I cannot say for certain but watching this video and others, Sylvia appears to be someone who is extremely uncomfortable with being vulnerable. It is not a question of whether it is a bad or good thing because personalities are incredibly complexed and deeply rooted in past experiences and upbringing. But I do observed that compared to an average person she has hardened her heart to a deep extent out of fear of expressing/confronting her feelings. The overly hysterical laughing could be a means of hiding one's pain. After all laughing is always easier than facing one's true feelings. If you look at Nina, whilst she laughs at jokes she doesn't "go overboad" and she does rein herself in because she still acknowledges the fact that a divorce however amicable can never be a celebratory occasion. A number of viewers did point out that Sylvia seems "happy" and doesn't look as sad as Ryan (or even close friends). As if she is eager and raring to move on as a single and available woman in pursuit of personal happiness. But on the contrary I think the issue runs much deeper, that the true emotions have been buried so far down and all that hysterical laughing is an involuntary attempt to overcompensate for the stress and hide the pain. (See 38:36) While a divorce can be amicable, we must be careful not to assign the attributes of happiness or success or victory to an evacuation from an unworkable marriage. P/S: 38:36 the vibes here worry me most. Sylvia laughter is hysterical and uncontrollable (compare this to Nina who still manages sensitivity and humour together in a balanced way). I once heard a saying that goes like this: when something terrible happens, comfort not the one who is crying (Ryan) but the one who is laughing (Sylvia). To loved ones and friends of Sylvia: while she looks unaffected and may even brush you off repeatedly, do continue to check in on her.
Also on the point on Sylvia's mother: whilst her mom's worldview is confined within her generation's social norms (and limited to Taiwanese TV dramas), without access to liberal ideas and knowledge, a mother-even if she cannot understand her child's opinions and decisions-will ALWAYS know when her child is sad or suffering. So it may seem laughable that her mum is demanding a house tour and what not but that's only because no prior proper communication was done to help her accept and come to terms with this development. And with her limited understanding, she could only act in her own ways to reach out to her child even though her methods may not be the most sophisticated in order to address Sylvia's emotional/mental needs. So young people out there, it may be true your parents don't understand how or what you think, but they will always know when you are sad.
@@maichieko413 I once heard a saying that goes like this: when something terrible happens, comfort not the one who is crying but the one who is laughing. This is so right on so many levels. It's the 4 stages of grief. But we cannot judge from just videos either.
As someone who had been through this feeling(not event), putting a strong front with my emotions, I can say I agree with your sayings. That in fact emotions and feelings which supposed need to flow as a conscious being, having it buried and piled below other emotions, instead of being open due to afraid of being vulnerable, it will surely accumulate and bomb like a ticking bomb. As when Nina known about her, "putting a strong front" and "Breaking her in some ways".
The taboo of divorce is really more predominant in the Asian culture. It’s actually really common in western countries like Australia and America. I don’t think it really matters personally. You still are who you are, maybe even better from the lessons learnt.
No... Lets be honest. There are many bhuddists and muslims in Asia than the West and yet there are more christian/catholic/mormon/evangelist etc in the west. For bhuddists and muslims divorce is not taboo. While for christian and other christian based religions divorce is not allowed
Which is why there are so many single mother and family problem on the west country. Divorce is so easy to be done nowadays, what’s the point of marriage?
It should be taboo, because divorce is a shameful topic. Unless there is repeated violence, death, or suicide, may a couple part. A true couple sticks with each other through everything. Hence at weddings, they say til death do you part. You dont just throw away your marriage over small things( anything more minor than death, suicide, drugs, physical and sexual abuse). People who divorce for any other reason should be ashamed because their bond was fake if they can't endure through hard times. Marriage is a sacred bond and coming together of two families and identities and should be permanent unless there is abuse, drugs, or death. Anything else under this is not an excuse to simply divorce.
Dear Sylvia and Ryan, no matter what, whether divorced or not, we love you just the same ... how can we not for such wonderful people ? On behalf of the whole of Singapore and beyond, we support and root for you both. Gambate !!! Sarangheo 💓
@@wirawijaya Abuden ? 😄😄😄 Well, it is just a phrase to represent all who love them but may have missed this revelation at this point, except nasty people like you. All they need now is support, support, support, support, support, support. You don't understand how people go through emotional hardship and you just want to find fault with others. Be nice to everyone, especially in the media, guarantee you will feel good in return.
It takes courage having to announce your divorce publicly. Also, it feels sad to know that Sylvia and Ryan had to do it partly because people around them are being bombarded by outsiders about their status. Seriously, even their clients are asking?! Geez. Stay strong, guys. ❤️
i strongly feel that being divorced is not something to be ashamed of, at all. you’re very strong, sylvia! (as well as ryan). i guess thankfully you guys don’t have kids or else that burden would be so much heavier. kudos to all the single parents out there for that! always cheering you on sylvia! 🥰
But it pain la . Ryan endured until bto housing done because maybe don't want to lose money if call off. Smart move and settle. If your wedding call off and bto you will lose a lot. Just be extra careful. Must think wiser and don't play play. Don't marry because bto housing or asset, because it not going to do good, marry her/him and god together until old. Divorce really painful to see. Never mind can move on .
@@xxxAtpe I wonder how "clean" the divorce is. You've always heard about divorces where the women practically lives off the man's money (ahem jamie chua)
Divorce is a shameful topic. Unless there is repeated violence, death, or suicide, may a couple part. A true couple sticks with each other through everything. Hence at weddings, they say til death do you part. You dont just throw away your marriage over small things( anything more minor than death, suicide, drugs, physical and sexual abuse). People who divorce for any other reason should be ashamed because their bond was fake if they can't endure through hard times. Marriage is a sacred bond and coming together of two families and identities and should be permanent unless there is abuse, drugs, or death. Anything else under this is not an excuse to simply divorce.
This is what happend when the kid makes more money than their parents , they dont even consult anything ..... 32 n divorce hh im gonna wait , u better pray before u expire
honestly why are clients even asking about your marriage?? seems like none of their business/unprofessional although i think your video was insightful, i think you have the right to share (or not share) whatever you choose. normally a silent viewer but just wanna say i support yall regardless
Well ..put yourself in client shoe.. when you meet either one of them..there chances of asking..why your partners did not come with you..this and that..they are label as husband and wife in most of people head...
First of all Sylvia/Ryan, your marriage did NOT fail. You guys are everything except people that had a failed marriage. You guys are an example of the most loving family and the way you guys love each other and care for each other is amazing. Your marriage was definitely not a failure, it was just something that didn't work out the way you guys hoped it would. I haven't even listened the whole podcast, just 5 min in. But I need you to know that they way you guys ended things, despite it being sad, it was what you needed. Society might see it as failed, but we need to change that belief that if someone is divorced, it must be due to something bad. Always love you guys and NOC❤️
This is the first video I've watched on this channel, but I can't help but notice, Nina is a really great conversationalist. She has a very good way of articulating thoughts and extrapolating a deeper translation of what was mentioned. Awesome video!
i really like Sylvia attitude towards life🥺 she is always solve her problems logically and sees the humour in everything and her family is so cute too i has no idea she was so close to her brothers
we used to love you guys as a couple and now we will love you as two individuals💕 we will always love you guys and the amazing content you always put out for us.
Dear Sylvia, it's not easy being a single divorce women as I also but i was 28. I been through the whole process alone without telling my family till I signed the paper. Mine's divorce was worst unlike yours, but a great lesson I learn from my divorce & the previous marriage . Now I finally found my true happiness be it in work, my lives & family plus I got a new love of my life at 30 who accept me the way I am. I learn something from your divorce video which is your positive & strong character in your life. Most man are attracted with outer beauty but how long can it lasts? What really lasts was being true ourselves & inner beauty. Be strong & beautiful as you really are. Looking forward for new videos :)
Really love how strong you are Sylvia. Although you dont show us when you’re sad but really encourage by you to be so bold and strong throughout. Its very hard to dealt with all this. But thank you for being so honest and true. Understand your mum’s worries, all the mum’s are the same.
Hi SIlvia, i know you might not see this comment but im thankful for you being vulnerable and sharing your emotions in this podcast. can tell that you are used to using laughter and smiles to hide your emotions, i think slowly you can allow your emotions to come through and rely less on the forced laughter!
Sylvia I feel you 100% but as adults we need to realise our parents are also adults in fact they have seen and experienced more than us. We can't shelter them from bad news or sad news in real life, I know you have had a care taker role in your family but this is the time when they need to care for you (however that may look like). There is no shame in a divorce nor in feeling upset or disappointed that you are divorced. While time has lapsed for you I think your parents and family are grieving the relationship now which can take some time. Stay strong!!
I don't understand, why divorce has to be sad and teary. It simply means you're done with someone and your affinity with him has ended and simply a chapter of your life closed and a new chapter will start soon. Just smile and move on! We're no longer in the older days when we have to "stay married" to a spouse for entire life.
I wonder if you've never been through a break up with someone who you really love before? Lol. Or you've never been in a rs or in love before? Divorce is 10 times worst than a break up. Because both families are involved, properties, many years of spending time together, etc.
Even though Ryan and Sylvia divorce we still love and will support you guys how we did last time and pls stay safe and no matter what happen all of us will support you:)))
As a father of a young daughter now, I fully understand how Sylvia's parents feel. I only managed to start appreciating how profound such love is after I became a father myself. The more you avoid, the more you will hurt your parents and make them worry.
Saw the video on the divorce announcement...correct me if I did not get the whole picture.. I gather that both Sylvia and Ryan still "love" each other like family? But does not "love" each other romantically any more so attributed as part of the reasons to get divorce........ Anyway, respect their decision as its their own lives ...and if they are happier beung divorced then all the best to both of them.
This podcast got me crying and laughing XD I got the feels when Sylvia started talking about her mom but so funny when talking about her mom's views on divorce from ai
35:06 Probably some scene from 爱, this really got me, parents are literally like that! xD Divorce is not something that people wish for, but it happens for a reason. You've come through the whole journey and I believe both of you have grown into a better individual. Good things will come, because you are a good person and you deserve it. *Hugs*
Married for 10 years, together 16 years; and still together working and having a good relationship - in today's world, it is a success! Not a failure! Both of you will find love!
Me too but only when Sylvia was laughing her head off. Her laughter is very contagious which is a big part of her success. But I know beneath her laughter, she is still anxious. Very strong and admirable beautiful lady. I absolutely enjoy listening to their podcast. Thank you, Sylvia and Nina, for bravely sharing your laughter and pain, love ya both.
I rarely comment on videos but I just thought you should know that divorce shouldn't be something embarrassing. If getting a divorce means you'd be able to grow and better yourself as a person, I don't see why not. Also thank you for being transparent with your viewers it takes alot of courage! :)
Just a glimpse of how painful this process is so painful to hear.. I can't imagine the entire pain you and Ryan have to go through and I thank you for even sharing this with the world. Sending you all the love I can give ❤️
Dear Sylvia and Ryan, I wish you a very happy life even if you got a divorce. It is still important to know that you two will go through the same thing and be on the same stage together in life. I wish you a blessed life and i hope you are healthy and safe.
It's very brave and courageous for Sylvia and Ryan to come out to the public on this matter. My heart goes out to you both ❤️ Also shout-out to Nina~ wanna affirm you for being such a good friend, sister and confidante to Sylvia. Would love to have someone like you in my life too 🙋🏻♀️ cheers!
I always get I am so sorry when I am telling people that I divorced.. my reply is always: don’t be sorry! Say congrats! And people will usually laughed and agree.. or I would get asked how do I managed to stay young, the instant respond is.. how abt not having to nag and fight a husband daily? *just my way of getting away with the awkwardness.. it’s pure commitment in a marriage. I guess we all have to moved on when the time calls for it. Its not end of the world.I am sure you and Ryan was will be good friends for the rest of your life.
I laughed so hard at the whole 爱 taiwan drama part 🤣🤣🤣 it was a great episode. Sylvia's quality of being able to see the positives and humour in any scenario is a lesson we can all learn in our lives, facing our own personal battles 💪💪💪 looking forward to more episodes!
Hi Sylvia and Nina, could you address the question as to why if the separation was 3 years long... and u knew the marriage was coming to an end... why would you and Ryan have bought a new house together and filmed a video of it? Does it mean that big house now belongs to Ryan?
Not to be disrespectful and not giving them a private space. Bt this is exactly what came into my mind 😭😭😭 like then the house is like how ........ bcs i rmb ryan said “this is the only room i can design on my own.”
Its okay to divorce because if you guys are happier apart from each other, isn't it better? Happiness is the most important rather than caring for other's opinion as you do not need to live for others. Applaud for your courage to speak up publicly as its not necessary at all. you go girl :)
Sylvia is an amazing woman. I like her a lot. I never thought that she has to go through this. I wish her speedy recovery and find love and happiness again. 💖
It's never easy to put yourself out there so publicly, no one will really understand how tough it is except yourself. Everytime you do, it's super courageous ~ Stay strong, positive, worry less about keyboard people and take care of yourselves!
1) It takes alot alot alot of courage to express your divorce publicly. 2) You can get hate if your express your divorce publicly. 3) It doesnt matter if you and Ryan are divorced. because we love BOTH OF THEM 💓 GO RYAN AND SYLVIA STAY STRONG!💓
I can never imagine going thru such tough times and having to explain it to the world at the same time. Sending love n virtual hugs to the both of u, stay strong💖💖
I really respect e way u handle this matter. Even though u can choose not to announce it... I believe u r strong n independence in character n can overcome any challenges in life. Jiayou 💪💪
Even though people said that ryan is the on who feels sad etc. But for me it's hard for both of them. Ryan is the sensitive one and that's why sylvia takes a role to protect ryan and noc. Because if she showed people how she really felt then it will be torn her close people's heart include ryan
💔😢I just love how Ryan and Sylvia still entertain us and stay positive ❤️If you see their interviews,you will notice that they really care for each other and respect each other. ❤️ Sylvia is really strong person and she taught us to choose what makes us happy and stay positive.I still love you guys no matter what happened ❤️Please don't judge and blame them if you don't know their struggles. Sylvia:Talking about the zoom meeting with her parents Me:Can't help but start crying💔
Lots of love from the Philippines! Stay strong no matter what. You put a smile on my face every whether it's new videos or throwbacks to the old which had me falling in love with the main channel. You guys will always have my support. Even from the Philippines, working as a second-liner(we are a group of volunteers delivering food supplies to Frontliners on duty), I would watch you guys during my breaks. I'd share your content with the people here who'd ending up laughing their lungs out at your videos. In fact, some of them are recent subscribers of all your channels. Hahaha. Anyways, take care , stay safe, be happy, especially mama owl Sylvia who gets more chio every video. :P
Sylvia, you will always have friends, families and fans. Dont forget to reach out to them when you feel empty within. :) cheers. Nina is a great and caring friend, do keep a lookout for each other always!
Dear Sylvia and Ryan, No matter are you divorced or not We all the NOC Family always wants you to make content an never give up on hope We will always love you💞❤❤ I always share your videos to my family and friends and they always like it they suddenly subscribe to you guys and say they like it. You guys pick me up when I have depression for 2 years, watching your videos always makes me feel better. By the way We love YOU. STAY STRONG THE NOC FAMILY WILL ALWAYS BE WITH YOU Love, Samantha
Truly love both of you, either as a couple or individuals. NOL and TSS is truly amazing cos u guys are so honest. Wish you both will find your happiness soon.
At the end of the day, you got to do what you got to do. People are going to say what they want to say, don't need to bother about them too much. Just do whatever is good for you guys.
hahahahha sylvia you are so funny in the end when you discuss about you family XD like i said me n wife been a big fan of yours, hope you all the best and ignore what's negative. freakin love you all
Hi Sylvia, I find you very inspirational :) I can't imagine speaking about my personal life in front of people outside my inner circle, thank you so much for sharing :) From hearing about your stories, you have gone through many setbacks, that you take in your stride and move forward and find solutions. How do you do that? And can you tell more stories :)
Whats the big deal about divorce, u revealed the news publicly is a normal and logic thing to do as your fans are kept informed. No need to feel bad or shy or paisay about this matter. Do what u think is right! Cheers to your new life
It's really needs big courage to announce about divorce, I know bcos in my country a lot of ppl feels ashamed to announce it. many society still think divorce is not right thing but I think its just about happy life that you choice. Life always changes and my coach said we cant lives in ppl expectation. Stay safe and strong for both of you.
Wahh...i just noticed this channel and first video i watched. Stay strong slyvia okay💛. Its a new challenge and stigma always around it. Your positive attitude will manage to go through this obstacles✨.
Jia u! It’s actually no biggie.. after awhile pple will mind their own biz and life as usual.. as for ur parents , after u visited them , will be fine🌈🙏🏻
My Lovely Princess Sylvia, you still have many friends and diehard fans like me to accompany you throughout the rest of your life journey, all of us love you very much so stay happy everyday...Hahaha 😄
ah, i cried watching this episode. not because you weren't strong but because i can see in both your and nina's eyes that you're holding back this whirlwind of emotion. i hope you take the circuit breaker period to slowly heal and don't feel "pushed" to do anything ever again. i do think telling your viewers probably lifted a weight off you though, so i hope you can be free and yourself again
Hey Sylvia! Just wanna say you’re really strong and I look up to you as an inspiration in terms of handling hurdles. Hope you’ll find your happiness!❤️
Love is a decision. I can’t imagine divorcing my husband and him having the freedom to date and love another person. Giving his life and heart for her and raising a family with another. I think that would kill me more than anything.
Jiayou Sylvia! I love your genuine personality. Always remember 失败是成功之母，you'll definitely get better in time. Still a big fan of Ryan&Sylvia and all the other channels especially TTS.😊
I cannot say for certain but watching this video and others, Sylvia appears to be someone who is extremely uncomfortable with being vulnerable. It is not a question of whether it is a bad or good thing because personalities are incredibly complexed and deeply rooted in past experiences and upbringing.
But I do observed that compared to an average person she has hardened her heart to a deep extent out of fear of expressing/confronting her feelings. The overly hysterical laughing could be a means of hiding one's pain. After all laughing is always easier than facing one's true feelings. If you look at Nina, whilst she laughs at jokes she doesn't "go overboad" and she does rein herself in because she still acknowledges the fact that a divorce however amicable can never be a celebratory occasion.
A number of viewers did point out that Sylvia seems "happy" and doesn't look as sad as Ryan (or even close friends). As if she is eager and raring to move on as a single and available woman in pursuit of personal happiness. But on the contrary I think the issue runs much deeper, that the true emotions have been buried so far down and all that hysterical laughing is an involuntary attempt to overcompensate for the stress and hide the pain. (See 38:36)
While a divorce can be amicable, we must be careful not to assign the attributes of happiness or success or victory to an evacuation from an unworkable marriage.
P/S: 38:36 the vibes here worry me most. Sylvia laughter is hysterical and uncontrollable (compare this to Nina who still manages sensitivity and humour together in a balanced way). I once heard a saying that goes like this: when something terrible happens, comfort not the one who is crying (Ryan) but the one who is laughing (Sylvia).
To loved ones and friends of Sylvia: while she looks unaffected and may even brush you off repeatedly, do continue to check in on her.
One of my job desc was to observe people thru their body language, and all I can say is:
“Be strong Sylvia, find someone’s shoulder to cry with”
Also on the point on Sylvia's mother: whilst her mom's worldview is confined within her generation's social norms (and limited to Taiwanese TV dramas), without access to liberal ideas and knowledge, a mother-even if she cannot understand her child's opinions and decisions-will ALWAYS know when her child is sad or suffering.
So it may seem laughable that her mum is demanding a house tour and what not but that's only because no prior proper communication was done to help her accept and come to terms with this development. And with her limited understanding, she could only act in her own ways to reach out to her child even though her methods may not be the most sophisticated in order to address Sylvia's emotional/mental needs.
So young people out there, it may be true your parents don't understand how or what you think, but they will always know when you are sad.
@@maichieko413
I once heard a saying that goes like this: when something terrible happens, comfort not the one who is crying but the one who is laughing.
This is so right on so many levels. It's the 4 stages of grief.
But we cannot judge from just videos either.
As someone who had been through this feeling(not event), putting a strong front with my emotions, I can say I agree with your sayings. That in fact emotions and feelings which supposed need to flow as a conscious being, having it buried and piled below other emotions, instead of being open due to afraid of being vulnerable, it will surely accumulate and bomb like a ticking bomb.
As when Nina known about her, "putting a strong front" and "Breaking her in some ways".
The taboo of divorce is really more predominant in the Asian culture. It’s actually really common in western countries like Australia and America. I don’t think it really matters personally. You still are who you are, maybe even better from the lessons learnt.
No... Lets be honest. There are many bhuddists and muslims in Asia than the West and yet there are more christian/catholic/mormon/evangelist etc in the west. For bhuddists and muslims divorce is not taboo. While for christian and other christian based religions divorce is not allowed
Which is why there are so many single mother and family problem on the west country. Divorce is so easy to be done nowadays, what’s the point of marriage?
I think the problem is that its really common. Especially from a Catholic perspective as the marriage is emant to be :death do you part"
It should be taboo, because divorce is a shameful topic. Unless there is repeated violence, death, or suicide, may a couple part. A true couple sticks with each other through everything. Hence at weddings, they say til death do you part. You dont just throw away your marriage over small things( anything more minor than death, suicide, drugs, physical and sexual abuse). People who divorce for any other reason should be ashamed because their bond was fake if they can't endure through hard times. Marriage is a sacred bond and coming together of two families and identities and should be permanent unless there is abuse, drugs, or death. Anything else under this is not an excuse to simply divorce.
@@zenlev2310 if only my ex husband have the same thought like you.
Dear Sylvia and Ryan, no matter what, whether divorced or not, we love you just the same ... how can we not for such wonderful people ? On behalf of the whole of Singapore and beyond, we support and root for you both. Gambate !!! Sarangheo 💓
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how can you adjust yourself to become BEHALF OF THE WHOLE OF SINGAPORE AND BEYOND. are you PM ?
@@wirawijaya Roses are red
Violets are blue
That's her thoughts
Why do you bother?
@@wirawijaya Abuden ? 😄😄😄
Well, it is just a phrase to represent all who love them but may have missed this revelation at this point, except nasty people like you. All they need now is support, support, support, support, support, support. You don't understand how people go through emotional hardship and you just want to find fault with others.
Be nice to everyone, especially in the media, guarantee you will feel good in return.
It takes courage having to announce your divorce publicly. Also, it feels sad to know that Sylvia and Ryan had to do it partly because people around them are being bombarded by outsiders about their status. Seriously, even their clients are asking?! Geez. Stay strong, guys. ❤️
Thank you!
i strongly feel that being divorced is not something to be ashamed of, at all. you’re very strong, sylvia! (as well as ryan). i guess thankfully you guys don’t have kids or else that burden would be so much heavier. kudos to all the single parents out there for that!
always cheering you on sylvia! 🥰
Being divorced is fine...
Its up to a person to choose their partner if either one dosent feel it its fine
But it pain la . Ryan endured until bto housing done because maybe don't want to lose money if call off. Smart move and settle. If your wedding call off and bto you will lose a lot. Just be extra careful. Must think wiser and don't play play. Don't marry because bto housing or asset, because it not going to do good, marry her/him and god together until old. Divorce really painful to see. Never mind can move on .
@@xxxAtpe I wonder how "clean" the divorce is. You've always heard about divorces where the women practically lives off the man's money (ahem jamie chua)
Divorce is a shameful topic. Unless there is repeated violence, death, or suicide, may a couple part. A true couple sticks with each other through everything. Hence at weddings, they say til death do you part. You dont just throw away your marriage over small things( anything more minor than death, suicide, drugs, physical and sexual abuse). People who divorce for any other reason should be ashamed because their bond was fake if they can't endure through hard times. Marriage is a sacred bond and coming together of two families and identities and should be permanent unless there is abuse, drugs, or death. Anything else under this is not an excuse to simply divorce.
This is what happend when the kid makes more money than their parents , they dont even consult anything ..... 32 n divorce hh im gonna wait , u better pray before u expire
When Nina cried I felt my tears coming too😭😭😭
I cried after Nina cried :'(
Can tell me what part
Of the vid?
@@raann 27:50
honestly why are clients even asking about your marriage?? seems like none of their business/unprofessional
although i think your video was insightful, i think you have the right to share (or not share) whatever you choose. normally a silent viewer but just wanna say i support yall regardless
Well ..put yourself in client shoe.. when you meet either one of them..there chances of asking..why your partners did not come with you..this and that..they are label as husband and wife in most of people head...
First of all Sylvia/Ryan, your marriage did NOT fail. You guys are everything except people that had a failed marriage. You guys are an example of the most loving family and the way you guys love each other and care for each other is amazing. Your marriage was definitely not a failure, it was just something that didn't work out the way you guys hoped it would. I haven't even listened the whole podcast, just 5 min in. But I need you to know that they way you guys ended things, despite it being sad, it was what you needed. Society might see it as failed, but we need to change that belief that if someone is divorced, it must be due to something bad. Always love you guys and NOC❤️
It is ok to say their marriage failed . The most important thing they heal and learn and grow .
This is the first video I've watched on this channel, but I can't help but notice, Nina is a really great conversationalist. She has a very good way of articulating thoughts and extrapolating a deeper translation of what was mentioned. Awesome video!
She’s mine though 😌
@@sylsylchan Hahhaa I'm not trying to steal anything, just giving a compliment where it is due.
ZQ Wong ok can I was just worried 😂
@@sylsylchan Keep up the podcasts!
i really like Sylvia attitude towards life🥺 she is always solve her problems logically and sees the humour in everything and her family is so cute too i has no idea she was so close to her brothers
we used to love you guys as a couple and now we will love you as two individuals💕 we will always love you guys and the amazing content you always put out for us.
Dear Sylvia, it's not easy being a single divorce women as I also but i was 28. I been through the whole process alone without telling my family till I signed the paper. Mine's divorce was worst unlike yours, but a great lesson I learn from my divorce & the previous marriage . Now I finally found my true happiness be it in work, my lives & family plus I got a new love of my life at 30 who accept me the way I am. I learn something from your divorce video which is your positive & strong character in your life. Most man are attracted with outer beauty but how long can it lasts? What really lasts was being true ourselves & inner beauty. Be strong & beautiful as you really are. Looking forward for new videos :)
Love ya sister! 💪🏼
i really love how the people around ryan and sylvia are cheering them up with jokes and lifting the both of them up. they are so strong
Really love how strong you are Sylvia. Although you dont show us when you’re sad but really encourage by you to be so bold and strong throughout. Its very hard to dealt with all this. But thank you for being so honest and true. Understand your mum’s worries, all the mum’s are the same.
Hi SIlvia, i know you might not see this comment but im thankful for you being vulnerable and sharing your emotions in this podcast. can tell that you are used to using laughter and smiles to hide your emotions, i think slowly you can allow your emotions to come through and rely less on the forced laughter!
Sylvia I feel you 100% but as adults we need to realise our parents are also adults in fact they have seen and experienced more than us. We can't shelter them from bad news or sad news in real life, I know you have had a care taker role in your family but this is the time when they need to care for you (however that may look like). There is no shame in a divorce nor in feeling upset or disappointed that you are divorced. While time has lapsed for you I think your parents and family are grieving the relationship now which can take some time. Stay strong!!
Sylvia and Ryan must be very brave to tell all of us the divorce, and the first time I say it, I almost cried but thank you for the bravery
I don't understand, why divorce has to be sad and teary. It simply means you're done with someone and your affinity with him has ended and simply a chapter of your life closed and a new chapter will start soon. Just smile and move on! We're no longer in the older days when we have to "stay married" to a spouse for entire life.
it is honestly by a case to case basis. not all divorces are the same :-) some are teary, some are not. same with any other relationships!
I wonder if you've never been through a break up with someone who you really love before? Lol. Or you've never been in a rs or in love before? Divorce is 10 times worst than a break up. Because both families are involved, properties, many years of spending time together, etc.
It's kind of cool you have a friend who is also going through a divorce. The friend is your ex-husband. LOL
Honestly, i understand sylvias point of not being able to show her vulnerability. Its the exact same as me!
Even though Ryan and Sylvia divorce we still love and will support you guys how we did last time and pls stay safe and no matter what happen all of us will support you:)))
As a father of a young daughter now, I fully understand how Sylvia's parents feel. I only managed to start appreciating how profound such love is after I became a father myself. The more you avoid, the more you will hurt your parents and make them worry.
Saw the video on the divorce announcement...correct me if I did not get the whole picture.. I gather that both Sylvia and Ryan still "love" each other like family? But does not "love" each other romantically any more so attributed as part of the reasons to get divorce........
Anyway, respect their decision as its their own lives ...and if they are happier beung divorced then all the best to both of them.
idk y I'm crying when listening to this:(
YAY ANOTHER EPISODE
stay strong Ryan and Sylvia 💕💕
This podcast got me crying and laughing XD I got the feels when Sylvia started talking about her mom but so funny when talking about her mom's views on divorce from ai
35:06 Probably some scene from 爱, this really got me, parents are literally like that! xD
Divorce is not something that people wish for, but it happens for a reason. You've come through the whole journey and I believe both of you have grown into a better individual. Good things will come, because you are a good person and you deserve it. *Hugs*
It's never easy but I believe that you guys will find strength to carry on. Take care guys!
Married for 10 years, together 16 years; and still together working and having a good relationship - in today's world, it is a success! Not a failure! Both of you will find love!
Sylvia, You are a Strong woman. You always find the funny part in your life. Support you. ❤️❤️
the part from “愛" , i literally burst into laughter.. lol.
Me too but only when Sylvia was laughing her head off. Her laughter is very contagious which
is a big part of her success. But I know beneath her laughter, she is still anxious. Very strong and admirable beautiful lady. I absolutely enjoy listening to their podcast. Thank you, Sylvia and Nina, for bravely sharing your laughter and pain, love ya both.
I rarely comment on videos but I just thought you should know that divorce shouldn't be something embarrassing. If getting a divorce means you'd be able to grow and better yourself as a person, I don't see why not. Also thank you for being transparent with your viewers it takes alot of courage! :)
Just a glimpse of how painful this process is so painful to hear.. I can't imagine the entire pain you and Ryan have to go through and I thank you for even sharing this with the world. Sending you all the love I can give ❤️
Dear Sylvia and Ryan,
I wish you a very happy life even if you got a divorce. It is still important to know that you two will go through the same thing and be on the same stage together in life. I wish you a blessed life and i hope you are healthy and safe.
It's very brave and courageous for Sylvia and Ryan to come out to the public on this matter. My heart goes out to you both ❤️ Also shout-out to Nina~ wanna affirm you for being such a good friend, sister and confidante to Sylvia. Would love to have someone like you in my life too 🙋🏻♀️ cheers!
They both cry and in a minute they laugh untill they cry. LOL 😂
I always get I am so sorry when I am telling people that I divorced.. my reply is always: don’t be sorry! Say congrats! And people will usually laughed and agree.. or I would get asked how do I managed to stay young, the instant respond is.. how abt not having to nag and fight a husband daily? *just my way of getting away with the awkwardness..
it’s pure commitment in a marriage. I guess we all have to moved on when the time calls for it. Its not end of the world.I am sure you and Ryan was will be good friends for the rest of your life.
This is the only podcast i would listen 100% without skipping
The moment Nina teared... I kenot.... 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 But all the best Ryan and Sylvia!
I laughed so hard at the whole 爱 taiwan drama part 🤣🤣🤣 it was a great episode. Sylvia's quality of being able to see the positives and humour in any scenario is a lesson we can all learn in our lives, facing our own personal battles 💪💪💪 looking forward to more episodes!
Hi Sylvia and Nina, could you address the question as to why if the separation was 3 years long... and u knew the marriage was coming to an end... why would you and Ryan have bought a new house together and filmed a video of it? Does it mean that big house now belongs to Ryan?
Not to be disrespectful and not giving them a private space. Bt this is exactly what came into my mind 😭😭😭 like then the house is like how ........ bcs i rmb ryan said “this is the only room i can design on my own.”
same curious thoughts! maybe they are business partners on that level too, 'investing' in a house together hah.
I've never watched Ai but I was laughing like mad when you relate the drama's expression with your mum's reaction. 😆😆 Bless her!
Its okay to divorce because if you guys are happier apart from each other, isn't it better? Happiness is the most important rather than caring for other's opinion as you do not need to live for others. Applaud for your courage to speak up publicly as its not necessary at all. you go girl :)
Sylvia is an amazing woman. I like her a lot. I never thought that she has to go through this. I wish her speedy recovery and find love and happiness again. 💖
It's never easy to put yourself out there so publicly, no one will really understand how tough it is except yourself. Everytime you do, it's super courageous ~ Stay strong, positive, worry less about keyboard people and take care of yourselves!
this aged badly
1) It takes alot alot alot of courage to express your divorce publicly.
2) You can get hate if your express your divorce publicly.
3) It doesnt matter if you and Ryan are divorced. because we love BOTH OF THEM 💓
GO RYAN AND SYLVIA STAY STRONG!💓
Hi Sylvia, no matter what, we will give you our full support. May you continue to smile and be a happy star to many people. BIG HUG!!!
I can never imagine going thru such tough times and having to explain it to the world at the same time. Sending love n virtual hugs to the both of u, stay strong💖💖
I really respect e way u handle this matter. Even though u can choose not to announce it... I believe u r strong n independence in character n can overcome any challenges in life. Jiayou 💪💪
Even though people said that ryan is the on who feels sad etc. But for me it's hard for both of them.
Ryan is the sensitive one and that's why sylvia takes a role to protect ryan and noc. Because if she showed people how she really felt then it will be torn her close people's heart include ryan
💔😢I just love how Ryan and Sylvia still entertain us and stay positive ❤️If you see their interviews,you will notice that they really care for each other and respect each other. ❤️ Sylvia is really strong person and she taught us to choose what makes us happy and stay positive.I still love you guys no matter what happened ❤️Please don't judge and blame them if you don't know their struggles.
Sylvia:Talking about the zoom meeting with her parents
Me:Can't help but start crying💔
Sylvia is very ambitious,strong and funny 😍😍😍😂
Lots of love from the Philippines! Stay strong no matter what. You put a smile on my face every whether it's new videos or throwbacks to the old which had me falling in love with the main channel. You guys will always have my support. Even from the Philippines, working as a second-liner(we are a group of volunteers delivering food supplies to Frontliners on duty), I would watch you guys during my breaks. I'd share your content with the people here who'd ending up laughing their lungs out at your videos. In fact, some of them are recent subscribers of all your channels. Hahaha. Anyways, take care , stay safe, be happy, especially mama owl Sylvia who gets more chio every video. :P
Stay safe!!! ❤️
BEING SINGLE MEANS A LOTS OF FREEDOMMMMMMMMMMMM!
These are very smart people who know how to market even their divorce! But its great to see that they are successful.
Sylvia, you will always have friends, families and fans. Dont forget to reach out to them when you feel empty within. :) cheers.
Nina is a great and caring friend, do keep a lookout for each other always!
TTS podcasts are always funny and entertaining no matter what topics are being dicussed. Can't wait for the next episode!
don't stress yourself too much Sylvia , when God close a window on you , He will always open another gate for you
Dear Sylvia and Ryan, No matter are you divorced or not We all the NOC Family always wants you to make content an never give up on hope We will always love you💞❤❤ I always share your videos to my family and friends and they always like it they suddenly subscribe to you guys and say they like it. You guys pick me up when I have depression for 2 years, watching your videos always makes me feel better. By the way We love YOU. STAY STRONG THE NOC FAMILY WILL ALWAYS BE WITH YOU
Love, Samantha
Truly love both of you, either as a couple or individuals. NOL and TSS is truly amazing cos u guys are so honest. Wish you both will find your happiness soon.
At the end of the day, you got to do what you got to do. People are going to say what they want to say, don't need to bother about them too much. Just do whatever is good for you guys.
You can really see sylvia trying to be so strong throughout this video :(
“Suck it in” that’s what I do with my stomach
Nina is a genuine and sensitive person :)
Damn, im single now but watching how sylvia and ryan divorce after 10 years makes me scared if that would happen to me
32. Divorced. Woman. Freedom.
I never thought I would laugh watching this episode, but I literally teared because of "Ai".. 🤣 👍🏻 Stay strong, Sylvia🤗🙏🏻❤️
hahahahha sylvia you are so funny in the end when you discuss about you family XD like i said me n wife been a big fan of yours, hope you all the best and ignore what's negative. freakin love you all
Thank to you both. Really ❤️
Literally cried at the first half of the vid,n started laughing at the second half
Divorce is the new IN thing of this modern era. Get married and then divorce, it's a trend. Those marriage that last long are rare cases
Hi Sylvia, I find you very inspirational :) I can't imagine speaking about my personal life in front of people outside my inner circle, thank you so much for sharing :) From hearing about your stories, you have gone through many setbacks, that you take in your stride and move forward and find solutions. How do you do that? And can you tell more stories :)
I have finished all the episode in a day. what an amazing podcast beautiful lady! Keep it up with the more good topic and love from penang!
Whats the big deal about divorce, u revealed the news publicly is a normal and logic thing to do as your fans are kept informed. No need to feel bad or shy or paisay about this matter. Do what u think is right! Cheers to your new life
The video was touching and real. I think most people felt for you guys. Live yr life without having to hide💪🏻
I was choking drinking my water when Nina say isit 小三? 是不是他的秘书 hahahah
That’s my fav part 😂😂😂
It's really needs big courage to announce about divorce, I know bcos in my country a lot of ppl feels ashamed to announce it. many society still think divorce is not right thing but I think its just about happy life that you choice. Life always changes and my coach said we cant lives in ppl expectation. Stay safe and strong for both of you.
Sikeen seems like a cool guy
For 30 years, I always though that "divorce" is pronounced /daɪˈvɔːst/ instead of /dɪˈvɔːst/
always here✨ for both you and ryan. respect yall🖤
This has got me giggling and laughing so good - all the love to you and ryan! :)
I have totally the utmost respect to Sylvia omgg. She just such a strong lady,rlly,*salute*
*The moment Sylvia talked about her mom and 'Ai'*
Me : I feel you there 😂
nooo it reminds me of the liza and David breakup :'(
Sylvia mum part is totally relatsble, is so funny! 😆
TTS reminded me of TaeTiSeo lol.
Wahh...i just noticed this channel and first video i watched. Stay strong slyvia okay💛. Its a new challenge and stigma always around it. Your positive attitude will manage to go through this obstacles✨.
Jia u! It’s actually no biggie.. after awhile pple will mind their own biz and life as usual.. as for ur parents , after u visited them , will be fine🌈🙏🏻
My Lovely Princess Sylvia, you still have many friends and diehard fans like me to accompany you throughout the rest of your life journey, all of us love you very much so stay happy everyday...Hahaha 😄
Omgg finally 😊😊i am so happy to watch tts
the comment by her mum made me curious about her house hahahaha
ah, i cried watching this episode. not because you weren't strong but because i can see in both your and nina's eyes that you're holding back this whirlwind of emotion. i hope you take the circuit breaker period to slowly heal and don't feel "pushed" to do anything ever again. i do think telling your viewers probably lifted a weight off you though, so i hope you can be free and yourself again
a proper closure. and nina is very mature n a damn gd friend/person to trust and seek advise from.
Sylvia is such a strong woman. So much respect for you ❤️
Stay strong Ryan and Sylvia 😢. Love watching your video ❤️
Hey Sylvia! Just wanna say you’re really strong and I look up to you as an inspiration in terms of handling hurdles. Hope you’ll find your happiness!❤️
Love is a decision. I can’t imagine divorcing my husband and him having the freedom to date and love another person. Giving his life and heart for her and raising a family with another. I think that would kill me more than anything.
I’ll be watching this when I get home, cheer up stay lively
Think one of these days just invite a hunk to your place and video call with your mom... then your mom might stop worrying... lol
Jiayou Sylvia! I love your genuine personality. Always remember 失败是成功之母，you'll definitely get better in time. Still a big fan of Ryan&Sylvia and all the other channels especially TTS.😊
JIAYOU! PS: you girls make me feel like watching Ai all over again!!! Lololol