They have no relationship. Why she did this. Hoping he would see it. But yes he is a god man. And takes cares of them all. But to much damage she caused him. He forgave her. It’s one thing to forgive. But another after everything she did to share his life with her. And he does not
@@Owen_Rubixafter that trauma you can never just be "okay" with your mother, there will always be some form of barrier between you two, and hes stated multiple times he has no contact with her, for valid reasons.
@@OfficialDemego And she did some horrible things to him. She even said, after her brother had died, that she wished it had been Marshall. A toxic mother is not someone you are obligated to do ANYTHING for as an adult. It's not like she was this fantastic mother who didn't deserve any of the bitterness in his songs. She earned her way there. Plenty of teenage mothers don't act the way she did. She has herself to blame for their broken relationship. No one is accountable for the actions of another. He doesn't owe her anything.
@@PleaseGuysAKAYogaChick Listen…… guys……. I’m a jazz composer, writer, inventor…. I know absolutely very little about this rapper except he’s obviously a genius…. Ok…… I can tell you …… I know what it’s like to have your 20 year old son….. completely brainwashed by a religious cult JUST WALK OUT MY LIFE ONE FRIDAY MORNING! ….. that was 4 1/2 years ago …… not a word Since then…… my X , my 2 sisters walked out of my life for the same twisted reason….. There told…… by the delusional headquarters in New York to have nothing to do with me because of trying to expose that evil organization full of child sexual abuse hiding and pedophile toleration. No…. My family knows nothing about it….AND THERE FORBIDDEN TO CHECK OUT THE FBI CASES ONLINE. YEP….. crazy right??? Well….. the F B I is onto this CULT….. and their day in court is coming…… the delusional leadership will ALL BE IN PRISON WHERE THEY BELONG! The followers?…….. I don’t know what will happen to people who obey crazy conspiracy theorists? Maybe they will come to their senses???….. maybe not. Some “crazy “ can’t be fixed! ……lol I’ve ALWAYS been there for my family………. But….. they are strung out on this “ obey god thing”……. I don’t drink, smoke, or do drugs…. I refuse to lie, hurt, or steal. I’ve always been committed to standing for truth and light!… …. My family and son have ALWAYS known that about me…….. yet….. they were completely coerced to betray my love……. Sooo unexplainable!!!!!!!!! YET….. IT HAPPENED !!!!! …… and look what happened to me???? Honestly….. if they all came back to me tomorrow…. I would secretly……….. have trouble trusting them again…….. I hate toxicity……. Hell… I avoid horror movies and mob movies just to avoid needless conflict,killing and stress, and killing…….. I try to be a light in this world…… no.. I’m not perfect……. Sooooo, What am I saying??? Well, Life is a crazy roller coaster… All I ever wanted to do was love and be loved…… compose excellent pieces, write kick ass novels and screenplays…..and be considered…. a special person….. to find….. the love of my life…….. The trick is……. NEVER GIVE UP ON THAT GOAL….. as long as spring comes around each year……. We humans must try….. to BELIEVE in the cycle of life. …… and…… here I am at 67 … not doing bad….. but…. Absolutely no one to share it with…… I’m not bitter though…. I’m healthy, look 20 years younger than I feel….. and take care of myself….. AND….. MOST OF ALL!!!! consider myself lucky to have come this far….. MUSIC, MOVIES, AND BABIES STILL MELT MY HEART…. Lol Sooooooo, What Ms. Mather’s did??… Probably fucked up bad with E. Okay……. But….. it’s OVER NOW….. She was obviously wrong…. She knows it…. He knows it….. ….. time goes by…. Years become decades….. WISDOM SHOWS UP….. WE FINALLY REALIZE…… we’ve awaken from…… a nightmarish past…. …… and we’ve hurt people… BADLY!!!!…… Now….. we…. The victim…. Must find out if they are sincere…… AND LET THEM OFF THE HOOK! GOD WANTS THAT FOR THEM….. and us…….. SO NOW WHAT??? Well…. Life is about WALKING AWAY FROM THE INSANE SHIT…… and…… somehow… Finding a way….. somehow… To HOLD THAT PERSON IN YOUR ARMS AND SAY…. ITS ALRIGHT …. I FORGIVE YOU COME…. CRY ON MY SHOULDERS…… IVE LET IT GO. I’m not healed from my son and sister’s walking out of my life…… but…. I know there “ minds “ aren’t there own! So….. I must find a way to FORGIVE…… if they truly never come out of their fog!!!! I must go forward…. with PEACE…in my heart. It’s really the ………… only reason we exist!! TO FINALLY PUT REVENGE DOWN…… it’s pure evil. LOVE MUST WIN HERE IN THIS UNIVERSE. I’m no longer religious…. But…. I certainly believe in a creator. I pray every day that I can rise higher and higher….. to let the hater’s hate…….. but … I embrace LOVE!!!! ….. that’s the only way to exist on this planet……. by….. Saying a tearful prayer for strength to love….. and …. Just………… let it all go. And….. that good ole healing can begin. Sounds completely CORNY…. …… but … it’s the only way to get OFF….. the roller coaster. And .. Find …. the real life.🕯 Love you guys…. Peace to you. 🎼RAIN AGAIN 🎼
@@PleaseGuysAKAYogaChickmy wife is going through this with her dad. Your comments are difficult but true. Sometimes you don’t forgive for things that have happened. Sometimes you just move on. A lot of people like to say, “time heals”, but I wonder how many of those people have actually lived through serious abuse trauma chaos, etc..everybody has a comment-but sometimes the past reality was just too much to forget.
You should always forgive a person so they don't hold any power over you. Having a relationship with them is a different story. A parent/child relationship should always start again with therapy so healthy boundaries can exist.
“Believe it or not i thank my mom for the way that she raised me, in the neighborhood daily that jumped and chased me, it only made me what i am today see”. -Eminem
@@Annye888 but Eminem himself had drug problems for many years, I think the money obviously insulated her from the full impact of his behaviour but Em was by no means the perfect man.
@@maggiebrooks2550wtf do you stans have to with anything lol?😂 you say respect their wishes like you can change something smh. Can't get over how delusional some people are.
@@guycha0s380 We only know one side of the story right? And it's no surprise that Em fabricates a lot of material just to sell or cause controversy. We cannot judge based on the things we've heard in his lyrics brother.
And “My Mom” in between. Wait a minute, this ain’t dinner this is paint thinner!? “You ate it yesterday, I didn’t hear no complaints, did I?” And “Kill You” “Just bend over and take it like a s**t, ok ‘Ma!?” He didn’t exactly paint a very good image of her. She can’t have been THAT bad 😅
She has so much to be proud of. Generational trauma is a hard thing to break, Marshall is a truly talented man, and he has done so much of it with Haley’s future in mind. God bless all of them. ❤
@@MichaelS00 it is. It is a very real thing. If you don’t know that then you are a very fortunate person. If a person’s childhood is traumatic it leaves scars, and inevitably those behaviours repeat. Not always, but often. Poverty, unemployment, family violence, substance abuse, abandonment issues, divorce, missing parents, neglect, loss of self-esteem.. it’s all established early and sadly the cycle is repeated in adulthood. You can certainly see that very early on in Marshall’s career, but he switched things up for Haley. Because even money isn’t enough to repair a damaged childhood and the way it raises its ugly head in adulthood. Kurt Cobain, John Lennon in his ‘20’s, Sinead O’Connor just to name a couple of famous people. Then there’s the tragedy of being Black in America..Marvin Gaye, Whitney Houston, Rick James…. and that’s only a few famous people. There are millions of people who are just stuck in an endless cycle that gets handed down, generation after generation. I wish that you were right, but reality says you aren’t. My own life experience and my own exposure to the world also says you aren’t.
@EscrimaGames They never talked it out. They never see each other. But he does pay her all her bills for medical bills since she had cancer and I think she's recovered from cancer. But Nathan sees her some I think and Nathan asked him to write Headlights and help her with medical bills.
@@trueCrimeGuruYesExactly. He forgave her. But they do not see each other. Why she did this post. She caused him way too much damage. Sometimes it cannot be repaired and this is one of those times. But he makes sure she has what she needs. As he does for so many.
@@Moreday20 nobody's forced her life choices on her. her actions have consequences even some inactions also have consequences. shes an adult its life and it could be worse ngl
It's called multi generational trauma it doesn't make it right, but these things can go on for generation after generation without the people involved even knowing that its a thing.
I keep coming back to this vid because there’s something so sad about how Marshall realized how much he loves his mom but the trauma and pain she caused him (that even to this day at 51 years old) still hasn’t gone away is really devastating… On headlights he said he’ll always love her from afar but isn’t really comfortable with fully having her in his life. He broke the cycle and seeing him with his family that he build in those lions games really is heartwarming ❤️ that’s all a little boy needed man
But forgiving is everything...she probably feels really bad about wat she put him thru, hell she was pretty lost herself especially being on drugs an all so big ups to her! 😂
Thanks you just made me totally cry! That song headlights is me and my mom to a T. I love her so much and I envy her from afar but her and I just cannot coexist together because of all the trauma it’s so hard but I still love her. I have forgiven her but will never forget. Thank you xox ✨
I have a wonderful mom but I have same thing with some old friend. I still love her, not a single bit of negative feelings towards her but I don't want her back in my life. I am good knowing that she is doing well in her life. Eminem is capable of loving and showing through actions and when he broke the cycle, that thought would not have stopped that his mother could have done that for him. People preach about forgiveness and all but how can you forgive when you are still suffering as a result of what happened. People make peace with it. He made peace with it and his mom too would have to do the same. He did everything for his children to not have the same feelings towards him or other ppl bcz if someone has even 1 people reminding that no matter what, I love you then that person doesn't turn hateful even towards others.
@@nickinicole9072Right!! I know firsthand that sometimes it’s so hard to forgive. I was adopted & my adopted parents split when I was 7. My adopted mom only wanted her biological son. She said & did things to me that no child should ever have to endure. As parents we’re supposed to protect our kids from pain & abuse, not cause it. I think it just cuts so much deeper when the abuse comes from the very people that are supposed to love us the most. I’ve tried to forgive her, but it was so hard. She passed in 2008, she never apologized for anything. My stepmom however did! Made all the difference in my life. I felt like no one loved or wanted me.
Yeah.. I can understand the situation and how he feels because my life was very similar. I think she was only a kid herself when she had Eminem (17 imo is still a kid, your brain doesn't become entirely developed until about age 25). Long story made short, and family drama aside.. she seems to genuinely love him and be very proud of her kiddo. He really didn't have a chance at Life and worked hard and made his dreams come true. His mother didn't have a fair chance at Life either but I hope they can push the past aside. She loves him very much and they deserve eachother, you can replace material possessions but you can't replace family/people. 😢😊
Proof, that you cannot get away with anything in this world. Regrets seep through no matter what. Proud of both Em and his mother. Balance is always restored in the end.
sad af bro. Hurt people hurt people, i feel the hurt in her voice. I hope they patched things up to their best of abilities, cause idk how i would be if i lost my mom with bad blood between us.
@@TienMostPowerfulEarthlingOfAllHe made an entire song + music video about forgiving her for what she did to him. he doesn’t talk to her every day, but they still fixed their relationship and are now on good terms.
@@beanmaster768 wrong. It’s confirmed he made the song but hasn’t spoke to her since. She tried to reach out to him after she heard the song but he ignored her and still does. You Stains really don’t do your homework lol.
I met his great grandmother and went to church with his Grandma Betty. This family had so many generational curses, stoked E was able to overcome them for his daughter
What hurts the most is for whatever reason she wasn’t able to pick up the phone and call him to relay the message personally. We all love Em but damn His family life has been through hell and back
@@shereesetz6690I didn’t know that. This makes sense. Not to be rude, but she looks terrible. The years have not been kind to her. I’m assuming drug abuse?
As someone coming from a broken family decades into trying to heal, I can see the genuine regret on her face. She knows she lost precious time with family and that’s the hardest pill to swallow.
I think they're relationship has been restored & as well-healed as it can be for many yrs now. Atleast that's what I've gathered from his interviews & chats with ppl like Bill Mahr & such, since the early noughts. And he doesn't seem the type to sugarcoat anything.
As she should be. Nah...I'm sure it's with a joyful heart that he makes sure she's living well. Im so grateful for their relationship restoration. At the sane time- if your discernment is via background home furnishings, they might be filming at Christina's. Probably not, but we can't know for sure.
Agree! As she should be. I never made it financially anywhere near Eminem but the day my mom turned 55 I thankfully was able to get her her own trailer home in a 55+ park (she lived in NJ - I’m in CA) so she wouldn’t have to live in and work at a seasonal motel with a very mean and overbearing boss. I would have bought her the moon if I could. Love you forever Mom. 🙏❤️
@@loba4207She was in the court to stealing $11 million from Eminem she can gtfo if she was want to say it to Eminem she could have just calling him or send him this video she just want attention
I love the fact he made up with his mother and obviously looks after her. He matured a lot from his beginnings as a hurt and angry person and he's really come along way.
My relationship w my mom is very similar and this year I decided to reconnect w her so I could truly learn how to forgive. It’s not been easy at all but I can say it is worth it. We do the best we can.
@country1116 Nah fam! You don’t know his family dynamics. Just because you listen to his music doesn’t bring you in. Bet you didn’t even know they had a relationship because you still only listen to his first albums. Say what you want she didn’t abandon him. She was 17 so of course she had to figure it out. Pain brings inspiration and it worked for him didn’t it?
@@seemykids99 You obviously made an assumption making an ass of yourself. She was young and that was obvious. They had their rough patches and they’ve made amends so we can be happy for them. Don’t hate!
"My mom, theres no one else quite like my mom, i know i should let bygones be bygones but shes the reason why i am high and what im high on" It's crazy that he was able to write that song about his mom but years later they can still reconcile.
I’ve never cried that unexpectedly. I’ve always had issues with my mother and his music helped me processing it. I wish I could hear my mother say these things
Ummm... She is literally getting her bills paid by her son and if not for that they would be in and out of court slinging mud at each other still so not sure where your tears came from but they do not feel very organic my friend
You can't with a Mother like that,they never will see the damage and pain they caused to you as a child.Shes a narcissist and will always believe the pain and trauma in how SHE wants to remember it.I wish the best for her but trust me it would bring him more pain having to deal with someone like her!
@@dfree1442bruh. Yes, technically it's for the other person but holding a grudge is a toxic thing for most people to do. When you forgive someone, you're releasing that toxicity from your mind and healing yourself as well. So sometimes it's good to forgive someone for your own good.
forgive verb for·give fər-ˈgiv fȯr- forgave -ˈgāv ; forgiven -ˈgiv-ən ; forgiving 1 a : to give up resentment of or claim to revenge for forgive an insult b : to stop requiring payment of forgive a debt 2 : to stop feeling anger toward (an offender) forgive your enemies
I think when people talk about forgiveness what they're mostly actually talking about is no longer dwelling on something... on not letting it eat them up. I think that's important, but I don't think it's forgiveness.
Forgiveness is just a result of healing the wounds caused by the offender, which can take months, years, or a lifetime. Letting go of anger/forgiveness can be pacifying, rather than beneficial to the victim's mental health. It can be detrimental and a form of emotional abuse if what you said is said to a victim too soon.
This is so sad. I'm dealing with the same issue with my son...just not publicly. He never got to see her again. More tragic is she didn't get to see her child before she died. The same thing is going to happen to me.
It's so sad, you can see she's unwell, you can see and feel the regret, the torment, the addiction, just everything about her screams for help. I really don't know what to say, I mean on Headlights Marshall said himself he knows she's not mentally well but what do you do with this after a lifetime of neglect? I hope he can see a mother through everything and it helps him but regardless I wish them both the best.
@@harman6283 have you been living under a rock, she's been unwell for decades. From what Marshall has said, from his childhood. She has Munchausen syndrome for a start.
And folks say Eminem lacks substance in his songs. People don't take the time to listen and research. "Headlights" is one of those tracks I can't listen to around people, or I'll break down. I lost my mom on St. Patricks Day 2020, life hasn't been the same since.
I am a boomer and late bloomer. My kids are braking the cycles, I opened the door. I am now 66 with 5 grandkids and 4 wonderful children. We were lucky that I was widowed very early and that my career and financial stability established by my husband helped me be independent and detach from our dysfunctional families. Poverty prolongs the inner death because one can not leave nor get help. I love Marshal and his music touched me deeply. God bless all families that are suffering generations of abuse and dysfunction. We live what we learn, until we choose to learn another way! Much love to all!
I was 39, yes early in my opinion. Thanks for the spell check, did it elevate you enough ? And, no his last name was not Boomer. Respect yourself! So you can learn to give it to strangers and apparently elders! Nothing in my comment was so harsh to cause such a trigger, tell me which part hurt you the most? @@suburbantrapqueen
I could have lived a long life with alcoholism , no not he, his family, I moved away, near my family. Easy to rebuild as a younger person, sorry you are hurting so much! Besides my kids were not part of that drinking culture, a total blessing! Get it.. Nah! 🙄🙌 @@suburbantrapqueen
@suburbantrapqueen3244 I don't think you understand what she meant by that statement. And it's easy for a single misspelling, when you're typing something emotional.
I'm so glad Debbie is doing well and that Marshall has been able to take care of all his family..blood or not. And what a sweet message from Debbie here. We are proud of him, too!
As a mother, you love your children unconditionally. This is a beautiful way to show it. The seniority is beautiful. True meaning of unconditional love. I pray he receives it. So they can become a family that they all deserve.
"Unconditionally"??? Tell that to my abusive "mother". I'm sure there are others out there who feel the same as I do. I'm the one that broke the generational abuse and trauma on her side of the family...and without her in my life, I can finally be at peace.
@mlmartin2922 yep. The 'let's forgiiiive' crowd is strong in that comment section. Part of the problem if you ask me. Stay strong survivors, and don't let the flowery, all-loving denial get to you.
@@mlmartin2922 I am sorry you went thru all of that abuse. You are right. In order for kids to be better in some cases like yours, you need to cut hurtful abusive mothers , fathers, ect. Out of your life, just in order to learn to live and heal.
Forgiveness doesn't have to mean having a relationship. It means you no longer consider a debt owing. You don't hold it against them. It means you are no longer angry for what they did. It's very much needed healing for the forgiver. You can forgive without maintaining a relationship.
She may have birthed him but she totally fucked him up and yes, that may have pushed him to become the person he is, but she had nothing to do with that and he had everything to do with changing himself being who he was!!
My Condolences to Eminem and his family on the loss of his mother, Debbie, 69 who passed away last night from Lung Cancer ♋ and may she rest in peace. I hope that Eminem and his family gets the privacy they need to grief in their own private lives. So sad 😢
Man. I had a very troubled mother and childhood and lived with my grandparents and lost my dad at 7 but I stayed best friends with my mom until I lost her in 2021. Its so sad seeing this Debbie reminds me of my mom so much.
Rest in peace I'm sorry for your lost Marshall but you know you got all the support you got some good friends from your hometown Detroit to 50 Cent Tony Yayo and Dr Dre and others keep your head up Eminem I lost my mom too I know that feeling she'll be looking down on you rest in peace
No matter what that’s family. Despite the pain and trauma that’s a bond forever. So many ppl are going through that pain and trauma. Much love to all who suffer man. 🙏
Broken families are tough. It’s not until the child becomes an adult that they can truly comprehend the remorse of their adult parent. Not everyone deserves forgiveness but family, family should always come first. Marshall, I hope you call your mom 💕
@@CrashBoomBang78 I agree, it depends on the circumstances. I’d like to believe after all that happened between them, that they can finally get beyond it and have some type of relationship. Doesn’t always work but I’m an optimist
If you don't personally, know what he's endured, at the hands of someone else, it's a dismissive, gas-lighty and possibly, a more dangerous intrusion, in another's business. Biology is not a free pass. How about some respect and empathy, for him, if he is making decisions, that are in his own self interests
You can see how rough her life was... The things she did to him are almost unforgivable, however, even though Em went through shit, it's a part of how he got to where he is. He changed Rap. I am grateful this woman brought him into the world. His pain made him who he is . Grateful for the gift we get to experience to spite the horrors he had to live through. I hope he's found a way to heal. ❤
@@JonathanGonzalez-jz4td i read her book. Its a very good book. According to that Em made up a lot of stuff up,.... which i beleive is true(but i still love Em). On the other hand she writes as if she didnt do anything at all wrong, which i doubt as well. Both kind of made lies about each other from what i understood......... but there were a lot of difficulties for both of them, mainly cos of Kim. But as a fan, i was most happy for him when he made "headlights" and he patched things up somewhat.
@@AnitaN844 that’s shit to hear man! I have the same relationship with my dad, we had punch up in Hong Kong 9 years ago ain’t seen him or heard from him since haha
You can't truly understand the significance of this moment until you've faced challenges with your loved ones. That's why it's so heartwarming to see his mother take the time to celebrate her son's achievement. It's a beautiful sight to behold! .I wish them a lifetime of peace, unity, and happiness.
Have you eperienced challenges with your loved ones? I have and there have been many messages like this. Not saying they never mean anything or are actually helpful. But I know many cases where moments like these, can look genuine from the outside, but if you know the real situation it might mean nothing. It can be the opposite of positive.
She SUED the school for not doing anything about his son’s bullying. That’s a flex, even more so because she was poor. You have no idea the hurt and cries I’ve known for people whose parents wouldn’t stand up for them, much less SUE. 💕Debbie
I had really hard childhood, my parents divorced, didn't talk to them for years, my dad past away last year on Christmas day, don't know what's happening with my mum.. Wish to have a chance to tell my dad I forgive him and to show my mum how well I'm doing in my life regardless.
I was abused on a scale only a few know by my drug addict, ragaholic, narcissistic mother. I called for the first time on my 36 birthday this year. She hasn’t changed & reminded me I ruined her life. My point is.. don’t bother. You can’t teach an old dog new tricks.
OMG 😢😢😢 PLEASE IF YOU HAVE HER ADDRESS OR PHONE NUMBER CALL HER, GO BY HER HOUSE BUT PLEASE DON'T ALLOW ANY MORE EGOIC TIME TO PASS BY BECAUSE EACH MINUTE COULD BE THE LAST MINUTE YOUR MUM IS HERE ON EARTH 🌎 WITH YOU WHERE YOU CAN TOUCH HER, TALK WITH HER, HOLD HER - TELLING HER YOU LOVE AND FORGIVE HER 🙏🏼💜✨🌷 GOD BLESS YOU ALL WITH LOVE LIGHT AND POSITIVITY FOREVER MORE. AMEN 🙏🏼💜🙏🏼
Talk to him like he is there bc he is!! God bless you ✝️ 🙏 ❤️ I loss my parents and stepparents died when I was young 😢 💔 I am 50 now, and I can't tell you how hard it was to get here
I hope they never talk again. She chose randoms dudes and drugs over her own kids. She’s gonna rot in hell while em and his family is gonna be living amazing
I lost my mother in my 30s to a brain aneurysm she was only 52 yrs old. She had me when she was only 17 too. Life is too short sometimes and falling out with each other over stupid stuff is really not worth it. It's a shame that some of us only realise this when it's far too late.
What hurts more is when you keep letting someone who's supposed to love you keep abusing you over and over again. You only become healthy when you can walk away and stop the cycle of abuse.
RIP. You raised a strong man, who influenced many others to be strong as well, myself included. Something you did, despite everything, worked. Being a single mom is hard af, and no one is a professional when it happens. Typically it happens when a million other things are going wrong as well. so again, rest in peace. Your son seems to have ended the cycle, thats so beautiful.
As a mother I feel for her... Holding grudges only causes the grudge holder more inner pain and emptiness. Everyone makes mistakes and parenting def isn't easy. ❤
@@aubreygomez89 please don't presume to know my life or the situations I have endured. I've experienced both abuse and addiction, but choose to forgive not forget. U seem like u have inner demons that maybe u should work on. U know nothing about those ppl or any1 else in the comments, but choose 2 waste precious time in your life replying to complete strangers in which u know nothing about. I genuinely feel sorry 4 ppl like u.
Mrs. Mathers thank you from the bottom of our hearts for giving birth to the GREATEST RAP ARTIST OF ALL TIME. WITHOUT YOU NONE OF THIS WOULD BE POSSIBLE. As a real Stan we appreciate you giving us "THE RAP GOD".
This comment made my day...yes man really alot of thanks to her for giving us Em, im just chilled to see her (a bare human) gave birth to a God literally...without Eminem i dont know if I'd be alive rn... THANKS for giving us The RapGod ❤
The trauma that she inflicted on him gave us The Rap God. His lyrics are personal to his experience - and he apparently experienced a lot in his young life on her watch. He’s breaking the cycles with Hailey. She softens his heart with her love.
@@mariondi Oh it's much more than that. Just Google why Eminem and his mother are estranged. You'll see the reasons. Also, he wrote several songs about the abuse, drug addiction, and toxicity she contributed to.
She had a tough life with a lot of sadness. I love Eminem, but to be publicly dragged by your son who is a mega star and have the world laughing at you and millions of people singing aweful lyrics about you was obviously rough on her. R.I.P Debbie and thanks for giving us Marshall Mathers ❤
@@AnatolianArmenianso ignorant. Debbie severely abused & neglected Em & his lil brother Nathan. Em had to adopt him after social services took him from Debbie due to the abuse. She literally drugged Em as a child! A lot happened but he choose to forgive & make peace with it on his song Headlights for her. Your talking about normal upbringings when this is an abusive one & in no way should you ridicule a child victim of parental abuse to feel bad for what you assume they did to their abuser.
@bones4899 Before she had her car accident and got addicted to pain meds I think she was maybe a decent mom after that she was hell to live with it seems. She wasn't right in the head after that.
I can only feel bad for everyone!! I can relate bc I was raised in a vile childhood setting watching my mom get High my father left me when I was a baby but it is what it is I am a firm believer in people do change
Haven't seen or spoken to my mother in almost Eighteen years by my own choice. Sometimes you have to cut dead weight to get ahead and move forward. Props to E for staying true.
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This is so sad, rest in peace Debbie. You gave birth to a legend
Nah she made a legend through all that torment.
Bro same thing
@@leviosaaa9005 nah giving birth dosent turn one into a legend, I can vouch neither you or I did.
@@Cartierian hailie isnt coming here to funeral
@@jason-s8ci think she will. And I think her death will be rougher on Em than anyone knows 😢
RIP Debbie. Without you, there would be no Marshall.
Amen
Marshall takes care of mom and daughter, little brother, daughter’s half sister. He has been taking care of them a long time.
You forgot niece
He also takes care of the dogs cats birds
@@Yoni.carameloNo
And also the 2daughters he adopted
His adopted daughter. He just calls her his daughter
Rip Debbie. My heart goes out to Em and all her family and friends.❤
Well yeah but she never took care of her son she was a drug addict
Facts
Hailie wont be at her funeral 😂
@@jason-s8cbro really 💀
@@jason-s8c what is wrong with you
He's definitely taking care of her. Every family is a little f***ed up, and I hope their relationship continues to grow.
They have no relationship. Why she did this. Hoping he would see it. But yes he is a god man. And takes cares of them all. But to much damage she caused him. He forgave her. It’s one thing to forgive. But another after everything she did to share his life with her. And he does not
@@rcptebThey both did a lot to each other. I think it’s good they’re at this point.
@@Owen_Rubixafter that trauma you can never just be "okay" with your mother, there will always be some form of barrier between you two, and hes stated multiple times he has no contact with her, for valid reasons.
One mum one vibe one nation👍
She died though
You know Em is low key taking care of mom.
As he should… she was a teen mom and he shitted on her for years for it
@@OfficialDemego And she did some horrible things to him. She even said, after her brother had died, that she wished it had been Marshall. A toxic mother is not someone you are obligated to do ANYTHING for as an adult. It's not like she was this fantastic mother who didn't deserve any of the bitterness in his songs. She earned her way there. Plenty of teenage mothers don't act the way she did. She has herself to blame for their broken relationship. No one is accountable for the actions of another. He doesn't owe her anything.
nah, more like medium key
@@PleaseGuysAKAYogaChick
Listen…… guys…….
I’m a jazz composer, writer, inventor….
I know absolutely very little about this rapper except he’s obviously a genius….
Ok……
I can tell you …… I know what it’s like to have your 20 year old son….. completely brainwashed by a religious cult
JUST WALK OUT MY LIFE ONE FRIDAY MORNING!
….. that was 4 1/2 years ago
…… not a word
Since then…… my X , my 2 sisters walked out of my life for the same twisted reason…..
There told…… by the delusional headquarters in New York to have nothing to do with me because of trying to expose that evil organization full of child sexual abuse hiding and pedophile toleration.
No…. My family knows nothing about it….AND THERE FORBIDDEN TO CHECK OUT THE FBI CASES ONLINE.
YEP….. crazy right???
Well….. the F B I is onto this CULT….. and their day in court is coming…… the delusional leadership will ALL BE IN PRISON WHERE THEY BELONG!
The followers?…….. I don’t know what will happen to people who obey crazy conspiracy theorists?
Maybe they will come to their senses???….. maybe not.
Some “crazy “ can’t be fixed! ……lol
I’ve ALWAYS been there for my family………. But….. they are strung out on this “ obey god thing”…….
I don’t drink, smoke, or do drugs…. I refuse to lie, hurt, or steal.
I’ve always been committed to standing for truth and light!…
…. My family and son have ALWAYS known that about me…….. yet….. they were completely coerced to betray my love……. Sooo unexplainable!!!!!!!!!
YET….. IT HAPPENED !!!!!
…… and look what happened to me????
Honestly….. if they all came back to me tomorrow…. I would secretly……….. have trouble trusting them again……..
I hate toxicity……. Hell… I avoid horror movies and mob movies just to avoid needless conflict,killing and stress, and killing…….. I try to be a light in this world…… no.. I’m not perfect…….
Sooooo,
What am I saying???
Well,
Life is a crazy roller coaster…
All I ever wanted to do was love and be loved…… compose excellent pieces, write kick ass novels and screenplays…..and be considered…. a special person….. to find….. the love of my life……..
The trick is……. NEVER GIVE UP ON THAT GOAL….. as long as spring comes around each year……. We humans must try….. to BELIEVE in the cycle of life.
…… and…… here I am at 67 … not doing bad….. but…. Absolutely no one to share it with……
I’m not bitter though…. I’m healthy, look 20 years younger than I feel….. and take care of myself…..
AND….. MOST OF ALL!!!!
consider myself lucky to have come this far….. MUSIC, MOVIES, AND BABIES STILL MELT MY HEART…. Lol
Sooooooo,
What Ms. Mather’s did??…
Probably fucked up bad with E.
Okay…….
But….. it’s OVER NOW…..
She was obviously wrong…. She knows it…. He knows it…..
….. time goes by…. Years become decades….. WISDOM SHOWS UP….. WE FINALLY REALIZE…… we’ve awaken from…… a nightmarish past….
…… and we’ve hurt people… BADLY!!!!……
Now….. we…. The victim…. Must find out if they are sincere…… AND LET THEM OFF THE HOOK!
GOD WANTS THAT FOR THEM….. and us……..
SO NOW WHAT???
Well…. Life is about WALKING AWAY FROM THE INSANE SHIT…… and…… somehow…
Finding a way….. somehow…
To HOLD THAT PERSON IN YOUR ARMS AND SAY…. ITS ALRIGHT …. I FORGIVE YOU
COME…. CRY ON MY SHOULDERS…… IVE LET IT GO.
I’m not healed from my son and sister’s walking out of my life…… but…. I know there “ minds “ aren’t there own!
So….. I must find a way to
FORGIVE…… if they truly never come out of their fog!!!!
I must go forward…. with PEACE…in my heart.
It’s really the
………… only reason we exist!!
TO FINALLY PUT REVENGE DOWN…… it’s pure evil.
LOVE MUST WIN HERE IN THIS UNIVERSE.
I’m no longer religious…. But…. I certainly believe in a creator.
I pray every day that I can rise higher and higher….. to let the hater’s hate…….. but … I embrace LOVE!!!!
….. that’s the only way to exist on this planet……. by…..
Saying a tearful prayer for strength to love….. and ….
Just………… let it all go.
And….. that good ole healing can begin.
Sounds completely CORNY….
…… but … it’s the only way to get OFF….. the roller coaster.
And .. Find …. the real life.🕯
Love you guys…. Peace to you.
🎼RAIN AGAIN 🎼
@@PleaseGuysAKAYogaChickmy wife is going through this with her dad. Your comments are difficult but true. Sometimes you don’t forgive for things that have happened. Sometimes you just move on. A lot of people like to say, “time heals”, but I wonder how many of those people have actually lived through serious abuse trauma chaos, etc..everybody has a comment-but sometimes the past reality was just too much to forget.
The hurt runs deep, but the healing has to begin somewhere
You should always forgive a person so they don't hold any power over you. Having a relationship with them is a different story. A parent/child relationship should always start again with therapy so healthy boundaries can exist.
Mk ultra is generational
@MastermindElizabeth That's not at all true, forgiveness is not necessary for healing or to moving on.
She still looks like a crackhead
Omg this dude never has this energy for his dad who abandoned him, never even knew him. But he writes endless songs about her, like come on 🙄🤡 corny
RIP to the woman that birthed a legend
“Believe it or not i thank my mom for the way that she raised me, in the neighborhood daily that jumped and chased me, it only made me what i am today see”. -Eminem
"Regardless of what Any one that believes who hates me,you ain't gonna make or break me"
"Try to strip me of my credibility or make me look fake, g. You're only gonna be in for a rude awakening."
Never enough
underrrated song
Who's garbage lyrics are these😂😂
She even dug out the Shady Records T-shirt for this one
I'm sure it's in an easily accessible spot
@Jimmy Bobby I think he means it kind of a throwback jersey. That looks like an old 2005 Era shady shirt but you right could be newer
Ok
..from Amazon... Yeah ok
People are offended over your joke lmao
It finally came full circle. Forgiveness is a gift.
Speak on it, girl! 😢
What happened?
@@Walruslvshe was a bad mother
@@alexdelarge5703 how? I mean what she did
@@Walruslv she triggered his addiction and substance abuse. Also she sued him after he exposed her in his songs
May she rest in peace now 🙏🏽
She born into a problematic family and em broke all that sick thing for generations ahead in his family. He healed everything For sure
He embellished his problems for content. He said this himself
Healed? He basically threatened to kill her for nearly two decades through song, yeah he matured but that shit was very intense.
@@brettpilkington9539 yes but the daughter grown in a different pattern
@@Annye888 but Eminem himself had drug problems for many years, I think the money obviously insulated her from the full impact of his behaviour but Em was by no means the perfect man.
@@brettpilkington9539 he born in a dysfunctional family but Hailie doesn't. This is the meaning he healed his family for generations ahead..
beef between family is none of our business at the end of the day.
Agree Narcissist parents. Where was she in his early years.
Amen..
It is when pretty much all involved decided to Air it to the world...They made it EVERYONE'S BUSINESS!! 🤷
It is when its intentionally made public Einstein
@@maggiebrooks2550wtf do you stans have to with anything lol?😂 you say respect their wishes like you can change something smh. Can't get over how delusional some people are.
Man you can feel that she wants to cry 🥺
Dude idc man I'm crying bro I feel this
@@guycha0s380 😂 who the F are you? Eminem forgive her a long time ago sa what's your problem? Are you still in 1998? Man you crazy🤣
@@guycha0s380 i dont think she got a lot of money making this video
Believe me, she cries almost every day...
@@guycha0s380 We only know one side of the story right? And it's no surprise that Em fabricates a lot of material just to sell or cause controversy. We cannot judge based on the things we've heard in his lyrics brother.
From CLEANIN' OUT MY CLOSET to HEADLIGHTS. love and forgiveness. Marshall is such a humble soul.
I was just gonna mention Headlights
Also you're correct respect this man like actually
She tried to sue him when he made cleaning out my closet for mentioning her, why do you think this video has been made they don't talk 🤷🤣🤣
yeah
And “My Mom” in between.
Wait a minute, this ain’t dinner this is paint thinner!?
“You ate it yesterday, I didn’t hear no complaints, did I?”
And “Kill You”
“Just bend over and take it like a s**t, ok ‘Ma!?”
He didn’t exactly paint a very good image of her. She can’t have been THAT bad 😅
She has so much to be proud of. Generational trauma is a hard thing to break, Marshall is a truly talented man, and he has done so much of it with Haley’s future in mind. God bless all of them. ❤
Generational trauma isn't a real thing.
@@MichaelS00 it is. It is a very real thing. If you don’t know that then you are a very fortunate person. If a person’s childhood is traumatic it leaves scars, and inevitably those behaviours repeat. Not always, but often. Poverty, unemployment, family violence, substance abuse, abandonment issues, divorce, missing parents, neglect, loss of self-esteem.. it’s all established early and sadly the cycle is repeated in adulthood. You can certainly see that very early on in Marshall’s career, but he switched things up for Haley. Because even money isn’t enough to repair a damaged childhood and the way it raises its ugly head in adulthood. Kurt Cobain, John Lennon in his ‘20’s, Sinead O’Connor just to name a couple of famous people. Then there’s the tragedy of being Black in America..Marvin Gaye, Whitney Houston, Rick James…. and that’s only a few famous people. There are millions of people who are just stuck in an endless cycle that gets handed down, generation after generation. I wish that you were right, but reality says you aren’t. My own life experience and my own exposure to the world also says you aren’t.
@@MichaelS00 the holocaust is real
@@MichaelS00maybe you don't believe it is but many know and have felt the ramifications of it.
@@MichaelS00lmao nice try dude
This means a lot to all of us who grew up listening to eminem since day 1 , that was beautiful
Headlights hit like a fucking truck when I first heard it, seeing this is just beautiful.
Right because him and his mom had a fallout in his early career, glad that's dead and over with its all love now
Eminem sucks
I feel the same way
It sure does!
I'm glad it seems like they're at least civil now. Headlights is one of the most beautiful songs ever. I hope they're at peace
@EscrimaGames They never talked it out. They never see each other. But he does pay her all her bills for medical bills since she had cancer and I think she's recovered from cancer. But Nathan sees her some I think and Nathan asked him to write Headlights and help her with medical bills.
@@trueCrimeGuruYes source?
@@trueCrimeGuruYesExactly. He forgave her. But they do not see each other. Why she did this post. She caused him way too much damage. Sometimes it cannot be repaired and this is one of those times. But he makes sure she has what she needs. As he does for so many.
😞 god bless their family, & rest easy Ms.Debbie. We can’t handpick our parents just gotta love em. 🙏
Beautiful. I’m so glad Marshall and Debbie could talk it out and forgive each other. Wishing for nothing but happiness for them going forward
That's not really talking it out. Hopefully it's a step in that direction though.
She is shaking even if she did terrible things no one should’ve have to suffer for 100 of millions to see
@@Moreday20 nobody's forced her life choices on her. her actions have consequences even some inactions also have consequences. shes an adult its life and it could be worse ngl
@@winstonleeman8739 true that I’m not defending what she did was right at all was just saying t
It's called multi generational trauma it doesn't make it right, but these things can go on for generation after generation without the people involved even knowing that its a thing.
You can just see the pain in her eyes...
You can see the meth in her eyes...
No you can't there all black with mascara lmao
I can’t barely see her eyes!!!
Lmao
You reap what you sow.
The chick filming, giving herself an intro is crazy.
yeah lol who tf are you lmao
@@nrenjenightmare5708im the chick in the video, im a friend of his mom
Don't let him bother you they're not in a video are they..
thats Jake😂
@@BlakeNachmanfrom statefarm?? 🤔🤣
i know that deep inside Marshall has a special place inside his heart for his mother even if he doesn’t show it
I always thought that too, he keeps a distance though that’s what’s sad it’s not for no reason at all he grew up with this woman
He already say that on an interview. Word by word.
@@heitorlima1481 well thanks for the info...
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@@heitorlima1481 thanks
I keep coming back to this vid because there’s something so sad about how Marshall realized how much he loves his mom but the trauma and pain she caused him (that even to this day at 51 years old) still hasn’t gone away is really devastating… On headlights he said he’ll always love her from afar but isn’t really comfortable with fully having her in his life. He broke the cycle and seeing him with his family that he build in those lions games really is heartwarming ❤️ that’s all a little boy needed man
But forgiving is everything...she probably feels really bad about wat she put him thru, hell she was pretty lost herself especially being on drugs an all so big ups to her! 😂
Thanks you just made me totally cry! That song headlights is me and my mom to a T. I love her so much and I envy her from afar but her and I just cannot coexist together because of all the trauma it’s so hard but I still love her. I have forgiven her but will never forget. Thank you xox ✨
@@nickinicole9072That's only something that somebody who fucked up their kids would say. Some damage is irreparable, js...
I have a wonderful mom but I have same thing with some old friend. I still love her, not a single bit of negative feelings towards her but I don't want her back in my life. I am good knowing that she is doing well in her life. Eminem is capable of loving and showing through actions and when he broke the cycle, that thought would not have stopped that his mother could have done that for him. People preach about forgiveness and all but how can you forgive when you are still suffering as a result of what happened. People make peace with it. He made peace with it and his mom too would have to do the same. He did everything for his children to not have the same feelings towards him or other ppl bcz if someone has even 1 people reminding that no matter what, I love you then that person doesn't turn hateful even towards others.
@@nickinicole9072Right!! I know firsthand that sometimes it’s so hard to forgive. I was adopted & my adopted parents split when I was 7. My adopted mom only wanted her biological son. She said & did things to me that no child should ever have to endure. As parents we’re supposed to protect our kids from pain & abuse, not cause it. I think it just cuts so much deeper when the abuse comes from the very people that are supposed to love us the most. I’ve tried to forgive her, but it was so hard. She passed in 2008, she never apologized for anything. My stepmom however did! Made all the difference in my life. I felt like no one loved or wanted me.
In the end Eminem loves and takes care of his mom
She did not look after him though,so she is a very luck woman..
"I love you Debbie Mathers"
Cleaning out my closet would say otherwise 😉.
She makes good spaghetti 😊
@@DTRD-uu3treverybody has skeletons and everyone has the god givin right to change their lives so stop the fk shit
Healing can only begin when forgiveness and acceptance becomes a priority. Good for both of them
Imagine being a 50 year old millionaire in a hoody trying to come up with angry songs.
It can also begin when someone says sorry. She's never apologised for drugging and abusing him. Rather she denies it.
Yeah.. I can understand the situation and how he feels because my life was very similar. I think she was only a kid herself when she had Eminem (17 imo is still a kid, your brain doesn't become entirely developed until about age 25).
Long story made short, and family drama aside.. she seems to genuinely love him and be very proud of her kiddo. He really didn't have a chance at Life and worked hard and made his dreams come true. His mother didn't have a fair chance at Life either but I hope they can push the past aside. She loves him very much and they deserve eachother, you can replace material possessions but you can't replace family/people. 😢😊
Some things can’t be forgiven and that’s ok
Having bajillions of dollars certainly helps lol
Proof, that you cannot get away with anything in this world. Regrets seep through no matter what. Proud of both Em and his mother. Balance is always restored in the end.
sad af bro. Hurt people hurt people, i feel the hurt in her voice. I hope they patched things up to their best of abilities, cause idk how i would be if i lost my mom with bad blood between us.
I think em has, he’s more mature know. You can hear it now when he talks, he’s grown up
I hear you my friend
They have. He takes care of her and Kim
Hurt people hurt people. Dang that's heavy. So true
im so happy he fixed his relationship with his mother
He ain’t fix nothing they don’t talk that’s why she got her friend to put out a video to try and get to him.
@@TienMostPowerfulEarthlingOfAllHe made an entire song + music video about forgiving her for what she did to him. he doesn’t talk to her every day, but they still fixed their relationship and are now on good terms.
@@beanmaster768 wrong. It’s confirmed he made the song but hasn’t spoke to her since. She tried to reach out to him after she heard the song but he ignored her and still does. You Stains really don’t do your homework lol.
@@TienMostPowerfulEarthlingOfAllDid you just call them a stain? 😭
@@TienMostPowerfulEarthlingOfAllima need a source lil stain
I met his great grandmother and went to church with his Grandma Betty. This family had so many generational curses, stoked E was able to overcome them for his daughter
Right except for one of them thinks she’s a man…. So yeah I wouldn’t say the curse is broken
Yeah wouldn’t really call it a curse, more like bad habits and decisions
Christ pretty much said some only "come out" with prayer and fasting😮
@@mondocjenson-dy8zd Hahahahha dude, He was referring to demon possessions, not a curse🙄
Cool story bro, I have a bridge to sell you
Fly high debbie 🕊
Bless this family not everyone is dealt a good hand hopefully him and his mom are doing well.
🥂
This was not a good hand dealt. It was well played by Eminem. The hand dealt was crap. Lol
@@bigcarlherdt4681You COMPLETELY misconstrued the meaning behind her comment. Reread it and focus.
This lady was the topic of some of my favourite songs ever
Same
“remember when Ronnie Died and you said you wished it was me? Well guess what, I am dead, to you a can be”
-Eminem
_Cleaning Out my Closet_
Ya dig
😂
Brain Damage 🎶🎧
What hurts the most is for whatever reason she wasn’t able to pick up the phone and call him to relay the message personally. We all love Em but damn His family life has been through hell and back
@williamgodinho5305I mean to be fair it’s a reasonable assumption. Strange thing for her to do if she’s in contact with her son.
Nah what hurts most is she couldn't admit she was wrong
He has her blocked from contacting him
@@NittyGritty420Remember her history of narcissism & how typical it is she will do this publicly instead of privately for attention through sympathy.
@@shereesetz6690I didn’t know that. This makes sense. Not to be rude, but she looks terrible. The years have not been kind to her. I’m assuming drug abuse?
As someone coming from a broken family decades into trying to heal, I can see the genuine regret on her face.
She knows she lost precious time with family and that’s the hardest pill to swallow.
Yes it is.
In hindsight, yeah. Now he’s rich and successful it’s afforded her to look at it with a new lens.
I never thought I’d see the day when Em would dedicate an endearing song to his mother and she would congratulate him. Great to see.
He had stadiums coast to coast yelling "F U Debbie Debbie, F U DebbiE ! "
@bambur1 the whole world is a stage and you're a poor sheep
She made good spaghetti 🍝
I can feel the sincerity in her words. It's sad they had their problems. I hope they can reconcile and heal the pain
You don't always have to reconcile with the person to heal your pain
I think they're relationship has been restored & as well-healed as it can be for many yrs now. Atleast that's what I've gathered from his interviews & chats with ppl like Bill Mahr & such, since the early noughts. And he doesn't seem the type to sugarcoat anything.
@@mrdeebo313🫵🗣🫳💣💥💯
Looks like Mom is well taken care of
Looks like mom has had her share of drugs.
As she should be.
Nah...I'm sure it's with a joyful heart that he makes sure she's living well. Im so grateful for their relationship restoration.
At the sane time- if your discernment is via background home furnishings, they might be filming at Christina's. Probably not, but we can't know for sure.
Did she end up with the money she was suing him for years ago. The dirty gutter rat
Agree! As she should be. I never made it financially anywhere near Eminem but the day my mom turned 55 I thankfully was able to get her her own trailer home in a 55+ park (she lived in NJ - I’m in CA) so she wouldn’t have to live in and work at a seasonal motel with a very mean and overbearing boss. I would have bought her the moon if I could. Love you forever Mom. 🙏❤️
Yes, she does in more ways than one. Looks like she lived a very hard life. Of straws & coffee tables.
Proud of his mom for being truly sorry for anything she caused, and Mr. Mathers for being forgiving. He's a great guy.
Agreed, absolutely nothing to do with him blowing back up again and making a shit load more money, 100% not a coincidence
People change.@@loba4207
Cap cap capitty fuckin cap
(The part about his mom)
@@loba4207She was in the court to stealing $11 million from Eminem she can gtfo if she was want to say it to Eminem she could have just calling him or send him this video she just want attention
What is it that makes you think she’s truly sorry
I love the fact he made up with his mother and obviously looks after her. He matured a lot from his beginnings as a hurt and angry person and he's really come along way.
Forgave. Is different than making up. And being in each others life As they are not
Once you see your parents become older and frail it usually changes how you feel, esp after you raised your own child.
My relationship w my mom is very similar and this year I decided to reconnect w her so I could truly learn how to forgive. It’s not been easy at all but I can say it is worth it. We do the best we can.
It's hard, I had to forgive my mother, and she really treats me like crap!! GOD Bless to everyone who had to be the one to forgive a parent.
His mom was 17 when she had him. They all deserve the blessings that came their way.
👍
@country1116 Nah fam! You don’t know his family dynamics. Just because you listen to his music doesn’t bring you in. Bet you didn’t even know they had a relationship because you still only listen to his first albums. Say what you want she didn’t abandon him. She was 17 so of course she had to figure it out. Pain brings inspiration and it worked for him didn’t it?
@@Moose-iz1uo"you dont know his family dynamics"
Lol, but YOU do?
@@seemykids99 You obviously made an assumption making an ass of yourself. She was young and that was obvious. They had their rough patches and they’ve made amends so we can be happy for them. Don’t hate!
@@seemykids99hahaha… I was gonna say the same thing
Debbie is now gonna be a great grandmother
Wow she is?
@@AngelHoll-pr8fzYea she is gonna be one
She's gone now it's so sad :( R.I.P.
"My mom, theres no one else quite like my mom, i know i should let bygones be bygones but shes the reason why i am high and what im high on"
It's crazy that he was able to write that song about his mom but years later they can still reconcile.
He'll regret it when she is gone
Yes, he will. @@drivingadventures9020
@@drivingadventures9020 No.
Headlights 🎶🎵 They've made their amends with each other it seems...js
It's crazy that an adult man would try to so hard to not be accountable for his actions and still blame his present behavior on his mom.
I’ve never cried that unexpectedly. I’ve always had issues with my mother and his music helped me processing it. I wish I could hear my mother say these things
I feel you, except for me it is my dad. Havent talked to him for years, and my mom passed away a long time ago
Y
Ummm... She is literally getting her bills paid by her son and if not for that they would be in and out of court slinging mud at each other still so not sure where your tears came from but they do not feel very organic my friend
@@Meilingsueyoung🇺🇲🤡🇺🇲
@@ExoTheDrakoXIII y
I'd love to see Marshall and his Mom together!
You can't with a Mother like that,they never will see the damage and pain they caused to you as a child.Shes a narcissist and will always believe the pain and trauma in how SHE wants to remember it.I wish the best for her but trust me it would bring him more pain having to deal with someone like her!
Rest in peace Debbie im sorry eminem for your loss i bet you miss her then i could ever imagine. We miss you debbie😢
Imagine your son having to be the bigger person? I will always respect my mom, she could never. I’m lucky
I can. I've had to do it my whole life. That's why I didn't have kids.
Remember forgiveness isn't for the one that wronged you it's for you
Nope. It's the other way around. Forgive means to release a debt. Forgiveness by its very definition is for the one who did the wrong.
@@dfree1442bruh. Yes, technically it's for the other person but holding a grudge is a toxic thing for most people to do. When you forgive someone, you're releasing that toxicity from your mind and healing yourself as well.
So sometimes it's good to forgive someone for your own good.
forgive
verb
for·give fər-ˈgiv fȯr-
forgave -ˈgāv ; forgiven -ˈgiv-ən ; forgiving
1
a
: to give up resentment of or claim to revenge for
forgive an insult
b
: to stop requiring payment of
forgive a debt
2
: to stop feeling anger toward (an offender)
forgive your enemies
I think when people talk about forgiveness what they're mostly actually talking about is no longer dwelling on something... on not letting it eat them up.
I think that's important, but I don't think it's forgiveness.
Forgiveness is just a result of healing the wounds caused by the offender, which can take months, years, or a lifetime. Letting go of anger/forgiveness can be pacifying, rather than beneficial to the victim's mental health. It can be detrimental and a form of emotional abuse if what you said is said to a victim too soon.
She's got a soothing voice to listen to.
Do you have a point or just projectionist brainless drivel?
Its like a raspy smokers voice
This is so sad. I'm dealing with the same issue with my son...just not publicly. He never got to see her again. More tragic is she didn't get to see her child before she died. The same thing is going to happen to me.
It's so sad, you can see she's unwell, you can see and feel the regret, the torment, the addiction, just everything about her screams for help. I really don't know what to say, I mean on Headlights Marshall said himself he knows she's not mentally well but what do you do with this after a lifetime of neglect? I hope he can see a mother through everything and it helps him but regardless I wish them both the best.
Bruh she’s doin great. Stop judging people based on 10 seconds video
@@harman6283 like he said, Eminem mentioned on Headlights she wasn't well so he's going off more than a 10 second video.
She has or had cancer
@@harman6283 have you been living under a rock, she's been unwell for decades. From what Marshall has said, from his childhood. She has Munchausen syndrome for a start.
Too much bro
This+Headlights is enough to make a grown man cry.
headlights alone dude
Literally just listened to Headlights. Yes, I cried again.
That is a tough song to listen too.
And folks say Eminem lacks substance in his songs. People don't take the time to listen and research. "Headlights" is one of those tracks I can't listen to around people, or I'll break down. I lost my mom on St. Patricks Day 2020, life hasn't been the same since.
@@GMPGMP-jp5utI hear ya, My Mother passed away 2015😠, it's horrible, sorry Man✝️
God bless Eminem and his mom
Amen to that!
Amen
Amen
His mom that beat him, and told him she wished he died instead of his uncle?
@@hoopsx2695to be fair, he exploited her for content. There’s no reason to make a diss track on your mom, and he even said it himself
It’s nice to see that Eminem got past his terrible childhood and was able to begin the healing.
You can hear the pain in her voice
I am a boomer and late bloomer. My kids are braking the cycles, I opened the door. I am now 66 with 5 grandkids and 4 wonderful children. We were lucky that I was widowed very early and that my career and financial stability established by my husband helped me be independent and detach from our dysfunctional families. Poverty prolongs the inner death because one can not leave nor get help.
I love Marshal and his music touched me deeply. God bless all families that are suffering generations of abuse and dysfunction.
We live what we learn, until we choose to learn another way! Much love to all!
You were lucky to be widowed early???? What?! 😭 & it’s breaking not braking Mrs. Boomer
I was 39, yes early in my opinion. Thanks for the spell check, did it elevate you enough ? And, no his last name was not Boomer. Respect yourself! So you can learn to give it to strangers and apparently elders!
Nothing in my comment was so harsh to cause such a trigger, tell me which part hurt you the most?
@@suburbantrapqueen
I could have lived a long life with alcoholism , no not he, his family, I moved away, near my family. Easy to rebuild as a younger person, sorry you are hurting so much! Besides my kids were not part of that drinking culture, a total blessing! Get it.. Nah! 🙄🙌 @@suburbantrapqueen
@suburbantrapqueen3244 I don't think you understand what she meant by that statement. And it's easy for a single misspelling, when you're typing something emotional.
You are correct. Without the financial means it is very difficult to break the cycles.
I can really feel the sincerity in her talking , they have all been through so much so this is definitely a blessing
Don’t be weird you don’t know her
@ChicoDusty-co3txYou mean the son who lived with her even after he was a grown man.gtfoh 🤡
@nazsalabarria860 she's not weird!
I'd be careful if I were you. You're likely extremely susceptible to narcissists if you believe this to be sincere.
Sadly , the real Eminem is gone. That’s a clone. Cloning people in hollyweird is nothing new. He sold his soul to the devil.
I'm so glad Debbie is doing well and that Marshall has been able to take care of all his family..blood or not. And what a sweet message from Debbie here. We are proud of him, too!
As a mother, you love your children unconditionally. This is a beautiful way to show it. The seniority is beautiful. True meaning of unconditional love. I pray he receives it. So they can become a family that they all deserve.
"Unconditionally"??? Tell that to my abusive "mother". I'm sure there are others out there who feel the same as I do. I'm the one that broke the generational abuse and trauma on her side of the family...and without her in my life, I can finally be at peace.
@mlmartin2922 yep. The 'let's forgiiiive' crowd is strong in that comment section. Part of the problem if you ask me. Stay strong survivors, and don't let the flowery, all-loving denial get to you.
@@mlmartin2922 I am sorry you went thru all of that abuse. You are right. In order for kids to be better in some cases like yours, you need to cut hurtful abusive mothers , fathers, ect. Out of your life, just in order to learn to live and heal.
Forgiveness doesn't have to mean having a relationship. It means you no longer consider a debt owing. You don't hold it against them. It means you are no longer angry for what they did. It's very much needed healing for the forgiver. You can forgive without maintaining a relationship.
WOW 😢 This is definitely a heart felt you can hear the pride in her voice.... I'm gonna go watch 8 Mile....
Hm
It’s an absolute great movie you got to see it!!!
Heartfelt?. Lay off the crack pipe.
I no it's so touching😊
@@DTRD-uu3tr If you can't say anything Nice , Why say anything 🤔!? I'm sure you've heard that a time or two....
A huge THANK YOU to his Mom! She gave birth to a legend! Without her, the world wouldn’t have had Eminem!
Thanks to Dr Dre😂
Lol when the truth comes out.... Hope u still have the same feelings.... Bra....
Yess😊
it would be so empty without him
She may have birthed him but she totally fucked him up and yes, that may have pushed him to become the person he is, but she had nothing to do with that and he had everything to do with changing himself being who he was!!
My Condolences to Eminem and his family on the loss of his mother, Debbie, 69 who passed away last night from Lung Cancer ♋ and may she rest in peace. I hope that Eminem and his family gets the privacy they need to grief in their own private lives. So sad 😢
Man. I had a very troubled mother and childhood and lived with my grandparents and lost my dad at 7 but I stayed best friends with my mom until I lost her in 2021. Its so sad seeing this Debbie reminds me of my mom so much.
I’m sorry you had that and I wish you healing ❤
@@cynthia3536 thank you very much ❤️ it does mean a lot
Wow after surviving cancer and all these years she still looks the same as when em first debuted
Great moment
she looks like dee snider in the 80s
Damn.. That's just so damn beautiful to witness after all these Years!!!!
Debbie has a voice! She just needs to be heard.
@@theshadyverse If I can help her voice to be heard in ANY way, please don't hesitate to let me know. I wish I could just give her a hug! 😢
@@lovesmeknotcrochet Will do. Thank you! For now, just sharing is great!
@@theshadyverse is there a p.o. box to send debbie letters?
@@MC32595 no but I can relay the message if you’d like.
Rest in peace I'm sorry for your lost Marshall but you know you got all the support you got some good friends from your hometown Detroit to 50 Cent Tony Yayo and Dr Dre and others keep your head up Eminem I lost my mom too I know that feeling she'll be looking down on you rest in peace
All I want to see is Eminem and his Mom hug. They both deserve that
They Did Years Ago In Eminem Music Video He Made Forgiving His Mom It Was A HUGE MOMENT
@@broncosstampede494just watched the video and your a idiot. Clearly was an actress playing his mom.
Yeah, he helps her out financially. He also helps the x wife.
the song Headlights makes me tear up
They reconciled years ago. Listen to the song Headlights
No matter what that’s family. Despite the pain and trauma that’s a bond forever. So many ppl are going through that pain and trauma. Much love to all who suffer man. 🙏
Broken families are tough. It’s not until the child becomes an adult that they can truly comprehend the remorse of their adult parent. Not everyone deserves forgiveness but family, family should always come first. Marshall, I hope you call your mom 💕
Not true. Sometimes the healthiest thing you can do for yourself is break free from your family.
@@CrashBoomBang78 I agree, it depends on the circumstances. I’d like to believe after all that happened between them, that they can finally get beyond it and have some type of relationship. Doesn’t always work but I’m an optimist
I hope he calls his mom too, if that's what's best for him to do for himself.
@@CrashBoomBang78I agree.
If you don't personally, know what he's endured, at the hands of someone else, it's a dismissive, gas-lighty and possibly, a more dangerous intrusion, in another's business. Biology is not a free pass. How about some respect and empathy, for him, if he is making decisions, that are in his own self interests
So emotional 🥹 💔!! RiP!! 🪦
You can see how rough her life was...
The things she did to him are almost unforgivable, however, even though Em went through shit, it's a part of how he got to where he is. He changed Rap. I am grateful this woman brought him into the world. His pain made him who he is . Grateful for the gift we get to experience to spite the horrors he had to live through. I hope he's found a way to heal. ❤
Yeah the way she abused him is insane
She got or had cancer not long ago what you expect punk
Shut up !!!
@@JonathanGonzalez-jz4td i read her book. Its a very good book. According to that Em made up a lot of stuff up,.... which i beleive is true(but i still love Em). On the other hand she writes as if she didnt do anything at all wrong, which i doubt as well. Both kind of made lies about each other from what i understood......... but there were a lot of difficulties for both of them, mainly cos of Kim. But as a fan, i was most happy for him when he made "headlights" and he patched things up somewhat.
😂😂😂so you're happy he went through pain and horror just so You could hear good music?? WTF
Thank you for giving birth to the "Rap God" the G.O.A.T, the best selling rapper of all time. Eminem. 🙏❤
Ice ice Baby G.O.A.T. 13X PLATINUM Best selling hip hop album of (ALL) Time.
Not to take anything from Eminem but facts matter.
Love em both.
@Anagracesnts NOT TRUE
The Great white hope😂😂Melts in your mouth not in your hands.
I didn’t speak to my mum for many years and it tore me apart this is so nice to see! X
Me 2 but my mother is so toxic I feel better when I don't talk to her.
@@AnitaN844 that’s shit to hear man! I have the same relationship with my dad, we had punch up in Hong Kong 9 years ago ain’t seen him or heard from him since haha
@@AnitaN844Same here. With both of my birth parents. When you try to do right and still receive the hate. Time to move on.
So glad you found your way back. Separation is only an illusion. 💖
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You can't truly understand the significance of this moment until you've faced challenges with your loved ones. That's why it's so heartwarming to see his mother take the time to celebrate her son's achievement. It's a beautiful sight to behold! .I wish them a lifetime of peace, unity, and happiness.
Have you eperienced challenges with your loved ones? I have and there have been many messages like this. Not saying they never mean anything or are actually helpful. But I know many cases where moments like these, can look genuine from the outside, but if you know the real situation it might mean nothing. It can be the opposite of positive.
She loves her son like only a mother can love him!
She SUED the school for not doing anything about his son’s bullying. That’s a flex, even more so because she was poor. You have no idea the hurt and cries I’ve known for people whose parents wouldn’t stand up for them, much less SUE. 💕Debbie
Didn’t she try to sue Em later on?
yeah it still doesnt excuse her past.
This is so true
@@yehldyehld well, that's part of her past-
@@DanielaVePe-ld6foyeah but people always gonna remember when she sued her son trying to get easy money, the good doesn’t remove the bad
Beautiful bond after such difficult years
Who?
No Matter how they relationship was, he made sure his mom was straight. Thats love❤❤❤❤
You are right. True love is shown in actions, not words. Talk is cheap.
Is she she looks terrible
How did he make her straight? How much did he give her?
@crispinhandly6159 he bought her a house , but as far as money goes, I don't know. Unfortunately, I'm not his accountant.
@@bambamsiders2869 She received like 1000.00 dollars.
I had really hard childhood, my parents divorced, didn't talk to them for years, my dad past away last year on Christmas day, don't know what's happening with my mum.. Wish to have a chance to tell my dad I forgive him and to show my mum how well I'm doing in my life regardless.
Maybe this is the time to reach out to her… you don’t want any regretsI’m so sorry you went thru this ❤️🩹
I was abused on a scale only a few know by my drug addict, ragaholic, narcissistic mother. I called for the first time on my 36 birthday this year. She hasn’t changed & reminded me I ruined her life. My point is.. don’t bother. You can’t teach an old dog new tricks.
OMG 😢😢😢 PLEASE IF YOU HAVE HER ADDRESS OR PHONE NUMBER CALL HER, GO BY HER HOUSE BUT PLEASE DON'T ALLOW ANY MORE EGOIC TIME TO PASS BY BECAUSE EACH MINUTE COULD BE THE LAST MINUTE YOUR MUM IS HERE ON EARTH 🌎 WITH YOU WHERE YOU CAN TOUCH HER, TALK WITH HER, HOLD HER - TELLING HER YOU LOVE AND FORGIVE HER 🙏🏼💜✨🌷
GOD BLESS YOU ALL WITH LOVE LIGHT AND POSITIVITY FOREVER MORE. AMEN 🙏🏼💜🙏🏼
They know. Live your life and be happy. That's all we got.
Talk to him like he is there bc he is!! God bless you ✝️ 🙏 ❤️ I loss my parents and stepparents died when I was young 😢 💔 I am 50 now, and I can't tell you how hard it was to get here
Very Nice Debbie!! 👏🏼 Marshall broke the generational traumas that you weren't able to. God bless you very much as well 🙏🏼
Thats sweet. ❤❤ His son is a great man and made this world a better place for all of us.
I can’t even imagine how proud I would be.
😂 yeah I'd listen to sorry momma everyday.
@@BrianVincent-k6gyou mean Cleaning out my closet
@@BrianVincent-k6g That was my shh back in da day
@@BrianVincent-k6gand which song might that be? Gtfoh troll
We all know deep down inside Em still have that love for her,I hope he talks to her very often and let the past be the past.
He already did forgive her in Headlights
@@StandomYT Yeah I know bro,but what im saying,is I hope they talk often...
He takes care of everyone very well. Eminem is very generous. Look at the house and sofa.
@@MiturBinEsderty Smart,yeah bro.
I hope they never talk again. She chose randoms dudes and drugs over her own kids. She’s gonna rot in hell while em and his family is gonna be living amazing
I lost my mother in my 30s to a brain aneurysm she was only 52 yrs old. She had me when she was only 17 too. Life is too short sometimes and falling out with each other over stupid stuff is really not worth it. It's a shame that some of us only realise this when it's far too late.
What she put him thru as a kid wasn't small or stupid.
What hurts more is when you keep letting someone who's supposed to love you keep abusing you over and over again. You only become healthy when you can walk away and stop the cycle of abuse.
Sorry for your lost
RIP. You raised a strong man, who influenced many others to be strong as well, myself included. Something you did, despite everything, worked. Being a single mom is hard af, and no one is a professional when it happens. Typically it happens when a million other things are going wrong as well. so again, rest in peace. Your son seems to have ended the cycle, thats so beautiful.
It's beautiful to see that his family is more whole in their own way. He truly has made it
As a mother I feel for her... Holding grudges only causes the grudge holder more inner pain and emptiness. Everyone makes mistakes and parenting def isn't easy. ❤
No, is better acting like a you're never been abused.
@@aubreygomez89 please don't presume to know my life or the situations I have endured. I've experienced both abuse and addiction, but choose to forgive not forget. U seem like u have inner demons that maybe u should work on. U know nothing about those ppl or any1 else in the comments, but choose 2 waste precious time in your life replying to complete strangers in which u know nothing about. I genuinely feel sorry 4 ppl like u.
@aquietmind223 aww poor baby.. GET OVER IT "Abuse" is just a buzzword to make people feel like a tragic hero
@@aquietmind223 I see your entitled victimihood card. I hope your children stays so far from you.
@@steveurkel1487 Yes, and "I am a moOOTher" is doesn't make us feel intouchable anymore.
Mrs. Mathers thank you from the bottom of our hearts for giving birth to the GREATEST RAP ARTIST OF ALL TIME. WITHOUT YOU NONE OF THIS WOULD BE POSSIBLE. As a real Stan we appreciate you giving us "THE RAP GOD".
💀
This comment made my day...yes man really alot of thanks to her for giving us Em, im just chilled to see her (a bare human) gave birth to a God literally...without Eminem i dont know if I'd be alive rn...
THANKS for giving us The RapGod ❤
Lmao. You thanked his mom for fucking
Yeah. Thanks for being a deadbeat mom. Lol
The trauma that she inflicted on him gave us The Rap God. His lyrics are personal to his experience - and he apparently experienced a lot in his young life on her watch. He’s breaking the cycles with Hailey. She softens his heart with her love.
Praying for healing between Em & Debbie.. trauma is no joke. IM proud of him, I'm SURE she is too!!!! God Bless all of you. ❤❤❤❤
He's taking care of her ❤ and yes i hope they make up too ❤❤❤ if they already haven't. God bless
This is a huge deal. I hope their relationship continues to heal and grow. ❤
Wow, this is wild 😮 for those of us who are Stans (literally everyone on this channel I’m betting) we know this is a huge deal. Very beautiful to see.
Yeah. I feel like I recoinciled with my own mom and I'm not even estranged with her😁
Couldn't agree more!
Sorry am not stans i gather they dont speak is that it?
@@mariondi Oh it's much more than that. Just Google why Eminem and his mother are estranged. You'll see the reasons. Also, he wrote several songs about the abuse, drug addiction, and toxicity she contributed to.
@@probablyjoeyy wouah!
Thanks.
She had a tough life with a lot of sadness. I love Eminem, but to be publicly dragged by your son who is a mega star and have the world laughing at you and millions of people singing aweful lyrics about you was obviously rough on her. R.I.P Debbie and thanks for giving us Marshall Mathers ❤
this is both heartbreaking and heartwarming to see
You can tell how much she feels like crying, everything she put Marshal through was so fuckin rough, I feel so bad for her
How about everything Marshall put her through? As kids we often don’t realize all the bs we put our parents through till we grow older .
You feel bad for HER???
She was the one that put him through all that shit lmao
@@AnatolianArmenianso ignorant. Debbie severely abused & neglected Em & his lil brother Nathan. Em had to adopt him after social services took him from Debbie due to the abuse. She literally drugged Em as a child! A lot happened but he choose to forgive & make peace with it on his song Headlights for her. Your talking about normal upbringings when this is an abusive one & in no way should you ridicule a child victim of parental abuse to feel bad for what you assume they did to their abuser.
@bones4899 Before she had her car accident and got addicted to pain meds I think she was maybe a decent mom after that she was hell to live with it seems. She wasn't right in the head after that.
I can only feel bad for everyone!!
I can relate bc I was raised in a vile childhood setting watching my mom get High my father left me when I was a baby but it is what it is I am a firm believer in people do change
Sorry miss Debbie now you could rest in peace, I know you love your son so IRP MA'AM.
I heard someone say , when you loose your Moma everything changes 😢. Much Love to one of my all time Fav Rapper Eminem and his Moma ❤❤
So True. I Cry For My Mom Literally On a Daily Basis. I Miss Her So So Much.😢
Haven't seen or spoken to my mother in almost Eighteen years by my own choice. Sometimes you have to cut dead weight to get ahead and move forward. Props to E for staying true.
Yea this didn’t get as much likes as you thought
@@manuelgonzalez8648you’re a very sad person.
@@manuelgonzalez8648 Not everything is about fake internet points, kiddo.
@@manuelgonzalez8648false assumptions, gtfoh !
@@manuelgonzalez8648 neither did yours loser