Black women HATE their hair | It's not that simple!
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- Опубликовано: 21 июл 2024
- Do black women really hate their hair or is there more to it than that?
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I hate that some “black” women” have self hate. Idgaf who don’t accept me, im me. My natural hair is here to stay.
I love your confidence! I think it’s not always that easy depending on past experiences but we should all feel this way.
@@benitakay Truth.
Yes!!! I am who I am!!!
@@benitakayIt can be, you just have to stop seeking validation from others.
@@benitakay i understand the assimilation thing but black ppl hated on blue ivy hair,solange weding fro hair,gabby douglas
I love MY natural hair. Speak for yourselves.
I love my natural hair too now- everyone’s experience is different. I’m happy you feel that way 🙂
Factsss
Period
I am not black. But I remember seeing a video of a tall black woman with super chocolate silky shiny skin and her hair, she was rocking an afro, a big one too. I was so mesmerized by her. I was like “My Goodness that woman right there is immaculate.” ✨
Thanks for sharing that 🥰
Don't hate nothing that is a part of me, embrace every cell, tissue, anatomical system. hugs&love, peace&soul.
I hate my hair some days but i live with it
Me too but its what god gave us..i do wear my wigs in the winter..to keep my hair hidden and im protecting it x
I love my natural hair. It is not soft, or wavy but wiry and strong. It is beautifully my crown.
All black don't hate their natural hate. It amazing me that so many people are concerned about us. We try really hard to mind our own business, and I wish other people would do the same. Stop speaking for our race because no of us think the way you do about us. I have always loved my hair, have never been ashamed, or hated my hair. It's so versatile 😍 ❤
Amen hun...but they want our butts lips which it looks stupid on there face don't look natrual..
She’s black herself 👀
No no. I grew up in Nigeria. When I choose to where my Afro hair without doing anything to I get judged. Especially if it is in it shrunken state. People expect me to get my hair done. Which discouraged me from embracing my hair more.
You said a lot of things I agree with. I appreciate you giving insight towards the day to day struggles we face as black people.
All the best.
Thanks for sharing your experience, I’ve never been to naija so it’s good to see the difference- I should specify South Africa next time 😄. Thanks for your support xx
Thats why black people need to learn to love themselves and not apologise!!!
I agree with you, things happen and as a result, it makes us want to cover our hair.
We have so much residue from childhood experience and comments about our hair. I’m a beautiful 63 and my mom used relaxer’s on my thick 4c hair starting at a very early age. I did the big chop during the pandemic and have struggled a bit with styles that make me feel and look my best. Self love for my natural hair and confidence is what I continue to practice on my daily journey. I feel so free in my natural hair, I feel so much lighter now that my wig has been removed. I work in corporate America and I’ve noticed a slight shift in things. More young people are entering the job market wearing their natural hair. When we have self love and confidence in ourselves we SHINE BRIGHTLY and others take notice. Continue holding your head high and walk in confidence knowing you are beautiful from head to toe. Enjoy your journey ❤ Blessings to you.
Looking beautiful with natural hair❤
Thank you 😊
Finally someone who adresses the issue without jugding
I’m glad you liked the video, thanks for watching 🙂
Yes because everyone does not factor the colonisation, the assimilation expected from black students and corporate place.
Amazing video 💕 I love the points you made. Especially when people stare lol they do not do it discreetly, it’s annoying tbh.
@@UnCommentaryBri 😄😄thank you, I’m glad you liked the video. Thanks for watching 🌸
I ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ LOVE MY NATURAL HAIR. I wouldn't trade it for straight hair EVER!
Body & volume 4 days!
🔥🔥I agree with you. Our hair is beautiful!
In my opinion, I believe black men of the African Diaspora hate type 4 hair unless a mixed or light-skinned black women wears it.
I think that we are our most beautiful when we wear our hair naturally, locked, in braids. I wish we didn't wear other peoples waste on our heads. Yes, hair is considered as waste.
I agree with you 100%
Before the 2010s, I wore no weave/wigs.. mean the 80s,90s as well.. but since the 2010s it was not acceptable in corporate America where I live. I got locs two years ago and have 4c and I like them.. but still ppl still look at me differently. Esp blk ppl- it makes me uncomfortable in this world no matter where I go 😢
It’s sad that people still look at locs negatively especially in the black communities. I think they are beautiful and have such a deep meaning. I commend you for continuing to wear them, don’t mind those people ❤️
We natural girls are here stay ,get over it.we are beautiful and rocking our own natural hair .I don't care if you expect me or not who cares.God said come out from among them and be separate, and that's just what I'm doing. If you're comfortable in your skin then it wouldn't matter what Noone say. Who cares 😴do you.
I don’t like my 4c hair ..
Why not?
@@benitakayfor me it’s bc it’s not long yet and when it’s short I feel like I don’t look as pretty :( but I’m allowing myself to wear it out everyday for a year and learning to love it
@@Yayanana60 I can relate to you, I recently cut my relax ends off and I didn’t feel comfortable with the length for some time. I like that you’re challenging yourself for a year!
Yall are too obsessed with hair! Focus on something else. Ladies don't let anyone bully you on how you choose to wear your hair.
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Black women in American they so lost 😂😂😂😂😂snowbunny for life 🤣🤣😅🤣🤣
Why can't you say the word some instead of generalizing?
I tried my best to not generalize, but thanks for pointing it out. I will work on that in future
It's a given NOT ALL sifelani 🙆🏽♀️
No nuance nellies