Grief, Heartbreak & Red Flags

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  • Опубликовано: 12 сен 2024
  • In this episode Rae shares her story of loosing her dad and filling that void through a relationship full of good moments and red flags.
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    Set Design by Muthoni Gitau
    Directed & Produced by Ronin Productions & Adelle Onyango
    Thank you for watching :)

Комментарии • 206

  • @survivingmillenials4631
    @survivingmillenials4631 2 года назад +72

    I love her energy she made this episode so funny yet it is supposed to be sad😂 I literally can’t stop laughing 😂😃

  • @shikomuhuri
    @shikomuhuri 2 года назад +50

    It’s her voice for me. I could listen to her all day. Love it. Love her story telling too

  • @carolinemwazi5583
    @carolinemwazi5583 2 года назад +12

    That is powerful. 'Would you want this for your daughter?' Helps to clarify things. Never ignore the red flags - no matter how tiny.

  • @fu_raha
    @fu_raha 2 года назад +21

    The ' I was just here on trust' aaah the character development associated with this sentence😂😂😂😂😂😂😅

  • @amazingme4718
    @amazingme4718 Год назад +4

    My dad was hospitalized, and I had a feeling like a heavy log on my cheat all day. I called my sister to ask after my dad. She said, "Don't shout!" It doesn't register then. She repeated herself, "Don't shout!" I flung my phone and fell on the floor. I would never forget that moment. It felt like my life came to an end. It's been almost a year and I'm still hurting. In all of my pains, I give thanks.

  • @jaccylaughter
    @jaccylaughter 2 года назад +15

    Wow could listen to her all day, she's bubbly. I love her.
    Thanks for having her Adele.

  • @JayDwayneShow
    @JayDwayneShow 2 года назад +14

    She Kept introducing me as a friend and not the Man, made me feel insecure and awful yet I got a lot of appreciation from other people. Im glad it ended.
    I totally relate to this 💯💯💯 Boldness
    Not settling for less 😍😍😍🔥

  • @annenjoki3006
    @annenjoki3006 2 года назад +20

    She's so bubbly.. I could listen to her for a whole day 😄

  • @feinussayid2938
    @feinussayid2938 2 года назад +6

    Dark humor. It’s a coping mechanism from trauma. I do that too. Laugh at painful memories.

  • @suesjournalmedia7634
    @suesjournalmedia7634 2 года назад +15

    She's told her story in a beautiful way even the sad parts are very well put across. Waiting for the next video

  • @yb6559
    @yb6559 2 года назад +10

    HER ACCENT YOU GUYS....OMG, and her laughing at it while narrating is hilarious

    • @LegallyCluelessAfrica
      @LegallyCluelessAfrica  2 года назад

      Rae's energy is everything!

    • @raycheezey
      @raycheezey 2 года назад +1

      😂 Being able to laugh at these things now is one major thing I'm grateful for

  • @misspriscilla953
    @misspriscilla953 2 года назад +14

    I lost my mum last year December and buried her on Christmas Eve.. your story has made me have bitter sweet memories of the ordeal we had to go through. Grief is not an easy journey but we somehow find a way to stay a float. I like your sense of humour and calmness as you tell your story. I hope to share mine with such grace someday.

    • @LegallyCluelessAfrica
      @LegallyCluelessAfrica  2 года назад

      So sorry about our mum! Grief is quite tricky to navigate for sure. Sending you peace and grace!

    • @raycheezey
      @raycheezey 2 года назад

      Hey Priscilla 👋 It's definitely a journey that I think we'll be on for all our lives and you might not know this but you already doing the best you can ❤️❤️❤️ And I know your mom is your forever guardian angel👼

  • @laurencewesonga9418
    @laurencewesonga9418 2 года назад +14

    Her energy is outrageous...Rae you are nothing but a queen.❤️

  • @peninahwamuyu3349
    @peninahwamuyu3349 2 года назад +4

    Woooo..... Loss loss loss.... this takes me back to 1999. I lost my mum when I was 11yrs old. 22yrs later I'm still in the process of healing. Coincidencidetally today is her birthday. "Happy 59th birthday mum!" 🎂🎉🎊.

  • @melissagitts
    @melissagitts 2 года назад +8

    I loved her humour in the conversation..also the vulnerability and authenticity is just something else. As well her appreciating her wrongs and going ahead to correct them. Amazing!

    • @raycheezey
      @raycheezey 2 года назад +1

      Thank you Melissa ❤️ The life journey continues 💪

  • @hanifasalim5822
    @hanifasalim5822 2 года назад +15

    Everything about your story was just amazing! You spoke so gracefully through every feeling, such an eye opener

    • @raycheezey
      @raycheezey 2 года назад +1

      That means so much 💕 Thank you

  • @nilahm
    @nilahm 2 года назад +33

    Rae has such an amazing voice and her laugh is everything

  • @tokyococo6996
    @tokyococo6996 2 года назад +7

    Rae you're very charming, lovely and your energy is contagious 🥰🥰🥰.
    I'm glad you realized your worth and left the situation. Must have been hard.

    • @raycheezey
      @raycheezey 2 года назад

      It was ...I think it always is where love is/was involved. I'm so glad you watched this and thank you so much for your kind words 💕

  • @antonettewambani805
    @antonettewambani805 2 года назад +14

    My condolences on your loss even if it's years later. You shall heal from your break up , your positivity is on another level

  • @matildaasha4148
    @matildaasha4148 2 года назад +19

    Rae it was a joy listening to you. Great storytelling skills.

  • @MissSheri
    @MissSheri 2 года назад +3

    I love how well spoken she is.

  • @riikoriawacu162
    @riikoriawacu162 2 года назад +14

    Her little jokes making me smile amidst sobs of her sad story.
    You are a gem rae❤️

  • @Lucynduku327
    @Lucynduku327 Год назад +1

    I just love her personality, she is such a beautiful lady and a great story teller❤

  • @maurynmbote3605
    @maurynmbote3605 2 года назад +8

    Love, love this video. She's making it soo interesting in a good way even if it's a sad story.

    • @LegallyCluelessAfrica
      @LegallyCluelessAfrica  2 года назад

      Thanks for watching Mauryn! Yes Rae is amazing!

    • @raycheezey
      @raycheezey 2 года назад +1

      Aww I'm just so glad that you watched 😊🤗🤗

  • @_Sharon_J
    @_Sharon_J 2 года назад +2

    She is such an excellent bubbly speaker!! What a Rae of sunshine.

  • @martinamireri3719
    @martinamireri3719 2 года назад +6

    Amazing story telling!! Glad that the video series is back

  • @kristelmackrine5890
    @kristelmackrine5890 2 года назад +4

    She's such a vibe😂 plus the great voice...this story's really inspiring

  • @cebilendwandwe6857
    @cebilendwandwe6857 2 года назад +3

    came across your channel. im hooked. love from South Africa.

  • @christinekawira5113
    @christinekawira5113 2 года назад +3

    This sooo far is my best. Humour in the delivery of such serious life lessons.

    • @LegallyCluelessAfrica
      @LegallyCluelessAfrica  2 года назад

      Thanks for watching Christine! So glad you enjoyed it!

    • @raycheezey
      @raycheezey 2 года назад

      Heart is so full ❤️ Thank you Christine

  • @beckyphala5436
    @beckyphala5436 2 года назад +5

    Her humor is out of this world 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @gathonz
    @gathonz 2 года назад +2

    she's such a brilliant story teller . I loved this episode

  • @tokyococo6996
    @tokyococo6996 2 года назад +5

    I ugly cried when you spoke about your dad 😓🥺🥺

    • @raycheezey
      @raycheezey 2 года назад

      Miss him every day ❤️

  • @michaelzuberi3000
    @michaelzuberi3000 2 года назад +1

    I really love Rae's enthusiasm and how she tells her story!! Such a beautiful soul to be around. 💯🥰

  • @raychellewairimu2199
    @raychellewairimu2199 Год назад +1

    Glad that you left early enough...some of us are still stuck in such relationships full of financial infidelity and unaccountability...😡

    • @Prosperity23846
      @Prosperity23846 8 месяцев назад +2

      Leave girl❤!!!!! Even if you have kids together you'll manage!!! Ignore what family members and the society will say! You can't be toiling for money from morning to evening then someone misuses and doesn't take accountability😠

  • @Zambarau20
    @Zambarau20 2 года назад +5

    ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
    You're so much stronger than you think 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸
    I'm really proud of you babe!

  • @elinamwikali1884
    @elinamwikali1884 Год назад +1

    Loved listening to this episode, mostly because it's an experience i totally relate with and also coz we share a therapist big up - Daisy form Convocare, she really helped me deal with my nasty experiences in life and now I'm a living testimony that therapy works 🎉😊

  • @water_guy692
    @water_guy692 2 года назад +6

    I didn't know how much i needed this♥️

  • @singlesmeetinternational
    @singlesmeetinternational Год назад

    , she is very whitty and loving. I love her voice and command of the English language. More grace and many blessings. ❤

  • @blessedmweru2486
    @blessedmweru2486 Год назад

    Wise girl - you walked put of toxicity and have a money management structure that you follow to safeguard debt and brokenness. Well done!!

  • @torikalekye3003
    @torikalekye3003 2 года назад +3

    I love her storytelling so much. It was a sad story but I had quite a few laughs....

  • @Chumomarion
    @Chumomarion 2 года назад +1

    This was so beautiful. I’ve always loved Rae and knew she loved her father but I didn’t the whole heartbreaking story behind it. Hugs to you Rae. You’re such a beautiful person with such a beautiful voice, and yes we hear you ❤️

  • @alisonlyezire9951
    @alisonlyezire9951 2 года назад +3

    I am sorry for your loss. May God continue to comfort you and your family.

  • @anitakarimi_kenya
    @anitakarimi_kenya 2 года назад +7

    I like her and she is great at story telling.

  • @njeri.wa.solo18
    @njeri.wa.solo18 2 года назад +2

    That man didn't deserve you and thank you for setting the standard for your daughter,it takes a lot of courage. I'm sorry about your dad.

  • @vaatinyamai9888
    @vaatinyamai9888 2 года назад

    Her voooooice 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰. How she's turned her dissapointment into humor is just magical.

  • @chepkemoimaurine6534
    @chepkemoimaurine6534 2 года назад +1

    Amazing story, takes alot of courage..been there before. Sorry about your dad and I hope you heal.

  • @Msapere
    @Msapere 2 года назад +2

    My take:
    1. There was a lot of good fucking in this relationship
    2. They both grew as humans
    3. She's is/was a freak (I support that)
    4. Life is interesting
    Peace

  • @dicieokaya3434
    @dicieokaya3434 2 года назад

    This is probably the realest episode I have heard... It's crazy how I am able to relate to it...

  • @yusufbamulanga7865
    @yusufbamulanga7865 2 года назад

    Awesomeness at it's best. Stumbled on this page following Lynn Ngugi but it's super super nice.
    Am a Ugandan domiciled in cold and deep NewHampshire but I only interact with Kenyans as in Mungaano yya Africa Mashariki and that's how I get good content from Jamhuri yya Harambee instead of chaotic Matooke land and M7's stranglehold on the Nation.

  • @lindagatwiri869
    @lindagatwiri869 2 года назад

    I didn't even notice time passing by,I love her personality.

  • @carol5368
    @carol5368 2 года назад

    Wow....sorry for the loss .Thanks for being authentic. I relate with the hospital scene...really heart breaking.even in the sadness, you made me laugh.

  • @neens8109
    @neens8109 2 года назад

    Her story telling is so engaging.
    That Timbuktu comment though, we as a people, need to realise that place holds so much wisdom and shouldn't taint it, in the same tongue and gaze as the coloniser. Visit it and learn about our history

  • @kindoreen7887
    @kindoreen7887 2 года назад +2

    I was really waiting for this episode. Notification gang

  • @kaharalilian9065
    @kaharalilian9065 2 года назад +3

    I had missed the video series ❤️

  • @survivingmillenials4631
    @survivingmillenials4631 2 года назад +5

    This episode was so beautiful 😭

  • @FaridaKaru
    @FaridaKaru 2 года назад

    We went to Uni together... the most bubbly person. Sad to think she went through so much ♥️

  • @beautyinalens1720
    @beautyinalens1720 2 года назад +1

    It's so interesting listening to her Talk.... LOVELY lady and the laughter 😊...

  • @beloncekamz2821
    @beloncekamz2821 2 года назад

    Love #Rae, listened to her then on #HBR, she is just a ray of sunshine 🌞😆✨. Thanks for sharing💕🤗, hii Kanairo jo😂😂. Kazi safi👏🏾😘 #Adele this is a beautiful concept🇰🇪.

  • @wangechiwangareassociatead4345
    @wangechiwangareassociatead4345 2 года назад +1

    oooh wow. great lessons, well told lovely personality. I love how you laugh at yourself. same things I can relate. Eye Candy too

  • @omendaalice9905
    @omendaalice9905 2 года назад +4

    I was fast asleep.
    Then I just remember yesterday was Friday... It's 1:04am and I woke up to watch this .
    I couldn't wait to wake up.

  • @nyokafikamau
    @nyokafikamau 2 года назад +2

    Such beautiful energy. Thanks for sharing Rae ♥️

  • @ruthcleopatra
    @ruthcleopatra 2 года назад +1

    🥰 your style of telling your story eases the viewers mind. Time to move and humor about it too 🤭😍

  • @survivingmillenials4631
    @survivingmillenials4631 2 года назад +3

    Finally season 2👯‍♀️👯‍♀️👯‍♀️👯‍♀️👯‍♀️👯‍♀️

  • @petercarolynemunini2737
    @petercarolynemunini2737 2 года назад +2

    Loved her from HBR

  • @georginaloise8477
    @georginaloise8477 2 года назад +2

    My favorite episode 🤩

  • @annechawe8363
    @annechawe8363 2 года назад

    I looooove her 😍😍😍
    Thank you for these stories Adelle

  • @carolynegatwiri7076
    @carolynegatwiri7076 2 года назад +3

    I liked before listening 😁

  • @EvalyneNyambura
    @EvalyneNyambura 2 года назад +1

    Our Ray of Sunshine

  • @shishi.p
    @shishi.p 2 года назад +2

    Beautiful in and out

    • @raycheezey
      @raycheezey 2 года назад

      Sheila 🤗🤗❤️

  • @tlotlisosekete7396
    @tlotlisosekete7396 2 года назад +4

    Notification gaaanggg!!!!!🥳🥳🥳

  • @angiewamuchomba8106
    @angiewamuchomba8106 2 года назад +1

    It's the Humor for me.....
    Wow wow

  • @munenenesh2295
    @munenenesh2295 2 года назад +1

    I have always loved Ray kiragu on radio

  • @SteveWachira
    @SteveWachira 11 месяцев назад

    RaeRae!!! Wow.. Thank you 😊

  • @dashb9053
    @dashb9053 2 года назад +1

    She is such a vibe😊😊

  • @nancy4106-9
    @nancy4106-9 2 года назад +2

    Happy you are back and I am loving it🙏

  • @catherinenjau5615
    @catherinenjau5615 Год назад

    This is interesting!
    How does one make it to the cut.....to share their story?
    I honestly feel like I have a novel to share :)

  • @gracenzivo6790
    @gracenzivo6790 2 года назад +1

    I hope my hugs are needed.Hugs dear

  • @risperwambui8369
    @risperwambui8369 Год назад

    ❤❤❤she's beautiful in and out

  • @Kenyan28
    @Kenyan28 2 года назад +2

    You are very strong 💝

    • @raycheezey
      @raycheezey 2 года назад +1

      🥰 Not all the time which I've also realized is okay 🙂 Thank you Zipporah! ❤️

  • @jjkui4535
    @jjkui4535 Год назад

    The VOICE WOOOW

  • @dotibernis
    @dotibernis 2 года назад

    You've got a great voice Rae

  • @DjNiche254
    @DjNiche254 2 года назад +2

    Rae ❤️❤️❤️

  • @wangarindiritu7643
    @wangarindiritu7643 2 года назад

    Who can hurt such a soul? 🥺🥺

  • @nataliewangeci4007
    @nataliewangeci4007 2 года назад

    If I could like this video twice I totally would

  • @beautyinalens1720
    @beautyinalens1720 2 года назад

    Fantastic podcast...

  • @mwatumusili7703
    @mwatumusili7703 Год назад

    Sleeping on the floor when you're the bereaved is really ghetto behaviour for sure. 😂

  • @groomedbymuthoni7534
    @groomedbymuthoni7534 2 года назад +1

    New subbie😊

  • @RebeccabeckyMwangi
    @RebeccabeckyMwangi 2 года назад

    New Set 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @aluha
    @aluha 2 года назад +2

  • @thicker94
    @thicker94 Год назад +1

    😊

  • @_risingphoenix
    @_risingphoenix 2 года назад +2

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kenyangirlswithgardens8540
    @kenyangirlswithgardens8540 2 года назад

    She's Soo fun... I followed all the way easily! 🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • @danielrerimoi7632
    @danielrerimoi7632 2 года назад

    "solid things"??

  • @sakaform
    @sakaform 2 года назад

    😂😂😂😂this is not supposed to be funny …its really nice laughing at your pain once you’re past it.

  • @girl_woman
    @girl_woman 2 года назад +2

    14:35

  • @florencekamau4366
    @florencekamau4366 2 года назад

    I have learnt alot...I need your insta handle..I really need to talk to you

  • @gladwellmuchere1687
    @gladwellmuchere1687 2 года назад

    You are so interesting...

  • @thicker94
    @thicker94 Год назад +1

    😊