Baby Q and A | Baby Name? Getting Along? Community Help? | Orthodox Jewish Mom (Jar of Fireflies)
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- Опубликовано: 12 июн 2024
- I have gotten quite a few questions over and over again after the birth of Baby Firefly, so here is a q and a where I answer your questions about the baby's name, how we choose the name, how it works to not use the name until the baby naming ceremony, how the Jewish community helps after childbirth, how the kids are getting along with the baby, how our dog is getting along with the baby, and more!
Hello and welcome! My name is Chana, I’m married to my best friend, and we have four wonderful children together. We also happen to be Orthodox Jews and we homeschool our kids. This video is a sneak peek into our daily lives :) You can see how this particular Jewish homeschool mom sets up her days, rolls with the punches, and gets it all done. Thanks for watching!
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Sorry I’m a little late posting today! I got a little distracted by a super cute baby and all my other kids waking up at the same time 😊 everyone is settled now so here ya go! Hope you enjoy!
The best distraction-our precious children!!!
Sending much love, Shalom, Mazel Tov, gratitude, and support, Maralyn in Virginia ❤️❤️
Hey "busy mom of 4" says it all.
Enjoy the cuddles
Good afternoon Chana. You are allowed to be late because you are bonding with your new son and family. ❤ Take your time and congratulations 🎉
Never, ever apologize for waiting until your children are able to understand how informed consent works regarding their privacy. The Internet is forever, and there's a lot of parasocial people out there. Keep doing what you're doing, and what's best for your kids.
Very well said!
I think it’s a very smart idea to protect your children’s privacy on social media, there is so much negativity on social media and people feel it’s okay to give their opinions about everything. Best wishes to you and your family on the new baby.
Thank you
I think baby firefly alongside brotber and sister firefly are beautiful names ..those outtakes at the end show that you are human like the rest of us. Many blessings for you and your family
i agree...there are just all kinds of crazy out there!
Chana, I think you're very gracious to explain why you've chosen to keep your childrens' names and faces private, especially since you've explained this to us a couple of times already! I personally think you've made the right decision and that viewers who persist in asking are just nosey.
It still comes up all the time :) Thanks for your patience as I explain it again :)
I love his name of “Baby firefly”! I respect your privacy of your children! You’re an awesome mama!
Thank you 💜
Yes to hearing little baby coos at the end! Feel free to leave in the coos and bouncing in the main video :) So happy that everyone is doing well! Absolutely don't feel like you have to apologize for protecting your privacy and kids' autonomy
"Baby Firefly" is not only an adorable name for us, but he is also an adorable baby! You are awesome for protecting your little ones until they are old enough to make their own choice. You sing the same way and same comforting sounds I made for my babies! Thank you for sharing your family and life with us. ,My Go.d amply bless you! ❤
Thank you so much!
Smart parents you are , protecting your kids from social media. Bravo! 👍👍👍👍
Thank you Sylvie 💜
I'm Catholic, I'm divorced and I don't have any kids so I'm not sure how your channel came up in my feed but I'm so glad that it did! Congratulations on your new baby. You look great...your skin is glowing. 🌺
I’m so glad you’re here!
Haha, I've never been married, no kids, all I watch on youtube are true crime videos, movie commentary, and ASMR, and RUclips decided a different orthodox Jewish woman's channel would be a great fit, and watching that channel got this one recommended. I'm not complaining, I just wonder what goes on in the algorithm sometimes.
@@FrenkTheJoy lol I guess it's good to step out of your comfort zone sometimes. For some reason this one really resonated with me and I'm glad. I guess we all have more in common that we realize. 😊
I’m also Catholic, marry with a Methodist Pastor, and love this channel. Let me write more: I watch the Sabbath service from a New York Synagogue. I love my Christianity more than ever. And no children, too.
Smart mama for safe guarding your babies. I believe they will be grateful for you giving them privacy when they are old enough to grasp the internet world.
Thank you 😊
Parents with good Godly sense. We need more of them 💕💕
Bravo to you for fully protecting your children! They’re a gift from god and you take that seriously! ♥️
Thank you 💜
I absolutely agree!!💜
Hearing you talk about Bella and the baby makes me want to share that when my mom was pregnant with me, my grandparents' one-year-old dog became VERY protective of her, so I was basically born with a personal guard dog. She wouldn't even let my dad near the bassinet when we visited! Anyway. Please don't apologize for safeguarding your children's privacy online. I wish more parents would!
I totally agree with you not sharing names or faces of your other children. They have not have asked to go on social media but it is great to hear they adore their sibling.
It's so refreshing to hear that you won't tell people the names of your children. It seems to me that nothing is private anymore with social media. Blessings to you and your family xx
You are 100% correct in not providing the children's name or faces on the internet
You are good to protect your children, that and loving them are your most important parenting responsibility. Bless you and yours’ !
You and Mr. Firefly are such great parents and make such good decisions regarding your children's privacy! Social media is a tough world to navigate.
Thank you!
Love you Chana and I love how you protect your children’s privacy.
I think it's great that there's so much sibling love for their new baby brother. And mad respect to your MIL for coming all the way from Israel for some grandma duty.
HI CHANA SHABBAT SHALOM, YOU MADE THE RIGHT DECISION ON PROTECTING YOUR CHILDREN THANK YOU FOR STILL SHOWING US THE BACK HE IS SO CUTE GLAD TO HEAR EVERYTHING IS GOING GREAT 👍 TAKE CARE🥰🦋🦋🦋🌻🌻🌻🐝
I LOVE that you respect your children's privacy. Mazol Tov on the new addition.
The back of his head is so precious and sweet. Congratulations on his birth! And yes I agree, better to keep their faces and names private. ❤️
I saw his little nose and his eyelashes!
Yes !! Love that u keep your kids away from youtube and do not exploit them for content ❤ it is very rare to see on youtube
As much as I would love to know that precious baby’s name, I applaud you for protecting your family. Congratulations !
Baby Firefly was reading a label on your shelf. He's a genius!!!
So wise of you not to share personal info about the kids! Baby Firefly got so big, ka”h! Bella is so smart!
Enjoy your lovely family! Shabbat Shalom. Be well!
I love the concept of sharing good news twice! That’s so lovely. And totally agree with you not sharing your children. All I need to know is that you have 4 adorable kids: 1 girl and 3 boys. What else do we internet strangers need to know? Also, I raise service dogs as a volunteer, so I’d love to hear an update about Bella’s training as your son’s diabetic alert dog. Maybe a video idea for the future!
Thank you for your kind words and the video suggestion! It is a video that I have planned for the future!
Loved the comment too!!
❤❤ ❤❤ I personally think it’s great that you protect your children’s names and faces.
Thank you Della 💜
While we can't see his full face on the video I noticed he seemed to be looking up at you as you spoke, so cute.
Protecting whatever information you need for your children is the right decision. That is wise.
Protecting your kids is a good thing! You’re setting a good example for other parents. You’re right to err on the side of caution.
We added a sibling this spring and l must say one of the greatest joys has been watching older brother love on his little brother. What a precious relationship to share.
PS We had two wonderful home births with midwives here in USA.
So, so cute. I’m sure you are all thrilled. Such a blessing from God. Blessings.
I think it's great you respect your kids privacy when it comes to social media and RUclips. So many don't. And they way the world is so many could take advantage of that knowledge. Congrats on the new little one.☺️
Proud of you for standing up for your children’s privacy and safety. Baptist her and I have such respect for your religious beliefs. What a blessing you are to world!
BRAVA!! I am so grateful to see a mother put their Childrens privacy first; it's not up for sale on social media. I pray this isn't optional in the future! ❤️
My husband and I have the same baby naming system; I suggest a name I like and my husband agrees😄
😂❤️ love that
With our first child, my husband and I decided to make her first name after my paternal grandfather (who died the year after we were married) and her middle name after his maternal grandmother. With our second, we couldn’t find any family names for girls that we both agreed on and it was his turn to choose the first name. He chose one he liked, and I chose a middle name that I liked for its meaning. As it turns out, I later found out that that middle name is actually a family name on my side-who knew?
You are wise to protect your children, you have in place excellent boundaries. All of your children are precious.
Thank you Jerrilynn
Privacy and safety are very important for your children You are their parents Blessings Chana
I’m so happy that everyone is adjusting nicely with sweet baby boy ☀️ So interesting about how you name your babies! I always learn things on this channel 🥰♥️
I agree with you on protecting your family. Keep your boundaries. They are healthy because once it’s out there there’s no taking it back
Chana,
How nice that you live in such a supportive community, not just for you but also for your neighbors who may be elderly or infirm. It's great to have someine look in on you and visit or bring food ( or both).
Your former youngest has moved up the ladder. He's got a new adventure ahead of him being a big brother and I'm sure he'll be able to teach Baby Firefly a lot.
My money was always on Bella! I just knew she'd be great based on how protective and caring she is with your other children. She takes her job seriously.
You have a great family- you and Mr. F have done a remarkable job raising/teaching your kids and Baby Firefly has a lot to look forward to! So happy for you all!
Thank you 💜
I think most of us respect and understand your and your husbands privacy policy for the children. You share a lot about them and that’s nice and enough ❤️
Baby fireflies is too cute! So happy to hear you doing well and tha to your other children are loving their new baby brother.Shabbat Shalom and have a meaningful Tisha B'Av, Leshana Habaha B'Yerushalayim
Thank you! Hope you have a meaningful Tisha B’Av as well!
Your choice to keep your children anonymous is the smartest decision a parent could make. Don’t think you are took strict, your Childrens safety is the most important thing in the world. Congratulations a baby is a blessing from God.
Thank you 💜
I am so glad you respect your children's privacy. It makes me feel so weird when influencers flaunt every detail of their child's personal life on the internet. You are absolutely doing the right thing ❤
Thank you for sharing this update! I totally understand and respect your decision to not share your kids names and keep their privacy. In this world you honestly can't be too careful. Glad everyone is well 💕
I’m glad you keep the names of your kids private it’s much safer.
You and your husband are the best people to decide about social media and your children. I share a considerable amount about my daughter’s health issues on Facebook because I regulate who has access, but almost nothing and no photos on other platforms. He is precious and I love how your face lights up when you love on him. 💜
Little Dude is so active and alert. Wonderful to see.
I so agree - I never post photos of my grandson on FB (my only SM) - nor do I mention him. But...people I actually chat with in daily life...they definitely know about him - DOTING grandmother, here!
I'm so happy to see glimpses of Baby Firefly! If anyone gives you trouble, remind them you choose to share this.
But, please more Baby Firefly toes!
I just want to air kiss his lil head! He's so good and calm.
Lol wait till the bloopers
I love this channel. And I am with you on the privacy issue 100%. The internet is not a safe space and kids need to be protected from it.
Like this is super awesome of you. We have seen so many kids being victimised on the net. So glad you are doing good things for your kids.
Thank you 💜
Iam just so very very thrilled for you, not just you but your entire family. The happiest of news.
You both are such good loving protective parents. It is such a good example to put out in the world!!💗
Thank you 😊
Hi Chana, I appreciate all your reasons for protecting your children's privacy and I concur. Baby Firefly seems very much like a normal newborn to me! Thanks for keeping us updated.
Wonderful neighbours are so important. Your privacy is top priority. Dogs are very insightful.
I'm so impressed that you are already posting videos!
You draw the line wherever you're comfortable. I always feel like God has that little nudging inside of us to let us know what we need to be doing. So many times I figured out why I did what I did after the fact. I'm enjoying getting to know you. It's fun to hear about how you raise your children and what you're doing day-to-day. It's fun. Baby Firefly is pretty funny, you could probably stick with that for a year or two.
You are amazing, Chana! I love you calling him Baby Firefly!!! Great moniker for the wee one! I was 36 when I had my one and only baby and I was never as pulled together as you appear! Sending you lots of happy wishes and love for the whole family! 😘💙
I so respect your decision to protect your children’s privacy. It is an extra layer of security. There are way too many dangers out there-especially on social media.
I hope you have a blessed Shabbat.
Thank you Shawn 💜💜💜
I love how your outtakes at the end of your video show that your baby (who is absolutely precious) are your priority. You just glow with a wonderful expression when you look down at him! ❤️❤️❤️
Hi Channa,
Congratulations again. Baby’s hair looks lovely 😊
I agree with your decision about keeping your kids private.
I enjoy listening to you and all your traditions and culture.
Wishing you all the very best.
Tracy 🌻🤓
I love all the comments here supporting you protecting your children and their privacy! We love you, Baby Firefly.
I love your outtakes!!
So sweet! Glad you are doing well!💗
Yay! Bloopers are back! Love them! ♥
I was raised Orthodox, Albanian Orthodox, traditionally babies are named are on the 8th day of life in a special service either at church or at home. It's for a boy or girl and it's a whole celebration where everyone gets to help name the baby in this ceremony.
So wonderful that everything and everyone is getting along well. What a blessing to have a new little one in the family!
How very sweet!!!!!💗🙏🏼💗🙏🏼💗
Your newest little one has such a beautiful head. Love his dark hair, so precious.
Thanks Robin 😊
that is sweet that he defers to you about the name
I so agree with your decision to protect your children on Internet. A lot of people use either A, B, C.
I had triplets and they were baby A, B, C. They are now teenagers and able to navigate the internet in a safe manner.
Congratulations on the birth of your baby boy!!!!
Love that! It’s great to hear
I just wonder how many times you had to go back and say you’re a homeschooling mother of four, and not three. So much to get used to. You’re still glowing Mama. Thank you for sharing your postpartum journey with us. I’m so glad you have so much familial and community support. That makes a world of difference. So much love to you and yours.
Thank you Kate ❤️
Glad you included the outtakes, especially your songs🥰 🥹 so sweet
I love how you protect your children.
You look more rested this vid ❤️glad all are adjusting. Thanks so much for this!
Love your answers. Love that you and your husband take care of your children’s safety and privacy. And the “bloopers” loveeeee them. God bless.
Like you, I am also very protective of my children when it comes to the internet. A few years ago, my sister-in-law posted photos and the names of my children online. I was furious and made her take them down. When she complained about it to family members they all had my back, especially my husband. There is no explanation needed, people need to be respectful of each other's privacy.
Love seeing you and Baby Firefly. So glad everything is going well!💙💙💙
Your family is so sweet! I’ve been loving hearing about your birth/postpartum experience and all the support you have. Thank you for sharing ❤️
You are positively glowing!
Having your MIL/Baby Fireflies Bubbe there is such a blessing!
I so love your videos!
They are so calming & I find myself very centered after watching them.
Your outtakes are hilarious!
You also have a way of expressing the importance of faith is in every aspect of your life and the lives of your children.
Technology and social media for children can have adverse affects on children.
I continue to be amazed by you.
Love ❤️ the ending!
Thanks for sharing. I think it's great you're keeping the littles out of the spotlight. Blessings to you and your family!
Thank you so much for all your time-I’m impressed how you have made time to record amidst sleepless nights and homeschooling!
I completely respect your decision regarding social media and childrens’ privacy! Good for you!
Blessings to your dear family!
In terms of protecting your kids' privacy and your position on having them on social media. I think you made the completely right call for yourself and your family. I totally respect that.
Loved this video! So glad you chose to protect your children's privacy! We do live in crazy times. Bless you & your loved ones.
So lovely to see you Chana & Baby Firefly 😊 From the outtakes I could tell producing a video wasn't an easy task ! Totally respect you for your wise decision not to share your children on social media, we need to protect & safe guard our children & I wish more people would follow suit. I enjoyed hearing how the children & Bella are getting along with the new baby, it sounds so sweet & delightful. Take care 🤗
Hi Chana
Thanks for an informative Q & A today.
I’m sure you had been getting questions about Baby Firefly’s name from new subscribers. Those of us who’ve been here a while know of your stance on protecting your children’s privacy..
It is SO GOOD to see so many new subscribers and your channel growing!!
Thanks for taking the time to film this video today.
I was so happy to hear how Bella is going with Baby and that your mother in law is still with you all.
It’s all such a special and precious time.
Enjoy your weekend
Shabbat Shalom
Lesley 😊
Thank you so much Lesley ❤️❤️❤️
I think the boundaries you set for what and how you share your family are just right and I don't think you will ever regret taking the cautious route. Thank you for sharing your family with us!
I'd love to see your 4 beautiful children but I really respect you for what you're doing. Your community sounds amazing Chana! 🥰
So happy for your whole family and the new baby is definitely blessed to have such great parents and for protective Bella ❣️
It’s good that you are protecting your child’s privacy! Kids these days are very badly influenced and also can experience bad things coming at them in regards to their info being online!
This one mother shared that her daughters’ middle name would be Parvati to honor her grandmother, but her daughter wasn’t Indian. Her grandmother was Indian. And people were going against her on the forums and stuff because of that. It sucks. She’s trying to *honor* her grandmother. If a baby isn’t of a certain ethnicity but you want to honor a certain relative, you should be able to do so without people name-shaming you. Children also deserve to understand informed consent. Some kids don’t like having their info online until they feel comfortable. Waiting until they are ready is a great choice, and exposes them to the process of giving consent to others from a young age. They need to know what the process of consent for things is like as they grow older.
You are doing a wonderful job caring for your children's safety and privacy. As their Mother it is your decision. I am so thrilled that your family has been blessed with Baby Firefly. Blessings to you and your family.
Keep you and especially your family private. Only share what you feel safe sharing. Blessings on you and your family.
What a sweet babe!!! You have oldest, younger son, daughter, and baby firefly!! Good idea about keeping the kids off SM. So glad that you had kin to help you especially Grandma (Bubbe?). Congrats again to the whole family! Many Blessings to you all. 😊❤
It was great to see you and Baby Firefly! He seemed very interested in the supplies on the shelf. Maybe he’s already wanting to learn to read! I totally agree with you about privacy and safety for your children. You are using wisdom and your mama’s heart, for sure!
I really respect that you are keeping your children private. They are a precious gift & deserve all the protection you can give them.