summer
I agree that it's better to be with the right person ☺️
Yaaaaaay she is so adorable （╹◡╹）♡
Im so excited to watch that video
Yes I wanna see more videos with summer
Girls you are both beautiful. And summer Si such a matur girl. Grettings an blessings from Cuba.
Summer is so beautiful n natural....no airs
Missed your videos. 💕
I would love if you guys did a career video and what you do, and career ideas!!
the dying monstera plant in the back 😂😂😂
I’m so excited
Love u guys from algeria🇩🇿❤
ما شاء الله ماأحلاكم السلام من تونس 🇹🇳
Yes please do a video for new graduates entering the business world 🌎