It doesn’t matter. Luck is the sole factor deciding your fate either way. You guys WAY underestimate this sort of self help attitude crap. Its not going to give you comtrol over the things OUTSIDE of yourself unless luck deems you “worthy”. Its a game of chance. You’re all blaming symptoms for the cause. And theres always a better, more effective way. Its just a matter of who gets to find it.
@@monsterkingadversity6662you can't change what happens to you but you can control how you react to what happens to you. By having a stronger and more disciplined mindset you will react better than if you feel like you are failing every day
@@monsterkingadversity6662 You're absolutely right. Been there, tried that. You'll start feeling good until you slowly realize it's the external factors that will ultimately tear down any hope you had. Especially today, happiness isn't even attainable to most people. In our society, most people simply can't even afford the means to have a happy life like they could have had ten years ago. We shouldn't have to leave the country and move to places like Thailand to find a wife or to have a happy affordable life. It shouldn't be this difficult.
My best advice is this. Stop waiting for someone or something outside of you to get you to think positive or be motivated. It’s an active choice to decide that you are going to take an interest in your own life. I’ve struggled with depression, I was even a NEET for a while. But the bottom line is you have to decide not to wallow in your own apathy.
Its true. But if the trauma isn't addressed or discovered its not a complete process. You have to think the things you thought were crazy for so long, were all just versions of the truth. The truth you only understood is what informed your decision making. If you misinerpret misfortune as inevitable you miss the entire journey. That everyone is walking around half asleep in life and rarely have access to more than 10% of their ability to focus because our world is designed to be like a casino.
My point has already been made by other plp but yeah its because social media and other terrible things have ruined a generation of people and thats why theres so many more videos like this because plp need this sort of help or inspiration
mainstream advice on discipline is often overhyped. The best investment you can make is in yourself. Bruce Thornwood's "Unveiling Your Hidden Potential" helped me develop discipline and set my mindset apart from the rest
i came to the comments only to realize u are a small creator rn. I fully expected this to have 1 million views and tons of likes. Very inspirational, I believe this account will have millions of subs someday.
I'm 29 & so lost, undisciplined, miserable, depressed & anxious. Living in the comfort zone at home with my parents. Struggling to find a job. I feel like I'm done for, like I can't change, not anymore. Don't know what my purpose in life is, what I want to do in terms of career. I definitely don't want to end up having a job I hate. There's pressure from all sides, and I'm kind of beginning to understand more & more why so many men feel incapable of handling it all & just end their lives. It's not so simple as the video explains 😞
Even if you can't get the job you love or you don't know what that is, find a job you can be content with. It will be frustrating some days but better than doing nothing.
this what i needed, i started a "good" job few years ago, working 12 hour nights. The isolation combined with sleeping all my days away, when i wake up at 4pm im not ready to go see people for a few hours and then its too late at night and i just lost contact with most people. I lost my best friend and my last 2 grandparents in this time as well as mother attempting suicide via overdose. I have quit smoking cigs after 12 years, wake up every morning and clean my room, run a mile everyday, started working out, and got sober in these last couple weeks. I gotta keep going man, gotta fight to see the light, cant slip back into the darkness.
Really good video bro! You've inspired me to share my story when I hit my rock bottom. *Whoever reads this; It does get better, You will improve, and YOU WILL MAKE IT.* 💪
I improved myself a lot, worked on myself, got in shape, got better at small and large talk, really examined who I was as a person, decided I was very chill and wanted a like minded person in my life. Finally got a girlfriend. Opened up my heart to her, loved and trusted her like I thought my girlfriend should be loved and trusted. Can you see where this is going lol? She cheated on me. Lied about blocking him. Kept seeing him while the slow trickle of truth ate away at my soul. Finally discovered the messages. Realized what's going on. She cried her eyes out saying she didn't know how to end it with him but in her messages she asked him for a relationship while she was in one with me. Begged him to let her come over so he could use her like a fleshlight. All the while telling me she loved me and cared about me and wanted a future with me. Destroyed me inside. I'm a shell of a man now. Fuck it boys, I think I'll just sit around and drink from now on.
bro thank you for this video, i cried almost for the whole time cause for almost a month I am at that rock bottom and my life almost look like in the beggining of the video. I started to excercise some time ago, reading books but still I just can't get out of that rock bottom, and propably wouldn't till I get back to my girlfriend who broke up with me becuase of my stupidity with playing video games with every free minute I only had... Now I just can't play them being reminded of how it ruined my whole life.
Yea im not one for empathy so i'll hit you with the truth. Nobody's going to date someone who spends all their time on games. But you also shouldnt date someone who doesnt respect your hobbies. However, it has to be that, a hobby. If you wont take her out sometime or go do something together just for the sake of wanting to game then you have a problem. It's called addiction. Nobody wants to deal with that. Go work on yourself, stop smoking cigarettes or weed or whatever because you have absolutely no idea how much that affects your mood and many other things I wont list here. Go to the gym some time, basically just man the f up. Work on yourself and do it for you only and not for the sake of others.
@@tunod- yeah I realized that bro but when it was too late, im not playing games anymore I totally lost interest in that when I saw how much it fck my brain, im working out in gym and im trying to quit smoking cigaretted, but ty man
Girls are fucked up man I know you were playing games or whatever but if she couldn’t work it out with you that’s not love if she left and she loves you you should be able to work it out and it’s not to late but other than that let her go there’s better out there in life than a girlfriend stay on your grind of getting better and good things will start happening for you you will find love again don’t give up buddy
Three hard lessons i have learned. 1. Its ok to help others 2. They will likely not return the favor and that is ok. We are not all in the same spot to be able to help. 3. Do not expect help to come. Theres a quote that i like. You leave childhood when you realize adults can be wrong. You leave adolescents when you realize you can be wrong. You become wise when you can forgive yourself and others.
@uhuihi_uihiuh a point to life is personal and a self-assessment. If drinking and waiting for the end give you enough comfort, then that's enough. Yet you are watching a fix you life video and commenting instead of just drinking while the end that draws ever near. It's OK to be frustrated. It's better to use that energy constructively. I'm sore and tired if I do or don't work out. But I feel better and can do more each day year after year. When I stay consistent in working out. But that's just one little thing that works for me. Good luck, we are stuck in modernity together, and no one gets out of life alive.
These are *excellent* suggestions and advice! I would add that it's *crucial* that you get and *keep* toxic, manipulative and destructive people out of your life. All they want to do is to drag you down!
If the pandemic taught me anything it's "here for a good time, not a long time". As well as "here today, gone tomorrow". We're all heading towards that inevitable end might as well not stress and accept things as they are 👍🏻 🎉
I will try my best to improve myself everyday, starting right away. It will be harder for me since of my mental disability, but I WANT to succeed regardless!
Just wanted to say, you´ve clarified my mind and have given me some good ideas. My life is not fucked up, I´ve been getting better at better at stuff for some time now. Pretty neat video, id like to see something about becoming a better person, I know you don´t have any responsibility to make the videos, however take my idea as a suggestion. Just a video about dealing with emotions, dealing with people and dealing with inner conflict. Im not sure if I made myself clear, english isn´t my mother language. Keep up the good work and I hope you get to see this, keep going for it king, your channel will surely bloom
How is improving yourself and your life related to being lonely? I don't really know your situation in life, but from what I know I can tell that people don't come to you by themselves if you didn't do enough work on yourself (especially on your social skills). So you might aswell try it before calling it BS and change that "it won't help me" mindset
Yo this is a great video for people who fell off who have great potential cmon yall let’s go become who tf we was meant to be we had these visions for a reason God never teases us with More then we can reach 🙏🏽
Thank you so much. I've been so lost as a person and don't know where to start, I'm going to starting doing this starting tomorrow in hopes that I too can finally find purpose
I been struggling after I lost two of my oldest brothers and my mom back to back. I felled to alcoholism I mean like being drunk every single day because I was scared to face reality. My 1st bro completed a year this April, mom completed a year this June and my 2nd bro will be this December. Due to heavily drinking, I gained 48 lbs. I realized no1 will be there for you if you're not willing to help yourself. I know is not nothing, but I am going on 6 weeks without drinking and pushing my self to do at least 15 push ups b4 leaving my house..
good video, since it spoke to my self from arround 2-3 years ago no job, no girlfriend, no self respect I started 2 years ago as a minijober in a senior center, I got asked if I want to work more hours and was surprised "wow they want to keep me" (i was 8 years without a job before that) now I'm full-time, working my 45 hours a week, I have money and don't have to rely on others anymore. Currently, I do my driving license (I'm 34, never needed it before) I'm still without a partner in my life, but I also made it less of a priority, and I currently work on myself. I didnt fully un ducked my life yet, but i guess im on a good way
This just shows my Severe TBI leaves me better dead; i cannot become who i envision myself to be. Why? Well tell my eyes to go back to normal and my mental disabilities to disappear.
This was a remarkably good video. It summarizes much of what I learned in the last few years. I'd like to add a small twist on something: when the list says "healthy social circle" 2:00 that means getting good friends (even if only a few) AND...getting rid of bad "friends". These so-called "friends" can actually be quite detrimental. You may think they are "friends" but they can actually make you feel worse about yourself as a whole. Think about this carefully.
hey so i wanted to follow your social media and i know you’re new but i high recommend to make one for your channel and put important content like this. right now im reading atomic habits and the video you’re saying is correct. small improvements cause help us in the future. one advice i learned from this video is write down my future self and put it on the wall. i want to buy a white board and hang it my wall to put goal and daily tasks.
im french and idk how ur video come to my page but man i love you,i give you my subscribe withe happiness.Never stop ur video and continue u really help me a lot just thanks you man.
This is a bit basic but people have to know the basics before they do anything.. Thanks for taking the time to make the video :) im sure you helped alot of people and also helped me enforce my habits
Masterbating is something completely normal and has nothing to do with depressing. Let me guess, you acting like a little child who laughs excessively at every "adult" thing. Grow up and do something useful with your life!
This is the real deal. Whoever made this video actually went through it. I know because this was me, and all 7 steps is exactly how I changed my life. I just started setting goals and planning out my days. I actually write down my daily, weekly, and yearly goals. Its crazy hearing someone say this out loud.
I'm just finished my college study, still not get into jobs because I have something in mind and want to fulfill it. So I try to build a good habit to achieve that and this video just pop up on my RUclips seems to encourage me to keep on track
Exercising in creativity fills you with worth. Writing, drawing, building or making something takes us back to that childish feeling of being proud , "look what I made" the essence of what it is to be human. Also, selling your creations make it all the more rewarding.
i thought this video was gonna be just like the others stupid and repetitive but actually its really good. the advices u give and how u explain things is really good man idk if its bc its 5am but w the way u explained those things it actually seems possible !
I really needed this, after being confronted about my drinking problem today, it has motivated me into bettering myself, and becoming a better person than who I am right now
What's missing from most videos is the importance of showing off , as we become depressed or shy we dont want people to notice us or we stop caring . Why does someone study .... because they want to show off and impress their mum and dad . Why does the person go running because he wants to impress his school mates . It's all about the exterior world . While anger or motivation can make us do stuff we soon get over our emotions and go back to being lazy . Of course showing off can also be about striking your ego , there is definitely a good type and a bad type
Yea i believe theres also reasons to show off to the external world, if i was the only one on earth, i probably wouldnt be working out and trying to stay in good shape. But i believe it’s important to strike a balance between the external and internal.
Legit i did all those steps like in the beginning of this year except that Step 5 (Exercise) came way earlier for me. The amount of energy, wellbeing and confidence that you gain by just working out helped me push through unfucking my life. Other than that great video and I hope all of you guys manage to upgrade your life. The journey is totally worth it.
Easier said than done, I don't even want to go much further i don't see an end goal but thank you i appreciate this im trying but If I don't see results im done with everything
I think it's important to say that this is a great advice, but mostly for neurotypical people, I swear I've been through this circle hundreds of times but with unmedicated adhd, I've burned out right back at the start, forgetting everything as my attention flew away to all the stress and problems I have go deal with 😅 it's a damn trap
He is right! I stoped drugs, alcohol and gambling, next goal is quit cigarettes and I'm on my first week and whenever i get too nervous i have a vibe and it cslms me for now. My next goal is to start exercise, quit my bad relationship with toxic ppl. and i curently have only 2 ppl on my circle and they are good enough.
Currently in a codependent relationship that enables and encourages this lifestyle. I feel used and betrayed by both myself and the other person in this relationship.
5:32 If you ever have days like this (and you will), instead of doing the task itself, try and size it down to make it much more manageable. It'll be easier for you to get started/get it done, as well as make you feel a sense of accomplishment, which will push you to do more!
Yesterday i re-started my selfimprovment and after day 1 i still feel like i failed myself and others , my whole life was like that .thank you so much for this video i know you are going to be famous one day , god bless
Ay, we all go through ups and downs in life, its a part of it. What matters is that you pick yourself back up and keep going no matter what. Stay strong king.
I cant get over step 2 i have stiped dreaming or wanting to be someone now im just someone that people can look for an advice for a "shitty advice" and nothing more it all started at one point a girl gave attention to me and i grew a liking to her untill i asked her out it all ended softly whit an unclear answer but every evening that answer tear me up so much that every day i barely want to live anymore only thinking about do u even have any friends not people who just feel sory for me
A journey of a thousand miles, begins with a single step -Laozi There's no better saying for absolute truth. The problem with most people quitting their process towards their vision or dream is that they stop in some point, and take a look how long the road is till ahead. Instead of stopping and take a look of the road they've already walked.
This video was recommended into be. I was glad it did because this video was very helpful. In 2019 before the pandemic and this inflation nonsense, I went from having my first apartment living in San Diego traveling across the country doing what I love every day and having more time for myself and my family to living in my car in a parking garage struggling to get a job And a place to live then 6 1/2 months ago one of my family members passed away and I had to stop everything I was doing to go see them only to find out that I was not treated like family when I was there long story short it was getting out of control on predictable and I was treated like the odd man out with them being angry at me since then it was the cycle not doing anything with my room being a mess stuff scattered everywhere not bothering the shower for as long as five days or straight when I’m working too burnt out to do anything because I’m so overwhelmed with what I want and need to be done this having to be done that being done with too many things at once and I realize the paradox is I’m not taking baby steps one at a time. It also gets hard to get back on track when you have a toxic family member you live with that made poor decisions with their finances such as having a $400,000 life insurance check when a family member passes away spending it all less than a year and now has to go to the rat race and work to take care of the house that they can barely afford because they buy things they don’t need And then they let out their problems you about money and financial decisions like you’re therapist or your responsible for it and then give you all this nonsense such as you can’t do it or you’re not allowed to or just because I have to suffer as so should you nonsense. But then I put all that to the side and realize that none of that shit is my goddamn problem and I’m not gonna put up with it. Actions have consequences.
I've met many people like this, and one thing most have in common is they do not have the financial status they want. All these steps are good, but once it comes to step 2, I believe people should focus on what skills they need in order to attain a higher income. What if your hobby is traveling, collecting, customizing etc. What if you want to start dating, or even start a family. You'll never be truly happy if you don't have financial freedom.
Very realistic: Instead of facing a mountain that seems imposible to climb, just make it an enjoyable stroll up a gentle hill. Eventually it will get you there all the same.
Simple but useful, I'm more f up 2-3 years ago After having a half year therapy and quit my job, I feel lonely and useless about myself But in some moment I start thinking what I want to do, to achieve Then I read some books and videos, starting to organize my daily tasks Now I will set up my to-do list on my phone before sleeping, Go to gym 3-5 days a week, meet with my friends at least once a month And starting my own design studio business. Gotta say, it's hard, but you *NEED* to start to change. Once you started, keep your ass on, that's the more difficult part, but it will be easier, cheers
I was addicted to multiple hard drugs and alcohol for 10 years(I'm 2 years sober now). At my lowest point I was binging for days on end, while being very depressed and delusional. I was also mad addicted to porn, because of the massive amounts of speed I was doing. Woke up in the hospital many times because of seizures caused by too much uppers mixed with alcohol. It all came to a climax, when I got arrested and lost my job shortly after (never had issues with the police before that). That's when I reached out for help. I went into 3 different clinics in a row(to do as much therapie as possible) including a longterm rehab, where I stayed for 7 months. That really helped me a lot. I worked very hard to change my negative view on life and the world back to a positive one and actually got my shit together. Now I'm living in the mountains by a lake, sorounded by forest(where I always wanted to live since I was a kid), rent a beautiful appartement(lived in a shitty room before that). I work out 4 times a week and am just starting to change my eating habits for the better. I'm also getting back into my passions of drawing and breakdance(was in a Breakdance crew for many years). Nowadays my appartement is always clean and I'm always well dressed, when going outside. I also cut ties with all the druggies and toxic people in my life. I don't want to sound, like I'm boasting, but my point is: When I hit rock bottom I was sure I was either gonna die because off the drugs, kill myself, or kill somebody else(eventhough I'm not violent). Anyway I thought my life would end in a tragedy. Unfucking your life is a slow and hard process and in the beginning I thought I would never get better, but I did. My best advices for anyone struggling in life are: start small, trust the process(no change comes overnight) and WORK OUT!! I actually mostly work out to release stress and to get my mind off of things I'm dealing with, not because I wanna look prettier(though that's also a nice effect) and I swear it works. My depression, anxiety, self hatred and thinking too deep has gotten so much better since I started working out. It's what keeps me sane and relaxed! I've ranted enough now though... Anyway great video and I will adopt the writting down and hanging up, who I want to be part. That's great input! Much love and peace from germany and I believe we all can make it!!!❤❤❤
He's not wrong, from Maximum Security to my own home, I've literally done it all, tried it all, and beat it all. One thing that needs to be said is, in doing all these things, it's basically like having a shield of protection from the confidence and self worth it brings against shady people and the influence of shady people. That, my friends, is priceless. You don't wanna be reaching for the wrong friends, simply because you've become beaten down by life. The wrong friends when you down and lonely will chew you up and spit you out. Just like life will, if you're not careful.
1:21 this is already too much to keep track of.. I have sever adhd.. And I love this video. And I will try! But this is so much information and instruction.. I can’t keep up😢
I tried everything and the MOST efficient way is just following GOD!! Repent your sins, pray to GOD for guidance and faith, read the Bible, and you’ll see the presence of the Lord in Jesus Christ name ❤ Note: it’s the enemy who wants to destroy your life like a thief
Man's was beating it to just the logo, it doesn't get more degen than that
😂😂😂
That logo is very well designed though😂
Its got pixels in ALLLL the right places tbh…
Lmao
Chese pizza is only worse
My father said "just keep moving, you did not fail, failure is stopping and giving up, it's okay"
is ur dad single? i need to know that he aint from alabama so i can hv u
Based dad
good advice
Wish my dad told me that when I got expelled he just left my life
Nice, so I have officialy failed.
Phrase "as long as youre tryin youre not failin - you only become failure if you stop tryin" touched my heart.
Nah should b long as i am failing I know I’ll always be trying
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. - Wayne Gretzky
@@FirstLast-ng7kmMan i’m tired i read that as Wayne Gacy at first, that serial kller clown guy
And wheter you fail or not you just expire from old age and get forgotteb by the world
Just because you keep trying doesn't mean you won't fail always. Sometimes youre fkd. Be realistic.
You will never win in life if you cannot win in controlling yourself.
It doesn’t matter. Luck is the sole factor deciding your fate either way. You guys WAY underestimate this sort of self help attitude crap. Its not going to give you comtrol over the things OUTSIDE of yourself unless luck deems you “worthy”. Its a game of chance.
You’re all blaming symptoms for the cause. And theres always a better, more effective way. Its just a matter of who gets to find it.
@@monsterkingadversity6662you can't change what happens to you but you can control how you react to what happens to you. By having a stronger and more disciplined mindset you will react better than if you feel like you are failing every day
@matthewroberts6281 Discipline doesn't stop you feom failing, it just makes the failures even more insulting.
Who tf said that
@@monsterkingadversity6662 You're absolutely right. Been there, tried that. You'll start feeling good until you slowly realize it's the external factors that will ultimately tear down any hope you had. Especially today, happiness isn't even attainable to most people. In our society, most people simply can't even afford the means to have a happy life like they could have had ten years ago. We shouldn't have to leave the country and move to places like Thailand to find a wife or to have a happy affordable life. It shouldn't be this difficult.
My best advice is this.
Stop waiting for someone or something outside of you to get you to think positive or be motivated. It’s an active choice to decide that you are going to take an interest in your own life. I’ve struggled with depression, I was even a NEET for a while. But the bottom line is you have to decide not to wallow in your own apathy.
Thank you
Motivation is a spark, but discipline is a flame that never goes out.
Its true. But if the trauma isn't addressed or discovered its not a complete process. You have to think the things you thought were crazy for so long, were all just versions of the truth. The truth you only understood is what informed your decision making. If you misinerpret misfortune as inevitable you miss the entire journey. That everyone is walking around half asleep in life and rarely have access to more than 10% of their ability to focus because our world is designed to be like a casino.
80% mindset, 20% skill. It fluctuates depending on your living situation, but regardless it takes perseverance.
And 100% reason to remember the name
@@robinseven9662 Hell yeah!
10% luck 20% skill 15% concentrated power of will 5% pleasure 50% pain and 100% reason to remember the name
why is it every video on youtube nowadays are always like this
TikTok has destroyed a generation that's why
Modern world is doomed thats why
cause they usually get a shit ton of views every time, just how the youtube meta works
Because that's what the algorithm has realised you like watching.
My point has already been made by other plp but yeah its because social media and other terrible things have ruined a generation of people and thats why theres so many more videos like this because plp need this sort of help or inspiration
mainstream advice on discipline is often overhyped. The best investment you can make is in yourself. Bruce Thornwood's "Unveiling Your Hidden Potential" helped me develop discipline and set my mindset apart from the rest
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i came to the comments only to realize u are a small creator rn. I fully expected this to have 1 million views and tons of likes. Very inspirational, I believe this account will have millions of subs someday.
Hopefully one day, thanks for your support
I honestly love watching motivation stuff from smaller channels as it feels weirdly more relatable
Who else makes a lightly worn but can still pass as clean pile of clothes, and a dirty pile? Just want to know if anyone else relates.
All the time man
@@mikewazowskisrightleg3602
Especially if they only smell like the cologne you used that day/night? XD
@@GALLUS_PRIMEthere's a difference between dirty and funky clothes. Dirty can be worn again 😂
@@KoolKeithProductions Bro, we can’t give out all our secrets, that’s a god tier strat! XD
Dirty pile goes in a hamper, slightly worn is no more than a pairof pants and tshirt
I'm 29 & so lost, undisciplined, miserable, depressed & anxious. Living in the comfort zone at home with my parents. Struggling to find a job. I feel like I'm done for, like I can't change, not anymore. Don't know what my purpose in life is, what I want to do in terms of career. I definitely don't want to end up having a job I hate. There's pressure from all sides, and I'm kind of beginning to understand more & more why so many men feel incapable of handling it all & just end their lives.
It's not so simple as the video explains 😞
I feel that, I'm in the same situation... You're not alone. I'll pray for you, don't give up. We can manage a way out. I believe in us
23 working over nites getting a job never helps still depressed and lost praying I can save money and figure things out
We’ll just having a job makes it a lil bit better.
Even if you can't get the job you love or you don't know what that is, find a job you can be content with.
It will be frustrating some days but better than doing nothing.
@@kpoppy9635 yeah you be feeling bad if you don’t have one. Just get something even if it’s part time or long hours.
this what i needed, i started a "good" job few years ago, working 12 hour nights. The isolation combined with sleeping all my days away, when i wake up at 4pm im not ready to go see people for a few hours and then its too late at night and i just lost contact with most people. I lost my best friend and my last 2 grandparents in this time as well as mother attempting suicide via overdose. I have quit smoking cigs after 12 years, wake up every morning and clean my room, run a mile everyday, started working out, and got sober in these last couple weeks. I gotta keep going man, gotta fight to see the light, cant slip back into the darkness.
Keep going champ
Really good video bro! You've inspired me to share my story when I hit my rock bottom. *Whoever reads this; It does get better, You will improve, and YOU WILL MAKE IT.* 💪
I improved myself a lot, worked on myself, got in shape, got better at small and large talk, really examined who I was as a person, decided I was very chill and wanted a like minded person in my life. Finally got a girlfriend. Opened up my heart to her, loved and trusted her like I thought my girlfriend should be loved and trusted. Can you see where this is going lol? She cheated on me. Lied about blocking him. Kept seeing him while the slow trickle of truth ate away at my soul. Finally discovered the messages. Realized what's going on. She cried her eyes out saying she didn't know how to end it with him but in her messages she asked him for a relationship while she was in one with me. Begged him to let her come over so he could use her like a fleshlight. All the while telling me she loved me and cared about me and wanted a future with me. Destroyed me inside. I'm a shell of a man now. Fuck it boys, I think I'll just sit around and drink from now on.
This video deserves million views or more, this is just top tier quality
Thanks, hopefully one day it will hit one mill
bro thank you for this video, i cried almost for the whole time cause for almost a month I am at that rock bottom and my life almost look like in the beggining of the video. I started to excercise some time ago, reading books but still I just can't get out of that rock bottom, and propably wouldn't till I get back to my girlfriend who broke up with me becuase of my stupidity with playing video games with every free minute I only had... Now I just can't play them being reminded of how it ruined my whole life.
Do not go beg that girl, no matter how enticing it may look. Let her come back to you. If she doesn't, it will be alright. Organise your life first!
By the time you started working out and reading you made some huge steps forward. That's a w in my perspective bro
Yea im not one for empathy so i'll hit you with the truth. Nobody's going to date someone who spends all their time on games. But you also shouldnt date someone who doesnt respect your hobbies. However, it has to be that, a hobby. If you wont take her out sometime or go do something together just for the sake of wanting to game then you have a problem. It's called addiction. Nobody wants to deal with that.
Go work on yourself, stop smoking cigarettes or weed or whatever because you have absolutely no idea how much that affects your mood and many other things I wont list here. Go to the gym some time, basically just man the f up. Work on yourself and do it for you only and not for the sake of others.
@@tunod- yeah I realized that bro but when it was too late, im not playing games anymore I totally lost interest in that when I saw how much it fck my brain, im working out in gym and im trying to quit smoking cigaretted, but ty man
Girls are fucked up man I know you were playing games or whatever but if she couldn’t work it out with you that’s not love if she left and she loves you you should be able to work it out and it’s not to late but other than that let her go there’s better out there in life than a girlfriend stay on your grind of getting better and good things will start happening for you you will find love again don’t give up buddy
"Figure out who you want to be"
Is a MASSIVE leap that just gets casually thrown around
Alot of people have absolutely no idea
weak.
@@chillguygaming420What are you? 11?
@@marcelschlaffer6456 just a realist.
@@chillguygaming420 Cool. And now stick your head out of your ass and think why tf you even wrote this comment.
man... this is just what I needed.. thank you so much for putting out content like that, it really helps. Also hello from Russia!
Glad to know it helped
Three hard lessons i have learned.
1. Its ok to help others
2. They will likely not return the favor and that is ok. We are not all in the same spot to be able to help.
3. Do not expect help to come.
Theres a quote that i like.
You leave childhood when you realize adults can be wrong.
You leave adolescents when you realize you can be wrong.
You become wise when you can forgive yourself and others.
You left out there's no point to any of this and we're all marching an unstoppable march towards death so let's get fkn drunk.
@uhuihi_uihiuh a point to life is personal and a self-assessment.
If drinking and waiting for the end give you enough comfort, then that's enough. Yet you are watching a fix you life video and commenting instead of just drinking while the end that draws ever near.
It's OK to be frustrated. It's better to use that energy constructively.
I'm sore and tired if I do or don't work out. But I feel better and can do more each day year after year. When I stay consistent in working out. But that's just one little thing that works for me.
Good luck, we are stuck in modernity together, and no one gets out of life alive.
These are *excellent* suggestions and advice! I would add that it's *crucial* that you get and *keep* toxic, manipulative and destructive people out of your life. All they want to do is to drag you down!
wow i actually didn’t think this would be helpful but it actually really is. kudos to you my friend
My goal is to accept and be content with being a failure. No stress, good life.
If the pandemic taught me anything it's "here for a good time, not a long time". As well as "here today, gone tomorrow". We're all heading towards that inevitable end might as well not stress and accept things as they are 👍🏻 🎉
I needed this video so badly. Everything you said is 100% me right now. I never realized how small changes can become huge results..thank you.
I will try my best to improve myself everyday, starting right away. It will be harder for me since of my mental disability, but I WANT to succeed regardless!
Just wanted to say, you´ve clarified my mind and have given me some good ideas. My life is not fucked up, I´ve been getting better at better at stuff for some time now. Pretty neat video, id like to see something about becoming a better person, I know you don´t have any responsibility to make the videos, however take my idea as a suggestion. Just a video about dealing with emotions, dealing with people and dealing with inner conflict. Im not sure if I made myself clear, english isn´t my mother language. Keep up the good work and I hope you get to see this, keep going for it king, your channel will surely bloom
Ay im glad it helped, stay strong 💪
That's BS it's not for everyone when you are lonely for your whole life 😊
Yeah, especially when you're thinking of suicide.
How is improving yourself and your life related to being lonely? I don't really know your situation in life, but from what I know I can tell that people don't come to you by themselves if you didn't do enough work on yourself (especially on your social skills). So you might aswell try it before calling it BS and change that "it won't help me" mindset
Yo this is a great video for people who fell off who have great potential cmon yall let’s go become who tf we was meant to be we had these visions for a reason God never teases us with More then we can reach 🙏🏽
Thank you so much. I've been so lost as a person and don't know where to start, I'm going to starting doing this starting tomorrow in hopes that I too can finally find purpose
I been struggling after I lost two of my oldest brothers and my mom back to back. I felled to alcoholism I mean like being drunk every single day because I was scared to face reality. My 1st bro completed a year this April, mom completed a year this June and my 2nd bro will be this December. Due to heavily drinking, I gained 48 lbs. I realized no1 will be there for you if you're not willing to help yourself. I know is not nothing, but I am going on 6 weeks without drinking and pushing my self to do at least 15 push ups b4 leaving my house..
Thank you for being a real person recording these videos! It’d be so easy to have an AI voiceover but thanks for being real
My problem is I don't even wanna try anymore. It's easier to give up and I don't know who or what I want to be.
This my recipe for decades. It works. These word are so sharp & precious that everyone should see this short video.
good video, since it spoke to my self from arround 2-3 years ago
no job, no girlfriend, no self respect
I started 2 years ago as a minijober in a senior center, I got asked if I want to work more hours and was surprised "wow they want to keep me" (i was 8 years without a job before that)
now I'm full-time, working my 45 hours a week, I have money and don't have to rely on others anymore. Currently, I do my driving license (I'm 34, never needed it before)
I'm still without a partner in my life, but I also made it less of a priority, and I currently work on myself.
I didnt fully un ducked my life yet, but i guess im on a good way
Bro's already spilt his milk on the table even with just a logo intro without even actually seeing the full movie
blessed with much to be expected born to be a professional gooner 😼
This just shows my Severe TBI leaves me better dead; i cannot become who i envision myself to be. Why? Well tell my eyes to go back to normal and my mental disabilities to disappear.
“as long as you’re trying you’re not failing.” did it for me, something i needed to hear
This really summarizes it up man, really good work
This was a remarkably good video. It summarizes much of what I learned in the last few years. I'd like to add a small twist on something: when the list says "healthy social circle" 2:00 that means getting good friends (even if only a few) AND...getting rid of bad "friends".
These so-called "friends" can actually be quite detrimental. You may think they are "friends" but they can actually make you feel worse about yourself as a whole. Think about this carefully.
hey so i wanted to follow your social media and i know you’re new but i high recommend to make one for your channel and put important content like this. right now im reading atomic habits and the video you’re saying is correct. small improvements cause help us in the future. one advice i learned from this video is write down my future self and put it on the wall. i want to buy a white board and hang it my wall to put goal and daily tasks.
I needed this.
Not only did I "Like" and "Subscribe", I added this to 4 of my playlists.
im french and idk how ur video come to my page but man i love you,i give you my subscribe withe happiness.Never stop ur video and continue u really help me a lot just thanks you man.
Seek fulfillment, not happiness.
This is a bit basic but people have to know the basics before they do anything.. Thanks for taking the time to make the video :) im sure you helped alot of people and also helped me enforce my habits
00:02 bro is depressed
no duh
@@bloopblap-xn1oq ok
Masterbating is something completely normal and has nothing to do with depressing.
Let me guess, you acting like a little child who laughs excessively at every "adult" thing. Grow up and do something useful with your life!
Bro look like he had a stickyicky
@@faceman6465 bruh
Your advice on small-steps is absolute gold. It really works.
the lego star wars yoda scream had me in tears dude
This is the real deal. Whoever made this video actually went through it. I know because this was me, and all 7 steps is exactly how I changed my life. I just started setting goals and planning out my days. I actually write down my daily, weekly, and yearly goals. Its crazy hearing someone say this out loud.
well im mildly insulted youtube reccomended this to me but... i needed this. thanks!
Thank you very much for reminding me, how to get up and going again. Much needed right now.
I'm just finished my college study, still not get into jobs because I have something in mind and want to fulfill it. So I try to build a good habit to achieve that and this video just pop up on my RUclips seems to encourage me to keep on track
Exercising in creativity fills you with worth. Writing, drawing, building or making something takes us back to that childish feeling of being proud , "look what I made" the essence of what it is to be human. Also, selling your creations make it all the more rewarding.
I still watch these videos time after time to stay motivated and relearn. So well made.
Thank lord my life has never gotten to this point, but it’s still good to see this video as if gives me tips on how to prevent this
#6 and #7 spoke straight into my heart.
i thought this video was gonna be just like the others stupid and repetitive but actually its really good. the advices u give and how u explain things is really good man idk if its bc its 5am but w the way u explained those things it actually seems possible !
i know, im actually motivated rn, IM POSSIBLE!
I really needed this, after being confronted about my drinking problem today, it has motivated me into bettering myself, and becoming a better person than who I am right now
Yeah? Who confronted you? What was said?
What's missing from most videos is the importance of showing off , as we become depressed or shy we dont want people to notice us or we stop caring . Why does someone study .... because they want to show off and impress their mum and dad .
Why does the person go running because he wants to impress his school mates .
It's all about the exterior world .
While anger or motivation can make us do stuff we soon get over our emotions and go back to being lazy .
Of course showing off can also be about striking your ego , there is definitely a good type and a bad type
Yea i believe theres also reasons to show off to the external world, if i was the only one on earth, i probably wouldnt be working out and trying to stay in good shape. But i believe it’s important to strike a balance between the external and internal.
Philisopher been asked once,
- How can you keep yourself on a tasks for so long?
- I can't. I keep returning.
Legit i did all those steps like in the beginning of this year except that Step 5 (Exercise) came way earlier for me. The amount of energy, wellbeing and confidence that you gain by just working out helped me push through unfucking my life.
Other than that great video and I hope all of you guys manage to upgrade your life. The journey is totally worth it.
Ive never seen someone who knows me as much as you do me
Not caring what others think or say ... really matters.
Easier said than done, I don't even want to go much further i don't see an end goal but thank you i appreciate this im trying but If I don't see results im done with everything
You deserve more attention on this video bro
I think it's important to say that this is a great advice, but mostly for neurotypical people, I swear I've been through this circle hundreds of times but with unmedicated adhd, I've burned out right back at the start, forgetting everything as my attention flew away to all the stress and problems I have go deal with 😅 it's a damn trap
Great message. Such an excellent video.
He is right! I stoped drugs, alcohol and gambling, next goal is quit cigarettes and I'm on my first week and whenever i get too nervous i have a vibe and it cslms me for now.
My next goal is to start exercise, quit my bad relationship with toxic ppl. and i curently have only 2 ppl on my circle and they are good enough.
0:44 well got darn it okay
Currently in a codependent relationship that enables and encourages this lifestyle. I feel used and betrayed by both myself and the other person in this relationship.
Wow, thanks, i really needed this rn 💪
I just can't....
Nothing interests me...
I just want it all to end...
ain't exactly want to die but ain't exactly want to be alive
Same @@asiazzx
5:32 If you ever have days like this (and you will), instead of doing the task itself, try and size it down to make it much more manageable. It'll be easier for you to get started/get it done, as well as make you feel a sense of accomplishment, which will push you to do more!
Bruno mars makes a song about it
im for reall when i say your video just saved alot of peoples lives
4:47 - That pill is called #NZT
I'm not doing any of this. You do it.
Yesterday i re-started my selfimprovment and after day 1 i still feel like i failed myself and others , my whole life was like that .thank you so much for this video i know you are going to be famous one day , god bless
Ay, we all go through ups and downs in life, its a part of it. What matters is that you pick yourself back up and keep going no matter what. Stay strong king.
Saving money is important. Spending it is as stupid as needy behavior
Great guidelines. Glad I came across this and listened.
I cant get over step 2 i have stiped dreaming or wanting to be someone now im just someone that people can look for an advice for a "shitty advice" and nothing more it all started at one point a girl gave attention to me and i grew a liking to her untill i asked her out it all ended softly whit an unclear answer but every evening that answer tear me up so much that every day i barely want to live anymore only thinking about do u even have any friends not people who just feel sory for me
A journey of a thousand miles, begins with a single step -Laozi
There's no better saying for absolute truth.
The problem with most people quitting their process towards their vision or dream is that they stop in some point, and take a look how long the road is till ahead.
Instead of stopping and take a look of the road they've already walked.
This video was recommended into be. I was glad it did because this video was very helpful. In 2019 before the pandemic and this inflation nonsense, I went from having my first apartment living in San Diego traveling across the country doing what I love every day and having more time for myself and my family to living in my car in a parking garage struggling to get a job And a place to live then 6 1/2 months ago one of my family members passed away and I had to stop everything I was doing to go see them only to find out that I was not treated like family when I was there long story short it was getting out of control on predictable and I was treated like the odd man out with them being angry at me since then it was the cycle not doing anything with my room being a mess stuff scattered everywhere not bothering the shower for as long as five days or straight when I’m working too burnt out to do anything because I’m so overwhelmed with what I want and need to be done this having to be done that being done with too many things at once and I realize the paradox is I’m not taking baby steps one at a time. It also gets hard to get back on track when you have a toxic family member you live with that made poor decisions with their finances such as having a $400,000 life insurance check when a family member passes away spending it all less than a year and now has to go to the rat race and work to take care of the house that they can barely afford because they buy things they don’t need And then they let out their problems you about money and financial decisions like you’re therapist or your responsible for it and then give you all this nonsense such as you can’t do it or you’re not allowed to or just because I have to suffer as so should you nonsense. But then I put all that to the side and realize that none of that shit is my goddamn problem and I’m not gonna put up with it. Actions have consequences.
To many steps for getting one's shit together my thoughts are respect yourself and try to reflect your own being and find your place in this world
Yo well done on this video dude, its great !
A true cinematic masterpiece
I've met many people like this, and one thing most have in common is they do not have the financial status they want. All these steps are good, but once it comes to step 2, I believe people should focus on what skills they need in order to attain a higher income. What if your hobby is traveling, collecting, customizing etc. What if you want to start dating, or even start a family. You'll never be truly happy if you don't have financial freedom.
Good perspectives. You are going places just keep going.
Hopefully 🙏
Very realistic: Instead of facing a mountain that seems imposible to climb, just make it an enjoyable stroll up a gentle hill. Eventually it will get you there all the same.
it feels like these videos find you instead of you finding them
I don’t feel accomplishment all I’ve felt was relief
Jordan Peterson wants you to clean your room.
:)
I only watched 10 seconds of the video and not afraid to admit that that’s hella relatable
Simple but useful, I'm more f up 2-3 years ago
After having a half year therapy and quit my job, I feel lonely and useless about myself
But in some moment I start thinking what I want to do, to achieve
Then I read some books and videos, starting to organize my daily tasks
Now I will set up my to-do list on my phone before sleeping,
Go to gym 3-5 days a week, meet with my friends at least once a month
And starting my own design studio business.
Gotta say, it's hard, but you *NEED* to start to change.
Once you started, keep your ass on, that's the more difficult part, but it will be easier, cheers
Subbed bro keep these videos going
Thanks welcome to family 🙏
I was addicted to multiple hard drugs and alcohol for 10 years(I'm 2 years sober now). At my lowest point I was binging for days on end, while being very depressed and delusional. I was also mad addicted to porn, because of the massive amounts of speed I was doing. Woke up in the hospital many times because of seizures caused by too much uppers mixed with alcohol. It all came to a climax, when I got arrested and lost my job shortly after (never had issues with the police before that). That's when I reached out for help. I went into 3 different clinics in a row(to do as much therapie as possible) including a longterm rehab, where I stayed for 7 months. That really helped me a lot. I worked very hard to change my negative view on life and the world back to a positive one and actually got my shit together. Now I'm living in the mountains by a lake, sorounded by forest(where I always wanted to live since I was a kid), rent a beautiful appartement(lived in a shitty room before that). I work out 4 times a week and am just starting to change my eating habits for the better. I'm also getting back into my passions of drawing and breakdance(was in a Breakdance crew for many years). Nowadays my appartement is always clean and I'm always well dressed, when going outside.
I also cut ties with all the druggies and toxic people in my life.
I don't want to sound, like I'm boasting, but my point is: When I hit rock bottom I was sure I was either gonna die because off the drugs, kill myself, or kill somebody else(eventhough I'm not violent). Anyway I thought my life would end in a tragedy. Unfucking your life is a slow and hard process and in the beginning I thought I would never get better, but I did.
My best advices for anyone struggling in life are: start small, trust the process(no change comes overnight) and WORK OUT!!
I actually mostly work out to release stress and to get my mind off of things I'm dealing with, not because I wanna look prettier(though that's also a nice effect) and I swear it works. My depression, anxiety, self hatred and thinking too deep has gotten so much better since I started working out. It's what keeps me sane and relaxed! I've ranted enough now though... Anyway great video and I will adopt the writting down and hanging up, who I want to be part. That's great input!
Much love and peace from germany and I believe we all can make it!!!❤❤❤
I needed this video.
He's not wrong, from Maximum Security to my own home, I've literally done it all, tried it all, and beat it all. One thing that needs to be said is, in doing all these things, it's basically like having a shield of protection from the confidence and self worth it brings against shady people and the influence of shady people. That, my friends, is priceless. You don't wanna be reaching for the wrong friends, simply because you've become beaten down by life. The wrong friends when you down and lonely will chew you up and spit you out. Just like life will, if you're not careful.
1:21 this is already too much to keep track of..
I have sever adhd..
And I love this video.
And I will try!
But this is so much information and instruction..
I can’t keep up😢
I tried everything and the MOST efficient way is just following GOD!! Repent your sins, pray to GOD for guidance and faith, read the Bible, and you’ll see the presence of the Lord in Jesus Christ name ❤
Note: it’s the enemy who wants to destroy your life like a thief
Lol
God won't get you into college or pay your bills. Invest in YOURSELF
congrats. beautiful video. loved to see it
Really needed this kind of stuff, god bless you man.