She needs to wake up for her daughter’s sake. That man is showing her who he is, and she keeps making excuses for him. How he handles and spoke about his exes says a lot about him. That’s his character.
Don't believe everything you see on TV or hear from naysayers! Shay is living her life and trying to do positive things. I don't know one person who hasn't experienced some level of toxicity in a relationship. Praise her for being honest and not wanting to play along to get along to appease viewers.
Women like Shay attract abusive men. Accepting abuse is now in her DNA. It's sad because she has a daughter, who will emulate her behavior. Remember when Shay called out her mother for allowing her dad to emotionally abuse her with cheating. It's an example that mothers set an example for their daughters to be in a healthy or unhealthy intimate relationship.
There are a lot of women out here that want a man so bad that they will accept anything. And Shay has the nerve to talk about another woman. Ladies when you respect, love and know yourself then you choose men that will respect, love and know you. This is not shade, I just think women should be powerful, smarter and clever when it comes to these disrespectful men making them look stupid out here in these streets.
I want knock her she getting her coins😅 but Libra relationship be so far fetch. Like her and scappy, he was creeping once he stop creeping he 2 broke her heart this guy is the same way.libra, jump to.fast and this is way they be hurt cause they love on male 2 easily. Give them a.hard time and see wher it goes.🎉
Yes it comes a point as a woman age. You gotta be smarter than this. Cause men will play you as long as you let them. First scrappy now, Fabo girl be alone and heal
Exactly, n now end up with a guy who’s not that into her, n the sad part she’s putting him above her mom, he’s happy to be on T.V , don’t c why she’s still on the show.
@@india2057 but to have all these women acting like this for years He just wasn’t collecting money All of them said they took care of mainly everything What is it called
Shay is the type of woman that needs a man to validate her. Fabo spoke negatively about women just to make Shay feel good about herself and she listened and believed him. He's using Shay just like any he's using other women .
Women that really believe that a MAN can confirm that they “out woman” another woman are the most delusional. That’s the oldest trick in the book and fools fall for it every single time. I was once a dummy that’s how I know.
He cheated on me.He made me break down to the point that I fell on the ground.He's embarrassed me.He's lied to me, but on the other end, you say he's a good guy? He's not a hopeless romantic he is a love bombing narcissists and Bambi is the only one that woke up!
We need to have an episode with Scrappy, Shay, Diamond, Bambi and Erica. Then and only then will the truth come out. But we can all agree that scrappy is the common denominator (trouble), lied to everyone of these ladies 🤦🏾♀️
Breaking up so many times is another huge red flag to me. When true love is there and a man WANTS to be with you and spend his life with you…aint no breaking up 😂 especially not more than once! A man that constantly leaves you…don’t want to be there.
I agree! Sadly young woman are insecure and fall into a trap of wanting love and lying to themselves. Just my opinion. I was one of those girls long ago.
@@paigepeterson5345 for sure! We have all been there! My prayer is for young girls learn this EARLY in life, so when they are grown women, they don’t fall in this trap. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
The father of Shay's child is far worse than Scrappy..dude is very disrespectful to her mother but, Shay wants the fairytale ending and she has conditioned herself to think all men cheat and riddled with drama. Tasha K(in her crazy way)did all the research for her..🤔
@@noreason8818 So I thought so at first and it explains why Shay is the way that she is.....HOWEVER, this past season made me realize that Shay's mother does care about her but her mother is also very hardened by life so she lacks a lot of empathy. She's been trying to have Shay's back but Shay doesn't want to take a step back and listen to what her mom is saying. Her momma been warning her about these men and she doesn't want to listen b/c of their personal issues.
@@elisest.george8245yet come back to her mom when it's necessary and convenient for her .sat there and wished to get an abortion . Had a miscarriage who showed up mama man went there and left didn't even go in that hospital. What mother would be OK with a man like that
Flip flopping….Everytime he say he was out of town they tell a story when they were in that same town and saying he never said he was with her. 😂😂😂 duhhhhh he tell all y’all that.
She said in the interview they were friends several times. She did not claim him either. The woman who she is referring to was claiming to be Fabo's fiance.
I was thinking the same thing when she was like “he don’t post you” and I’m like, baby you too old to still be falling for that. Men been lying to her for a reason…because she believes it. It’s so sad 🤦🏽♀️
What I think: Mona knew about the situation with Scrappy, Diamond, Erica and Shay and asked all them to come on the show individually. Diamond turned it down, Scrappy, Erica and Shay agreed. So they all think that they were asked to the show and brought the others along.
Scrappy got on the show because he actually used to be somebody back in the day. Shay was nowhere in the picture. She wasn't even on the first season. Erica didn't even want to be on the show and almost didn't make it on the show cuz she was boring. The storyline was the love triangle with Scrappy, Erica and Diamond. Shay has her facts mixed up😂😂
I’m actually glad shay went against the grain with her HEALTH business & not the usual lashes, hair bundles, skinny tea, clothes shop, etc. kudos to her!
The nerve to be calling other woman delusional , meanwhile she's sitting around waiting for a man to like her let alone love her. The scene sitting on the beach hugged up is dreadful ,he looks uninterested , unbothered and unmoved. she's the one kissing his ass to be in this relationship . No matter how she tries to spin this she's stupid as hell.one thing about ethnic man ,alot of them will screw and kill time with American girls, they will waste their time and use them .but they will never marry them . I'm Haitian so I know alot of ethnic man who does this . Jamaican , Haitians. Bahamians The only men that are more open to dating outside their ethnicity is African and nigerian man. The same way he sit around and talk shit about those other woman to shay. is the same way he talk shit about her to other woman that's the toxic trait many ethnic man posess they dog they own wives out for shit and giggles
Red flag #1: If your current dude insults his ex's looks to you as a way to make you feel better. Obviously, he didn't think she looked like Shrek when they were together and her money (or lack thereof) didn't matter to him at the time.
I really liked Shay prior to this interview. A lot of justifying toxicity and speaking poorly about other women. Speaking on someone’s fertility challenges then talking about your own miscarriage in the next segment is insane.
Wow!!!!! Scrappy helped her out of an abusive relationship! I see why she was so hurt and why Mama Dee is so protective of her. 💗 That touched me. Respect ✊🏾 Scrappy. 13:48
Right!! I learned that the hard way years ago. I was talked bad about and didn’t even know until a chick said something, and now I see red flags 🚩 I’m not playing that game. Next!
Wow! I didn’t know she was that naive. She tries to deflect on all her issues by saying it happens to everyone. Why do you keep wanting to have more babies in toxicity. She should just focus on her own pain and heal without all these distractions!!!
one thing I've learned is don't believe what a man tells us about a past relationship, some women believe what the man says. and I can attest to say, money, intelligence, looks does not matter. never down play ugly, having nothing, and thinking we are the better. I have it all. My ex is with what Shay spoke down on. That women was enough for him to be with. If she was all the negative he pillowed talked to her about as well as his family, why entertain/was he with her. I tell people all the time stop judging, u will find out. he said, he said, well he said. ummmmmmm
Mama D is a flip flopper. She always acts like besties with Scraps side chicks, then when he makes the side chick the main chick she turns on her & starts being friends with the new side chick. 🤣
I feel bad for Shay. That man is going to leave her so broken. She’s deep in denial about who her baby father is. She can’t believe that her baby father thinks the other woman look like shrek when he slept with her multiple times.
Yep! And Diamonds too. The only one lying about everybody being side chicks is Erica. Erica was his TV trophy that got him off of child support. It was supposed to be a come up for her.
About Fubu (Fabo): even though he didn't post the women he was with, Shay had to have known that he was dealing with someone at the point cause those kids he posted didn't just come from a stork. If you saw a new kid, you had to have known
It saddens me Shay still wants additional children with a man that hasnt provided stability to her through a healthy relationship. Great make up sex shouldnt be the base of a relationship before a child 😢
Lmao the way Dymond, Bambi and Shay’s story and timeline match . But then Erica’s story is shaky .. none of these women were main chicks including Erica . She only had a upper hand because they had a baby together
Bambi and shay said the same thing they meet scrappy with diamond and Erica was presented just as the baby momma. And I do believe he told these women she was just the baby mama but was with her and everybody else dipping and dabbing. So none of them has every had scrappy to themselve. For Erica to ever get back with him she would be the biggest fool cause he can't be with just one women.
That’s why Bambi said he was all of our boyfriend. Because she found out and realized it after the different stories. These women didn’t see what happened until the show actually aired. During filming he had the opportunity to lie and say whatever.
@@DemetriaB8004 He didn’t propose to Erica (he said that in his interview with Carlos by himself) he said he was ready to get married regardless. But he never proposed to her again after the first staged one on the reunion. I watched his interview with Carlos last night and was shocked 😳 he admitted that.
I like Shay, but when she talked about the other woman being unattractive, I thought to myself, that’s what everybody use to say about you, when you were dealing with Scrappy & Erica was dealing with him!
Right. I don't think she's a bad person, but she's one of those women who places males on a pedestal and gets all her validation from them. And she will not hesitate to degrade other women behind a man over their looks, clothes, and, money, meanwhile she will uplift a man who has zero good qualities. It's unfortunate.
This is literally why Shay will likely never have a genuine man. When she gets with a man she always speaks on his relationship with another woman. YOU don’t know what he said or did with another woman. lol. She will forever be getting embarrassed and it’s sad. At some point you have to do things differently to get a different result. It’s desensitizing to watch someone constantly bump their head.
Shay your too old to think a man your seeing every yr as you putting it didn’t have a woman in no sort of way. Now just say you knew and didn’t care because he had a whole wife supposedly and there’s no way you didn’t know. These are the women that cries after the man goes back or treat them the same.
Shay learned nothing from the ordeal with scrappy. Sitting here repeating what a man told her to downplay his relationship with another woman to make her feel better and she’s feeling empowered by it too. Just slow and raggedy.
So basically Scrappy told 4 women he loved them and was dealing with them at the same time. That is disgusting. She called him a lover boy but he definitely has issues and needs counseling. None of this is healthy.
@SSSS-wq4vn yes she was the main one but how he misled all of them including her is sick. I’m surprised they didn't gang up on him and plot. You can’t play with people’s hearts like this for years. Shay said she broke down after the reunion, which we didn’t see. I’m very disturbed by his actions.
@@carmenjackson4597that's rich. He married Bambi and took Noone else serious not even the one who got knocked up by him first. Reproduction is science not a soul tie. No offense to anyone's religion but I just can't feed into the nonsense when a man tell you he love you just cause you had his baby and that makes you special, but treats you like garbage and like you mean nothing.
There is something really off with shay and she comes off as so desperate for a man and a family that she will overlook every single thing for Fabo and not look and think about all the red flags now even her mom could have seen when she got pregnant how it wasnt right and now she sticks by this man's every word even if the actions dont add up and wants eveeyone to believe it is in the name of love i havent heard one loving thing she said about Fabo throughout this interview only that he trapped her with a baby
Moral of the story: scrappy been the problem! He’s toxic, immature, arrogant, violent, and BROKE! Shay, Erica, Diamond, and Bambi are all delusional. Smh they need to get away from this man #soulties
You did it again Carlos. I loved it and I enjoyed every minute again I resonate so much with Shay. It’s no reason to judge anyone’s journey. Wish her the best ❤
Funny how she keep saying my situation-ship with my child’s father. If you address it that way he is not your man. I don’t address my relationship as a situation
Just because he doesn't post in social media doesn't mean he is not doing anything. I'm not saying he is, but it's ultimately her choice and her life. Wish her well
I love you Shay! In case you haven’t heard it in along time. You deserve to hear that. Been following your career since the beginning. Keep strong 💪🏾 love!
Shay is so crazy to allow her child's father to disrespect her mother. One thing about it is that her mother knows best. Fabien aint bout shit. In due time it will all be exposed if it has not already. Praying for the child.
Mother definitely is not always right. If you knew the backstory behind Shay and her momma you would see why Shay doesn't really care. Her mom didn't really respect her until they did Iyanla Fix My Life. And I'll be damned if my mom is going to preach to me about someone when she's married to someone that has cheated on her multiple times. The disrespect from Fabo is over the top no mom deserves that but let's not make it seem like bc she's on this show she's been the greatest mom. She put Shay out when she was younger but kept the boys. It's a lot of tension between them. That's why Shay isn't protecting her mom from Fabo 's mouth.
I watched it ,but when u say tell others u forgive your mom that's wtf u do ,don't ever get on show with your mom be fake ass hell and have secret animosity@@idowhatiwant_hiphopbeef
I agree with Shay when she says we didn’t have the hugs and the I love you’s from our mothers growing up. My mom was so busy being a strong single mom of three girls that she felt like she couldn’t show weakness and she’s 68 years old now and still just as strong and a big provider for her grands and her great grandkids! Although my mom had no time for what she thought was weakness while raising us she shows our children and our grandchildren what true love is and I am blessed to have such a strong mother
@@tammybenaytv4631 I completely agree it’s just interesting fans are blaming Bambi , Erica, Shay, and Dianne not realizing they are victims they all were lord to hell he chased them all and pitted them all against one another. Yes not one not even the fans blame him.
I suffered 2 miscarriages so I know her pain. It's been 39 and 37 years and it STILL hurts! I was never pregnant again after the 2nd miscarriage and when I see women who abuse and unalive their children but mine didn't make it, it breaks my heart 💔
Shay bragging about her man lying and playing these women like she is not one of the women he was also playing is hilarious. She calls other people delusional but she lives in her own world too and she loves to brag about this man but can’t even talk confidently about future wedding plans. The fact she keeps saying they getting busy like that, like we care. Like girl who u trying to convince that this man love you cuz u not convincing none of the people watching…smh
I really enjoyed this interview. Shay was so real and authentic. The tea was hot, informative and the conversation just flowed. I have to say out of all the Carlos King interviews this was my favorite.
Did she say she's STILL with her baby daddy??? SHAY?????? This man does not love or respect you! And any man who disrespects your mom is a definite bum, loser! Don't marry him, please!!! 😢
I feel like Carlos was trying to give her an out, a chance to retract her statement without fully retracting it and she doubled down on telling that girl what to do with her father, smh. Unhealed victims treat other victims the same way those who lack empathy and understanding do. You need to heal, ma’am.
I think Erica thought she should be respected because she was the baby mama and Scrappy clearly used this show to get women. Bambi didn’t give a damn and I wish Erica Mena will take note. She looks completely beat down after fooling with Jafar. These men were not going anywhere until they lucked out and lanes on LHH and these women had names and has done stuff before the show and during the show and after the show.
Shay has been in toxic relationships for so long, she has normalized it
She needs to wake up for her daughter’s sake. That man is showing her who he is, and she keeps making excuses for him. How he handles and spoke about his exes says a lot about him. That’s his character.
I can understand that because she is toxic herself.
Don't believe everything you see on TV or hear from naysayers! Shay is living her life and trying to do positive things. I don't know one person who hasn't experienced some level of toxicity in a relationship.
Praise her for being honest and not wanting to play along to get along to appease viewers.
Women like Shay attract abusive men. Accepting abuse is now in her DNA. It's sad because she has a daughter, who will emulate her behavior. Remember when Shay called out her mother for allowing her dad to emotionally abuse her with cheating. It's an example that mothers set an example for their daughters to be in a healthy or unhealthy intimate relationship.
Shay is toxic herself!
Scrappy played all these women. They all need to leave his ass alone.
All of them.
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He not even cute at all 🫨
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Looks like they like it to me 🤷🤪🤪
Who’s next? Emani??? Lmao! That damn Carlos King can’t be stopped!!!! Just when you think it’s the end.. he does this 😭😂😂😂💖
Chile put it in the atmosphere! Because I already said it on the Bambi interview! 😂 And then have a roundtable afterwards with everybody!
Hahaha not Emani chile 😂
We want Earnest to come n spill tea on Momadee😅😢😂😂
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He definitely should bring Emani on with mama Dee! She grown!!! 😂😂😂 😂
Shay is truly delulu, poor baby. She wants a family so bad that she makes excuses for his behavior, ignores the red flags and overlooks so much.
Real talk that's what ♎ do
She’s like almost 85% of women. She literally says she’s a hopeless romantic.
I agree. It's really kind of sad.
There are a lot of women out here that want a man so bad that they will accept anything. And Shay has the nerve to talk about another woman. Ladies when you respect, love and know yourself then you choose men that will respect, love and know you. This is not shade, I just think women should be powerful, smarter and clever when it comes to these disrespectful men making them look stupid out here in these streets.
Shay is not smart 😂 she really thinks she’s different…
She was socialized too. It's not different at all
She likes being in abusing relationship
Right
I want knock her she getting her coins😅 but Libra relationship be so far fetch. Like her and scappy, he was creeping once he stop creeping he 2 broke her heart this guy is the same way.libra, jump to.fast and this is way they be hurt cause they love on male 2 easily. Give them a.hard time and see wher it goes.🎉
Sounds like Erica. Lmfao
She attracts situationships. Then catch feelings, and confused it with love.
Damn 😞I think that’s what I use to do as well
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Yes it comes a point as a woman age. You gotta be smarter than this. Cause men will play you as long as you let them. First scrappy now, Fabo girl be alone and heal
And then settles to be a baby momma like the rest!
Exactly, n now end up with a guy who’s not that into her, n the sad part she’s putting him above her mom, he’s happy to be on T.V , don’t c why she’s still on the show.
Scrappy was pimpin just as much as his momma 😂😂😂😂
Finally someone with sense 😂😂😂😂 Why can’t anyone see that
@@lsimon6690 😹😹😹
That mama was a street walker not nobodies pimp like she got y’all believing 😂
Say it louder for the people in the back.
@@india2057 but to have all these women acting like this for years
He just wasn’t collecting money
All of them said they took care of mainly everything
What is it called
Shay is the type of woman that needs a man to validate her. Fabo spoke negatively about women just to make Shay feel good about herself and she listened and believed him. He's using Shay just like any he's using other women .
Right! Because what type of woman could deal with a man that would manipulate a relationship for financial gain. I would be turned off 😕
Right! That’s a character flaw. 🚩🚩🚩
Correct and it is sad because grown boys do this all of the time smh
Women that really believe that a MAN can confirm that they “out woman” another woman are the most delusional. That’s the oldest trick in the book and fools fall for it every single time. I was once a dummy that’s how I know.
She is. She speaks on her baby daddy as if he's a prize. But she is like many women in that way
If you think I'm gonna sit here and watch 1 hour and 35 minutes of shay talking about her ridiculous love triangle you're damn right
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You and I both 😂😂😂
Lmaoooo that went left n I love it❤
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😹😹😹 meeeee too! 🤦🏿♀️😵💫🫠
He cheated on me.He made me break down to the point that I fell on the ground.He's embarrassed me.He's lied to me, but on the other end, you say he's a good guy? He's not a hopeless romantic he is a love bombing narcissists and Bambi is the only one that woke up!
I agree 💯💯💯
Exactly! He's not a good guy at all. He's evil. He used vulnerable women to get what he wanted.
Bambi is a fool too 😂
@empathicstarseed8860. WAS
@@empathicstarseed8860we’ve all played the fool at some point🤣. If you haven’t just wait until it’s your turn
We need to have an episode with Scrappy, Shay, Diamond, Bambi and Erica. Then and only then will the truth come out. But we can all agree that scrappy is the common denominator (trouble), lied to everyone of these ladies 🤦🏾♀️
It won’t because Erica will argue and shade everybody. Without her I feel like it would be beneficial.
He is the common denominator
And Mona
@@christinaconnelly21yes because there are just too many versions.
@@christinaconnelly21 definitely Mona should be added to the mix.
She talking about Eliza being delusional but she’s delusional when it comes to Fabo. That man ain’t no good.
Seriously 😂
This comment here! Sad part is she doesn't think so! SMH
Why do you people love to talk about others' relationships is yours on stable and common ground.
Very delusional
She justifying Fabo bs😊
Not Carlos interviewing all of Mama Dee’s descendants from the palace 😂
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Not descendants lol 😂
@@Amberkay862😅😅😅
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TRIGGER WARNING ⚠️ A disrespectful man WILL disrespect YOU eventually 😢
Breaking up so many times is another huge red flag to me. When true love is there and a man WANTS to be with you and spend his life with you…aint no breaking up 😂 especially not more than once! A man that constantly leaves you…don’t want to be there.
I agree! Sadly young woman are insecure and fall into a trap of wanting love and lying to themselves. Just my opinion.
I was one of those girls long ago.
@@paigepeterson5345 for sure! We have all been there! My prayer is for young girls learn this EARLY in life, so when they are grown women, they don’t fall in this trap. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
The father of Shay's child is far worse than Scrappy..dude is very disrespectful to her mother but, Shay wants the fairytale ending and she has conditioned herself to think all men cheat and riddled with drama. Tasha K(in her crazy way)did all the research for her..🤔
Shay's mother IS difficult.
@@noreason8818 I wouldn't doubt she's a pill but, off the rip dude was rude to her mother,brother and the dog...
@@noreason8818 So I thought so at first and it explains why Shay is the way that she is.....HOWEVER, this past season made me realize that Shay's mother does care about her but her mother is also very hardened by life so she lacks a lot of empathy. She's been trying to have Shay's back but Shay doesn't want to take a step back and listen to what her mom is saying. Her momma been warning her about these men and she doesn't want to listen b/c of their personal issues.
@@elisest.george8245yet come back to her mom when it's necessary and convenient for her .sat there and wished to get an abortion . Had a miscarriage who showed up mama man went there and left didn't even go in that hospital. What mother would be OK with a man like that
@@noreason8818very, I like Fabian
Scrappy was dating all these ladies and telling lies...smh
Flip flopping….Everytime he say he was out of town they tell a story when they were in that same town and saying he never said he was with her. 😂😂😂 duhhhhh he tell all y’all that.
But the people are still blaming the ladies🤔🤦🏽♀️
He’s nothing but an attractive bum!!
With no money
Not Carlos bringing the whole Castle on😂😂😂😂😂
I hollered
CASTLE😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 me too when I saw her😂
Not the Castle 🏰 😂😂😂
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Throughout this interview Shay gaslighted her mom. She praised her boyfriend and justified his behavior. 😢 This is sad.
That's what I said.
Saying his family calls his ex "Shrek." Well apparently he was blowing Shrek's back out so what are we talking about here?
Lets me know how immature they both are. Like you said he was sleeping with her thou. They better hope that karma doesn’t hit their home they hard.
Shay FORGETS that Scrappy never claimed her.
He did …
@@blaquespan5316not as his girlfriend, he said they were friends.
NEVER 😂
Literally never
She said in the interview they were friends several times. She did not claim him either. The woman who she is referring to was claiming to be Fabo's fiance.
When Shay talks about Febo, I feel sad for her. She is really delusional. He is using you. Girl wake up! Please!
Isnt he still with his wife ..😂
I was thinking the same thing when she was like “he don’t post you” and I’m like, baby you too old to still be falling for that. Men been lying to her for a reason…because she believes it. It’s so sad 🤦🏽♀️
I think it’s because of the relationship she has with her mother.
It’s crazy first it was scrappy 😅
@@MrsQueKnightWilliamsHis wife?????
She said if i call that man right now, girl same for all of yall
💯🍯🙋🏽♀️ I said they all can to😂
Instead of saying he for the streets, she is saying she got the juice🫤😭😭
@@YaaAgubyKete it's no juice when all can say the same 🙄
Right, cause he told his ex wife (Bambi) he still loved her and he missed her. 😮😅
Right like he’s some prize 😂
What I think: Mona knew about the situation with Scrappy, Diamond, Erica and Shay and asked all them to come on the show individually. Diamond turned it down, Scrappy, Erica and Shay agreed. So they all think that they were asked to the show and brought the others along.
i need Mona Scott to set the record straight! How did Scrappy get on the show 😂
Me too she needs to come on there because I wanna know also
Scrappy got on the show because he actually used to be somebody back in the day. Shay was nowhere in the picture. She wasn't even on the first season. Erica didn't even want to be on the show and almost didn't make it on the show cuz she was boring. The storyline was the love triangle with Scrappy, Erica and Diamond. Shay has her facts mixed up😂😂
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I’m actually glad shay went against the grain with her HEALTH business & not the usual lashes, hair bundles, skinny tea, clothes shop, etc. kudos to her!
This is the comment I was looking for. Had to bypass all the negativity to get here. I’m proud of her.
I'm very proud of shay cause she has definitely grown
What is this health business?
@@tsnaudedo your research! She’s making profits
Getting to know a man and what he has going on AFTER getting pregnant is insane 🤦🏽♀️ Shay is just as delusional as Eliza 😂
The nerve to be calling other woman delusional , meanwhile she's sitting around waiting for a man to like her let alone love her. The scene sitting on the beach hugged up is dreadful ,he looks uninterested , unbothered and unmoved. she's the one kissing his ass to be in this relationship . No matter how she tries to spin this she's stupid as hell.one thing about ethnic man ,alot of them will screw and kill time with American girls, they will waste their time and use them .but they will never marry them . I'm Haitian so I know alot of ethnic man who does this . Jamaican , Haitians. Bahamians The only men that are more open to dating outside their ethnicity is African and nigerian man. The same way he sit around and talk shit about those other woman to shay. is the same way he talk shit about her to other woman that's the toxic trait many ethnic man posess they dog they own wives out for shit and giggles
And After she keeps saying 12 years like it’s a badge of honor . Girl 12 years and you don’t wanna rush it is crrraaaaaaaazy
CLOCK. IT.
Red flag #1: If your current dude insults his ex's looks to you as a way to make you feel better. Obviously, he didn't think she looked like Shrek when they were together and her money (or lack thereof) didn't matter to him at the time.
I swear I was thinking this. They were obv serious, bc the family met her.
Exactly! & she should be judging him.
it's like manipulation 101 : just say that you can't stand the woman, that she's ugly, etc but in reality he's thinking about that other lady
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12 years in a relationship and still no ring? Girl Delulu is your middle name.
You don't listen KNOWN each other for 12 years. Not in a relationship.
She definitely doesn’t need to tie herself to that man legally
@@talishabaileythe point still stands. she gave a child to a man that won’t marry her neither🤣
I really liked Shay prior to this interview. A lot of justifying toxicity and speaking poorly about other women. Speaking on someone’s fertility challenges then talking about your own miscarriage in the next segment is insane.
She’s immature and hopefully with time , she’ll age wisely.
Wow!!!!! Scrappy helped her out of an abusive relationship! I see why she was so hurt and why Mama Dee is so protective of her. 💗 That touched me. Respect ✊🏾 Scrappy. 13:48
Yeah you can do that without lying
@@kyleychanel5574 Well we’re not Scrappy soooo and that was when they were actually friends.
@@kyleychanel5574but everybody lies though he did a great thing
It’s called a trauma bond
He took advantage of her vulnerability
Knowing that Flav's wife was there during filming, gives me understanding as to why he never picked NY, or anyone that really liked him.
Totally makes sense
But him and New York had sex
lol but she was acting lol
On couples therapy she said he didn't tell her he was going to do tge show and went mia for a while to film
No one really like Flav
Girl, he is finessing you Now!!! You so happy to talk about all these women Fabo disrespects. He treats you the same way.
Shay talks like a misogynistic 17 year old who thinks she’s better than the next. That’s why her situation is laughable 🤷🏾♀️
At this point I wanna tell my story to Carlos 😂😂😂😂lol
Lmfaoo me too, and ain't nothing to tell either
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Facts 😂😂😂
All of this for a man that doesn't pay bills and leaves you in debt.
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@TUUHH.. I mean atp it's documented but thats why he keeps going back to the ones that see potential.
@labelmeposh you waan him come back to you? Y yu vex? 😂😂😂😂 him nuh want yu
@@shaunnah27 Which island are you from? I’m reading your comment like your one of my friends😀
Exactly wtf ‼️‼️‼️😂😂😂
Okay Shay when a man talks bad about his ex that s a red flag 🚩
Exactly
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Yes especially if he doesn’t take accountability for anything on his part in the relationship 👏🏽👏🏽
Right!! I learned that the hard way years ago. I was talked bad about and didn’t even know until a chick said something, and now I see red flags 🚩 I’m not playing that game. Next!
He tell everybody he love them and they’re beautiful 🤧🤧
He said he loved the girls 🍯🤪🙋🏽♀️
No he tells them they brooteful.
He loves the girls
He's so damn fake!😂
Erica included, he still says he's single and Erica acts like she is unbothered
Wow! I didn’t know she was that naive. She tries to deflect on all her issues by saying it happens to everyone. Why do you keep wanting to have more babies in toxicity. She should just focus on her own pain and heal without all these distractions!!!
Not a fan of Shay, and never have been💁🏽♀️.
one thing I've learned is don't believe what a man tells us about a past relationship, some women believe what the man says. and I can attest to say, money, intelligence, looks does not matter. never down play ugly, having nothing, and thinking we are the better. I have it all. My ex is with what Shay spoke down on. That women was enough for him to be with. If she was all the negative he pillowed talked to her about as well as his family, why entertain/was he with her. I tell people all the time stop judging, u will find out. he said, he said, well he said. ummmmmmm
Reesa Tessa is that you?
Shay is very delusional it’s alarming!
Right and at this big age should have learned some lessons
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That‘s you ! ! !
Yall need to check on Mama Dee. Lawd, the palace is in SHAMBLES 😭😭
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Chile what’s going on with the palace??? Ooo…
Honey Chile do tell!
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Mama D is a flip flopper. She always acts like besties with Scraps side chicks, then when he makes the side chick the main chick she turns on her & starts being friends with the new side chick. 🤣
Typical narcissist mother
Cause she's a witch
Intimidate, manipulate. Dominate
Red flags of WITCHCRAFT AT WORK
How come ppl in america do not know this stuff
Come on !
Yup!!
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C’mon CEO! C’mon pink suit! C’mon business woman! Yes. Love her story and glow up. The sky is your limit, get it Shay!
LOVE THIS POSITIVE ENERGY bless you❤️
I feel bad for Shay. That man is going to leave her so broken. She’s deep in denial about who her baby father is. She can’t believe that her baby father thinks the other woman look like shrek when he slept with her multiple times.
It’s funny how Shay story adds up right along with Bambi story 😂😂😂
Listen🤣🤣
@@torinjrobin I find it hilarious Bambi just said the same shit
Right???
Shay been saying this for years though. She did an interview with VH1 years ago and she said it
Yep! And Diamonds too. The only one lying about everybody being side chicks is Erica. Erica was his TV trophy that got him off of child support. It was supposed to be a come up for her.
Shay will be right back on this couch (in about a year) with the TRUTH about Fabo. Watch!!!
Exactly!!
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This interview did not help Shay. I still feel like she has low self esteem. The things she is rattling off about this man are not good. 😢
Yes why have another baby right now if she wants to be with him and vice versa they need to heal first this is why kids get brought in a crazy world
It’s cringy how much she has to talk about having sex with Fabo like girl we get it smh
It's for the other girls he's dealing with 😳😵💫🫠
How old is Shay? This conversation sound so high school.
You so right
This is sadder than I imagined 😢 Shay is so lost 😞 notice she really didn’t speak about herself at all 🥹
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Yep she’s trying to deflect cus she just as delusional
About Fubu (Fabo): even though he didn't post the women he was with, Shay had to have known that he was dealing with someone at the point cause those kids he posted didn't just come from a stork. If you saw a new kid, you had to have known
Women tend to move in delusion
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It saddens me Shay still wants additional children with a man that hasnt provided stability to her through a healthy relationship. Great make up sex shouldnt be the base of a relationship before a child 😢
Ikr🍯
Yes. But, not ready to rush into marriage. 😢
It's giving a little delusional over him
Amen.
Well said
Lmao the way Dymond, Bambi and Shay’s story and timeline match . But then Erica’s story is shaky .. none of these women were main chicks including Erica . She only had a upper hand because they had a baby together
Best scene with Shay was when she threw that ice cream cone at the girl and it hit her smack dab in the middle of her head 🤣🤣🤣
I'm still laughing at the scene. Ice cream 🍦 😂😂
Bambi and shay said the same thing they meet scrappy with diamond and Erica was presented just as the baby momma. And I do believe he told these women she was just the baby mama but was with her and everybody else dipping and dabbing. So none of them has every had scrappy to themselve. For Erica to ever get back with him she would be the biggest fool cause he can't be with just one women.
That’s why Bambi said he was all of our boyfriend. Because she found out and realized it after the different stories. These women didn’t see what happened until the show actually aired. During filming he had the opportunity to lie and say whatever.
I think Bambi was just as big of a fool cause she married him and had 3 kids by him.
Bambi married Scrappy after he proposed to Erica a week before in DR...what did she expect?
@@DemetriaB8004 He didn’t propose to Erica (he said that in his interview with Carlos by himself) he said he was ready to get married regardless. But he never proposed to her again after the first staged one on the reunion. I watched his interview with Carlos last night and was shocked 😳 he admitted that.
@@DemetriaB8004 but shay just said the proposal was all for tv🥴
I like Shay, but when she talked about the other woman being unattractive, I thought to myself, that’s what everybody use to say about you, when you were dealing with Scrappy & Erica was dealing with him!
and the shrek comment come on, not because you have on make up look at her facial structure. if i put my hair in two i look like shrek
@@castorajoseph-hylton2766😂 facts
And Shay is AIGHT at best! Idk why her M.O. is to always degrade women
@@arguewithyamama8176because of the relationship she have/had with her mother
Right. I don't think she's a bad person, but she's one of those women who places males on a pedestal and gets all her validation from them. And she will not hesitate to degrade other women behind a man over their looks, clothes, and, money, meanwhile she will uplift a man who has zero good qualities. It's unfortunate.
I was wondering when Shay was going to speak out because people forget that she was involved in that love pentagon, too.
😂 not a pentagon!
Not love pentagon, lmaooooo
Baby yaaaassss geometrically that negro ran them girls all over the place just lying 😂😂😂😂
Pentagon sent meeeeeeee😩😩🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Pentagon????? Lordt
This interview doesn’t paint Shay in a good light. I don’t care how much money a person is making, it can’t buy you love, peace and joy!
I need a full Karlie Redd background story lol
This is literally why Shay will likely never have a genuine man. When she gets with a man she always speaks on his relationship with another woman. YOU don’t know what he said or did with another woman. lol. She will forever be getting embarrassed and it’s sad. At some point you have to do things differently to get a different result. It’s desensitizing to watch someone constantly bump their head.
Shay your too old to think a man your seeing every yr as you putting it didn’t have a woman in no sort of way. Now just say you knew and didn’t care because he had a whole wife supposedly and there’s no way you didn’t know. These are the women that cries after the man goes back or treat them the same.
Watching this interview I was looking for this comment. I was just saying this to myself.
If “ Imma stand beside him “ was a person !! Shay you gotta do betta No I do you one better SHAY YOU GOTTA WANT BETTER AND KNOW YOUR WORTH!!
Shay learned nothing from the ordeal with scrappy. Sitting here repeating what a man told her to downplay his relationship with another woman to make her feel better and she’s feeling empowered by it too. Just slow and raggedy.
I thoroughly enjoyed this interview ❤ I laughed, smiled and cried 😅😊😢🥰
Being in a “situation” with your child’s father is wild😪😪
💯🍯 #teamnokids🙏🏽😇
She too grown to be saying this childish stuff like she’s 12 🤦🏽♀️
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Mindset terrible when it comes to men
Mindset terrible in general. Still talking about fighting and nonsense. She’s very immature
I was thinking the same thing. She’d lived life but talks (especially about men) like she’s in middle/high school
So basically Scrappy told 4 women he loved them and was dealing with them at the same time. That is disgusting. She called him a lover boy but he definitely has issues and needs counseling. None of this is healthy.
That’s just the ones that we know about… Scrappy is a dildo, that’s all he can be ,he don’t charge them let them “f” him for free.😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂
I don’t think so, he was dealing with Erika while dealing with all these women.
@SSSS-wq4vn yes she was the main one but how he misled all of them including her is sick. I’m surprised they didn't gang up on him and plot. You can’t play with people’s hearts like this for years. Shay said she broke down after the reunion, which we didn’t see. I’m very disturbed by his actions.
@@SSSS-wq4vnso he was dealing with ALL OF THEM! Y’all want Erica to be special so bad. Clearly wasn’t nobody special to him.
The way she said she can call scrappy rn like she won’t get pumped n dumped again is hilarious
Exactly. He gon skeet and run
FACTS
By far one of the best interviews I have watched on your podcast.
Scrappy never took Shay seriously. She was just a friend with benefits and she has herself to blame for allowing herself to be used.
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He did if that’s the case he took nobody seriously but Erica! 🤷🏽♀️
This tho 💯
@@carmenjackson4597that's rich. He married Bambi and took Noone else serious not even the one who got knocked up by him first. Reproduction is science not a soul tie. No offense to anyone's religion but I just can't feed into the nonsense when a man tell you he love you just cause you had his baby and that makes you special, but treats you like garbage and like you mean nothing.
Scrappy used all the women including Erica! So should she blame herself for falling for his ish time and time again?
There is something really off with shay and she comes off as so desperate for a man and a family that she will overlook every single thing for Fabo and not look and think about all the red flags now even her mom could have seen when she got pregnant how it wasnt right and now she sticks by this man's every word even if the actions dont add up and wants eveeyone to believe it is in the name of love i havent heard one loving thing she said about Fabo throughout this interview only that he trapped her with a baby
Moral of the story: scrappy been the problem! He’s toxic, immature, arrogant, violent, and BROKE! Shay, Erica, Diamond, and Bambi are all delusional. Smh they need to get away from this man #soulties
Facts!!
Bambi is very UNDELUSIONAL
@@labelmeposhwhat do you call marrying a serial cheater? Delusional girl lol
He not even cute🫨
@@quenessyomy6924 he plays games, but he is handsome. Nice to look at but nothing serious
You did it again Carlos. I loved it and I enjoyed every minute again I resonate so much with Shay. It’s no reason to judge anyone’s journey. Wish her the best ❤
Scrappy LIED to ALL OF THEM and y’all big mad at Bambi 😂
I appreciate Shay's hustle. The product placement, ad, and trial in this video is top tier! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Funny how she keep saying my situation-ship with my child’s father. If you address it that way he is not your man. I don’t address my relationship as a situation
Just because he doesn't post in social media doesn't mean he is not doing anything. I'm not saying he is, but it's ultimately her choice and her life. Wish her well
Best part of this interview was giving Tiffany New York Pollard her 🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺! That part.
I love you Shay! In case you haven’t heard it in along time. You deserve to hear that. Been following your career since the beginning. Keep strong 💪🏾 love!
Shay is just justifying why she is with her cheating man, gurl 😂😂😂 keep it up
This conversation/interview was everything!! full transparency. Carlos you have created the space. Shay...🎉much respect
Shay is so crazy to allow her child's father to disrespect her mother. One thing about it is that her mother knows best. Fabien aint bout shit. In due time it will all be exposed if it has not already. Praying for the child.
Seems like he been not about ish, he been cheating, and was supposedly with a whole other woman engaged.
Omg I hate his attitude smh so nasty smh I thought to myself if he talk to her mother like that umm what is Shay going through privately.
He is definitely trash!
Mother definitely is not always right. If you knew the backstory behind Shay and her momma you would see why Shay doesn't really care. Her mom didn't really respect her until they did Iyanla Fix My Life. And I'll be damned if my mom is going to preach to me about someone when she's married to someone that has cheated on her multiple times. The disrespect from Fabo is over the top no mom deserves that but let's not make it seem like bc she's on this show she's been the greatest mom. She put Shay out when she was younger but kept the boys. It's a lot of tension between them. That's why Shay isn't protecting her mom from Fabo 's mouth.
I watched it ,but when u say tell others u forgive your mom that's wtf u do ,don't ever get on show with your mom be fake ass hell and have secret animosity@@idowhatiwant_hiphopbeef
I agree with Shay when she says we didn’t have the hugs and the I love you’s from our mothers growing up. My mom was so busy being a strong single mom of three girls that she felt like she couldn’t show weakness and she’s 68 years old now and still just as strong and a big provider for her grands and her great grandkids! Although my mom had no time for what she thought was weakness while raising us she shows our children and our grandchildren what true love is and I am blessed to have such a strong mother
Shay is actually telling us that she played herself.
If you pay attention all their stories align Bambi, Diamond,Erica and Shay it’s crazy he literally rotated all them at the same time
He probably isn't doing anything a famous rapper (at the time) hasn't done. We just get to see his cheating way play out on TV.
@@tammybenaytv4631 I completely agree it’s just interesting fans are blaming Bambi , Erica, Shay, and Dianne not realizing they are victims they all were lord to hell he chased them all and pitted them all against one another. Yes not one not even the fans blame him.
I swear! I know somebody just like this and he’s a Capricorn too!! 🤦🏾♀️
I suffered 2 miscarriages so I know her pain. It's been 39 and 37 years and it STILL hurts! I was never pregnant again after the 2nd miscarriage and when I see women who abuse and unalive their children but mine didn't make it, it breaks my heart 💔
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Felt!😢
Shay bragging about her man lying and playing these women like she is not one of the women he was also playing is hilarious. She calls other people delusional but she lives in her own world too and she loves to brag about this man but can’t even talk confidently about future wedding plans. The fact she keeps saying they getting busy like that, like we care. Like girl who u trying to convince that this man love you cuz u not convincing none of the people watching…smh
YUP. SMASHING AENT LOVE!
@@uniwemusic2929 that part!!
She’s trying to convince herself because we all know better 😂
I really enjoyed this interview. Shay was so real and authentic. The tea was hot, informative and the conversation just flowed. I have to say out of all the Carlos King interviews this was my favorite.
Shay’s such a beautiful woman. I hate that she never seems happy. Her spirit always seems heavy or burdening.
Scrappy is the problem 😭😭😭
These hungry woman is the problem
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Facts…like Duhh!! They was going🤣
Mona seen scrappy and all of the women attached to him she knew that it would be soooo messy!!!
Did she say she's STILL with her baby daddy??? SHAY?????? This man does not love or respect you! And any man who disrespects your mom is a definite bum, loser! Don't marry him, please!!! 😢
I feel like Carlos was trying to give her an out, a chance to retract her statement without fully retracting it and she doubled down on telling that girl what to do with her father, smh. Unhealed victims treat other victims the same way those who lack empathy and understanding do. You need to heal, ma’am.
It's very sweet of her for saying nice things to @Erica Dixon
Erica doesn’t do the same! She shades the other females even though he is clearly the problem.
I think Erica thought she should be respected because she was the baby mama and Scrappy clearly used this show to get women.
Bambi didn’t give a damn and I wish Erica Mena will take note.
She looks completely beat down after fooling with Jafar.
These men were not going anywhere until they lucked out and lanes on LHH and these women had names and has done stuff before the show and during the show and after the show.
@@SSSS-wq4vnAnd Erica should be! 🤔
@@SamsP.O.V-hd7rbErica said she was cool with shay in her interview. Why you lie
Yes Erica has the same energy now with her..mama dee made sure they spoke
This whole interview is about absolutely NOTHING 🤦🏾♀️ … but the pink suit is 🔥
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Thanks for posting a morning video!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
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Needed it!
Yes something good to listen to while I'm cleaning
Ladies love yourself cause this…is what the end result is
Shay has low self esteem and she is naive. It’s terrible.
Shay, Fabo ain’t 💩. He’s very disrespectful and I don’t understand what she loves about him. She deserves better
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A lot better!
Great interview with her she had a cool vibe 😊