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    In this clip, she shares a personal story that led her to become a men’s rights activist. We talk about how 498a is misused in our country, the reality of working for men’s rights, the story behind making the documentary, India’s Sons, and more.
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Комментарии • 1,4 тыс.

  • @devillord350
    @devillord350 2 года назад +1742

    The absence of women in the comment section is concerning and disheartening

    • @thecontrarycontrarian4230
      @thecontrarycontrarian4230 2 года назад

      The absence of feminists and those who lecture about equality of gender when Ukraine forced the men to stay back and die while allowing women to leave shows the fraudulent intentions of feminism

    • @samratsengupta7532
      @samratsengupta7532 2 года назад +376

      Might be busy studying or applying IPC 498A and other such articles

    • @thecontrarycontrarian4230
      @thecontrarycontrarian4230 2 года назад

      @wase women are hypocrites and have a double standard. They want gender equality as per their convenience and not real gender equality

    • @shubhamgarg9918
      @shubhamgarg9918 2 года назад

      thats because the audience of this channel is men and it wont be recommended much to the girls

    • @hirakbanerjee7514
      @hirakbanerjee7514 2 года назад +208

      Women abstain from commenting on issues that are related to Men's welfare. If you want women to speak up, then simply put up a "Boss lady" type topic & see the horde return & stomp & shout & rejoice.

  • @10ON10
    @10ON10 2 года назад +388

    *Equality can only be established when people who misuse laws are equally punished as a criminal is*

    • @Canvas73120
      @Canvas73120 Год назад +8

      Kiya mast joke mara hai re.

    • @nitingautam2806
      @nitingautam2806 Год назад +13

      Well think about cardi B admitted her crimes 10 years ago whereas guy was falsely accused 10 years ago was jailed so

    • @PabitraPadhy
      @PabitraPadhy Год назад +9

      Yes.. that's true
      But laws should also be amended that allegations like this are treated with legal proceedings and accused should not be treated guilty solely on the base of complaint.

    • @Supermanindia98
      @Supermanindia98 10 месяцев назад

      Exactly bro

    • @dxruling
      @dxruling 9 месяцев назад

      Laws aren't being used to begin with lol, forget about its misuse.

  • @satyapatro1523
    @satyapatro1523 2 года назад +702

    If today as a whole India knows about the misuse of 498a then all credit goes to Deepika mam and her sincere effort for the last 10 years

    • @Tambolijafar
      @Tambolijafar Год назад +3

      👍

    • @49nishant28
      @49nishant28 Год назад +9

      She is there. But long before her there are men who suffered and started the movement. But nobody will remember them.

    • @mayanksharma3278
      @mayanksharma3278 9 месяцев назад +5

      Actually her cousin brother was once falsely accused. Then she got the pain & started this campaign. For her surprise, she was also called in the police station as she was also got framed.

    • @shaktimaan1064
      @shaktimaan1064 5 месяцев назад

      Completely true problem of today's society is super scarcity of femininity we have plentyfull women in our society, but many of them are lacking The femininity. The biggest role in destruction of femininity in female and present Society is our laws and legal systems. Women are trying to become men and the new social norms are trying to make men a woman. This is fundamentally and naturally wrong which is actually destroying the relations and misleading the society. Actually, for wellbeing of society masculinity and femininity both are required in equal proportion. In fact, we required femininity more than musculanity. But the new norms, legal systems and laws and limitation of our education system is destroying the femininity and only inducing masculinity in females. Please save the femininity in the society. Femininity means kindness, empathy, loving, caring, nurturing, helping, softness, adjustability, flexibility, honesty, forgiving etc and masculinity means, bravery, confidence, rationality, physical and mental power, leadership, decision-making, dependability, reliability, integrity etc. It is desirable to have some masculinity in female and some femininity in males. But total distortion of natural gender actually is destroying the society. Females are now increasingly becoming narcissistic, super selfish and self centric and saddest instead of kind and empathetic. Now they are naturally hypergamus owing to evolutionary history but at the same time the present values are not supporting the evolutionary history and making the females as males. Due to this irony and contradiction of past, and present societies, if she doesn’t find her partner as truly superior to her or others or as per her expectation, she would gradually or quickly lose interest in him and start misbehaving. That thing ultimately is escalated into divorce and all this false allegations to take advantage of legal system falsely inclined towards one physical gender which is called females.
      Our Scriptures like Ramayana are primarily intended to infuse the right values in the society. Today we are inaugurating Rama Temple and celebrating with great pomp and show. But are we ready to invite those values even 1% of those values gifted by our forfathers in our Scriptures.

  • @moMdaD-fm3ng
    @moMdaD-fm3ng 2 года назад +180

    Deepika Bhardwaj ❤️
    She must be protected at any cost
    ~ *Indian Men's*

  • @tanushreebishoi
    @tanushreebishoi 2 года назад +233

    I cried after watching the documentary - Martyrs of Marriage,
    By Deepika Narayan Bhardwaj.
    That opened my eyes..this is so inhuman, men have no escape, absolutely no exit and they end up committing suicide unable to bear the torture.
    Disgusted with those women who are the perpetrators..they don't have the intellect to gauge the extent of damage done to the men.

    • @Canvas73120
      @Canvas73120 Год назад

      Thanks atleast you understand. Probably women like you r the only reason people still believe in feminity. I cant say thnks enough.

    • @manikandan1111
      @manikandan1111 Год назад +3

      You are a gem

    • @aparichit9728
      @aparichit9728 Год назад +7

      Atleast women's like u who understand this is better than most of them who don't and leave about those who does it

    • @revanthganesh3808
      @revanthganesh3808 Год назад

      Thanks a lot for understanding

    • @himantamedhi3495
      @himantamedhi3495 4 месяца назад

      Leave india , that's the only way to save yourself

  • @sanskrutipatil1110
    @sanskrutipatil1110 2 года назад +842

    as a woman, i think we should also have laws to protect men or just turn al into a neutral law, laws shouldn't be misused like this.

    • @psaiprateek1417
      @psaiprateek1417 2 года назад

      You women say dhit like this to score brownie points online but won't do shit to help men.

    • @thecontrarycontrarian4230
      @thecontrarycontrarian4230 2 года назад +51

      We need laws, policies, commissions, ministries and men's cells to protect men from assault, abuse, atrocities and blackmail by women which is very common

    • @Okayand_99
      @Okayand_99 2 года назад +1

      Ya but feminists are opposing gender neutral laws
      Research and see feminists handles if u don't believe me

    • @thecontrarycontrarian4230
      @thecontrarycontrarian4230 2 года назад +2

      @@Okayand_99 feminists are behind all the one sided unconstitutional, anti male laws. And they openly and brazenly, and shamelessly oppose gender neutral laws and yet claim to stand for gender equality

    • @amishbhadwa7104
      @amishbhadwa7104 2 года назад

      Yeah they will go rape women Kids and even old women
      They are child molesters
      They will kidnap people
      They ARE CHILD PREDATORS THANK GOD DR BR AMBEDKAR

  • @samratsengupta7532
    @samratsengupta7532 2 года назад +116

    Some tips to save yourself as a man:
    1. Observe people's behaviour and discussions they do, you'll get to know who's the toxic one's. Try staying away from them although keep info about them coz you never know they might be conspiring against you. Often the closest people do the worst with you.
    2. Try to keep records of calls, chats and video recordings as well. Suppose you are driving your own car in a lonely place or wherever. Having a dashcam is a great power cause one wouldn't dare causing you any trouble.
    3. Mind your tongue and imagine scenarios before you act
    4. Don't marry stay single

    • @johannfernandes9659
      @johannfernandes9659 2 года назад +11

      Point 4 😂

    • @gigachad1021
      @gigachad1021 2 года назад +8

      @@johannfernandes9659 actually based

    • @princejangra1231
      @princejangra1231 2 года назад

      3rd i what I suck at but I don't give threats
      But I have made people cry with just words

    • @rapiddu6482
      @rapiddu6482 2 года назад +11

      Point 4 is based 😏.
      It is the real essence of life.

    • @fonikgaming1217
      @fonikgaming1217 2 года назад +9

      Point 4 is ,,,,,,,, Reality....

  • @wastedkafir9134
    @wastedkafir9134 2 года назад +300

    *Nailed it!! Was jailed under 498A for 21 days. But I would say the main problem is corruption & incompetence in the judicial system. Also the other laws are far more dangerous. DV act 2005 & Crpc 125. The later is applicable even after divorce. The former will take your property. Lost access to my son 11 yrs ago. Should have gone to a prostitute instead of getting married.*

    • @moMdaD-fm3ng
      @moMdaD-fm3ng 2 года назад +15

      Agreed 💯👍

    • @ultramaxpro8537
      @ultramaxpro8537 2 года назад +10

      True bro

    • @gautamrathod9090
      @gautamrathod9090 Год назад +15

      More power to you bro. God bless. Hope you're doing good now

    • @ayeshakawakil845
      @ayeshakawakil845 Год назад +27

      Why u even get married😂😂, it's like signing one sided contract where ur everything is on stake and if she breaks it she wins

    • @nimishdube9518
      @nimishdube9518 Год назад +5

      Hope you're doing fine now. These laws are really against all men. We too should be protected!

  • @homevideos9297
    @homevideos9297 2 года назад +279

    HUGE RESPECT FOR HER🙏🏼 We, highly respected family, experienced the exact same scenario as her situation with adultery from my sister-in-law, got married, never even came to our house, put 498a in 4 days after marriage to getaway from it with a large payout.
    Shock and Humiliation of what we went through as family brings chills even now after 7 years. We only got to know about this law after we were accused of it & the only reason was to get money and get out of it.
    Have spoken to Ms. Deepika personally, and the strength to move on was only achieved by the support of brave warriors like her.
    “Gender neutral laws are the need of the hour” & thanks to you for bringing her on the show and having this discussion🙏🏼

    • @drrameshshrink
      @drrameshshrink 2 года назад +9

      AS long as Male chavunism is supported only because of PEOPLE WHO CALL THEMSELVES, Highly respected family in society, I see its impossible to get GENDER NEUTRAL LAWS, in India.
      There are much bigger issues in India that needs to get justice first. ADULTERY by woman and then GETTING FILED with 498 A by the womans family is DUE TO GENDER INEQUALITY a woman faces first, in India. Because most MEN DO ADULTERY and no woman wants to ditch husband so cheaply, unless IF INNER CHARACTER of a person is valued more than just Adultery.
      Just Indian mentality to scapegoat a woman for ADULTERY REASONS is enough proof, when Adultery is beng done more by MEN, that GENDER EQUAL LAWS are not going to happen as it is society that has to change, to stop scape goating woman TAKING DOWRY AND DOING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE on woman more.... Why doesnt Man not give Dowry and get domestic abuse by woman, in INDIA at all, and WHY then ADULTERY should become such a big issue in case of WOMAN, while a Man can conveniently escape??

    • @thecontrarycontrarian4230
      @thecontrarycontrarian4230 2 года назад

      @@drrameshshrink You are delusional. Recently the adultery law was scrapped. Before that, women were EXCLUDED from the law. Only a man could be prosecuted for adultery. So a wife could sleep around and if caught, she could escape by filing false rape cases against the men, send then to jail, and then file false dowry cases, domestic violence cases etc and seek a HUGE SETTLEMENT. So women have the power to destroy men's lives because there are people like you who support such women and their activities. You support adultery committed by women and say it is nothing but adultery committed by a man is a HUGE CRIME. DOUBLE STANDARDS OF SIMPS EXPOSED.
      Next is domestic violence. Who told you that women don't commit domestic violence against men? They do commit it every moment but the society consisting of simps like you and the laws that follow do not recognise violence by women as violence at all. The one sided laws add to the agony of male victims of domestic violence and instead of arresting the woman who committed the crime, they arrest men who are victims. And if people like you sit in judgement in courts, God save the men. You will reprimand the men, laugh at them, call them namard, and appreciate the women for their bravery of assaulting the man and using abusive words.

    • @thecontrarycontrarian4230
      @thecontrarycontrarian4230 2 года назад

      @@drrameshshrink with simps like you around, we need men's commissions and ministries to protect us from your abuse, assault and threats. Because so called men like you will try to become heroes in front of women who will falsely accuse men of rape, dowry etc. You will encourage women criminals to assault men and then you will take over from them by assaulting the man yourself with stones. I have seen enough so called men like you. Shame on you

    • @joeljack3059
      @joeljack3059 2 года назад

      How stupid are you? Do you know how biased the laws of Adultery itself are? If a person's wife commits adultery with another man, the wife doesn't get arrested, the man does. Adultery is a big thing, stop downplaying it. If a man commits Adultery, the wife is free to divorce him.

    • @vinayshelke6360
      @vinayshelke6360 2 года назад +1

      Can you pls help me with how to contact deepika mam.? Im gng thr same..as she explained in video. Pls help me

  • @snbhosale
    @snbhosale Год назад +66

    I am a victim of 498A and my family has already suffered a lot. My wife demanded money which I couldn't afford as a settlement and this is where she used this law as a weapon. I couldn't imagine something like this coming down to me and my family. I hope our judiciary starts looking at men and women with the same lens. There should be punitive provisions for false allegations irrespective of the gender. 😢

    • @VishnurajVBh
      @VishnurajVBh 11 месяцев назад +13

      Jisne tume aur tumhare ma bap ko jail bheja beijjatinki usko jineka haq nahi hai bro khatm kro use...mai hota to thok deta ...bhagwan bhi ma bap ke apman ka bdla lene walonko swarg deta hai

    • @snbhosale
      @snbhosale 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@VishnurajVBh God bless you, brother!

    • @amiyarana8733
      @amiyarana8733 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@snbhosalebro, how much she asking money? Is she still with you? Is your wife having any affair? Please tell us.

    • @SM-oj3ty
      @SM-oj3ty 9 месяцев назад +4

      Marriage has become a business for women these days

    • @nishantverma943
      @nishantverma943 9 месяцев назад

      @@VishnurajVBh I 100 % agree .

  • @SatCool
    @SatCool 2 года назад +191

    Ranveer, appreciate your work, thanks for interviewing her. I have personally fought & won IPC498 along with other multiple cases, sad part is our law doesn't punish women & their family who use this law has legal terrorism.

    • @uditraj8290
      @uditraj8290 2 года назад +16

      तो भाई उसपे मानहानि का केस करदो...

    • @joeljack3059
      @joeljack3059 2 года назад +9

      Congratulations brother. Did you put a defamation case on them?

    • @SatCool
      @SatCool 2 года назад +26

      @@joeljack3059 Thank you 🙏 problem with our law system, when I approached a criminal lawyer regarding defamation, he informed me we can’t directly file defamation, instead a private complaint with Crpc 200 has been filed in the court, as usual these dirty cops don’t do their work honestly, I have been waiting from 2017, and off course lock down also delayed things

    • @jkshallinheritearth3883
      @jkshallinheritearth3883 2 года назад

      @@SatCool at least a women give her time of the day by putting fake charges on you! Meanwhile I'm invisible to women 😭😭😭

    • @adiddevil
      @adiddevil 2 года назад +3

      Well I know men want to avenge false 498a by putting defamation later, but honestly it's waste of time. I know women go Scott free... But who want to visit courts for more time

  • @freecoder522
    @freecoder522 2 года назад +42

    She is working for men , it's really amazing.
    I had never seen any women doing that ......

  • @ebrahimrashied5346
    @ebrahimrashied5346 2 года назад +76

    Not only in India that men are suffering. So many countries there are ways women use the legal system to "overpower" men. This is a global issue that the legal system is aligned with women. It takes a man an enormous amount of financial resources to prove his innocence which many men end up in depression or become suicidal, and even that state of a man in depression is used against him.

    • @rapiddu6482
      @rapiddu6482 2 года назад +7

      Exactly that's the main issue here. I meam any law can be used falsely but these ones in particular only drains the finances of men that's why they are abused the most.

    • @t.s.p1864
      @t.s.p1864 2 года назад

      Men are second class citizen, men should stop marrying., they want freedom give them absolute freedom.

    • @Daniel-fe3tx
      @Daniel-fe3tx Год назад +2

      But in India condition of men is worst

    • @49nishant28
      @49nishant28 Год назад +3

      Not in Islamic ones. Even in Bangladesh, a minimum 50k fine is imposed if false dowry case was lodged

    • @sksoren2960
      @sksoren2960 Год назад +4

      No bro....all the European countries they already have gender neutral law ....but here in India situation is very bad 🙁.....

  • @niharikasn5044
    @niharikasn5044 2 года назад +107

    We lack gender neutral laws and i feel so much respect towards her.creating a safe space for men to be vulnerable is such amazing thing.I would like to see men create their spaces share their journeys also not being judged.Prayers to all men who were denied justice 🙏🙏🙏

    • @harsh8315
      @harsh8315 2 года назад +6

      How great it would be if we don't need seperate space for men and women but a common space for humans including all gay lesbian etc

    • @OmPrakash-ms5fr
      @OmPrakash-ms5fr Год назад +3

      Most countries have laws favouring women, even USA, UK, Canada etc. In US, the husband can be forced to give half his property to the wife. Much better to remain single.

    • @thewhitewolf5645
      @thewhitewolf5645 Год назад +1

      @@OmPrakash-ms5fr but in us there are nuptial agreements as well signing a prenup and your property is safe

    • @OmPrakash-ms5fr
      @OmPrakash-ms5fr Год назад

      @@thewhitewolf5645 Pre nup is not compulsory. Half of your property can be attached by the US court and given to wife.

    • @OmPrakash-ms5fr
      @OmPrakash-ms5fr Год назад

      @@thewhitewolf5645 Many women refuse to sign pre nups. Also a false allegation by a girl or woman can put a man behind bars.

  • @physicsonline8853
    @physicsonline8853 2 года назад +44

    I am proud to be in a country which produces such sensitive,articulate and determined ladies like Ms Deepika Bhardwaj who deal with blots on our society, particularly on the misude of Article 498A which is a clear case of a misguided attempt to address a social problem.

  • @anushreesuresh___0517
    @anushreesuresh___0517 2 года назад +157

    It's sad how this 'fight for equality' has made men unequal and be at such an unfair position for anybody to be in.
    The society that promotes gender equality, judges, when a man is upset with their marriage, and consoles when a woman is.
    Truly depressing.

    • @thecontrarycontrarian4230
      @thecontrarycontrarian4230 2 года назад

      Feminism and the gender equality claim was never there in the first place. It was fraud from the beginning and it was always about changing the society into a totally female dominated one where men are just slaves to women.

    • @Gagan-nu2ew
      @Gagan-nu2ew 9 месяцев назад +3

      We urgently need
      Police reforms: Stop violence/torture of the accused.
      More trained officers, forensic teams for a faster and fair preliminary investigation.
      Judicial reforms: faster disposal of cases/ speedy trial. Also easier access to courts.
      Prison reforms for separate prisons for undertrials with basic humans rights of clean toilets/bathrooms, decent food & safe & not overcrowded barracks.(Later for convicts too)
      These reforms must be our prime agenda for 2024 elections. West is much better in this area if not the best, so will aslo solve problems of people living India for a good life

    • @shaktimaan1064
      @shaktimaan1064 5 месяцев назад

      Completely true problem of today's society is super scarcity of femininity we have plentyfull women in our society, but many of them are lacking The femininity. The biggest role in destruction of femininity in female and present Society is our laws and legal systems. Women are trying to become men and the new social norms are trying to make men a woman. This is fundamentally and naturally wrong which is actually destroying the relations and misleading the society. Actually, for wellbeing of society masculinity and femininity both are required in equal proportion. In fact, we required femininity more than musculanity. But the new norms, legal systems and laws and limitation of our education system is destroying the femininity and only inducing masculinity in females. Please save the femininity in the society. Femininity means kindness, empathy, loving, caring, nurturing, helping, softness, adjustability, flexibility, honesty, forgiving etc and masculinity means, bravery, confidence, rationality, physical and mental power, leadership, decision-making, dependability, reliability, integrity etc. It is desirable to have some masculinity in female and some femininity in males. But total distortion of natural gender actually is destroying the society. Females are now increasingly becoming narcissistic, super selfish and self centric and saddest instead of kind and empathetic. Now they are naturally hypergamus owing to evolutionary history but at the same time the present values are not supporting the evolutionary history and making the females as males. Due to this irony and contradiction of past, and present societies, if she doesn’t find her partner as truly superior to her or others or as per her expectation, she would gradually or quickly lose interest in him and start misbehaving. That thing ultimately is escalated into divorce and all this false allegations to take advantage of legal system falsely inclined towards one physical gender which is called females.
      Our Scriptures like Ramayana are primarily intended to infuse the right values in the society. Today we are inaugurating Rama Temple and celebrating with great pomp and show. But are we ready to invite those values even 1% of those values gifted by our forfathers in our Scriptures.

  • @shreyasingh3170
    @shreyasingh3170 2 года назад +38

    my friend's brother is going through this hell , her family is shattered .A few days after marriage bhai came to know about his wife's pregnancy literally after few days and the child was her boyfriend's child , later she aborted that child , after few months of their marriage she accused him and his family of domestic violence , dowry and demanded 25 lakh as settlement but thankfully her family opposed her and told her that they will file case against her with the evidences they have , but still this incident has mentally shaken the family , my friend's brother is depressed her mother is not well , her father is a really nice man but his confidence has shattered after this incident .

    • @19andshy
      @19andshy 2 года назад +1

      hope everything will be fine soon.

    • @aspirant9845
      @aspirant9845 Год назад +2

      @@19andshy after paying 25lakhs it will be settled

    • @kalashsharma4344
      @kalashsharma4344 Год назад +13

      The fact is even with all legal proceedings it's still hard to win and even if they win they'll still have to pay alimony and for sure with time as well. It may take few years for that to end

    • @shreyasingh3170
      @shreyasingh3170 Год назад +6

      @@aspirant9845 no they won't pay her 25 lakhs, they have evidences against her even her parents are not supporting her with this cruelty, at the end she had to withdraw the case but still this incident gave a irremovable scar to the family.

    • @shreyasingh3170
      @shreyasingh3170 Год назад

      @@kalashsharma4344 majority of the cases are genuine cases of violence against women, dowry and what not , but these wicked assholes are taking advantage of judicial system, and ironically our judicial system gives advantage to perpetrators only, be it man Or be it women.

  • @bullrider9617
    @bullrider9617 2 года назад +105

    This is a very burning Issue , I have seen plenty of cases where women are misusing this and looting their Husbands family after divorce !!

    • @ultramaxpro8537
      @ultramaxpro8537 2 года назад

      Its as if anti dowry law became a tool to loot the man's family.

  • @RedLoveShow
    @RedLoveShow 2 года назад +74

    I got married to a girl back in April 17 2022 . It was a mutual marriage both of us wanted to get married. After marriage the girl started second guessing the marriage and then she wanted to end the relation. She blocked me from all social media and WhatsApp, started talking to her ex, and then tried to put false case against me. She drafted nullity of marriage petition where she claimed the marriage was forced and they have been cooerced and she wanted me to be punished for it and also wanted money from me. I realised who she is and what she is really really quick.

    • @Baap.of.Rationalists
      @Baap.of.Rationalists 2 года назад +10

      Does marriage get nullified?.... Is everything okay now?

    • @baroncandy3939
      @baroncandy3939 2 года назад +4

      Are u ok now sir?

    • @rahulbhattacharjee6508
      @rahulbhattacharjee6508 2 года назад +10

      i fail to understand, if a person can be punished for the crimes he never committed, why does he not commit the crimes and then go to jail.

    • @baroncandy3939
      @baroncandy3939 2 года назад +2

      @@rahulbhattacharjee6508 because then it will justify the crimes and the time and it may be then just made more serious as the system is no longer wrong human laws and punishment is skewed

    • @rahulbhattacharjee6508
      @rahulbhattacharjee6508 2 года назад

      @@baroncandy3939 so you mean, if somebody falsely accuse an innocent, that innocent should wait for a justice after 7 years, you think corrupt cops gonna do their jobs.
      Why not just become the monster she accused so that people who pass on this ridiculous laws can understand the implications.
      Why fear the physical beatings from corrupt, biased cops when even after you are proved innocent society will shame you. You will lose your money and respect to prove your innocent.
      Why not see shes the monster she created with her own eyes and tremble??

  • @tanishabasu6736
    @tanishabasu6736 2 года назад +46

    The fact that the so called LAW of this country upholds the hypocrites and denies justice to the victims, Is astonishing. Society is changing , Laws should change too.

    • @shaktimaan1064
      @shaktimaan1064 5 месяцев назад

      Even if the female itself is the cause of separation if she is a narcissistic personality it is in evitable to break up that relation. Why in such condition man should pay anything. such law is completely against the principles of natural justice and the spirit of Constitution and justfull society. Majority of young population now does not want to marry. The actual high-value males are now not marrying. These laws are not assuring justice but only giving weapon to narcissistic people to harass exploit and extract the male partners. Almost 50% of female population is narcissistic and tend to play falls victim card. So it’s very easy for them to weaponise such unjustfull laws for their inappropriate expectations and tendencies. Such laws are actually the destroyers of society and peace of mind of millions of people. Such law should be repealed with immediate effect. And it’s a big irony that we worshipping Ram and building temple with so big pomp and show. But do we adopt any high-value from Ram or Sita ?

  • @vivekraj-iq8kr
    @vivekraj-iq8kr 2 года назад +235

    My cousin sister filed a fake case of dowry and domestic violence after her husband found her cheating just after 15 days of marriage , she was still in contact with here ex . The matter was settled outside the court after he agreed to pay the sum of RS 20L

    • @thecontrarycontrarian4230
      @thecontrarycontrarian4230 2 года назад +150

      Shame on her! This shows how society supports criminal women

    • @gigachad3861
      @gigachad3861 2 года назад +55

      You should disown her and close off any contact of your family with hers tbh not doing so means you are just silently watch and supporting her unknowingly

    • @KARANVANIYA
      @KARANVANIYA 2 года назад +15

      If the case was false then her husband would have won it and set an example for society instead of satisfying her greed and extortion.
      Bcoz no one can prove a false criminal case in court without evidence.

    • @vivekraj-iq8kr
      @vivekraj-iq8kr 2 года назад +46

      @@KARANVANIYA no bro divorce in 15 days. No court is going to believe a man. The court gave the argument that maybe he wants more dowry . That is why he is behaving like this.
      Some how he settled the case outside the court.

    • @vivekraj-iq8kr
      @vivekraj-iq8kr 2 года назад +44

      @@gigachad3861 yes bro I haven't talked to her since last 5 yrs. But I have seen society people supporting her.

  • @siliconmemories2023
    @siliconmemories2023 Год назад +21

    I know a colleague of mine who confided in me who went through a similar experience. After paying close to 60 Lakhs, essentially his entire life's earnings to not make his family go through more suffering he left for US. He is highly educated and told his parents this country is bad, this society is bad and he is not going to return. I know another instance where the woman threw allegations of impotency putting the man's family at extreme society shame and pressure, took close to 1 Crore of valuables and cash and went on to marry and divorce 4 more men.

    • @SwarneshMr
      @SwarneshMr Год назад +2

      Why did the man pay?

    • @siliconmemories2023
      @siliconmemories2023 Год назад +3

      @@SwarneshMr Both men paid entire life earnings. Women went on to live con more men.

    • @pranavjayaprakasanut
      @pranavjayaprakasanut Год назад +1

      How can we identify these women ??

    • @pradumkumar7464
      @pradumkumar7464 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@pranavjayaprakasanutwe can't

    • @utkarshsingh1.10
      @utkarshsingh1.10 4 месяца назад +1

      @@pranavjayaprakasanut you cant. thats alarmingly concerning after seeing this generation

  • @ravinder090191
    @ravinder090191 2 года назад +41

    One of my male friends has been suffering big time because of this law for years now.

  • @animeshrose
    @animeshrose Год назад +47

    That's why I am moving to Europe which has gender neutral laws. I really don't feel safe here that any random women can file complaint of Eve teasing or violence and I would be in jail for no reason.

    • @Ranjan_Mohanty
      @Ranjan_Mohanty Год назад +8

      Are you kidding me ? European laws are also skewed towards women. I have been in NL for 10 years. Divorce is a bigger industry than marriage here.

    • @abhachaurasia
      @abhachaurasia Год назад +2

      I'm girl 2 to 3 times i harassed by men i told my family but these mens doesn't go in to the jail

    • @suvch5842
      @suvch5842 Год назад +1

      @Animesh Rise Go to Eastern Europe or middle East behter hai

    • @suvch5842
      @suvch5842 Год назад +4

      ​@@Ranjan_Mohanty Eastern Europe is best There aren't laws like this ya vai ko bolo MIDDLE EAST Chala jae 🤣🤣Rose In Muslim population ese nhi Ho rho bohot sare ladke Achi Biwi Dhundne ke lie Muslim bante ja rhe hai

    • @mayanksolanki7028
      @mayanksolanki7028 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@abhachaurasiainnocents Always suffer

  • @shubhangagarwal925
    @shubhangagarwal925 2 года назад +51

    That's why marriage in current scenario is nothing less than a trauma, whether man or women. Better work on yourself and find a purpose for your life, marriage or being with a wrong women will ruin your life

    • @prachideshpande6652
      @prachideshpande6652 2 года назад +1

      Wrong woman can also ruin life 🤪

    • @Kathakathan11
      @Kathakathan11 2 года назад +3

      Wrong man is also a problem.
      The only way to find right one, is to actually know the person you are with.

    • @shubhangagarwal925
      @shubhangagarwal925 2 года назад +4

      @@prachideshpande6652 that's what I said

    • @mrperfect3197
      @mrperfect3197 2 года назад +18

      ​@@Kathakathan11 A wrong men can't even touch her legally. ( 498a, DV and 30 others )
      But a wrong woman has the power to r@pe the men legally in court and she will be rewarded by life time free maintainence, alimony child support no matter who is guilty.

    • @Kathakathan11
      @Kathakathan11 2 года назад +2

      @@mrperfect3197 really, so women aren’t touched in wrong way 😂 hope your sister will tell you the truth, or she is too privileged to be so protected

  • @shivani721
    @shivani721 2 года назад +138

    I feel we have reached a place in the society where we need more gender neutral laws. POCSO is one of the steps I this direction. It acknowledges children of both the genders being prone to sexual assault . Men being able to talk about abuse and assault will not just empower men but also women .

    • @thecontrarycontrarian4230
      @thecontrarycontrarian4230 2 года назад

      POCSO is also anti men. Women aggressors are protected

    • @KARANVANIYA
      @KARANVANIYA 2 года назад +17

      It doesn't matter where the society is. The laws must be Gender neutral on their face.

    • @pheminismisshit4571
      @pheminismisshit4571 2 года назад +1

      posco is gender neutral & most misused against innocent men.
      a child can b tutored to say lie & a 14yr girl cannot be called a child 🙏

    • @journalingandstuffsofficial
      @journalingandstuffsofficial 2 года назад +2

      @@KARANVANIYA agreed

  • @sureshnishtala2887
    @sureshnishtala2887 2 года назад +23

    Mam is doing a very great job after she herself undergoing within her family ....want more people like her...

  • @accidentalGamer69
    @accidentalGamer69 2 года назад +38

    Those people who misuse the law when caught should suffer the same criminal charges and the punishment

  • @ahambrahmasmiom
    @ahambrahmasmiom 2 года назад +89

    When a case is filed against a man in India especially in these circumstances it's usually you are guilty until proven innocent.

    • @yashsingh3177
      @yashsingh3177 2 года назад +27

      this "guilty until proven innocent" thing is same for every man around the world , look at the fresh case of Jhonny Depp

    • @aks1993kumar
      @aks1993kumar 2 года назад +2

      It’s the same everywhere not just in India

    • @moMdaD-fm3ng
      @moMdaD-fm3ng 2 года назад +5

      But atleast other countries have gender neutral law, but in India we don't have gender neutral law!!!

    • @mrperfect3197
      @mrperfect3197 2 года назад +8

      ​@@yashsingh3177 Exactly bro. I remember during the initial controversy between Turd and Jhonny media houses started publishing Jhonny as an abuser without any single evidence and everyone was against Jhonny and started supporting turd.
      It's even hard for multi millionaire men to prove their innocence. poor men must be tortured by law just like sarabjeet singh and Vishu Tiwari silently.

  • @jkshallinheritearth3883
    @jkshallinheritearth3883 2 года назад +107

    Women's Logic on 498a :
    Ugly guy : Harassment
    Handsome guy : 50 shades of grey Romance! 😂

  • @Aryaissuccessful
    @Aryaissuccessful 2 года назад +31

    She's so strong. She's doing GREAT WORK! i love her! 💜💜

  • @subhodeepdutta5306
    @subhodeepdutta5306 2 года назад +169

    This literally happened to my brother ,he had such high hopes for his marriage but she falsely accused him, Thankfully he got scot free just by paying 1lkh

    • @KARANVANIYA
      @KARANVANIYA 2 года назад +16

      It is not a personal problem anymore. It is a widespread legal and social problem affecting a mass. All though it is good to get out of it personally, it is a positive feedback to the wrongful activities and encourages such people to repeat the same. They themselves do it again and also encourage other people for the same behavior.

    • @rapiddu6482
      @rapiddu6482 2 года назад +27

      @@yashhengne3056 it's very small when it comes to falsely accused cases of 498A. It's brutal bro. I won't wish this atrocity even on my worst enemies.

    • @baroncandy3939
      @baroncandy3939 2 года назад +2

      @@rapiddu6482 wait it's not a sarcastic statment?

    • @kissofmeditation8419
      @kissofmeditation8419 2 года назад +11

      @@baroncandy3939 i dont think its sarcastic...its a fact...there are people settling cases for 20 to 50 lakhs...5 to 10 lakh is the normal practice...

    • @KartikChauhan__KC
      @KartikChauhan__KC 2 года назад +7

      @@kissofmeditation8419 Yep, depends on the earning of the male as well, i have even heard 72 Lakh

  • @theincognitospeaker8155
    @theincognitospeaker8155 2 года назад +23

    even animals have some laws for them but men don't

    • @rapiddu6482
      @rapiddu6482 2 года назад

      That's is so depressing I can't even express. 😥

  • @Viddrohh
    @Viddrohh 2 года назад +44

    I have never seen real rape case in real life, but 7 false rape cases around me.

    • @princejangra1231
      @princejangra1231 2 года назад +8

      Exactly

    • @healingtogether1177
      @healingtogether1177 11 месяцев назад

      and how did you know which were real and which were false?

    • @Viddrohh
      @Viddrohh 11 месяцев назад +4

      @@healingtogether1177 in all cases accused got acquitted shortly and the female complainant victims accepted that they filed rape case to settle down some dispute between the accused and complainant.

  • @MrJINDAL89
    @MrJINDAL89 2 года назад +59

    Indian Law is always favorable to women. Period

    • @thecontrarycontrarian4230
      @thecontrarycontrarian4230 2 года назад +1

      We men need to unite and VIOLENTLY push the women hard until they are forced to amend the laws. It is our survival

    • @gigachad1021
      @gigachad1021 2 года назад +16

      Gynocentric society lol

    • @thecontrarycontrarian4230
      @thecontrarycontrarian4230 2 года назад +16

      @@gigachad1021 yes, female centric

    • @anishnehete
      @anishnehete 2 года назад +5

      @@gigachad1021 true

    • @gigachad3861
      @gigachad3861 2 года назад

      Only for Hindus lol for Muslims none of these cases exist feminism is mostly a non Muslim problem

  • @ayeshakawakil845
    @ayeshakawakil845 Год назад +13

    I am 33 never married, life is chill, no tension of unnecessary stuff😁

  • @apeverell0101
    @apeverell0101 2 года назад +25

    Nothing will change because male members of the Parliament sit back and allow these kind of laws to be passed.

    • @shaktimaan1064
      @shaktimaan1064 5 месяцев назад

      Even if the female itself is the cause of separation if she is a narcissistic personality it is in evitable to break up that relation. Why in such condition man should pay anything. such law is completely against the principles of natural justice and the spirit of Constitution and justfull society. Majority of young population now does not want to marry. The actual high-value males are now not marrying. These laws are not assuring justice but only giving weapon to narcissistic people to harass exploit and extract the male partners. Almost 50% of female population is narcissistic and tend to play falls victim card. So it’s very easy for them to weaponise such unjustfull laws for their inappropriate expectations and tendencies. Such laws are actually the destroyers of society and peace of mind of millions of people. Such law should be repealed with immediate effect. And it’s a big irony that we worshipping Ram and building temple with so big pomp and show. But do we adopt any high-value from Ram or Sita ?

  • @ananthakrishnanmaya2912
    @ananthakrishnanmaya2912 2 года назад +70

    Now that is a woman I can call a lady 👏🙌🙏

    • @Kathakathan11
      @Kathakathan11 2 года назад

      Many women I know, won’t support such misuse of any law.

    • @mrperfect3197
      @mrperfect3197 2 года назад +5

      @@Kathakathan11 that's why most woman are silent on this video.

    • @Kathakathan11
      @Kathakathan11 2 года назад +2

      @@mrperfect3197 not everyone watches this podcast, and yes there are many women who have commented here, just read the name. Ask your mom or sister, if they will ever misuse any law against their husbands. You will get the answer. Keep hating women, that won’t change the larger reality that we all need to coexist and need mutual respect.

    • @mrperfect3197
      @mrperfect3197 2 года назад

      ​@@Kathakathan11 again victim card mode activated? What I said is absolutely true. If you don't believe me then you can check the comment of thappad film and section 375 film. majority of men support women but most women don't. whenever men say their problems to women they instantly compare men's problem with woman's problem in their subconscious mind and start to think that this is not a problem (until she saw the problem with her own eyes). Woman who actually supports men are in minority like Deepika, Jyoti Tiwari and others

    • @mrperfect3197
      @mrperfect3197 2 года назад +2

      ​@@Kathakathan11 you told me about my mom and sister but I completely feel safe with them even If no one is with us because they will never register false cases against me for money, revenge or whatever,
      but I feel totally unsafe with random women. her one false accusation and my reputation, career, life is finished.

  • @dilipjeevan9945
    @dilipjeevan9945 2 года назад +38

    I am going through divorce case. Married to mentally ill girl. We spent all our savings on marriage and never took a penny. Now we had to sale our house had to leave job. Still court dates are on us. My mum dad are soo depressed. Never ever rose a voice on her but she filed this complain. We are shattered by this and above the treatment of police is worse. It's soo Horefic that we can not even think of happy stable life anymore. Just getting divorce and clear in this case is moksha for us.

    • @hardeeprajput6564
      @hardeeprajput6564 2 года назад +13

      Fight my brother fight. You are not the loser remember

    • @yashtiwari117
      @yashtiwari117 2 года назад +12

      More power to you, brother.

    • @dilipjeevan9945
      @dilipjeevan9945 2 года назад +12

      Thank brother for support. I've left job of IBM to stay with my parents now. Doing low scale job here. Money is less but me being my parents give them another level of mental stability. Tho police and so called mahila ayog dont miss chance to harrass. Even after having enough proof be it written, call records and eye witness all system put blindside. But i know we are sticking with truth. One day I'll be out of it. Then I won't be looking back. Worst patch of my life ever.

    • @moMdaD-fm3ng
      @moMdaD-fm3ng 2 года назад +6

      She doesn't deserve u ,
      Fight back brother , we r with u , God Bless U bro ❤️

    • @rajeevraut1647
      @rajeevraut1647 2 года назад +9

      @@dilipjeevan9945 bhai mei bhi fuss gayaa hun..😪😔

  • @princejangra1231
    @princejangra1231 2 года назад +88

    Someone I know was 24 and had a great life
    Parents forced him into an arranged marriage
    He was well off so he asked the girl for any reason there might be issues any relationship she has or anything
    But she kept quiet
    After marriage he caught her talking with her affair partner
    The guy did not say anything and just sent her home
    Ofcourse her parents knew that's why they also forced marriage.
    Made her go through shit and she committed suicide and now the guy is in trouble cause apparently it's his fault she died by suicide while she was in her family home.

    • @pheminismisshit4571
      @pheminismisshit4571 2 года назад +21

      now if wife has affair the best thing for men is keep quiet & be happy wit her rather than complaining bcuz if he does then he invites 498A DV 125

    • @princejangra1231
      @princejangra1231 2 года назад +29

      For me best thing would be avoid marriage
      Cause they want the cash not anything else

    • @harry_0960
      @harry_0960 2 года назад +5

      @@princejangra1231 u know I have actually heard this from one of my acquaintance, also many times on social media ...I do understand where u are coming from and I totally respect that but at the same time I struggle to imagine a life without a partner ...let's be honest even with your whole family beside you u still can feel lonely...there is always a wall and gap that perhaps only your partner can fill ....I seriously want a open discussion or talk of some sort on this .... regarding your possible alternatives if you choose to go this path ....

    • @princejangra1231
      @princejangra1231 Год назад

      @@harry_0960 a valid point

    • @MessiAndA3
      @MessiAndA3 Год назад +8

      @AK Indian courts will treat that sort of live in relationship as a marriage, especially if the girl demands compensation after a breakup and drags you to court because you refused. It has been said so explicitly and there is precedent for it.

  • @cauhanronak
    @cauhanronak 2 года назад +42

    I hope one day law will be made for men. Society will change its mindset, socal media stop showing men as a animal, mam god bless you and those who support you but i will pray God that these will be done soon.

    • @akashmishramgtow2361
      @akashmishramgtow2361 2 года назад

      Until then just RESORT TO MURDER and killing

    • @aakashgarain
      @aakashgarain 2 года назад +5

      The law shouldn't be made specifically for anyone,the law should be for everyone equally

    • @cauhanronak
      @cauhanronak 2 года назад +6

      @@aakashgarain Is it so right now

    • @rohith2714
      @rohith2714 2 года назад +12

      @@aakashgarain but there are laws that support only women, what do you say about it ?

    • @cauhanronak
      @cauhanronak 2 года назад

      No

  • @5SOSIndia
    @5SOSIndia Год назад +13

    As a woman, i would say that this law is highly misused one and doesn’t show equality for men and women. Men are often the victim of this law and it should either have change or removed. As i have seen in my own family, there’s no consequence of fasle dowry claims and it also includes punishment of the innocent men even before the judgment is passed, infact even before the case reaches the court.

  • @priyamvadasingh4646
    @priyamvadasingh4646 2 года назад +9

    Every woman who love men in their life should learn about this topic!!!!!

    • @amaanullah13
      @amaanullah13 2 года назад +1

      Here comes a Karen

    • @aniruddhakarmakar8331
      @aniruddhakarmakar8331 Год назад

      But today's girls are woke, feminists, and greedy,,,😢

    • @Lilomen_AD
      @Lilomen_AD Месяц назад

      ​@@amaanullah13 why she is Aa karen she is saying women shouldn't support this

  • @jitkr1489
    @jitkr1489 2 года назад +10

    Really admire this woman.. She has sacrificed her promising career for her purpose!! A lot of people will never know what this purpose is, until it hits close to home

  • @cognizance4478
    @cognizance4478 Год назад +10

    It is giving me chills.. We need immediate action about this law. Laws do not have to be for manipulators.

  • @mrbme
    @mrbme 2 года назад +28

    Many women say why men don't talk about women issues.
    Answer is this comment section...u hardly see any. And reason for this is "It doesn't matter to us since we r not the one who r suffering.."
    And some also r of view
    "Acha hua atleast now men r facing what we faced"

    • @Timeisimportant99
      @Timeisimportant99 2 года назад +5

      Completly true

    • @sundinm7703
      @sundinm7703 7 месяцев назад

      Men are the reason you give right if tyrnt rule you don't speak against them

  • @anbitess
    @anbitess 2 года назад +8

    I am so happy to see someone is working on these issues. God bless you 🙏

  • @Artivule
    @Artivule 2 года назад +15

    Due this inequality faced by men in our country, now it's very difficult to have trust in marriage. Whether it's a love or arrange, men will always lose, pay alimony.. ab toh shaadi hi nahi karna hai.. kya bharosa kaisi ladki mile. Single rahenge toh atleast jail nahi jana padega

  • @UmeshSagarOfficial
    @UmeshSagarOfficial Год назад +11

    It happens in every family these days. My cousin brother, who was badly harassed and beaten by the girl's family, was accused of domestic violence and dowry himself and now struggling to get out of it

  • @bhavana735
    @bhavana735 11 месяцев назад +18

    My heart goes out to men who have gone through it.
    If as a woman you fall in love with someone outside your marriage, please peacefully leave the marriage and leave the husband and family alone. Don't Harrass the guy

    • @pradumkumar7464
      @pradumkumar7464 7 месяцев назад

      What... leave the husband... pagal hai kya tu....tere jaise aurat...raaa.....nd se bhi bekar....chii....shame on u

    • @AD13D
      @AD13D 7 месяцев назад

      So true...

    • @utkarshsingh1.10
      @utkarshsingh1.10 4 месяца назад

      sadly , everybody is not like u sister

    • @ankurdas.6630
      @ankurdas.6630 Месяц назад

      Don't get sympathy. A major portion of women take advantage in all places like Law, public transport, school colleges, sports, government jobs etc
      .....

  • @upscworld8474
    @upscworld8474 2 года назад +21

    Today's girls hates you mam , but these girls only understand when something same thing happen with their brother ,father and family.otherwise they want to enjoy privilage.

  • @PrashanthRaghu
    @PrashanthRaghu 2 года назад +27

    Just like in the case of Johnny depp where Camille Vasquez was the primary leading force it's important that Deepika a female is taking the lead. It might sound illogical but is a very key factor. Thank you so much Deepika Madam. Our family has indirectly be benefited by such work.

  • @manukris23
    @manukris23 2 года назад +21

    It’s not just in India, across the world the laws are having a misandrist bias, it’s how the laws are designed to be. Legal consultation is a business, feminism is its marketing strategy and the men’s money at stake in these legal hurdles is their revenue. There is no equality when it comes to laws regarding alimony, child support, adultery, paternity fraud or domestic violence in any country. Even if anyone can point it out otherwise, it’s only for namesake purposes. The legal assumptions of alimony and paternity fraud dates back to 1900s and 1870s. Alimony was introduced as a penalty for keeping a mistress, but feminism and legal system has turned it around as ‘entitlement cash chips’ for women. Even today, in any developed country, the husband is legally liable to pay 18 years of child’s support when the wife commits paternity fraud and even if she admits the same in the court. When it comes to pedophilic crimes, women get very feeble to no sentencing even if it is proved with all the evidence. Majority of baby killers are women in the modern civilized world and in even the olden times too. Now they use postpartum depression as an excuse to get leaner sentences. Men are legally liable for whatever he does, but women are legally protected, no matter what she does.
    However, there is a carbon chunk that can be turned into a diamond in this haystack of rabid feminist ideas: - the concept of ‘Men are guilty by default’. It means that all men are selfish, hypocritic, liars, rascals, cheaters and all sorts of vile things by default. We have to use this effectively against the system. Just like how the Icelandic women left the work early citing pay gap, we men should abstain from listening to / showing any sympathy or concern to the so called ‘female cause’ until the laws are made gender neutral. We should abandon chivalry, abstain from making donations to women and child welfare programs (bulk of the tax money is routed to write off loans and an array of welfare programs including woman and children), never pay of female centric movies, dramas/ corporate programs, shunt politeness and social responsibility from our minds. instead, we all men must focus on our own happiness, our own skill set development, finances and careers, selfishly (selfishness comes along with the package of guilty by default) and should not be prioritizing relationships (either friends with benefits or no simping policy) and family commitments in our lives. We should match the audacity, cheapness and entitlement of these rabid feminists in our attitude. If they cite pay-gap we must be cheap enough to point out the working hours gap, shopping break gaps and risk appetite gap. We should have zero tolerance to nagging and emotional blackmailing, even if it is done by our mother, sister or daughter. Shunt rabid feminists from our lives even if they are belonging to our own family or blood lines. Never help any stranger (man or woman, be very specific about rabid feminists) without sufficient due diligence checks from our side (if we men get into trouble, rarely we may be getting any help). Monetize our help and onus of taking responsibilities, eg :- If we had to stay back at our work for women to leave early or take additional responsibilities of women going on maternity leave, we must make sure that we get paid for it. There should not be any compromise on it, if we are not paid, we must plan our exit and search for another company at the earliest. Never work in an organization or place for more than 4-5 years, no matter how good that place is! Learn to argue like feminists, our selfish obsessions/targets should be our priority, even if they come with a valid argument, circumvent or ignore it as if we are deaf, just like how they do it against us. There may be good women, but majority of these women are not vocal or concerned about the parasites among them. If all men are responsible for the actions of a few scumbags in the male gender, then the same is applicable to women. Men’s rights organizations are helpless in all the countries, they can’t do much even with the help of women like Deepika. We all men must learn to adopt the skill and attitude of the lone wolf (a lone wolf must be successful like a wolf’s pack and daring like a kamakaze pilot, IF HE GOES DOWN, HE WILL MAKE SURE THAT ATTACKERS ARE ‘SCARRED’PRETTY BAD for life) and mask it under sheep’s wool. If we align with men’s rights organizations, or other welfare organizations, it will be easy for the rabid feminazis to spot, cancel and silence us using misandrist laws and HR rules. “Never fight the system like a gorilla, but always fight it like a guerilla”.

  • @2heavenandback
    @2heavenandback 2 года назад +14

    Laws should be strict and equal for everyone no matter what . In our country we fail to see and realize a problem as a problem until it happens to us or our own . We fail to see the big picture . I certainly hope it changes and we start thinking about us instead of me.

    • @priyarajan5748
      @priyarajan5748 Год назад

      There are many Misandrist in comments section who hate this lady.. And they ard against men and gender neutral law

  • @adityat5905
    @adityat5905 2 года назад +14

    Please talk about a social issue of.........
    If a man is not asking for anything (gift) not a forceful 💰💸 money and he is still in his struggling phase of his life!
    He will be tagged as...
    "Koi dega paisa tabb naa milega"
    A man's worth is decided by what his position is in the society!
    A minister/rich tycoon daughter or sister will be easily married to a IAS officer even if he demands 2-5 crores..
    But if a struggler asks even for certain lifestyle goods(which will be used by his wife also) ... He will be tagged as dowry greedy person!

    • @rapiddu6482
      @rapiddu6482 2 года назад +1

      Exactly. This culture is tremendously popular in Bihar especially. They are literally going for govt jobs because the hype is so much that fuckers are marrying their daughter by giving dowry of 20-30 lakhs for a govt job that merely gives 35k/month salary. 🤦‍♂️
      The problem is that these rich ass have ruined and rigged the entire system. Now even if a guy doesn't ask for anything they will literally force you mentally to take it. If you resist too much they will think there is something wrong with you 😑 and will start second guessing the marriage itself.

    • @adityat5905
      @adityat5905 2 года назад +5

      @@rapiddu6482 Exactly my point!! Yess!..
      Not only Bihar .. (Entire north India)..
      UP MP Rajasthan Harayana & Punjab also
      And then the Guy has to demand something in order to protect his dignity as a person!!
      Dowry as a concept will only stop if both Girl's and Boy's family are not Greedy!

    • @moMdaD-fm3ng
      @moMdaD-fm3ng 2 года назад +2

      Dowry is the type of money which is taken by some poor husbands for sake of his wife ,his kids education, so basically dowry is enjoyed by both husband/wife n kids ...
      But alimony is only enjoyed by wives, alimony money is extorted by beggar wives even if she is capable of earning.
      Both dowry n alimony should be banned 🚫

  • @adi6183
    @adi6183 2 года назад +37

    498a serves no purpose..instead divorce should be made faster and easier for woman and the section 125 trial should be done fast so that financial dispute is resolved.

    • @thecontrarycontrarian4230
      @thecontrarycontrarian4230 2 года назад +20

      Scrap section 125. Men should avoid marriage because marriage is legalized prostitution

    • @Gigachad-fq2rg
      @Gigachad-fq2rg 2 года назад

      @@thecontrarycontrarian4230 idk about prostitution but married is legally rigged in every possible way against men.

  • @vijaysinghr988
    @vijaysinghr988 2 года назад +13

    According to this
    Ugly men: harassing
    Good looking men: Twilight

    • @amaanullah13
      @amaanullah13 2 года назад

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @Final._.boss._.0
      @Final._.boss._.0 3 месяца назад

      As an ugly guy I can confirm don't flirt because it's called harrasment

    • @vijaysinghr988
      @vijaysinghr988 3 месяца назад

      @@Final._.boss._.0 you aren't ugly just put your hair down(scissor 7 reference)

  • @jeetdeshmukh
    @jeetdeshmukh Год назад +3

    So so good of you to do this. We can only count on people like you to fight for us. Men need to stand up for men

  • @mithunmahali8127
    @mithunmahali8127 2 года назад +35

    Time will come when people's faith on marriage will end .

    • @piero17y65
      @piero17y65 2 года назад +18

      The time has already arrived and within the coming of the next decade marriage in India will be looked down much much more

    • @dhruvbhatia5737
      @dhruvbhatia5737 2 года назад

      But making family is also veri imp

    • @Gigachad-fq2rg
      @Gigachad-fq2rg 2 года назад +2

      @@dhruvbhatia5737 then you can make a family otherwise too, just live with them

    • @mrperfect3197
      @mrperfect3197 2 года назад

      @@dhruvbhatia5737 ya. but if your wife register a 498a case then bhoom. The court will order you to give lifetime maintenance to her on a monthly basis until you die + you have no access to you own children.
      now don't be that guy "Meri wali aisa nahi karegi". millions of men are getting trapped by law and they will have no support in their oldage

    • @DeepakSharma-ip7lk
      @DeepakSharma-ip7lk Год назад

      USA me to aa chuka h

  • @gojoinbox
    @gojoinbox 2 года назад +18

    A life lesson to learn - don't take dowry and don't do marriage

    • @amaanullah13
      @amaanullah13 2 года назад +1

      Maybe you said too much about marriage

    • @p.c62
      @p.c62 Год назад +14

      Dowry....to dikhati bhi nahi kahi....lekin ALMINY her case me dikhti hai

  • @perpetualprosperity2963
    @perpetualprosperity2963 2 года назад +6

    Such a great woman she is. Great respect for you Real Woman 👏👏👏👏🙏. Thank you for standing with the victims of IPC 498A 🙏

  • @MyWorld_Mk11
    @MyWorld_Mk11 Год назад +1

    Great work. Thank you for your effort

  • @100Shazi
    @100Shazi Год назад +7

    Hats off to Ms Deepika. This is such an important and untouched topic for everyone. Thanks Ranveer for bringing this up with her !

  • @AnilKumar-jk4yq
    @AnilKumar-jk4yq 2 года назад +7

    Thank you mam for doing such a wonderful job. God bless you 🙏

  • @vinaya8786
    @vinaya8786 Год назад +6

    This is so true!! She has spoken absolute reality.. Every second house in the society is actually facing with this problem.. And even if the lady is at fault, the court awards her with alimony, which is even more saddening.. I am a women myself, but supporting wrongful acts is not something that fits in my ethics too..

  • @sujitkadam8386
    @sujitkadam8386 2 года назад +2

    Thanks for her work. She is like a sister or someone who is chosen one to fight against the injustice on men.

  • @VipinKumar-yl1wt
    @VipinKumar-yl1wt 2 года назад +53

    It's very true, my own neighbour suffering from this, he is very good guy but his wife left him few months after marriage and now demanding huge amount of money if not given then threatened with 498a. I feel sorry for him so guys choose absolute carefully ur partner.

    • @thecontrarycontrarian4230
      @thecontrarycontrarian4230 2 года назад

      No need to marry. Marriage is an outdated conCept

    • @somnathacharjee7071
      @somnathacharjee7071 2 года назад

      He can do a hidden camera recording,when that bitch will ask him money for not regestaring fake cases

    • @princejangra1231
      @princejangra1231 2 года назад +1

      Why do people do not keep proofs I do not know
      I am 19 and God knows how many times I avoid being alone with a girl

    • @KarmaRinchenTamang
      @KarmaRinchenTamang 2 года назад

      @@princejangra1231 if you have chats then screenshot and keep it. if you are going on date then just turn on voice recording all the way through the date... always check the background of your partner before going on a date

    • @kalashsharma4344
      @kalashsharma4344 Год назад +1

      @@princejangra1231 Awareness brother that's a major issue go to lot of 20 year Olds and ask about 498a most men might not know what it is about and what's the current legal scenario.
      Secondly no mainstream exposure is a major issue for most not knowing the nature of laws

  • @gagadonim3354
    @gagadonim3354 2 года назад +10

    Huge respect for ma'am

  • @hardeeprajput6564
    @hardeeprajput6564 2 года назад +11

    Deepika is god. We men must preserve people like her. Women have used IBC 498 law as mental torture. If men is proved innocent still there is no punishment for women. In Indian society it is order for men to sacrifice everything.

  • @soorajpatel861
    @soorajpatel861 2 года назад +10

    Unfair situation for us guys. But it's also weird how even after laws supporting women, they have it more unsafe

    • @19andshy
      @19andshy 2 года назад

      this comment.

  • @sachin376
    @sachin376 2 года назад +2

    Thank you so much Ma’am!! Heartily respect for you 🙏🙏

  • @abhijeetthakur8503
    @abhijeetthakur8503 2 года назад +9

    Thank god TRS talked about this

  • @satoryvivseeker
    @satoryvivseeker 2 года назад +4

    Thanks

  • @sudipsaha9632
    @sudipsaha9632 Год назад +8

    We need National Men's Commission and gender neutral laws in India

  • @BhairavChikne
    @BhairavChikne 2 года назад +17

    okay! there's someone with us supporting mens and not only feminism

  • @krutarth2411
    @krutarth2411 Год назад +9

    I am the victim of misuses of law by my wife since 2016. She has filed a case of domestic violence and put charges on me for rape extramarital affair dowry etc …Not just on me but on my entire family parents grandparents sister uncles aunts..

    • @CreamlyGhost
      @CreamlyGhost Год назад

      Will all of your family members get arrested?

  • @anildamodaran
    @anildamodaran 2 года назад +26

    Ranveer, This is such an important episode. Thank you for doing this.
    Dear Deepika, On behalf of all men who want a decent and simple life. Thank you 💙

  • @vgm6844
    @vgm6844 2 года назад +2

    I feel so connected with this mam thank you so much

  • @karannair6885
    @karannair6885 2 года назад +4

    Huge respect for you ma'am. Thank you 👌🏻🙏

  • @rapiddu6482
    @rapiddu6482 2 года назад +12

    guy with avg money : crime petrol episode
    guy with a lot of money: 50 shades of grey.
    That's the reality. Get over it.

  • @kshitijoberoi1928
    @kshitijoberoi1928 2 года назад +9

    If women and their family found misusing the IPC 498A just to fulfill their agenda, then why not the same jail time and financial penalty for all those who are involved in doing that just like Men? cause at the end they perjured, tried to ruin someone's life for their gain and that's equally cruel. If we want equality then the laws must not be biased, the law shouldn't be giving them free hand just like that.

  • @ganeshshardul9319
    @ganeshshardul9319 2 года назад +2

    Thank you ranveer for this interview great topic 👍

  • @nevermind983
    @nevermind983 Год назад +5

    Misuse of 498A is spoken as simple as "Misuse of 498A" or "wife settling personal scores against husband and his relatives"
    and not as serious as "Cruelty by wife upon husband and his relatives".
    Family is an integral part of this country, consequences should be analyzed and evaluated before the bubble bust.

  • @hushitoasumi4327
    @hushitoasumi4327 Год назад +8

    1. Open your browser.
    2. Type and search "My wife yells at me"
    3. Type and search "My husband yells at me"
    I guarantee you a 200% shock.

    • @sarth9322
      @sarth9322 Год назад

      Did that, shocked 😓

  • @legendsmv4177
    @legendsmv4177 2 года назад +9

    The most saddening thing to know about is that there is still not a law which protects men against domestic violence and we talk about gender equality.

  • @mohanm1549
    @mohanm1549 Год назад +5

    Mockery goes in Indian Law system...where laws are formed and framed which gives benefit to one section of society against the other section. Lawyers know abt this being in 21st century but unable to change it. Great Shining India!!!

  • @0thisis_nsa7.
    @0thisis_nsa7. Месяц назад +1

    Thanks Allahabadia ji❤

  • @Remy4556
    @Remy4556 2 года назад +61

    Its because of these stupid women who put false dowry accusations that the truly suffering women do not get justice......
    Its because of degraded women who put false rape accusations on innocent men that Nirbhaya had to wait for 8 YEARS to get justice
    This is my India!!!!!!!!

    • @thecontrarycontrarian4230
      @thecontrarycontrarian4230 2 года назад

      Why talk only about women? What about justice for men? A man can be falsely accused. A man can be raped too. A man can be assaulted by a woman. Where is the justice for a man?

    • @princejangra1231
      @princejangra1231 2 года назад

      Cause courts are flooded with fake cases which are made by people who have high level of connections

    • @Gigachad-fq2rg
      @Gigachad-fq2rg 2 года назад +1

      Absolutely.

    • @kalashsharma4344
      @kalashsharma4344 Год назад +8

      True even most feminists don't realize this fact that how much this affects genuine victims if we were able to curb down the cases which were 100% false nirbhaya case would have achieved justice sooner

    • @ka0tic_estate495
      @ka0tic_estate495 Год назад

      Facts

  • @dummyDoona
    @dummyDoona Год назад +4

    Justice should be provided to both men and women. It is quite important to make amendments with law to protect victim.

  • @amitsuju
    @amitsuju Год назад +6

    My family is going through this ordeal right now.
    My sister in law and her mother had some disagreement with my brother and they filed an FIR under 498(a) against my whole family.
    Currently we are trying to get an anticipatory bail so police doesn't harass us. It's so disheartening how these things happen.
    My whole family is sad and scared.
    We are not rich enough to afford litigation expenses.
    My brother's life is probably ruined and i am rethinking if i should even get married.

  • @soumosreesen2320
    @soumosreesen2320 Год назад +2

    Really men need someone like u great 👍 job

  • @RohitSingh-bh6kb
    @RohitSingh-bh6kb 2 года назад +2

    Thanks Ranveer for such eye opening episodes

  • @aks1122ut
    @aks1122ut 2 года назад +4

    Kuch kanoon to admi ke liye bhi bana do.. Very just.... Good job maam

  • @mrperfect3197
    @mrperfect3197 2 года назад +10

    Full respect to Deepika who actually care about men and men's problems.
    Men always support women but most women don't. When you tell your problems to a woman they will be like "Oh woman suffer more than men. I care about men but women suffer more. So...". They always give this kind of response.
    Just see the comment section. on woman related posts/videos there are no sortage of woman and men comments.
    but in this video, there are hardly any woman which shows their nature. I may sound sexist but that's the truth

    • @journalingandstuffsofficial
      @journalingandstuffsofficial 2 года назад +1

      Agreed. Plus I do respect the fact that you mention the words "most women". And no you are not being sexist for bringing out the reality.

    • @Timeisimportant99
      @Timeisimportant99 2 года назад +2

      @@journalingandstuffsofficial It's Just Like "All Guys Aren't The Same" Here Are 3.5 Billion Males Even then why do you use the word "all", say that some boys are wrong

    • @journalingandstuffsofficial
      @journalingandstuffsofficial 2 года назад

      @@Timeisimportant99 this is an universal problem in each and every case.

    • @Timeisimportant99
      @Timeisimportant99 2 года назад

      @@journalingandstuffsofficial And we are the ones who create the problem.

    • @journalingandstuffsofficial
      @journalingandstuffsofficial 2 года назад

      @@Timeisimportant99 exactly

  • @sagarsonar2138
    @sagarsonar2138 2 года назад +2

    Thnak you so much Mam & Thank you Ranveer & Team 🙏🏻🙏🏻💐💐💐

  • @delusional1996
    @delusional1996 Год назад +2

    She is doing such a great job..

  • @mandarp9472
    @mandarp9472 Год назад +9

    Men should boycott Marriage in India or move to other countries if possible.

    • @animeshrose
      @animeshrose Год назад +7

      Yes I don't feel safe here anymore and being in a relationship in India is a severe NO for me.

    • @DeepakSharma-ip7lk
      @DeepakSharma-ip7lk Год назад

      Sab jagah aisa hi USA 🇺🇸 me to bahut bura haal h

    • @goku-123
      @goku-123 Год назад +1

      Russia best ha aur woha ki ladkiya bhi bohot friendly hoti h yeha se lakh Guna acchq

  • @AGTimes
    @AGTimes 2 года назад +3

    every men should watch this video. thanks Ranveer bhaiya 😊

  • @anuragsharma1630
    @anuragsharma1630 2 года назад +1

    and its very good idea to tell everyone about it so that more and more people can use it. brains

  • @kethanva
    @kethanva 4 месяца назад

    Thank you Mam for helping people like us