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Last story - my sister smokes but i don't, in all the years i have lived in my home my sister has always gone outside to have her cigarette, no matter what the weather. This was her choice not mine, she would always say i shouldn't have to be bothered by the smell to accommodate her, it's her habit not mine. That is what OPs sibling should be saying, not dictating that OP should let them vape. 🧐
I vape, my mom smokes, neither of us will do either inside my sisters houses. It's common courtesy and respect. You don't go into a non smoking home and light up, stinking up EVERYTHING and yellowing the walls and curtains. My mom doesn't even smoke inside her own home. She even hates the smell of cigarettes and cigarette smoke sticking to her and her clothes. And I'm trying to quit vaping. I'm tired of it. No one's allowed to smoke inside at any of mine or my family members houses.
Talking about the kid with adhd story, the parents should try exercising the kid with running and jogging as it helps with adhd. They should also try fidget toys that are quiet and not distracting for social events and school. Noise cancelling headphones with calming music can help as well to calm and de stimulate the kid during events.
About the last story... I was a smoker for 35 years, starting in my early 40s. I always thought quitting would be incredibly difficult. In my 20s, I tried quitting for a day or so, and once managed a whole week, but that was it. Two months ago, I decided to go cold turkey. I did have nicotine spray and patches, but I only used the patches for a day and the spray for two weeks. Even with the cravings, I kept reminding myself that it's better for me to be smoke-free. Since quitting, I've definitely noticed an improvement in my sense of smell. Other benefits might be there too, but I'm not sure yet. Smoking... well, for a while I guess it was enjoyable, just part of the routine. But in my second week of not smoking, I had one puff and it hit me really strangely - a single puff of tobacco gave me a surreal high. Anyway, good on the original poster for standing their ground - it's their house, their rules!
Adhd story: the guy honestly is doing the right thing. I will say the pattern of him inviting her to then disinvite her sucks but honestly there is a high possibility he says yes based on the info at the moment and then says no once new information occurs. To be honest this just sounds like a normal hurdle that OP will have to handle. Having a child like hers is going to cause relationship hurdles regardless. She either works with this guy or handles her son first and *then* when his ADHD situation is “solved” then she can start dating
Story #1: Why would you wanna pimp out your child and make them famous? So many child stars have been royally fucked up as a result of that. Especially the ones who were on Disney Channel and Nickelodeon.
Story 2: I have autism so I can kinda understand what the son is going through. And the boyfriend is absolutely right, the son shouldn't go to those events. Trust me, the kid would be better off at home with a babysitter than at an unfamilar place with lots of unfamilar people. That experience would not be fun for him, trust me
There's plenty of people in upper management that work at hotels that learn peoples name for the sort run to be nice. especially in 4 and 5 star hotels. its creepy yes and it still creeps me out working at a hotel with people like that
My former neighbor was named Wanda and she was way worse than ANY Karen I ever met. Truly obnoxious and thought she ruled the neighborhood. 2nd story - If it were me, I would end things. You and your son deserve better. Last story - I am a non-smoker and do not allow smoking, or vaping, in my home as I have asthma. My home...my rules. I have a nice covered deck, just off the den, where guests are welcome to smoke. If they choose not to visit my home because they can't smoke inside, so be it. Doesn't bother me in the slightest. My SIL refuses to come to my home because I refuse to let her guilt me into changing the rule for her. Oh, well. My grandmother had a saying. Dont like it? Then it takes less of it to do you.
@@JustinAdamson270 Yes, Yes it can? Do you even know what asthma is? Its trouble breathing, Guess what! Smoking does stuff to your lungs! WOW! And you use your lungs to breath! Crazy right?
Why would you end your relationship, just because of an ADHD diagnosed son who gets overstimulated and they have to leave? It's not the guy's rules, it's his family's rules. The girl who wrote the story knows this. It shouldn't be a deal breaker. Besides, there are plenty of events that kids are uninvited from, nor should they if it's not something that's suitable to them.
I smoke a little bit.. 2 packs a week and they are not even full packs of 20. But I never smoke in front of my mother. I visited her for a full week, at her house and slept there, after her husband died and I just didn't smoke the entire week
On the story about the Hotel and the weird old man,NO op you are NOT the jerk. That sounds really weird for the old man to know your first name.i would call their corporate office and complain.
Last story: I am a vaper, and honestly it’s save me from smoking 30 a day and helped get off tobacco, I even managed a vape shop here in the uk. Is vaping good for you? Meh probably not, because it’s not something your body needs to function, (for the record I no longer use nicotine) I vape in my house, but it’s MY HOUSE my rules. All op is doing is saying MY HOUSE, MY RULES. It’s a simple as that op doesn’t want people to vape in her house then NO VAPING (or smoking obviously) I do not see any issue with that. OP’s sister needs a dose of reality to ditch the entitlement.
Hotel Story: that guy was being a complete predator, op should have reported the guy and contacted the police. Last Story: op, your house your rules. if your sister can’t handle then tough bickies.
Story 2: Ask your son if he wants to go. If he doesn't want to go then keep him home. Ask your bf why he is telling you this. Is it because the party is not appropriate, is it because your son doesn't want to go, or is it because someone doesn't want kids there? Depending on the answer you can determine what you should do. Your bf is likely just trying to be respectful of your son, or of what the host of the party wants. Story 3: Just try to be polite when you ask questions. From what you described it seems like it sounded a little sarcastic when you responded the first time. Story 4: I don't think you're wrong at all. I would never want vapes/cigarettes in my home. Your sister is super addicted. She can go outside if she wants to smoke. Second hand smoking can cause addiction and lung cancer and I know how bad the smoke smells.
As a smoker, GO OUTSIDE its not hard. Yes it gets a bit cold in the winter, but that's when you either get a bigger better coat n some gloves, OR JUST STOP THE HABIT.
When my brother stopped smoking, he asked his wife if she was using new air freshener or something. She said no it’s same as usual just that you’ve stopped smoking and your sinuses were unclogging. Also he used to smoke in the house and he stopped when his oldest son was diagnosed asthmatic. My nephews flo chart improved drastically in a short while. It made my brother all the more determined to quit smoking and stay smoke free.
Story 1: hope the OP doesn't have to deal with a 'Karen' ever again cause honestly and unfortunately there are a lot of them out there. Story 2: I think the boyfriend is just looking out for the OP and their son. Story 3: I have a family who has a long history of smoking, but thankfully my aunt and uncle are the every once in a while type, so I'm happy about that.
Last story. I vape every in my house. And my partner only smokes cigarettes in the kitchen. However any where we visit we always go out side. If it's allowed then we wait for the invite stay inside to do it. Even if they are happy for vape but not cigarettes inside. Then I will wait till we all go outside at the same time and smoke. It's just polite. Specially as most of our friends live in rented accommodation
When my wife and I moved into our apartment, we were clearly told by management that there is to be no smoking or vaping inside any of the buildings. We were happy about this, because that was going to be a rule of ours anyway. Let’s just say it’s almost caused a few arguments. Managements rule is that if you want to smoke or vape, you have to be 25 feet away from the building, which basically means down in the parking lot. We had my family over for Christmas, and a few of them said they were going to step outside to smoke and vape. Unfortunately, I caught them doing it right outside of my apartment door, which is not allowed. One of them tried to argue with me that they didn’t want to go down the stairs to the parking lot, but I told them that was their only choice. If these rules are not followed, my wife and I could be evicted. We are responsible for any guests who are here and we are responsible to make sure they follow all of management’s rules. Again, we actually like the rule. We didn’t want that stuff in our house, and we didn’t feel like having to argue about our decision. We both have family members who are heavy smokers and frequent vapers, and let’s just say some of them do not like being away from their nicotine. But even once we get a house, our rule will be that you have to step outside if you want to do that. We shouldn’t have to breathe it in just because you want it.
My MIL is named Karen, and she’s the best MIL anyone could ever hope for. She ironically has a bleach cropped haircut (most of punk style, though), and is the calmest, sweetest, most open minded and compassionate person I know. For that reason the term “Karen” is something I’m reluctant to use because it feels disrespectful.
Last story: I am also concerned for the sister’s health but a work around could be one of the 24hr nicotine patches so that she doesn’t vape in the house but also doesn’t suffer too badly from withdrawals
Last story: OP is not the jerk, I had friends who would vape or smoke stuff in the bathroom of their own home or go outside because they wanted to be respectful of their non-smoking guests. They didn't make a fuss and it wasn't forced on them either, they just thought it would be a kind thing to do and made the decision themselves. Also, while I'm not familiar at all with the short or long-term effects of smoking withdrawal, in my opinion once you start worrying about them is when you should know you have an addiction. Like if all you get is a little headache, you can shake that off no problem. But if you get a killer migraine and/or something else every time you don't use the vape, that's when you should know you got a problem.
@@JustinAdamson270 I never said a thing about not liking it. I simply pointed out my experience with people who were respectful with their habit. And pointed out if people become worried about experiencing withdrawal they should see a professional about it because they're likely addicted if not on the road to it.
@@Stealth_Saber you can't get addicted to anything addiction doesn't exist it's a mental issue and smoking cigarettes due to stress is no different than people drinking coffee to wake up lol
On the story about vaping, op your NOT the jerk here, your House YOUR RULES. I have a RULE NO SMOKING IN MY HOUSE, PERIOD. If they don't like the rule then don't come to my Home.
Last story op said they live on the 5th floor if it was me ill rather get those walks in cuz from yhe sounds of it op sister in the next couple yrs wont be able to
my story my annoying gen z wont stop annoying:me so we hated each other so in grade two my classmate gab is a gen z kid who likes skibidi toilet and mewing and gyat whitch i cant handle i kept on telling him to stop and he wont we now used to be friends and now nemisis he even roasts me and makes me cry he says are you okay and after it wears off he becomes mean to me and becomes cringe again:moral of the story dont be friends with a gen z kid
15:12 As a previous hotel employee I can tell you that reception are trained in a way where they need to know their guests by room number, name and face which are all easily accessible by the computers on station and by surveillance feeds which are available in the back offices of reception. It’s not strange, it’s how we make most guests feel welcomed.
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Last story - my sister smokes but i don't, in all the years i have lived in my home my sister has always gone outside to have her cigarette, no matter what the weather. This was her choice not mine, she would always say i shouldn't have to be bothered by the smell to accommodate her, it's her habit not mine. That is what OPs sibling should be saying, not dictating that OP should let them vape. 🧐
You can't stop someone from vaping or smoking just because you don't like the smell
That sounds like a dub sister in my book
You can if its your house and not theirs@JustinAdamson270
@@JustinAdamson270obviously, but the one smoking/vaping should take it outdoors tho. It's not that big a deal.
@@kdepp90 if it's not that big a deal why are you crying about it
I vape, my mom smokes, neither of us will do either inside my sisters houses. It's common courtesy and respect. You don't go into a non smoking home and light up, stinking up EVERYTHING and yellowing the walls and curtains. My mom doesn't even smoke inside her own home. She even hates the smell of cigarettes and cigarette smoke sticking to her and her clothes. And I'm trying to quit vaping. I'm tired of it. No one's allowed to smoke inside at any of mine or my family members houses.
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Agree 100%. I don't smoke in my house or anyone else's house.
Last story the can go outside if she wants to vape she is not entitled to doing that wherever she wants
Last story, I can't belive the sister can't go a weekend without vaping. That in itself is very sad 😢
Vapes are even more addictive than cigarettes.
Talking about the kid with adhd story, the parents should try exercising the kid with running and jogging as it helps with adhd. They should also try fidget toys that are quiet and not distracting for social events and school. Noise cancelling headphones with calming music can help as well to calm and de stimulate the kid during events.
About the last story...
I was a smoker for 35 years, starting in my early 40s. I always thought quitting would be incredibly difficult. In my 20s, I tried quitting for a day or so, and once managed a whole week, but that was it.
Two months ago, I decided to go cold turkey. I did have nicotine spray and patches, but I only used the patches for a day and the spray for two weeks. Even with the cravings, I kept reminding myself that it's better for me to be smoke-free.
Since quitting, I've definitely noticed an improvement in my sense of smell. Other benefits might be there too, but I'm not sure yet.
Smoking... well, for a while I guess it was enjoyable, just part of the routine. But in my second week of not smoking, I had one puff and it hit me really strangely - a single puff of tobacco gave me a surreal high.
Anyway, good on the original poster for standing their ground - it's their house, their rules!
Adhd story: the guy honestly is doing the right thing. I will say the pattern of him inviting her to then disinvite her sucks but honestly there is a high possibility he says yes based on the info at the moment and then says no once new information occurs.
To be honest this just sounds like a normal hurdle that OP will have to handle. Having a child like hers is going to cause relationship hurdles regardless. She either works with this guy or handles her son first and *then* when his ADHD situation is “solved” then she can start dating
Story #1: Why would you wanna pimp out your child and make them famous? So many child stars have been royally fucked up as a result of that. Especially the ones who were on Disney Channel and Nickelodeon.
Beauty pageant mother; enough said.
Yeah there is a documentary called quiet on set the dark side of kids tv and it goes into tge abuse the child stars of nick were subjected to.
Story 2: I have autism so I can kinda understand what the son is going through. And the boyfriend is absolutely right, the son shouldn't go to those events. Trust me, the kid would be better off at home with a babysitter than at an unfamilar place with lots of unfamilar people. That experience would not be fun for him, trust me
There's plenty of people in upper management that work at hotels that learn peoples name for the sort run to be nice. especially in 4 and 5 star hotels. its creepy yes and it still creeps me out working at a hotel with people like that
My former neighbor was named Wanda and she was way worse than ANY Karen I ever met. Truly obnoxious and thought she ruled the neighborhood.
2nd story - If it were me, I would end things. You and your son deserve better.
Last story - I am a non-smoker and do not allow smoking, or vaping, in my home as I have asthma. My home...my rules. I have a nice covered deck, just off the den, where guests are welcome to smoke. If they choose not to visit my home because they can't smoke inside, so be it. Doesn't bother me in the slightest. My SIL refuses to come to my home because I refuse to let her guilt me into changing the rule for her. Oh, well. My grandmother had a saying. Dont like it? Then it takes less of it to do you.
Vaping or someone else smoking doesn't affect your asthma and no you can't stop someone from smoking indoors just because you're a Karen
@@JustinAdamson270 Yes, Yes it can? Do you even know what asthma is? Its trouble breathing, Guess what! Smoking does stuff to your lungs! WOW! And you use your lungs to breath! Crazy right?
Why would you end your relationship, just because of an ADHD diagnosed son who gets overstimulated and they have to leave? It's not the guy's rules, it's his family's rules. The girl who wrote the story knows this. It shouldn't be a deal breaker. Besides, there are plenty of events that kids are uninvited from, nor should they if it's not something that's suitable to them.
@@davidtimmer596 this bitch is just lonely and no one wants to be around her so she's acting like it was her decision
I smoke a little bit.. 2 packs a week and they are not even full packs of 20. But I never smoke in front of my mother. I visited her for a full week, at her house and slept there, after her husband died and I just didn't smoke the entire week
the fact people do this is unbeliva
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On the story about the Hotel and the weird old man,NO op you are NOT the jerk. That sounds really weird for the old man to know your first name.i would call their corporate office and complain.
Last story: I am a vaper, and honestly it’s save me from smoking 30 a day and helped get off tobacco, I even managed a vape shop here in the uk. Is vaping good for you? Meh probably not, because it’s not something your body needs to function, (for the record I no longer use nicotine) I vape in my house, but it’s MY HOUSE my rules. All op is doing is saying MY HOUSE, MY RULES. It’s a simple as that op doesn’t want people to vape in her house then NO VAPING (or smoking obviously) I do not see any issue with that. OP’s sister needs a dose of reality to ditch the entitlement.
On the story about vaping again, if your sister comes to visit, she can do it OUTSIDE, YOUR RULES, PERIOD.
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Back when I was a cigarette smoker I've heard of chainsmokers but the sister in this story is the very first time I've ever heard of a chainvaper
I worked in a hotel, first rule- Don't be creepy to the guests!
Hotel Story: that guy was being a complete predator, op should have reported the guy and contacted the police.
Last Story: op, your house your rules. if your sister can’t handle then tough bickies.
In the first story the OP roasted his ex 💀
The old man in the name story screams your room cans cams and mics
That's very possible... maybe look for a 2-way mirror in the bathroom.
Story 2: Ask your son if he wants to go. If he doesn't want to go then keep him home. Ask your bf why he is telling you this. Is it because the party is not appropriate, is it because your son doesn't want to go, or is it because someone doesn't want kids there? Depending on the answer you can determine what you should do. Your bf is likely just trying to be respectful of your son, or of what the host of the party wants.
Story 3: Just try to be polite when you ask questions. From what you described it seems like it sounded a little sarcastic when you responded the first time.
Story 4: I don't think you're wrong at all. I would never want vapes/cigarettes in my home. Your sister is super addicted. She can go outside if she wants to smoke. Second hand smoking can cause addiction and lung cancer and I know how bad the smoke smells.
Last story- The narrator put it best. The sister is an addict plain and simple and is upset she can't get her fix when in someone else's apartment.
When you go to someone else's home you respect their rules, end of story. If the sister wants to vape she can go outside
As a smoker, GO OUTSIDE its not hard. Yes it gets a bit cold in the winter, but that's when you either get a bigger better coat n some gloves, OR JUST STOP THE HABIT.
When my brother stopped smoking, he asked his wife if she was using new air freshener or something. She said no it’s same as usual just that you’ve stopped smoking and your sinuses were unclogging. Also he used to smoke in the house and he stopped when his oldest son was diagnosed asthmatic. My nephews flo chart improved drastically in a short while. It made my brother all the more determined to quit smoking and stay smoke free.
Story 3 that guy is def a predator memorizing all solo travels names....
Agreed. Guy at the front desk should've done something to get him away from the OP.
@@QuickManEXEI Agree
Story 1: hope the OP doesn't have to deal with a 'Karen' ever again cause honestly and unfortunately there are a lot of them out there.
Story 2: I think the boyfriend is just looking out for the OP and their son.
Story 3: I have a family who has a long history of smoking, but thankfully my aunt and uncle are the every once in a while type, so I'm happy about that.
I love this guy
Last story. I vape every in my house. And my partner only smokes cigarettes in the kitchen. However any where we visit we always go out side. If it's allowed then we wait for the invite stay inside to do it. Even if they are happy for vape but not cigarettes inside. Then I will wait till we all go outside at the same time and smoke. It's just polite. Specially as most of our friends live in rented accommodation
When my wife and I moved into our apartment, we were clearly told by management that there is to be no smoking or vaping inside any of the buildings. We were happy about this, because that was going to be a rule of ours anyway. Let’s just say it’s almost caused a few arguments. Managements rule is that if you want to smoke or vape, you have to be 25 feet away from the building, which basically means down in the parking lot. We had my family over for Christmas, and a few of them said they were going to step outside to smoke and vape. Unfortunately, I caught them doing it right outside of my apartment door, which is not allowed. One of them tried to argue with me that they didn’t want to go down the stairs to the parking lot, but I told them that was their only choice. If these rules are not followed, my wife and I could be evicted. We are responsible for any guests who are here and we are responsible to make sure they follow all of management’s rules. Again, we actually like the rule. We didn’t want that stuff in our house, and we didn’t feel like having to argue about our decision. We both have family members who are heavy smokers and frequent vapers, and let’s just say some of them do not like being away from their nicotine. But even once we get a house, our rule will be that you have to step outside if you want to do that. We shouldn’t have to breathe it in just because you want it.
Is anyone else worried about the sister and possibly suffering constant nicotine poisoning? The amount she is inhaling plus water vapor sounds deadly.
My MIL is named Karen, and she’s the best MIL anyone could ever hope for. She ironically has a bleach cropped haircut (most of punk style, though), and is the calmest, sweetest, most open minded and compassionate person I know. For that reason the term “Karen” is something I’m reluctant to use because it feels disrespectful.
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Last story: I am also concerned for the sister’s health but a work around could be one of the 24hr nicotine patches so that she doesn’t vape in the house but also doesn’t suffer too badly from withdrawals
plot twist: the speaker is the jerk in this situation
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2:17 Took his eye off the ball?
Last story: OP is not the jerk, I had friends who would vape or smoke stuff in the bathroom of their own home or go outside because they wanted to be respectful of their non-smoking guests. They didn't make a fuss and it wasn't forced on them either, they just thought it would be a kind thing to do and made the decision themselves.
Also, while I'm not familiar at all with the short or long-term effects of smoking withdrawal, in my opinion once you start worrying about them is when you should know you have an addiction. Like if all you get is a little headache, you can shake that off no problem. But if you get a killer migraine and/or something else every time you don't use the vape, that's when you should know you got a problem.
False their is no problem with smoking just because you don't like it lol
@@JustinAdamson270 I never said a thing about not liking it. I simply pointed out my experience with people who were respectful with their habit. And pointed out if people become worried about experiencing withdrawal they should see a professional about it because they're likely addicted if not on the road to it.
@@Stealth_Saber you can't get addicted to anything addiction doesn't exist it's a mental issue and smoking cigarettes due to stress is no different than people drinking coffee to wake up lol
Wanda and Wanda jr. 💀💀💀💀💀💀
Vape story: just go OUTSIDE if you want to vape! Not hard
On the story about vaping, op your NOT the jerk here, your House YOUR RULES. I have a RULE NO SMOKING IN MY HOUSE, PERIOD. If they don't like the rule then don't come to my Home.
Story 1: bri dissed his wife without realizing it
Last story op said they live on the 5th floor if it was me ill rather get those walks in cuz from yhe sounds of it op sister in the next couple yrs wont be able to
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Last Story youre home youre Rueles. If you wat to Vape just go Outside
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ADHD dump him he's prioritising his family
im from ireland and dublin is wierd
my story my annoying gen z wont stop annoying:me so we hated each other so in grade two my classmate gab is a gen z kid who likes skibidi toilet and mewing and gyat whitch i cant handle i kept on telling him to stop and he wont we now used to be friends and now nemisis he even roasts me and makes me cry he says are you okay and after it wears off he becomes mean to me and becomes cringe again:moral of the story dont be friends with a gen z kid
15:12 As a previous hotel employee I can tell you that reception are trained in a way where they need to know their guests by room number, name and face which are all easily accessible by the computers on station and by surveillance feeds which are available in the back offices of reception. It’s not strange, it’s how we make most guests feel welcomed.
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@@PajamaCatWithRamen MATE HAVE YOU HEARD OF FUN?
@@warriorrealm9864 I AINT USE “NEWEST” I AM FIRST
@@Notsogoodadrawing_kitI saw Joevideos comment as first I have proof
Learn to bloody spell favourite, neighbour etc you often miss the U in many words
He's clearly using the American English spelling of those words. That's why they're 'missing' the 'u'; they're just not THERE in that spelling.