How to Use Your Features to Increase Pretty Privilege 😍 4C Hair, Freckles etc
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I love getting compliments in front of the ops! 💀
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@@ExoticalsUnited they get so angry! I also love when you say, "Stay pretty ladies."
huge flex this happens to me alot
Me too lol
Purr! ❤
I never understood the hate that 4c hair gets. I have 4c hair and I feel so classy and elegant when I style my 4c hair.
How did you learnt o style your hair. I'm in my 20s and never learned to style it because it was always just braided for me growing up. Also if you have any youtube recs or product recs, I'll appreciate that
I'm 42 years young and my mom who is an LS monoracial UABW and always wore her 4C afro out. I've never seen her with straight hair except her in pictures as a child. She's now 73 years young and still rocks her fro. She's always embraced her hair and that has allowed me to also embrace my 4C hair as well. I rock mine in a low fade though b/c I love wearing short hair. 😊
I love that for you!
17:30 girl yes!!!! It makes me so angry when I see a older woman trying to “humble “ a child because they think she is going to be “fast” or something 🙄
Story of my life this happened to me since the age of 11. Grown women would falsely accuse me of their husband
Omfg yes ! I had SO many people police my body! Friends and family, white female teachers and pastors, everyone ! I remember when I got called to the principals office for wearing a cheerleading uniform (I was a cheerleader and we ALL wore uniforms on game days) . But of course, my “skirt was too short”. Meanwhile I come from VERY strict parents who would NEVER let me leave the house in a short skirt. My skirts had to pass my fingertips . I also got singled out for “moving my hips too much” during the cheer dances. TF? It’s a fuggin ROUTINE! You’re supposed to do the moves ! So because I’m not a stiff back I’m “moving my hips too much”?! It was a whole thing. I might make a video about it one day.
@@ExoticalsUnited Please do!!!
My husband is white and he loves my 4c hair. I get more compliments from white people when i wear my natural hair.
Yessss white people love to compliment type 4 hair and treat you special lol
I love receiving compliments about my youthful butter pecan skin, almond shaped eyes, my small boho braids, charming smile and good sense of humor.
I’m one of the only black people (only black girl in my class from primary to secondary school) in my town so capitalizing on my natural Nigerian features helps me stand out better, e.g I shine on intercultural day!
The part about mothers is so true. I recently (about 4 months ago) started wearing my type 4 hair out after wearing braids back to back and my mother showered me in compliments. A day didn’t go by without me feeling empowered. There’s a girl at my school in the year below me who told me that after seeing me in my natural hair, she really wanted to wear hers, but her mother told her no. She later took her braids out and tried to wear her natural hair, but her mom forced her to straighten it. I was so shocked because my mom knows the lady, and I told her about it, and she said it’s a product of her mother’s environment and her unwillingness to grow for her daughter’s sake.
This summer for the first time decentered I've been wearing heels everyday and not only is it helping with my posture from a back injury, it's the better option over sandals for me for the hot summer months. Family members, gym associates, coworkers and everyone is pleasantly shocked by my heels. When I was dating (with no strategy) a few years ago, I bought heels again to go out. No that I've decentered men, I dress that "date look", my comfortable best looking self, EVERY DAY and I'm better off for it!!!
omg yes you sound like me! also, decentering men helped me to become more open minded about beauty enhancements (i used to only wear my natural beauty with limited makeup and my real hair because i believed thats what a man liked most) but since decentering them i wear whatever TF i want and look as "fake" as i want to and i actuallly feel more confident, feminine and self expressive that way.
I’m Starting to wear my 3c hair more often with various bows, decorative pins, Barretts, whisky lashes, gloss and red lipstick, blush to highlight my high cheekbones.
You are you cool. Thank you for including 4 type exoticals in your videos. I have learned so much from you in terms of embracing who you are and enhancing yourself to be better. Do not change!❤
Yes ! 4c Exoticals are welcome here 💅🏽😍 I love that we are all able to find a sense of unity !
@@ExoticalsUnited4c girlie here🥹😊
14:51-15:40 YEP! I started wearing a bra at 6 going on 7 yrs old and I started my period at 9 yrs old. I was told i had to be invisible too b/c of how "grown" I looked (the women in my family wanted me to be invisible and alwaysboughtup my body. That definitely sets the tone for how a woman perceives herself in the first half of her adulthood. No, I couldn't and didn’t enjoy my beauty until I moved away
Same here I developed Breast early as well and I started my period at 7
As soon as I had my first daughter I stopped relaxing my hair and wore it naturally. I didn't start wearing colorful hair until they were much older. They all wear their natural hair.
My favorite beauty hobbies are embroidery and reading books
I would love to get brand deals for my looks and hair 😊 or get into modeling . I love that my hair is very voluminous ❤
If you can't remember your compliments, try writing them down 📝💕!!!
Yes! I used to do this in middle school! I didn’t realize that other women didn’t write down affirmations about themselves until I became an adult
This is off subject but while watching your video I was nagged by 2 black men that felt rejected after I ignored their presence. It happens so often for me and it use to bother me now I feel empowered from watching your Decentering men content.!Your decentering men content is elite! And necessary
Thank you I have more decentering men content coming this week! 🤓
My body was a problem when I was younger. They said I looked grown. I was hurt when I was little, so I had some issues with being seen for a long time.
It's definitely the reason I was trying to be agreeable. I just didn't want problems. I let that trauma live free in my head for a long time.
Glad thats over.
OMG the questions 😭 so aggressive.
7:20 yes ! I’m always getting compliments on my hair whenever I wear it out. Whether it’s in two puffs, an Afro, mini twists, twists/braids outs, and etc. I live in an area where most black people wear braids. Nothing wrong with that, but wearing my own hair in different styles really makes me stand out. 💗
I have a pear shaped body and am tall and wear a huge afro. I definitely standout and get stares. I get compliments from black people when I wear my huge undefined afro.
Nice!
Very true. Also, I'm learning that certain parts of the country are favorable to certain aesthetics. For instance, here in Indiana I get more favoritism from young white women, black men and hindu men and women. But, apparently in Florida I would flourish and blend right in with the latinos down there. California, I'd probably fit in if I kept my hair straightened and lost about 50lbs, lol. So, location plays a role too from what I can see.
I was told 4c hair was not curly…. I was confused and didn’t respond
18:05 that happens to me all the time. You hit the nail on the head right there. People go above and beyond to ask every inch about my body. They ask what i eat to have slim body and when i answer them cheeseburger and fries they think im trolling when its the truth and some of them literally touch my hair without permission just so they can assure themselves its real. They even ask me if my dimples is real or not 🤦🏻♀️ i feel like science subject not a human being. Its exhausting 😮💨
@kurosawagin OMG THIIIIS......it's like animal channel where a guy talks about the cubs in the wild - if attractive from young, you get over the phrase= YOUR TOO PARANOID as in reality when you walk in the room people are normally staring & whispering about you
Some of us have metabolism privilege😂😂 I was constantly reminded about how slim I was from childhood to now - I don't have any obese relatives incl my grandparents
I think it would be interesting to explore genetic privileges @ExoticalsUnited ....for example I'm bronze all year round and white women often point out my skin in summer or they compare their tan to me / non blk women that focus on male gaze of only blk men are often frosty to me during this time of year - if I walk past or we're all in a group discussion, I always catch them girls looking back & forth at my skin compared to their paler skin sometimes they start sulking or give me a dirty look too
Yess when someboby compliments me I eat That Ishhh UP LOVE IT !!!!!
Omg the girl at 8:20 is so beautiful and I love the twist hairstyles with the ponytail in the back, so cute ❤
As an UABW with 4C I love this channel. 🤎🤍🖤
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I get compliments a lot from white women on my fashion sense
I am soo happy I found this channel..I wish this was a thing when I was younger.
I always thought questions concerning a body part being real were intrusive and odd. I would never ask someone that, and I certainly wouldn't ask to touch someone's hair. Now I understand why some people feel the need to do so. Thank you.
Truths have been spoken sys ❤
3:20 so pretty
lol. Yesssss! I get those questions! Are those your real eyes? Nose? Hair? Do you take diet drugs?
Just in time 😎😈
Omg I wear my hair in bun because of the is that you real hair question and when I wear contacts I'm asked immediately if my mother is asian....I just got soo tried of it
This came just in time I just bagged a yt man who moved me in partime and I had braids then he begged me to wear my hair natural and in a few days I’m surprising him with my new hair. He is obcessed with me but he will really be with my natural loook ❤ I’m also in a PW area and we already turn heads being together. I needed to see this video. I’m literally styling mt natural hair tonight and just took my braids out like 5 minutes ago 😂
11:30 fierce 🎉❤🔥
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