Sounds like my husband, even my family say he is ruam siab zoo (dumb with a good heart). He has the longest temper and is never vengeful. When I first met him he has nothing to his name but because he has such a good heart the CEO made him partner. Whenever I go to his work functions, his employees always tell me he is a people’s boss. They thanked me for being such a good supporting woman so that it’s easy for him to be a good boss (honestly, it’s all him). This is such a good story for everyone to learn from.
I have the opposite experience. I was also a helper and willing to give my money, time, ideas, and effort to my family. I stayed broke and my family just say I'm too nice and talk too much. I slowly taught myself to be greedy with my money, time, ideas, and effort towards them. I shared nothing and kept quiet for 3 years now. My family thinks I am embarrassed by my "BIG WORDS" and haven't done anything with my life, but am I'm quietly making 250k a year now. Not a doctor, not a lawyer, just a hard worker who landed on an amazing opportunity to build wealth. I'm extremely happy my family thinks I'm embarrassed to see them because I don't want them knowing I'll be a millionaire before 37. :)
Don’t think like that son. Just think that This is an opportunity for you regardless of what they think. Sooner or later when you make enough wealth n can help your family out then they will understand you. This generation, we still think that if we bond n stay together then will solve our poverty problem. The majority still think like that is due to lack of knowledge, education and still practice the old way where the younger has to think n be under the elder. Good for you. If you going to waste your your time every weekend gathering with family n drinking dusk to done , business world they don’t play that. Good luck
Can you teach me? Are you hiring? I'm a single mother at 33 and dude. I make only about 60k a year. 😢 😭 I take care of my whole family. It's so much on my shoulder. My parents are amazing, I just want to give them the world in this lifetime. ❤️
@@sikamoua6760 The rich don't rest, you need to work good jobs at 60-100 hours a week. I was fortunate I landed all my current opportunities. I already have one high paying job at 115k a year with bonuses, and I work another flexible job for another 105k and 30k in weekend OT. I have 35 days of vacation and only rest on vacation day and weekends. I took my parents on a beach vacation and dropped 10k in one week for them. 2 years in, 3 more years to go, and I can transition to a 40-50 hour work week with 170k salaries. Find opportunities, make a plan, and execute.
Thank you for sharing your story. It's a very inspirational and you gave some great advices. I'm so happy for you. Your kind heart really matters in bringing you to where you are now. ❤
It's very rare that you'll find the owner being that generous. You probably worked in a private family owned company, so the chances of you seeing the owner are a lot higher. Most employers don't care about their employees. As long as money keeps flowing, they will keep pushing you to the limit. That's just the sad truth with large companies/corporates.
Don't put too much weight on your kwvtij saib taus taus koj now that you have money. Their "respect" is superficial; if it were genuine, they would have respected you when you were poor. Don't ever place your clan above your immediate family because your clan's "love and respect" is conditional (favors), whereas your family (wife & children) is not. It's too bad very few Hmong people are as generous and kind as your late boss. Hopefully, you can return the kindness your late boss showed you by helping out someone else in a similar situation as you once were in. That would be the ultimate THANK YOU you can honor your late boss's memory with.
Good bless your boss. He was a good man. I think the title should be called "Siab Zoo Thiaj Tau Ntuj Ntoo". And, you succeed because you worked hard as well.
Money is a good tool, but make sure to keep it a tool and not a god. Mark 8:36 "For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?"
Li no es thiaj li khwv kom muaj nyiaj es luag thiaj li saib yus muaj nqi tiam 21 no nyiaj muaj nqi tshaj plaws li lawm os zaj no qhia tau hais tias yus cov neeg txom nyem yuav tsum rau siab khwv nyiaj kom muaj zoo li luag tej os
Can not agree more on how you treat the your employer or company. I treat my as my own and how I would want other to treat it. That’s where my money come from
Love is important only when u already have money. Love over money is more towards romantic relationships. When it comes to relatives, it's always money first.
Ua tsaug ntau ntau rau tug tswv zaj neej no o uas kj yog ib tug neej siab zoo o kuv yog ib tus hmoob nplog muaj hmoo e tau los paub tau los hnov kj zaj neej neeg no nws yog ib qho ua kev kawm rau peb cov neeg txom nyem o kuv xav kawm kj lub tswv yim Kom ntau tshaj no o e kj puas kam muab kj tus e mail los yog kj tus fb o rau kv o vib kuv lub neej xav kom yus yog neeg muaj nyiaj e thiaj pab tau lwm tus thiab luag tej thiaj saib taug yus o thaum kawg no thov kom kj tsuas ntsib kev noj qab nyob zoo o
What a hard working man you’re so humble and great mindset on just focusing on your business and your wife best wishes that your business will continue to grow ❤
Peb cov hmoob yeej muaj tus cwj pwm phem2 li no, tus neeg muaj nyiaj yeej muaj nuj nqis tshaj tus txom nyem, cov txom nyem ces luag muaj noj luag twb tsis xav hu, thaum luag hu yus ces luag tsuas hu kom yus mus ua yam hauj lwm uas qias neeg tshaj plaws luag tsis xav ua xwb luag thiaj hu yus mus kom yus yog tus ua qhov qias neeg. Tu siab rau peb cov txom nyem kawg.
Nope, when they dont love and acknowledge me when im at my lowest. When Im up, I wouldn't give 2cents about them. Like killing them a cow or donating hundreds of money. Xu tua thiab muab pub rau my family, my inlaws to eat.
You are so right brother, we hmong people never change to these days the rich doesn’t care for the poor and the smart look down on the dumb, those who think like that it all that good anyway......
Moneys can buy everything in this world including love, but can’t buy times and your health. So Just spend your times wisely and lives your life to the fullest.
Tu me nu ca koj muaj hmoo ua luaj li os niam hnub no kuv xav kom kuv muaj tug rub kuv te li koj kawg lo ca tsi muaj li os lub ntiaj teb no pua muaj leej twg Kam pab rub kuv te li koj os kom kuv ntawm tau ntawm txoj Kev txom nyem no mu me2 os
Although I do agree with some points you mentioned, and am very happy you were able to find wealth. However, I feel that kwv tij who only noticed you when you have wealth and the finance to support them, I do not think I would support them if I was you. But again, I'm very happy for the success you have.
Life is all competition.hmoob lub neej sib y khib laev xav kom yus yov tus ruam tshaj pluag tshaj xwb.txhob k lawv cov lus thuam kav tsij rau y siab rau yus lub hom phiaj.glad your boss help you get there
Tsis muaj txhua tus neeg xaiv tau yug los ntse sib xws thiab muaj nyiaj tib yam nkaus ib zaug nyob rau hauv world no. Kev khiav lag luag rau small business zoo li koj cov lag luam no mas koj txhob rawm cia siab tias koj yog tus muaj nyiaj vim koj cov lag luam tseem tsis tau dua ces koj tsis tau paub txog. Hnub twg koj cov lag luam tshwm sim dua tag lawm, koj mam paub meej thiab pom tseeb tias koj muaj los koj txom nyem rau lub caij nyoog ntawv. Kuv khiav small business tau 20 lub xyoo mas kuv paub meej zoo heev rau qhov no.
Niam ntsuab Teev, kuv nyob Fabkis teb kuv pheej caum koj thiab tabsis koj pheej nyiam 1 hais Lo lus tsis LAIB no tas mus li xwb, lo lus tsis LAIB no yog 1 lo lus nplog es cov hmoob laus thaum ub lawv haiv tsis tau lus nplog es lawv pheej hais xwb tabsis yog 1 Lo lus Bouaib xwb na ! Lo lus hmoob tsis tau no twb muaj ne ! Tsis tas koj yuav muab lo lus Bouaib ntawd coj Los hais tas zog Nej cov hais lus saum huab cua no nej yuav tsum muab tej lo lus meej 2 coj Los hais mas….
His to much to money and faces 😂 Who care if they don’t call you or invite you. If you are happy is all It count First you were not poor. You have a roof and foods. You just not rich 😂
If this story is true, good for you. It's hard for me to believe that anyone would offer you 30k without a biz plan. On top of that, you spent over and beyond your budget and had to borrow another 15k from your in-laws. Seems like you met the devil and he granted your wish instead. Good luck.
I'm happy for you brother and you are blessed to have such a great boss who supported you and helped you get a better life. Hmong mas yeej phem tshaj they only like you when you're rich- they can use you at all times especially money. So sad kwv tij will never be there for you unless they can benefit from you every time. Hmong people need to change that
Amen. Thank you for ur great advice.
Zaj neej neeg no mloog tau txhawb zog heev
I loved the story with sad n happy ending.
Sounds like my husband, even my family say he is ruam siab zoo (dumb with a good heart). He has the longest temper and is never vengeful. When I first met him he has nothing to his name but because he has such a good heart the CEO made him partner. Whenever I go to his work functions, his employees always tell me he is a people’s boss. They thanked me for being such a good supporting woman so that it’s easy for him to be a good boss (honestly, it’s all him). This is such a good story for everyone to learn from.
😊
What a wonderful happy ending for him and you ❤️
😊😊😊
Ua tsaug rau zaj neej neeg
no qhia tau zoo kawg li
peb yuav coj mus kawm
kho kuv lub neej
Yeej yog lawm. Leegtwg muaj nyiaj ces lawv yeej nyiam tus ntawd xwb. Nws hais phem hais zoo yog thiab tsis yog los lawv yeej yuav tag. Peb tsevneeg muaj li no lawm
Yog kawg kuv yeej pom li ntawm tiab
I have the opposite experience. I was also a helper and willing to give my money, time, ideas, and effort to my family. I stayed broke and my family just say I'm too nice and talk too much. I slowly taught myself to be greedy with my money, time, ideas, and effort towards them. I shared nothing and kept quiet for 3 years now. My family thinks I am embarrassed by my "BIG WORDS" and haven't done anything with my life, but am I'm quietly making 250k a year now. Not a doctor, not a lawyer, just a hard worker who landed on an amazing opportunity to build wealth. I'm extremely happy my family thinks I'm embarrassed to see them because I don't want them knowing I'll be a millionaire before 37. :)
Don’t think like that son. Just think that This is an opportunity for you regardless of what they think. Sooner or later when you make enough wealth n can help your family out then they will understand you. This generation, we still think that if we bond n stay together then will solve our poverty problem. The majority still think like that is due to lack of knowledge, education and still practice the old way where the younger has to think n be under the elder. Good for you. If you going to waste your your time every weekend gathering with family n drinking dusk to done , business world they don’t play that. Good luck
Can you teach me? Are you hiring? I'm a single mother at 33 and dude. I make only about 60k a year. 😢 😭 I take care of my whole family. It's so much on my shoulder. My parents are amazing, I just want to give them the world in this lifetime. ❤️
@@sikamoua6760 The rich don't rest, you need to work good jobs at 60-100 hours a week. I was fortunate I landed all my current opportunities. I already have one high paying job at 115k a year with bonuses, and I work another flexible job for another 105k and 30k in weekend OT. I have 35 days of vacation and only rest on vacation day and weekends. I took my parents on a beach vacation and dropped 10k in one week for them. 2 years in, 3 more years to go, and I can transition to a 40-50 hour work week with 170k salaries. Find opportunities, make a plan, and execute.
Send your story, I want to hear it.
kuv nyiam koj neej neeg kaw
Koj zaj dab neeg no zoo heev li os ua tsaug koj muab qhia rau sawv daws paub ntawb
Lus nyiaj lus kub. Tiamsis tsawg2 tus thiaj ua tau vim tias cov coob coj tsis tau tus cwj phwm zoo li koj. Ua tsaug rau cov lus qhia.
Thank you for sharing your story. It's a very inspirational and you gave some great advices. I'm so happy for you. Your kind heart really matters in bringing you to where you are now. ❤
Nrog koj zoo siab os yus yog neeg zoo ces yus yeej tau txais txoj kev zoo mas😊
Tus nus koj hais yog lawm ua tsaug ntau rau koj cov lus zoo nawj mog ❤❤❤❤❤
Why so worry about kom luag saib yus rau qhov siab. Truly rich people don't go show off to others. I think you need to be quiet and humble.
Ua tsaug ntau rau tus tswv ntawm zaj no. Yog ib txoj kev qhia thiab cov kom peb Hmoob xyaum txoj kev zoo❤
It's very rare that you'll find the owner being that generous. You probably worked in a private family owned company, so the chances of you seeing the owner are a lot higher. Most employers don't care about their employees. As long as money keeps flowing, they will keep pushing you to the limit. That's just the sad truth with large companies/corporates.
Thanks for sharing your inspiring story…👍🤠!
Thank you for sharing your story. I believe what you said. We have to be good and be faithful for our to trust us. Be betrayed them
Wow, very good story, thank you for sharing
Rov qab tuaj koom koj lawm o
tus tij laus koj hais lawm o
Tij hlaug kuv nyob Thaib teb. kuv nyiam koj story nos kawg li os. thakyou rau koj cov lus nqia zoo2 no nawb. kuv yuav kawm koj lub neej kuv thiaj muaj nyiaj li koj os.❤
Don't put too much weight on your kwvtij saib taus taus koj now that you have money. Their "respect" is superficial; if it were genuine, they would have respected you when you were poor. Don't ever place your clan above your immediate family because your clan's "love and respect" is conditional (favors), whereas your family (wife & children) is not. It's too bad very few Hmong people are as generous and kind as your late boss. Hopefully, you can return the kindness your late boss showed you by helping out someone else in a similar situation as you once were in. That would be the ultimate THANK YOU you can honor your late boss's memory with.
Good bless your boss. He was a good man. I think the title should be called "Siab Zoo Thiaj Tau Ntuj Ntoo". And, you succeed because you worked hard as well.
Zoo siab nrog koj os mi nu
Koj qhiav Tua zoo heev lee
You’re so lucky to have your boss to support you.
Ua neeg nyob mas kuv ntseeg tias yuav tsum muaj ob yam: Nyiaj thiab kev hlub. Yog koj yog ib tug neeg muaj laj lim tswv yim zoo es khwv tau muaj muaj nyiaj tab sis koj tsis muaj kev hlub los tsis zoo.
Koj muaj muaj kev hlub es koj tsis muaj nyiaj ces ntev mus koj tus txij nkawm yuav fav siab.
Tsawg khub niam txiv muaj nyiaj los yog sib sib hlub thiaj kav ntev vim lawv txoj koob txoj Hmoob sib haum.
❤
You're very lucky to have good role models in your life. Always be humble, and I hope you pay it forward.
Yog kawg
Zoo heev li os tus brother aw...nrog neb zoo siab thiab neb txoj hmoo os.
Nkauj hmoob tus me neeg zoo nkauj ntxim hlub pom koj zoo nkauj ntxim hlub tiag tab sis tsis pom koj lub me cev nkauj xwb ib pliag li tsis tsim nyog kiag li tawm koj lub me cev ntxim ntxim hlub thiab koj tseem yuav ntxim hlub ntshaj thiab ok ok
Oh….what a nice story.
Your manager is a blessing! ❤
ghia tau zoo heev li os
Money is a good tool, but make sure to keep it a tool and not a god.
Mark 8:36 "For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?"
Brother koj hais yog tshaj plaws li os yus tsis muaj nyiaj ces kev hlub tsuas yog hlub dag xwb yog muaj nyiaj kev hlub thiab tseeb thov qhuas koj nawb
ดีมากจ้า
Zaj no cas kuv nyiam kawg li mloog ob lwm diam seb puas khaw tau coj Los ua neej seb puas muaj hnub yus caum tau luag
💃🥰
May God keeps blessing and watching over you and your family. You got what you deserve.
Koj tus boss twb hlub thiab pab koj lawm ces koj yuav tau mus hlub thiab pab cov txom nyem thiab....Nice story!!!
Ua tsuag uas kj muab qhia peb aswv daws kawm nawb mog😊
Thank you for sharing! God bless you. Everything we want, we have to start small and gradually keep going! Glad your boss was able to help you! ❤
This is a good story. Your boss is a good person to help you. Continue to keep helping others to.
Ua zoo xwb mog
Wow.. what a great story. This is a truly bless from your boss and God. Good thing always happen to good people.
Li no es thiaj li khwv kom muaj nyiaj es luag thiaj li saib yus muaj nqi tiam 21 no nyiaj muaj nqi tshaj plaws li lawm os zaj no qhia tau hais tias yus cov neeg txom nyem yuav tsum rau siab khwv nyiaj kom muaj zoo li luag tej os
Can not agree more on how you treat the your employer or company. I treat my as my own and how I would want other to treat it. That’s where my money come from
Great story
Love is important only when u already have money. Love over money is more towards romantic relationships. When it comes to relatives, it's always money first.
Ua tsaug ntau ntau rau tug tswv zaj neej no o uas kj yog ib tug neej siab zoo o kuv yog ib tus hmoob nplog muaj hmoo e tau los paub tau los hnov kj zaj neej neeg no nws yog ib qho ua kev kawm rau peb cov neeg txom nyem o kuv xav kawm kj lub tswv yim Kom ntau tshaj no o e kj puas kam muab kj tus e mail los yog kj tus fb o rau kv o vib kuv lub neej xav kom yus yog neeg muaj nyiaj e thiaj pab tau lwm tus thiab luag tej thiaj saib taug yus o thaum kawg no thov kom kj tsuas ntsib kev noj qab nyob zoo o
What a hard working man you’re so humble and great mindset on just focusing on your business and your wife best wishes that your business will continue to grow ❤
Wonderful and success story to learn.
You are a good man you remind me of my Dad. People do see good in others glad someone believed in you because of your kindness and hardwork.
Peb cov hmoob yeej muaj tus cwj pwm phem2 li no, tus neeg muaj nyiaj yeej muaj nuj nqis tshaj tus txom nyem, cov txom nyem ces luag muaj noj luag twb tsis xav hu, thaum luag hu yus ces luag tsuas hu kom yus mus ua yam hauj lwm uas qias neeg tshaj plaws luag tsis xav ua xwb luag thiaj hu yus mus kom yus yog tus ua qhov qias neeg. Tu siab rau peb cov txom nyem kawg.
Rog koj zoo siab os ❤
Congratulations. Now you can afford to bribe your relatives to love and respect you.
This is a great story, thanks for sharing brother. Kuv yuav khaws koj zaj neej neeg no lawm kawm los yog coj rau yav tom ntej.
👍👏👏
Lucky guy met a good hearted person. Not everyone is going to be that lucky
Nope, when they dont love and acknowledge me when im at my lowest. When Im up, I wouldn't give 2cents about them. Like killing them a cow or donating hundreds of money. Xu tua thiab muab pub rau my family, my inlaws to eat.
You are so right brother, we hmong people never change to these days the rich doesn’t care for the poor and the smart look down on the dumb, those who think like that it all that good anyway......
I wouldn’t even kill a cow for those people that used to not care bout you.
Thaus twg kuv mam muaj li koj os tij laug aw
😢😢😢money is power! And kwv tij are nice bcuz they were hoping to get to spend his money$$ one day bcuz he can buy his way into everyone hearts.😢😢
Moneys can buy everything in this world including love, but can’t buy times and your health. So Just spend your times wisely and lives your life to the fullest.
Ua neeg siab ncaj siab zoo thiaj tau ntuj ntoo ces yog zoo li no ntag....Nrog koj zoo siab. Tiam tshiab no ces cov dag noj dag haus coob lawm xwb....
Money is power
Beautiful story, Brother!
Yog lawm os may aw cov neeg ua hauj lwm zoo tsawg tus xwb
Buy respect WOW!!!!
Tu me nu ca koj muaj hmoo ua luaj li os niam hnub no kuv xav kom kuv muaj tug rub kuv te li koj kawg lo ca tsi muaj li os lub ntiaj teb no pua muaj leej twg Kam pab rub kuv te li koj os kom kuv ntawm tau ntawm txoj Kev txom nyem no mu me2 os
Tsi muaj nyiaj yeej tsi muaj nqi tsi muaj nyiaj ces yog tus tua ntsiaj hlob quav npua no los mas
ชอบเรื่องนี้มากเลยค่ะ❤❤❤
I love this story!!
Money is everything.
Mloog tau kua muag ntsws 😂 yuav tau xyaum ua neeg zoo
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👍🏻👍🏻🙏🏻
Although I do agree with some points you mentioned, and am very happy you were able to find wealth. However, I feel that kwv tij who only noticed you when you have wealth and the finance to support them, I do not think I would support them if I was you. But again, I'm very happy for the success you have.
Well you're fortunate that your boss helped you out!
What a great story...well said...
Finally
Kuv tus txiv siab zoo tas li, muab kiag rau luag yus tsis tshuav los kav liam. Cas wb tsis muaj nyiaj li o..?
Amazing story to learn from!
Tu brother aw koj hai Yog tshaj plaw li lawm os ua nyob ces siab nkaj rau tu hlub xwb xwb os mog
Brother nyiaj muas tau kev hlub ces yog li ko los mas, koj twb muab nyiaj muag tau kev hlub lawm ne
Life is all competition.hmoob lub neej sib y khib laev xav kom yus yov tus ruam tshaj pluag tshaj xwb.txhob k lawv cov lus thuam kav tsij rau y siab rau yus lub hom phiaj.glad your boss help you get there
Yog 1 zaj zoo heev
Zaj no mas muaj kev paub tshaj
Tsis muaj txhua tus neeg xaiv tau yug los ntse sib xws thiab muaj nyiaj tib yam nkaus ib zaug nyob rau hauv world no. Kev khiav lag luag rau small business zoo li koj cov lag luam no mas koj txhob rawm cia siab tias koj yog tus muaj nyiaj vim koj cov lag luam tseem tsis tau dua ces koj tsis tau paub txog. Hnub twg koj cov lag luam tshwm sim dua tag lawm, koj mam paub meej thiab pom tseeb tias koj muaj los koj txom nyem rau lub caij nyoog ntawv. Kuv khiav small business tau 20 lub xyoo mas kuv paub meej zoo heev rau qhov no.
You only feel like that coz you want to feel important you feel power will make you happy. Other people don't give a crap about that.
Hello
Niam ntsuab Teev, kuv nyob Fabkis teb kuv pheej caum koj thiab tabsis koj pheej nyiam 1 hais Lo lus tsis LAIB no tas mus li xwb, lo lus tsis LAIB no yog 1 lo lus nplog es cov hmoob laus thaum ub lawv haiv tsis tau lus nplog es lawv pheej hais xwb tabsis yog 1 Lo lus Bouaib xwb na ! Lo lus hmoob tsis tau no twb muaj ne ! Tsis tas koj yuav muab lo lus Bouaib ntawd coj Los hais tas zog
Nej cov hais lus saum huab cua no nej yuav tsum muab tej lo lus meej 2 coj Los hais mas….
His to much to money and faces 😂
Who care if they don’t call you or invite you. If you are happy is all
It count
First you were not poor. You have a roof and foods. You just not rich 😂
Booooring good bye
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If this story is true, good for you. It's hard for me to believe that anyone would offer you 30k without a biz plan. On top of that, you spent over and beyond your budget and had to borrow another 15k from your in-laws. Seems like you met the devil and he granted your wish instead. Good luck.
I'm happy for you brother and you are blessed to have such a great boss who supported you and helped you get a better life.
Hmong mas yeej phem tshaj they only like you when you're rich- they can use you at all times especially money. So sad kwv tij will never be there for you unless they can benefit from you every time. Hmong people need to change that