SHOT FIRED AT FOX13: Mother of alleged gunman speaks after bullet flies into our station

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  • Опубликовано: 1 май 2023
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  • @whoaitsreesy
    @whoaitsreesy Год назад +73

    I’m sorry, but if your grown son attempts to injure or kill someone-he needs to go to jail. Just how did he get the gun? If he had a mental illness, how was he cleared to possess a gun? That should’ve had a red flag. This is all excuses, just admit the accountability.

    • @jacorymcdade812
      @jacorymcdade812 Год назад +6

      🎯🎯🎯

    • @kimberlybates27
      @kimberlybates27 Год назад

      Either you living under a rock , or just dumb. The man in Kentucky shot up the bank a few wks ago. Was under a physician due to mental issues yet he purchased a gun no red flag!

    • @WoundedWarrior2012
      @WoundedWarrior2012 Год назад +1

      Facts

    • @caroldavidson-hylton900
      @caroldavidson-hylton900 Год назад +1

      Kids can have mental issue and choose to do stupid things seeking attention.
      He is not the first male to commit such act. UNLIKE many who get lawyers to claim mental health problems, this mother spoke her truth. BLACKMEN SUFFER FROM MENTAL HEALTH ISSUE TOO. WHAT TO DO BEFORE THE PUT THE PUBLIC LIFE AT RISK.

  • @kingsolomon0
    @kingsolomon0 Год назад +53

    Being raised by both parents is the ideal way to raise a family , but again children MUST learn to listen and obey their parents.

    • @5thsNGunz
      @5thsNGunz Год назад +1

      The apple don’t fall to far from the pockets of a thief

    • @kingsolomon0
      @kingsolomon0 Год назад

      @@5thsNGunz 😂😂😂😂😂 that is a new one to me.

    • @markaddison4642
      @markaddison4642 Год назад

      Symbolism! Good people raise good children, and even then, they can raise a serial killer's. School shooters normally come from 2 parent homes. Stereotypical talking points ahow how white media has you. 54% of black men don't have children.

  • @marshcreek4355
    @marshcreek4355 Год назад +77

    They need fathers who are good fathers.

    • @chick-fil-agal2264
      @chick-fil-agal2264 Год назад +1

      💯

    • @chick-fil-agal2264
      @chick-fil-agal2264 Год назад +4

      ​@Lucy Lash yep only way a mom is usually a single mother cuz the FATHER not there, the mom is there yes so stop blaming mom she didn't leave u

    • @goated3285
      @goated3285 Год назад

      He had a dad so wth are you talking about as the dad was the one feeding him misinformation

    • @chick-fil-agal2264
      @chick-fil-agal2264 Год назад

      @G O A T E D that's why she said a good father

  • @bumpyjohnson635
    @bumpyjohnson635 Год назад +70

    Listen to her message about a child NEEDS a father in their life let’s start putting our families back together ❤

    • @joewright6095
      @joewright6095 Год назад +4

      Lets start holding people accountable for their actions instead of teaching them to blame someone else for their evil deeds. My dad was a alcoholic always chasing women around. My mother hated me because I reminded her of my father. I was ten years old hanging out smoking weed and doing my thing. I never shot at anyone. I never hurt anyone intentionally. I've hurt some people's feelings in my life and that's the only thing I've done. So yalls points are invalid. Dude belongs in a jail before he hurts someone.

    • @chick-fil-agal2264
      @chick-fil-agal2264 Год назад +4

      Depends also what kinda father they have, hell he maybe just as worse

    • @CrackHeadHuntersDrugDealer
      @CrackHeadHuntersDrugDealer Год назад +1

      Then she should of let him be in the child's life! Too late now!

    • @nicke1903
      @nicke1903 Год назад

      @@joewright6095 nope but you acted like your father...same reckless behavior, who knows what "Father" this guy had. Not saying there's any excuse, but there's no replacement for a active, good father figure. I lost my Dad March 14th to Cancer, I'm truly thankful to have had my dad in my life as long as I did.

  • @cynthiaficklin8311
    @cynthiaficklin8311 Год назад +91

    She's on the news trying to keep him out of jail. PERIOD.

    • @The.Teflon.Don.2024.
      @The.Teflon.Don.2024. Год назад +31

      She's on the news playing victim and blaming the father. She raised that monster.

    • @robsawyer8034
      @robsawyer8034 Год назад +20

      Bingo. Glad some people see it. She knows that she raised the son so she looks bad.

    • @rhuttrho88
      @rhuttrho88 Год назад +1

      🫡

    • @RoccyKennelsTrueGameDogs
      @RoccyKennelsTrueGameDogs Год назад

      ​@@The.Teflon.Don.2024. She ain't denying raising him that's the point his father should have been in his life ...stop talking stupid..............

    • @vonshep8465
      @vonshep8465 Год назад +2

      He is her SON!! That’s called being a MOM!

  • @SplitTHEBILLIDKY
    @SplitTHEBILLIDKY Год назад +100

    I wanted to do what I wanted to do as a teen, but my mom a single parent got on my azz like no other and now I’m a college graduate and a family man straight outta the projects

    • @onetwo9792
      @onetwo9792 Год назад +7

      Unfortunately the youth today can’t see you or won’t it takes to much personal effort to achieve what you have.

    • @tanyabrinkley9268
      @tanyabrinkley9268 Год назад +7

      ​@@onetwo9792 THAT'S WHY DEPARTMENT OF CHILD PSYCHOLOGY AND THE P.I.N.S PROGRAMS NEED TO BE BOUGHT BACK.
      AND FROM YOUTH TEACH THEM ABOUT GOD AND HELP THEM FIND THEIR PURPOSE IN LIFE.
      IF THEY DON'T LISTEN TURN THEM IN TO THE P.I.N.S PROGRAMS AND REPORT THEM TO THE DEPARTMENT OF PSYCHIATRY. ITS OUR RESPONSIBLITY TO THESE CHILDREN.
      START FROM YOUNG,

    • @jeffreywalls202
      @jeffreywalls202 Год назад +8

      She took care of business instead of pointing fingers at someone who wasn’t there. Kudos to your mother. God bless her

    • @Khultan
      @Khultan Год назад +1

      💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @Mr.HotRod
      @Mr.HotRod Год назад +2

      @@tanyabrinkley9268 I agree with everything you said except the GOD thing. All that does is F - up everything. When things don't go right, they start blaming GOD who must have wanted it this way. That's s cop out and a lame a.. excuse.

  • @son-in-law7372
    @son-in-law7372 Год назад +51

    Mental or no mental if you shoot at someone or something you need to do the time

  • @TheHolymadrix
    @TheHolymadrix Год назад +28

    Wait. You have been with your husband since you were 13 but the boy doesnt have a father around. Wtf, this woman full of excuses for her bad parenting and poor life choices.

    • @robsawyer8034
      @robsawyer8034 Год назад +3

      I caught that too

    • @ladarronholloway1812
      @ladarronholloway1812 Год назад

      How do you know that's his father she's married to? How do you know his step father didn't want to play Daddy? It's easy to judge a situation from the outside. Please get the full story first. You'll be surprised about life.

    • @virgochild4216
      @virgochild4216 Год назад +1

      It's called a Single married Mother. It's a thing 💯

  • @lorenathorpe8909
    @lorenathorpe8909 Год назад +25

    Heartbreaking to hear that mother speak about how she struggled raising her son as a single parent.

    • @maxinenall9950
      @maxinenall9950 10 месяцев назад +1

      Stop calling these women "single parent" they are "unwed mothers"

  • @JohnRidersoldoutforjesus
    @JohnRidersoldoutforjesus Год назад +11

    These people are so dramatic. Your son went in and shot up a place.
    And why do we keep calling it mental health??? It is spiritual health. So many are spiritually dead inside. They are listening to the wrong spirits in them.

  • @Transformersarecoming4yourkids
    @Transformersarecoming4yourkids Год назад +27

    She and the father did not raise this child. That’s why he is the way he is. And that’s why these young brothers are currently terrorizing society.

    • @kinshastareed7092
      @kinshastareed7092 Год назад

      How do you know what this mother did or didn't do? She talking about something important Mental health and how it has affected her son and his actions. Key word His. Sounds like your mother or father didn't teach you boundaries and how not to judge other people. Interesting

    • @donscoopez3942
      @donscoopez3942 Год назад +1

      @@kinshastareed7092 bc who doesn’t talk to their kids for months that’s a red flag ?? We don’t know how she is inside her house, the fact she blaming every factor other than herself is also a red flag

    • @kinshastareed7092
      @kinshastareed7092 Год назад

      @@donscoopez3942 actually I know plenty of parents who don't speak to their children for months because they allow those adult children to be the adults they are suppose to be. Also, sometimes in a mental health crisis a person may isolate themselves or lose track of time. She's not blaming anything but stating the factors specific to her experience as a parent with a child with mental illness. Bye

    • @donscoopez3942
      @donscoopez3942 Год назад +1

      @@kinshastareed7092 being an adult doesn’t mean u don’t speak to your loved ones for months what type of dumb logic is that if your kids can go months without speaking to you or vise versa the love ain’t there all the way coming from a broken home Ik first hand

    • @kinshastareed7092
      @kinshastareed7092 Год назад

      @@donscoopez3942 gtfoh...I said BYE. Not going to argue with ignorance.

  • @SevenUP901
    @SevenUP901 Год назад +98

    I feel for her but please don't come with that "my son is not a bad person"BS. Literally almost every mother says this about their child when something like this happens. It's getting old now. Your child/adult has to own up to what he did. Every child is not a good child💯

    • @whoaitsreesy
      @whoaitsreesy Год назад +11

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @laurenbellard2129
      @laurenbellard2129 Год назад +8

      💯 totally agree with you

    • @joerock64
      @joerock64 Год назад +12

      I'm with you 100% all she wants is publicly and wants people to feel sorry for her, what a crock of s--t. Her son is F--ked and this mental issued is a cop out. Just admit it, as a mom you messed up

    • @jacorymcdade812
      @jacorymcdade812 Год назад +4

      🎯 🎯 🎯 🎯 🎯 Just the comment I was looking for.

    • @telleblu4382
      @telleblu4382 Год назад +4

      What hateful comments. This mother is in so much pain. A mother should not speak ill of her child(ren), especially not in public. Mental illness in black people is far often ignored and/or misdiagnosed.

  • @robsawyer8034
    @robsawyer8034 Год назад +88

    She’s been with her husband since she was 13, but she was single as a mother? All over the place and went through every emotion in the book

    • @user-tj7jo5zl6b
      @user-tj7jo5zl6b Год назад +25

      She has 15mim to explain over 35 plus years after finding out the pain her son has caused. Yeah this world needs to end real soon with ALL these judgmental perfect souls walking around here as NO sin is greater than the other. You break ONE you break them All.

    • @philineasewatts362
      @philineasewatts362 Год назад +8

      @@user-tj7jo5zl6b so true tell emotional state is very unsteady praying for her and family

    • @CreoleNic
      @CreoleNic Год назад +29

      Rob because accountability was facing her and she didn't know which lie to use. I want to come off as a wife and mother, but then I need to just blame the dad and become a single mother victim I will be supported and not judged. It is the man fault. 😅

    • @user-tj7jo5zl6b
      @user-tj7jo5zl6b Год назад +17

      @@CreoleNic You can be married and single at the same time when it comes to responsibilities with a LAZY partner. The sad part is the merciless judgmental ones who have no understanding nor compassion for others. Where was this FATHER while she's the one who took him to get help at the same place he shot up because he was denied behavioral medications? That's why the MOTHER was at the scene of the crime speaking to the media.

    • @user-tj7jo5zl6b
      @user-tj7jo5zl6b Год назад

      @5 Minutes on the Farm Says the born lying savages.

  • @TerraVeritas
    @TerraVeritas Год назад +28

    I can hear her pain... but can't understand a word she's saying.

  • @geraldine1437
    @geraldine1437 Год назад +126

    Prayers for this mother. She said a mouth full - BOYS NEED THEIR FATHERS!

    • @sackclothashes2205
      @sackclothashes2205 Год назад +13

      Why don't they ever look for Father's before they lay down?

    • @JohnRidersoldoutforjesus
      @JohnRidersoldoutforjesus Год назад +17

      You're not allowed to say that today. Although very true. But the mother plays a big part in it as well. That is the cop-out for momma. Dady did it.

    • @aliciamorris5054
      @aliciamorris5054 Год назад

      @@JohnRidersoldoutforjesus Its obvious that you have no life. Do you battle depression daily?

    • @xlcrazyeyelx
      @xlcrazyeyelx Год назад +12

      Not true. I didn't need mine. Never killed no one

    • @lataun.richardson
      @lataun.richardson Год назад

      Boys need positive males in their lives💯A boy does not need his biological father to be SHOWN how to be a man✨A SINGLE MOTHER can not raise a boy to be a MAN. When a boy hits his teens and that testosterone kicks in.. WOMEN/MOTHERS HAVE NO IDEA WHAT THEY ARE GOING THROUGH. Boys have to be SHOWN how to walk like a man, talk like a man, how to treat his fellow man, how to be a provider,etc.
      I'm a single mother and have made sure my 15yo son had men available. They can range from grandfathers, brothers, uncles, coaches, teachers, neighbors, whomever a mother deems would be an asset to her son.
      I know people mean well when they say HAPPY FATHERS DAY to me but I kindly tell them,"I AM NOT A FATHER. PLEASE DON'T TAKE THIS DAY AWAY FROM MEN. I AM NOT FATHER AND MOTHER TO MY SON. I AM A MOTHER"

  • @tdmusicforever
    @tdmusicforever Год назад +79

    Every person that commits an evil act is not mentally Ill. Some people do evil acts because that’s what they choose to do. There are people who are unhappy and want to see others unhappy or dead.
    There are people who are mentally ill but don’t choose to act violently. I don’t know the man or his family so I can’t say if he is mentally ill or not but mental illness is not the answer for every violent crime that someone commits.

    • @ifixeditmyself1926
      @ifixeditmyself1926 Год назад +6

      Mental illness may not be the answer why some commit violent acts but it is a factor. Extreme fear, anxiety, depression, delusion etc are manifestations of mental illness. Some people just express those disorders differently dependingon a varietyof circumstances. Committing a crime doesn't excuse the perpetrators but the breakdown is telling us that many (especially young impressionable people with undeveloped brains) are going into strong delusion and committing violent crimes.

    • @franceseccher409
      @franceseccher409 Год назад

      Totally agree with you. So sick and tired that a mental illness is always used as an excuse.

    • @cantunderstandfoolishpeeps2036
      @cantunderstandfoolishpeeps2036 Год назад +4

      you are 100% correct! we need mental hospitals back ...

    • @bhards
      @bhards Год назад +3

      I don't know, I think you'd have to be mentally ill to want to do evil, at least in the moment. That doesn't mean I think they should get away with it, but maybe prisons shouldn't be places where even sane, innocent people would go a little crazy. The ones who get out after violent crimes often get worse there, get out and do it again. I know that's asking a lot, but some things take a lot to fix, if that's the actual goal. Not an easy issue, humans...

    • @donscoopez3942
      @donscoopez3942 Год назад

      Lol when someone has extreme anger in life it is mental illness

  • @latonya6451
    @latonya6451 Год назад +41

    She should have not been talking to them reporters. Go and see about your son.

    • @Mr.HotRod
      @Mr.HotRod Год назад +9

      Should of just kept her mouth shut instead of trying to blame everyone else except where the blame really goes with raising this wanna be gang banger.

  • @Itsmyturn-notpickme
    @Itsmyturn-notpickme Год назад +107

    My empathy and sincere prayers to this mother, the young man and family. I feel you sister. Mental illness is real.

  • @Ibantar
    @Ibantar Год назад +45

    Did she ALLOW THE FATHER to be involved in his life? (LEGITIMATE QUESTION!!!!)

    • @lakashnalawrence342
      @lakashnalawrence342 Год назад +10

      Oh yess let's blame her it's only the right thing to do😒

    • @v.a.993
      @v.a.993 Год назад +16

      The father does not need to worry about the mother. The father needs to do his 50% part! Go to court and petition to be responsible and provide for any children that you help to create. If you don't want to accept any responsibility for children that you help to create, don't create children. Make sure jimmy is wearing a hat!

    • @jeffbrown6533
      @jeffbrown6533 Год назад +11

      ​@@v.a.993 I don't disagree & I am a father however I wish that it was as simple as you make it appear! A man should not have to go to court to fight for custody, that's already wrong! The courts or most courts are not kind to men! Lastly I would also note that I was in the home with mine so I was not an absentee!

    • @rhuttrho88
      @rhuttrho88 Год назад

      ​@@v.a.993 🤭😅😅😅🤣🤣🤣😂

    • @brenreed
      @brenreed Год назад +2

      The nerve of you 😏😏😪

  • @miked853
    @miked853 Год назад +7

    No accountability, I can’t co-sign this.

  • @automatic_systematic
    @automatic_systematic Год назад +8

    None of this is her fault. Absolutely no accountability whatsoever

  • @danasmith1899
    @danasmith1899 Год назад +7

    What a load of crap, put her monster kid in jail before he does worse

  • @NYTude
    @NYTude Год назад +18

    I call BS! She knew he was mentally ill and did nothung! She has nothing but excuses!

  • @bendover7937
    @bendover7937 Год назад +48

    The son's problem is right here! His whole family and entire culture needed help a long time ago. Generations of ignorance. And now these ignorant judges will let this lifetime criminal out because the ignorant police didn't charge him correctly. Should've been charged at very least with attempted murder instead of a yet another simple aggravated assault. Dude had the same charge about a month prior. Memphis is past the point of any help or prayers. It's Hell populated by Devils!

    • @T2C47
      @T2C47 Год назад +3

      The police have to consult with the DA and they charge according to what they can prove beyond reasonable doubt, based on the evidence. Aggravated Assault carries as long a sentence, if not more, in many cases.

    • @vmw4444
      @vmw4444 Год назад

      Culture??? There are subcultures within cultures. We're not monolithic no more than any other race of people are. I don't know that life at all along with millions of others. Stop identifying one particular race of people as having the same experiences. We do not.
      It's pure ignorance and delusional thinking to not see beyond the programming that the masses are under.

    • @kinshastareed7092
      @kinshastareed7092 Год назад

      The entire culture? Could you elaborate. History tells us that your white culture uprooted and enslaved people. Your white culture stole, raped, and killed. Your white culture is angry and jealous...That's why we have racism. So you were saying who's ignorant....

    • @sophine7189
      @sophine7189 Год назад +1

      You do know he was basically trying to commit suicide by cop... ill say he is deranged.

  • @sexytrinny52
    @sexytrinny52 Год назад +26

    Momma please you knew your son was CoCo for CoCo Puffs. You could have had him on a 48 Involuntary hold and told the hospital that was a danger to himself and others.

  • @luckynedpepper9030
    @luckynedpepper9030 Год назад +8

    I can see where the son gets it.

  • @successjunky3694
    @successjunky3694 Год назад +13

    Another single mother blaming the father totally for a broken home , zero responsibility, in her creating these bastards

    • @sackclothashes2205
      @sackclothashes2205 Год назад +3

      Bingo. Notice THEY are ALWAYS the victims, both male and female.

  • @Jana-vj3vf
    @Jana-vj3vf Год назад +19

    If she knew he had problems at 13. She said that I would ask her if she ever got help for him then. If not, she failed him and he would go straight to jail.

    • @Daye2D410
      @Daye2D410 Год назад

      I’ve gone through this with my 38 year old brother who is mentally unstable. The courts don’t help and jail doesn’t do anything and they can’t keep them for nothing and because he’s an adult his mom can’t put him somewhere and they keep him because he’ll sign his papers to release him and they don’t have to tell family’s when they leave.

  • @Vrillon2025
    @Vrillon2025 Год назад +39

    Sometimes that bad sh!t run in the family

    • @knowledgetree7134
      @knowledgetree7134 Год назад +3

      And sometimes the Dads are worst than the kids and a bad influence!

    • @megarth1
      @megarth1 Год назад +3

      And sometimes the momma negates what the father tries to accomplish.

  • @mylamberfeeties875
    @mylamberfeeties875 Год назад +35

    The ROOT is in his home, his life style WHAT HES ALLOWED TO DO AT HOME, in HER HOUSE. She lets him do what HE WANTS not what is right.

    • @mannyjackson3678
      @mannyjackson3678 Год назад +4

      Amen!

    • @mylamberfeeties875
      @mylamberfeeties875 Год назад +2

      @@aftertheheadlines she chose his father 🤷‍♀️ she picked him laid down with him. Brought a child into the world SHE CHOSE that. There's absolutely no way she gets a pass it's HER duty to do ALL she can to provide for that child including a father figure. God the Bible was available to her every second of everyday. Church's big brother programs a uncle a cousin. There are millions of children without a biological father that don't act out.

    • @The.Teflon.Don.2024.
      @The.Teflon.Don.2024. Год назад

      Love how these single black so called mother's pretend they had clue what their gremlins are doing in the streets. She raised that monster, and she looks like a fool standing there putting on a show with her fake outrage.

    • @user-tj7jo5zl6b
      @user-tj7jo5zl6b Год назад +2

      And you know that about her how?

    • @user-tj7jo5zl6b
      @user-tj7jo5zl6b Год назад

      @@mylamberfeeties875 People change, we have police molesting and raping children that didn't always do that before they were married. And majority of the time growth comes with age as she said she was with the father at 13urs old. So quick to JUDGE.
      We have children and adults acting out every 5min rich/poor, where have you been?

  • @2KGrind09
    @2KGrind09 Год назад +17

    we've seen kids with 2 parent homes still commit mass murder. 🙏

    • @WN_Byers
      @WN_Byers Год назад +1

      Yeah. Tell that to every weekend in Chicago

    • @Transformersarecoming4yourkids
      @Transformersarecoming4yourkids Год назад

      True. There are lots of kids from single mother homes not behaving like this. She failed as a parent and doesn’t want to accept that.

  • @kathrynsmith3417
    @kathrynsmith3417 Год назад +11

    Young boys need to be raised in a family with a father & mother who model obeying laws, rules, morals, ethics. This mother telling the truth that a boy needs a father.

    • @Transformersarecoming4yourkids
      @Transformersarecoming4yourkids Год назад +3

      Unfortunately, most black families are not raised like that & that’s the problem.

    • @blackie1of4
      @blackie1of4 Год назад

      I would add girls need their daddy's too!
      The love that is reciprocal between parents and their children are priceless!
      For girls that have a wonderful father.. he's the measuring stick for who they date! If you're dad treats you well.. loves you respects you encourages you supports you and takes care of you.. you won't settle for less!
      Now.. if your dad is a horrible person doesn't love you isn't around.. well.. you'll settle for attention!
      Not all girls and boys fail due to lack of either.. they fail due to not having values self-respect work ethic no discipline lack of cooperation and can't get along with others!

  • @v.a.993
    @v.a.993 Год назад +8

    Had she been helping him get psychological help? He was/is her responsibility.

  • @pgppe9488
    @pgppe9488 Год назад +23

    This is sad, but we need to address the brokenness of the black family. Everything starts at the point of conception. We need to get back to the black family from the 60’s and the 70’s.
    We should Focus on eradicating teenage pregnancy, and then commit to influencing black and brown people to view marriage as a positive thing, so we can commit to building strong black families lead by a husband.

  • @BigTop.howard
    @BigTop.howard Год назад +4

    Praying for her spirit….. 😢

  • @betsyp500
    @betsyp500 Год назад +8

    A MOTHER IS GOING TO DO WHAT SHE HAS TO DO FOR HER CHILDREN, WHETHER THE FATHER IS AROUND OR NOT, HE MAY NEED HELP, BUT HE HAS SOME UNDERSTANDING, AND HE NEEDS TO GO TO JAIL,

    • @rhuttrho88
      @rhuttrho88 Год назад +1

      They used to have DR.S that come to jail once a week. Mental health care.

  • @sunshineladyy901
    @sunshineladyy901 Год назад +51

    Praying for her and her son, hope he gets the help he needs ‼️‼️‼️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @georgejones4866
    @georgejones4866 Год назад +9

    I MENTOR A LOT OF SINGLE PARENT SON'S AND THEY ARE DOING WELL... EVERYBODY EXCUSE IS MENTAL HEALTH!!! Didn't she say, she was with his father since xyz!!

  • @williamcarson2478
    @williamcarson2478 Год назад +10

    They're so full of it. That's a cry to be locked up.

  • @andrejones5441
    @andrejones5441 Год назад +8

    … She failed at raising him.

    • @lildrejr899
      @lildrejr899 Год назад

      Not necessarily.. She wasn't expecting to raise her son alone. It took 2 bringing him into this, it should of been 2 help raising him.

    • @andrejones5441
      @andrejones5441 Год назад +3

      @@lildrejr899 ... If she was raising him alone with no man in the house, "she failed at raising him." A present mother can be just as bad, if not worse, than an absent father.

    • @Transformersarecoming4yourkids
      @Transformersarecoming4yourkids Год назад +1

      @@lildrejr899 I know too many kids they were raised by a single parent that did not turn out like this. She is at fault and so is the father wherever he is.

    • @xreborncjayy5810
      @xreborncjayy5810 Год назад +1

      @@lildrejr899 tell them women to quit laying down with nothing azz men

    • @lildrejr899
      @lildrejr899 Год назад

      @@xreborncjayy5810 true

  • @spearmanerica676
    @spearmanerica676 Год назад +7

    Keeping them all in 🙏🏾

  • @nftshiller8485
    @nftshiller8485 Год назад +5

    just as i thought she will not say he needs to go to prison..................i would straight up say he needs to go to prison...............she is part of the problem

  • @kskeel1124
    @kskeel1124 Год назад +16

    Always excuses never a shred of accountability...

    • @Transformersarecoming4yourkids
      @Transformersarecoming4yourkids Год назад +4

      NEVER

    • @kinshastareed7092
      @kinshastareed7092 Год назад

      She didn't do anything wrong. Do you take accountability for racism and slavery? So why should she be accountable for her sons actions? Let's chat...

  • @KarriValentine-kq4mc
    @KarriValentine-kq4mc Год назад +28

    She ain't lying. God bless this Mother❤

  • @dafnenoel9825
    @dafnenoel9825 Год назад +12

    Lord have Mercy. 😢

  • @vibingandsurviving7251
    @vibingandsurviving7251 Год назад +6

    She appears to be struggling with mental health herself tbh. This was cringy to watch

  • @tr8086
    @tr8086 Год назад +3

    NO FATHERS in the household.....

  • @AliAntarAllahsServant
    @AliAntarAllahsServant Год назад +15

    It's wild when she's asked what she would say to her son, and her response is, "Fathers need to be fathers." Was she married? How many of these messed up youth don't have a father in their life. Women will have children young but run from marriage. This is a real-life example of why children need a whole home, not a 304 at home.

    • @CreoleNic
      @CreoleNic Год назад +4

      Did you hear. Shit just don't make sense. She did everything to blame a man. Than wtf the step dad didn't do. Was he told he is not your son so don't chastise him. Boy doing whatever he want while she been with her husband since 13. I caught something else. She been with her husband since she was 13 and this boy isn't for her husband another man child. Her whorish timeline doesn't make sense.

    • @kinshastareed7092
      @kinshastareed7092 Год назад

      Marriage doesn't define the role of a Father. Black fathers are actually more involved in their children's life than any other race. Research is important. People should stop relying on the words of others and an old stereotype of Black men. All white folks are married. Bye 👋

  • @SebrenaRey
    @SebrenaRey Год назад +3

    Both my sons died 2016 three months apart so my worst nightmare came true twice and what I can tell you is your son is breathing so you have a chance hold onto him 😢

  • @djjamar
    @djjamar Год назад +7

    Makes me thank God for the problems he gave me.

  • @lisamaples2
    @lisamaples2 Год назад +7

    I’m sorry but this is not the fathers fault, this happens with both parents in their life. She being a single parent, should have got his mental health issues addressed.

    • @jeffbrown6533
      @jeffbrown6533 Год назад +3

      Thank you mam!

    • @femmebrulee5053
      @femmebrulee5053 Год назад +2

      To be honest, there's a lot of families in similar situations with children who have mental problems. You can make them go to therapy, received medication, etc when they are minors but once they become adults there's nothing you can do. A lot of mentally ill people are aware they are mentally ill but forego treatment. She also spoke about trying to discipline her child when he was a minor and it sounds like somehow police or CPS were called.

  • @asiawilliams8386
    @asiawilliams8386 Год назад +50

    God help her and her family. I commend her as a mother. I see strength and hurt in her at the same time.

    • @The.Teflon.Don.2024.
      @The.Teflon.Don.2024. Год назад +6

      God had nothing to do with this. She raised this, and now pretending she doesn't know what's going on.

    • @marvinmorgan5168
      @marvinmorgan5168 Год назад

      ????,

    • @user-tj7jo5zl6b
      @user-tj7jo5zl6b Год назад +4

      @@The.Teflon.Don.2024. You don't listen and I hope the same mercy and compassion you have for her plea, I hope the CREATOR has those same words for your soul

    • @valeriebramlett6590
      @valeriebramlett6590 Год назад +1

      🔥

  • @shawnh7570
    @shawnh7570 Год назад +4

    She works a-lot bought him a gun most likely! Crazy lady 🤯

  • @doriancoreyscloset421
    @doriancoreyscloset421 Год назад +9

    She said a *WHOLE* lot of nothing

  • @LaiCLuv69
    @LaiCLuv69 Год назад +3

    WRONG ANSWER MOM. YOU DIDN'T ANSWER WHAT THEY ASKED YOU. "HE WANTS TO DO WHAT THEY WANT TO DO"
    I THOUGHT YOU SAID HE WAS RAISED IN AN ORDERLY FASHION. FURTHERMORE, THERE ARE PLENTY OF CHILDREN IN SINGLE PARENT HOUSEHOLDS WHO GROW UP AND LIVE A NORMAL PRODUCTIVE LIFE. SEEMS LIKE MOTHER TOOK THIS OPPORTUNITY TO BASH DAD & TO GIVE A RUN DOWN ON HER HEALTH. I GUESS SHE DIDN'T KNOW HE WAS ON THE SCENE TRYING TO ASSIST WITH GETTING THEIR SON OUT OF THE RESTAURANT🤔

  • @isaacjones5385
    @isaacjones5385 Год назад +1

    I’m lucky to be 43 and have both my parents still. It won’t last forever, so honor your mother and father. ❤💯

  • @angelabanks4405
    @angelabanks4405 Год назад +1

    It was so important for a 2 parent home they knew that it got taken away long time ago as a single parent all is offered is our best

  • @kingdavid7662
    @kingdavid7662 Год назад +3

    Black women should allow the man to be a father's instead of using the kid like a tool to work against their father

  • @Orbt_
    @Orbt_ Год назад +2

    Did she apologize for him shooting at the station?

  • @xlcrazyeyelx
    @xlcrazyeyelx Год назад +7

    "Every son needs his father." Not true at all. My brother and I aren't killing anyone. We didn't need our father. Mother did a good job on her own

  • @leeroyjenkins2528
    @leeroyjenkins2528 Год назад +3

    She's just trying to make excuses for her child I get it any mother would too but lady c'mon WTF

  • @wizardofahhhhhhz
    @wizardofahhhhhhz Год назад +2

    I’m confused, I thought she said she’s been with her husband since she was 13 and he was raised in an orderly family structure. But then a few minutes later she says she was a single mother and “children do, what they wants to do.”

  • @quitalee4305
    @quitalee4305 Год назад +9

    Jay was a sweetheart and met him when I was wrkn at loc .. my prayers are with you and with jay

  • @YungRichSteve
    @YungRichSteve Год назад +19

    this so sad and true america needs to realize we need help mental illness is real

  • @BLeeFAFO
    @BLeeFAFO Год назад +14

    No, He needs to go to jail. It is a lack of positive Male role models, But also a society that blames parents for disciplining children in any way not "approved" of by public opinion. A permissive society and complete lack of accountability and authority is what caused this.
    You survived, Now go to jail kid.

  • @MYRANDY65
    @MYRANDY65 Год назад +10

    MY GOD MENTAL HEALTH IS THE NUMBER ONE ISSUE THAT IS LEADING TO ALL THIS GUN VOLIENCE IT DOESN'T MAKE ANY SENSE. AMERICANS COMES FIRST TO ALL BENIFITS THIS IS REALLY SERIOUS 😡😡😡

  • @HardCoreGarage
    @HardCoreGarage Год назад +2

    Parents need to be charged for anything an underage child does.

  • @henrysantos121
    @henrysantos121 Год назад +1

    *This is really heartbreaking*

  • @jeffreymacintyre2711
    @jeffreymacintyre2711 Год назад +8

    Momma speaks the truth ❤

    • @robsawyer8034
      @robsawyer8034 Год назад +1

      She probably put the father on child support

    • @virgochild4216
      @virgochild4216 Год назад +1

      ​@@robsawyer8034 WHY ARE BM SO STUCK ON 40 DOLLAR CHILD SUPPORT??

  • @femmebrulee5053
    @femmebrulee5053 Год назад +4

    I can't say what went wrong here. She said she's been with his father since she was 13 but then she talks about being a single mother. Some men will give money and financial support but will not be home every night. And money is not enough. Money won't raise them. It sounds like she bought her son material things and then he started acting out and no one was really there to help her with that and to help with discipline. But her son is an adult now. He was live streaming a sort of manifesto on Facebook and mentally healthy people do not do that. Also mentally well people do not think bringing a gun to a news station will help them get air time. I mean it did work but not in the way he wanted it to. On any other day he could have ended up 6 feet under.

  • @MeoMiyo
    @MeoMiyo Год назад +1

    Most normal people who need help don't shoot up a news station. If I need help i cry and ask for help not turn to violence and shoot up a news station. He deserves jail. So blessed for my wonderful parents. Married now 60 years.

  • @ms.kay.pe1
    @ms.kay.pe1 Год назад +14

    Yes Pray ,but Memphis needs some Mental Health assistance for these people

  • @brucenome989
    @brucenome989 Год назад +4

    This is deep but it the truth.

  • @thetruthjohnson1474
    @thetruthjohnson1474 Год назад +19

    My love and prayers go out to this woman may God bless her and her family! and ease her pain and take away her pain!

    • @The.Teflon.Don.2024.
      @The.Teflon.Don.2024. Год назад +3

      God had nothing to do with this. She raised that monster not God.

    • @kskeel1124
      @kskeel1124 Год назад +6

      What pain? She's not a victim she is the perpetrators mother and gave nothing but excuses as to why it wasn't her son's fault...😂

    • @Mr.HotRod
      @Mr.HotRod Год назад +1

      @@kskeel1124 In my opinion both her and the wanna be Gang bangers father should do some time for raising a thug.

  • @debbiemcdonald8928
    @debbiemcdonald8928 Год назад +1

    Prayers for healing for all involved. Great momma.

  • @SuperAndybarrett
    @SuperAndybarrett Год назад +2

    Maybe your son needs psychological help but he also needs locked up.this is not a normal way of requesting help

  • @SunnyKim_
    @SunnyKim_ Год назад +5

    15 he gonna do what he wanna do.... gee... i wonder how this could have happened. its almost like its a pattern.

  • @blacksocietytv
    @blacksocietytv Год назад +1

    Has nothing to do with a son needing his father. Several mothers have raised good law abiding sons on their own. Everyone knows right from wrong even a baby.

  • @johnreese4377
    @johnreese4377 Год назад +8

    Voters choice Great job voters. You voted for pro criminal politicians who passed pro criminal policies, laws, bail reform and juvenile justice reform. How is that working out for the victims of crimes???.Creating a criminal paradise, catch and release policies.

  • @robertshop391
    @robertshop391 Год назад +5

    This is bull if you gone blame his father then blame the society I had no father an I never thought about hurting anyone

  • @davegutenech7188
    @davegutenech7188 Год назад +3

    She should get PRISON rite along eith her son.

  • @jeffreywalls202
    @jeffreywalls202 Год назад +9

    I feel for her . But her son needs to be dealt with accordingly. Apparently if he has the mind frame to be able to plan this attack since the day before the shooting then he is able to know right from wrong. Memphis prosecutors as well as justice officials need to be very stern about punishing those who do crimes against the people of Memphis. These punks need to be held accountable for their actions. He deserves life in prison at the least. She needs to quit looking for excuses for what her son has done. I have seen plenty of times single mothers who have raised their children without any help from anyone or programs and their children turned into productive and successful citizens of their communities.!I’m not saying that it was easy. I’m just saying that they didn’t half ass raise their children because the other parent left. They done what they needed to do to make sure their children had all the tools the needed to succeed. It’s starts with the parent/parents.

  • @joewright6095
    @joewright6095 Год назад +1

    Lets start holding people accountable for their actions instead of teaching them to blame someone else for their evil deeds. My dad was a alcoholic always chasing women around. My mother hated me because I reminded her of my father. I was ten years old hanging out smoking weed and doing my thing. I never shot at anyone. I never hurt anyone intentionally. I've hurt some people's feelings in my life and that's the only thing I've done. So yalls points are invalid. Dude belongs in a jail before he hurts someone.

  • @misscuronda1665
    @misscuronda1665 Год назад

    She said a lot. I pray the son, mother, & entire family get therapy. The son needs to face consequences.

  • @kikismith9563
    @kikismith9563 Год назад +1

    Ok...u were with his father since 13 yet a single mom and knew he needed help. 🧐
    Praying for clarity and healing.

    • @YernBelfus
      @YernBelfus Год назад

      And rehab, and incarceration, and...

  • @Howdygirl11
    @Howdygirl11 Год назад +1

    "I work alot"...
    "at 15 he does what he want
    to do"....
    "his father failed him"....
    All her excuses for her failed parenting and no accountability!!! Where's Tommy Sotomayor?

  • @notagain79
    @notagain79 Год назад +1

    He's not mentally ill. He can get his help in prison. Everyone's tired of the mental illness excuse.

  • @sabrinakegley3468
    @sabrinakegley3468 Год назад +5

    Amen to the mother. Many blessings and prayers for this family.

  • @justina3175
    @justina3175 Год назад +5

    Parents we are not responsible for what our grown-up children do but as the mother and father closest to them we see only understand certain traits in them it does not mean we can control them but when something tragic happen please ever is a single parent don't try to blame the other parent also pray and do the best you can and be by this side to help them get through it just pray and pray and hope the court system will be on your side and you did the best that you could

  • @HotdogJuice
    @HotdogJuice Год назад +1

    I'm calling BS. She already admitted to letting him have his way as early as 15. That boy could have K'd and innocent bystander. Now they want to realized he's short of a six pack? That boy was ignored for her own convenience. I'd bet money his teachers or school guidance counselor already suggested getting him help

  • @dennisreedy8200
    @dennisreedy8200 Год назад +5

    Men r u listening to this Love yourself and then Love your children and then set the example B Gentle Soft Spoken and kind Please don’t expect the govt schools or the teachers or any of our officials to teach them because they can’t keep themselves together ask the Lord for help He’s the only one who can help you and keep your family together

    • @rhuttrho88
      @rhuttrho88 Год назад

      Drugs are bad! Get it?🤦🏿‍♂️

  • @grayreyesreyes8209
    @grayreyesreyes8209 Год назад +1

    If ur child was raised with an orderly fashion and uve been with his father since u was 13yrs old. Why we talking about u being a single mother. This is a sad situation. Ur son has to be held accountable for his actions. Don't care what issues he has

    • @aquariandawn4750
      @aquariandawn4750 Год назад

      Can't expect accountability from the Democrat's slaves. They're a ruined people, forever dependant on their masters.

  • @paulettecole9482
    @paulettecole9482 Год назад +2

    This lady needs help! They're all good boys! NOT!

  • @joycedotts8070
    @joycedotts8070 Год назад +6

    Lord bless this mother I agree with her this is a woman who is not sugar coating anything she said a mouth full these are the people you help!! I appreciate this mother she love's her son!!

  • @justanoldhippiefreesteading
    @justanoldhippiefreesteading Год назад +3

    I can't imagine being her right now.. praying for you and your son. We need to change what is happening to our youth ❤

  • @aquanettaspeight3819
    @aquanettaspeight3819 Год назад

    Oh, Mama, this is so sad, but the only thing you can do is pray. LET HIM GO, and stay Blessed 🙌🏾 🙏🏾

  • @teamicacollins350
    @teamicacollins350 Год назад

    Praying ❤❤❤😢

    • @YernBelfus
      @YernBelfus Год назад

      For the victims of her illegitimate spawn?

  • @Savewhitt
    @Savewhitt Год назад +1

    she did the entire video wearing those "Helmet Homeroom" glasses. The American Public Education System failed us in ways that's too obvious to bother emphasizing..

  • @violettashearer8872
    @violettashearer8872 Год назад +3

    The DEVIL COMES to KILL STEAL and DESTROY (John 10:10).
    The DEVIL WALKS about like a ROARING LION SEEKING someone to DEVOUR (1 Peter 5:8).
    The days are evil. It's not mental health, its demon possessed.

  • @illreel5169
    @illreel5169 Год назад +2

    Man listen, you got you a bad azz Son & if people keep supporting these evil acts. Lets lock em' up get his diagnosed & put on whatever medication or facility... It's time people stop making excuses for their kids destructive behavior, imagine if someone would of gotten killed from one of these bullets your Son is shooting recklessly? Lock his azz up A$AP!!!