Especially if there old and need more help then the average person. For example my grandpa only has one lung. I go over there everyday and help him with daily tasks that he can’t do himself and it makes me feel good. So there is no reason this adult can’t get a job and help his grandma. Btw I have a job and I’m 14. So this guy is completely pathetic except for maybe the driving part
That makes me feel a lot better, cos I’m 22 and live with my grandma, but I’m in collage, I help out and pay for my own bills and have a part time job.
He's right. He doesn't need to have life figured out by 22. He does however need to be doing things to figure it out though. Go to school. Some type of trade certification. Get a job. Volunteer your time somewhere. At 22 though you should having cleaning some dishes and throwing laundry in the machine figured out.
exactly. Your job when you don’t have a job is finding a job. He needs structure to his day. It’s not just going to fall into his lap. I was just like him a couple of years ago. I was dealing with severe depression and anxiety with panic attacks and could not get out of my own way. It wasn’t until I finally made the decision to get out of that environment and move across the country to California from New York that I have been the most happiest I’ve ever been in my life. I am pursuing my goals, I live with great people, I love the community where I live and I have a structured day. This is exactly what he needs.
Perfect way to put it In most rehabs, they have chores but at the one I went to, you have extra chores and learn how to live with authority figures when you’re in the under 25/26 group because at that age, odds are you are going back to live with someone or a half way house.. so even if you are used to rules, it’s easier to adapt I just like that and was reminded of it because it’s realistic about the age group and what will be expected of them until they are independent
@@RohitKumar-zm3nw at 26 I was pretty much bald. Bald genes have nothing to do with lifestyle. Unless your lifestyle involves rubbing your head with sandpaper.
LOL got accepted to go on the show which was a dream come true, however, ex refused…because it would help me. The resources that Dr. Phil has are the best of the best, wow💜.
He should have a job and be more helpful. However, at his age it's not uncommon to live with family or roommates. Minimum wage doesn't get you affordable living anymore
He has to be lying, what else can he be doing in the day? With all that time he could shower, laundry, brush his teeth even... He most definitely gaming all day.
That could be from the water just evaporating . Bearded dragons actually don’t drink water . Your supposed to put them in a bin of water and leave them in there for a few minutes a day so they retain the water because they retain water through there body
I hope he realises that bearded dragons use water too drink and cool down if they are warm, so not filling it’s water bowl is potentially causing more harm than good
But especially when they are shedding their skin. Old skin can get built up around their toes and if he isn’t careful then the circulation in his toes can become restricted. So that bowl of water could be used not only for drinking but to them shed their skins.
Bearded dragons are not supposed to have a water dish in there enclosure. They live in a dry climate and can develop respiratory issues from high humidity. Bearded dragons absorb most of their water content through the vegetables they eat, misting their salads, bathing them, misting them in the morning and providing water in droplet form on the tip of their mouths. Just like cactuses that live in the desert don't need much water some goes for reptiles. Those are the different ways they intake water over having a sitting dish. Not just because "he doesn't drink from it" there are actual reasons why coming from someone who has owned one for 5 years with no health issues with my dragon.🖤
Most everyone is fine with a young adult saving money by living with family, especially now. It is being 22, 30, etc and living like a 13-year-old (no diploma, no job, no chores, gaming all day) that is the problem.
people can be 22 and living with their parents or grandparents. its needed for many people these days(and not just from the young person but some parents need their kids to stay now)
I agree but they still need like a pastime job, but ya i get it. Especially if there was a traumatic event, but they still need to be pushed to do some things
I kind of high key hate how Dr. Phil has this insane idea that it’s easy for 18 year olds or even 25 year olds to be living out on their own nowadays. That being said, him not doing any chores and being extremely lazy about taking care of his pet is extremely unacceptable
He could have a room mate but even rent that costs 400$ a month which is the cheapest you’d find for a room, that’s still 1/3 of a paycheck if you make 12$ an hour at a regular job
That's true but I honestly think that he might be "adding to it" and not maybe even think that it is like that in order to add to the shock value so it would "slap them back" into reality
but the grandma has NO obligation at all to keep taking care of an adult. He needs to take care of himself. If your parents can support you, ok, but they can't.
22 turns to 40 if nothing is done. People always use the excuse " well I'm young so its ok" like nah. U can sit there and justify it but all that does is waste time
@@maeve9084 Getting the dollar off the gold standard. Privatizing banks. Croney capitalism. Socialist programs like welfare that people abuse. Uncontrolled flow of migrants both legal and illegal that puts stress on our economy. Inflation do to over printing of currency. Tax increases for socialist programs. Voting based on culture/identity issues rather than economic ones. Funding foreign wars instead of making Americans as first priority. Our countries crippling debt. The shrinking of the middle class. etc
It sounds like Conner might be in the spectrum, in the way he's both talking and thinking. If so, he needs help from a different direction than by his family.
@@CovertCrow as a person with ASD and in a similar position as him, granted my grandmother got in a car accident and needs help around the house. But when I started hearing him talk, I immediately knew he was on the spectrum, tho he seems to be exaggerating things alot more.
@@whitewalls7929 "Neglet is a type of abuse" absolutely. The rest of what you said is wrong. Trust me, I know first hand very well several kinds of abuse - including neglect (which like you said first but later contradicted). You know, a TYPE of something is still that something. It's like saying tylenol is a type of medication, but it's not.. medication..?? See, that sentence alone contradicts itself. Neglect can cause real, dangerous harm, like any other form of abuse. Also, there's no need for you to go off like you did.
Bearded dragons don't use water bowls, he's not lying about that. They prefer moving water. Most people that raise them mist the dragon's food and/or apply a few drops of water for the dragon to drink. They are desert animals and don't need that much water.
Maybe it's different in Australia but there's also no way most people can afford to rent on their own either which is why most young people (and older people) live in share houses. Maybe that's an Australian thing but I don't get why it's not done in America.
@@neatznotso7424 yeah i am 32 and i still live with my parents because for the moment i can not afford to live with my parents but dr makes it seem like every 18 year old moves out pretty much right away and if you can not succeed its because you are just not trying hard enough.(like i get it you should have been preparing for that since you were 14 or something but yeah i was so far behind when i was 14 and no one was really helping me out and i am going to give the excuse it was a different time when i was 14) also i was stupid and did not know any better. like even for a teenager i was pathietic. and it was pretty bad.
It isn't only that he hasn't moved out. He didn't graduate high school so he has no diploma. He isn't actively trying to get his GED. He has no job and he isn't attending any form of schooling or college. It's fine if you still "live" with you parents at 22 and don't own a property of your own but if you right now are doing anything, absolutely anything, to reach that point (if you have a high school diploma, a job, you are in college, etc.), then you are already ahead of this guy.
@@thewewguy8t88 32, tho.. one thing is 18, fine, whatever, but 14 years into adulthood? What did you spend over the last decade on? I'm really not trying to be insensitive, but c'mon.
I don't think most 22 year olds actually live on their own. I'm 22 and still live with my parents (I don't see the point in moving away from my family + I can't even afford it at this age and time), but I still help around the house, attend university, and work as a behavior therapist. This guy is just not doing anything at all.
@@ampaboi3648 Na, I mean, I don't know this guy but from the few minutes we have seen, he seems to be more into casual/relaxing entertainment than being passionate about games.
In nowadays society, it is almost impossible to be out on your own fully independent by 18-19-20 years old. If you don't have like 3 roommates, you're not gonna make ends meet. I agree that he needs to help out and get a job to pay his way, but he's not a failure on the basis that he's not out of the house at 22 😂😂😂
I'm 22 and still live with my parents. I'm close to grad and already have a job, but I won't be moving out any time soon. I honestly don't see the point in that. I'd rather live with my family than 'roommates.'
Seriously he expects the kid to get a min wage job in a pandemic or pay for school and just have money for rent, food, a phone, car, insurance etc this rubbed me the wrong way. Dr Phil called him “sweetheart” and I hated it
"You're 22 with no experience. Why aren't you living on your own during a recession and a pandemic?" I swear Dr. Phil thinks it's better to be homeless than to live with your parents after you hit 18. NOBODY moves out at 18.
I'm 21, almost 22, and I'm just now moving out of my parents' house. I wanted to move earlier but then a pandemic happened and I was furloughed like everyone else for 6+ months.
I know it’s hard to make enough money in some states to live alone at 22. BUT when my son lived with me during the no job O years. He did his own laundry and if I didn’t cook he fed himself
He should consider streaming honestly. He wouldn’t have to change much of his lifestyle, plus he’s already been on dr Phil, so some of that exposure could help kickstart a following.
I've owned bearded dragons, they get most of their water intake from food and being soaked/baths. I find they usually just get in their water dish and spill it everywhere
@@michaylalovitt2796 That's cool, and maybe that's why he still needs to make sure that water is always available, because if they get their water from baths too, that must be why they climb in, but if they climb in and there's no water, they can't absorb the water.
I have a bearded dragon as well, most their water comes from the food they eat as well as baths that you're supposed to provide for them, although I do still keep a water bowl in there just in case
honestly i hate when dr phil judges people who live with their parents saying why are you living with your parents past the age of 18. like as though somehow every 18+ year old needs to automatically live on their own or is able too. for the record this is coming from someone who yeah i fully admit i am 32 and still living with my parents and did not have a job until my mid 20s...yes i have a job right now.
I agree to a certain extent. However, some of these people aren't doing everything they could be doing to be productive, & they need a bit of a wake-up call. I'm 28 & currently living with my mother. However, I already have my college degree & an entry-level corporate job, plus I pay my own bills. This young guy is obviously not doing a whole lot to better his current situation, so he does need a bit of a kick in the rear. I don't think he's a horrible person, but he can do more.
I lived with my parents until I finished my degree. I had a driver's licence, showered regularly, did chores, had a part time job etc. The context is different. This guy has nothing going for him and blames everyone and everything else for his problems.
@@JoJo-zx9sc yeah good for you for that. like i could say it was easy for you but idk your life just like you do not know my life so you do not know how hard or easy it would have been for me. all you know is at 16 i did not live on my own and at 32 i do not live on my own.
@@Tyrosine0910 my situation is complicated i can not say i was much better when i 22. however idk if i can say i am much better now that i am 32. apparently its pathetic that i still live with my parents.
I get what he's saying about the nitpicking though. It reaches a point, does she want the dishes to be done or does it have to be EXACTLY the arbitrary way she wants it done? Just because she likes the glasses arranged by color and lined up with a ruler doesn't mean there's a reason they have to be put away like that. I have a dear friend, I can't help with the dishes or laundry when I'm at her house because she has legit OCD and she has to have all the stripes perfectly lined up on the towels and the dishes were different colors and had to be put away pink/green/pink/green so I was like ... Ima let you do that, sweetie.
It’s not bad to play video games, it’s not bad to be single(if you are dating someone and have never met them, you aren’t dating them.), but it is bad putting pressure on your grandmother and making her feel like a slave to your 22 year old self. If you live in her house, of course she’s going to try to control your life.
You can ABSOLUTELY be dating someone you havent met yet. Not even a question. Its not your job to go around decided if its a real relationship based off of if that have met in person yet
@@Lumalee no, you can date long distance for sure. But thats only if you have hung out before, for example, A man gets relocates to a station in Japan and leaves his Girl for several months. They can be dating. You can’t just meet someone on the internet and date them.
So many people whining" But 22 is not old, many adults live with their parents". That's is not the point, this dude is not doing ANYTHING, not even chores. No money, no job, no education, nothing. Most young adults can't afford to move out but at least they are contributing to the household, they don't game all day and expect to be kept at home.
I agree that he should be helping out with chores and all. But Dr. Phil on multiple occasions has stated that everyone should move out at 18 which isn't possible for pretty much anyone today.
@@BaconMaken I disagree, Dr. Phil brings up moving out because the guests are the ones saying they hate living with their family. I have never seen him suggest moving out when everyone is getting along. Sometimes he even suggests to guests who are being abused by their partner to move in with their parents. In fact every single gest that has been told to move out because they are acting entitled to be at a home that isn't theirs, or they are terribly unhappy living there.
Nah, you don't need to. It wouldn't even be that bad if he was just unemployed. But he doesn't even clean after himself and basically expects his grandparents to do everything.
you don’t have to feel bad about it but your job when you don’t have a job is to find a job. You should be working day and night to start getting around people in different careers and experiencing it so that you know what you like. I’m 26 and only recently have I figured out what it is that I want to do with my life but that was through experience. Just start somewhere. That’s the biggest issue that I find is that people get so afraid about the end goal that they don’t even start. But they will never get to that end goal if they don’t put 1 foot in front of the other. Good luck! You got this just be persistent.
hey i am 32 and still trying to figure that out. but this makes me feel bad because again i am 32 and still live with my parents and at 22 i was honestly a lot like this kid :/
As a 22 year old who was in this guy’s position exactly a year ago... it’s tough. during 2020 I found a full time job and now I live with my girlfriend and 2 cats so it can get better but life isn’t just going to hand you something.
I'm from Eastern Europe and it's very weird to me how people don't live with their parents there. My mom threatens me that she will kill me if I move out before 23 lmao
American have bad ideals on just about everything, like seriously just look at this show and how popular it is, any other country in the world I do not think it would’ve ever became this popular
“Why are you living with grandma at 22 and not getting a job and living on your own??” I love dr. Phil, but sometimes he says things that are so.... unrealistic. Most 22 year olds can’t afford living costs on their own and will still live with family. Granted, he should have a job, but I’m 26 and live paycheck to paycheck because of living costs.
They can live with friends, or get low income housing. People act like life is impossible for young people in a country that is basically one giant safety net, it's freaking insane.
@@hirobeats7360 Personally I would rather live with my family than roommates. However I have a full time job and pay my mom rent. There's nothing wrong with choosing to live with family over roommates as long as you're pulling your own weight and contributing.
Honestly I don’t see why it’s an issue to live with your parents at 22. I’m 20 and live with my mom, but I am going to college, working and doing tasks around the house. The problem isn’t that he lives with his grandma but that he’s mooching off her by not contributing.
I hate how mean Dr Phil is about his age, I didn't move out until I was 26, and I moved back with my parents now at 33 because of the pandemic. it's okay to not be on your own at 22.
know something funny? my grandma used to try to give me rules. i called social services on her and threatened legal action for hate crimes on her. that shut her up real quick
Im 23. I still live with my elderly parents. There is a difference between me and Conner. I work a full time job and am working on an EMT certification. I mow the lawn, do the dishes, do laundry and shop. I try to take as much off my older parents shoulders. They tell me that I am their joy in life and honestly I love them both so much. I enjoy taking care of them, I do not pay rent and I eat for free. The difference is I do so much around the house and I make up for it.
Good for you sir. My life followed a very similar path. Had to live with my parents until I was 27 because of my financial situation, but like you I mowed the lawn, shoveled snow and occasionally cooked dinner. Actually helped me learn how to live on my own.
I looked after my younger siblings and helped cook and clean from the time I was 8. I babysat for money at 12. I got my first job at 14. The only time since then that I haven't been employed is when I took over 24/7 care for by brother when he had terminal cancer and my mother through the ravages of Alzheimer's, until her death. Then I went back to work. And I'm 63. Will work until I'm at least 72.
I empathize with him A LOT. My grandmother is basically a mix of Kate Gosselin and Livia Soprano. She demands that my father and myself revolve our entire lives around her and when she doesn't get what she wants she uses guilt or constant nagging. I cannot wait to be free but the cost of living just keeps skyrocketing. 🤦♂️
Buying a house and living alone when you turn 18? In this economy? How out of touch is Dr Phil?! Also while I'm not a professional I can make a pretty good guess that the guy is suffering under depression. So I like how in "Dr" Phils mind the greatest choice is to just berate him publically and call him lazy. Because THAT'S not harmful at all 🙄
As a teenager, I wanted to work, learn to drive, and do certain chores. My mom wouldn't let me do any of it because she deemed me doing so a waste of time. I grew up in a toxic, emotionally abusive household and I couldn't do anything that allowed me to grow up. Then at 23 years old, my mom had the gall to say I had arrested development during an argument. Looking at this kid, who is completely content to do nothing for his grandmother and makes tons of excuses, it makes me angry. I had to claw my way into adulthood and people like him just enjoy staying a child.
Well Dr Phil you did it, unemployment is no more. Sure his mental state is now further damage now that you humiliated him on national TV just cuz he's lazy but dont worry now that is causing him to further go into a introverted mood but you did it. Now I'm sure he will get a job instantly while you sit on you tv show making millions while the rest of us will make just 10% of that amount bearly be able to pay debt. Thank you
I'm from Eastern Europe. Some people here live with their grandparents till 40(if they're alive till then) and their whole life with their parents. I don't really think that's a problem because at first point they're family and you can't just kick out a close person except if you're toxic af. I see why he's so depressed
You’re probably like 65 and rent cost you like $200 back then 😂 I’m 18 and still in my senior year of high school how am I supposed to work full time and move out? Huh?
Dr.Phill literally went all out boomer on this poor lad, he wasn't that aggressive with people that actually deserved it in his show. How dare you not have your own place with a minimum wage at 22? Maybe if boomers didn't drive the housing prices up that high we would all live by ourselves. Finding a job is hard in this pandemic, especially when old people hold management positions and won't hire anyone because they didn't answer properly how they see themselves in 5 years
@@sierrarae1874 You guys have to understand that not everyone moves at that pace though. I do not condone many of his actions but comparing his situation to yours is ignorant and insensitive tbh.
@@TheMillerChild I came from a small mining village in the UK. The mining collieries were closed and unemployment was at an all time high. There were NO jobs. There still aren't many jobs in the area as the government haven't invested in my area for 40 years. My parents were both unemployed. I had no one to help me. I went to college and trained to be a nurse - I also learned to drive and bought myself a cheap car. This young man in the video had not done anything with his life in the three years leading up to the pandemic.
he definitely has an excuse for everything but I also understand that being that age it’s really hard to know what direction to start to move in. A lot of the times we become so fearful about taking those steps that we simply don’t do anything at all and we rationalize why we can’t hence his excuses. The grandmother is absolutely correct in saying that if he’s going to live there she expects him to do some basic chores around the house. He’s not paying rent so that’s absolutely acceptable and he should be jumping to do that. He’s been given an opportunity of a carefree stress-free life and is taking advantage of it. He needs to have a structured day with set chores and he probably needs to start speaking to a therapist or a life coach so that he can start making achievable goals and conquering them so that he gains confidence.
@@cinder7183 I work 40 hrs a week as a vet tech and I don’t make enough money to move out of my parents house. The economy is a lot worse to actually help people in their 20s be able to live on their own compared to couple decades ago.
Im his friend and too see dr phil give no advice to help motived him to get his ged to go to a tech school or college and just yell at him is stupid. also he worked for 6 months and was giving his grandmother $600 a month in rent, which is more then half what she pays. I like how they cut that out of the story. I get it. He is a adult and should have some plan for live, but it takes time and money to do that. His grandma should have been more supported and help him finish school.
@@kylemorris7161 He was offered help but your buddy even managed to alienate his (free) life coach, Mike Bayer. That's not easy to do. Dr. Phil is anything but stupid. He also seemed tired of this guy's arrogant attitude. Strike two.
All I heard in that 5 minutes was "Blah blah blah, I don't want to contribute to Society or be a responsible adult. I'd rather make excuses and do nothing all day"
As a gamer I will admit I am addicted. But I'm 10 so as long as I keep my grades up and everything I should be okay. There is nothing wrong with living your grandparents at 22 as long as you help or pay rent etc.
Yea I agree Megan is right not everyone was inherited money like you probably. If you can afford your daughter at age 28. Jesus Christ. Get a clue. In my opinion. You probably have a tremendous job and beautiful house. That’s how you were able to afford that. You are what is considered the one percent.
I'm not rich or well off. My daughter paid board worked full time had her own car went on holidays paid her own phone bill etc before she met the man she married. My other children left at 16 and 21. All happy independent grown ups.
Its ok to be 22 and living with your grandmother..but you need to work and help out your grandmother your lazy beyond belief and using your grandmother...its not alright...we love our grandkids ,i have 16 grandkids and great grandkids..i love them all....but you need to help out...no excuses
I'm 20 and still live with my parents. This dude needs to at least do some house chores or get a job to help his grandparents. His age however isn't that big of a deal since living wages have skyrocketed and living on your own at 20 requires some miracles at this point, especially if you live somewhere like California.
Lol, yep, just like the song says! He’s acting like 22 is just “too young to know what he’s doing or have any responsibilities “, sooo lazy. He should be at a full time job and in his own apt at this age like reg adults! He’ll never move out
Idk, the grandmother can just kick him out if she wants to enforce boundary. But i can't imagine first interaction with patient being "what are you doing to be a contributing member of society?!" Is being unemployed really the problem or a symptom.. sounds like he has history of trauma and loss with parents blurb. i know what dr Phil means but i don't think that his shaming approach is going to motivate the guy - he already gets that from grandmother and now he'll be even more defensive outnumbered. I feel like Phil may be frustrated with patients who aren't growing - and seems here to have forgot about both what made helping others his passion and his own journey. It's first appt, it takes time to work with someone - you don't just yell at them into submission
I think his approach is more of a wake up call. Someone other than his guardians has the same view on him. So he then has to realize it’s not just his nagging parents/grandparents, but an actual problem he’s got to address. That being said, I agree with you lol. I think he can get the same point across by being a little less confrontational. You worded it pretty well. He’s already outnumbered and I would think dr Phil would appeal to that a little bit by being a tad softer with the dude.
My girl lived at home first two years of college.... but she worked starting at 16 and SAVED! She had $10k before she moved out. She was easily able to rent her own apt and get non hand me down furniture. Right after college she bought Her OWN 3 BDRM HOUSE at this guys age!
She lived at home for the first two years out of college, but bought a three-bedroom house right out of college? That doesn't really make sense. Did she buy it two years after college?
I’m 22, and don’t have my life together, but I help pay for food, I pay rent, I clean everything, & I do what I need to to help out whenever I can. And it’s okay not to have your life together... many people at this age don’t. If people have bills, no job pays enough to just make someone to up and leave at 18 to be on their own. But I will agree with most of these comments that he along with many other people need to find motivation to try and better themselves.
Im the same age as him and I really just can not imagine having such little ambition for life. That would give me so much stress knowing I had no plans for the future.
Just lazy and his mum is responsible. As for pets, look after it or give it to someone who will. How bout I stop you from getting water? Lazy... no excuse
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I don’t see anything wrong living with your grandma at 22. However, if you live with your grandma, help out.
Dakota Sims yes
Exactly!
Especially if there old and need more help then the average person. For example my grandpa only has one lung. I go over there everyday and help him with daily tasks that he can’t do himself and it makes me feel good. So there is no reason this adult can’t get a job and help his grandma. Btw I have a job and I’m 14. So this guy is completely pathetic except for maybe the driving part
That makes me feel a lot better, cos I’m 22 and live with my grandma, but I’m in collage, I help out and pay for my own bills and have a part time job.
Yes, absolutely! Financially and housekeeping. Thanks for commenting
Dr. Phil is tougher on this guy than he was on the girl that helped kill a guy in yesterday's show
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True! I mean I think this guy needs a dose of reality but I don’t understand Dr. Phil’s tone with some people on versus the other
Some people are disturbed. Others are just lazy. A don't think a set schedule is going to help a murderer. Or maybe it would. 🤔
Be a man
@@lindseygreen6510 yep he was really hard on a concerned family member and was really degrading to him because he wanted 'woke' points
He's right. He doesn't need to have life figured out by 22. He does however need to be doing things to figure it out though. Go to school. Some type of trade certification. Get a job. Volunteer your time somewhere. At 22 though you should having cleaning some dishes and throwing laundry in the machine figured out.
This!!!
exactly. Your job when you don’t have a job is finding a job. He needs structure to his day. It’s not just going to fall into his lap. I was just like him a couple of years ago. I was dealing with severe depression and anxiety with panic attacks and could not get out of my own way. It wasn’t until I finally made the decision to get out of that environment and move across the country to California from New York that I have been the most happiest I’ve ever been in my life. I am pursuing my goals, I live with great people, I love the community where I live and I have a structured day. This is exactly what he needs.
@@nftbandit9645 omg ur literally me right now
Perfect way to put it
In most rehabs, they have chores but at the one I went to, you have extra chores and learn how to live with authority figures when you’re in the under 25/26 group because at that age, odds are you are going back to live with someone or a half way house.. so even if you are used to rules, it’s easier to adapt
I just like that and was reminded of it because it’s realistic about the age group and what will be expected of them until they are independent
@@RohitKumar-zm3nw at 26 I was pretty much bald. Bald genes have nothing to do with lifestyle. Unless your lifestyle involves rubbing your head with sandpaper.
You don't need to have life figured out at 22. But you need to be TRYING.
I love how some parents biggest threat is “you will go to the Dr. Phil show or else!”
*White parents
I say do it and we called out side
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LOL got accepted to go on the show which was a dream come true, however, ex refused…because it would help me. The resources that Dr. Phil has are the best of the best, wow💜.
He should have a job and be more helpful. However, at his age it's not uncommon to live with family or roommates. Minimum wage doesn't get you affordable living anymore
Yup!
It’s not easy getting a job during a pandemic.
Damn you got asf, I ain’t no simp tho
I had a house when I was 19 snowflake. Your generation is too lazy and too coddled. I kicked my kids out the minute they turned 18!
True, inflation is very bad right now
Games 3-4 hours a day... those are rookie numbers.
Lol Show him whose boss 😤👏
gotta game those full 24 hours 💀
@@spoooook sleep who? 😗
He has to be lying, what else can he be doing in the day? With all that time he could shower, laundry, brush his teeth even... He most definitely gaming all day.
I died at that like damn... I really do be gaming 5-8 hours a day 😔
I dont give him water, he doesnt need it anyway 😀 this guy is bananas
Your cute
@@TheGrayton2000 aw shucks ^w^
@@TheGrayton2000 You’re*
@@aioki_uchiha Have a goodnight babygirl
@Kaylee depends on the beardie.
Mine drank water and ate greens 🤷🏼♀️
Dude if the water bowl is empty he obviously drinks the water
That could be from the water just evaporating . Bearded dragons actually don’t drink water . Your supposed to put them in a bin of water and leave them in there for a few minutes a day so they retain the water because they retain water through there body
@@Dirtbikes1216 Ok than that means he is an even crappier pet owner
@@Dirtbikes1216 you're * supposed...
their * bodies * 😊👍
I hope he realises that bearded dragons use water too drink and cool down if they are warm, so not filling it’s water bowl is potentially causing more harm than good
I was literally just about to say this!!! That poor dragon. He doesn’t deserve to have him. Poor thing needs a much better home 😢
I'll take him
I Googled it. Bearded Dragons need fresh water daily.
AHAHAHHA, exposed
Only in or on their food, they don't need a water bowl, the humidity in the terrarium, can get to high, which can cause respiratorium problems
It also assists with humidity.
But especially when they are shedding their skin. Old skin can get built up around their toes and if he isn’t careful then the circulation in his toes can become restricted. So that bowl of water could be used not only for drinking but to them shed their skins.
Bearded dragons are not supposed to have a water dish in there enclosure. They live in a dry climate and can develop respiratory issues from high humidity. Bearded dragons absorb most of their water content through the vegetables they eat, misting their salads, bathing them, misting them in the morning and providing water in droplet form on the tip of their mouths. Just like cactuses that live in the desert don't need much water some goes for reptiles. Those are the different ways they intake water over having a sitting dish. Not just because "he doesn't drink from it" there are actual reasons why coming from someone who has owned one for 5 years with no health issues with my dragon.🖤
My daughter is 23 and still lives with me,I would rather she saves enough to buy her own place than rent
Most everyone is fine with a young adult saving money by living with family, especially now. It is being 22, 30, etc and living like a 13-year-old (no diploma, no job, no chores, gaming all day) that is the problem.
Lots of adult kids live with their parents. BUT this dude is not doing anything, no chores whatsoever, and no job.
@@Itried20takennames I have a brother, he's 26. He's literally this guy. Up in his room. All day. Playing video games. Nothing else.
I don’t know you but I appreciate you for being this kind of parent
@@nyx8927 thankyou
people can be 22 and living with their parents or grandparents. its needed for many people these days(and not just from the young person but some parents need their kids to stay now)
I agree but they still need like a pastime job, but ya i get it. Especially if there was a traumatic event, but they still need to be pushed to do some things
but he isnt doing anything
I kind of high key hate how Dr. Phil has this insane idea that it’s easy for 18 year olds or even 25 year olds to be living out on their own nowadays.
That being said, him not doing any chores and being extremely lazy about taking care of his pet is extremely unacceptable
He could have a room mate but even rent that costs 400$ a month which is the cheapest you’d find for a room, that’s still 1/3 of a paycheck if you make 12$ an hour at a regular job
i hate that idea too. but then i am 32 and still living with my parents not sure if i can judge if i am being honest.
That's true but I honestly think that he might be "adding to it" and not maybe even think that it is like that in order to add to the shock value so it would "slap them back" into reality
@@maddiemadness0 where do you live that rent would be $400 with a roommate? Lol
@@alyssarazo2650 Florida. It would be 3 or 4 roommates in a not super nice house where you could get a room for 400
Ok 22 is not that old, they acting like this guy is like 40
its not that old anymore but it was at one point.
that doesn't mean that he doesn't need to get out of his grandma's house and get a job
but the grandma has NO obligation at all to keep taking care of an adult. He needs to take care of himself. If your parents can support you, ok, but they can't.
I agree. He shouldn't have to live on his own, but he should be pulling his weight at home with his grandmother.
22 turns to 40 if nothing is done. People always use the excuse " well I'm young so its ok" like nah. U can sit there and justify it but all that does is waste time
There’s this whole notion that young people should be out on there own at 18, but this isn’t the 70’s anymore.
Right? I don’t know what happened as time went on
@@maeve9084
Getting the dollar off the gold standard.
Privatizing banks.
Croney capitalism.
Socialist programs like welfare that people abuse.
Uncontrolled flow of migrants both legal and illegal that puts stress on our economy.
Inflation do to over printing of currency.
Tax increases for socialist programs.
Voting based on culture/identity issues rather than economic ones.
Funding foreign wars instead of making Americans as first priority.
Our countries crippling debt.
The shrinking of the middle class.
etc
It sounds like Conner might be in the spectrum, in the way he's both talking and thinking. If so, he needs help from a different direction than by his family.
I do see a lot of me in him, even the spectrum.
I see it too
How so? Legitimately curious.
@@CovertCrow as a person with ASD and in a similar position as him, granted my grandmother got in a car accident and needs help around the house. But when I started hearing him talk, I immediately knew he was on the spectrum, tho he seems to be exaggerating things alot more.
What spectrum? Like adhd?
He’s abusing that animal by not providing its basic needs.. which includes a water bowl and multiple hides and climbs
@@whitewalls7929 Neglect is abuse
@@whitewalls7929 "Neglet is a type of abuse" absolutely. The rest of what you said is wrong. Trust me, I know first hand very well several kinds of abuse - including neglect (which like you said first but later contradicted).
You know, a TYPE of something is still that something. It's like saying tylenol is a type of medication, but it's not.. medication..?? See, that sentence alone contradicts itself.
Neglect can cause real, dangerous harm, like any other form of abuse. Also, there's no need for you to go off like you did.
Yes, you are right
@@whitewalls7929 how could you tell they never experienced abuse? Do you know them personally?
Bearded dragons don't use water bowls, he's not lying about that. They prefer moving water. Most people that raise them mist the dragon's food and/or apply a few drops of water for the dragon to drink. They are desert animals and don't need that much water.
lol do that many people really move out at 22? I'm turning 22 in a few months and there is absolutely no way I could afford to do that.
Maybe it's different in Australia but there's also no way most people can afford to rent on their own either which is why most young people (and older people) live in share houses. Maybe that's an Australian thing but I don't get why it's not done in America.
@@neatznotso7424 yeah i am 32 and i still live with my parents because for the moment i can not afford to live with my parents but dr makes it seem like every 18 year old moves out pretty much right away and if you can not succeed its because you are just not trying hard enough.(like i get it you should have been preparing for that since you were 14 or something but yeah i was so far behind when i was 14 and no one was really helping me out and i am going to give the excuse it was a different time when i was 14) also i was stupid and did not know any better. like even for a teenager i was pathietic. and it was pretty bad.
It isn't only that he hasn't moved out. He didn't graduate high school so he has no diploma. He isn't actively trying to get his GED. He has no job and he isn't attending any form of schooling or college. It's fine if you still "live" with you parents at 22 and don't own a property of your own but if you right now are doing anything, absolutely anything, to reach that point (if you have a high school diploma, a job, you are in college, etc.), then you are already ahead of this guy.
@@thewewguy8t88 32, tho.. one thing is 18, fine, whatever, but 14 years into adulthood? What did you spend over the last decade on? I'm really not trying to be insensitive, but c'mon.
I don't think most 22 year olds actually live on their own. I'm 22 and still live with my parents (I don't see the point in moving away from my family + I can't even afford it at this age and time), but I still help around the house, attend university, and work as a behavior therapist. This guy is just not doing anything at all.
"The main reason we haven't met is mainly scheduling."
So in 1800 days, you haven't figured out a day to see a movie? Man you must both be busy
Yes, too busy gaming.
😅😅
he's an excuse machine for sure
😂
That's true love right there, just can't wait to meet his soulmate... 😏
If he's passionate about gaming he can try a choice of streaming or RUclips or anything like that.
Boom there it is and he can at least get a little side job just help out and support till he comfortable making money playing video games
That’s actually a very wise idea
I wish he sees this comment and takes it into consideration
lmao streaming and youtube requires a trememdous amount of motivation, dedication and work ethic
@@BoyDude23 well he loves playing video games
@@ampaboi3648 Na, I mean, I don't know this guy but from the few minutes we have seen, he seems to be more into casual/relaxing entertainment than being passionate about games.
In nowadays society, it is almost impossible to be out on your own fully independent by 18-19-20 years old. If you don't have like 3 roommates, you're not gonna make ends meet. I agree that he needs to help out and get a job to pay his way, but he's not a failure on the basis that he's not out of the house at 22 😂😂😂
I'm 22 and still live with my parents. I'm close to grad and already have a job, but I won't be moving out any time soon. I honestly don't see the point in that. I'd rather live with my family than 'roommates.'
Dear god this is just embarrassing😫😫😱
It’s fine to not move out if that’s best but don’t be lazy or unmotivated to change or grow up
Hey “dr” Phil maybe if you only made minimum wage you’d be living with your mom too. You look goofy.
Seriously he expects the kid to get a min wage job in a pandemic or pay for school and just have money for rent, food, a phone, car, insurance etc this rubbed me the wrong way. Dr Phil called him “sweetheart” and I hated it
@Elizabeth Brower do you work two jobs
Did Dr Phil really just say “you’re not at home, you’re at your grandmother’s..you don’t have a home.” 😬
Yeah that's just crazy
He's treating him like he's a bum on the stress at least he has a place to stay
@@emanuelvelez5021 seriously
It's true. It's NOT his home; it's his grandmother's home. He is a guest
"You're 22 with no experience. Why aren't you living on your own during a recession and a pandemic?" I swear Dr. Phil thinks it's better to be homeless than to live with your parents after you hit 18. NOBODY moves out at 18.
They SHOULD!! This generation of losers is pathetic
I did
I didn’t move out of my parents place until I was 21 I’m embarrassed by that but I got my own apartment
I'm 21, almost 22, and I'm just now moving out of my parents' house. I wanted to move earlier but then a pandemic happened and I was furloughed like everyone else for 6+ months.
U move out at 18 if you're responsible
I know it’s hard to make enough money in some states to live alone at 22. BUT when my son lived with me during the no job O years. He did his own laundry and if I didn’t cook he fed himself
He should consider streaming honestly. He wouldn’t have to change much of his lifestyle, plus he’s already been on dr Phil, so some of that exposure could help kickstart a following.
True lol
But he'd probably have an excuse why he can't lol
@@chelseascott5872 True lmao. Ppl like him always do... 🙄🙄
He doesn’t drink the water? The water that’s never in his bowl? Make it make sense
I've owned bearded dragons, they get most of their water intake from food and being soaked/baths. I find they usually just get in their water dish and spill it everywhere
@@michaylalovitt2796 That's cool, and maybe that's why he still needs to make sure that water is always available, because if they get their water from baths too, that must be why they climb in, but if they climb in and there's no water, they can't absorb the water.
I have a bearded dragon as well, most their water comes from the food they eat as well as baths that you're supposed to provide for them, although I do still keep a water bowl in there just in case
honestly i hate when dr phil judges people who live with their parents saying why are you living with your parents past the age of 18. like as though somehow every 18+ year old needs to automatically live on their own or is able too. for the record this is coming from someone who yeah i fully admit i am 32 and still living with my parents and did not have a job until my mid 20s...yes i have a job right now.
I agree to a certain extent. However, some of these people aren't doing everything they could be doing to be productive, & they need a bit of a wake-up call. I'm 28 & currently living with my mother. However, I already have my college degree & an entry-level corporate job, plus I pay my own bills. This young guy is obviously not doing a whole lot to better his current situation, so he does need a bit of a kick in the rear. I don't think he's a horrible person, but he can do more.
I lived with my parents until I finished my degree. I had a driver's licence, showered regularly, did chores, had a part time job etc. The context is different. This guy has nothing going for him and blames everyone and everything else for his problems.
I was living on my own at 16. Half your age. Sorry, but living with parents at 32?! That’s pathetic. Man up.
@@JoJo-zx9sc yeah good for you for that. like i could say it was easy for you but idk your life just like you do not know my life so you do not know how hard or easy it would have been for me. all you know is at 16 i did not live on my own and at 32 i do not live on my own.
@@Tyrosine0910 my situation is complicated i can not say i was much better when i 22. however idk if i can say i am much better now that i am 32. apparently its pathetic that i still live with my parents.
He's ruder to this guy than a convicted murderer..explain?
He's not wrong but he should atleast have it financially stable somewhat and be able to do basic chores
Be careful! Don't get mauled by a squirrel!
I get what he's saying about the nitpicking though. It reaches a point, does she want the dishes to be done or does it have to be EXACTLY the arbitrary way she wants it done? Just because she likes the glasses arranged by color and lined up with a ruler doesn't mean there's a reason they have to be put away like that. I have a dear friend, I can't help with the dishes or laundry when I'm at her house because she has legit OCD and she has to have all the stripes perfectly lined up on the towels and the dishes were different colors and had to be put away pink/green/pink/green so I was like ... Ima let you do that, sweetie.
@@JusticeForNicholeAlloway So true!
It’s not bad to play video games, it’s not bad to be single(if you are dating someone and have never met them, you aren’t dating them.), but it is bad putting pressure on your grandmother and making her feel like a slave to your 22 year old self. If you live in her house, of course she’s going to try to control your life.
You can ABSOLUTELY be dating someone you havent met yet. Not even a question. Its not your job to go around decided if its a real relationship based off of if that have met in person yet
@@Lumalee not my job, you’re right, but still literally you’re not dating that person. Look up the definition of dateing/date.
@@GomezMedia1 DATING. In a relationship with someone. You can be in a long distance serious relationship, and just not seen eachother yet.
@@Lumalee no, you can date long distance for sure. But thats only if you have hung out before, for example, A man gets relocates to a station in Japan and leaves his Girl for several months. They can be dating. You can’t just meet someone on the internet and date them.
@@Lumalee have fun kissing the screen! Dating would imply a romantic relationship. In person relationships r obviously different
So many people whining" But 22 is not old, many adults live with their parents". That's is not the point, this dude is not doing ANYTHING, not even chores. No money, no job, no education, nothing. Most young adults can't afford to move out but at least they are contributing to the household, they don't game all day and expect to be kept at home.
I agree that he should be helping out with chores and all. But Dr. Phil on multiple occasions has stated that everyone should move out at 18 which isn't possible for pretty much anyone today.
@@BaconMaken I disagree, Dr. Phil brings up moving out because the guests are the ones saying they hate living with their family. I have never seen him suggest moving out when everyone is getting along. Sometimes he even suggests to guests who are being abused by their partner to move in with their parents. In fact every single gest that has been told to move out because they are acting entitled to be at a home that isn't theirs, or they are terribly unhappy living there.
Now i feel bad because i am 21 and don't know what to do with my life.
Im 28 and i dont know either (virtual hug)
@@aioki_uchiha 😍
Nah, you don't need to. It wouldn't even be that bad if he was just unemployed. But he doesn't even clean after himself and basically expects his grandparents to do everything.
you don’t have to feel bad about it but your job when you don’t have a job is to find a job. You should be working day and night to start getting around people in different careers and experiencing it so that you know what you like. I’m 26 and only recently have I figured out what it is that I want to do with my life but that was through experience. Just start somewhere. That’s the biggest issue that I find is that people get so afraid about the end goal that they don’t even start. But they will never get to that end goal if they don’t put 1 foot in front of the other. Good luck! You got this just be persistent.
hey i am 32 and still trying to figure that out. but this makes me feel bad because again i am 32 and still live with my parents and at 22 i was honestly a lot like this kid :/
As a 22 year old who was in this guy’s position exactly a year ago... it’s tough. during 2020 I found a full time job and now I live with my girlfriend and 2 cats so it can get better but life isn’t just going to hand you something.
It’s people like this that makes me feel like I have my life together
He says he doesnt like been treated like a child, then stop acting like one. Not rocket science, pure laziness, no excuse
I'm from Eastern Europe and it's very weird to me how people don't live with their parents there. My mom threatens me that she will kill me if I move out before 23 lmao
American have bad ideals on just about everything, like seriously just look at this show and how popular it is, any other country in the world I do not think it would’ve ever became this popular
Dr. Phil thinks it’s still the 70s and apartments are $600 a month … look 😅 if you live with your parents/grandparents just help out.
Who is his gf? I want to message her and say SIS RUN
They have now met and are actually expecting
“Why are you living with grandma at 22 and not getting a job and living on your own??” I love dr. Phil, but sometimes he says things that are so.... unrealistic. Most 22 year olds can’t afford living costs on their own and will still live with family. Granted, he should have a job, but I’m 26 and live paycheck to paycheck because of living costs.
They can live with friends, or get low income housing. People act like life is impossible for young people in a country that is basically one giant safety net, it's freaking insane.
@@hirobeats7360 Personally I would rather live with my family than roommates. However I have a full time job and pay my mom rent. There's nothing wrong with choosing to live with family over roommates as long as you're pulling your own weight and contributing.
I didn’t move Out of my parents place until I was 21 I was struggling on saving money from my job now I have my own apartment
@@hirobeats7360 One giant safety net? Fascist alert!
He's a piece of work
I have a 3 year old named Conner and he’s watching this with me and he said “heyyyyyyy, that’s not meeeee!”
Honestly I don’t see why it’s an issue to live with your parents at 22. I’m 20 and live with my mom, but I am going to college, working and doing tasks around the house. The problem isn’t that he lives with his grandma but that he’s mooching off her by not contributing.
I’m 21 in college and still live with my parents.. i have 2 jobs but still, trying to save for school. Is that bad? Haha
I hate how mean Dr Phil is about his age, I didn't move out until I was 26, and I moved back with my parents now at 33 because of the pandemic. it's okay to not be on your own at 22.
Dr Phil is stuck in the 1980's.
Get a job! If you don’t like your grandma’s rules, get your own place! 😂
know something funny? my grandma used to try to give me rules. i called social services on her and threatened legal action for hate crimes on her. that shut her up real quick
Im 23. I still live with my elderly parents. There is a difference between me and Conner. I work a full time job and am working on an EMT certification. I mow the lawn, do the dishes, do laundry and shop. I try to take as much off my older parents shoulders. They tell me that I am their joy in life and honestly I love them both so much. I enjoy taking care of them, I do not pay rent and I eat for free. The difference is I do so much around the house and I make up for it.
Good for you sir. My life followed a very similar path. Had to live with my parents until I was 27 because of my financial situation, but like you I mowed the lawn, shoveled snow and occasionally cooked dinner. Actually helped me learn how to live on my own.
You don’t need to have life figure out but you do need a job to surport your self
$100 says this guy plays RuneScape
Imma keep my $100 thank you very much
Fortnite probably
At least help out your granny Conner. 🤦♀️ that poor lady needs to be enjoying her retirement and not having a freeloader living in her home.
I looked after my younger siblings and helped cook and clean from the time I was 8. I babysat for money at 12. I got my first job at 14. The only time since then that I haven't been employed is when I took over 24/7 care for by brother when he had terminal cancer and my mother through the ravages of Alzheimer's, until her death. Then I went back to work. And I'm 63. Will work until I'm at least 72.
my mom just retired at like 65
I empathize with him A LOT. My grandmother is basically a mix of Kate Gosselin and Livia Soprano. She demands that my father and myself revolve our entire lives around her and when she doesn't get what she wants she uses guilt or constant nagging. I cannot wait to be free but the cost of living just keeps skyrocketing. 🤦♂️
There's nothing wrong with living with your parents as an adult, as long as you help out.
Your grandma is not controlling you sir, she has boundaries and standards. You don’t like ‘em, then go your way.
I pray this young man gets himself out of the two toxic situations he's been in so far and gets strong on his own, you can do it!!
Agree!
Shortly after the show he left to Arizona. Thank God. Hes a sweet kid.
DR.Phil a savage lmfao he said gaming n playing with ur lizard 🦎 hahahhahahhhahahahahahahah
Buying a house and living alone when you turn 18? In this economy? How out of touch is Dr Phil?!
Also while I'm not a professional I can make a pretty good guess that the guy is suffering under depression. So I like how in "Dr" Phils mind the greatest choice is to just berate him publically and call him lazy. Because THAT'S not harmful at all 🙄
This guy is exactly like the computer programmer who was really lazy with long hair he even looks like him
I swear to god it is
But he didnt live with his grandma and he was like a genius, and worked for some company
They rotated the actors too quick 😂
@@Cheer4lifeAmberMarie yea true
I thought it was him for a while
As a teenager, I wanted to work, learn to drive, and do certain chores. My mom wouldn't let me do any of it because she deemed me doing so a waste of time.
I grew up in a toxic, emotionally abusive household and I couldn't do anything that allowed me to grow up. Then at 23 years old, my mom had the gall to say I had arrested development during an argument.
Looking at this kid, who is completely content to do nothing for his grandmother and makes tons of excuses, it makes me angry. I had to claw my way into adulthood and people like him just enjoy staying a child.
Unearned Privilege Weighs Like an Anchor
Seems like a socialist😳
@@GomezMedia1 these people will tell you to go back to your own country. No matter how much u agree with them
@@RUTHLESSambition5 who is “these people”🤣
@@GomezMedia1 the people you align with
@@RUTHLESSambition5 i never aligned myself with anyone
Well Dr Phil you did it, unemployment is no more. Sure his mental state is now further damage now that you humiliated him on national TV just cuz he's lazy but dont worry now that is causing him to further go into a introverted mood but you did it. Now I'm sure he will get a job instantly while you sit on you tv show making millions while the rest of us will make just 10% of that amount bearly be able to pay debt. Thank you
OMG am getting so angry this people have no shame 🙄
I'm from Eastern Europe. Some people here live with their grandparents till 40(if they're alive till then) and their whole life with their parents. I don't really think that's a problem because at first point they're family and you can't just kick out a close person except if you're toxic af. I see why he's so depressed
Yeah American culture is backwards. Nothing wrong with living with family til the day you die. That's what family is for.
What is wrong with people. I had a full time job at 18 and lived on my own. I don't understand the mentality of this generation.
You’re probably like 65 and rent cost you like $200 back then 😂 I’m 18 and still in my senior year of high school how am I supposed to work full time and move out? Huh?
God this hurt my brain to watch 🤦🏻♀️ Phil you are just getting ridiculous!
Dr.Phill literally went all out boomer on this poor lad, he wasn't that aggressive with people that actually deserved it in his show. How dare you not have your own place with a minimum wage at 22? Maybe if boomers didn't drive the housing prices up that high we would all live by ourselves. Finding a job is hard in this pandemic, especially when old people hold management positions and won't hire anyone because they didn't answer properly how they see themselves in 5 years
At 22, I was a qualified nurse with my own home!
I’m 24 now, but at 22 I was married with two kids, a full time student, and a home owner. I don’t understand not being proactive with your life!
@@sierrarae1874 You guys have to understand that not everyone moves at that pace though. I do not condone many of his actions but comparing his situation to yours is ignorant and insensitive tbh.
@@ahmedkaryouti4266 the only thing I’m judging is his lack of effort. Everyone moves at different paces but to not aspire to do anything is beyond me.
@@TheMillerChild I came from a small mining village in the UK. The mining collieries were closed and unemployment was at an all time high. There were NO jobs. There still aren't many jobs in the area as the government haven't invested in my area for 40 years. My parents were both unemployed. I had no one to help me. I went to college and trained to be a nurse - I also learned to drive and bought myself a cheap car. This young man in the video had not done anything with his life in the three years leading up to the pandemic.
LOL little does he know right now that going on Dr. Phil will be a changing day in his life 😉👏 ❤️ .
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with living with family at 22 years old but if he is he definitely needs to help around.
he definitely has an excuse for everything but I also understand that being that age it’s really hard to know what direction to start to move in. A lot of the times we become so fearful about taking those steps that we simply don’t do anything at all and we rationalize why we can’t hence his excuses. The grandmother is absolutely correct in saying that if he’s going to live there she expects him to do some basic chores around the house. He’s not paying rent so that’s absolutely acceptable and he should be jumping to do that. He’s been given an opportunity of a carefree stress-free life and is taking advantage of it. He needs to have a structured day with set chores and he probably needs to start speaking to a therapist or a life coach so that he can start making achievable goals and conquering them so that he gains confidence.
Go out and TRY!
USELESS little bum.
@@cinder7183 I work 40 hrs a week as a vet tech and I don’t make enough money to move out of my parents house. The economy is a lot worse to actually help people in their 20s be able to live on their own compared to couple decades ago.
Im his friend and too see dr phil give no advice to help motived him to get his ged to go to a tech school or college and just yell at him is stupid. also he worked for 6 months and was giving his grandmother $600 a month in rent, which is more then half what she pays. I like how they cut that out of the story. I get it. He is a adult and should have some plan for live, but it takes time and money to do that. His grandma should have been more supported and help him finish school.
@@kylemorris7161
He was offered help but your buddy even managed to alienate his (free) life coach, Mike Bayer.
That's not easy to do.
Dr. Phil is anything but stupid.
He also seemed tired of this guy's arrogant attitude.
Strike two.
All I heard in that 5 minutes was "Blah blah blah, I don't want to contribute to Society or be a responsible adult. I'd rather make excuses and do nothing all day"
1:20 ya know I haven’t met my gf cuz she goes to another school is the equivalent of what he jus said lmaoo 😭😭😂💀
22 years old and won’t get a GED. LMAOOOOO,
As a gamer I will admit I am addicted. But I'm 10 so as long as I keep my grades up and everything I should be okay. There is nothing wrong with living your grandparents at 22 as long as you help or pay rent etc.
To be fair even with a a full time job as a young adult it is very hard to move out on your own. It isn’t that easy for a lot of people.
Doctor Phill expect everyone to be independent at 18. Life is more complicated than that.
especially now
Lmao this is the dude that calls you an “incel” on Reddit😂
Why should he move out at 22? Sorry but my daughter didn't leave till 28. I don't like this " move out as soon as"
I know I have seen a lot of comments "well I had my own place and car at 22" well good for you but not everyone can afford that!!
Yea I agree Megan is right not everyone was inherited money like you probably. If you can afford your daughter at age 28. Jesus Christ. Get a clue. In my opinion. You probably have a tremendous job and beautiful house. That’s how you were able to afford that. You are what is considered the one percent.
I'm not rich or well off. My daughter paid board worked full time had her own car went on holidays paid her own phone bill etc before she met the man she married. My other children left at 16 and 21. All happy independent grown ups.
Its ok to be 22 and living with your grandmother..but you need to work and help out your grandmother your lazy beyond belief and using your grandmother...its not alright...we love our grandkids ,i have 16 grandkids and great grandkids..i love them all....but you need to help out...no excuses
I'm 20 and still live with my parents. This dude needs to at least do some house chores or get a job to help his grandparents. His age however isn't that big of a deal since living wages have skyrocketed and living on your own at 20 requires some miracles at this point, especially if you live somewhere like California.
So basically """Dr.""" Phil and his cronies just ganged up on this dude for an episode.
Love from New York
There’s no age limit to live with your folks, but there is an age where you should be working.
This boy needs to get a haircut and get a real job
Lol, yep, just like the song says! He’s acting like 22 is just “too young to know what he’s doing or have any responsibilities “, sooo lazy. He should be at a full time job and in his own apt at this age like reg adults! He’ll never move out
I'm sure bullying him helped a lot
It’s ironic that he says his mom is the one with the God complex...
Change the wifi password, than he cant play video games all night...
Idk, the grandmother can just kick him out if she wants to enforce boundary. But i can't imagine first interaction with patient being "what are you doing to be a contributing member of society?!" Is being unemployed really the problem or a symptom.. sounds like he has history of trauma and loss with parents blurb. i know what dr Phil means but i don't think that his shaming approach is going to motivate the guy - he already gets that from grandmother and now he'll be even more defensive outnumbered. I feel like Phil may be frustrated with patients who aren't growing - and seems here to have forgot about both what made helping others his passion and his own journey. It's first appt, it takes time to work with someone - you don't just yell at them into submission
I think his approach is more of a wake up call. Someone other than his guardians has the same view on him. So he then has to realize it’s not just his nagging parents/grandparents, but an actual problem he’s got to address. That being said, I agree with you lol. I think he can get the same point across by being a little less confrontational. You worded it pretty well. He’s already outnumbered and I would think dr Phil would appeal to that a little bit by being a tad softer with the dude.
My girl lived at home first two years of college.... but she worked starting at 16 and SAVED! She had $10k before she moved out. She was easily able to rent her own apt and get non hand me down furniture. Right after college she bought Her OWN 3 BDRM HOUSE at this guys age!
She lived at home for the first two years out of college, but bought a three-bedroom house right out of college? That doesn't really make sense. Did she buy it two years after college?
yeah good for her.
Okay so he knows he's lazy...I'm gone
I’m 22, and don’t have my life together, but I help pay for food, I pay rent, I clean everything, & I do what I need to to help out whenever I can.
And it’s okay not to have your life together... many people at this age don’t. If people have bills, no job pays enough to just make someone to up and leave at 18 to be on their own. But I will agree with most of these comments that he along with many other people need to find motivation to try and better themselves.
If he doesn';t like living at Grandma's, then move out! Problem solved.
ok its a lot harder said then done mate.
Hope you're ready to help him get that $410k to afford that
When im stressed ?? 🤣🤣 What do you have to stressed about ?? You dont even know what stress is 😅
I'm guessing stress from depression or perhaps a lack of direction in life
Im the same age as him and I really just can not imagine having such little ambition for life. That would give me so much stress knowing I had no plans for the future.
f quint exactly
Just lazy and his mum is responsible. As for pets, look after it or give it to someone who will. How bout I stop you from getting water? Lazy... no excuse
Excuses are his middle name. And he even has a girlfriend! I wonder how this wld play out if she got pregnant.
My 4 year old helps water plants and pull weeds