ASMR - Life Update/Whisper Ramble | Apartment Search, Holidays, etc

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  • Опубликовано: 8 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 172

  • @dyllannedeischer4758
    @dyllannedeischer4758 3 года назад +61

    Totally can relate to your home situation. I am 27 and I put in offers on 7 houses/condos before I finally got my house. My heart was crushed when I didn't get house #5, I was in love, I knew it was meant to be my house. BUT my house now is literally a dream come true and even better than all the others. What is meant for you will come to you!!

  • @RachASMR
    @RachASMR 3 года назад +37

    I’ve waited in anticipation for this one! Thanks for sharing so much of your life with us. I appreciate when other creators do that.

    • @juliaparreiras9012
      @juliaparreiras9012 2 года назад

      Please, make a video together! I just love you two and the asmrartists you are! ❤️ It would be a dream for me

  • @HaleyJeanASMR
    @HaleyJeanASMR 3 года назад +19

    apartment hunting, especially during the holidays, is the WORST! also this co-op sounds super shitty anyways. blessings that you didn't end up being connected to them in any way. sending you lots of love and positive energy that you eventually find the perfect place!

  • @MrKgbronx12
    @MrKgbronx12 3 года назад +41

    I like that quote: “God’s rejection is just a redirection.”

  • @sandrayoung336
    @sandrayoung336 3 года назад +41

    Aww Samantha! I’m so so sorry to hear this!! Life just sucks sometimes!! Just look at this this way, there is something better around the corner! Xx sending hugs 🤗

  • @amandaxo_
    @amandaxo_ 3 года назад +8

    I’m 25 as well, I will be looking for my own place soon so I’ve been looking fwd to this video. I want to say, this stressed me out but also made me realize things really do happen for a reason. God’s timing is always right. I’m sending you prayers and support.

  • @eveeb7
    @eveeb7 3 года назад +48

    Honestly you dodged a bullet- if the board is that horrible imagine living there! I’m sorry that this happened to you Sam- on to bigger and better things!

  • @lerrato6027
    @lerrato6027 3 года назад +18

    You should do a Spotify Wrapped video when it comes out!

  • @stevetrevor2633
    @stevetrevor2633 3 года назад +3

    listening to Soft ASMR while sippin Lean is my favourite hobby 🧴🥤🧘‍♂️

  • @noemie-990
    @noemie-990 3 года назад +18

    I understand how it could be hard to put your energy in something and be frustated at the end. Have some rest and never give-up bc I'm sure you will find better 🤍

  • @leslieherring5835
    @leslieherring5835 3 года назад +15

    I searched for houses for a year before landing the right one. And I, lust like you, got emotionally attached to all the ones I lost. I was visualizing my furniture and how I would decorate. I learned very quickly not to do that! Just know that when you find the one that's meant for you, no one will be able to take it away from you. It's their loss, not yours. They probably would have made you life miserable anyway. Good luck with your search and try to have fun with it! 😊

  • @clearbleuskya5556
    @clearbleuskya5556 3 года назад +5

    Don’t give up. I bought my first home eight years ago because, like you, I saw that I could pay less than I was paying for rent. I took a first time homebuyer’s course, read books, and none of it prepared me for the stress of buying a home. I had to learn by just going through the process. I’m positive you’ll find the home that’s just right for you soon.

  • @carolinadelgado2168
    @carolinadelgado2168 3 года назад +6

    Don’t give up!!! Your home is waiting for you.
    Also statistically houses sell much lower during December because everyone is worried about the holidays.

  • @02rennisonc
    @02rennisonc 3 года назад +9

    Sorry to hear this Sam! Sending positive vibes for your next place x

  • @Leoluca_Randisi
    @Leoluca_Randisi 3 года назад +4

    Sam thank you for a life update I love these life ramble talk updates there really relaxing!

  • @AliGASMR
    @AliGASMR 3 года назад +11

    so pleased you have posted i can’t wait to watch the full thing🥰

  • @rachaelwainwright2646
    @rachaelwainwright2646 3 года назад +20

    The sound on this video was STUNNING. I mean it's always great but.....

  • @emily2013k
    @emily2013k 3 года назад +1

    Ugh Sam I totally understand what you're going through!! Buying is one of the most frustrating things to go through. My husband and I were searching for our first home (both 25yrs old) and it took over a year to finally get one. We got attached to several, made offers, was heartbroken time and time again! Trust when I say, things happen for a reason and when you finally find your home, it will be 100% worth the wait!

  • @rebeccamcgill843
    @rebeccamcgill843 3 года назад +4

    Aww Sam I’m absolutely devastated for you, I could see your disappointment when you were talking about and if anything surely your age should be a plus… your incredibly financially stable and clearly responsible enough to go through all of this process in the first place, how frustrating for you, I’ll pray that the place you do get will be the place meant for you and it’ll all be worth it in the end xx

  • @khloesilverado
    @khloesilverado 2 года назад

    i got through 3 not so great inspections on houses, so i understand how disappointing it can be, especially since the rental market is even worse cost-wise. i was so attached to my last one because it was everything i wanted. just a sign for me to stop the search for now & hopefully start again next year. you will definitely find something when it’s meant to be!

  • @martinamcgrath
    @martinamcgrath 3 года назад +2

    I love the phrase 'what's for you won't pass you'. Hopefully the next place will be perfect X

  • @Lenari_Reigh
    @Lenari_Reigh 3 года назад +29

    Age shouldn’t be a factor when trying to purchase anything. As long as you can afford it that should be everything. I’m sure you’ll find something better down the road. I’d advise you look into other fashions of owning your first place but since I don’t know your personal all I’ll say is keep an open mind as to what your first place will be!

  • @christopherlancaster7180
    @christopherlancaster7180 3 года назад +13

    They reckon moving is one of the most stressful things you can do. Sorry it didn’t work out for you this time Sam. The next apartment will be even better.

  • @windee_9240
    @windee_9240 3 года назад

    So sorry you had to go through all of that Sam . But you’ll see at the end of the day when you’re sitting in your new place with a huge smile on your face this will all make sense . Sending you a hug hug girly

  • @kevinrobles3600
    @kevinrobles3600 2 года назад

    My respects to you for being calm and collected In these situations it can get very down but you have a strong mentality ! Proud of you

  • @treriley3810
    @treriley3810 3 года назад

    I feel like you’re one of few content creators who are able to be vulnerable with your viewers and that’s what makes you so appealing and genuine as a person. Not many people would be honest like this because it’s always the “W’s” that are shown/talked about and never the “L’s.” So In that case, thanks for sharing but also so sorry to hear about the whole apartment thing. It will all work out eventually but just not right now and that’s fine. Wishing you the best moving forward 🙏🏼 God bless 👍🏼

  • @daniellacain3444
    @daniellacain3444 3 года назад

    Iv lost houses and its upsetting but looking back it was all meant to be so just take that comfort something better is around the corner!

  • @king_ferdinand4496
    @king_ferdinand4496 3 года назад +6

    Needed this since I was stressed out all day 😀

  • @Cardinalkid98
    @Cardinalkid98 3 года назад

    I’m so sad this happened to you Sam! Praying that you find an even better situation soon ❤️

  • @analicollari2108
    @analicollari2108 2 года назад

    My mom is a real estate agent, in fact she owns her own company, and I am currently looking for my 1st apartment. The entire time we were searching she was warning me about co-ops. This video really solidified that for me!

  • @christinebraun9610
    @christinebraun9610 3 года назад +34

    Don’t think of it as time wasted. Think of it as time spent learning.

  • @asmrliana
    @asmrliana 3 года назад

    I’m so sorry this happened🥺
    I didn’t know how stressful that process is… and I really admire your choice to buy and not rent!!
    I hope you have a lovely holiday season❤️💚

  • @JenSF580
    @JenSF580 3 года назад

    Hang in there Samantha! When we moved from Cali to Colorado we put in offers for more than 5 houses that were all outbid. I was so frustrated as we were desperately trying to find our forever home and temporarily living in a ONE bedroom home sleeping on blow up mattresses (family of 4). I got so frustrated and just started scouring the Internet for all homes and came across the house we got- it was even better than ALL the other houses we “loved”. I walked in and immediately fell in love and was SO relieved all the other houses fell through. I truly believe things happen for a reason and your dream apartment is waiting for you. Hugs your way…..

  • @jimb0072
    @jimb0072 3 года назад

    You one of the best most relaxing channels, thank you. 🙏

  • @ilovefood45779
    @ilovefood45779 3 года назад

    I’m 21 and live at home, and when I move out (if I ever do), this video just makes me more overwhelmed like damn

  • @liliabarron5042
    @liliabarron5042 3 года назад

    Wishing you all the best Sam, I hope you find the right apartment that fits your interest ❤️

  • @kimberlyjohnson7254
    @kimberlyjohnson7254 3 года назад

    I'm sorry to hear about your home buying experience. Yes, getting attached is easy to do the first time out. No worries, you're wiser for the next home purchase experience in your glorious future Sam. 😊🥰

  • @zelly855
    @zelly855 3 года назад +39

    If you're so young and buying a apartment, that's impressive. Why do they want to reject a young stable financed person due to their age

  • @tamz4127
    @tamz4127 3 года назад

    You will for sure find somewhere even more suited for yourself hun. 💗

  • @ThatManNamedAustin.
    @ThatManNamedAustin. 3 года назад

    hope your situation works out fine! have a good day/night now!

  • @comrade.phoenix1109
    @comrade.phoenix1109 2 года назад

    I'm also apartment hunting rn, it's really frustrating seeing so many amazing apartments go and some landlords have been very rude, because the demand is so high.

  • @ArtsyrissaAsmr
    @ArtsyrissaAsmr 3 года назад +6

    I might sound stupid rn but I didn’t even know you could buy individual apartments. Maybe it’s just not a thing where I live idk 🤷‍♀️
    What a rip off! I’m sorry people suck. Best of luck to you, you’ll find the place right for you! 😘

  • @bethystyles
    @bethystyles 3 года назад +1

    I'm sorry to hear this! Your dream place is right around the corner!

  • @bethlscholes
    @bethlscholes 3 года назад

    I cannot believe how hard it is to buy a house in the US! UK subscriber here 🤗 and this has surprised me so much! Everything happens for a reason and good things will come as you are a fantastic person! X

  • @TinyCricket89
    @TinyCricket89 3 года назад

    Woo hoo I’ve been waiting for your update! I promise this isn’t as weird as it sounds but I enjoy listening to these while I do chores around my house. It feels like I’m listening to a friend and makes the cleaning go faster😄

  • @TinyCricket89
    @TinyCricket89 3 года назад

    I’m sorry you went through this experience, how frustrating and annoying to have spent so much time and energy invested in something you worked hard for. Your attitude towards it is very mature and I guarantee that someday you’ll look back on this and say you’re actually glad it happened because it led to something even better. I’ve been watching your videos for years and I’ve always gotten the impression that you’re a sensible girl with a strong head on her shoulders and it’s too bad that your age is what may have affected the outcome. I’m not much older than you but as I’ve gotten older myself I’ve learned that age doesn’t indicate maturity. At all. There are people in their 50’s that aren’t as reasonable and hardworking as you. I’m sure it look a lot to share this with us but we support you and wish you luck on your next endeavor!💛

  • @keithgaskins7895
    @keithgaskins7895 2 года назад

    Hi how are you doing i still love your relaxing sounding whispering videos your voice sound so relaxing i love listening to you whisper

  • @Ljenn_86
    @Ljenn_86 3 года назад

    Oh Sam 💔😭. So sorry it didn’t work out this time girl. The whole process sounds exhausting. Hey you’ll find something you’ll love eventually and this will all have been worth it in the end 💖💖💖.

  • @jarubenjones4551
    @jarubenjones4551 3 года назад

    You are more advanced than alot of young people, your on point.

  • @swingnamiss8130
    @swingnamiss8130 3 года назад

    Nice! Glad everything is coming together!

  • @rosevalenzuela8983
    @rosevalenzuela8983 2 года назад

    Not me trying to adopt your mentally towards losing your apartment to my breakup. Funny how it works. I didn’t know I needed this video today.

  • @meatlover3248
    @meatlover3248 3 года назад

    damn sorry sam about that whole situation its really unfortunate when shit like that happens i hate when they use the age excuse and hey take the time off and just enjoy not having that apartment stress and when you feel ready again hopefully it all goes well and you got this

  • @modestguy2972
    @modestguy2972 3 года назад +1

    Sorry to hear the news, I hope things get better!

  • @abigailchautems6277
    @abigailchautems6277 3 года назад +1

    Sorry if I ask a dumb question as we don’t have this kind of process where I live (Canada) when buying a condo you need to have board interviews, but is there no condo’s for sale that does not require a board interview? I find people on any type of board to just be power hungry!!

  • @Chelseakatemusic
    @Chelseakatemusic 3 года назад

    Something even better is on the way. What's meant to be will always find a way 😀 no rush, enjoy being mortgage free while you can x

  • @christi_w
    @christi_w 3 года назад +2

    so sad you didn't get the apartment! i'm also so confused as to why it took so long to close! in california, it's typically a 30 day close that's preferred. how frustrating!!

    • @softasmr
      @softasmr  3 года назад

      They estimated it’d be a 90 day process. So annoying

    • @christi_w
      @christi_w 3 года назад

      @@softasmr what is a co op? i'm so curious about that! is it like an HOA?

  • @matthewrivas7832
    @matthewrivas7832 3 года назад

    Feel your pain, definitely a Sellers market rn, wanted to buy a house and putting in offered they wanted $2,000-$5,000 for due diligence fees, few hundred for application fees, covering closing costs, appraisals, housing inspection all just for being interested lol. I decided I’m going to wait another year or two see where the market is, I wasn’t willing to lose almost 10k JUST for looking into a house I may not even be able to buy if it fails inspection or I decide I don’t want that one after all.

  • @cloelivermore
    @cloelivermore 3 года назад

    That’s so strange! I live in the UK and I’ve just purchased my first home (on my own) at the age of 27 with no issues! I bought a two bedroom house, I have a decent wage from my job and it went through smoothly!

  • @stephaniebjonnes7083
    @stephaniebjonnes7083 3 года назад

    Just lost a house today myself. Underwriting is very intense and can end in heartbreak. It is an intense process. Take time enjoy the Holidays and start fresh in the new year.

  • @hannahyoung8357
    @hannahyoung8357 3 года назад +2

    Hey the arrow has to be pulled back before it goes forward., right? Keep up that unhindered faith and remember that you’re being propelled into nothing but a positive direction. Can’’t wait to see what the future brings for you Queen. 💯

  • @AsmrByDozy
    @AsmrByDozy 3 года назад

    you should definitely look at apartments hiring the winter season, it's a lot less competitive

  • @AsmrByDozy
    @AsmrByDozy 3 года назад +1

    Im sorry Sam! that really sucks, I hope what you want comes your way very soon!

  • @Makeupbyrach18
    @Makeupbyrach18 3 года назад

    So sorry to hear about the apartment. I find it so strange how it works in the states but I'm guessing it's like a condo? I bought a condo but didn't have to be accepted by the board but now I'm regretting it. The sell prices have gone down and ppl are getting less and less for asking price and we've had to throw so much money into this place with elevators breaking down and now a boiler replacement. Over 6k because they don't know how to manage our reserve fund properly. Maybe it's a blessing in disguise! You'll find the perfect place for you!

  • @Autorelaxx
    @Autorelaxx 3 года назад

    As another relaxation channel, I can say that this channel is amazing, deep relaxation is guaranteed.

  • @FdupTV
    @FdupTV 3 года назад

    That sucks! I'm sorry to hear that you went through all that. The housing market is insane right now. I have a friend who paid $400k for a house that was initially listed for $300k. He was outbid so many times it kept driving the price up, and he's just stubborn and refused to concede. His mortgage is a lot more than my rent, though. And yeah, TV is definitely not the field to get into if you want weekends and holidays off 😞

  • @Only1Charnelle
    @Only1Charnelle 3 года назад

    What do you mean by buying an apartment? (I’m not being funny) i thought apartments could only be rented and then condos & houses could be bought?

  • @bobbrown3471
    @bobbrown3471 3 года назад +2

    Wow that’s so annoying they didn’t let you get the apartment, hope u find somewhere similar or better ❤️

  • @boineelogracemogapaesi9564
    @boineelogracemogapaesi9564 3 года назад

    I’m sorry Sam! It’s not really time wasted, it was a learning experience and pray about it and move on. At the right time you will get the PERFECT 1… keep trying .. no giving up💕

  • @FleurDeLysASMR
    @FleurDeLysASMR 3 года назад

    sooooo relaxing and cozy 😍💤❤️

  • @abumokh-3660
    @abumokh-3660 3 года назад +2

    Omg perfect timing i was going to😴 🛌

  • @sheldondinkleberg4181
    @sheldondinkleberg4181 3 года назад

    wow, your hair is beautiful

  • @dawnedwards8905
    @dawnedwards8905 3 года назад

    Hi Sam. Sorry for what happened to you. I don't know if,anyone has ever said this before but once a realtor told me not to buy a Co-Op because you really own a share of the building but whatever works for you. If you wanted to I would say look into a Condo where there may not be board approval involved(I own one and only renters have to go through that). Good luck your search! Availability is tough out there!

  • @StevenWitpas
    @StevenWitpas 3 года назад +1

    Well that sucks... And I think you are totally correct. You should not have to beg. Something else will come along. Good luck!

  • @nolamom7855
    @nolamom7855 3 года назад +3

    Before your comment, when you first talked about the board I was going to say Often times what looks like rejection is actually God’s protection!! Amen!!

  • @ZackyYabes
    @ZackyYabes 3 года назад +1

    Hi Sam! Happy Thursday ❤️

  • @caseystab1937
    @caseystab1937 3 года назад

    I'm going to stay awake for this one! 🥰🥰🥰

  • @user-ot9mz1zu8d
    @user-ot9mz1zu8d 3 года назад +1

    god your makeup looks beautiful, where did you get that gloss? it looks very pretty on you!!!❤️❤️

    • @softasmr
      @softasmr  3 года назад +2

      It’s a cheap one from Victoria’s Secret lol thank you :)

  • @fishermanscrossing5957
    @fishermanscrossing5957 3 года назад +1

    Checklist
    Home from a shitty day at work ✅
    Straight into PJs ✅
    Block out roommates ✅
    Cup of vanilla chai tea ✅
    Couch ✅
    Relaxation.. pending ☺️

  • @kaelunah3308
    @kaelunah3308 3 года назад

    You just gotta be patient and god will bring u something much better thn what u’ve planned to have trust me

  • @isaiahclayton8178
    @isaiahclayton8178 3 года назад

    this was encouraging in an odd way... thx!!!

  • @marcsmile6380
    @marcsmile6380 3 года назад

    Awwww Sam I hope you get something sorted sooooon, sure you will :)

  • @landry2134
    @landry2134 3 года назад

    Sorry to hear. I was hoping to hear you got it. It bothers me to hear they were not nice tho, I mean the board could at least be decent to someone trying hard to improve their situation.

  • @kristenlee9743
    @kristenlee9743 3 года назад +1

    So sorry to hear about your apartment situation, Sam. I have heard horror stories about co-ops, myself, and your experience just confirms I should stay as far away as possible. It is particularly unfair that you are out a significant amount of money when THEY turned YOU down for no verifiable reason, not you just decided to walk away. I like the context you used about God's rejection = redirection, though. I was turned down for a promotion recently that I thought I was well qualified for, thought I did really well in the final interview, etc., and no one will give me a concrete answer why (tell me what area/s I should work on, etc.). I'm continuing to apply for other opportunities and trying to have faith the universe knows what it's doing. :-) Have a wonderful holiday season with your family, and best of luck for finding the perfect new home in early 2022!

  • @ThunderNecros
    @ThunderNecros 3 года назад

    You’re true crime vids are my favorite. Helps with insomnia.

  • @yemayag92
    @yemayag92 3 года назад

    so excited for this video

  • @poponicardozo3033
    @poponicardozo3033 3 года назад

    Hola tienes un nuevo suscriptor no se si entiendes el español yo algo entiendo english pero que bueno que tu contenido alla podido llegar a mi pais saludos desde argentina

  • @lunanor
    @lunanor 3 года назад

    I almost cry oh there are tears in my eyes

  • @rebeccamcgill843
    @rebeccamcgill843 3 года назад

    Ohhh could you do a little thanksgiving vlog, obviously not a massive thing because I know you want to be present and not videoing all the time but I’m in the uk we don’t do thanksgiving here and I would love to see what it’s like xxx

  • @caseystab1937
    @caseystab1937 3 года назад

    Ughhhh Sam, I knew because of patreon that there were issues, but I was sure that you were going to get it! I'm so sorry honey, and as you know, when one door closes another one opens! Sending you extra love, & headed back to listen to the rest, 💞

  • @Ninitai
    @Ninitai 3 года назад

    I was waiting for this one

  • @asmrsill
    @asmrsill 3 года назад

    Idk what compelled me to check your natal chart, not to be weird omg but we have the same big three just different placements. I’m a Sun Virgo, Moon Leo, Rising Cancer. Fun!

  • @AsmrByDozy
    @AsmrByDozy 3 года назад

    YAY! I've been waiting! time to take a Sam Break

  • @joelkray6909
    @joelkray6909 3 года назад

    To hell with those co op stooges. Your young and smart and can take care of yourself. Don’t worry about it u will find something so much better that u want and deserve✋✋✋

  • @Blan88S
    @Blan88S 3 года назад

    sorry this happened to you, but everything happens for a reason :) I 'like' such experiences, because you learn and you get stronger. Imagine that in a few years you'll laugh at this situation and think back without anger. I always stress about about things and then it works itself out and I am like 'yea, so much better' :D so keep the faith, it'll come. Life is nice with ups and downs :D

  • @lavenderwhispersasmr5864
    @lavenderwhispersasmr5864 3 года назад +1

    😴😴😴 brb falling asleep

  • @xcuteedollfaceex
    @xcuteedollfaceex 3 года назад

    It was a learning experience for sure, so it certainly wasn't all for nought. You have the knowledge and experience now for the next time.

  • @lilahwithluv1870
    @lilahwithluv1870 3 года назад +1

    much needed

  • @dashaw3188
    @dashaw3188 3 года назад +2

    You get prettier with every video bruh ong

  • @bkt209
    @bkt209 3 года назад +2

    Welcome to life 😕. Me and my friend were rejected to RENT a condo when we were both 26 and the agent straight up said it was due to age. People just don’t trust young people in keeping a place well kept or payments paid on-time and in full. It’s really a shame if you’ve got the income and credit score to back it up. Oh well, best of luck onto the next!! Connecticut is also a bitch to deal with so yeah 🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @DominickM.
    @DominickM. 3 года назад

    you have a good head on your shoulders, it will work out everything for a reason