I too have really struggled to find someone who is prepared to wait until marriage to have sex, but I will not compromise. In my experience that cuts out 99% of the people that I have spoken to but I know that God has someone for me who will wait and who will be happy to do things God’s way. I’ve done it completely wrong in the past but I’m determined to do it right this time 😁 Thank you for the conversation x
I’ve always been a Christian but at a point in my youth lost my way and I had twins out of wedlock and I feel in dating and being rededicated to Christ and choosing to live out my Christian values of celibacy until marriage and living out how he intended for us that I will be judged because they will think she has a child already why should I have to wait so definitely I agree it is very dangerous to assume because they are a Christian they will have the same values as you and just because I’ve sinned before doesn’t mean I continue to do so I repent and turn away and work to be better
so i recently had a similar conversation with the eldership and my church with regards to dating and how i can prepare (in my single season) for Godly marriage / Kingdom relationship. i few points they brought up: Wholeness - finding and seeking wholeness with God as a single, knowing and believing that His love is unmatched, and that His grace and mercy are sufficiant enough each day friendship - i feel this gets neglected alot, and i for one have sort of "bypassed" this step when it comes to persuing a partner. having a strong foundation in friendship can be such an important tool in potentially seeing this person as a life partner.
If youre a guy,, you dont need to try to have a friendship with me first, thank you. I only want REAL friends with no secret agendas in my circle. It upsets me whenever I find out that a guy "friend" thinks he can weasel his way out the friend zone because i like him as a friend. Guys think theyre so slick. And I will lose my respect for you js. Don't try the friendship card with everyone bc some girls don't appreciate that stuff
I’m surprised Christian guys are doing that! I make it clear from the get go that we ain’t going there.. even had a few Joseph moments (Gen. 39:10)… but to hear this is wow.. prayer points!
Lauren Windle is an absolute gem. The way she dignifies guests on this channel and meets each person where they're at and in what the Lord is teaching them is really so kind and gracious. Praise God for loving and teaching us all in His own way and in his own timing
I personally quite like to hear from married (older) people because they were once single and they know what it's like on both sides. As long as they are not making it seem like it's the be-all/end-all (but that's for both sides). I'm happy either way, single forever or married, so I don't appreciate being made to feel I lack something!
Here's a question for you, are you single by choice or are you single by force? I'm single because society has it in their minds that I ruin lives and no matter how far over the age of consent a woman is, someone makes it sound like the person is a small child and not a full grown adult. Add to that the metoo movement and agenda to get every man in existence arrested because they "don't feel comfortable!" If the metoo movement followers were to have their way, it wouldn't be too long before they literally try to make it a crime for any males to exist and expect the government to put every male in existence to death.
@@be_salt Worth a shot. I'm like "yeah thanks for your advise to me as a Single Christian, as you go home to snuggle or have a candle light dinner with your spouse"..🤔
Relationships can be so much better! Get and read THE UNSPOKEN SECRET: How to find and keep the right partner by GRAM, JOHN . It has personally given me an insight to having a batter relationship
I too have really struggled to find someone who is prepared to wait until marriage to have sex, but I will not compromise. In my experience that cuts out 99% of the people that I have spoken to but I know that God has someone for me who will wait and who will be happy to do things God’s way. I’ve done it completely wrong in the past but I’m determined to do it right this time 😁 Thank you for the conversation x
Thanks so much for sharing. Hope you find him soon
There are still some of us men that agree with you.
@@DD-pv2jl You are rare gems indeed! Thank you for your encouraging words.
I’ve always been a Christian but at a point in my youth lost my way and I had twins out of wedlock and I feel in dating and being rededicated to Christ and choosing to live out my Christian values of celibacy until marriage and living out how he intended for us that I will be judged because they will think she has a child already why should I have to wait so definitely I agree it is very dangerous to assume because they are a Christian they will have the same values as you and just because I’ve sinned before doesn’t mean I continue to do so I repent and turn away and work to be better
Unfortunately you probably will be judged, but you know how God feels about you and the right person will accept your past, present and future
I really enjoyed this page with their elaborated about bible
Thanks
so i recently had a similar conversation with the eldership and my church with regards to dating and how i can prepare (in my single season) for Godly marriage / Kingdom relationship.
i few points they brought up:
Wholeness - finding and seeking wholeness with God as a single, knowing and believing that His love is unmatched, and that His grace and mercy are sufficiant enough each day
friendship - i feel this gets neglected alot, and i for one have sort of "bypassed" this step when it comes to persuing a partner. having a strong foundation in friendship can be such an important tool in potentially seeing this person as a life partner.
This is gold💫
Thanks so much for this
If youre a guy,, you dont need to try to have a friendship with me first, thank you. I only want REAL friends with no secret agendas in my circle. It upsets me whenever I find out that a guy "friend" thinks he can weasel his way out the friend zone because i like him as a friend. Guys think theyre so slick. And I will lose my respect for you js. Don't try the friendship card with everyone bc some girls don't appreciate that stuff
I’m surprised Christian guys are doing that! I make it clear from the get go that we ain’t going there.. even had a few Joseph moments (Gen. 39:10)… but to hear this is wow.. prayer points!
Yess....
Lauren Windle is an absolute gem. The way she dignifies guests on this channel and meets each person where they're at and in what the Lord is teaching them is really so kind and gracious. Praise God for loving and teaching us all in His own way and in his own timing
I totally agree, Lauren is an absolute Gem!!🤩🥰
Agreed! Lauren is awesome!!
Easy to listen to
Someone that doesn’t want to wait till marriage is not a Christian.
I personally quite like to hear from married (older) people because they were once single and they know what it's like on both sides. As long as they are not making it seem like it's the be-all/end-all (but that's for both sides). I'm happy either way, single forever or married, so I don't appreciate being made to feel I lack something!
I agree, I live hearing from married older people. Their wisdom is gold.
Good to hear - we'll bear it in mind for the channel
@@be_salt my third sentence follows from the second
Lauren thank you for sharing your back story, I've had a similar experience. Would be great if you interview more people with a sinful past. God bless
Great idea!
Same
I could listen to Lauren continually. Shes real and I love how she talks about her past issues, transparency is a must in Christian dating !!
Ah we think Lauren is great too!
Here's a question for you, are you single by choice or are you single by force? I'm single because society has it in their minds that I ruin lives and no matter how far over the age of consent a woman is, someone makes it sound like the person is a small child and not a full grown adult. Add to that the metoo movement and agenda to get every man in existence arrested because they "don't feel comfortable!" If the metoo movement followers were to have their way, it wouldn't be too long before they literally try to make it a crime for any males to exist and expect the government to put every male in existence to death.
By their fruits you will know them.
Have to admit , I'm 100 % with you on the ...when someone who is married gives advise/preaches/publishes books about being single as a Christian.
Interesting - I wonder if we should do a poll about this or something!
@@be_salt Worth a shot.
I'm like "yeah thanks for your advise to me as a Single Christian, as you go home to snuggle or have a candle light dinner with your spouse"..🤔
I fully enjoyed this conversation.
Glad to hear it!
@@be_salt 💛💛💛
I'do enjoy the conversely as a Christian.
awww Lauren. Who are rude men? Booooo!!!!!
Yes booooo
I really love this page 😊awesome
Thanks so much 😊
Tips taken 👌🙏
Super
I just downloaded the app and it perfect 😊
We think so - hope you find someone amazing
Am single and looking for God fearing man here
@@be_salt I’m still hoping
Gm i am Ann i am single and looking forward to have a husband who is single too
@@anne-ng3pm Hoping for the best here
Relationships can be so much better! Get and read THE UNSPOKEN SECRET: How to find and keep the right partner by GRAM, JOHN . It has personally given me an insight to having a batter relationship
Thanks for the suggestion