How I Conquered My Video Game Addiction
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Join me for an insightful discussion on overcoming video game addiction. In this video, I'll share my personal journey and delve deeper into what I've termed the 'professional tipping point'-a pivotal moment where the innate drive to be productive triumphs over the tendency to procrastinate and indulge in time-wasting activities.
Conquering video game addiction often involves reaching a critical juncture where the desire for personal growth and productivity outweighs the allure of gaming. I'll explore the intricate process of identifying and harnessing this tipping point, sharing practical insights and strategies that aided me in overcoming this addiction.
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00:00 - Preview
00:16 - Introduction
01:05 - Grammarly Ad
02:09 - Capture your creative impulses/reflect on what you've done
08:50 - Indriyas
10:57 - Dealing with boredom
18:53 - Recap & conclusion
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Can you make video about non verbal learning disorder?
I didnt understand because I was looking for solutions coming from outside, because I think theres something wrong with me. I get corrected, I understand whats the problem but i cant seem to find the solution by myself. Hope it helps. I have discovered whats bothering me and I can track pretty much back to when i was a child. But i cant seem to find a solution when i am in need of it. I loose focus and loose balance
I'm not even really a gamer and I don't watch twitch, but I love this content so much more than most other psychology/therapy/personal-improvement oriented content because you do a phenomenal job of contextualizing things with a story, explaining the neurological mechanisms at play, and structuring it like a conversation. I feel engaged by your content and I always learn something about myself and, most importantly, I learn WHAT I need to address to fix these problems as well as your tips on how to address it, rather than just being told "just work harder, put your phone down, stay motivated..." by someone who just wants to tell people what to do for the sake of gaining a following.
Yep, same. I'm not a gamer, but Dr K is my favorite and I've learned so much and made such a difference in my life.
@Tim Gehrsitz Same here, and brilliantly put.
Exactly my thoughts
Me too!
What's so great about dr.K is that he gives acknowledgement to a person's thoughts feelings and experiences, it's amazing
I can relate so much to this. As a paramedic of over a decade, I used to get exceedingly frustrated when we would get a call while I was "doing" something to manage my boredom.
It quickly devolved into me becoming jaded and disinterested with my profession. Tolerating my own boredom for a period of time led me to discovering creative writing and re-inspired my interest in the theoretical aspects of my profession. Strong work, and great video!
Congrats! This is super hard to do, attempting to do it myself with a new work from home job! Keep it up!
Yes! If you let yourself get angry when your gaming gets interrupted, you're conditioning your brain to have a negative reaction to that thing. When that thing is your career, you're putting yourself into dangerous territory
I'm generally prone to burnout, and I'm relieved to have come across Dr K's story/advice and your comment at the right time, because I've just begun EMT school. Glad to see that you're still going strong and connecting to the meaningful parts of your career! I'm keeping this in mind from now on.
I noticed I got this way with weed and with games. I've stopped both. Do you still play games or have you quit altogether? I would like to go back but can't see how they fit into my life anymore without them getting their hooks back in.
Man this is really relatable, I just realized I started hating my profession ever since I worked the night shift version for a year.
I've heard of this concept for ADHD called "Lightning in a Bottle", meaning that in order to get that spark or dopamine hit, you go and look at the things that made you want to do them in the first place (A journal of ideas, a mood board, etc.)and let me tell you, it works. But sometimes at the wrong times baha!
Have any resources for this? All I can find on google is a book about entrepreneurship but I feel this concept would help me and I want to learn more.
As someone who's worked in a call center, I can definitely relate to Dr. K's experience with being on call. I noticed that when I spent time between calls browsing social media, I felt resentful whenever I was forced away from it, and because of that, working actually felt miserable. But when I didn't have time between calls, or if I just allowed myself to be bored, working was a lot more pleasant.
And I can definitely second jotting down one's thoughts. After I began sketching a year ago, I've noticed that I've become a lot more naturally drawn towards being creative - whereas before, trying to do anything creative was incredibly hard. I'm still nowhere near the tipping point that Dr. K describes.
_I noticed that when I spent time between calls browsing social media, I felt resentful whenever I was forced away from it, and because of that, working actually felt miserable. But when I didn't have time between calls, or if I just allowed myself to be bored, working was a lot more pleasant._
🤦♂👏wow
that hit hard
thank you
Meanwhile I actually need breaks to not be miserable and can't stand it if I have to juggle multiple rush jobs (does not happen often, but when it does, vert stressful). My previous job had a big workload and unrealistic expectations of what a 4 man service desk can do within a big office that has upto 5000 employees. That stress og that clustercluck made me really toy with the idea of jumping off the bridge I was walking on everyday and that was only part of the reason I quit. The fact they did not pay me for 2 months did not help (got paid after plenty of threats, some of which I made good on by quitting).
I got zero tolerance on having my pay messed with.
another one of those uncannily timed videos, I just started writing between calls yesterday and felt better despite spending all day fighting a major breakage at my workplace
Congrats! I’m in the same boat, good luck to us moving forward!
“apathy’s a tragedy and boredom is a crime, anything and everything all of the time”
-bo burnnam
This is a great middle piece between 'Is Progress in Gaming Destroying your Real Life' and 'Why Video Games Are Hard To Put Down' and 'Dr. K, how do I Focus?'. Your ideas actually hang together as a complete system to understand the self and rewrite our behavior in a holistic way. Literally the first self help guru who has helped me to help myself. Thanks for the continued work 👍📿📿📿
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Someone needs to put everything together and connect all the content.
@@Ropewatch Some already has made an unofficial Dr. K guide to studying
@@leonardodavinci4259 link?
this is a really interesting video, I loved the story about being on call. I hope that you do more personalized "take away" videos like this, they're great.
I just watched this 4 times in a row to really embed it into my brain. Dealing with boredom is a huge problem for me and I always feel very unproductive. Amazing vid, thank you!
I had a similar experience happen to me!! I work in an inpatient psychiatric and we can't use our cell phones on floor. I have ADHD and i need something to take notes with to remember everything. I found i started jolting down notes and ideas to help my patients in my notebook when i had free time. I also draw and color in it now too and i find its much much easier to pay attention while coloring then just staring down a hall. I find that I cannot stop writing ideas now even at home. I used to only care about video games, now all I want to do is to use my ideas to help my patients. I love my job now.
I'm a teacher with ADHD and I use my downtime to plan lessons and think about what I want to do throughout the week. It doesn't feel like "toxic productivity" to me because, as you know, you have to leverage your productivity when you can and I would rather use my spurts of creative freedom than squander it.
Aside from the content of this video, which is incredibly valuable for me right now, I LOVE the design of the room you film in. The green accent wall with the white shelves and the plants, CHEFS KISS
Damn you have the same avatar as one of my friend :D
It seems like the editor finally chilled out a bit with this video. This video reminds me of the OG content when he was just chilling and talking to us. Love it! It's still pretty cut and pasted but it's not as jarring as previous videos so it feels more like I'm listening to a lecture rather than some other type of content
also want to add the little blue panes where it highlights the important points is W. it was very helpful cuz it motivated me to pause and analyze
The audio is quite fucked, though.
@@Eminent_wolf same. Visual summaries of key points really help me categorize the info in my brain.
it seems like you have great eye power!!
@@noyama9166 it's called Sharingan
I had to decide that I was in a codependent, abusive relationship with gaming developers who demanded I ignore their deliberate gaslighting to manipulate my behavior into time-sucking labor.
The game, if it was based on factual ability stats, transparent matchmaking and true freedom of association/disassociation - was not inherently addictive.
What’s “addictive” is forcing players into a codependent whirlpool of algorithmic gaslighting where they lust for fair validation, constantly encounter unfair rejection, and are denied meaningful proportional data about their part in the product’s worldwide metrics.
Im sorry that happened to you tay. ❤️
"Fair" matchmaking was deemed as "less than optimal" as it does a poor job at keeping people playing. What they do instead is a game of roulette, where the difficulty is curated by strategically facing stronger opponents against weaker opponents. It does 2 things. It gives the stronger player validation that they are a good player, they got their payoff. For the weaker player, it angers them, which ironically increases engagement. They were denied their dopamine hit. They must play another match for it. And when it happens again, they must play another match for it.
Basically, instead of using matchmaking to make fairer games, the most popular games use it to make less fair games. Where matchmaking actually is plotting against you, as negative emotions are more likely to keep you playing.
Barely understood what you wrote there but…chocolate rain?
@@franciscogolden1 🤣🤣🤣
What game did you play?😅
Man I'm so glad I decided to watch this video while bored at work 🤣I'm a programmer and things can get very chaotic. But also a lot of the time there's not much to do and not a lot of pressure to do what little needs to be done (especially now that it's summer where I live, since most clients are on vacations), so I end up getting bored and watching RUclips and procrastinating way too much. After watching this I unironically feel so motivated to just close YT and get everything done so I can have time to be productive in other stuff, so that's exactly what I'm gonna do now :) Thanks doc!
You sure that was his message? I thought it wasn’t about making time for productivity which is what I am currently understanding about your take away. I understood it as using small amounts of time to get in touch with your creativity and then to review your creative impulses and that in the long term (years even) would grow into true motivation to be productive rather than using willpower to force productivity. Let’s face it, we all know what productivity is but we fail at willing it in ourselves. To be more than a temporary situation we must have an internal motivation coming from our essential self and core values.
Programmer here with similar problem. I agree with the other responder, what you've described sounds to me like a burst of productivity, not the self-fueling cycle of creativity
I've been a competitive PC gamer for over a decade now, and many times I've found myself sitting for 12+ hours grinding Rust or League. I still casually return to those games sometimes but as Dr.K says at the very end of the video, once you reach a point where you actually become distracted FROM THE GAME because you have a handful of creative thoughts to pursue, things really do begin to swing in your favor. The smile at the end tells it all, and it's very satisfying to know that I can honestly say I've done the work and can now connect with that feeling he explains.
Even though I'm not where I want to be professionally, I've been on a great path for the last few years and can't wait to see what the future holds.
Loved the cuts from the livestreams, but this new format of dedicated RUclips lectures is SO GOOD
I am constantly in shock at how you're able to put form to thought considerations I have. I have been doing this completely unknowingly since I was 5 years old and the whole way through I was constantly discouraged from it (likely early ADHD showing its teeth since I'd focus too much on it, I'm diagnosed now!). It became my method of maintaining sanity at work, and my most successful jobs were ones that I could get away with it. I found I used to be in a loop of wanting to play games and then wanting to think of ideas, but lately I only ever want to play a game if for an idea! I thought I was broken but just this shift in perspective has enlightened me to how I've actually grown.
Thank you.
This really resonates with some realizations I came too recently. Particularly that walking away from a game didn’t mean I was actually away - I’d be reading guides, discussing on Reddit, reading patch notes etc.
When I started to feel empty I couldn’t put my finger on why, until I started following impulses outside of gaming. I’ve started to look at some of those creative impulses and take action and it’s wild to see the life I am living now vs where I was even a year ago
Productivity used to intimidate me, I never could understand people who I viewed as always “on.” What could anyone get out of working so hard? I would think.
Wholeness, is what I’m finding.
Well it depends on what they mean with ""Productivity""
I hate that Word because where i grew up, being ""Productiv"" means working even more extra Hours at your Work for verry little Money.
I love how detailed your awareness and communication is of your psychological processes, behaviour, and how their interactions contribute to this critical type of development! I think this is very insightful and uniquely encouraging because of how relatable the details are in terms of the experience.
This guy is gem. His ideas, suggestions, and methods actually works not like others random people on the internet who talks so excessively but eventually come to no point that can actually practically work. I saw only a few videos but every time I saw he surprised me because he is most relatable guy and I can actually think much more creatively after watching such videos.
You made me realize that I practiced this on my own yesterday before ever watching this video. It was Sunday and I kpet bouncing between games and youtube, not really enjoying any of it. I was about to jump back onto a game but I was hit with "do I really want to do that?" So I sat with that thought for a min and started doing things OFF SCREEN. Felt good :)
Dude, i love you! I have never been a gamer, but I am ADD and a mother of 4 boys who are ADHD, ages 16, 29, 37 and 39.What I connect with is your train of thought, and wanting to help others around you. I connect with their friends and everyone I meet. My mind is always problem solving. I super appreciate your videos about people with diagnosis's. I realized my daughter in law is borderline, and you have helped me deal with that. Your interview with the guy planning the school shooting was amazing! That poor guy should have had help, God bless the cheer leader reaching out to him! He really touched on so many problems with our society. I hope you can reach more people to share your knowledge and promote psychiatric help. You are showing people therapy is not scary or judgmental. Thank you!
Randomly saw this on my feed and really needed to hear it. There are so many creative pursuits of mine that have sat still for years because I haven't committed that continued focus on them and have convinced myself I never have the energy for anything after a day's work than playing a game.
Instant subscribe. Thank you for sharing this insight!
Even as someone who is not a gamer this is so insightful and helpful!!
This is such a better way of looking at this. So much of my thinking around this was "if I don't get better at this, I'll die without ever doing anything worthwhile". It's so helpful to hear it framed as a "tipping point" - a point anyone can reach, after which harnessing your creative energy becomes easier.
For me, this is the best educational channel on RUclips hands down. There I see the discussion of real problems that I have and see concrete advice to follow, divided into steps, even. Thank you for this!
Your mic sounds like Psychomantis from metal gear solid lol
best therapist ive encountered online, so good at explaining and being straight to the point
Thanks man - your videos make so much sense to me and have been more helpful to me than all the others I've seen all put together. Your content has made a huge impact on my life. I'm 47 and struggled my whole life to come to terms with myself, and it feels like I finally have the tools to start climbing that hill. Short story - I've been wanting to get back into learning Python programming and tinkering with microelectronics for almost 2 years now. Yet every time I sit in front of my PC I rather try to find entertainment in one of my many games. I stopped having fun playing games a few months back and have become aware I need to give it a break. Your video motivated me to swap PC's with my son - I set up the flashy Windows gaming desktop for him, and set up his small form factor repurposed office PC with Linux, dev tools and ebook reader for myself. He's having fun exploring the world of PC gaming - I'm lucky that he leans towards what I call "learning and fun" (games like Spore, Minecraft, etc) so I don't have to babysit him too much. And I'm having fun learning Linux and have less distractions from more constructive pursuits when I sit at my PC. Everybody wins and not a cent spent.
I needed this video like 3 years ago... well it's a good thing that i've watched it now then never. ty 4 the input.
A fantastic video, Dr. K. I would like to add that, even when you are having fun with dopaminergic activities you still are productive after getting over that tipping point. You are more able to connect important ideas and integrate them into the play, making it a incredible opportunity for social learning of everyone involved.
Thank you so much for this! This is something I really needed because I've been struggling with feeding my boredom that I've lost so much productive energy. This is the direction I want to head towards :)
Your personal story of being On-Call hits me hard as an HVAC repairman who likes creative writing and just did 15 hours in one day lol
This video is massive. Thank you for taking the time to make this, Dr. K. I'm going to try and incorporate some of this into my life.
My thought process has changed so much, all thanks to you. Unfortunately, personally for me, two years of psychiatrist appointments, medicine and weekly therapist haven't helped as much. Discovering your channel was validating and truly eye-opening. Thank you so much!
Thank you for this video! This makes me want to act, starting with reflecting on my actions and looking at what my peers are doing critically
It’s incredible that every new video you produce is a gift!
This video is so underrated. I think it's one of the best and one of the most important video that I really needed to watch. Thank you for that!
Awesome content man! I have learned much from you over the last few years but I feel this one may be the best yet! Thank you.
Love the content in this video! It’s exactly what I’m currently struggling with.
This video spoke to me soooo much. I have had a lot of “boring time” at work, and eventually even RUclips/podcasts became boring, and my brain started to explore creative outlets more. Which is more exciting and rewarding to me, and even if I couldn’t work on it at work I would write down every thought I had about it.
ive been gaming like a loser for almost 30 years, not so sure my drive for productivity exists anymore but you are soooo right
That idea of "riding my boredom" is exactly what I need the most right now. I often find myself wanting to do things that I care about but then certain thoughts start to arise and I reasolve to my impulses like some primitive caveman. I'll try that out and see how it works for me!
a few months ago I wouldn't have believed it but I am now going through this tipping point. It wasn't a conscious choice like yours, or I guess maybe it was just a little different; I was playing video games and smoking weed so much that eventually I built up a resistance to both and neither would "do it" for me anymore. I got so tired of being bored and procrastinating that the only thing left I hadn't done in a while was try. So I picked up a guitar and tried. I picked up a book and tried. Like you said it started slow but eventually those few seeds I was able to capture bore the fruit that is maintaining me right now. Now I'm back on track to finishing my career and reconnecting with the people that matter to me. And becoming once again a person who will matter to others. You describe it so well and sometimes I feel bad for looking at some of these videos or outside sources instead of refining these sentiments and thoughts on my own into their own unique shape but then I remember that that option never really goes away. The way I described it initially was that I finally got bored of being bored, and leaned into it. Glad to see how far the channel has come and that you are still keeping it true to the core. Much love
I’m happy for healthy gamer for taking sponsorships and growing their business so that they can help more people ❤❤
This is really profound for me. Ive had this same idea even though ive not thougt about it in such a holistic way and this video really made it click for me. I'm currently trying to reduce my amount of distraction with entertainment as ive started with ADHD medication at the age of 30. Ive built up so many bad habits during my life and it's very hard to break them, but i finally feel able to do it due to the meds. As a musician ive always had tons of little ideas that i record on my phone (like journaling) but i just leave them there. Ive had a lot of anxiety about that which has just magnified the problem but i never thought about going back to just reflect on those ideas as a way to cultivate my creativity.
Thank you for all your videos, it feels like you understand a lot, most people just don't know yet
Your channel has changed my life, thank you, your videos keep getting better
I must thank you so much. This is the channel i have been looking for. Your explanations in this vid and in others fit my personal struggels so well and describe my behaviour so perfectly and somehow i got the feeling to have an explanation for what i think i am constantly doing to prevent myself from achieving my goals. Greetings form germany!
I love this. I'm not a gamer but I do have a weed addiction/habit that meant daily use for many years. People like to generalise with drug use that it's down to past traumas, but I honestly think it's down to boredom. My mind is so used to being entertained/high in the evenings that when I don't have that stimulus it freaks out. I've been managing it over the past few months and my life is way better without it. Really good tips on harnessing your creative ideas as well. Thanks as always Doc 🙏🏽
Honestly, the things your describing are what have started happening to me. I have a lot of shame and Ive opened up to my family. Ive always wanted to make a comic book and once i started chasing that, realizations about how i see myself came to light, all the Dr. K, philosophy, and experiences finally clicked into place and im getting astronomically better for my own sake. It is really bizzare 😂
Amazing video Dr K! This is so relevant to me right now. Gonna try to apply it in real life. Thank you so much for doing what you do
This helps me understand my most creative and fulfilling time in my life, and the deep depression that followed. I think I self sabotaged myself so bad when covid lockdown hit, that I neglected and killed the 'grove', which turned it from a source of rich stimulating self-amplifying fruits, to a dark pit of rotting compost that I drowned in.
this video is actually so helpful. The advice about paying attention to your creative impulses is so true. I do this with music and I never even realized it. The nice thing about investing more into your creative impulses is that you actually get satisfaction out of it. I mindlessly play video games all day and feel dissatisfaction or nothing at all, but just spending half an hour writing feels so satisfying, and I can even look back on what I did and feel the same way.
Howd you capture your creative impulses with music?
This was so profound and apropos for me. It was exactly what I needed to hear!
I just wanted to be good at something and figured it would be easier to get good at games since I enjoy them more. But I am too bad at games for that. But even when I didn't play video games for 4 months, I had no motivation to do anything. I think life itself just wears me out and I am constantly burnt out and have no option but to keep on going. I just want to sit in my room all day and never leave.
One of Dr K's best videos! Thank you!
This is great. Just recently I realized "I'm really good at procrastinating, so maybe I should use that to my advantage." When I have an impulse to do something because I'm bored that's not productive I try to at least think "ok let's at least brush my teeth and take the trash out"
And sometimes that gets me on a dopamine train of accomplishing shit unless I'm just really truly exhausted. Then next thing know I spent an hour cleaning and just letting my mind wander and by the time I'm done I no longer want to drink or game I prolly want to build legos or work in my garden.
Thanks for the conclusion at the end Doc!
Thanks Dr. K!
Healthy Gamer best thing to happen, Dr K with another great vid.
Ty DrK , after playing 1h30mins of WoW after not playing videogames for 2 months I felt a huge pike in stress and also a big dopamine drop,
And then a bigger dopamine drop because it made me think that I will probably not play videogames anymore.
So hearing that you can find balance while being productive gives me hope.
Ty DrK
This was very helpful and informative thank you HG!
dr k, apko hazar topon ki salami. sada khush rahein aap.
Just what I needed. Thanks!
Great video as always! One thing I'd like to add from another Dr. K video I saw is for people with low conscientiousness (trait of motivation) to not think they've achieved some type of motivated state whenever they get to the point Dr. K described where you can play a game and it seemingly having no impact on your productivity. In that video he talks about utilizing a hypothetical bank of motivation where some activities withdraw from your motivation bank and others deposit into it (gaming would for instance require a withdrawal), and that it is important to realize how if this is your method of motivation, i.e. you don't have a trait to constantly motivate you, then you will never achieve some type of immunity from falling back into the hole you've just climbed out of, it gets a hell of a lot easier to maintain that state of motivation, but I say this as some one who has let himself believe that I was finally out and experienced this kind of gaming where it doesn't seemingly affect you, but slowly and surely the frequency of games ramp up and all of a sudden I was back in the degenerate addict lifestyle where I started, all because I thought I was finally out for good.
This may sound incredibly negative but like I said, when you're out it's so easy to keep yourself motivated, all you have to do is realize that there's always a risk and warnings will start to pop up in your head whenever you're slipping a bit. I'm currently doing great with a post-it note on my bathroom mirror that reads "Once an addict, always an addict" as a reminder. Best of luck!
This is masterful to be able to articulate the intricacies of how our mind operates. Great stuff here
Another banger video. Thank you Dr. K for changing my perspective.
One of my fave HG videos. Took notes on the three steps and Indriya. Really have to sirround yourself with things that you want to do more of. Definitely will not be pulling out my shows next time im on the plane. Riding out boredom instead.
Really lost touch with creative impulses after getting a corporate job. Need to get back into it!
Needed this, today Doc. Great work as usual
Thank you for this
This year I started my professional life after graduating from university, and it has been a constant learning about my own discipline.
Although everything has turned out well so far, it has not been easy and every day I have been able to learn more about myself professionally.
This video is so funny to me. Your help (videos and Dr. K's guide) got me to the professional tipping point in my work as an attorney over the course of the last year. And I just saw this video for the first time tonight!
And I beat my videogame addiction with your help - before I saw this video! HAH! You rock.
Journal for the win. I love the new edits!
Y'all have really stepped up the editing game. Turned out really well!
I didn’t noticed any audio issues when playing through my iPhone speakers at a distance, perhaps it’s an issue for headphones users? Again, a kind reminder to Dr. K. like “hey dr. K the audio may be off! Also may need a retouch of the ad time stamps! Overall thanks for the video and have a good day!” is a great way to be kind yet informative!
We got this guys ❤️🥰 sending love and support
It's because that part of the spectrum sucks on phone speakers, so you expect it!
It is intentional to give you less dopamine from watching the video
Had to go basically homeless to cure my addiction, I use to put my whole being into gaming , didn’t matter the game , but I was running from myself. I turn 30 in April and I know I need to reprogram myself if I want to live a fulfilling life. They tell me it’s not real , Gaming has nothing to do with real life…All in All , I don’t wanna bother anyone, or hurt anyone physically or verbally. I just want to stop wasting my time on what everyone thinks of me , and find confidence in myself… Godspeed Y’all
That was what i needed,thank you
Another banger vid! Thanks Dr. K
Great advice for artists!
Very enrishing, very helpful. Thanks Dr K.
This explains everything! I always tell my friend "the hardest part is starting." Once I do I can do it for hours and lose myself doing it.
Something I have learned regarding dealing with creativity and boredom (11:54) is how to “double reward” my creativity. For example (I’m an artist) when I get an idea of something to draw, my first impulse is to turn on a video to listen to because that’s half the fun of art for me, but instead I’ll make myself work and develop my idea for 15-30 minutes to which greatly increases my creativity and when I’ve fully mapped everything out I’ll turn on a video
This is a good thing for me to hear today. Thank you.
Unironically a life changing video, thanks
I'm liking the annotations and figures!
Thanks for the tips. I'll give it a try. This is what i want for a long time, and now i hope i know how to do it.
This is *the* subject that speaks directly to me, and I don't even play video games, I watch RUclips. For years now I've been dumbfounded and immensely annoyed by the fact that the thing I enjoy most is being productive/getting concrete things done, but most of the time I just can't get myself to do anything aside just wasting time and feeling miserable for having thrown the whole day to the trash with nothing to show for it (*both* during the activity and after). It seems like such an obvious paradox: door A has "AVOID, this mostly feels bad and always makes you feel bad after" written on it, but it's what open most of the time instead of door B that says "You should pick this one since you always have had fun doing it, and you always feel good for having done it.".
It feels so obviously wrong, but it's how my mind functions most of the time for some reason.
this super helpful to me, I am dealing with some kind of identity crisis after i stop playing video game for like 1 week. What you just said is kinda happened to me, I survived the boredom and now my mind is kinda thinking about something that I have to do. Our brain is so interesting.
The value of this vid is absolutely incredible
Thank you dr k,I’ll give this a try
Thank you DR.K.
Must be nice to have a job that actually enables creativity to some degree. Nothing in my field needs creativity nor productivity for all that matters, and sure as hell it does not have any "dead time". The shift is a full on throttle from start to finish. There would be no reason for me to actually endure boredom when I'm not working and I don't have to do something else, hence why I started playing videogames. Good insight though, it's always so interesting to hear other's experiences.
Amazing video, thank you.
@8:45 I relate a lot. When I was using a white board daily, it helped me wake up and have a display with ideas of things to do or what needs to get done. And while reading those things it would remind me of other things. And then I got extra dopamine by being able to wipe off the task or check it off when I finished.
i think i am experiencing this tipping point recently. good to know what to properly do now
This is so helpful!
I think I can confidently say that I've overcome game addiction but I am struggling with internet addiction. It's the addiction that I seem to have a deep attachment to and live on autopilot everyday to feed it. I feel like I've neared my professional tipping point so many times but never ventured past the tip.
Hey Dr.K! Really love this video as a writer/creative this is really reassuring and something I've slowly been discovering myself so, hearing you put it into words helps! I do have a question though. Sometimes I get the "creative impulses" but stop myself from capturing them. I'm not absolutely sure why this happens because I really do want to be productive - I think I get stuck in not knowing how to properly capture my ideas in a way that they can be useful later on without there being a huge learning curve that distracts from the actual creative process. To give an analogy it's like if I had a story I wanted to animate but then I have to spend more time learning how to use animation software instead of actually creating the story but if I don't learn the software it's hard to turn my ideas into something valuable and useful and so, I feel like my creativity isn't productive and avoid doing it all together. Essentially how do you turn writing or ideas in general into a bigger project and not feel like you're just in the void doing things with no idea how it could become anything?
I think you may be overwhelming yourself with the idea of a perfect outcome / finished product, which is impossible. It's strange that you separate the "learning curve" from the creative process because you actually learn from pursuing that creative idea. Sure, you can task yourself with the goal of learning the entirety of a software before using it. But doesn't it make more sense to learn it as you need to use it? For any creative pursuit, you ought to have fun with it, fail as much as you possibly can, and learn from that.
If you really want to make something of your ideas the unfortunate reality is that you need to learn the tools for it sooner or later. There's no way around it.
At first it'll be frustrating and you really won't get the results you want, especially if you work on something you're passionate about instead of something that's deliberate practice, but it's a necessary part of the process.
Also, if you need to prepare yourself that not everything about the making the idea come to life will be part of that passionate creative process. Animation especially, as it takes so much effort for small results. But if you don't let that scare you you really can end up making amazing stuff and feel so much satisfaction about making *your own* ideas.
Thank you for this video. After watching I put my phone down and loaded the dishwasher and then spent an hour and a half cleaning out my closet. I had the urge to pick up my phone several times but it really didn’t take much effort to resist and just go back to what I was doing.