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  • Опубликовано: 2 фев 2025

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  • @fynedu8065
    @fynedu8065 Месяц назад +90

    Also if IJGB’s don’t ever visit home, they are criticized & told they have lost their culture. You are damned if you do & damned if you don’t.

    • @joshuadala3508
      @joshuadala3508 Месяц назад +2

      Forget them they like problem

    • @zachstar244
      @zachstar244 Месяц назад +1

      Exactly, confused people everywhere.

  • @LOVELYLONDONGURL
    @LOVELYLONDONGURL Месяц назад +97

    If someone only has 2 weeks holiday in a year and they’ve saved up to come to Nigeria for December, they want to enjoy it to the fullest and may not want to explore other parts.
    There are so many nuances to this conversation. IJGBs aren’t going to fully ‘get it’ unless their parents exposed them to their culture in abroad.
    Many African diasporans are very in touch with their culture and can speak their languages, set the local dishes etc but you can’t expect them to have all the mannerisms and cultural sensitivities as someone who was born and lived their whole life in Nigeria.

    • @alvanalvino
      @alvanalvino Месяц назад +7

      Thank you. ❤🌍🇳🇬👌🏿

  • @NaMi-ob7qp
    @NaMi-ob7qp Месяц назад +11

    Thank you IJGB for coming every December may the lord bless you all abundantly cos you help our business for sure

  • @nadia_vivace
    @nadia_vivace Месяц назад +50

    It is definitely as escape. Most of them work really hard in those countries and save a lot of money so they can splurge.
    Of course they cannot explore the cultural dept. I'm sure many believe their country has a lot to offer but in countries like the U S, people only have a few weeks in December to rest, while most countries in Africa have many holidays.

  • @princesslve
    @princesslve Месяц назад +59

    Firstly, I love your outfit, you look stunning. I grew up in the UK, but Yoruba and English were spoken frequently in my household. We ate Nigerian food daily, attended Nigerian parties, watched Nigerian movies, listened to Nigerian music from Wasiu to P-Square and much more. We visited Nigeria every year but these experiences weren’t limited to my visits. They were an integral part of my upbringing in the UK. So, it feels a bit reductive to hear that this is seen as an “aesthetic” or that we engage with our culture on a surface level. This implies that we’re somehow less Nigerian, or that our engagement with the culture is incomplete, which isn’t accurate and an unfair representation.
    I also intentionally adjust my accent when in Nigeria to sound less British, so that I don’t come across as what you described - pretentious. But if it’s not my accent that’s the issue, it’s the way I dress, it’s the way I walk lol there’s always something that sets me apart. Also, I don’t have to diminish myself in other countries so why should I feel the need to do that in my own country, Nigeria?
    Lagos is often the starting point for many IJGBs as most of us have extended family there but I do agree that exploring beyond Lagos is important and it’s something I hope to do more.

    • @fynedu8065
      @fynedu8065 Месяц назад +2

      Well said !!!!!!!!!!!! 🎉

    • @Fabtiee
      @Fabtiee  Месяц назад +1

      Thank You for the compliment, also for sharing your perspective !

    • @BigHandShake
      @BigHandShake Месяц назад

      Outstanding! Simply brilliant !!!!

  • @1ananas2bananes
    @1ananas2bananes Месяц назад +30

    I hate when people are like “people live in Lagos all year round, it’s not just a vacation spot!” Isn’t that how it is for EVERYWHERE in the world? Like jor calm down you people like to complain 😒 every vacation city is someone’s home

    • @zachstar244
      @zachstar244 Месяц назад

      Exactly, instead of embracing and thinking of ways to develop and expand this opportunity, they will continue to bad mouth and frustrate the poor tourists until they drive them away. These people are masters in sabotaging their own progress.

  • @STAGENAMESERENA
    @STAGENAMESERENA Месяц назад +68

    Nigeria’s economy needs all the IJGB support it can get to be honest 😬 foreign currency spent boosts exchange rates

    • @canesugar911
      @canesugar911 14 дней назад +2

      No it doesn't. Over-reliance on the dollar is part of the problem

  • @thafire897
    @thafire897 Месяц назад +4

    I was an IJGB until I stayed to study in the east for secondary school is learn the culture and lifestyle of my people. As someone who was born in the UK, Afrobeats has always been a genre we listened to during weddings, house parties and birthdays among Nigerians in the diaspora. So that comment is false, we knew our culture even when we were abroad . However we never got to experience it first hand in our home country, which I was privileged to.

  • @daliaa5294
    @daliaa5294 Месяц назад +5

    I’m Nigerian but was born in the UK and I’m now 30
    My parents took us to Nigeria every other year to see relatives and visit the village. Because we were young and we didn’t have money all we could do was follow our parents everywhere they wanted not necessarily fun things for kids
    Now I am a grown adult there is nothing wrong with using my own money and travel to Nigeria for fun and for the fancy events
    Abroad is very boring and isolating and cold
    Why can’t we come back and enjoy Nigeria for what it offers
    All we do is work and we don’t enjoy our money

  • @TracysHaven
    @TracysHaven Месяц назад +11

    I find it strange that Nigerians dislike others visiting their countries, while they flood other peoples countries in drones, Nigerian people are people that you will find in every single country on the planet, they’re everywhere and infact they live there and enjoy the benefits of those countries, why is it a bad thing when others visit us too? What’s with this sudden arrogance because “detty December” is trending, Nigerians are all of a sadden feeling too special, do yall not know that tourism is a good thing and it adds to out economy? Wetin Dey do Una, throughout TikTok and insta, you guys have been complaining and it’s not right at all, you guys are too antisocial towards other people but want to be accepted by others, this is simply xenophobia, the same thing you accuse South Africans of, get off your high horse and learn to be accommodating, I’m Nigerian, I was born, brought and I also live in naija, yet I can tell that you people are doing the most.

  • @OpinionisnotFact
    @OpinionisnotFact Месяц назад +90

    I would say one of the big misses in this video is you're speaking from the "IJGB" perspective without being one of them. I feel like a lot of your reasoning behind the why of people go home is just assumptions and they're not quite right to me as a Nigerian living abroad. For example, the idea that people are going back now because Afrobeats is more popular feels off. Many of us went home regularly while growing up, the difference is now we're adults and most adults party etc on vacation. I spent my childhood visits in my home state, now that I'm grown, I split time between my home state and Lagos simply because I'm an adult with my own money, and if I went to Ibiza on vacation, I'd party there too.

    • @Fabtiee
      @Fabtiee  Месяц назад +22

      Thanks for sharing your experience, it's definitely not a one-size-fits-all situation 👌
      However, I still stand on Afrobeats and detty December leading to the romanticisation and glamorisation of it.
      I also fail to see the part where I'm speaking from their perspective, Everything in my video is solely from a Nigerian who has lived all her life in Lagos "Perspective"

    • @OpinionisnotFact
      @OpinionisnotFact Месяц назад +20

      @@Fabtiee I hear you, and I don't think you're speaking from that perspective for the whole video, but it stuck out to me especially around the 7:20 mark when you said IJGBs are now looking forward to coming back to "our hot Nigeria" because of Afrobeats and to me that's more assumption of why I go home rather than fact. I went home when danfo driver was on the radio, and I'll still be going back when Afrobeats is less of a trend. And you're right that it's not one size fits all, it's just a bit frustrating to hear it presented as one size fits all as if I don't enjoy peeling egusi seeds with my grandmother just as much as I enjoy clubbing in Lagos.
      The issue of tourism and crowding is the same in every tourist location, I live in New York City and get annoyed by people in Times Square or people who crowd the sidewalks when I'm trying to get to work, but I don't think they're there because of some non genuine interest in my city. There was also recently some uproar when native Spaniards were throwing things at tourists in cafe's because they said they were driving the prices up. So it is an annoyance to people who live there, I just don't think the root cause is an inauthentic appreciation for Nigerian culture as it seems to be positioned in some parts of your video.
      (Not sure if I'm articulating all of my thoughts well, would be happy to further discuss in another medium.)

    • @OpinionisnotFact
      @OpinionisnotFact Месяц назад +17

      ​@@Fabtiee Also thinking on it more, it may be less that the Afrobeats rise has "glamorized" things and more that it made things more accessible. When I went back in 2008- 2014 era, I wouldn't even know what the club names were besides Shrine, because again, spent most of my time in Ogun state, but now I can scroll on tiktok and come up with an itinerary of things to do without having to wait for a cousin or family friend who also might not spend much time in Lagos to take me somewhere. I will say in general, navigating Nigeria as someone who visits but does not live there has become much easier in the last few years so we'll continue to see a rise in people taking advantage of that fact. Vacationing in Nigeria now means I get to see my last remaining grandparent, hang out with my cousins, bring a suitcase full of panla, iru, ata, etc back for my mom AND go out clubbing in one trip??

    • @TivBoiMedia
      @TivBoiMedia Месяц назад +7

      @@OpinionisnotFact I live in Los Angeles and can totally relate to your comments.

    • @Fabtiee
      @Fabtiee  Месяц назад +5

      @@OpinionisnotFactYou definitely have valid points I can resonate with, my video is lighthearted as I stated at the beginning, it’s a discussion topic and certainly we can have a conversation about it, that’s all.
      Nothing is better than the other, your perspective is yours and mine’s mine. Think of it like a healthy debate, nothing too crazy.
      Shalom.

  • @Mkym365
    @Mkym365 Месяц назад +36

    The IJGB’s brings in forex and spends it on Local businesses in Nigeria 🇳🇬 this helps to Revive the Economy it’s called tourism, America , Europe, UK enjoy Tourism money to help thier Economy because small businesses thrive, they can employ more people, use money gotten from Tourist to bay thier house rent, pay thier children’s school fees, buy goods from market women, pay mechanic, buy petrol, etc the money gets distributed around. IJGB’s are very IMPORTANT/ VITAL to Our Nigerian economy..

  • @fynedu8065
    @fynedu8065 Месяц назад +28

    Have you explored all those beautiful parts of Nigeria you are asking IJGBs to explore

    • @Tessy29k
      @Tessy29k 19 дней назад +2

      She has a point though. Nigeria's beauty and vibe extends far beyond lagos. I did a tour of many states including the North, Nigeria as a teenager and it made me appreciate Nigeria even more.

  • @fynedu8065
    @fynedu8065 Месяц назад +45

    To your point on Afrobeats, it would be very myopic of you to believe that " IJGBs" did not play a part in making Afrobeats the global genre and phenomenon it is now. Afrobeats is not new to IJGBs. We didn't just stumble on Afrobeats due to TikTok and other social media platforms. We were there from the beginning. We in the diaspora requested that Afrobeats be played on the radio stations, in the clubs, restaurants and anywhere possible. One thing, I will have you know about Nigerians abroad, no matter where you find us in the world, we are always representing our culture and sharing it with everyone. Nigerians are known to be the most boastful and PROUD group of African immigrants.

    • @thestarinhereyes2
      @thestarinhereyes2 Месяц назад +10

      THIS!!! Literally this! The ignorance in this video is so annoying! Not to mention the bullying that takes place for being African abroad and still wanting to rep your culture the best way you can

    • @Fabtiee
      @Fabtiee  Месяц назад +1

      Must have really triggered you aye... some of you way too sensitive. It's ok to disagree with an opinion but to slander it as "Ignorance"?
      Way too much sentiments under a video no one forced you to click on.

    • @fynedu8065
      @fynedu8065 Месяц назад +4

      @@Fabtiee I thought the point of posting videos online is so people can engage. Whether they agree with you or not…it’s to provoke conversation, to share ideas, & to educate. I did exactly that. I am sharing my views from the IJGBs standpoint. Just because I do not agree with you on this particular video does not make me sensitive. I expected a more well rounded response from you but I see that you are not interested in hearing opposing viewpoints .
      A little advice: if you don’t want people to challenge your opinions don’t share your views publicly. When you share your opinions publicly people are allowed to receive the message anyway they feel. You cannot control that. People will not always agree with you 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @Fabtiee
      @Fabtiee  Месяц назад

      @@fynedu8065 Weird cos that response wasn't even directed at you. YT be playing with me or sth cos I replied directly to the comment that labeled my whole video ignorant which is right under your comment.

    • @Fabtiee
      @Fabtiee  Месяц назад

      @@thestarinhereyes2 Must have really triggered you aye... some of you way too sensitive. It's ok to disagree with an opinion but to slander it as "Ignorance"?
      Way too much sentiments under a video no one forced you to click on.

  • @jnn2262
    @jnn2262 Месяц назад +14

    We Nigerians have big problem honestly. There's not only tribal bigotry, now what do we call this, IJGBphobic? I wish these young people would channel all these energy towards the failed government. Ridiculous

    • @Fabtiee
      @Fabtiee  Месяц назад +1

      @@jnn2262 Did you watch the entire video? Because I’m convinced some of you people just see and hear backwards. Ridiculous

    • @jnn2262
      @jnn2262 Месяц назад +7

      I'm not just basing my comment on yr video. I already heard about the negative attitude of some Nigerians towards the IJGBs. Your video just confirmed it. Like I said most Nigerian youths have misplaced priority.

  • @nadia_vivace
    @nadia_vivace Месяц назад +23

    When I go back home, I sleep and eat. I don't have time or energy to make the food I actually want here in the U.S so my home is an escape.

  • @fynedu8065
    @fynedu8065 Месяц назад +20

    IJGB are also adding to the economy. I think some of this conversation is rooted in jealousy. It’s really sad b/c we are one people. We have so much power when we work together & accept each other than when we are divided.

    • @canesugar911
      @canesugar911 14 дней назад

      What's sad is you intentionally twisting her words because you are triggered by the truth. The condescension is why you think that we are jealous; while all she is asking is that you people be considerate of the people living in the country and try other places outside Lagos. Please 🙄

    • @fynedu8065
      @fynedu8065 15 часов назад

      @canesugar911 gurl bye 👋🏾

    • @canesugar911
      @canesugar911 9 часов назад

      @fynedu8065 okay sis

  • @victoriae7993
    @victoriae7993 Месяц назад +42

    Appreciate the video. Concerning the complaints, it actually hurts. I was convinced to come and start a business in Nigeria, but it's so hard to find honest people to work with. I can't fully relocate to Nigeria to focus on business, but the corruption runs deep, as in bone marrow deep.
    I speak pidgin well, out of all my siblings I'm the only one that has lived in Nigeria but my siblings understand and speak the language, especially yoruba.
    The reason many parents don't speak their language to their children is because of shame and embarrassment, they think their children will be made fun of or their English will sound weird, which is just ridiculous.
    But most IJGB's really just go back to flaunt and oppress...something they can't do where they're coming from.
    Please keep your accent, everyone is unique. It makes me uncomfortable when I hear a Nigerian who hasn't even been out of the country forcing a wester accent. I wish more people spoke their native language honestly.
    Just my 2 cents

    • @rosy_b.
      @rosy_b. Месяц назад +2

      Exactly. I'm twenty and I'm now trying to learn my native language from scratch

    • @Fabtiee
      @Fabtiee  Месяц назад +4

      The corruption is debilitating tbh, I agree. I'm sorry that was your experience.
      And Its actually sad to not speak to your kids in their mother tongue because of shame and embarrassment. Love how I speak and would never change it but your perspective really opened up my understanding. Thank you.

    • @TivBoiMedia
      @TivBoiMedia Месяц назад +7

      I live in Los Angeles and I dont save up money to fly back home to "oppress" anyone. I want to rest, relax and have fun, thats all. If that "oppresses" you, if my ability to splurge and spend like I do, is "oppressing", then thats a "You" problem not me. I dont even know you and Most of the times IJGB's are not even talking to you but the people in their own circles.

    • @Pristine_Mind
      @Pristine_Mind Месяц назад

      You obviously missed what she's communicating.​@@TivBoiMedia

    • @Fabtiee
      @Fabtiee  Месяц назад +2

      ⁠​⁠@@TivBoiMediaWhere did you get “Oppressed” from? Certainly not my video. It’s the haughtiness for me 😅

  • @Ola-wb3qz
    @Ola-wb3qz Месяц назад +9

    You self how many places you don visit in Nigeria?

  • @kafilatjimoh6044
    @kafilatjimoh6044 Месяц назад +13

    Okay hey girl I could see and understand why a lot of Nigerians are upset at the ones that come back. Here is an outlook we are not really oblivious to what is going on what is upsetting us most times is the feelings of outcasting that is given to the people that just come back. We really come back to share with you guys that are home. We understand the special treatment might be off but that is for anybody that comes from a different country they are treated special. If you travel to western part of the world from Nigeria or anywhere we will treat you special for a month or so and you have to get on your own two feet because it is hard in that part of the world. We complain so much about back home because we would rather be back in OUR home county and have things work well for us just like every other countries have things working for them. We get mad at you guys back home because we see the fact that your don’t want to do much but run away while we that are coming home actually want to do something but the next thing we hear is oh that is not how you do things in Nigeria and that is not how things are done. When we bring suggestions to help develop how environment we have one unlike mind aunty that is upset because she won’t be able to sell on the road side anymore which I understand the poverty in Nigeria but at same time in order to grow we have to work together as one and not look at us as outsiders. Let us bring our ideas to help the country grow. Let us share with you and demand for a better future and country overall because my dear there is no soft life outside Nigeria nah filters everybody they use.

    • @Tea962
      @Tea962 Месяц назад +1

      Its Jealousy honestly

  • @timeeak4599
    @timeeak4599 Месяц назад +10

    I like your style.... you've got a laid-back style of presenting.😊

    • @Fabtiee
      @Fabtiee  Месяц назад +2

      @@timeeak4599 Thank you ☺️

  • @femiogidan791
    @femiogidan791 Месяц назад +11

    By the way IJGBs also have NINs. Most of us come in with our Nigerian passports. 😊

    • @nmg1909
      @nmg1909 Месяц назад

      Of course If you have Nigerian passport or has a renewal passport, you will be asked to register for NIN at the Nigerian embassy

  • @blessingokpu2489
    @blessingokpu2489 Месяц назад +4

    My dear everybody abroad want to come back home because is actually horrible with the weather abroad. That’s just the truth.

  • @promiseokere1270
    @promiseokere1270 Месяц назад +3

    As a nigerian living in nigeria, I can understand you are partially hating on the ijgbs go and heal.

  • @titio2275
    @titio2275 15 дней назад +1

    50k a day?? Excuse me 😭 when I went back to my village we def weren’t spending that…….😭these ppl want to live like their 1st world countries in Naija… you aren’t really experiencing all of Nigeria atp

  • @pauley1107
    @pauley1107 12 дней назад

    I enjoyed your video and really appreciated your perspective. I think a great follow up if you ever would want to would be a conversation w/ an IJGB. I think the discourse between the two or more would give more nuance and understanding. I actually have never partied in Lagos before. It’s expensive to go back home. I often go to the village and then visit other family in the southeast. Nigeria is home we know we can always come back to but we have to do a better job about making those that actually live there feel respected. I could never remove my Nigerian identity (even if I was stupid enough to desire that). I think we can have these discussions w/o forever other-ing a group. There’s real lived differences between us but we grew up with the culture in the diaspora. And if you come from a community that values it..(heritage that a lot of us were bullied for) then you take pride in your identity. And I know many that don’t feel comfortable with just surface level knowledge of their home or ppl. Overall thank you for bringing this topic up. And I hope we can better mend these issues together

  • @maybellsaliu690
    @maybellsaliu690 Месяц назад +9

    I'm confused ooo
    Can't people travel to their country of origin again? 💭
    We don work work work work tyaa in a white man land in which we happen to be born in and want to come to the country where our where our Babas babas baba hail from. Is now a problem.
    We are actually Nigerians. If the western countries say oya leave our oyinbo country…we gonna return home - Nigeria. Abiii?
    So I am confused ooo 😣

    • @elisabethsco
      @elisabethsco Месяц назад

      So why not change the citizenship to Nigerian? In that case you won't have the issues of so called "travelling from white man land to your Babas land" wow. Everyone is so patriotic, but when it comes to changing passports they all of a sudden become materialistic. Confused.

  • @23livelovemanifest
    @23livelovemanifest Месяц назад +5

    In Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪 we still call them "Summer Bunnies" 😂😂😂

  • @Truth_Unchained
    @Truth_Unchained Месяц назад +4

    Great commentary👍🏿. However, point of correction. Not all Nigerians want to leave the country. We may be few in population size, but we still exist.

  • @otiegedee
    @otiegedee Месяц назад +12

    No, they are welcome. We asked for recognition and tbh it’s helping the economy

    • @Fabtiee
      @Fabtiee  Месяц назад

      @@otiegedee They are fr. I love me some IJGBs ☺️

  • @pauley1107
    @pauley1107 12 дней назад

    My dad used to tell me this all the time..that the Naira was once more than the dollar. I finally looked into it myself. It has never been unfortunately. But before the 80s the exchange rate was closer (in 1980 1 USD= 0.55 NGN)

  • @brianaayittah8197
    @brianaayittah8197 Месяц назад

    The way I’ve been binging your videos???!!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Since the wedding video the way I subscribed fastttt! Love love love your content you’re doing so amazing!!!!💓💓💓

    • @Fabtiee
      @Fabtiee  Месяц назад

      @@brianaayittah8197 Awww I love to have you around 🥰😘😘😘

  • @pipelayomimiko
    @pipelayomimiko Месяц назад +1

    I'm so here for Nigerian commentary youtube!

  • @nadia_vivace
    @nadia_vivace Месяц назад +10

    These people complain about everything everywhere oooo
    Even in these yt people country, we complain about racism, costs, working too much ...the soft like is not always soft lifing ooo

  • @fatimahgoni
    @fatimahgoni Месяц назад +4

    I love the way you edit your videos ❤

    • @Fabtiee
      @Fabtiee  Месяц назад +2

      Thanks so much! I’m glad you like it ☺️

  • @femiogidan791
    @femiogidan791 Месяц назад +3

    Interesting 😊. IJGBs come in different age categories with different reasons for their visits. See the opportunities eg mainland instead of just island, services/entertainment for maturer IJGBs instead of just for 20-35 year-olds, all-year v just December. This shows that Nigerians abroad will come home if the product is good enough. That's a good thing, I think.

  • @nowwhytheheck
    @nowwhytheheck Месяц назад

    love your vids! i think i might be considered an IJGB but i love hearing your perspective. so important to know and see the nuance for all of us. this was a funny and insightful video!

    • @Fabtiee
      @Fabtiee  Месяц назад

      @@nowwhytheheck Thanks for sticking around🥰

  • @anuhassan5596
    @anuhassan5596 Месяц назад +3

    Hmm you know what, I’m IJGB but I’m also a Yoruba Lagosian. Omo baba Isale Eko & Omo Iya Ebute Metta ni mi. So I feel like I can’t relate to a lot of these points because my detty December (this is my 1st one btw, have never been in Nigeria at December before this as this is not when my family chooses to go) is just spent in my house eating my parents’ food.

  • @francis191
    @francis191 Месяц назад

    Your analysis is intelligent and well thought through. And your accent is just fine......it is real and authentic and there are no comms issues so keep doing what you are doing 🙂

    • @Fabtiee
      @Fabtiee  Месяц назад

      Thank Youuu☺️

  • @Ejeomah
    @Ejeomah Месяц назад

    Please give up with this!!! I love your analytic skills and way of presenting 😮‍💨💃🥰

  • @IamGodSon
    @IamGodSon Месяц назад +2

    In Cameroon we call them Bushfallers. Bush been abroad especially europe and america.

  • @jenniferahofa415
    @jenniferahofa415 Месяц назад +6

    Jealousy is a very wicked disease!!! You sound very jealous.. I’m sending some holy water to cure that jealousy.

    • @Fabtiee
      @Fabtiee  Месяц назад +3

      Haha I love the energy girl! i'll be sending some right back at you too since you lack basic comprehension skills with your teeny weeny brain🤡

  • @theladyfemi
    @theladyfemi Месяц назад

    Jealousy is a very sad affliction

  • @joycea7509
    @joycea7509 Месяц назад

    You are very intelligent.

  • @Marmitebaby707
    @Marmitebaby707 29 дней назад

    So ijgb is for girl who were born in Nigeria but grew up somewhere else??? Because I visit often but I’ve never lived there, I was born in the uk. So I wouldn’t be classified as IJGB, because it’s not my home.

    • @Daraa727
      @Daraa727 21 день назад

      An IJGB is someone who just came back from abroad. There are Nigerians who lived abroad but now live in Nigeria and because they've lived in Nigeria for an extended period of time they are no longer considered IJGB's.

  • @LOVELYLONDONGURL
    @LOVELYLONDONGURL Месяц назад +4

    This is random but would you be so kind to share what you use to edit your videos? Love the editing style 😊

    • @Fabtiee
      @Fabtiee  Месяц назад +4

      Sure thing! I use Premier Pro and capcut.

    • @LOVELYLONDONGURL
      @LOVELYLONDONGURL Месяц назад +2

      @ oh lovely, thank you for being so open x

  • @Workingmamamusings
    @Workingmamamusings Месяц назад

    ok... i just have to say something... we are all happy that Nigeria has been put on the map and its very interesting to see that people care enough to want to see what nigeria is about.
    the only problem i have with the IJGB's, ok at least the ones i encounter, they can complain!!! my goodness, sometimes the way they complain about everything, you will think they are returning from heaven. i know in the more developed countries, you guys are blessed with instant gratification for everything, especially in terms of accessing services, if that is even entirely true... but you guys need to put at the fore front of your mind that, these are peoples homes and the endless complaints and pointing out every wrong thing makes your company a tad irritating. i have a relative i avoid when she actually comes to nigeria, i rather not go anywhere with her because at the end of that outing i will be exhausted with complaints. thats my only wahala with IJGB, asides that, please keep coming and please enjoy the country. thank you.

  • @stevenwilliams3015
    @stevenwilliams3015 Месяц назад +5

    IJGB is not a popular term in Nigeria. Na una carry this one come and if we look deep, na from Yankee una copy am from. Copy copy

  • @Opinion_Box82
    @Opinion_Box82 Месяц назад +1

    Sis the ijgb and the Lagos girls talk is just for cruise dont take it too serious we are all nigerians 😅 be calming down ok

  • @Sparks.u
    @Sparks.u Месяц назад

    Thank ypu for this video!

  • @dinobichukwuvictoria5934
    @dinobichukwuvictoria5934 Месяц назад +6

    For me it's how they make Lagos look like the entire Nigeria

  • @fynedu8065
    @fynedu8065 Месяц назад +2

    This conversation is way too nuanced. But thank you for setting the stage for it

  • @Trollbot007
    @Trollbot007 Месяц назад +1

    It’s called Japa-Efizioloy. I use it all the time.

  • @nkechinyerechukwu2176
    @nkechinyerechukwu2176 Месяц назад +3

    Make them go explore make them kidnap them?😂😂😂

    • @Fabtiee
      @Fabtiee  Месяц назад +2

      @@nkechinyerechukwu2176 Abeg I no Dey o😅

  • @empoweredlifebyesthertv1200
    @empoweredlifebyesthertv1200 Месяц назад

    Nice video and lovely dress

  • @The_Abasiama
    @The_Abasiama Месяц назад +11

    Really nice video. BUT let me give you some context as a Nigerian living in Nigeria who travels the world. And this is about the Island/Mainland thing.
    I have been to the UAE all of 15 times and never have I been to Sharjah. One might argue that that is part of Dubai, but is that anywhere along/near the things I’m interested in doing/seeing during my limited time there? No.
    Last year, I stayed in Canary Wharf and didn’t go to a lot of other places far away from there. If the mainland is not on their radar, it just isn’t- sadly!
    One might see my post and assume that my Dubai/Wherever experience is not “authentic” because I didn’t do xyz or visit “abc” but that’s my reality and it’s valid.
    This comment is already toooooo long. Sorry.. 🙈

    • @Fabtiee
      @Fabtiee  Месяц назад +2

      I love the point you made about people's different experiences being equally valid. The only difference is that UAE may not be culturally relevant to you but the homeland is. There is a kind of obligation to know more about your roots and its people, it fosters a sense of belonging and pride.

    • @Mkym365
      @Mkym365 Месяц назад +1

      @@Fabtieeit’s like you have a chip on your shoulders

    • @Fabtiee
      @Fabtiee  Месяц назад

      @@Mkym365You’re so wrong but go off I guess😅

    • @BeingisdWord
      @BeingisdWord Месяц назад

      ​@@Mkym365😂

  • @dwi5114
    @dwi5114 Месяц назад +1

    You preaching

  • @JosephineEze79
    @JosephineEze79 Месяц назад +6

    That 'abroad smell' in clothes is just new clothes. Clothes from thrift stores aborad don't smell like that.

    • @Fabtiee
      @Fabtiee  Месяц назад +5

      Girl, I know! 🤣😂
      To 8 year old me, it was heaven.

    • @preztigiouswoman
      @preztigiouswoman Месяц назад +1

      What nonsense are you saying 😂😂😂

  • @Bieedupex
    @Bieedupex Месяц назад +1

    😂😂

  • @1111deebee
    @1111deebee Месяц назад

    I think it’s just a joke that they should go back, i think they took that too seriously.

  • @alvanalvino
    @alvanalvino Месяц назад +5

    I avoid this and get in and out before Christmas. I am there for Christmas occasionally, I do not like to be part of a crowd or being labelled.
    I am a Nigerian in the diaspora born and raised in Nigeria before I migrated. I educate the young once born abroad so they can love and be honoured to be Nigerians.
    Let’s not turn them to creatures of mockery. We must understand that the climates are different.

    • @joshuadala3508
      @joshuadala3508 Месяц назад

      Educated who

    • @alvanalvino
      @alvanalvino Месяц назад

      @ Are you born in the diaspora as a person of Nigerian descent? Don’t worry if it doesn’t concern or affect you fam. I have families and children of family friends all born and raised abroad. I saw them grow up. And there are a huge community of you go to churches. Got it?

    • @joshuadala3508
      @joshuadala3508 Месяц назад

      @@alvanalvino I don't get it

    • @joshuadala3508
      @joshuadala3508 Месяц назад

      @@alvanalvino and it's not everyone that goes to church or is a Christian the ier other religions to yn

  • @Untitled0752
    @Untitled0752 Месяц назад +8

    Sounds like jealousy. Why is it your business they want to come back?

    • @praiseugwuzor
      @praiseugwuzor Месяц назад +3

      Abeg , shey we watch the same video?😒

    • @evibenson
      @evibenson Месяц назад

      😂😂😂 ​@@praiseugwuzor

  • @imParisthoee
    @imParisthoee Месяц назад +2

    Just clicked on the video to tell you how gorgeous you are!

    • @Fabtiee
      @Fabtiee  Месяц назад

      Omg, Thank you so much! 🥰

  • @MLBEATS100
    @MLBEATS100 Месяц назад

    When these people say they're coming to lagos, let's specify that it's the Island they're talking about

    • @Freddvibzey
      @Freddvibzey Месяц назад +1

      The island might have the most, but they definitely going to the mainland as well.. are you saying all those estates on the mainland don't have families abroad?

  • @tufanzy
    @tufanzy Месяц назад +1

    How you no go thank Burna boy 😒

  • @kofiogbujiagba2265
    @kofiogbujiagba2265 Месяц назад +1

    What nonsense.You always want to divide yourselves. The same family. Shame on you.

  • @allbyosix9335
    @allbyosix9335 Месяц назад

  • @patti-robbomediaentertainm7741
    @patti-robbomediaentertainm7741 Месяц назад

    Pele our pikin

  • @henrymanshop8029
    @henrymanshop8029 Месяц назад +4

    U seem to be doing everything in your power to discourage tourism...can you just appreciate the new appeal lagos is striking n leave it at that!?

  • @lastnamedami
    @lastnamedami Месяц назад

    people are getting so defensive , I agree w u girl🦹🏽🦹🏽