I would normally agree. But she did what she had to do to survive (if her story is true). She basically gave her body away to feed her whole family. I just don't understand that if her entire source of income was from illegality, how the hell she ain't learn to keep her mouth closed.
What are you talking about she was 16 and he took advantage of her. This girl was already sexual assaulted at a young age. She didn't know anything else.
Lady, so after he took care of you and your 200 siblings, you turn around and sleep with his cousin? Not to mention that being suing him.Trifling for that.
Man took care of her and her family. Got her away from a terrible lifestyle. Supported her through college and bought her a new car for graduation and in return she sleeps with his cousin, gets him robbed and turns around and sues the man. Boy I tell ya.
💯‼️‼️She enjoyed all the benefits of his drug dealing, her and her siblings. And when sh!+ got too real, she abandoned him! Then got w/ his cousin? Now she’s able to move on w/ her life and clean record, while he has a criminal record and resorted to a dishwasher. Mathis is right, drug dealers be getting more time than ppl convinced of negligent manslaughter! He only did 3mos and she couldn’t wait for him?! Other women that benefited off their man dealing drug have waited 6, 9, 11yrs for their men to come home then will help him to become better then better each other! This chick NE-VER cares about this man, only cared that “she didn’t want for anything & her and her family was taken to the Bahamas, Disneyland & down payment for a whip”. If I were him I wouldn’t just change my number I would block her clown a$$ on everything and move out the area!
She also tried to pull him up while she was pulling herself up. Some people like being where they are . She had to grow up sometime and she did. He never could smell the coffee so to speak.so she moved on. She had been there and done that .
They kind of used each other. She was 16 and he was 27. Of course she let him take care of her she didn't know anything else. This is what happens when children don't have parents with values and morals.
@@Sir_Fast then he needs to stop dismissing the situations which cause someone to sell drugs . He commended the young lady all day even though she knowingly used this man’s drug money to survive. How can’t condemn him for trying to provide a better life for this girl and her siblings. He’s very ignorant because he feels like since he came from similar ends that he can judge whoever and whatever situation someone finds themselves in. Then he takes it to the degree that he’ll yell at folks and thinks because he knows people who do the same things that he can get a pass about it. Then there’s sometimes a wanton lack of impartiality when it comes to his judgment of men especially those who have been wrong by women while he jokes with the women about harming men, scamming men, and doing men bad . The moment you’re a man in his court room accused of doing the same thing regardless of how shaky the story is he’s going to treat you subpar
@@lionhinder noticed it too. Hard for men to win against women. Especially if the women come and say you're a deadbeat or abused them. Without proof from there its a uphill battle. Laughs when men gets abused but chastises men who abuse women.
Judge Mathis seems to be so caught up in being knowledgeable about the drug game, to the point where he appears to be annoyed and belittles those who would be deemed as a small fry. There's only so much you can know from the sidelines. She has alot of respect for him, strange way of showing it. She has bitten the hand that fed her, hopefully she never needs any help again in the future.
How did she bite the pedophile hand that fed her. The fact that some of you “men” are more worried about the fact that she “played” him and not the fact he LIED to her so that he could date a SIXTEEN YEAR OLD, whilst he was TWENTY SEVEN, is just plain disgusting. I hope some of y’all don’t have daughters
Thank you!!! I came looking for this comment Everyone is in these comments are apparently viewing her as the ADULT she is presently, and not the CHILD she WAS when that FULLY GROWN MAN lied to and groomed her. He’s horrible and that is exactly what HE GETS! SMH
Wtf, why did JM come in so hot on the defendant?? Ridiculous , but was smiling ear to ear with the plaintiff and she was right there with him spending that drug dealer money smh
This woman had a lot of game with her. Take away her story and listen to the facts of the case she was a user. She was with dude fir 9yrs. She knew what he was doing and enjoyed the spoils of the drug game and then hooks up with his cousin. Great inspiring story but I feel sorry for the dude she with. She ratchet.
Exactly. He gets so upset at them for no reason. JM was a petty criminal himself, so when real criminals come into his court he belittles them. male or female.
💯‼️‼️She enjoyed all the benefits of his drug dealing, her and her siblings. And when sh!+ got too real, she abandoned him! Then got w/ his cousin? Now she’s able to move on w/ her life and clean record, while he has a criminal record and resorted to a dishwasher. Mathis is right, drug dealers be getting more time than ppl convinced of negligent manslaughter! He only did 3mos and she couldn’t wait for him?! Other women that benefited off their man dealing drugs have waited 6, 9, 11yrs for their men to come home then will help him to become better then better each other! This chick NE-VER cares about this man, only cared that “she didn’t want for anything & her and her family was taken to the Bahamas, Disneyland & down payment for a whip”. If I were him I wouldn’t just change my number I would block her clown a$$ on everything and move out the area!
@@Nashywiththevybz You are probably right. In the right family she probably would have done well in life. I am glad she is going in the right direction now. The judge was way too hard on the guy. He was not an abusive guy. He did what he had to do to survive. I do not agree with his lifestyle, but I understand.
@@maloney7461 he wasn’t physically abusive but he knew how young that girl was, he lied about his own age by almost a decade and even at 19 (i’m 19) im not looking at no 16 year old boy and thinking i want him. he’s a perv, period.
Legally speaking depending on what state it is, a 16 yr old can have sex wit a 60 yr old consensually . Now if he was get her drunk , or introduce her to drugs while still 16 , he could possibly be charged with the delinquency of a “minor “ . 18 is the safest rule for a guys who like or come across younger women & vice versa .
How is y’all letting her off the hook. She was good when he was taking care her family this is why you don’t have a women when you hustle. Because they will dog you when you fall
💯‼️‼️She enjoyed all the benefits of his drug dealing, her and her siblings. And when sh!+ got too real, she abandoned him! Then got w/ his cousin? Now she’s able to move on w/ her life and clean record, while he has a criminal record and resorted to a dishwasher. Mathis is right, drug dealers be getting more time than ppl convinced of negligent manslaughter! He only did 3mos and she couldn’t wait for him?! Other women that benefited off their man dealing drug have waited 6, 9, 11yrs for their men to come home then will help him to become better then better each other! This chick NE-VER cares about this man, only cared that “she didn’t want for anything & her and her family was taken to the Bahamas, Disneyland & down payment for a whip”. If I were him I wouldn’t just change my number I would block her clown a$$ on everything and move out the area!
I see your point but the man's a dishwasher I don't know any LEGIT woman that's gonna put up with that after he got caught, even after all the good times you gotta transition to something better than that
@@tiffyq7794 helping somone in need is called preying now these days?. Good to know.....men listen up, don't help these women, nice guys finish last and you will labeled. Prey. Smh
@kecia Reed She could have, especially after dating his Cousin & almost got him killed or robbed . DUDE was a blessing to her AND her siblings . He let her sisters move in + brothers possibly. She ain’t want for nothing, trips to the Bahamas, Disney world. She said she loaned him this money after he got out of jail, prolly to help him out . maybe he agreed to pay 2500 back idk.
Mmm not 5,000$ tho lol. I can see if it was 1,000 or less. But 5K can be a 3-6 month emergency fund depending where you live. People gotta realize you pay what you owe unless it’s a gift or agreed to be forgiven. And not saying dude was on this, but a lotta times, men will try an act like that D can erase all debt lol. She said shiiiiiiid 😂
@@simonsez1787 He took care of her and her family. Took her on trips and Disney World. I used to work at Disney. He probably spent $5000 alone on that trip. So I have to disagree
This judge has real issues, it seems he would rather the man be a big time dealer than a small time dealer and gets angry with him. He exhibits this attitude all the time.as if he is proud of his past criminality. He continously belittles people who are not masters of the game as he calls drug dealing, yet gives a break to the hardened criminal types and keeps his pious anger in check with them.
It appears that he’s that way but JM is more frustrated than angry. Small timing will get you into trouble just as much as if you a big timer… especially if you’re BLK. So… it’s more like he’s being more of a father figure that’s been there and done that exposing the stupidity of being a drug dealer in the first place.
💯‼️‼️She enjoyed all the benefits of his drug dealing, her and her siblings. And when sh!+ got too real, she abandoned him! Then got w/ his cousin? Now she’s able to move on w/ her life and clean record, while he has a criminal record and resorted to a dishwasher. Mathis is right, drug dealers be getting more time than ppl convinced of negligent manslaughter! He only did 3mos and she couldn’t wait for him?! Other women that benefited off their man dealing drug have waited 6, 9, 11yrs for their men to come home then will help him to become better then better each other! This chick NE-VER cares about this man, only cared that “she didn’t want for anything & her and her family was taken to the Bahamas, Disneyland & down payment for a whip”. If I were him I wouldn’t just change my number I would block her clown a$$ on everything and move out the area!
She steady talking about him needing to be a good role model but she had no problem spending all that drug money he was making. Now she wants to act all high and mighty.
He took care of her when she was down and her siblings. She should forgive the debt he appears to be trying to live a different life. Show mercy she is very selfish.
💯‼️‼️She enjoyed all the benefits of his drug dealing, her and her siblings. And when sh!+ got too real, she abandoned him! Then got w/ his cousin? Now she’s able to move on w/ her life and clean record, while he has a criminal record and resorted to a dishwasher. Mathis is right, drug dealers be getting more time than ppl convinced of negligent manslaughter! He only did 3mos and she couldn’t wait for him?! Other women that benefited off their man dealing drug have waited 6, 9, 11yrs for their men to come home then will help him to become better then better each other! This chick NE-VER cares about this man, only cared that “she didn’t want for anything & her and her family was taken to the Bahamas, Disneyland & down payment for a whip”. If I were him I wouldn’t just change my number I would block her clown a$$ on everything and move out the area!
Sued a man who took care of u and your siblings when he didn't have to. Repaid him by being with his cousin. He helped her get on but now she acts like she is better than him. Guys take this as a lesson.
She should have given him a pass on that loan considering he basically supported her entire family for years. Some people really forget the grace and mercy you show them.
You found out he’s 27 and still stayed to collect the money and wanted that comfortable lifestyle from drug dealing (which her mama was part of as well). She tried to make herself sound so above it when she was in the gutter with him. Just as complicit by spending the money. Then screwed his cousin. Bish please. 🙄
He must have a baby arm in between his legs cuz I couldn’t take the lack of vocabulary. & idk about sis. Sleeping with his cousin is foul after all he done for her and her family. She’s raggedy for that.
She sickening, you and your fam reaped all the benefits of him selling drugs, then you go with his cousin and sue him, he didn’t lose anything when you left 😏
I was 19 and met a guy who was working at Subway who told me he was 21. We dated for abt 3mo before I discovered he was 27. He came to my grandmother's bday party and was admiring her vinyl records. He had also planned to go to the jazz fest with his guys. He let it slip one day that he was getting old and I got upset but didn't leave him right away. My parents had met him already under the impression of him being 21 so I didn't find it an issue at the time. Lying was the red flag that 19yr old me let slide.
@@aglover8864 It didn't last more than 5mo. 😄 He was too immature for his age. Once it was over I snapped and told him I would never expect a 27yr old man to be working at Subway and on public transportation. That he couldn't get a woman his age cuz he wasn't on their level. He was a loser/bum. 🤷🏽♀️
@@PrincessZaire100 Knawll you sick for not giving that man credit for rescuing those crumb snatchers and besides, the age of consent in Georgia is 16,so you and that ungrateful wench points are moot anyway.
He never sold drugs in the first place. Judge Mathis sat in the county jail for a few months as a teenager for getting caught with a gun or something like that, and now he talks like he used to be Tony Montana or something.
She used him completely to the end where he had nothing and now that she's up on her feet she thinks she's all that. She has some nerve to sue a man that took care of her whole damn family....SMDH
I kind of feel for him. He tried to give her the world and she got with his cousin, got her stuff together and sued. She said he was actually good to her and her family.
💯‼️‼️She enjoyed all the benefits of his drug dealing, her and her siblings. And when sh!+ got too real, she abandoned him! Then got w/ his cousin? Now she’s able to move on w/ her life and clean record, while he has a criminal record and resorted to a dishwasher. Mathis is right, drug dealers be getting more time than ppl convinced of negligent manslaughter! He only did 3mos and she couldn’t wait for him?! Other women that benefited off their man dealing drug have waited 6, 9, 11yrs for their men to come home then will help him to become better then better each other! This chick NE-VER cares about this man, only cared that “she didn’t want for anything & her and her family was taken to the Bahamas, Disneyland & down payment for a whip”. If I were him I wouldn’t just change my number I would block her clown a$$ on everything and move out the area!
@@cartoon171 why is it always a war between black men and black women? Sheesh I didn't say anything about the rest of the foolishness and generational trauma going on. All I'm saying is he laid down for 3 months and not only did she dip, but she moved on with his cousin. No matter what gender or race that's trifling
Nothing but respect huh...More like contempt. The man provided stability for her & her dirty azz siblings. SEVEN OF THEM!!! & she decides to besmirch his character publicly. & sue him. We aren't gonna talk about the foulness of moving on that man's family member. But JM is so so proud of her. This sh*t has to be scripted..
I thought he was too harsh on the man for a person who never disrespected him, never arrogant towards him or came at him any sideways. But, JM talks about how he was a thug in the streets, went to jail (always changing his time in it & the crimes committed) and that he did what he did in the streets for as long as he had and yet his wife wasn't none of that! Nor her family a needy group of you know what. They took him in and helped turn him around. He speaks very highly of Linda Mathis father as well. So I don't understand why he had to come to this man that way. Especially when this man did exactly what Linda's family did for him. Until he turned his behind around. Boy, I'm glad Linda is often on the show and gets that 💰money from him cuz he was mesmerized by the plaintiffs ungrateful and trifling ways.
She was very trifling. In one breath you got respect for him and so thankful for providing what she said her first chance at life basically not only for her but for her siblings and family as well. But you go sleep with his cousin. Then you claim you was telling him to turn his life around and that’s why she moved on right, but I bet this was after the drug money was gone after he caught his case. Cause while he was taking care of her and the fam, I bet she didn’t have a complaint in the first. Now she on her feet and he down bad and she wanna sue him for money….the fucking audacity. Opportunist at its finest!!!
See how some women do you? This man took her and her ENTIRE family around the world. Paid ALL of the bills... Did whatever he said he was going to do... and yet somehow she sitting up here suing him. Totally despicable- and I am a woman. I could NEVER do a man like this.
Money blinds ppl who don't have it. No one that has they own don't give a damn about anybody with drugs. On the flip side he build her up, now she sh&^ing on him. Be smart men.
💯‼️‼️She enjoyed all the benefits of his drug dealing, her and her siblings. And when sh!+ got too real, she abandoned him! Then got w/ his cousin? Now she’s able to move on w/ her life and clean record, while he has a criminal record and resorted to a dishwasher. Mathis is right, drug dealers be getting more time than ppl convinced of negligent manslaughter! He only did 3mos and she couldn’t wait for him?! Other women that benefited off their man dealing drugs have waited 6, 9, 11yrs for their men to come home then will help him to become better then better each other! This chick NE-VER cares about this man, only cared that “she didn’t want for anything & her and her family was taken to the Bahamas, Disneyland & down payment for a whip”. If I were him I wouldn’t just change my number I would block her clown a$$ on everything and move out the area!
@@rachaelnwaoha3543 exactly it was sad to see, I'm all for progression however now he's no good because you can't benefit off of him. She's a user and the family is too, he should block everyone in the family.
I don’t agree with Judge Mathis getting mad and yelling at the guy in reference to her possibly going to jail also. Like it was his fault only. She knew what she was getting into. That was her life.
She’s just a silly dumb woman how could she know the consequences of her actions? Apparently. Judge Mathis thinks he respects women and yet he treats them like 3 year olds.
So if someone sexually assaults you but then pays your rent you should be thankful and forget any harm he caused you? In what world does doing one good deed exempt a person from the consequences of doing a bad deed?
Judge Mathis was crazy bias on this case😅 They both wrong. The plaintiff rode the drug train until the last stop. And made it clear that she enjoyed the journey and lived a comfortable lifestyle because of the defendant. Yet JM didn't go at her for that🙄
He elevated her lifestyle. She was able to go to school and build her own business reaping the benefits of his care. When he goes to prison and tries to get a regular paying job, she sleeps with his cousin, forces him to pay her back, and slanders his name on National TV.
@somebody she should’ve left him when he got locked up for the same reason why he improved her and her families lifestyle and should’ve slept with his cousin, because those are signs of growing up???
@@taylor7326 yes, he is. Doesn’t mean she’s good. They used each other in different ways. At a certain point she knew what it was but liked benefiting from drug money so kept with him. At what point is she responsible for her own decisions?
She talks way too much! I don’t get why Judge got so mad. This man took care of her and her siblings. yes it’s drug money but she knew. He’s not that bad. She slept with his cousin, my goodness. He never even looked at her. Wow.
You'd think that the drug dealing would be a reason to leave the defendant; nope, it was another woman🙄😔😒. Defendant sells death and misery to his community & she has respect for him. Priorities are screwed all the way up. If the defendant only did three months, he was probably a snitch.
Do you realize she was only 16 when she met him and he was 27? That’s another form of grooming. A little girl probably wouldn’t care she’s dating a drug dealer, she’ll probably think it’s cool, but you can definitely tell she has grown and matured since then.
@@keylacmckemp1309 Both of you sound so ignorant. I never thought I would find such ignorance in one post. Why would you even compare a DV victim to this case or cheating in general? I’ve NEVER met a DV victim who could leave and didn’t leave until they found out their abuser was cheating. Maybe those are the women you hang around, but MOST DV victims can’t leave, or are afraid to leave. They don’t just wait around until they’re abusive mate is cheating. And most women will probably take their mates back after they’ve cheated, so please stop with the nonsense.
This is difficult for me to comment on this issue due to the numerous complicated factors involved. When the man first met the woman, she was 15 years old and he was 27. After they started dating, he exposed himself as a child molester. On the other hand, he is a hero because this young woman, who was the oldest of seven siblings and lived with a drug-dealing mother and an unidentified father, was neglected and sexually assaulted. The man adopted the woman as his wife and her siblings as his own children, giving them a safe place to live and attending to all of their needs as a parent. Yes, the young guy used illegal drug sales to support his family, but neither he nor the woman ever claimed that he did so from the comfort of his house. After providing for his family and keeping a happy home, the man spends 90 days in jail. When he gets out, he discovers that his wife has moved out and started a new life with his cousin, taking the kids with her. The sad part of this story is that we don't know anything about the man's upbringing, but we do know that he is capable of loving and caring for a Black lady and her children despite not being their biological parent. Facts she mentioned include that he saved her and her siblings, that he is no longer a drug dealer, that he has a job and wants to improve, but that he needs a mentoring. She filed a lawsuit for $5,000 against them. Judge Mathis, you fail miserably here. His debt to her is paid in full un advance. He looked after her and her siblings
She needs some education too if she thinks ppl go to college for a future on social security. Everyone gets social security, so it's nothing to depend on.
So he took care of her AND her siblings very "comfortably" as she stated with his little drug money now that she's on her feet she sleeps with his cousin and she's suing him and had a statement from her mom who abandoned her to use against him after he took care of kids she abandoned. Yeah it sounds like she had nothing but respect for him😕
Why is everyone overlooking the fact that he was 27 years old and she was only 15! Whatever she did to him, would have never happened had he not been dating a child. Of course she made poor decisions, she was a teenager with little to no guidance or supervision. I do not feel bad for him at all.
Being from Chicago Heights Illinois ain't got nothing to do with being wretched. The plaintiff needs to sit all the way down. Her mother was just a silly woman who happened to live in Chicago heights. Don't blame your silly decisions of being with some old man at your age on anything but you're bad decisions and your mom's bad decisions. It ain't got nothing to do with Chicago Heights. SMH
I mean! I try to have compassion because I look at the bigger picture but 7 kids by 22???? That's reckless asf. Yes he absolutely was wrong for messing with a sixteen year old but as she got older she became complicit I've done reckless things as a teenager but for some reason I had enough sense to not desire a drug dealer. Dirty money typically doesn't spend well and invites negative outcomes. I don't know how to feel about this because not only she but her WHOLE FAMILY benefited. I just have a hard time seeing her as the heroine JM tried to grace her as . Her mother and her have some accountability they need to accept here. Also the LOUDNESS of her talking almost brought me to tears 😭 She really tried to shade the city with her mother's and her reckless choices.
@@rickybobbydastar6534 should we be proud of the black man that preyed on a 16 year old child and helped her family so he can have access to her? This what you guys want to promote? Then complain about your image.
You just sat there praising this man about how good of a man he was and how he took care of you and her siblings and gave you the most stability that you've ever had and you turn around and repay him by starting a relationship with his cousin........Fam that's ruthless and just dirty as hell
Men love the naive trusting nature of much younger women. They'll tell u it's cause they're better looking and more fertile. Noooo It's cause they easier to deceive, they don't know the game yet. Easier to control and manipulate.
JM let the underage assault slide of him dating her at such a young age. Understandably, every jurisdiction have different laws BUT I’m sure he knew his state didn’t allow underage dating. Y’all heard the JM audience “ohhhhh’s”
@@a-youngrocky8541 Once plaintiff talked on it.... JM almost always talks on matters that are NOT related to cases i.e. family abuse, DV, substance abuse, etc. THEN asks the plaintiff to talk on the reason for the suit that way he has an idea HOW to render his verdict. Crazy you defending this tho 🤦🏾♂️
He went and found something young and dumb. He knew her situation when she was younger. He wanted to control her. Older men fish for younger women for these reasons and more. He knew that he couldn't do better and a grown woman would never have or respect him. I wish she would leave him alone. He knew that he could have gotten her and the whole family in trouble. He didn't care. Her family obviously had issues. If I was her mother there is no way I would talk to the guy about anything but leaving my daughter alone. I need for her to see the light. Heal and don't mess with any men for a while.
She wasn’t that dumb, she made dude pay for her entire family, she got with his cousin the moment he went to prison. Sounds like he’s the dumb one. No good deed goes unpunished.
@@OmegaSeraphim I agree. I'm confused why everyone is acting like this girl is some kind of victim. She got some dude to take care of her and all her family and use his illegal money. Then get up on TV and tell ALL his business. Talking about she respects him. No ma'am u don't bc u wouldn't have slept with his family 😶
Control her? Her family was around, they took trips together, she went to school… I guess he was bad at it. She literally said she had no issues with him. That he was good to her and her family. 🤷♂️ Y’all just make shut up. Yes he’s a creep for getting with a teen, but she stayed for 8 years and as an adult who apparently is so well put together has no bad things to really say about him… you apparently can’t trust her judgement on his behaviour
people should think and understand that just because another person has been financially good to you, there is no guarantee or it shouldn't be an expectation that the other person has an obligation to do the same by you. Whatever is done or given is not an IOY. Be careful!
She just as guilty as him by living off drug money. She gets NO applause from me, smh....
PRECISELY... No accountability...
And that 🤡 just went right along with her a wanna be comedian never will 🥴
I would normally agree. But she did what she had to do to survive (if her story is true). She basically gave her body away to feed her whole family. I just don't understand that if her entire source of income was from illegality, how the hell she ain't learn to keep her mouth closed.
What are you talking about she was 16 and he took advantage of her. This girl was already sexual assaulted at a young age. She didn't know anything else.
@@reneeboyd80 No.... she knew....
In one breath she said she has nothing but respect for him and in the next breath she told all his business.
😩😩😩😩😩 you heard that too
🤦🏾♂🤦🏾♂🤦🏾♂SMH!
When somebody tells everybody’s business they are hiding their’s. She sold off to the highest bidder his cousin
Ummm, maybe it's because she's in court, under oath.?? Crazy... Right some people actually respect to law, mind-blowing I'm sure!🤣
@@Mochaontas this is different. She volunteered information.
Lady, so after he took care of you and your 200 siblings, you turn around and sleep with his cousin? Not to mention that being suing him.Trifling for that.
200 siblings 🤣🤣🤣. But that's very true tho. Definitely trife..
Agree 💯
FACTS...and that Judge didnt even hold her accountable....
Agreed and suing him too she should be helping him to turn his life around. Ungrateful
😂🤣😅
Man took care of her and her family. Got her away from a terrible lifestyle. Supported her through college and bought her a new car for graduation and in return she sleeps with his cousin, gets him robbed and turns around and sues the man. Boy I tell ya.
Playboy lifestyle get you the wrong ones 😭 get back
That's the culture.
He is a pedophile. Period.
He should've dated an adult instead of a minor.
@@taylor7326 Can't disagree with you on that
She used him until the money was gone. Bragging about how he took care of her and her family she suing him for 5k. Smh
💯‼️‼️She enjoyed all the benefits of his drug dealing, her and her siblings. And when sh!+ got too real, she abandoned him! Then got w/ his cousin? Now she’s able to move on w/ her life and clean record, while he has a criminal record and resorted to a dishwasher. Mathis is right, drug dealers be getting more time than ppl convinced of negligent manslaughter! He only did 3mos and she couldn’t wait for him?! Other women that benefited off their man dealing drug have waited 6, 9, 11yrs for their men to come home then will help him to become better then better each other! This chick NE-VER cares about this man, only cared that “she didn’t want for anything & her and her family was taken to the Bahamas, Disneyland & down payment for a whip”. If I were him I wouldn’t just change my number I would block her clown a$$ on everything and move out the area!
@@rachaelnwaoha3543 absolutely 💯
She also tried to pull him up while she was pulling herself up. Some people like being where they are . She had to grow up sometime and she did. He never could smell the coffee so to speak.so she moved on. She had been there and done that .
27 year olds need to be financially exploited by the children they're sexually exploiting. Its only fair. 🤷🏿♀️ Glad she's grown up and out of it.
They kind of used each other. She was 16 and he was 27. Of course she let him take care of her she didn't know anything else. This is what happens when children don't have parents with values and morals.
She sure knows how to code switch. Dating a drug dealer then coming to court as if you have some class and sense.
Exactly 💯
@AntionetteW I swear they do
@AntionetteW Thank you
Plus, the vocabulary of a person has more to do about the education than the environment.
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JM is crazy as hell whenever he finds out someone sells drugs. So condescending
Yeah, he has an obsession w/ drug people and crackheads.
Hes had to watch plenty of friends and even some family members battle drug addiction to this day. I'd be condescending too.
@@Sir_Fast then he needs to stop dismissing the situations which cause someone to sell drugs . He commended the young lady all day even though she knowingly used this man’s drug money to survive. How can’t condemn him for trying to provide a better life for this girl and her siblings. He’s very ignorant because he feels like since he came from similar ends that he can judge whoever and whatever situation someone finds themselves in. Then he takes it to the degree that he’ll yell at folks and thinks because he knows people who do the same things that he can get a pass about it. Then there’s sometimes a wanton lack of impartiality when it comes to his judgment of men especially those who have been wrong by women while he jokes with the women about harming men, scamming men, and doing men bad . The moment you’re a man in his court room accused of doing the same thing regardless of how shaky the story is he’s going to treat you subpar
@@lionhinder noticed it too. Hard for men to win against women. Especially if the women come and say you're a deadbeat or abused them. Without proof from there its a uphill battle. Laughs when men gets abused but chastises men who abuse women.
@@lionhinder Provide a better life for him and his girl by helping people destroy themselves their families and communities all for superficial stuff.
Judge Mathis seems to be so caught up in being knowledgeable about the drug game, to the point where he appears to be annoyed and belittles those who would be deemed as a small fry. There's only so much you can know from the sidelines.
She has alot of respect for him, strange way of showing it. She has bitten the hand that fed her, hopefully she never needs any help again in the future.
How did she bite the pedophile hand that fed her. The fact that some of you “men” are more worried about the fact that she “played” him and not the fact he LIED to her so that he could date a SIXTEEN YEAR OLD, whilst he was TWENTY SEVEN, is just plain disgusting. I hope some of y’all don’t have daughters
I agree with you, I feel sad that despite the support that she received she wasn't compassionate enough with the gentleman
Man I was thinking the exact same thing. Swear to god. She slept with his cousin and moved in. The perfect example of a disloyal person.
Every time seriously
She was a child...at least he could do is take care of her after he statutory raped her!
She was 16 when she started dating him. He was 27….they bypassed tf outta that
EXACTLY! The comments doing the same. That’s disgusting
THIS!!! And they in the comments calling her ungrateful for not appreciating her PREDATOR
Thank you!!! I came looking for this comment
Everyone is in these comments are apparently viewing her as the ADULT she is presently, and not the CHILD she WAS when that FULLY GROWN MAN lied to and groomed her.
He’s horrible and that is exactly what HE GETS! SMH
No, they started dating when she was 18-19. They met when she was 16. Met in 2001 started dating in 03-04.
@@Hitchxi11 this changes nothing. He dated a child he met when she was just 16. You expect us to believe that came out of nowhere??
Wtf, why did JM come in so hot on the defendant?? Ridiculous , but was smiling ear to ear with the plaintiff and she was right there with him spending that drug dealer money smh
I enjoy watching most of his shows, but he can come off as hypocritical at times.
Thank you
Because she is gorgeous and he don’t think homeboy was good enough for her😂
Social engineering, that's why he's acting that way.
It's because she's pretty, folks let pretty folks get away with alot
I like how she tried to soften the judge up when the case first started...
Lol me too... Came in looking like Barbie and sounding like a scholar
It worked! He’s such a Fool! I’ve lost respect for this man
@@sherardrexI just now started back watching because I noticed years ago that he was simply a Angry Gramma..
This woman had a lot of game with her. Take away her story and listen to the facts of the case she was a user. She was with dude fir 9yrs. She knew what he was doing and enjoyed the spoils of the drug game and then hooks up with his cousin. Great inspiring story but I feel sorry for the dude she with. She ratchet.
Somebody read through the bullshit. That's why she kept looking at him. To "shit" on him. Passive aggressive ass
Ratchet as hell and has no problem keeping a straight face.
Yes she is but acting like she polished. She don’t fool me
Old girl played him definitely not a ride or die
He used her too. He was chasing after a 16 year old. Imagine a teenager NOT being a user.
JM has an unhealthy obsession with drugs and street life. He always challenges someone who allegedly sells drugs, as if he sold more than them smh.
I noticed that. It’s annoying
Exactly. He gets so upset at them for no reason. JM was a petty criminal himself, so when real criminals come into his court he belittles them. male or female.
😂😂
@@maceohaywood4264 yup
@@maceohaywood4264 LOL 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👍
Man, the judge really gave this guy a hard time. He was not an abusive hard nose drug dealer. She almost seems like a hustler. What an odd pairing.
It’s because she was 15 and he was 27 when they started dating
💯‼️‼️She enjoyed all the benefits of his drug dealing, her and her siblings. And when sh!+ got too real, she abandoned him! Then got w/ his cousin? Now she’s able to move on w/ her life and clean record, while he has a criminal record and resorted to a dishwasher. Mathis is right, drug dealers be getting more time than ppl convinced of negligent manslaughter! He only did 3mos and she couldn’t wait for him?! Other women that benefited off their man dealing drugs have waited 6, 9, 11yrs for their men to come home then will help him to become better then better each other! This chick NE-VER cares about this man, only cared that “she didn’t want for anything & her and her family was taken to the Bahamas, Disneyland & down payment for a whip”. If I were him I wouldn’t just change my number I would block her clown a$$ on everything and move out the area!
@@Nashywiththevybz You are probably right. In the right family she probably would have done well in life. I am glad she is going in the right direction now. The judge was way too hard on the guy. He was not an abusive guy. He did what he had to do to survive. I do not agree with his lifestyle, but I understand.
@@maloney7461 he wasn’t physically abusive but he knew how young that girl was, he lied about his own age by almost a decade and even at 19 (i’m 19) im not looking at no 16 year old boy and thinking i want him. he’s a perv, period.
@@Nashywiththevybz that part!
How come these cases never make a big deal about an adult dating a minor?
Seriously.
Because they’re adults now.
Greg is more eager for his audience and viewers to know that he knows the "drug game" so that wasn't the priority for him🤢
What is the judge supposed to do?
Legally speaking depending on what state it is, a 16 yr old can have sex wit a 60 yr old consensually . Now if he was get her drunk , or introduce her to drugs while still 16 , he could possibly be charged with the delinquency of a “minor “ . 18 is the safest rule for a guys who like or come across younger women & vice versa .
How is y’all letting her off the hook. She was good when he was taking care her family this is why you don’t have a women when you hustle. Because they will dog you when you fall
💯‼️‼️She enjoyed all the benefits of his drug dealing, her and her siblings. And when sh!+ got too real, she abandoned him! Then got w/ his cousin? Now she’s able to move on w/ her life and clean record, while he has a criminal record and resorted to a dishwasher. Mathis is right, drug dealers be getting more time than ppl convinced of negligent manslaughter! He only did 3mos and she couldn’t wait for him?! Other women that benefited off their man dealing drug have waited 6, 9, 11yrs for their men to come home then will help him to become better then better each other! This chick NE-VER cares about this man, only cared that “she didn’t want for anything & her and her family was taken to the Bahamas, Disneyland & down payment for a whip”. If I were him I wouldn’t just change my number I would block her clown a$$ on everything and move out the area!
Exactly. It’s only an issue once he’s locked up, but when you benefited from his activities, you didn’t complain.
I see your point but the man's a dishwasher I don't know any LEGIT woman that's gonna put up with that after he got caught, even after all the good times you gotta transition to something better than that
I’m glad she made the pedophile pay for messing up her car. Maybe now he’ll date someone his age, and not troll the high schools to find someone
Chew her out to judge she ain’t no better
He look so disgusted that she telling all his business ….. & why she keep side eying him 😭😭 she aggy, just running her mouth.
Exactly
She's a snitch...and cousin Betta watch his back...cause I know he selling weight...she gonna tell on him too...
She didn't have to sue him he took care of her and her family when they didn't have nothing!
And she was a child when they met, he didn’t have to but he preyed on her and her family because they were in need
Facts
@@tiffyq7794 R KELLY
Just like a predator...
@@tiffyq7794 helping somone in need is called preying now these days?. Good to know.....men listen up, don't help these women, nice guys finish last and you will labeled. Prey. Smh
She is just telling all the secrets. She's gonna get them both in trouble by minute 9.
I was thinking the same thing.... I wouldn't be surprised if the cops are waiting for them back home
I'm like someone going to jail today
Just be chatting lml
Can't do nothing around her damn
Well she was a minor
She could have charged this to the game. .. she even admitted he took care of her and her siblings ... She could have let him slide on this smh
@kecia Reed She could have, especially after dating his Cousin & almost got him killed or robbed . DUDE was a blessing to her AND her siblings . He let her sisters move in + brothers possibly. She ain’t want for nothing, trips to the Bahamas, Disney world. She said she loaned him this money after he got out of jail, prolly to help him out . maybe he agreed to pay 2500 back idk.
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Mmm not 5,000$ tho lol. I can see if it was 1,000 or less. But 5K can be a 3-6 month emergency fund depending where you live. People gotta realize you pay what you owe unless it’s a gift or agreed to be forgiven. And not saying dude was on this, but a lotta times, men will try an act like that D can erase all debt lol. She said shiiiiiiid 😂
you are right charge this to the game
@@simonsez1787 He took care of her and her family. Took her on trips and Disney World. I used to work at Disney. He probably spent $5000 alone on that trip. So I have to disagree
This judge has real issues, it seems he would rather the man be a big time dealer than a small time dealer and gets angry with him. He exhibits this attitude all the time.as if he is proud of his past criminality. He continously belittles people who are not masters of the game as he calls drug dealing, yet gives a break to the hardened criminal types and keeps his pious anger in check with them.
Greg Shakur. Went to reform school at the age of 15, now he the now it all street guy. FOH!
That's democrats for you
Glad you said it 👏🏻 👍🏻
It appears that he’s that way but JM is more frustrated than angry. Small timing will get you into trouble just as much as if you a big timer… especially if you’re BLK. So… it’s more like he’s being more of a father figure that’s been there and done that exposing the stupidity of being a drug dealer in the first place.
No dealer is celebrated. He's belittling the activity. Not the person. All these young men are out here trying to be something they arent
I was gonna ask how her parents didn’t know she was dating a man twice her age, but then I got the two minute and it all made sense
Not twice her age,11 years older. Means nothing.
@@vonfields6889 You must be out here datin kids too
@@nessdagoat took the words right out of my mouth
@@PrincessZaire100 you know how these sickos always like to defend each other. Trauma bonding with the plight of other sickos
@@PrincessZaire100 it seems like he was a blessing in disguise for her
These women really know how to go into court and put a battery in Mathis' back. They manipulate him so well. 😂😂😂
Damn a battery pack lol the whole energizer bunny . Mathis a simp for the women . He ain’t ask her for any proof
@@rickybobbydastar6534
Yup that's why his wife Linda holds all the💰
@@rickybobbydastar6534 looool i just made the exact statement how a whole judge giving judgement on drug money which she has no right to 😂😂
@@Lanie-sl9ne damn no wonder makes a lot of sense
Rightttt
Yeah if he had held me and my siblings down for years I would have let him have that little money. She is self centered and selfish.
My thought exactly. He is a tragic hero to her and family
💯‼️‼️She enjoyed all the benefits of his drug dealing, her and her siblings. And when sh!+ got too real, she abandoned him! Then got w/ his cousin? Now she’s able to move on w/ her life and clean record, while he has a criminal record and resorted to a dishwasher. Mathis is right, drug dealers be getting more time than ppl convinced of negligent manslaughter! He only did 3mos and she couldn’t wait for him?! Other women that benefited off their man dealing drug have waited 6, 9, 11yrs for their men to come home then will help him to become better then better each other! This chick NE-VER cares about this man, only cared that “she didn’t want for anything & her and her family was taken to the Bahamas, Disneyland & down payment for a whip”. If I were him I wouldn’t just change my number I would block her clown a$$ on everything and move out the area!
She's out to hurt him any way she can.
She steady talking about him needing to be a good role model but she had no problem spending all that drug money he was making. Now she wants to act all high and mighty.
Exactly
Yup, is she going to be donating money to help drug addicts to make up for benefitting from the game? Doubtful. Sit down girl
She walked up in there with the confidence I have while looking in the mirror pretending to be a supermodel 😁
He took care of her when she was down and her siblings. She should forgive the debt he appears to be trying to live a different life. Show mercy she is very selfish.
Very true , she was in it for the money. Money left she left
He was a 27 year old man dating a 16 year old troubled teen with a another family on the other side of town. But she is the selfish one? Ok
The man was a predator, he helped her so he could have access to her.
I’m glad she made the pedophile pay
💯‼️‼️She enjoyed all the benefits of his drug dealing, her and her siblings. And when sh!+ got too real, she abandoned him! Then got w/ his cousin? Now she’s able to move on w/ her life and clean record, while he has a criminal record and resorted to a dishwasher. Mathis is right, drug dealers be getting more time than ppl convinced of negligent manslaughter! He only did 3mos and she couldn’t wait for him?! Other women that benefited off their man dealing drug have waited 6, 9, 11yrs for their men to come home then will help him to become better then better each other! This chick NE-VER cares about this man, only cared that “she didn’t want for anything & her and her family was taken to the Bahamas, Disneyland & down payment for a whip”. If I were him I wouldn’t just change my number I would block her clown a$$ on everything and move out the area!
She is untrustworthy with a fast tongue. Sign of an opportunist, user and thief. She’s for the highest bidder
I agree! She’s beautiful and speaks well so it’s easy to overlook some of her twisted traits.
Yep
@@TeeTee-im3zuShe is o.k,but beautiful is in the eye of the beholder and I behold that she is not.
Sued a man who took care of u and your siblings when he didn't have to. Repaid him by being with his cousin. He helped her get on but now she acts like she is better than him. Guys take this as a lesson.
Sued a pedo
She should have given him a pass on that loan considering he basically supported her entire family for years. Some people really forget the grace and mercy you show them.
You found out he’s 27 and still stayed to collect the money and wanted that comfortable lifestyle from drug dealing (which her mama was part of as well). She tried to make herself sound so above it when she was in the gutter with him. Just as complicit by spending the money. Then screwed his cousin. Bish please. 🙄
For nine years 😂😂
Why are you putting more blame on the minor the GROWN ASS MAN WHO LIED ABOUT HER AGE
He must have a baby arm in between his legs cuz I couldn’t take the lack of vocabulary. & idk about sis. Sleeping with his cousin is foul after all he done for her and her family. She’s raggedy for that.
I agree. He was stuttering his ass off and she is a dirty Diana.
Facts. Lmao.
*PRECISELY..... She's a Grimmy Heffa!!!!*
She stank hard
She sickening, you and your fam reaped all the benefits of him selling drugs, then you go with his cousin and sue him, he didn’t lose anything when you left 😏
Reap all she could get from him now treating him like trash
Right. Gross! 3 months is all it took. She's weak.
Edit: moving on is one thing. With the cousin?!? Ew
Typical woman. You can’t be doing all that King. These women only live for the moment
@@aprilpinketon2567 he is a pedophile that entices a 16 year old
@@geraldinegibson219 he is a pedophile that entices a 16 year old
JM couldn't hide the shock when he heard "7 kids at 22"
I was 19 and met a guy who was working at Subway who told me he was 21. We dated for abt 3mo before I discovered he was 27. He came to my grandmother's bday party and was admiring her vinyl records. He had also planned to go to the jazz fest with his guys. He let it slip one day that he was getting old and I got upset but didn't leave him right away. My parents had met him already under the impression of him being 21 so I didn't find it an issue at the time. Lying was the red flag that 19yr old me let slide.
So what became of the relationship 🤔 I'm nosey
This happened to me too! I don’t think people realize how common this is 😩🤦🏾♂️
@@aglover8864 It didn't last more than 5mo. 😄 He was too immature for his age. Once it was over I snapped and told him I would never expect a 27yr old man to be working at Subway and on public transportation. That he couldn't get a woman his age cuz he wasn't on their level. He was a loser/bum. 🤷🏽♀️
Happened to me too. Still married him 😆
@@mzfancy4767 sheesh
I wonder how many times she practiced that intro?
I'm so glad he has an honest job now. How he's doing well.
JM more upset about she "could" have gotten caught more than she was.
She moved her whole family in, she didn’t care
Because she was being silly at sixteen and had six siblings to feed and care for, he was 27 and should’ve known better
@@PrincessZaire100Yeah I wish he would have let them get abused and starved too,considering what happened later to him..
@@jasonallen3678 then you’re just as sick as he is. That’s what he gets for being a groomer. He was 27 messing with a minor
@@PrincessZaire100 Knawll you sick for not giving that man credit for rescuing those crumb snatchers and besides, the age of consent in Georgia is 16,so you and that ungrateful wench points are moot anyway.
The messy JM keeps getting his flowers. The plaintiff really sung his praise.
Yup Judge Messy is what he's known as...
@@Lanie-sl9ne In am watching his other show on A&E right now.
That how you win.
You don’t know about drugs, but you know how to spend the money! This woman comes to thrash the man who help put her life together.
Judge Mathis acts like he really wants to still sell drugs from time to time 🤷🏾♀️
He never sold drugs in the first place. Judge Mathis sat in the county jail for a few months as a teenager for getting caught with a gun or something like that, and now he talks like he used to be Tony Montana or something.
He do and he has a investment in telling Real big time dealers stories with Hollyweird..
She used him completely to the end where he had nothing and now that she's up on her feet she thinks she's all that. She has some nerve to sue a man that took care of her whole damn family....SMDH
I kind of feel for him. He tried to give her the world and she got with his cousin, got her stuff together and sued. She said he was actually good to her and her family.
She's trifling for sure
@@simonjudahisrael9651 eww y’all hate having to be responsible and take accountability for your actions
💯‼️‼️She enjoyed all the benefits of his drug dealing, her and her siblings. And when sh!+ got too real, she abandoned him! Then got w/ his cousin? Now she’s able to move on w/ her life and clean record, while he has a criminal record and resorted to a dishwasher. Mathis is right, drug dealers be getting more time than ppl convinced of negligent manslaughter! He only did 3mos and she couldn’t wait for him?! Other women that benefited off their man dealing drug have waited 6, 9, 11yrs for their men to come home then will help him to become better then better each other! This chick NE-VER cares about this man, only cared that “she didn’t want for anything & her and her family was taken to the Bahamas, Disneyland & down payment for a whip”. If I were him I wouldn’t just change my number I would block her clown a$$ on everything and move out the area!
@@cartoon171 why is it always a war between black men and black women? Sheesh I didn't say anything about the rest of the foolishness and generational trauma going on. All I'm saying is he laid down for 3 months and not only did she dip, but she moved on with his cousin. No matter what gender or race that's trifling
@@simonjudahisrael9651 I never brought in race I said YALL meaning men
Bless his heart, there’s not much going on upstairs.
He seem a little delayed
Lol
Nothing!! Not even a speck of air.
I figured that out when she said he was 27 dating her at 16 then he started speaking smh
Both of them need to lay low after her 10 min confession of prior events
Nothing but respect huh...More like contempt. The man provided stability for her & her dirty azz siblings. SEVEN OF THEM!!! & she decides to besmirch his character publicly. & sue him. We aren't gonna talk about the foulness of moving on that man's family member. But JM is so so proud of her. This sh*t has to be scripted..
Don't they have children together??
@@ericablige9449 nope
I thought he was too harsh on the man for a person who never disrespected him, never arrogant towards him or came at him any sideways.
But, JM talks about how he was a thug in the streets, went to jail (always changing his time in it & the crimes committed) and that he did what he did in the streets for as long as he had and yet his wife wasn't none of that! Nor her family a needy group of you know what. They took him in and helped turn him around. He speaks very highly of Linda Mathis father as well. So I don't understand why he had to come to this man that way. Especially when this man did exactly what Linda's family did for him. Until he turned his behind around. Boy, I'm glad Linda is often on the show and gets that 💰money from him cuz he was mesmerized by the plaintiffs ungrateful and trifling ways.
@@Lanie-sl9ne what u said
She was very trifling. In one breath you got respect for him and so thankful for providing what she said her first chance at life basically not only for her but for her siblings and family as well. But you go sleep with his cousin. Then you claim you was telling him to turn his life around and that’s why she moved on right, but I bet this was after the drug money was gone after he caught his case. Cause while he was taking care of her and the fam, I bet she didn’t have a complaint in the first. Now she on her feet and he down bad and she wanna sue him for money….the fucking audacity. Opportunist at its finest!!!
For all he done, she could have let that go! She hurt hurt
7 kids by the age of 22 gah damn her momma was out there 🤭
I went to school with a girl who had 4 kids by age 19! Got to pray for folks. Never know what they may be going through.
Her mom is with V8 engine
GOOSE HAD HER LOOSE forreals ! 😰
She stayed pregnant all throughout her teens. I couldn't imagine! That's scary.
@Dani Drea Pray? Why? Family planning is free. They CHOOSE their lifestyle. Make the bed so lie in it.
See how some women do you? This man took her and her ENTIRE family around the world. Paid ALL of the bills... Did whatever he said he was going to do... and yet somehow she sitting up here suing him. Totally despicable- and I am a woman. I could NEVER do a man like this.
I have to agree lol because she’s weird for suing for that little amount
That's a bish for you
The show pays the litigants.
People are just MEAN
And she was a child when they met, he was a predator
She's pretty with a nice shape, speaks well. She's very lucky she didn't go to jail while dealing with this loser.
I'm happy she got her life together for her and the children and he needs to as well! Not selling drugs anymore is a good start though!
Hopefully she stopped sleeping with his cousin
Money blinds ppl who don't have it. No one that has they own don't give a damn about anybody with drugs. On the flip side he build her up, now she sh&^ing on him. Be smart men.
💯‼️‼️She enjoyed all the benefits of his drug dealing, her and her siblings. And when sh!+ got too real, she abandoned him! Then got w/ his cousin? Now she’s able to move on w/ her life and clean record, while he has a criminal record and resorted to a dishwasher. Mathis is right, drug dealers be getting more time than ppl convinced of negligent manslaughter! He only did 3mos and she couldn’t wait for him?! Other women that benefited off their man dealing drugs have waited 6, 9, 11yrs for their men to come home then will help him to become better then better each other! This chick NE-VER cares about this man, only cared that “she didn’t want for anything & her and her family was taken to the Bahamas, Disneyland & down payment for a whip”. If I were him I wouldn’t just change my number I would block her clown a$$ on everything and move out the area!
@@rachaelnwaoha3543 exactly it was sad to see, I'm all for progression however now he's no good because you can't benefit off of him. She's a user and the family is too, he should block everyone in the family.
Judge Mathis’ reaction at 3:30… I felt that and I’m so sad that kids have to go through stuff like that😩
Man she told ALL his drug business 🤣🤣🤣
Why JM always worried about how much dope somebody was selling? All he gone do is talk shit! He need to stop that shit!!!
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Lmao. He is a Aries we nosey.
Judge Mathis yelling drug money had me hollering.
Hollering?
😂😂
@@havensinclair3832 laughing
I’m proud of that young woman she appears to be bright despite everything she went thru.
G-d bless and protect her ✌
You're proud of her sleeping with his cousin?
She has some smarts, but is susceptible to incriminating everyone around her. I wouldn't be surprised if she got them both indicted the next day.
Lies. She a user and true definition of a hustler. Step on anyone to get ahead. Momma raised her remember!
@@wilmanchrty3406 yeah, her mouth was spilling a lil too much.
I don’t agree with Judge Mathis getting mad and yelling at the guy in reference to her possibly going to jail also. Like it was his fault only. She knew what she was getting into. That was her life.
She’s just a silly dumb woman how could she know the consequences of her actions? Apparently.
Judge Mathis thinks he respects women and yet he treats them like 3 year olds.
She chose to be with him! Foh. What do you mean judge? Her mom sold dope too!
Nobody:
JM: Drug Money…..Drug Money 😂😂
idk how i feel is if he always took care of you and your family for years you gonna sue him? i wouldn’t have
No loyalty... SMH
She just all about money. No morals herself.
Never heard anyone refer to a work at home gig job as their own business before 😅
Hes killing me with the "cousint" thing😂
Facts
Wow. So disgusted. She said, "This man helped her and her family so much yet she is suing him??? SMH
He should've been in jail for messing with a minor
So if someone sexually assaults you but then pays your rent you should be thankful and forget any harm he caused you?
In what world does doing one good deed exempt a person from the consequences of doing a bad deed?
Judge Mathis was crazy bias on this case😅
They both wrong. The plaintiff rode the drug train until the last stop. And made it clear that she enjoyed the journey and lived a comfortable lifestyle because of the defendant.
Yet JM didn't go at her for that🙄
He elevated her lifestyle. She was able to go to school and build her own business reaping the benefits of his care. When he goes to prison and tries to get a regular paying job, she sleeps with his cousin, forces him to pay her back, and slanders his name on National TV.
I knew from minute one she good at playing the victim no matter the circumstance and knows how to sound smart, so yea I’m not surprised.
@@starvisionsmgt She was a child and he lied about being a decade younger to get with her. He's a CREEP.
@somebody she should’ve left him when he got locked up for the same reason why he improved her and her families lifestyle and should’ve slept with his cousin, because those are signs of growing up???
@@taylor7326 yes, he is. Doesn’t mean she’s good. They used each other in different ways. At a certain point she knew what it was but liked benefiting from drug money so kept with him. At what point is she responsible for her own decisions?
SHE WAS A CHILD. What part of that don't y'all understand?
That’s a beautiful looking woman 🥰 Interesting his last name is Kelley? Middle initial “R” 👀😂
Lol 😂 🤣😂 you are so wrong for that 🤣😂
Mathis can be corny sometimes….
Can not we all.
She was so wrong after everything he done for her and her family. She's horrible!
She talks way too much!
I don’t get why Judge got so mad. This man took care of her and her siblings. yes it’s drug money but she knew. He’s not that bad. She slept with his cousin, my goodness. He never even looked at her. Wow.
He’s not that bad? He knowingly pursued and slept with a 16 year old girl while he was 27. That’s horrific.
She is full of shit.she took all that drug $ and then is sitting up here on this bullshit
@@PrettyColorsDoe ohhh I missed that part I remember she said he lied but don’t remember his actual age. Smh you’re right he’s terrible
@@paulettesalomon2520 yes girl. That’s all I needed to hear.
She’s a fast talker and be saying a lot of nothing. She still be calling that man for help too
She said, "he has done nothing but help me..." then proceeds to sue him after dating his cousin. GIRL BYE!!!
You'd think that the drug dealing would be a reason to leave the defendant; nope, it was another woman🙄😔😒. Defendant sells death and misery to his community & she has respect for him. Priorities are screwed all the way up.
If the defendant only did three months, he was probably a snitch.
Just like women who are abused and hospitalized but only leave when he cheats.
Do you realize she was only 16 when she met him and he was 27? That’s another form of grooming. A little girl probably wouldn’t care she’s dating a drug dealer, she’ll probably think it’s cool, but you can definitely tell she has grown and matured since then.
@@keylacmckemp1309 Both of you sound so ignorant. I never thought I would find such ignorance in one post.
Why would you even compare a DV victim to this case or cheating in general?
I’ve NEVER met a DV victim who could leave and didn’t leave until they found out their abuser was cheating. Maybe those are the women you hang around, but MOST DV victims can’t leave, or are afraid to leave. They don’t just wait around until they’re abusive mate is cheating.
And most women will probably take their mates back after they’ve cheated, so please stop with the nonsense.
This lady only knows death and misery. It doesn't hold a candle to what she's been through. She couldn't be a light until after she healed.
@@sidel3080 yet that’s not why she left him and she still says she has no issues with him. So I guess she’s not mature enough to you
This is difficult for me to comment on this issue due to the numerous complicated factors involved.
When the man first met the woman, she was 15 years old and he was 27. After they started dating, he exposed himself as a child molester. On the other hand, he is a hero because this young woman, who was the oldest of seven siblings and lived with a drug-dealing mother and an unidentified father, was neglected and sexually assaulted. The man adopted the woman as his wife and her siblings as his own children, giving them a safe place to live and attending to all of their needs as a parent. Yes, the young guy used illegal drug sales to support his family, but neither he nor the woman ever claimed that he did so from the comfort of his house. After providing for his family and keeping a happy home, the man spends 90 days in jail. When he gets out, he discovers that his wife has moved out and started a new life with his cousin, taking the kids with her. The sad part of this story is that we don't know anything about the man's upbringing, but we do know that he is capable of loving and caring for a Black lady and her children despite not being their biological parent. Facts
she mentioned include that he saved her and her siblings, that he is no longer a drug dealer, that he has a job and wants to improve, but that he needs a mentoring. She filed a lawsuit for $5,000 against them.
Judge Mathis, you fail miserably here.
His debt to her is paid in full un advance. He looked after her and her siblings
The judge is acting like she’s a saint .ridiculous.
She needs some education too if she thinks ppl go to college for a future on social security. Everyone gets social security, so it's nothing to depend on.
Judge Mathis's voice hits a falsetto whenever he wants to school somebody about the drug game.
She wrong she knew what he was doing karma
The fact that she cheated with his cousin tells her character!!
The worst thing you could do is lie about your age the fact that he would stood this low is beyond me
I understand why Mrs Mathis snagged him. He street intelligent and book smart. And handsome. I love a man who can do both
Nobody’s a crackhead today!!!! They just was selling it 😂🤣🤣 I JUST LOVE JUDGED MATHIS
She's trifling...saw that drug bread, and she didn't mind then when all her bills was taken care of😳
She's a kind woman that's all game
So he took care of her AND her siblings very "comfortably" as she stated with his little drug money now that she's on her feet she sleeps with his cousin and she's suing him and had a statement from her mom who abandoned her to use against him after he took care of kids she abandoned. Yeah it sounds like she had nothing but respect for him😕
Right her and the mom was playing him. If the mom was a "dealer" why did they need his money to take care of her kids. Just saying.
I wouldn't take my ex to court especially if he was good to me and mine I just take the loss you know
She is the toxic one nothing is good enough for her
You're a good woman
Why is everyone overlooking the fact that he was 27 years old and she was only 15! Whatever she did to him, would have never happened had he not been dating a child. Of course she made poor decisions, she was a teenager with little to no guidance or supervision. I do not feel bad for him at all.
She put her own self at risk of going to jail! She wasn't clueless to what he was doing..
I say this alot, people like her will use you until you have nothing left.
Dam this man paying for 2 apartments?? My goodness.
She is so ungrateful and full of it that it is beyond words to explain her behavior..
Being from Chicago Heights Illinois ain't got nothing to do with being wretched. The plaintiff needs to sit all the way down. Her mother was just a silly woman who happened to live in Chicago heights. Don't blame your silly decisions of being with some old man at your age on anything but you're bad decisions and your mom's bad decisions. It ain't got nothing to do with Chicago Heights. SMH
I mean! I try to have compassion because I look at the bigger picture but 7 kids by 22???? That's reckless asf. Yes he absolutely was wrong for messing with a sixteen year old but as she got older she became complicit
I've done reckless things as a teenager but for some reason I had enough sense to not desire a drug dealer. Dirty money typically doesn't spend well and invites negative outcomes.
I don't know how to feel about this because not only she but her WHOLE FAMILY benefited. I just have a hard time seeing her as the heroine JM tried to grace her as . Her mother and her have some accountability they need to accept here. Also the LOUDNESS of her talking almost brought me to tears 😭 She really tried to shade the city with her mother's and her reckless choices.
Well damn to everything 😂🤣😂🤣
Strong Beautiful well spoken black woman I'm proud of you too sis 👑🙌🏿❤
@Kgames ok u proud of her cool. Why You didn’t say u was Proud of the black man for taking her and her 7 Siblings in and having them want for nothing
@@rickybobbydastar6534 should we be proud of the black man that preyed on a 16 year old child and helped her family so he can have access to her? This what you guys want to promote? Then complain about your image.
I swear I am!
You just sat there praising this man about how good of a man he was and how he took care of you and her siblings and gave you the most stability that you've ever had and you turn around and repay him by starting a relationship with his cousin........Fam that's ruthless and just dirty as hell
Men love the naive trusting nature of much younger women.
They'll tell u it's cause they're better looking and more fertile.
Noooo
It's cause they easier to deceive, they don't know the game yet.
Easier to control and manipulate.
💯 but a lotta women really believes it's solely their physical appearance alone.
I watch Judge Mathis every day and the way that he handled this man was Pitiful😮😮
JM let the underage assault slide of him dating her at such a young age. Understandably, every jurisdiction have different laws BUT I’m sure he knew his state didn’t allow underage dating. Y’all heard the JM audience “ohhhhh’s”
The statue of limitations has passed
Like what was he going to do about it? It didn't relate to the case
@@a-youngrocky8541 Once plaintiff talked on it.... JM almost always talks on matters that are NOT related to cases i.e. family abuse, DV, substance abuse, etc. THEN asks the plaintiff to talk on the reason for the suit that way he has an idea HOW to render his verdict. Crazy you defending this tho 🤦🏾♂️
@@5822huron and the age of consent in Ga is 16
@@michaelallen2371 I know. I grew up in GA half my life lol
He went and found something young and dumb. He knew her situation when she was younger. He wanted to control her. Older men fish for younger women for these reasons and more. He knew that he couldn't do better and a grown woman would never have or respect him. I wish she would leave him alone. He knew that he could have gotten her and the whole family in trouble. He didn't care. Her family obviously had issues. If I was her mother there is no way I would talk to the guy about anything but leaving my daughter alone. I need for her to see the light. Heal and don't mess with any men for a while.
She wasn’t that dumb, she made dude pay for her entire family, she got with his cousin the moment he went to prison. Sounds like he’s the dumb one. No good deed goes unpunished.
her mother failed her and her siblings. she's a baby momma too.
@@OmegaSeraphim I agree. I'm confused why everyone is acting like this girl is some kind of victim. She got some dude to take care of her and all her family and use his illegal money. Then get up on TV and tell ALL his business. Talking about she respects him. No ma'am u don't bc u wouldn't have slept with his family 😶
Control her where did you here any of that he went to jail and she dipped on him. She talked him up and never said anything bad. You’re reaching
Control her? Her family was around, they took trips together, she went to school… I guess he was bad at it.
She literally said she had no issues with him. That he was good to her and her family. 🤷♂️
Y’all just make shut up. Yes he’s a creep for getting with a teen, but she stayed for 8 years and as an adult who apparently is so well put together has no bad things to really say about him… you apparently can’t trust her judgement on his behaviour
She’s trifling for getting with his cousin.
Judge Mathis be acting like he was running with the bird man in his day talking about that ain’t no weight 😂
She was a raye of sunshine until the sleeping with his cousin part was brought up..just DAMN. smdh..Glad she got what she came for though.
LMFAO
@@Sttephy30 🤦♀️
people should think and understand that just because another person has been financially good to you, there is no guarantee or it shouldn't be an expectation that the other person has an obligation to do the same by you. Whatever is done or given is not an IOY. Be careful!