Why Good People Won’t Get Anywhere | Sadhguru
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- Are you really as good as you think? The more good you imagine you are, says Sadhguru, the more that nobody else seems ok for you, because your goodness is only in comparison with others.
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My mother always told me good people either die early from this horrible world or they just get treated badly in this world or they just get killed off.... I’ve witnessed this with my own eyes and it goes to show it’s very true. So if you know a good human being. protect them and enjoy your company with them they are rear and special, ur lucky remember that...
This is true! I used to be a good person and got burned pretty badly. Now i think there is no goddam good in anybody!
Goddam people!
Mr Helpful you “used” to? Please stay good 🥺 no one should ever change you , we still need precious people like u on this earth to stay. Trust me karma will get them hard to those who treat others badly.
@@kb-qq4zl even karma may not get them hard it's ok...if someone by nature is pure good let's remain like that...that's what our souls' true nature is that we reflecting..we don't have to change for the world...I did tried to fit in but I couldn't change...I failed to loose my goodness no matter I have a place in heaven or not...and when I get food on my plate I filled with gratitude towards Divine and pray others must receive same from Him
Enlightened Soul12 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
Yusuf Khan true
I was self-labeled "good person" till now, you melted my ego.
You saying that *is* ego :)
zer05tar mmm what should he do then?
zer05tar * say
Me too bro :'(
Now think of politicians and so called bad-people, try to see their life path for what it really is. It's all the same. Love your ego, nurture your ego and ask yourself what is my ego lovingly protecting me from? Am I really to take the leap and be more raw? Have more self love?
(That's coming from me, someone with a crazy huge ego and even bigger shadow to be honest)
In my book, a good person doesn't wilfully harm other human beings and tries to help others in need !
Simple
you are sooo smart, congrats
You didn’t get his point
I agree. Now I need answers. I just woke up 2 days ago. I have all this awareness and I need answers to what I need to do. I can read if a person is good or bad just by looking at them.
@@UndiscoveredRapqueen beating around the buss.. Yep
Before I dealt with my insecurities, I thought I was a nice and good person. After I dealt with my problems I saw that I wasn't nice at all. It was all contrived behaviour to get people to like me. I now accept the real me and when I'm nice it's for real and I feel great within
Same here. When I came to know myself well started using my conscious self ave realised m a bad terrible person. I got zero chills and I believe for an eye for an eye. Too bad
people who are insecure are not nice, they’re passive.
@@aanthong That was definitely me in the past
SSSSS Its hard for us men to accept our real selves no offense.
@@hmuphilly9129 if u pursue life ALONE, no parents, etc, u have no choice other than to be ur real self.
Indeed. People who know they're good suffer because they see all the bad stuff around them.
It's a hard life with all the negativity and badness.
I disagree, I have seen plenty of good people suffer...not wannabees
Seeing the ways of the world for what they are is not true suffering it is wakening to the true reality and for those who fear reality must always find security and comfort in blissful ignorance as if reality is non existent . The way of the world is separate from the way of mankind and mankind lacks the power to intimidate the goodness of a heart such as mine . Thinking you are not good would imply you are bad correct ? You see a flaw in all things for you have no idea what blessing it is to be aware so you fear awareness and you fear the benevolence of the good and noble people such as my self .you lack consciousnesses and you display great prejudice in your judgment .
how the f to know whether you're good. What if you are just afraid of doing bad things because of the punishment they lead to? Fear of being bad and to be good I think are different things. May be harsh and critical conditions will show how bad you can be and all illusions will fall apart. That's what happens with soldiers on the war. Then PTSD happens because of the psychological denial of all you've done and are capable of truly with given conditions.
They suffer cz they have strong conscience.
Wrong
The simple answer to living life is to live intuitively. Your intuition will never deceive you. We deceive ourselves by not trusting our intuition.
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@@jjjjjj3423 in order to be intuitive you must be able to distinguish between fear and since of calmness which equals peace. Your intuition can present itself to you in many ways that’s why it’s important to learn what’s real and what’s not.
@Angel 1 Unplugged you’re welcome
Very very true
My father always said to me”It is very easy to be bad but it can be hard to be good”
@reena mola lmao your funny🤣
@reena mola so what you are saying is people have different perceptions. That’s not what I was talking about but yea, of course everyone has different perception on everything life has to offer.
@reena mola ohhh lawrdy your one of them. 🙄
@reena mola Have a great day.✌️
@reena mola Oh, the irony.
Good person has no expectations or does not self label himself or herself as a good person
A good person is a humble human being that treats people right and see s every one good
there's no such thing as good person. if you didn't know bad people you wouldn't know a good person. you are still stuck in the dualistic nature of life. with yin comes yan PEACE
"humanity is suffering from a sickness which is passing off as happiness for most people".....well said!!
Humanity is suffering because we are afraid to feel pain
We have to get back to basics .... simple
Everything he says is well said..
Truest statement. We are like little children; "I'm happy because I have what my neighbor does not have."
I don't understand
"Humanity is suffering from the sickness which is passing off as happiness for most people." Powerful and true!
Pls explain
Will u please elaborate
@@bhushanjasrotia3861 sickness is this, that people believe that having things that others dont have will make them happy. Which actually is a sickness. For them this brings happiness.
@@sunithamusicsunitha5544 generally people who try to be good walks with morals, ethics and many other things but actually such people are damaging more this planet because such people always support such things which they think that these are good things to do. For example you must observe in the society that good people always support some rituals which are not really relevant in today's time and those rituals have brought suffering to many lives. If someone is unwilling to go through such rituals, good people will always say to him that no you do this, we are good people, what other people think if you don't do this, but a sensible person will think before uttering any word or before taking any action that how the same ritual is relevant in today's time or not, if it's relevant they will not interfere but of it's not really relevant than they will make the efforts and do the necessary changes and I'd required they will very easily doing Stop that ritual and replace that thing with more better and stable alternative.
And God is the main reason for this sickness
I usually understand everything he says reflecting on my self. Sadly my goodness to others has brought me more pain than happiness. I cannot compare myself to others because we are all unique individuals. Comparing brings instabilities of mind.
if doing goodnees don't make you or us feel pain that it cannot be goodness....
Just slapped me into waking up. This makes so much sense. I’ve ended up isolating myself by judging that I’m so good against others. That’s done now
Exactly. My mom is like this and, until recently, so was I. Self righteous know it all. Good people suffer so much because they think everyone else should be just like them! When I gave up the idea that I knew anything then I was free. ☯️
But you do know things. You obviously knew how to type that message....
Good advise, thank you
That's 90% of the "white Americans" in Merica! Thanks Trump!
@@Ericwkgnil 😂
@maxx mabemwe
The intelligent suffer most.
True!!!!
you should still be a good person just make sure you don't judge others for their imperfections
Yeah..dont go treating people badly coz being good won't take u anywhere...just make sure u don't hurt urself to make someone happy..
This statement never made sense to me. “don’t judge others by ‘their imperfections” it sounds counterintuitive.
Shut up
Bad person
Correction: imperfections that they can't change...like their race.
But if they are Jerks, then by all means judge and ridicule until they change and be a good person!
I always see good in people and good around me. But the problem is that I get nothing in life. I work so hard for stuff but never achieve them. And then, I look around and I see all these "bad people" living my dream life. I tried so hard for years not to compare myself, but it has become more and more accurate and annoying every day.
Being good or bad has nothing to do with achievements. If you are working hard for something you might not get what you want, but you will atleast get somewhere near it. Atleast you are on the same path which you choose, which is what should matter
Yup all the bad people get to experience good life. It real sad
Solomon was a Wise Man, the ricest man, and he ruled as a good King. Be not deceived. We have King David who destroyed the Giant.
Matthew 7:7
Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:
This is their heaven and this the closest to heaven the going to get if they don't repent
The phrase "Sharing is caring" appropriately aligns with what he is trying to convey because it is not just about having goodness but we should also be able to share it with others who are in need.
I get it! This message was for me because I was a person that always needed approval from others. I wanted to be acknowledged as good person that eveeyone liked. I totally understand the intentations behind this message.
Same for me. I needed everone to see me as nicer than others so that they like more. Meaning i needed tp feel i was betterthan others to feel higher and kinder.
Sadguru is right.
Yes... for me as well.😐
I too wanted to be nicer than others so that people will love me more ..and always needed approval of others to feel good ... always comparing what I did was good and others were not as good as me
Can someone explain I really don't get it, why always bad happens for good people though I haven't said myself as a good person.
You may be good yes. But the fact that who is the *BEST* is a mystery.
I needed to hear this. I was tired of thinking of myself as a good person and being treated like shit, it makes sense now ig. It’s both my own and other people’s fault for putting me in this situation. I need to learn to not worry about what other people are doing all the time and to also stop consciously thinking about being a good person n just do it and not give a damn bout what others think bro
Thank you very much.
Thank you for sharing this 💯💯💯
All is created by our Thoughts, knowing this + understanding the "Universal Law of Attraction" is our 🔑 to our Wellbeing and that which we add to the Collective.
@@bethbartlett5692 can you explain that to me
Thank u
Well I was told that by everyone around me the entire time growing up. No one wanted to be around me because I was too good. I didn't drink, I didn't smoke, I didn't like lying, etc.... And you are right that no one wanted to be around me....
But I was just being my natural self. I wasn't trying. I wasn't forcing myself on others. I was just being me.
I had to be taught by others what ego was, and then labeled with that ego just because I wanted to live a certain way, and have spent my entire life getting back to who I was as a child, when everyone else labeled me good.
The good people suffer more because they care about everything so deeply. Their suffering is no more than anyone else's in the world, which is a lot of suffering, but it is self-inflicted, uncontrollably though, by the devotion to do better in this world.
So who told me I was good before I thought it? Probably about 10 to 20,000 people, along the way, adults I don't know or even remember, kids in my school that wouldn't hang around with me, etc...
I was too young to even know what ego was.
You don't have an ego. You are a good person and that's ok..that's very good. Your reward is coming
We are all on the same path. Help those that are behind you and give thanks for those who are ahead of you. You can see there is greater than what you have and can hope for more spiritually.
Help your fellowman and you will be blessed.
My heart MELTS every tine he says “isn’t it so?!” 😫🖤🖤🖤🥰
Same♥️
That is if you are agreeable, philosophers of old seldom use that phrase I guess, didn't they?
Mine too💕
6:21 "They are happy. They do not know what joy is. Their happiness is just that they have things other people don't have". This caused me heartmelt. 🙏
Yea after watching this video it opened my eyes and I think that a lot of bad people don't know joy or happeniness I think that good people should share that happiness and joy with other people that don't know it
You're really a terrible person. You're not superior because you for some reason know what "joy" is. Surprise kid the rich DO enjoy their life and lavish lifestyles more than you enjoy living on the edge of poverty on in a middle class suburb.
"Do you know what a good deed you have done for me today?" I love it. :)
Being "good" means being on a path toward God and wisdom, always striving to learn more, and to do your best.
Yess.. But why is there So much resistance to goodness in this world i never understand
@@akashmaityX I think bcuz so many bad things have been done in the name of God or what is "good". People need a precise definition of ethics and to follow what is ethical, not just blindly follow laws or commandments without thinking through what is optimum for the greater good.
@@suzannelee854 And i think people are getting dumber day by day they dont really understand the real meaning of life and how to live it.. I am just tired of this pathetic world and its way of functioning.. its just too incorrect for me !
@@akashmaityX
We are living in the kaliyug( iron age) .
It is very natural that good people will suffer more...
But don’t let this make you bad . I get blessed for my good behavior, universal love ❤️
Thank you
Me too
I must be doing things wrong
"good" people are so self righteous that they feel they don't deserve to suffer. Comparing notes with others is the quickest way to misery.
Correction a narcissist masquerading as a good person does not feel they need to suffer because they feel they are good, but a person who is truly good is a Martyr who puts themselves before others this is something I have witnessed first hand.
Do you deserve to suffer?
I'm Tired Of It Too you’re also judging someone you don’t even know out of ignorance 🤦🏻♂️
I'm Tired Of It Too also you should stop projecting simply because you don’t like hearing the truth which is obviously the reason why you’re verbally attacking this guy
@I'm Tired Of It Too you judged a person you hardly know right there!
I feel that I am only considered good by people who find me useful to them.
Amen
That's true! I think mostly it comes down to being kind to yourself and then being good to others
Amen fr I k ow that feeling but at this point I'm putting up boundrys I blame myself if this keeps happening. But peace and love to all.
This is so true and I find myself here all the time but I also try to remember to be helpful to myself but it can be so hard to know if you are really helping yourself or for that matter, others. An old girlfriend of mine used to say "the more you help other people the more they expect from you"
Exactly. I've felt that way all my life.
He is describing ignorant people, not good people. There is a big difference here. Really good people never judge others or compare itself with others.
Happy to see something like this in a era where there is a confusion between good deeds and self satisfaction
Confusion in your head
This motivated me to write and post my poetry again.
That's great. You should write, and share, all the poetry, creativity n beauty which is inside you. It's meant to be shared!🙂
ᑭᕼᑌᑎKᗩᗪEᒪᒪIᑕ Şᑌᑎ ᗯIᘔᘔᗩᖇᗪ thank you! I need that. my content is @97juwan on Instagram. My content is mostly narrative and epic genres. So I focus on relevant open minded topics ranging from poverty, equality, war, depression. I grab much inspiration from the greats of the past who most have passed sadly.
ᑭᕼᑌᑎKᗩᗪEᒪᒪIᑕ Şᑌᑎ ᗯIᘔᘔᗩᖇᗪ I was very wary about posting certain things but no one is really how I project them anyway. Usually it’s the opposite of our initial judgment
it better be good
@@skullofgems8833 it moves my emotions when I read it. I stay within certain genres so that happens. Normally epic, narrative, introspective, lyric, verse and drama.
I think Sadhguru is saying that if we compare ourselves with others and put us above them, think of us as "better" than they are, that that is the sickness. Not the fact we do good deeds. He also encourages to live the live and not to give too many damns about what is a good or bad deed, but to enjoy life to the fullest and respect everybody equally.
It's not about being good or bad it's about Having a Kind loving forgiving heart
@@MS08 You'd be wrong about that.
@@MS08 Bad people have forgiving hearts for people that did them well.
@@MS08 Enormous ego. Control it or you may end up dead.
@@MS08 Either your ego isn't realized or you're lying.
The last phrase says a lot about people living in this material world.
I agree with what he says, but I think the name of this video is misleading. Replace 'good' people with 'people who think they are morally superior to others.'
I don't think there's anything wrong with the title. They are just following sadhgurus words.
You're right
LoL this isn't bullshit, it's his perception in which I agree with after thinking about it .
yeah I agree
Are you good person
"Humanity is suffering from this sickness that is passing of as happiness for most people" - Sadhguru
Ramdas kaate ghaas, cheere lakri, chode bakri...🐐
@@jungleebushcraft Andazi ukuba uzama ukuthini
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Hahaha...your english is bad...very bad!
I Love You'After Finding You Mr.Sadhguru Then Something Happened'I Was A Good Family Man But Now I Am A Better Family Man.
That moment when you quiet your mind.. the heart speaks
He laughs a lot. 😂He sees the reality and clarity of himself compared to no one. 💜🔮
This was a legitimate answer to all the sickness happening now.
I always heard bad things happen to good people I could listen to his wisdom and learn alot so glad I came upon this video thank you for your knowledge
It always amazes me how his simple words can just smash the ego. But in the nicest possible way. Ahhh. THANK YOU SO MUCH!💐💐💐🇦🇺
in less words don't let your goodness suffer yourself. priorities you and your well being there is nothing good thing and bad thing
"Humanity is suffering from a sickness that is passing off as happiness for most people. Isn't it so?"
This is torture. I've been undeservedly, extremely, increasingly suffering in every aspect for over 13 years with no relief, abused each day, rotting away unproductively, and with no one taking me seriously. What further can I try? Somebody please help me.
You focus too much on your circumstances, they don’t define you. Sometimes I struggle with advice because when I was depressed, I had al these awnsers to help me but they had no meaning, once they do and you’ve had enough experience it will make sense and you will be able to overcome your past. Just think of being authentic as a direction not a destination. I recommend listening to Jordan Peterson though, he helped me when I was at my lowest, and I try to take his insight seriously
@@adrianpiedra1226 Thanks for the advice Adrian
No one can help u until u help urself..
Its harsh but it's the truth..
Can you move away from the people who are abusing you?
Please get out of this situation IP, you don't deserve such treatment X know your worth as in true worth that is great X wish you the very best X 🙏💚🌈
Just experience each moment as it is and respond as you feel so moved. Sometimes to simply observe is better than to participate
Perfect! The Moment! Oh, the Moment...Enjoy Life in All It's Splendor!
Best way to conquer fears. Be an observer to drop fear.
I love the people that are good.
From mariz
Thinking good about oneself boost confidence, i believe there should be balance and always questions in mind about how to improve.
sakshi gupta totally agree, there is nothing wrong about being proud on someoneself's archievements.
No it doesn't? Although, it might temporarily give you an inflated sense of importance while waiting for the inevitable deflation
why think good or bad at all? either direction is inflating the ego.
I agree
@@nothankyou5524 what's wrong with inflation if you also accept the deflation? The stock market is always going up and down...
I’ll be back to listen to this once I get home cause my energy took me to it
Facts, I have been hurt, used, abused, and tormented constantly in my life. I have never done anything wrong to anybody and always loyal to everyone in my life. I do not know why I deserve this treatment, but I will never stop being a kind person no matter what.
Like I always say have a good heart but take no sh1+ 💩 from those who try to take advantage of you or treat you poorly that's not acceptable stand up for yourself when is needed....
Sooo REAL!!!!!! 100
💯🙌agree
Thanks for this piece
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Very well put! Life one o one!!💯👍
For me as someone who lived this way May whole life I want to say
THANK YOU for opening my eyes!
May I call You a wise old (in years but young & old at the same time in mind and heart!
Every wise word from a wise human
-- NO MATTER if--
"smart" or "Not so smart",
if child, young/old man or woman
I see it as a PRECIOUS GIFT from GOD who spoke through them to me!! HAPPY to live with the deep confidence GOD LOVED US and me and HE ALWAYS treats us as a LOVING HEAVENLY FATHER!!
Greetings from Germany
Best wishes and May GOD BLESS YOU !!
This morning I heard this. It was my lesson of the day. An important lesson for life. Gratitude Guruji.
“Good” usually means weak and self-erasing. Yogis understand that good karma has to come from good action _in harmony with reality_ , not just “doing the good thing” obsessively , always thinking manicly “good things” in the mind
I love this guy. Seldom do we hear such practical, down to earth, wisdom.
Sons of the West Red, White & Blue
You should read Ecclesiastes sometime.
I love him too
Sons of the West Red, White & Blue. What a joke! Read comment of vinod raghuvanshi
True goodness is only possible through enlightenment, through integrating your shadow self and making your ego the servant rather than the master. Calling yourself good (and others bad) strengthens the ego.
Exactly, Jordan Peterson compared it to being a rabbit, and how a rabbit cannot be virtuous. it can’t do much but be eaten. Very good to acknowledge the bad in ourselves
The shodow is no joke
making your ego the servant ...............😭
My grandmother, a truly good and holy woman, very humble, used to tell us, “Always keep a clean slate with God and others. Do this, and you’ll have a happy life and happiness when passing to the next life.”
Be silently good within yourself. Don't look for approval for your good deeds. Knowing "youve" done good immensely rewards your own consciousness and silently projects your self worth honesty, integrity, truth and trust.
Be silently good within yourself..........amazing person you might be........😭
I just love how he says 'isn't it' 🌞
He makes mistakes like this though: _"They are good people. __-Isn't it?-__ Aren't they?"_
Good people are happy people because they create an environment that creates happiness for themselves and others. Most people don't think they are good because others are bad!
Well, that works theoretically. My enviroment fell down, lika Game of thrones tbh
I try to help anyone who needs it , yet I feel as though I am failing everyday. But I keep my chin up and just keep helping as much as I can because I am still hoping one day someone will lend me a hand. Thanks Sadhguru !
I love you we will unite soon
We are good people in the sense we seek validation from others.
Everyone seeks validation though
@@Ben24636 no
Eric Rose Never assume everyone’s reality is the same
@@del941 yeah cuz thats why everyones on social media now
Discernment is important. I love all people but it makes me sad or takes up too much energy. So I live alone, support myself and have a small group of close friends. Everyone is on their own path. I had a friend who kept telling me what a "good and kind hearted" person she was meanwhile finding fault in all her relationships, it's true she could be a kind person and she could also be the opposite as we all can be. It's important to see that and be humbled by it. But we are harsh judges for the mistakes of others and excellent lawyers for our own.
I really liked this video. ☺️
He talked about those people who thinks they are good and from this image, they try to only do good thing. Their good behaviour come from their ego, because ego comparing itself to other people. This image ego created seperate you from people, you either thinks you are better than them, or you are different. Those who labled themselves as bad, or normal, wont go around criticized others or comparing them to others. So they are happy and easier to make friends.
Hello Ngan, how are you doing?
To be good is not creating mistakes its ur ethical thinking and values like compassion, kindness , love, and overall growth
I get it.
He means what is the point in being good for goodness itself. When you keep yourself in your insulated bubble of self righteous goodness as a feel good policy where humanity or compassion may be lacking, or that good people keep themselves "safe" from the Others or bad ones, who realy live and may have more heart and open themselves more to be authentic. And in this way, by this safety, good people get nowhere by this formula. However, He is not saying it is a bad thing. It is just a lesson in perspective.
Thanks for writing this comment
True and its also that stories told by sadhus act as a moral compass to chose to survive during hard times. Because , no matter how hard you try to control things, they are way out of your hands, don't mean you leave them.
Yes Thank you as well for this comment
Awesome!
Knowing who you are in relation to I Am will liberate you from Experiencing polarity, wheather that polarity is positive or negative.
my mother died young a good person.. she was so good that she didn't put herself first... it's painful, may her soul RIP
Good is a choice. Not a comparison.
To be good is not to be perfect of better, rather, it's an endless path of growth.
I 100% understand what he is saying.
But I didn't. 😩
no....you can't how can you be so sure.........?🤔
GOODNESS is the CHOICE to do unto OTHERS as you'd like to be done unto YOU.
'Love your neighbor as much as you love yourself '
Sadguru Pranam
Sadguru Good people actually are suffering this is true but they cannot be compared to bad people because good people have respect but bad people doesn't have respect
There are no people universal good or bad. You maybe good in your perspective but bad in others. That's how it works.
Before I see this I will say the goodness is for my heart my peace of mind I've done wrong and I've done right ,and I'm still no better than others. I try to follow my heart and my intuition...I want happiness so I put out happiness, and I laugh at lest 50 times a day ,
Enjoy wit you have 💯
Mother Teresa once said,always be kind to others even when nobody is watching.
Fact
Mother Teresa wasn't who she think was.... She preyed on the innocence of the weak.
Mother Teresa profited of dying and sick children .... she created wealth by tricking all you idiots into thinking she was doing good, when in truth she made millions for her family ;)
So what's the big deal if she made some millions for her family? God gave it to her for her good deeds.
@@gauchobandido2537 AHAHAHAHAHAHA wake up sir.
Nobody is good. People can be honest, truthful, accept mistakes and move on. Being humble and down to earth and not showcasing yourself to others is what is better.
There are no good or bad people. There is no wrong or right. That is just a concept created by society. To me, "bad" people are simply people who are not aware of their actions and consequences, it's just like as if their soul was asleep. And they are the ones who need more love in this world because they are the ones who have been hurt the most. I believe everyone is born "good" , with a pure soul, mind and heart but as we grow up we tend to forget who we are in the middle of the chaos of the everyday life, and there is always a story behind someone else's actions and thoughts. So we should never judge anyone but try to understand what they've been through - that's the way to connect to someone else's heart, through empathy. Judgments will only keep us all apart from eachother and create more hate in this world. Sorry for this big comment, i guess I just felt inspired in the moment! Haha. Peace! :)
Patricia Mata does this apply to a serial killer / rapist too? Their Soul was just asleep ?
The egoistic satisfaction out of Jealousy, achiving something that others surrounding you doesn't have in comparative competition and to live in such egotistic self-superiority is what humans have renamed under the word "Happiness" and that's sick.
This is how I interpret his teachings:
1. Goodness is a relative notion; however, most of us are unaware of this. We think people should be in a certain way to be good. When others/ we ourself don’t behave to that “goodness”, they/we ourself are bad, right? But be cautious here. Something good/bad from one’s perspective does not necessarily mean the same from others’, as illustrated by the story of Pillai. While he believes adultery is bad, his action turns out to be a good deed to the woman.
2. If we think we are good people just because we are better than others, we are behaving “right” whereas others are not, we are having things that others don’t have, it’s not genuine goodness. That way of thinking, comparing ourself to others, as Sadguru puts it, is called “sickness”. Here is what happens in our mind most of the time, “He is starving, I having food to eat, I’m better than him, I’m good”. “She is making mistake, I am making the right decision, I’m better than her, I’m good’. “He has one car, I have two cars, I’m better than him, I’m good”. The logic is like this “If that guy is bad, SO I am good, right?”. Oops, doesn’t that mean we need others’ badness to make our goodness possible?
3. Unfortunately, many of us misunderstand sickness for happiness. Why? Because we have never experienced true “joy’. By “joy” he might mean, the sheer joy of being ourself, sitting still blissfully, the happiness of being just good with full consciousness. When we have yet to have chance to savor that kind of goodness, we will need to compare ourself with others to make sure that we are good.
4. If we don’t realize number 1, we will suffer from our thinking about “goodness”. Why? Because we cannot see other possibilities of living/ being. As a consequence, we not only feel bad about others who are not like us, but we sometimes feel terrible about ourself as well. “She is not living in the right way, she is horrible, I cannot put up with her”, “I am not living in the right way, I am a loser, I cannot put up with myself”. That is suffering, isn’t it so =)))
5. If we don’t realize number 2, we will suffer from our own comparison. When our life is nothing other than comparing ourself with others, that is suffering, isn’t it so =))) Some people might wonder if we don’t compare ourself with others, how can we know that we are good, or we are becoming better. Please refer back to number 3 for the answer.
I would simplify what he teaches as follows: Don’t judge. Stop comparing. Find our own way of happiness. Just be good. Haha they sound simple but to put them into practice, lifelong way, isn’t it so? =)))
Btw, one more thing I would like to add here: do less harm next time.
Wish all of us goodness and happiness!
This man has some profound insights, and a way to make you see.
Man that hunger analogy at the end was great! The whole video brings to mind the sensory experiment of 3 bowls of water (1 hot, 1 room temp., and 1 cold), where you hold one hand in the hot bowl, one in the cold bowl, and then after some time plunge them both into the room temp. bowl to see how each senses the room temp water differently after their exposure to the more extreme bowls; at least it's something to think about.
being good is perceived by others as being boring. be good but be fun. be good but be interesting. be good but not too serious. people will gravitate to you
God bless this man.. What a clean mind..
I have seen all kind of people suffer, bad, good , rich, poor, etc, it doesn’t matter, also seen a lot of good people been happy leaving a good life, and viceversa, there is all kind of people in all levels and clasificacións, but is always good to be a nice balanced person up to certain point
Oh my goodness. Most of my life is a wastage. Agreed bro. If i could meet you to discuss something privately. You have the ability to look at human life from different perspective. Thank you for helping this humble lone wolf.
I tried to please people, and do what they wanted, be friendly and it always ended in hurt. Did people just think I was weak? No fun? I stay away from people now, just easier.
Stay good I love you
Me too:( people wanna rip a person up
I'm a good person because I don't step on people other people to be good.
Think of yourself as a good person but never seek validation from any1. Happy New Year's to all.
No one needs to be told you are good or bad! It's common sense! You do what is right and fair. No need for a speech....
if only it was as clear cut as that
We justifies our every deeds but only God knows the motives and the intents of heart be they good or bad.
He is the greatest judge.
Very true. Most people have labelled themselves as morally good, rather they are only good as compared to other things. Something is good only when compared to something else. 🙏
The most logical and satisfying answer to this question...
Rules of life:
#1 - Life is NOT fair.
#2 - In this life, you are NOT entitled to anything good.
#3 - Where there is life, there is hope.
Totally agree with you bro
Nonsense. He didn't mean any of the 3 points you threw out. Listen to this video again, maybe you will understand.
Good people usually give more than they receive so maybe they just need to receive more to be happy
Cause who doesn’t like gifts from someone
The gift of friendship and practical help would be better from a good , bad or a ugly person-----unless the gift is something i really needed, a raincoat etc!!---if a ex bank robber saw your child fall into a river and he dived in to save him would you thank the "bad" man,or say i know your a bad man give me my child back and go away? who then is the bad person?
@@rowdyyates4273 no one is good or bad but everyone is both.
that's so true people just look at you as fool if your good person and people just keep taking and once they finish with you your on your own so true words your said thanks
Hmm but universe returns everything with interest I have seen .
The day you stop expecting something back you’ll be forever happy
You’re a good person of course. So good you are, you’re never wrong, you’re ‘sorry’ but you are so good that don’t need feedback, don’t take criticism, don’t have anything else for improvement
What even
When I think of myself as "good" it's because I have been affirmed time and time again, against great obstacles and losses, that I rise up. I have been bad to the point of deformity, but have always rose up from the messes. In that, is how I feel I am good. Not that I'm kind sweet and nice, yes I am those things because of confidence of defeating the worst.
Heaven to me is the judgement of doing the best with the situation.
Sadhguru is very close to Shankaran Pillai. All his jokes start with him. A good way of explaining situations of life similar to that of Panchatantra.
Wow! Lots of arguing in comments... Here's a thought, just an idea... How about not comparing yourself to others?
Sometimes I think I'm good, other times I think I'm a real B-word, but mostly I try to just be me... And not worry about what other people consider me to be.
Just an idea, my idea... Doesn't matter who agrees or disagrees, because I will have the idea regardless ✌️
Yes, good...totally support this.
But rather than worrying about others or yourself.....go with the flow. If you have the power to improve someone life then do it
If you can't take up that task then simply let them be.
But should one be the B-word??....
Well you can neither be B-word, if you are truly good. You can be perceived as B-word by others but not Yourself.
If one knows that they are being B-word.....then they are allowing themselves to hurt others not for betterment but for the sake of some behavorial issue.
So please don't let yourself B-word, always try bring goodness into other life.
Very simple comment! It’s surprising many are on here debating on a video like this one as it appears some of these people want to outdo each other with their “deep perspectives.”
When your a good friend and educated and know how to love everyone that's how to be a good friend or how to love everyone goodnight 👍
"This is so liberating..."
A "good" person, who has gone "bad"
See everything as it is. Use the mind as a mirror.
I wish everyone a blissful day !
Namaste
thesuityogis
The mind is the biggest deceiver. It is a servant of maya. Seek for God, and He will show you the things as they are and are meant to be.
Deception happens only if your mind is disrupted; your mind is not a servant of maya, of whom ever. If you know the nature of your mind, you can look through deception with your mind. How do you want to seek for god without a mind ? I did not met maya, nor god. Both are not my part of my experience, but just a part of your mind. Giving out teachings *from your mind* like " seek for god; the mind is a servant of maya " can be as much a deception of your mind if they are not in your experience.
So please brother, stay tuned, silence your mind, throw out all mayas and gods and what so ever out the imagination of your mind, and it will mirror every deception and illusion.
Namaste
TheSuitYogi
Exactly! Silence your mind, and then it will stop deceiving you. A mind that has become silent can’t be a servant of maya anymore.
I wish you lovely day ! :)
Thank you! I wish you a lovely day too!
I consider myself "good" but I see lots of other good people as well. I don't consider others bad or worse than me.
Hello Rebecca, how are you doing?
You can be good but it’s also about balance I learned that. You have to have boundaries, and sternness.
Is he talking to animals?? I think he is very stoned
Sadhguru is such a good storyteller and so wise.
I think what he's saying can be taken in many ways. Its open ended.
How I related to it might be different than yours.
So I used to say all the time that I am good person, I do this I do that ..and that was probably just something to make me feel good about myself, better than others. And that was a period when I lost a lot of important people in my life. I was insecure so I said stuff like that ..and I kind of ended up alienating myself. And everything went downhill from there.
But not until recently did it dawn on me that I was so not better than the others. Where did I even get that idea!? I am still working on being a better person to myself and to the people who are close to me..so...yeah hope it works out
Just how I related to it""