Aside from first caller’s relationship problems, I can’t get over her boyfriend listening on her therapy session regardless if the walls are thin? That’s such an invasion of privacy wtf
It’s awful! My partner and I live in a small space and if we’re home when the other has therapy we shut the bedroom door and wear noise canceling headphones.
to the girl who said she felt like a 5th wheel and feels left out bc everyone is getting engaged, i feel you. But i realized the people around me who are in couples are most of the time going through shit i would never wanna deal with. You dont know whats behind the curtain on other peoples relationship bc most of them are not as happy as you think. Use this time to have fun bc your time will come 😊
Amanda….you are such a wonderful treasure 🤍. Your authenticity is always so relatable and I love it juxtaposed with Nick. Sigh…..perfection in every podcast. I love it. ☺️ “no, gazing out the car window” feels. good stuff:)
I’m so invested in updates that I’m so worried about the girl that had a boyfriend/baby daddy of the dead beat dad energy. & since we haven’t gotten an update on her, I’m assuming she stayed with him instead of moving out. 😔
The first update, I predict the boyfriend’s friendship with his ex is going to fizzle out now. He’ll realize he really didn’t want his current girlfriend mingling with his ex. Props to Nick for helping her bring it to a head though.
That’s an insanely goofy take imo. Y’all act like it’s impossible to be friends with people despite maybe an awkward start to a relationship, it’s not.
@@itszaque “Insanely goofy?” Lol Guess we’ll see if she comes back with another update saying they’re all 3 best friends. I’m not putting my money on it though :)
I do like this concept… and we’ve all asked for this and… I have loved recent update episodes!! BUT side note, if it’s not a good recap/update, don’t bother. I stopped listening after the 2nd caller.
Re: Anna, whose LD bf told her what to wear. That's great you had a great convo! Sooooo.... What about his misogynistic locker room talk with his buddies? He showed some good understanding about not controlling what she wears; can he understand why the gross talk about women with his friends is problematic or has he stopped that too? 🤔
Sometimes we can hold trauma in our body and feel certain emotions in similar situation. It's valuable to recognise if our insecurity comes from present or our past influence our cognition.
When my husband & Myself split up which I was devastated by I slept with his shirts on his pillow with his cologne on them until the cologne wore off and by then I was able to finally move on. But it took me a very long time. My heart was so broken. But today I’m so grateful because all these years later I can’t even imagine being married to him.. what was i thinking lol yuck..
First caller has a boyfriend for 18 months but is in the process of ending a marriage. And she is not happy her BF is having platonic female friend. LOL Anna's boyfriend told her what she wanted to hear because most likely he is having sex with someone else while away at college. Kim, wrecked from the emotional work affair, quits the job and works at a sports bar. SMH
Feel for the last caller. We have or think we have a love map, then our love map gets ripped away & then we need to take time alone to figure shit out.
That second caller's update was sooooo long. 😴 Just a suggestion, but is there any way we could make the update calls shorter and not give so much advice? It feel like an "Ask Nick" episode all over again.
How do you like the way people open up businesses and want you to patronage but when it's the opposite they Never Reciprocate. They even brake up a marriage , because her x husband signed papers to tie her tubes. Than it goes further to use him for fathering another child. When you only own a small business , that you work in. Than they never do homework, when your x husband has a heart illness? Personalities change with a heart illness. Than they walk into a funeral like a tiger because she is a second wife. I have never seen such a big lady with her village. I see how big boned a second wife can be overpowering. Than they want to ask big, when you do not run this country.Than go back home ,to your country & show off! You haven't had to sit on a bus , where bugs are buzzing off on your skin! When my sister's clothes have bubbles embedded from working 20 years downtown , Chicago! Sure is a dynasty world!
I just started watching this podcast and I’m already extremely emotionally invested in these updates.
SAME.
Aside from first caller’s relationship problems, I can’t get over her boyfriend listening on her therapy session regardless if the walls are thin? That’s such an invasion of privacy wtf
It’s awful! My partner and I live in a small space and if we’re home when the other has therapy we shut the bedroom door and wear noise canceling headphones.
I’m really loving the callers in this update. They all sound kind and mature and in a better place. Nick’s advice is really helping people!
to the girl who said she felt like a 5th wheel and feels left out bc everyone is getting engaged, i feel you. But i realized the people around me who are in couples are most of the time going through shit i would never wanna deal with. You dont know whats behind the curtain on other peoples relationship bc most of them are not as happy as you think. Use this time to have fun bc your time will come 😊
Amanda….you are such a wonderful treasure 🤍. Your authenticity is always so relatable and I love it juxtaposed with Nick. Sigh…..perfection in every podcast. I love it. ☺️
“no, gazing out the car window” feels. good stuff:)
I’m so invested in updates that I’m so worried about the girl that had a boyfriend/baby daddy of the dead beat dad energy. & since we haven’t gotten an update on her, I’m assuming she stayed with him instead of moving out. 😔
This😢
The first update, I predict the boyfriend’s friendship with his ex is going to fizzle out now. He’ll realize he really didn’t want his current girlfriend mingling with his ex. Props to Nick for helping her bring it to a head though.
That’s an insanely goofy take imo. Y’all act like it’s impossible to be friends with people despite maybe an awkward start to a relationship, it’s not.
@@itszaque “Insanely goofy?” Lol Guess we’ll see if she comes back with another update saying they’re all 3 best friends. I’m not putting my money on it though :)
i too have a complicated feeling about being a barb
I do like this concept… and we’ve all asked for this and… I have loved recent update episodes!! BUT side note, if it’s not a good recap/update, don’t bother. I stopped listening after the 2nd caller.
Nick’s advice around the 35 min mark really hit 🥲
Re: Anna, whose LD bf told her what to wear. That's great you had a great convo! Sooooo.... What about his misogynistic locker room talk with his buddies? He showed some good understanding about not controlling what she wears; can he understand why the gross talk about women with his friends is problematic or has he stopped that too? 🤔
Baby steps
@@cindylee7519 I would think your significant other being respectful to people of your gender is a bit more important than baby steps, but fair.
Sometimes we can hold trauma in our body and feel certain emotions in similar situation. It's valuable to recognise if our insecurity comes from present or our past influence our cognition.
I found a healer who took me through wild meditations and energy exercises that took trauma energy out of my body highly recommend
You can check an arsonist’s cabinet for matches. Best comment ever!
Nick's mapleway name is kinda funny since his past couple bachelor pursuits were Canadians.
Omg! 😂😂👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
LITTLE SIMZ!!! yesssssss Derek, we love to see it
Loved this podcast!! Where’s your introvert shirt from Nick?
I never thought of that! Now I’m MAD! 😡
When my husband & Myself split up which I was devastated by I slept with his shirts on his pillow with his cologne on them until the cologne wore off and by then I was able to finally move on. But it took me a very long time. My heart was so broken. But today I’m so grateful because all these years later I can’t even imagine being married to him.. what was i thinking lol yuck..
Yes to the t shirt plz lol
Love love love the update episodes!!!
First caller has a boyfriend for 18 months but is in the process of ending a marriage. And she is not happy her BF is having platonic female friend. LOL
Anna's boyfriend told her what she wanted to hear because most likely he is having sex with someone else while away at college.
Kim, wrecked from the emotional work affair, quits the job and works at a sports bar. SMH
Some rough updates. No judgement though, I’ve been super messy
No one is good at explaining that last story😂
Feel for the last caller. We have or think we have a love map, then our love map gets ripped away & then we need to take time alone to figure shit out.
Amanda: fellow dirty footed girl over here knows exactly what you mean.
I’d love to write in about my relationship with my parent. I relate loosely to the 2nd caller.
How to watch the episode tonight on Android/Samsung? I can't find info in the description :(
This might sound dumb but can you paint the white strip between the green doors? It’s distracting me LOL 🤪
That second caller's update was sooooo long. 😴
Just a suggestion, but is there any way we could make the update calls shorter and not give so much advice? It feel like an "Ask Nick" episode all over again.
Ice spice for me
Megan the Stallion ❤
How do you like the way people open up businesses and want you to patronage but when it's the opposite they Never Reciprocate. They even brake up a marriage , because her x husband signed papers to tie her tubes. Than it goes further to use him for fathering another child. When you only own a small business , that you work in. Than they never do homework, when your x husband has a heart illness? Personalities change with a heart illness. Than they walk into a funeral like a tiger because she is a second wife. I have never seen such a big lady with her village. I see how big boned a second wife can be overpowering. Than they want to ask big, when you do not run this country.Than go back home ,to your country & show off! You haven't had to sit on a bus , where bugs are buzzing off on your skin! When my sister's clothes have bubbles embedded from working 20 years downtown , Chicago! Sure is a dynasty world!