When the mother yelled that the sister and OP were "ungrateful and selfish", I would have instantly played the reverse uno card and told her that she was in no right to tell us that, and she was selfish going from one guy to the next because they were her "knight in shining armor waiting to whisk her away!", then when the mother said she regretted having the both of them, I would have said "get the fuck out of my house, don't ever speak to us again and don't ever darken our home again!" instead of giving her six months of rent and one month to pack her shit and get out.
Bro Derrick openly said he didnt care for her and only did ot for a bet initially but continued for the house. Her mom heard this but defended him. He openly admitted it and it was her fault for not doing anything, not even filing a complaint. The amount of frustration i get by seeing what she did..
@@samaritan_sys yes it has , for a long time women making any stance against a man was looked down on but like the og comment says , this isn't the 1950s
@@Maninawig you think with a temper like the stepdad or how the mom always try to guilt trip her kids you think OP would have a chance to recorded her step dad
@@justiron2999 idk dude. She was 100% a shitty mother and didn't deserve that title but I don't believe that she deserved to be physically abused, especially since that helped no one. Was it not enough for her to be taken emotionally advantage of, fcked over, to have a strained relationship with both her daughters, and now have a shtty lonely lorty for the rest of her days? All of that she did deserve. Don't get me wrong, I'm not feeling bad or sorry for her, just don't believe that the pos had any right to put his hands on her
Im.....im questioning why people at school or in public didnt get the police or cps involved. Im also questioning where the hell the mom got her thinking from. Her own mom? Doubt that since she would have been like Op.
Yeah, I was wondering about that too, until I remembered that in some countries (including mine), schools tend not to give a flying F. Near where I live, around 15 years ago, a kid died, beaten up to death by his alcoholic father. Parents of other children at school would often see the kid with bruises, and tried to get the school, police or child services involved, but none of them took action. It's only when the kid hadn't been in school for three days that the teachers started to look into it. Of course, the police and CPS were all like "Such a tragedy took us by surprise and shock", and the other parents were mad AF because they did try to warn them, only to be dismissed each time.
@@ARw275This right here. Hell, there was a story just yesterday where OP’s dad was clearly a bible-thumping child predator and insanely emotionally abusive. CPS was called multiple times and nothing ever happened. 🙄
True, and after having written my comment, I also remembered a very sad story which happened to a neighbor around thirty years ago. She had mental issues, but nothing too severe, it's only that she had an Intellectual Disability. She ended up pregnant, and had a baby boy. She took care of him greatly, she was very kind, and despite her issues, she actually was a very good parent. But because of her ID, the Child Services took her baby away from her... They never should have... They let the baby in the care of a nurse, and, no joke : around a month after taking the baby away, the nurse left him all alone and without supervision in the bathtub while she went and bought some bread. When she came back, the baby had drowned, and she got away with nothing more than a slap on the wrist... Sometimes, they do much worse than good. @@ARw275
The mother's ideology has to be something that she was taught at a young age and the mom probably has some unresolved trauma from her childhood that she needs to talk to someone about. Not condoning her behavior it's just something I thought about because with the step-father it was about fear as he was very abusive and manipulative but when it came to her boyfriend yeah that was something she was either taught or something that she witnessed as a child. If the mother wants any sort of relationship with her daughters she needs to figure out why she is doing the things that she is doing.
@@greasybumpkin1661 No that isn't exactly true. She can have some childhood trauma that affects her because trauma affects others in different ways. And op could have some problems because of her childhood trauma but she hasn't mentioned it.
"She was blind to see that he's using her", OP couldn't be more wrong about that, she clrarely saw who her bf was and who her ex husband was, but she's was just smh enjoying it, get her help ASAP.
to be honest, i wouldnt even have given the "choice" to the mom, i would be like "listen, you are going to the police and you are telling them about the abouse, you are going to to do that or you are out of the house, so what is going to be?" with people like that trying to be reasonable is only grounds for them continuing to live in their bubble, or worse, make them believe that they still have some decision power over the situation. truth is, she doesnt.
Sounds like my aunt. 😢 My mother also always defended her. Everything that went wrong for my aunt was supposedly everyone else’s fault per my mother and aunt…
I used to believe that everyone deserves a second chance, but when you do exactly the same thing the second time around, I would cut ties immediately. Call me heartless, but I don't want to waste my time on people who always cries but still stupidly do the exact same thing the second time around. Like reap what you sow
The mother sounds peachy. She better not retire from her work. She better stay there and earn a living because she ain't going anywhere in this economy.
I also believe that in a nuclear family that the parents should put each other first and try to balance that with the kids, but if it's a stepfather or boyfriend or whatever tf the kids come first. Don't get how dumb and delusional people can be
Can’t believe the mother can be this stupid, she wrote the deed to the house to a man who she only been dating for months. She bought him a lot of stuff that he’ll probably pawn off for money and probably sell the house. That’s on her, she shouldn’t have even considered Derek to be in a relationship in the first place.
My boyfriends mom is kinda similar. She treats my boyfriend like shit. She only picks shity dudes and ones that only want her for money. My boyfriend and I have talked and we aren't giving her any more money. If she wants food, we buy it for her. Does she need gas money? We fill up the car. If we don't do this, she will continue giving the money to her boyfriends. But this recent guy might be the last nail in the coffin. My mother told me that his mother told him that she is dating a guy who is a boss gang member in el salvador. My family is from el salvador my boyfriend is Mexican. My family knows very well how bad those people are. My mom told me to not tell my boyfriend but I did. I told him that if she began to demand more money, not to give it to her, and he agreed. She doesn't know that he knows. There is so much more happening especially with his bro but people like this need help. And I'm done giving it to my boyfriends mother.
This sounds like another "reddit writer"- similar writing style to other long-winded stories. "Tackled challenges together" sounds too impersonal. It just takes the format of a short story.
AI, it has specific syntax and verbiage that is not common in normal speech patterns which make it easier to identify when its used. I think its funny since I recognize it when i see it in college classes now.
i’m so sorry for anyone who has lived with abusive (of any kind physically, financially, psychologically, ect ect) it truly makes so much difficult for the rest of our lives) Honestly worse is any mother who chooses a husband/partner/ boyfriend over their children. disgusting
What I was hoping for: Posted to r/NuclearRevenge Mother Keeps Choosing Horrible Men Over Us, Sells Her House to Latest Scammer Boyfriend, Now Broke and Begging for Our Help After We Warned Her. Update 4: We burned Derek's ill gained house down.
Some people are too stupid to be given responsibilities like children or finances. OP’s mother is one such person. One of the worst kinds of people that create all of their misfortunes only to blame others when shit hits the fan and/or people refuse to help her dig her own grave AGAIN!
my mother put her husband over my baby brothers and sent them away because they didn't get along, and even though I don't hate either of them I do resent her and him. Her for putting him over her children and I resented him for either asking to send them away or agreeing to it( never asked how it happened). I can say finances got easier for us but life got really hard for my brother and I have so much guilt but after hs, I was determined to help them have whatever I could give them. They're both in the Marines now but I feel so bad. I know what I'm writing isn't the same but I feel like I should share it
After listening to multiple stories from this channel, the similarities in writing styles have caused me to believe these are all made up and written by the same person
This story was infuriating. My suspicious mind was so worried that the half sister would be just like her father and turn on op. Op's mom must be a really broken person inside to normalize all of this misogynistic abuse towards herself and her children. The stepfather was a monster. He doesn't deserve closure on his deathbed. I love that op's mom inherited so much and she pissed it all away on the first dude to swoop in and sweet talk her. I'll give Derrick credit for at least being an honest golddigger. Op's mom can't do anything about it because she technically gave this jerk all of her consent to take advantage of her. I just can't with her saying family helps each other when she's never done anything to protect her daughters. Paying her rent for six months was way too generous in my opinion.
Wait. So there's 4 years between stepsister and OP. So when OP was about 2 years old mum was often going out and was broken from hearing mum would save stepdad instead of her? And then OP remembers at 2-3 years old that her stepfather comes home drunk? And at 4 years old, after mum gets married, she's begging mum to leave that abusive stepdad? OP must be a super human for remembering so many details, including things a toddler has no clue about. 😅
"Put their partner over their children" belief? Usually I have seen only men like that its irony to see a woman like that( no offense to men I said so because I have 100% of my life seen men who loves their spouses more than anything and mostly prioritise their spouses over their children even my so called father was like that 🙄 and would rant about their children loving their moms so much than them , I know not all men are like that however I have never seen someone to the contrary to the above so my apologies if anyone got offended)...🙂
Why would they talk to their mother about how horrible her new boyfriend was when all their lives, they watched her constantly side with their cruel father no matter what they did, or said. They tried to help, but my stubborn self is screaming how incredibly stupid they were for even trying. She’s already a garbage mother when she said she’ll save her husband then her own kids if something happened.
If a guy ask who would i save in a life or die i ask if i can pick my self to die i die to save my kid and my love one i don,t know 😢 what would you do if a guy ask you that hearing the mom pick a evil guy but not her own kid
He's just copy pasting reddit stories into an ai program and possibly paying someone to make the captions or using a speech to text thing and the background footage is just minecraft parkour
isnt allowed to music, has headphones. calls her half sister her step sister. dude was clearly bipolar. did no one suggest medical and psychological intervention ? hoping for some one to suffer whislt having cancer is insane no matter the circumstances.when your mom fell back into the same trap, they didnt do everything in their power to save her? what terrible children
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I can't believe Dereck is out here just living it up...I'd be so mad at my mother.
When the mother yelled that the sister and OP were "ungrateful and selfish", I would have instantly played the reverse uno card and told her that she was in no right to tell us that, and she was selfish going from one guy to the next because they were her "knight in shining armor waiting to whisk her away!", then when the mother said she regretted having the both of them, I would have said "get the fuck out of my house, don't ever speak to us again and don't ever darken our home again!" instead of giving her six months of rent and one month to pack her shit and get out.
I really REALLY don't feel even an ounce of sympathy towards the mother
Bro Derrick openly said he didnt care for her and only did ot for a bet initially but continued for the house. Her mom heard this but defended him. He openly admitted it and it was her fault for not doing anything, not even filing a complaint. The amount of frustration i get by seeing what she did..
Society will look down on her for pressing charges against her scammer ex boyfriend 🤨? Lady, this isn't the 30's or 40's or 50's anymore.
@@arielleshort2072 yeah I know, but my point still remains.
Society has literally never looked down on that.
@@samaritan_sys yes it has , for a long time women making any stance against a man was looked down on but like the og comment says , this isn't the 1950s
This is a case where Op shoudlve just reported their own parents to CPS
with a guy like step dad and a woman like the mom they would say nothing is wrong and kids are lying
Looking at the stepfather's beliefs about women, i don't think that the word "CPS" exists in their country
CPS, or recorded her step-dad and get a restraining order.
@@Maninawig you think with a temper like the stepdad or how the mom always try to guilt trip her kids you think OP would have a chance to recorded her step dad
@@tsukenji21 that might be the case
I cant even be mad at Derick. He stumbled into a situation and made it extremely clear he didnt care and was trying to steal her money.
Don't get how you can't be mad at a dude who abused an old woman
@@_juju_jojo_you mean that same woman who willingly abused her own kids?
@@_juju_jojo_because she literally asked for it. There's a certain point that someone deserves it.
@@justiron2999 idk dude. She was 100% a shitty mother and didn't deserve that title but I don't believe that she deserved to be physically abused, especially since that helped no one. Was it not enough for her to be taken emotionally advantage of, fcked over, to have a strained relationship with both her daughters, and now have a shtty lonely lorty for the rest of her days? All of that she did deserve. Don't get me wrong, I'm not feeling bad or sorry for her, just don't believe that the pos had any right to put his hands on her
@@justiron2999 Y’all are unhinged
Im.....im questioning why people at school or in public didnt get the police or cps involved. Im also questioning where the hell the mom got her thinking from. Her own mom? Doubt that since she would have been like Op.
Yeah, I was wondering about that too, until I remembered that in some countries (including mine), schools tend not to give a flying F. Near where I live, around 15 years ago, a kid died, beaten up to death by his alcoholic father. Parents of other children at school would often see the kid with bruises, and tried to get the school, police or child services involved, but none of them took action. It's only when the kid hadn't been in school for three days that the teachers started to look into it. Of course, the police and CPS were all like "Such a tragedy took us by surprise and shock", and the other parents were mad AF because they did try to warn them, only to be dismissed each time.
Because both are a joke and rarely actually help.
@@ARw275This right here.
Hell, there was a story just yesterday where OP’s dad was clearly a bible-thumping child predator and insanely emotionally abusive. CPS was called multiple times and nothing ever happened. 🙄
True, and after having written my comment, I also remembered a very sad story which happened to a neighbor around thirty years ago. She had mental issues, but nothing too severe, it's only that she had an Intellectual Disability. She ended up pregnant, and had a baby boy. She took care of him greatly, she was very kind, and despite her issues, she actually was a very good parent. But because of her ID, the Child Services took her baby away from her... They never should have... They let the baby in the care of a nurse, and, no joke : around a month after taking the baby away, the nurse left him all alone and without supervision in the bathtub while she went and bought some bread. When she came back, the baby had drowned, and she got away with nothing more than a slap on the wrist... Sometimes, they do much worse than good. @@ARw275
Because they're both useless. They don't actually care about kids
With how naive and childish the mother is it’s amazing she made it that far in life
The mother's ideology has to be something that she was taught at a young age and the mom probably has some unresolved trauma from her childhood that she needs to talk to someone about. Not condoning her behavior it's just something I thought about because with the step-father it was about fear as he was very abusive and manipulative but when it came to her boyfriend yeah that was something she was either taught or something that she witnessed as a child. If the mother wants any sort of relationship with her daughters she needs to figure out why she is doing the things that she is doing.
Or is just so insecure about her looks
Doesn't really add up when OP also grew up with trauma and still moved on. The mother was just a doormat and ideology never mattered
@@greasybumpkin1661 No that isn't exactly true. She can have some childhood trauma that affects her because trauma affects others in different ways. And op could have some problems because of her childhood trauma but she hasn't mentioned it.
@@arielleshort2072 I don't sympathise with someone who throws their own kids under the bus.
@@arielleshort2072 you did with innuendo, otherwise your comment is just pointless nattering
"She was blind to see that he's using her", OP couldn't be more wrong about that, she clrarely saw who her bf was and who her ex husband was, but she's was just smh enjoying it, get her help ASAP.
Women like this who get off on being abused and want to drag her kids into it is gross.
to be honest, i wouldnt even have given the "choice" to the mom, i would be like "listen, you are going to the police and you are telling them about the abouse, you are going to to do that or you are out of the house, so what is going to be?"
with people like that trying to be reasonable is only grounds for them continuing to live in their bubble, or worse, make them believe that they still have some decision power over the situation. truth is, she doesnt.
Sounds like my aunt. 😢 My mother also always defended her.
Everything that went wrong for my aunt was supposedly everyone else’s fault per my mother and aunt…
I used to believe that everyone deserves a second chance, but when you do exactly the same thing the second time around, I would cut ties immediately. Call me heartless, but I don't want to waste my time on people who always cries but still stupidly do the exact same thing the second time around. Like reap what you sow
some people don’t deserve to be parents at all
L mom
I love karmic justice stories.
The mother sounds peachy. She better not retire from her work. She better stay there and earn a living because she ain't going anywhere in this economy.
I can't believe how foolish some people can be
Honestly, you wouldn't be the AH. She praised her late husband for beating you up, then talks about family when her new man slaps her?
Hypocracy
The mom is a clown
By her logic a "good" wife shouldn't have children
That's alot of words to say, "My mom is the problem."
They were treating the Mom like a baby when she was just as bad as the Step Dad.
How is it there are so many people that can’t tell the difference between step and half siblings?
I also believe that in a nuclear family that the parents should put each other first and try to balance that with the kids, but if it's a stepfather or boyfriend or whatever tf the kids come first. Don't get how dumb and delusional people can be
She literally said she wished she never had them. No one should be abused, but the mom herself was abusive.
Can’t believe the mother can be this stupid, she wrote the deed to the house to a man who she only been dating for months. She bought him a lot of stuff that he’ll probably pawn off for money and probably sell the house.
That’s on her, she shouldn’t have even considered Derek to be in a relationship in the first place.
Can't believe the audacity of OP's mother. You got fooled twice, shame on you. Simple as that.
My boyfriends mom is kinda similar. She treats my boyfriend like shit. She only picks shity dudes and ones that only want her for money. My boyfriend and I have talked and we aren't giving her any more money. If she wants food, we buy it for her. Does she need gas money? We fill up the car. If we don't do this, she will continue giving the money to her boyfriends. But this recent guy might be the last nail in the coffin. My mother told me that his mother told him that she is dating a guy who is a boss gang member in el salvador. My family is from el salvador my boyfriend is Mexican. My family knows very well how bad those people are. My mom told me to not tell my boyfriend but I did. I told him that if she began to demand more money, not to give it to her, and he agreed. She doesn't know that he knows. There is so much more happening especially with his bro but people like this need help. And I'm done giving it to my boyfriends mother.
You do need to prioritize your partner but not neglect your kids. Or overlook abuse.
This sounds like another "reddit writer"- similar writing style to other long-winded stories. "Tackled challenges together" sounds too impersonal. It just takes the format of a short story.
AI, it has specific syntax and verbiage that is not common in normal speech patterns which make it easier to identify when its used. I think its funny since I recognize it when i see it in college classes now.
I think they are real stories, but people use some kind of AI or program to make it easily understandable and readable.
It's an AI recording of the original post
There’s nothing worse that a woman who puts a step parent before her kids…….
don't go back. and good for blocking him. mommy is worse than the abuser
Forget it. That so called of a mother is a lost cause.
thats shit not a mother .
i’m so sorry for anyone who has lived with abusive (of any kind physically, financially, psychologically, ect ect) it truly makes so much difficult for the rest of our lives) Honestly worse is any mother who chooses a husband/partner/ boyfriend over their children. disgusting
Calling fake news whole first part of the story happened to a 3 Yr old n she remembers all that detail lol
I think this is an AI story. OP keeps changing gender.
What I was hoping for:
Posted to r/NuclearRevenge
Mother Keeps Choosing Horrible Men Over Us, Sells Her House to Latest Scammer Boyfriend, Now Broke and Begging for Our Help After We Warned Her.
Update 4: We burned Derek's ill gained house down.
I'm just at the beginning, but that's not what bipolar is.
A person less than 4yrs old talking to their mom about the mom leaving her boyfriend?
Common denominator = mom
im questioning why sp -step father did not go to school
I hate people that can’t go to police
At 15 I went with a friend to complain about his step dad
He was uncomfortable but I forced him to
Like WTF?
Not everyone has a mentality like you man maybe the person is scared nd didn't want the mess to go out in the open
Forcing someone to complain when they’re not ready is one of the worst things you can do. It made things 10x worse for me.
Technically, the stepsister was his actual sister, because his mother gave birth to her, and that means that there’s some blood that is shared
They're Half-Sisters
Some people are too stupid to be given responsibilities like children or finances. OP’s mother is one such person. One of the worst kinds of people that create all of their misfortunes only to blame others when shit hits the fan and/or people refuse to help her dig her own grave AGAIN!
Shakespeare type wording
she said she wished she never had them, but if she never had them then wouldn't she be homeless then
my mother put her husband over my baby brothers and sent them away because they didn't get along, and even though I don't hate either of them I do resent her and him. Her for putting him over her children and I resented him for either asking to send them away or agreeing to it( never asked how it happened). I can say finances got easier for us but life got really hard for my brother and I have so much guilt but after hs, I was determined to help them have whatever I could give them. They're both in the Marines now but I feel so bad. I know what I'm writing isn't the same but I feel like I should share it
I HATE that I wasted time listening to this BS!!!
After listening to multiple stories from this channel, the similarities in writing styles have caused me to believe these are all made up and written by the same person
This story was infuriating. My suspicious mind was so worried that the half sister would be just like her father and turn on op. Op's mom must be a really broken person inside to normalize all of this misogynistic abuse towards herself and her children. The stepfather was a monster. He doesn't deserve closure on his deathbed.
I love that op's mom inherited so much and she pissed it all away on the first dude to swoop in and sweet talk her. I'll give Derrick credit for at least being an honest golddigger. Op's mom can't do anything about it because she technically gave this jerk all of her consent to take advantage of her. I just can't with her saying family helps each other when she's never done anything to protect her daughters.
Paying her rent for six months was way too generous in my opinion.
Wait. So there's 4 years between stepsister and OP. So when OP was about 2 years old mum was often going out and was broken from hearing mum would save stepdad instead of her? And then OP remembers at 2-3 years old that her stepfather comes home drunk? And at 4 years old, after mum gets married, she's begging mum to leave that abusive stepdad? OP must be a super human for remembering so many details, including things a toddler has no clue about. 😅
I know you shouldn't victim blame, but that mom...
If it was opposite, a rich man and a young girl then it was the old man fault?
West the home of ....
No cause she's already done it twice
The mom has some serious issues
"Put their partner over their children" belief? Usually I have seen only men like that its irony to see a woman like that( no offense to men I said so because I have 100% of my life seen men who loves their spouses more than anything and mostly prioritise their spouses over their children even my so called father was like that 🙄 and would rant about their children loving their moms so much than them , I know not all men are like that however I have never seen someone to the contrary to the above so my apologies if anyone got offended)...🙂
Why would they talk to their mother about how horrible her new boyfriend was when all their lives, they watched her constantly side with their cruel father no matter what they did, or said. They tried to help, but my stubborn self is screaming how incredibly stupid they were for even trying. She’s already a garbage mother when she said she’ll save her husband then her own kids if something happened.
Why the fuck do these people never get law enforcement or CPS involved?
AI. Nobody's writes like that unless it's fiction or AI.
Stupid is as stupid does.
Op is a good sister en, Serena olso is a good. Sister this is the first reddit story that, stepsister ia nice 🤣😅
If a guy ask who would i save in a life or die i ask if i can pick my self to die i die to save my kid and my love one i don,t know 😢 what would you do if a guy ask you that hearing the mom pick a evil guy but not her own kid
The OP mother is a fool
How do you post so much like dang
He's just copy pasting reddit stories into an ai program and possibly paying someone to make the captions or using a speech to text thing and the background footage is just minecraft parkour
It's pretty easy to do when all you need to do is take stories from Reddit and put them into an AI voice synthesizer(no disrespect to TellTales)
also posting the same stories over and over again
@@ComicallyStupid-t9y these stories cannot be found on Reddit, I find it indicative
I had to stop around 13 minutes op’s mom is … ugh I can’t wrap brain around any of this
Half sister not step sister
Too well written, this is a story, not IRL.
isnt allowed to music, has headphones. calls her half sister her step sister. dude was clearly bipolar. did no one suggest medical and psychological intervention ? hoping for some one to suffer whislt having cancer is insane no matter the circumstances.when your mom fell back into the same trap, they didnt do everything in their power to save her? what terrible children
It sounds like the mother has Stockholm syndrome but idk
I gotta find me a woman like this!
Definitely fake, AI
Refuse to help, she's hopeless
I dont feel sorry for ur mom.