I understand where her mom is coming from tho. People should stop bringing kids into unstable situations. Babies are a blessing but it is important to be prepared and set the kid up with a healthy happy life.
A happy family life can be achieved as well with being a single parent as well. A bit more stressful, but maybe doable. Its ideal to have both partners involve but life doesn't always work out that way.
I mean I get it. Her mom doesn't want her to be a single baby's mother. Look at the estranged relationship Amara had with her own father. I don't get this fascination with rushing to have children before marriage. Not saying that everything always goes right within marriages, I just get where her mom is coming from. She just wants the best for Amara.
I think She said She got pregnant by accident..She didn't plan it! She has her own money and is not in the same situation the Mom was in...maybe the Mom needs counseling 2 get over what happened 2 Her and stop tryna live the life She wanted through Her grownass daughter..that takes care of Her ass! You gotta respect She is not a lil child and Her Mom need to be happy for Her....period..Im disappointed with Her Momma..that's cold!
@@aunttasha6564 I agree!! People underestimate that time do matter. Even with all the advance technology with pregnancy, the younger you are the better. However, we also have to take into consideration financial and emotional maturity factors. She’s stable financially. She appears to be emotionally ready as well to welcome the baby. This really shouldn’t be an issue.
@@aunttasha6564 exactly if anything her mom is selfish, hell amara pays for everything, her Madre even told her while in the Dominican republic look at everything I've done for you blah blah ya she's super selfish
After the dust settles, Amara will be a wonderful mother and her mother will be very supportive. There’s a reason why she’s around, and I am sure that will not stop. 😊
I agree marriages dont always work out either so.....dont get caught up in the false elusions that you can't raise a child alone. Should you, no, but you very well can.
@@vatricegeorge ok but not all the time. She is rich. She can handle it.My mom had less than her and she and I made it.She had to be a single parent.The mother has no damn right to choose if she could keep it or not.Also me,brother and mom has never done drugs and never homeless. Was it hard?yes but we made it without all that. So that doesn't happen in all cases.
Her mom is right. Edit: Just reading she miscarried. I'm sorry for her loss, but on the bright side, God has better plans for her. Not feeling the guy for her. He seems controlling and toxic af. She will hopefully find someone better and then start her family. Nothing like having kids with the WRONG one. Then she'd be tied for life with that burden of a man 😩
Wow 😯 she miscarried??? God does everything for a reason. I would love to see Amara happy pregnant and married anyways…God bless her soul tho I know she’s hurt.
I was thinking this same thing. It sucks to miscarry. It is a different kind of pain to lose your own unborn baby that you never get to hold or to see but at the same time, to not know what may be with a man who acts like he cares one minute then the next minute he doesn't. That's not a life to live. He wanted her to stay in Santo Domingo I get it but a man that really wants a woman he will make sacrifices and not leave it to his woman to make most or all of the sacrifices. God that sucks and I feel so bad for Amara ugh!
My parents felt the same way about my now husband. We moved pretty fast but we're happy and our little one is thriving. She'll be fine. Everyone has ups and downs but you can't tell your parents or friends all the downs because they of course will feel a way about your partner and still will after things blow over. Pick your battles
That's very true! It kills me when people have issues with their partner, and then instead of talking to their partner, they want to run to talk to their friends and family. Even when those people wouldnt know what a healthy, non-toxic relationship was if it jumped out from around a corner, and slapped them upside their head! And then often tell a one-sided version of what is going on, to make it worse! Then, when things are all settled, and good, they wonder why things are strained between their loved ones, and who ever they're with!
Her MOTHER is right regardless of how grown she is. Mother’s like this is needed to many broken homes I’m a mother and not having a stable partner is HELL ok it gets tough. Yes it can be done but why mess up if you don’t have to 🤦🏽♀️ wish her the best tho 💕
Her mum was right up until the part when she said she should of consulted her. She's a grown woman and doesn't need to, Regardless if its a bad decision.
Mom is concerned that Amara is possibly making the same mistakes she did. She knows how it is and she’s trying to protect her. Amara has to fall back and listen.
I feel so identified with this and I'm not even pregnant or have kids. But that's exactly how almost any Latina mother would react if you delivered this news and under Amara's conditions.
Although I was happy for Amara’s pregnancy. What her mom is saying kinda makes sense and would be something any mom would probably say.Although her delivery sounded cold, she wasn’t necessarily wrong. It’s best to have a child when the parents are in a stable relationship. I don’t understand why raising a child in a coparenting relationship is normalized. It’s not the best. Let’s normalize getting married before having children. Say what u will, but I think this is a more stable……. secure situation, than having a child out of wedlock. And knowing Amara’s boyfriend with his controlling antics idk, if this was a good circumstance for her or the baby. It could’ve gotten nasty. But overall a baby is a blessing, so I wish her nothing but the best
@Mazani Cruz you must be a single parent. There’s nothing wrong with what she said or how she said it. Everyone’s goal should be to have a family, not to just have children. A couple should aim to create a foundation before having children. That way the kids won’t be raised in a co-parenting situation. People need to be more mindful of their actions and be more responsible sexually, not normalize broken homes and “healthy co-parenting”. Don’t create a child with someone who you don’t have a solid bond with and married to. Simple.
So what if people get married and then have kids doesn’t mean there going to stay Married. Sometimes co parenting is better if you do it correctly the ideal is always to have two parents under one roof but a child can have stability with parents who are not together .
When you come from single parent homes, you should try to give your kid what you didn't have. I understand her mom, stability is super important. My mother had me young, so she was a single mom and she didn't want me to have to experience the stress she had, I look back and i am glad she wanted better for me!
No. It doesn't work that way. Unfortunately, your desire to replicate some idea of family that you felt that you missed usually backfires. You have to do your own healing first, so that you're actually searching for a partner based off of what you need and a partner rather than what society says you should have in a partner. So if your primary drive is to give your children a two-parent household, you're going to end up picking somebody who presents those things to you but it comes at a high cost. You will allow yourself to be treated poorly because of some image that you created
I see this too. She doesn’t seem like herself rn she’s lost so much weight the confidence is gone she’s just not the same Ik I only see what the tv portrays but I wish her the best
@@saymslee nope she actually lied about being sick. She made a post talking about she lost weight on purpose. This is why I don’t like her anymore. She stays lying.
I Miss Last Season Amara, It's Like She Stood Up For Herself Last Season Went Off On Emjay & This Season Seems Like She Like Bein The Punching Bag Wit Her Allegedly BF Or Ex Or Whatever, If It We're Me I Would've Worked On My Relationship With Emjay, This Season Amara Letting This New Guy Play Her In Front Of The Camera's
It's the fact that her mother has been trying to make her a star for years she's not a child but let's be honest aymara is not a mainstream artist she doesn't have millions of dollars she knew what she was doing
I think her mom was just trynna be realistic about it. Single motherhood is hard and not the ideal choice. Rn Amara is making the choice to be a single mom. Her mother just wanted her to do better and have stability and support. People don’t have to be immediately positive and supportive to care about you, being real is showing love.
@@naomialves3269 are you serious? Because she's making money she will be fine. Children asking for their daddies to be present and be in the familal home can't be fixed with money.
@@vatricegeorge It also can't be fixed with toxic relationships and huge amounts of unhappiness between the two parents, Amara is a stable woman in herself - and with a tribe supporting her, she can successfully raise a child alone.
Exactly and I honestly don't like that mother she's kinda controlling she needs to let her figure it out amara is taking care of her mother and it looks selfish for the mom to act vex you can be disappointed and supportive as a mother
@@naomialves3269 When a mother loves her child she won’t want them to be another baby mama statistic raising a child on their own.. it’s not all about money
She should have stayed in the DR instead of allowing her mother to guilt her into coming back to Miami. Eventually, Amara has to grow up and live her own life. She’s exhausting.
For those that may be confused about the timing of this clip and her announcement, that's how it's done. They tape the show in advance and can't talk about anything that will give the show away before it airs. She was finally able to say it publicly.
Exactly!! My mom was grown, stable, settled, and married and she was still afraid to reveal her pregnancy to the family. I was like giiirl🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ the women in my family never want to reveal their pregnancy because the elders like to push abortion on people and judge people for saying hell no to it.
@@virgoqueen6471 that's awful see elders are quick to judge. And it's never a judgement that's loving kind and caring it's always negative. Times change ppl should live they life. Life is about experiencing things growing and learning. Family love should be unconditional never with conditions. That's the sad part a grown woman. Afraid to say they are expecting babies are blessings never a burden. As a parent you may not have it all. But adjusting and adapting is what you do. Sorry the women in your family have to go through that smfh. It's takes a village and the village should be family. That can give you love understanding and everything in between babies need that.
Yep, hispanic mom's manipulating the ish outta their kids and don't ever see a damn thing wrong with it. Yes, Amara didn't plan it but she supports herself AND Mama. Also, she's old enough to deal with raising a child with or without her partner.
If she doesn't live her life she will be old and alone yes she should have a stable partner but in life nothing is perfect she might get married and things will be good then Boom! divorce. Amara has done well for herself and can take care of a child she doesn't need permission from her mom. Hopefully she grows up and is able to start her own family with a husband and kids.
Don't get me wrong I love Mama Anna but see Mama Anna controls Amara and she doesn't want Allen controlling her she wants to be the only one to do it because Amara takes care of Mama Anna and Papa they are living in her house she's not living in their house and she's a very respectful daughter so Mama Anna need to fall back.
@@antm4762 either way, she has to still deal with pain and needs healing. You have no idea what some girls go through, especially ones that have been raped.
Amara's mother is right, i think she should have consulted her. Not to control her anything, but to ask for guidance. Her mom has been through it and understands the sacrifice to have a child....
That means she has to console her mother on everything that she does in life. There’s just certain things that you don’t need to consult with anybody other than yourself. Because it sounds like to me she’s living for her mama she can’t even live it for herself she’s over here trying to please other people in life but she overhear feeling unhappy.
Awwww amara finally is gonna be a mother wow 😍😍😍😍 congrats boo and i understand where amara is coming from i had to deal with the same thing with my daughter dad .
Well since she is the sole provider for her mother, she can take care of a baby too. She isn’t a teenager she a grown woman. I know her mother want more for her but she shouldn’t say hurtful things to Amara.
Pissed me off. Amara has lived her entire life trying to appease her mother. Setting her up for failure when she longer has her mother and has to think and set boundaries for herself.
Agree she’s always trying to make her mom happy which there is nothing wrong with that but her mom needs to let her be and do her instead of always trying to treat her like a teenager.
@@nikki5674 I agree. I understand both sides. Amara need's to be free to live her life and Her Mother need's to allow her to Grow Up. Even though Amara is in her 30's it's like she is still very youthful in age and behavior. Sometimes their interaction's reminds me of a Teenage Daughter with her Mother. I'm from the Carribbean and I get it. Alot of times Caribbean parents don't know when to let their children be Adults. It's hard to seperate from them and live you're own life. I feel Amara still has issues Adulting, Her Mother knows this and as a result is very overprotective of her.
Her Mother was right about needing a stable partner. However, even if Amara was being pursued by a wealthy, good, emotionally mature man who was going to marry her and they raise the child as a family her Mother would not be happy about that either. Her Mother has said on other occasions that she expects to reap the rewards for sacrificing for Amara i.e. she wants her to stay single and focused on career. Her Mother wants to keep Amara and Amara's money to herself.
I disagree. Her mother just doesn't want Amara to to fail in the same way that she did. I know it comes off a certain way but the moms thought process is closer to the idea that the mom sacrificed so that tomorrow would have a better life and the number one thing she wants is for Amara to have a better life. Anything short of Amara achieving her dream is a failure and it wasn't worth the sacrifice. Low key, she's saying I could have aborted you. I didn't abort you, I sacrifice my life for you, and you are not about to be out here doing dumb shit.
@@ineedhoez I understand she don't want her daughter to fail. But Amara mom did what she had to do to raised Amara and like she said she did her part and she should be happy. Amara is aware of her mom sacrifice but it is Amara life not her mom. That is the problem with some mom that "sacrifice script" we all do; I did give up somethings and sacrifice to at some point but never did I regret doing it for my kids and my kids turn out darn good. Kids or no kids Amara would accomplish what she needs to or want to do in her life. God timing is right not man. Sending lots of love and blessings to Amara and her family and you guys that read this message.
People are clearly misunderstanding when Amaras mom said “You’re on your own” when you have a baby as a mom and dad you can not raise the baby alone with only two people let alone 1 person. You’ll disconnect from each other and you absolutely need breaks from taking care of your baby because it is so hard, I haven’t even had a baby and I know it’s incredibly hard and strenuous on a relationship.
You'd never lose your mom over this ma. She's just being her normal protective self. Having a child is hard. But she hadn't established herself enough. She still struggles in some areas financially. I'm happy for her however, she's always wanted to be a mom. Much luck to her❤️
The mother is absolutely right. I would have said the same to my daughter and ended it with, "the same hole it went in, is the same hole it'll come out." Amara already said her complexion held her back in the industry. Now she has a belly. She'll soon see.
I get it. since I’m on both sides of this conversation, I’m a daughter and a mom but now that I’m seeing it from my mom’s point of you it’s not that she’s disappointed she’s afraid. Afraid her daughter is going to go through the same struggles, even though she has more money than she does the emotional struggle to raise your beautiful child by yourself is hard.
Her mother wasn’t wrong & it’s aggravating that she’s too immature to understand where her mother is coming from ! Who wants to see their child struggle into presumed poverty , especially with a piece of a man !
She did have a stable partner. Her mom did the most to break that up. Amara needs to live her OWN life. In addition to placing boundaries with her mother.
Yea true I mean I see both sides. But she is grown and I understand that’s her only child but how she’s going to grow and have life experiences by being sheltered all the time?
This scene irritated me so much because it is clear she has ZERO boundaries with her mother. Her mother feels entitled to Amara success and life decisions. The fact that Amara felt like she would LOSE her mother because she was pregnant was very telling of how toxic their relationship is.
Stability is whats important and being a single mom makes things harder. Its a two person job period. Just because it can be done by one person dosent mean it should. There isnt a single mom alive that wishes she didnt have a partner to help. The only single moms who say that can't get or keep a man.
I understand what Mamá was trying to say but I think she needs to remember that amara is grown and successful. Amara is fully capable of having a baby and give them a good life (with or without a two parent household). Yes she had a career but we (women) don’t have forever to wait.
Wow. I am soo thankful and grateful for my mom. She supported me through it all. Even when things did not go as planned for me. Babies are a gift from god and to the world , regardless of how they get here. 💕
She's my fave and I want her to win in life. Life has so much to offer her. Mama is protective but take it from someone who lost and is missing her mom (me)...they are right most of the time.
Congrats to her being a first time mom however hopefully when I become a mom I'm in a stable marriage or partnership with my significant other because I ain't tryna be stressed bout being a single mom
@Queen Charli Bee true but iwe all have choices. Most women are single mothers because they had a baby in a unstable or non-long term relationship. People just have babies by someone without even discussing about the relationship itself and seeing if y’all wanna be committed to ONLY each other for life. People will know the man has no intention of long term commitment/ marriage and still have a baby ..
Amara's mom never misses a chance to GUILT TRIP her daughter. I don't know whether to laugh or cry. Perspective grandmothers should be very happy at the news.
Well look at the situation Amara is in. No mother would be happy about Amara getting pregnant in this way. Who is she probably going to want to help her? Her mother. So that's just another burden.
My mom was mad when I told her I was pregnant. This reaction is mild compared to how she reacted. She got angry, she shouted, she cried for two days, extremely sad and disappointed in me for most of my pregnancy and didn't talk to me for 2 days. But I understood coz she must love me that much for her to have such a reaction. And she gave very valid points.
Her Mom literally just wants the best for her. At the end of the day, there are too many single mothers out there all because they didn't tell the baby's father until a certain point in time and things took a turn or because they weren't getting along well. She is just focusing on becoming a Mom because she wants to experience something new in her life because for her, being famous and doing the same old every single day does get boring. But once that kid is born, it's not about her anymore, it's about the kid. And why even have a kid anyways when you'll be doing other things and have someone else taking care of them??? P.S: Just peeped in the comment section that someone said she had a miscarriage...that's terrible news and I honestly feel bad for her but everything happens for a reason and like that person wrote, might be a blessing in disguise 🤷🏾♂️
@@whatfor2002 Mothers end up single because the FAMILY DOES NOT STAY TOGETHER. If every single mother in America could have the chance to stay with the baby's father and make it work and they get along well, every woman would take that opportunity. One person can't raise a child, it takes TWO. Think and stop talking crap out of your ahh.
My mom is like this. Amara is a grown woman and she needs to accept that. Amara is strong enough to get through this challenge with or without the father! She just needs her mother's support! No matter what. I know her mom didn't go through life EXPECTING things to go as planned...
I don’t understand how she wants her moms support but is mad when her mom said she should have consulted her first. I mean, Amara has to decide what it is she needs, bc she’s all over the place. I also agree with the comments below- why with that guy?! It doesn’t seem like a good idea.
Blessings to Amara La Negra. I can understand how she feels, it’s just that babies need serious stability in both parents. Now, it is totally up to her and, the decisions she make are hers. Of course her mother has a right to let her know how she feels but, Amara is the only one who can make final decisions that will effect her life and, if she decides to have a child, it is her decision with whom she wants to be the dad, not moms or, anybody else.💞 Bless Her and, her family.
A lot of people are not “stable” and still managed to be responsible parents who did everything they could to provide and give to their children what they didn’t have. Amara just want to have a career and have a family. There is no such thing as a “perfect” mate/partner and Amara has to live, grow and make her mistakes like all of us no exception. Her being pregnant for this man doesn’t necessarily means it will be drama.
I love you Amira La Negra you truly treat your self like Royalty some artist don’t even live like you.And that’s okay sweetheart your one of a kind Queen.
She’s an adult but I can tell you this having a MAN who is for REAL about you and the LIFE HE created makes it alllooottt easier. #mineare 16&14✊🏾✊🏾👑👑👑 I was married and he LEFT.
I understood how her mom felt about Amara getting pregnant without being in a stable relationship, however, I don’t think Amara has to consult with her mother about having a baby. I think that’s where her mom overdid it. I’m sure Amara doesn’t want her baby in an unstable home but the way Amara is now is not the same as her mother was back then. Even if her mom is not happy with the outcome of Amarás situation, she should support her emotionally.
I was waiting for someone to bring this up! I understand of cos Amara’s mother wants the best for her but her reaction to the news is as if it’s her 16 year old telling her this news. I feel like Amara’s mum is trying to live her life through Amara, it’s getting really suffocating and I understand why Amara runs into the arms of the first man that will have her
@@savosupremacy I agree with you 100%. It seems like she wants to pressure Amara to do what she wants. She has to understand that she’s an adult and her daughter has to learn from her own mistakes and take her own path, otherwise she’ll lose her.
As a mother with daughters I understand where her mom is coming from but as a mother I understand all a daughter want is support and compassion. I had a husband but all the work of raising the babies was still on me. It was still like being a single mother taking care of a grown kid with 2 babies. Young ladies figure out who you are first, be selective of your partner, choose your goals and dreams, use protection at all times. These dudes are screwing any and everyone most don't have the understanding of being a father let alone a husband
Looking at the situation now, her mother was right. He’s out of the picture and she’s raising them alone (for now, from what I can see). God bless her and those beautiful twin babygirls ❤️ she’s going to make a great mommy ❤️❤️
Always. My best friend's mom even guilts me when I say I can't make it for dinner or something. I tell her I have a date & she says bring him! We have plenty. But I love her thou. 🤣🤣🤣
I completely disagree with Amara mom, she is 31 years old. She isn’t a child, if she wants to follow through with her pregnancy that is her choice. The shame/guilt she is projecting on her daughter is horrific.
Some of these comments are wild. I keep reading “ must bring a child in a stable environment” but 98% come from broken homes lol. Amara is stable financially and is well capable to raise a healthy wonderful child. Yes ideally in a perfect world a child is born into a stable couple, financially wealthy, perfect supportive, unicorns and rainbow life 🤣🤣 but we in the real world 🌎 . Congratulate her for the new life she’s creating rather than tear her apart.
And that's why 98% of people are so screwed up. I mean seriously, you're saying the bar is too high so just settle for mediocrity. It's not that hard to find a stable partner before having a baby. If you're not able to achieve that, use birth control. Just because it's the norm doesn't make it right.
She's financially stable but she is not emotionally stable. She seeks out narcissistic men who use her and she will pass those wounds onto her child as well and the cycle will continue
people need to stop having kids without thinking about it first. people also need to stop acting like its “unplanned”, if you have unprotected sex, you’re gonna get pregnant. that’s life. don’t cry about it after.
Dominican mom are like that OMG,, My mom is like that as well... Proud to be Dominican.. Amara don't worries about it she will support and understand you at the end of the day..... Flojala en banda y ella llega solita hahahaha. Los Dominicanos te amamos con el alma, no me le aguante presión a nadie en show arrastra esos cueros si los tiene que arrastrar 🇩🇴🇩🇴🇩🇴🇩🇴🇩🇴❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
NOBODY is addressing the fact that Amara' s mom is controlling ...if anyone gets close to her she runs them off. Could it be because she is worried about nor having Amara and everything she has to herself.
"I already gave birth to you. I raised you, im done." That right there is a message alot of these "mothers" out here need to hear. While her mom could've chose her words better, she made a valid point. Everyone is quick to go to their parents for advice or help then when they don't get what they want they act childish. Your parents owe you nothing!
The whole reality tv dynamic is messed up. They film this stuff and when it airs it's months old already, but they are under contract to not speak about their own lives because they will give away the season. She was forced to be silent.
Amara, listen to Mom. That quote she said about having a stable partner defines EVERYTHING!! Deep down inside your mom is happy BUT she's saying you should've waited until marriage. Now, for Allen, once you tell him he has NO choice to step up. If he doesn't, then he has to pay until the twins are 18. If he does, then he has to focus on the 3 of you!! Period!!
I understand where her mom is coming from tho. People should stop bringing kids into unstable situations. Babies are a blessing but it is important to be prepared and set the kid up with a healthy happy life.
A happy family life can be achieved as well with being a single parent as well. A bit more stressful, but maybe doable. Its ideal to have both partners involve but life doesn't always work out that way.
@@victorochoa6771 it’s doesn’t.
@@aliciarice9617 and with stress comes anger that you are prone to taking out to the people around you
Keep dreaming this is real life.U can only trust and rely on urself 💯
She is already rich so?She is financial stable so she doesn't need partner.
“You have to have a stable partner to raise a child.” There is so much truth in that one line 💯
Yes…and that stable partner is GOD!
@@inthekitchenwithmonique6495 lmao what if you don’t believe in god what then ?
@@inthekitchenwithmonique6495 it’s god ? It’s that what you told your self when your bd left you ?
Bueno no es por juzgar a mama ana pero ella tuvo que pasar por lo mismo
Amen!
I mean I get it. Her mom doesn't want her to be a single baby's mother. Look at the estranged relationship Amara had with her own father. I don't get this fascination with rushing to have children before marriage. Not saying that everything always goes right within marriages, I just get where her mom is coming from. She just wants the best for Amara.
AMEN QUEEN SPEAK THAT REAL TRUTH?! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯💯💯💯💯👑👑👑👑👑🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I think She said She got pregnant by accident..She didn't plan it! She has her own money and is not in the same situation the Mom was in...maybe the Mom needs counseling 2 get over what happened 2 Her and stop tryna live the life She wanted through Her grownass daughter..that takes care of Her ass! You gotta respect She is not a lil child and Her Mom need to be happy for Her....period..Im disappointed with Her Momma..that's cold!
@@aunttasha6564 I agree!! People underestimate that time do matter. Even with all the advance technology with pregnancy, the younger you are the better. However, we also have to take into consideration financial and emotional maturity factors. She’s stable financially. She appears to be emotionally ready as well to welcome the baby. This really shouldn’t be an issue.
Girl you are talking with some sense!!! Society glamorizes having kids but parenthood isn't for the faint of heart
@@aunttasha6564 exactly if anything her mom is selfish, hell amara pays for everything, her Madre even told her while in the Dominican republic look at everything I've done for you blah blah ya she's super selfish
Mama Ana said, "I did my job that's on you". I feel her.
Exactly. Now its her turn to sacrifice her time, energy and life for her child.
Why that guy? That’s my only thing. Like, you are gorgeous, stop getting together with these dusty toxic men. You deserve so much more ❤️
She goes for looks and good looking men are awful!
He's not even good looking
Black women could definitely use some help with giving these toxic men babies, our youth, and our time. And I’m not coming from a place of judgement
Exactlyyyyy
@@davinacarrell2427 lol, sad but real af!
I agree with the mother you need stability before bringing a child into the world🗣💯.
Yes, but it is possible to be single and stable.
@@inthekitchenwithmonique6495 .. See thats the whole point, stop having kids knowing you aren't looking for commitment🗣💯
Exactly 👏🏽👏🏽
Correct buts it's too much stress...
All parents wants a better life for their child or children.
@@rodtherichest right ...cuz they thought they ate
I knew that’s why she wanted to stay… dude trapped her into staying. That’s crazy
And he was so disrespectful to Amaras Mother imagine how he treats her when no one is looking and the negative influence he’ll have on the baby.
@@SamTankko she's actually miscarried now surprisingly
Nobody can trap someone. It’s on both of them. They are equally responsible for the pregnancy.
@@lauriobaptista7210 Aw no 😢
@@lauriobaptista7210 really?
After the dust settles, Amara will be a wonderful mother and her mother will be very supportive. There’s a reason why she’s around, and I am sure that will not stop. 😊
Unfortunately I heard she miscarried
@@michyr.1250 - Oh no! I wasn’t expecting that.
@@michyr.1250 sorry to hear. Everything happens for a reason.
@@Maeve_Puffs right me either
@@Maeve_Puffs Am I wrong for saying that I was 🥴
Amara should want the best for herself. Not settle for being a BM with no guarantee of marriage and a family. In this situation, mama knows best.
Marriage doesn't mean happiness. Sometimes it is better to be single even if children are involved.
I agree marriages dont always work out either so.....dont get caught up in the false elusions that you can't raise a child alone. Should you, no, but you very well can.
@@aliciarice9617 and prisons, homeless shelters and drug rehabs are overwhelming filled with rolls reared in a single parent home.
@@vatricegeorge ok but not all the time. She is rich. She can handle it.My mom had less than her and she and I made it.She had to be a single parent.The mother has no damn right to choose if she could keep it or not.Also me,brother and mom has never done drugs and never homeless. Was it hard?yes but we made it without all that. So that doesn't happen in all cases.
@@vatricegeorge exactly it’s so normalized at this point and it causes so many issues
Her mom is right.
Edit: Just reading she miscarried. I'm sorry for her loss, but on the bright side, God has better plans for her. Not feeling the guy for her. He seems controlling and toxic af. She will hopefully find someone better and then start her family. Nothing like having kids with the WRONG one. Then she'd be tied for life with that burden of a man 😩
Wow 😯 she miscarried??? God does everything for a reason. I would love to see Amara happy pregnant and married anyways…God bless her soul tho I know she’s hurt.
That's sad, I kinda understand where her mother is coming from but Amara is a GROWN WOMEN her life her decision.
I know right. Gods timing is everything. It’s horrible, but she’s not trapped.
Omggggg
I was thinking this same thing. It sucks to miscarry. It is a different kind of pain to lose your own unborn baby that you never get to hold or to see but at the same time, to not know what may be with a man who acts like he cares one minute then the next minute he doesn't. That's not a life to live. He wanted her to stay in Santo Domingo I get it but a man that really wants a woman he will make sacrifices and not leave it to his woman to make most or all of the sacrifices. God that sucks and I feel so bad for Amara ugh!
My parents felt the same way about my now husband. We moved pretty fast but we're happy and our little one is thriving. She'll be fine. Everyone has ups and downs but you can't tell your parents or friends all the downs because they of course will feel a way about your partner and still will after things blow over. Pick your battles
That's very true! It kills me when people have issues with their partner, and then instead of talking to their partner, they want to run to talk to their friends and family. Even when those people wouldnt know what a healthy, non-toxic relationship was if it jumped out from around a corner, and slapped them upside their head! And then often tell a one-sided version of what is going on, to make it worse! Then, when things are all settled, and good, they wonder why things are strained between their loved ones, and who ever they're with!
My thought exactly. They will be fine. Glad you’re Happy and Prospering as well.
That's great to hear!!! I'm childfree. It's way too hard for me. It's not for everyone.
@@aprilkatie6752 yea I was child free for a while. Things change. I have plenty of friends who still don’t want kids but they love my little one.
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She’s pregnant again but with twins! Miracle babies congrats to her congrats 🎉
Her MOTHER is right regardless of how grown she is. Mother’s like this is needed to many broken homes I’m a mother and not having a stable partner is HELL ok it gets tough. Yes it can be done but why mess up if you don’t have to 🤦🏽♀️ wish her the best tho 💕
Her mother is too controlling
That. Why mess up if you don't have too.
Her mum was right up until the part when she said she should of consulted her. She's a grown woman and doesn't need to, Regardless if its a bad decision.
Yeah I thought that was a little weird
@@queenteireigns6212 completely but she has allowed her mum to over step alot
She wasn’t wrong considering she would need to fall back on her mother for support !
@@snake991231 still doesn't mean she has to consult her.
I think she meant to have a talk with her for advice
Mom is concerned that Amara is possibly making the same mistakes she did. She knows how it is and she’s trying to protect her. Amara has to fall back and listen.
I completely agree
No, her mom always has something negative to say it getting annoying
Maybe her mom is upset because she IS NOT MARRIED to this man ..hell they NOT EVEN TOGETHER
Exactly 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Exactly
I feel so identified with this and I'm not even pregnant or have kids. But that's exactly how almost any Latina mother would react if you delivered this news and under Amara's conditions.
It’s not Latinas moms it’s all real moms‼️
@@sapphiremarie1095 right . Definitely not just Latina mothers
Amen
Yes. My mother is Caribbean and she acts like this as well.
Smh don't do it girl don't do it. U have time. Focus on your career
Although I was happy for Amara’s pregnancy. What her mom is saying kinda makes sense and would be something any mom would probably say.Although her delivery sounded cold, she wasn’t necessarily wrong. It’s best to have a child when the parents are in a stable relationship. I don’t understand why raising a child in a coparenting relationship is normalized. It’s not the best. Let’s normalize getting married before having children. Say what u will, but I think this is a more stable……. secure situation, than having a child out of wedlock. And knowing Amara’s boyfriend with his controlling antics idk, if this was a good circumstance for her or the baby. It could’ve gotten nasty. But overall a baby is a blessing, so I wish her nothing but the best
She had a miscarriage, btw
Cut to married Erica and Saffaree...
@Mazani Cruz you must be a single parent. There’s nothing wrong with what she said or how she said it. Everyone’s goal should be to have a family, not to just have children. A couple should aim to create a foundation before having children. That way the kids won’t be raised in a co-parenting situation. People need to be more mindful of their actions and be more responsible sexually, not normalize broken homes and “healthy co-parenting”. Don’t create a child with someone who you don’t have a solid bond with and married to. Simple.
So what if people get married and then have kids doesn’t mean there going to stay Married.
Sometimes co parenting is better if you do it correctly the ideal is always to have two parents under one roof but a child can have stability with parents who are not together .
Her mother dont want her to have to go through what she did. Her mother knows how DR men are so i understand. This is conflicting for me though
When you come from single parent homes, you should try to give your kid what you didn't have. I understand her mom, stability is super important. My mother had me young, so she was a single mom and she didn't want me to have to experience the stress she had, I look back and i am glad she wanted better for me!
No. It doesn't work that way. Unfortunately, your desire to replicate some idea of family that you felt that you missed usually backfires. You have to do your own healing first, so that you're actually searching for a partner based off of what you need and a partner rather than what society says you should have in a partner. So if your primary drive is to give your children a two-parent household, you're going to end up picking somebody who presents those things to you but it comes at a high cost. You will allow yourself to be treated poorly because of some image that you created
So sad to hear that she had a miscarriage, praying for Amara 🙏🏾
Oh no!!! 😨
That’s sad
@Queen Charli Bee yes his weird
That's why she was so thin and everyone was criticizing her. All that time she was going through the loss of a baby.
That's a blessing! She should be a wife before a mother!
What did Amara let happen to herself. Everything about her just seem so different. Like the confidence she had is gone! She is living carelessly.
I think she's led such a structured life for so long that she wanted to break free and let loose but she's doing it the wrong way.
I see this too. She doesn’t seem like herself rn she’s lost so much weight the confidence is gone she’s just not the same Ik I only see what the tv portrays but I wish her the best
@@estheretienne1016 she was sick which led to her losing weight and i mean, with a mother like that, how could you not lose your light.
@@saymslee nope she actually lied about being sick. She made a post talking about she lost weight on purpose. This is why I don’t like her anymore. She stays lying.
I Miss Last Season Amara, It's Like She Stood Up For Herself Last Season Went Off On Emjay & This Season Seems Like She Like Bein The Punching Bag Wit Her Allegedly BF Or Ex Or Whatever, If It We're Me I Would've Worked On My Relationship With Emjay, This Season Amara Letting This New Guy Play Her In Front Of The Camera's
I honestly think that her mom should be more supportive like Amara is a grown woman you can't expect her to be your little baby forever
Her reaction was horrible. “That’s your problem”
It's the fact that her mother has been trying to make her a star for years she's not a child but let's be honest aymara is not a mainstream artist she doesn't have millions of dollars she knew what she was doing
lol her mom being supportive of her own action is babying her.
If she wants her moms support on her decisions that badly, then she should have consulted her mom; point blank.
I think her mom was just trynna be realistic about it. Single motherhood is hard and not the ideal choice. Rn Amara is making the choice to be a single mom. Her mother just wanted her to do better and have stability and support. People don’t have to be immediately positive and supportive to care about you, being real is showing love.
What mom would be proud to see her daughter be a baby mama before she's a wife.
Yeah, I see a lot of dysfunctional people in the comments section
Exactly
The issue is her mom seems more concerned with her not having a baby because of her career. Not because she's not married.
Right.
@@dancemusikk But she's right. Her career is just taking off & pregnancy can put a lot of things on hold or stop them.
Amara is a grown woman, whether her mom knows what she's saying or not. She has to live and learn or she's not a grown adult. Period.
Girl you told the words right out of my mouth !, she is an adult and she making money , she will be fine , all her mom has to do is be supportive .
@@naomialves3269 are you serious? Because she's making money she will be fine. Children asking for their daddies to be present and be in the familal home can't be fixed with money.
@@vatricegeorge It also can't be fixed with toxic relationships and huge amounts of unhappiness between the two parents, Amara is a stable woman in herself - and with a tribe supporting her, she can successfully raise a child alone.
Exactly and I honestly don't like that mother she's kinda controlling she needs to let her figure it out amara is taking care of her mother and it looks selfish for the mom to act vex you can be disappointed and supportive as a mother
@@naomialves3269 When a mother loves her child she won’t want them to be another baby mama statistic raising a child on their own.. it’s not all about money
She should have stayed in the DR instead of allowing her mother to guilt her into coming back to Miami. Eventually, Amara has to grow up and live her own life. She’s exhausting.
Exactly
she was gonna be a BABY MAMA not the mother of his kids or his wife
For those that may be confused about the timing of this clip and her announcement, that's how it's done. They tape the show in advance and can't talk about anything that will give the show away before it airs. She was finally able to say it publicly.
She will be a great mom all she has to do is keep trusting in herself 💝 her mom will come around of course she's upset that means she cares alot!
No grown woman should be scared to say they are expecting a bundle of joy..... 🤷🤷
Exactly!! My mom was grown, stable, settled, and married and she was still afraid to reveal her pregnancy to the family. I was like giiirl🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ the women in my family never want to reveal their pregnancy because the elders like to push abortion on people and judge people for saying hell no to it.
So true. I totally agree with you
@@virgoqueen6471 That's awful, babies are supposed to be kept and in a loving environment
@@virgoqueen6471 that's awful see elders are quick to judge. And it's never a judgement that's loving kind and caring it's always negative. Times change ppl should live they life. Life is about experiencing things growing and learning. Family love should be unconditional never with conditions. That's the sad part a grown woman. Afraid to say they are expecting babies are blessings never a burden. As a parent you may not have it all. But adjusting and adapting is what you do. Sorry the women in your family have to go through that smfh. It's takes a village and the village should be family. That can give you love understanding and everything in between babies need that.
Yes, they should be if they aren't married.
Yep, hispanic mom's manipulating the ish outta their kids and don't ever see a damn thing wrong with it. Yes, Amara didn't plan it but she supports herself AND Mama. Also, she's old enough to deal with raising a child with or without her partner.
If she doesn't live her life she will be old and alone yes she should have a stable partner but in life nothing is perfect she might get married and things will be good then Boom! divorce. Amara has done well for herself and can take care of a child she doesn't need permission from her mom. Hopefully she grows up and is able to start her own family with a husband and kids.
Don't get me wrong I love Mama Anna but see Mama Anna controls Amara and she doesn't want Allen controlling her she wants to be the only one to do it because Amara takes care of Mama Anna and Papa they are living in her house she's not living in their house and she's a very respectful daughter so Mama Anna need to fall back.
Yep I think the mum stressed her out
Crazy how they post this today when she announces that she had a miscarriage 🥺 praying for her healing🙏🏽
Omg Noooo 😭😭😭😭 💔💔 that's just heartbreaking 😭💔♥️
Sounds like an abortion to me
@@antm4762 either way, she has to still deal with pain and needs healing. You have no idea what some girls go through, especially ones that have been raped.
Amara's mother is right, i think she should have consulted her. Not to control her anything, but to ask for guidance. Her mom has been through it and understands the sacrifice to have a child....
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A grown ass woman should consult with her mother on whether or not she should have child… Do you know how ridiculous you sound?
That means she has to console her mother on everything that she does in life. There’s just certain things that you don’t need to consult with anybody other than yourself. Because it sounds like to me she’s living for her mama she can’t even live it for herself she’s over here trying to please other people in life but she overhear feeling unhappy.
@@FamilyGuy770 Amara needs guidance in this situation.
@@fantasyvsreality1013 Guidance is one thing. Demanding that you she should has essentially asked permission is a whole other thing.
you guys, she had a miscarriage. seeing this video and like, digital proof of her pregnancy must be so tough for her, praying for her well-being :(
That’s sooooo sad. Her mom’s prayers are answered. Smhhhhh 😵💫
Awwww amara finally is gonna be a mother wow 😍😍😍😍 congrats boo and i understand where amara is coming from i had to deal with the same thing with my daughter dad .
She just miscarried....
Fr?!?
@@stanley71399 damn 😢 I was happy for her
She announced she had a miscarriage three months ago
Isn't this an old episode?
Well since she is the sole provider for her mother, she can take care of a baby too. She isn’t a teenager she a grown woman. I know her mother want more for her but she shouldn’t say hurtful things to Amara.
EXACTLY!
Pissed me off. Amara has lived her entire life trying to appease her mother. Setting her up for failure when she longer has her mother and has to think and set boundaries for herself.
i feel like her mom puts a lot of pressure on her. I just saw that she a miscarriage, it’s so sad because I really love her.
Agree she’s always trying to make her mom happy which there is nothing wrong with that but her mom needs to let her be and do her instead of always trying to treat her like a teenager.
@@nikki5674 I agree. I understand both sides. Amara need's to be free to live her life and Her Mother need's to allow her to Grow Up. Even though Amara is in her 30's it's like she is still very youthful in age and behavior. Sometimes their interaction's reminds me of a Teenage Daughter with her Mother. I'm from the Carribbean and I get it. Alot of times Caribbean parents don't know when to let their children be Adults. It's hard to seperate from them and live you're own life. I feel Amara still has issues Adulting, Her Mother knows this and as a result is very overprotective of her.
Her Mother was right about needing a stable partner. However, even if Amara was being pursued by a wealthy, good, emotionally mature man who was going to marry her and they raise the child as a family her Mother would not be happy about that either.
Her Mother has said on other occasions that she expects to reap the rewards for sacrificing for Amara i.e. she wants her to stay single and focused on career.
Her Mother wants to keep Amara and Amara's money to herself.
Thank u!! Someone said it!!
@@nianiblair9326 facts
Well said.......it showed on her face at 2:22
I disagree. Her mother just doesn't want Amara to to fail in the same way that she did. I know it comes off a certain way but the moms thought process is closer to the idea that the mom sacrificed so that tomorrow would have a better life and the number one thing she wants is for Amara to have a better life. Anything short of Amara achieving her dream is a failure and it wasn't worth the sacrifice. Low key, she's saying I could have aborted you. I didn't abort you, I sacrifice my life for you, and you are not about to be out here doing dumb shit.
@@ineedhoez I understand she don't want her daughter to fail. But Amara mom did what she had to do to raised Amara and like she said she did her part and she should be happy. Amara is aware of her mom sacrifice but it is Amara life not her mom. That is the problem with some mom that "sacrifice script" we all do; I did give up somethings and sacrifice to at some point but never did I regret doing it for my kids and my kids turn out darn good. Kids or no kids Amara would accomplish what she needs to or want to do in her life. God timing is right not man. Sending lots of love and blessings to Amara and her family and you guys that read this message.
People are clearly misunderstanding when Amaras mom said “You’re on your own” when you have a baby as a mom and dad you can not raise the baby alone with only two people let alone 1 person. You’ll disconnect from each other and you absolutely need breaks from taking care of your baby because it is so hard, I haven’t even had a baby and I know it’s incredibly hard and strenuous on a relationship.
You'd never lose your mom over this ma. She's just being her normal protective self. Having a child is hard. But she hadn't established herself enough. She still struggles in some areas financially. I'm happy for her however, she's always wanted to be a mom. Much luck to her❤️
Aw this is actually really sad 😞
The mother is absolutely right. I would have said the same to my daughter and ended it with, "the same hole it went in, is the same hole it'll come out." Amara already said her complexion held her back in the industry. Now she has a belly. She'll soon see.
This is the raw, unfiltered truth. 💯
Period point blank. Her mum was right with what she said at the end too.
Update: Read from a credible source that she is pregnant with twins. If this is true, her mom is really about to get in her ass lol
I get it. since I’m on both sides of this conversation, I’m a daughter and a mom but now that I’m seeing it from my mom’s point of you it’s not that she’s disappointed she’s afraid. Afraid her daughter is going to go through the same struggles, even though she has more money than she does the emotional struggle to raise your beautiful child by yourself is hard.
Mama was on point with everything she said.
Her mother wasn’t wrong & it’s aggravating that she’s too immature to understand where her mother is coming from !
Who wants to see their child struggle into presumed poverty , especially with a piece of a man !
She did have a stable partner. Her mom did the most to break that up. Amara needs to live her OWN life. In addition to placing boundaries with her mother.
Yea true I mean I see both sides. But she is grown and I understand that’s her only child but how she’s going to grow and have life experiences by being sheltered all the time?
That's not true!
This scene irritated me so much because it is clear she has ZERO boundaries with her mother. Her mother feels entitled to Amara success and life decisions. The fact that Amara felt like she would LOSE her mother because she was pregnant was very telling of how toxic their relationship is.
It's not her mom's job to raise another baby and she knows how unstable the situation is.
That toxic controlling narcissist was a stable partner?
Stability is whats important and being a single mom makes things harder. Its a two person job period. Just because it can be done by one person dosent mean it should. There isnt a single mom alive that wishes she didnt have a partner to help. The only single moms who say that can't get or keep a man.
I understand what Mamá was trying to say but I think she needs to remember that amara is grown and successful. Amara is fully capable of having a baby and give them a good life (with or without a two parent household). Yes she had a career but we (women) don’t have forever to wait.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣that last line sounded so much like what some Nigerian moms would say . " I have raised you and I'm done "🤣
Wow. I am soo thankful and grateful for my mom. She supported me through it all. Even when things did not go as planned for me. Babies are a gift from god and to the world , regardless of how they get here. 💕
Aww sorry to hear about her lose 🙏🏾🙏🏾
2:17 is a MOOD!
Screaming
My daughter's name is Amor btw 💕
I used to watch your videos as a teenager! :)
She's my fave and I want her to win in life. Life has so much to offer her. Mama is protective but take it from someone who lost and is missing her mom (me)...they are right most of the time.
Mom is absolutely right! I birthed you, I raised you, the hard part is done.
Congrats to her being a first time mom however hopefully when I become a mom I'm in a stable marriage or partnership with my significant other because I ain't tryna be stressed bout being a single mom
She lost the baby
@Queen Charli Bee true but iwe all have choices. Most women are single mothers because they had a baby in a unstable or non-long term relationship. People just have babies by someone without even discussing about the relationship itself and seeing if y’all wanna be committed to ONLY each other for life. People will know the man has no intention of long term commitment/ marriage and still have a baby ..
@Wilma Turks Being a mother just may not be God's plan if healthy marriage doesn't come first.
Amara's mom never misses a chance to GUILT TRIP her daughter. I don't know whether to laugh or cry. Perspective grandmothers should be very happy at the news.
Well look at the situation Amara is in. No mother would be happy about Amara getting pregnant in this way. Who is she probably going to want to help her? Her mother. So that's just another burden.
It kills when women be like “I don’t know how to tell him” HE SHOULD KNOW! HE DID IT! wth!!
I love her mom and the relationship they have... Very true to latina moms, they will always be 100% honest. 😍🥰😘
Hearing her mom is like hearing my own Dominican mom. They even wear the same house dresses. 😂
Love how her mom stays forever in rollers 😂
Every time I see her I’m amazed by her beauty. Her in that orange 🥰😍 ugh like a beautiful doll.
“Ya yo te parí, te críe…..olvídate” i love her lol
HER MOTHER IS RIGHT POINT BLANK PERIOD. “This is the part where I drop the mic 🎤 “
My mom was mad when I told her I was pregnant. This reaction is mild compared to how she reacted. She got angry, she shouted, she cried for two days, extremely sad and disappointed in me for most of my pregnancy and didn't talk to me for 2 days. But I understood coz she must love me that much for her to have such a reaction. And she gave very valid points.
She just announced she had a miscarriage ☹
She would have been an AMAZING mom 🙏🏾
@@thatgirlPAIGE94 Her time will come.
Oh no!
Kinda messed up that they posted the video right after she just announced on her IG that she had a miscarriage
Wow, that's dirty.
Her Mom literally just wants the best for her. At the end of the day, there are too many single mothers out there all because they didn't tell the baby's father until a certain point in time and things took a turn or because they weren't getting along well. She is just focusing on becoming a Mom because she wants to experience something new in her life because for her, being famous and doing the same old every single day does get boring. But once that kid is born, it's not about her anymore, it's about the kid. And why even have a kid anyways when you'll be doing other things and have someone else taking care of them???
P.S: Just peeped in the comment section that someone said she had a miscarriage...that's terrible news and I honestly feel bad for her but everything happens for a reason and like that person wrote, might be a blessing in disguise 🤷🏾♂️
That's LITERALLY NOT why there are single mothers. Smh
@@whatfor2002 Mothers end up single because the FAMILY DOES NOT STAY TOGETHER. If every single mother in America could have the chance to stay with the baby's father and make it work and they get along well, every woman would take that opportunity. One person can't raise a child, it takes TWO. Think and stop talking crap out of your ahh.
@@user-ec2by3zf3w she didn't say this was the reason for all single mothers
@@MsBossy2UBustas 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
I love her weight loss. She really looks good
No she doesn’t. Weight loss makes her look bad.
Amara qué hermosa eres!!digna representación de una afro latina!
Muchos éxitos para ti you deserve all the best!
My mom is like this. Amara is a grown woman and she needs to accept that. Amara is strong enough to get through this challenge with or without the father! She just needs her mother's support! No matter what. I know her mom didn't go through life EXPECTING things to go as planned...
You don't support your children no matter what. If your kid is out there doing dumb stuff, you don't enable their silly Behavior
I don’t understand how she wants her moms support but is mad when her mom said she should have consulted her first. I mean, Amara has to decide what it is she needs, bc she’s all over the place. I also agree with the comments below- why with that guy?! It doesn’t seem like a good idea.
Now that's a EXOTIC women!. Let's finally get these facts straight 💯💯👏🏾
The way her mom walked off is something my mom would do lol
Congratulations Amara and Alan
You haven’t seen her ig? She had a miscarriage.
I'm so happy for Amara! Her mama gotta chill.... she's a grown ass woman & she's ready for kids! Congrats Queen
She's not ready for kids when the baby father doesn't even know, and he doesn't want her to leave in the states
I honestly understand her mom. A stable relationship and partner is key to having a happy motherhood cos u will be stuck to that person For life.
God help me but I agree with her mom. She loves her and wants the best for her. She is a good mom.
Lol I love her mom. She say"I had you,I raised you my job is done.
2 years later and she’s a single mother just like Mamí
Blessings to Amara La Negra. I can understand how she feels, it’s just that babies need serious stability in both parents. Now, it is totally up to her and, the decisions she make are hers. Of course her mother has a right to let her know how she feels but, Amara is the only one who can make final decisions that will effect her life and, if she decides to have a child, it is her decision with whom she wants to be the dad, not moms or, anybody else.💞 Bless Her and, her family.
A lot of people are not “stable” and still managed to be responsible parents who did everything they could to provide and give to their children what they didn’t have.
Amara just want to have a career and have a family. There is no such thing as a “perfect” mate/partner and Amara has to live, grow and make her mistakes like all of us no exception. Her being pregnant for this man doesn’t necessarily means it will be drama.
So what? You should still be married. Y’all are so used to dysfunction it’s pathetic!
Never seen a mother so upset about her grown, successful daughter being pregnant
Amara is the money, explains it all, she takes care her mom and dad
Exactly
She maybe successful but she's not stable. Music isn't a stable career
If you know the man she got pregnant for, you would understand where the mum was coming from.
@@MsViciousBaby exactly
I love you Amira La Negra you truly treat your self like Royalty some artist don’t even live like you.And that’s okay sweetheart your one of a kind Queen.
She’s an adult but I can tell you this having a MAN who is for REAL about you and the LIFE HE created makes it alllooottt easier. #mineare 16&14✊🏾✊🏾👑👑👑 I was married and he LEFT.
Mama thug life she said I raised you I ain't having no more babies 🤣🤣🤣🤣
The mother is 💯 right . And she knows best
I understood how her mom felt about Amara getting pregnant without being in a stable relationship, however, I don’t think Amara has to consult with her mother about having a baby. I think that’s where her mom overdid it. I’m sure Amara doesn’t want her baby in an unstable home but the way Amara is now is not the same as her mother was back then. Even if her mom is not happy with the outcome of Amarás situation, she should support her emotionally.
I was waiting for someone to bring this up! I understand of cos Amara’s mother wants the best for her but her reaction to the news is as if it’s her 16 year old telling her this news.
I feel like Amara’s mum is trying to live her life through Amara, it’s getting really suffocating and I understand why Amara runs into the arms of the first man that will have her
@@savosupremacy I agree with you 100%. It seems like she wants to pressure Amara to do what she wants. She has to understand that she’s an adult and her daughter has to learn from her own mistakes and take her own path, otherwise she’ll lose her.
As a mother with daughters I understand where her mom is coming from but as a mother I understand all a daughter want is support and compassion. I had a husband but all the work of raising the babies was still on me. It was still like being a single mother taking care of a grown kid with 2 babies. Young ladies figure out who you are first, be selective of your partner, choose your goals and dreams, use protection at all times. These dudes are screwing any and everyone most don't have the understanding of being a father let alone a husband
Looking at the situation now, her mother was right. He’s out of the picture and she’s raising them alone (for now, from what I can see). God bless her and those beautiful twin babygirls ❤️ she’s going to make a great mommy ❤️❤️
I swear dominican moms always be guilt tripping you. My mom does the same exact thing. " Haz lo que tu quiera no es mi problema
Always. My best friend's mom even guilts me when I say I can't make it for dinner or something. I tell her I have a date & she says bring him! We have plenty. But I love her thou. 🤣🤣🤣
I completely disagree with Amara mom, she is 31 years old. She isn’t a child, if she wants to follow through with her pregnancy that is her choice. The shame/guilt she is projecting on her daughter is horrific.
Agreed
Some of these comments are wild. I keep reading “ must bring a child in a stable environment” but 98% come from broken homes lol. Amara is stable financially and is well capable to raise a healthy wonderful child. Yes ideally in a perfect world a child is born into a stable couple, financially wealthy, perfect supportive, unicorns and rainbow life 🤣🤣 but we in the real world 🌎 . Congratulate her for the new life she’s creating rather than tear her apart.
Agreed 💯 percent 🗣!
No excuse to create more broken homes/people what kind of logic is that? Lmaooo
And that's why 98% of people are so screwed up. I mean seriously, you're saying the bar is too high so just settle for mediocrity. It's not that hard to find a stable partner before having a baby. If you're not able to achieve that, use birth control. Just because it's the norm doesn't make it right.
@@belladonna5904 big facts!
She's financially stable but she is not emotionally stable. She seeks out narcissistic men who use her and she will pass those wounds onto her child as well and the cycle will continue
people need to stop having kids without thinking about it first. people also need to stop acting like its “unplanned”, if you have unprotected sex, you’re gonna get pregnant. that’s life. don’t cry about it after.
Congratulations having a child is a BLESSING!! ❣️❣️
Dominican mom are like that OMG,, My mom is like that as well... Proud to be Dominican.. Amara don't worries about it she will support and understand you at the end of the day..... Flojala en banda y ella llega solita hahahaha. Los Dominicanos te amamos con el alma, no me le aguante presión a nadie en show arrastra esos cueros si los tiene que arrastrar 🇩🇴🇩🇴🇩🇴🇩🇴🇩🇴❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Listen and humble yourself . At the end , it’s not the child’s fault . Blessings Amara and the fam. Sit in it , accept it and move on .
NOBODY is addressing the fact that Amara' s mom is controlling ...if anyone gets close to her she runs them off. Could it be because she is worried about nor having Amara and everything she has to herself.
YEP
So happy she's expecting! Everything will be fine with her mom ❤
"I already gave birth to you. I raised you, im done." That right there is a message alot of these "mothers" out here need to hear. While her mom could've chose her words better, she made a valid point. Everyone is quick to go to their parents for advice or help then when they don't get what they want they act childish. Your parents owe you nothing!
Honestly, why would vh1 post this right after Amara announced she suffered a miscarriage ? verrryyyyyyy insensitive
The whole reality tv dynamic is messed up. They film this stuff and when it airs it's months old already, but they are under contract to not speak about their own lives because they will give away the season. She was forced to be silent.
She deserves a child and a husband hopefully she will a stable family bless
Amara, listen to Mom. That quote she said about having a stable partner defines EVERYTHING!! Deep down inside your mom is happy BUT she's saying you should've waited until marriage.
Now, for Allen, once you tell him he has NO choice to step up. If he doesn't, then he has to pay until the twins are 18. If he does, then he has to focus on the 3 of you!! Period!!