I had a coworker who was married for 16 years and told me he and his wife just paid off their house. I said, well you better be careful. They got divorced not long after. People think or men think just because a women will be married to you for years she will never leave.
Women are mercenary creatures. You can never expect them to be loyal forever. Disappoint them not live up to their inflated expectations and they’re gone. Their girlfriends are your worst enemy. They have too much influence over your wife. Oh,you can do better than him,I never liked him anyway.
It probably cost him a lot of money, not to mention decades of his life to find out she probably never loved him and just saw him as an enabler for her lifestyle aspirations. The lucky guys are the ones who never met her, and never have to trread the well worn path already beaten by all the ones she had "so much fun" with.
Thank you for this one Erin. you say things we guys “can’t say.” And you’re right. We just found out an acquaintance just left her husband, he has, believe it or not, breast cancer. When she had ovarian cancer years ago he took care of her, and loved her back to health. Still stunned.
They don’t date her they just use her. She will only ever be a just for fun girl and never someone any self respecting man would ever want a long term relationship with
My ex was 52 years old when she divorced me. She has damaged her relationship with our adult kids than she has with me. That doesn't make me happy. It makes me sad. But she is what she is.
Applauding this channel. As an older conservative woman, to see beautiful, rational younger women who are advocating for stable families , creates hope. Thank you, be blessed. And to men watching, there are women who value men. Who see on a daily basis that the majority of men are amazing, good and protective, hard working for the betterment of society. You are valued, appreciated and you are what keeps society, strong . Thank you.
Main problem is first of all, finding a female to relationship with, and then it's Russian Roulette how it turns out, with increasingly bad results that are snow balling along with everything else.
My wife divorced me after 17 years and monkey branched to a high school sweetheart. That didn't end well after a year and my 14 year old daughter is completely broken. The victim mentality and the grass is greener on the other side broke my heart and been in therapy for a year now. Thank you for your Videos and keep up the good information you bring💚
Where did he say anything like that? Even if he had, hypergamy is enough of an answer. Plus, a LOT of women won't admit how nasty they are, or that they have chronic cases of Different D Without Consequences For Me Syndrome.
Your daughter with your constant love and strength will recover Her trust With the help of a great therapist It’s clear by your comment that you are by far the better parent She’s a lucky girl despite being let down in this betrayal
@@kc6810 Do you also argue like that if e.g. a man cheats on his wife? Note that I'm not disagreeing with you - in contrast to most here, I don't think that every marriage has to be saved, no matter what. - I'm just wondering whether you'd also argue that if a man cheats, it happens for a reason.
my 53-year-old wife, did the exact same thing after 32 years of marriage. It almost broke me during the divorce. I realized, i had to delete some of my venting i was exposing too much ,
My wife left after 28 years. Our 6 yr old paid the price. It has been hard for me to forgive her for the damage to our child. Now he lives with me and she is alone.
@@kc6810 I can list my consistent efforts to save my marriage for 21 years. The books I read (10,000 pages), the therapist I sought out for help, and the church leaders who came into my home for a year and a half who mostly asked me to adjust my way. I made significant changes. Then they turned to my wife and told her that this man had proved he wanted to make it work, what do you want to do?. Then she asked to speak to them alone, dismissed me from the room, and proceeded to tell them I had raped her 13 years prior. That was the start of a long list of lies she would spin over the next 8 years in family court. The next week she stuffed our 5-year-old in the BMW with 16 barnyard chickens and drove down the NJT 5 hours to her parents. I had no idea where she had gone for 3 weeks. With the chickens in the car, I knew it could only be a few places. When the family court ordered a forensic audit of my family, my therapist told them that when I came into her office, I presented most of the signs of a battered husband. This world has no empathy for battered men. There are 2,000 battered women's shelters in this country and only 2 for men My ex is a borderline personality-disordered person who won't go to therapy long enough to be diagnosed. I'll spare you all the ways she emotionally harmed our child and the continued struggle our child faces as a young adult. I have a very clean conscience and have done literally everything humanly possible to keep my marriage. BTW, this is a partial list!
@@kc6810 There are always reasons. The vast majority of those reasons fall outside of what many men believe they are committing to when they take their marriage vows. Men are realizing that the vast majority of women have a me centered attitude that makes them unfit for marriage. Men are learning how easy it is for a woman to blow up their marriage and walk away with cash and prizes when he did nothing wrong. Men are learning that every self sacrifice they make during marriage will be used to further exploit them in the family courts. This is why marriage and birth rates are at record lows.
@@kc6810 if she was telling him anything, it was likely couched in "hints" so vague and nebulous that Sherlock Holmes himself would be hard pressed to figure them out!
I´ve had a "mother" like that. She says it herself, she never wanted me and never felt like a mother or a wife. She just left us when I was 16 and never even called. Most people don´t understand what women like her do to their sons. I can´t describe the feelings that haunt me since my childhood and I can´t write in one comment what this missing love has caused my life to become. Don´t get children if you don´t want them. And something in our whole law system needs to change when it come to marriage. It does not work out for society as a whole the way it is.
I wouldn't worry about it too much. A guy should get most of his guidance from his dad anyway, so don't morne the loss of your "mother." I don't come from the same background, but yet similar. I had brothers and a sister, but i was the "middle child." I suppose the point is that i wasn't the baby. My younger brother got all the attention, and all the great gifts. What did i get? Well, before he came along, parents thought it cute because when i was 2-4, after playing with the toy soldiers (that first belonged to my 10 years older brother), I put them back in the cigar box they were stored in, so I'd be able to pay with them next time. I had noticed missing & broken parts already, so i needed to take care of what i had! They thought it was "so cute" that i picked up after myself. But after he comes along, my mother is always telling me that I came from Satan just to make her life miserable. She used to beat me. She broke broom handles over my head, back, arms, whatever she hit. She threw a heavy mug once at my face, i threw up my hands to protect myself, i still have scars 60 years after that mug broke against my hand & wrist. She never held me, never said she loved me, never said she was sorry for grabbing me by the head, banging it against the wall until i passed out. All i ever did was try to be good. I was taught by my dad, not only to do all these chores, but to anticipate what else needed doing. So, that's what i did. I did ALL the chores in the house, the yard, i shined everyone's shoes before church, etc. Younger brother never did a chore. If ever asked to do anything he just giggled & walked away. He lived in at home until both parents died. He was in county jail for too many DUIs, they brought him electric blankets, cartons of cigarettes, color tv, etc. So, he got to be "big man" with lots of stuff to trade, etc. And so much more. I was the neglected one, in spite of what i did, what i achieved, etc. i was rhe only one to graduate college. Little brother kept changing major. But he had potential! But the bottom line is, i am my own man, i have a great life, I'm resilient, i follow through with things, I've earned the trust of others, i am happily married to a great, beautiful & smart woman for 38 years, etc. i have great character that i made myself, basically. My dad, who was mostly not there (always working), but he taught me work ethic & self discipline, and i took it from there. I hope my brief story helps you understand to take control of your life, and be your own man. You can be whatever you aspire to be. What your "mother" didn't build with you, in terms of relationship, is HER loss. I didn't visit mine before she died. Big surprise.
Had a friend go through that with 2 sons in the mix. One of her boys is astronomically important The woman was utterly worthless and wanted to run off and play* America circa 2024
It blows my mind how public women are with this information. I sent a dpick to a girl I was seeing (which she asked for) when I was 18 and the next week all her friends "accidentally" saw it. Some of her friends tried to hookup with me. Whenever I talk about it people say I should take it as a compliment, but now it's just hard for me to trust women.
I don't believe any of them saw it accidentally. That girl was trying to brag and you didn't send it to all her friends. I wouldn't trust that girl at all if her friends are like that. Makes me wonder how many similar pictures she's seen and acted like that herself.
That lady wants to brag about her sexual exploits to her grandchildren, just imagine what she must have told her children. What a nightmare of a woman.
I'm 55, and my soon-to-be ex-wife, who also has MS, recently ended our 20-year marriage. I was a stay-at-home dad for 19 years, taking care of everything for her, including her weekly injections. Despite my commitment, she lied to the police, which led to me being jailed for 22 days, and now I’m fighting those accusations while going through a divorce. She’s taken our two kids (19 and 17), filed a restraining order based on more lies, and I haven’t seen or spoken to my family in over three months. I had resolved to stay by her side through her illness, but she now believes I was only with her for her money. It’s heartbreaking, but now I just hope to find peace in my life..
I was also falsely accused. It's very common, I know five (5!) other guys who's been through it. As a man you're guilty til proven innocent but truth usually prevails. But you need to get a good attorney! And document stuff. I can also say that single life is amazing! I'm a single dad and I need a date like I need an ashtray on my bicykle.
That's brutal! You sound like a very good man. Very sorry this happened to you. If someone stays with you through illness they truly love you, and she threw it away? I lived with a single mom for 9 years and she eventually labelled me with anger issues and kicked me out overnight. Never let me our cats or step daughter again. It's really twisted.
What does this woman expect? A medal for walking away from 24 years of marriage? And she left her marriage because she was (a) bored (b) special and deserved more? I am shaking my head at the level of delusion of this woman.
Every time I see something like this, I am reminded of the immortal words of W.C Fields, "Women are like elephants to me. I like to look at them, but I wouldn't want to own one."
I bet she was looking at the dating apps for years before her divorce, that will be what caused the breakup, she saw all the goods on show and wanted to try them all.
Don't forget the part where she says she can't wait to tell this story to her grandchildren. What sane woman wants to share 🍆 pic stories with their grandchildren? What sane people would let a woman tell those kind of stories to underage children.
Seems like a lot of women are getting lots of bad advice from divorced women online. Will these Strangers pay your bills? Will they even high-five you during holidays? It's woke nonsense destroying families.
Where can I find a woman like you. I didn’t think they existed in real life. Beautiful on the outside and even more so on the inside. Today’s selfish entitled women need to listen up good to you. Because unless they do they will join the ever increasing line of lonely women. And one thing these women don’t realise that men are ok with and happy walking away and living alone. Women living alone don’t fair so well. Keep living your happy life 👍
My wife lost ALL libido at menopause, and in the subsequent years has refused any and all intimacy. Though she's a very good wife in all other ways, her lack of empathy for my needs is extremely frustrating.
I'm sorry I just had to chime in I'm at 7 minutes and 38 seconds she says she's upside down that means she's a car loan she owes more than what she's worth LOL 😂😂
You are doing a very good service for men. Those of us among the boomers and a generation or two beneath us were flying blind. We had no idea just how different women had become from our mothers of the WWII generation.... That generation had some difficiencies as well, but there were also many more individuals of solid character back then, and that pertains to both the men and women.
Her first comment says it all, "I am upside down right now". Being "upside down" has one, and only one meaning. Being "upside down" means being financially upside down where your debts far outweigh your ability to renegotiate your assets. You are said to be "upside down" when you want to trade up to a better house, or trade up to a nicer car, but you still owe so much on the first house or the first car that you would come out of the deal "upside down" "under water", etc. What she is saying by that one comment is that she left her marriage because it no longer suited her financially and now she is on the hunt to make her financial situation better. She wasn’t in the marriage for love. When the husband failed to achieve financially to her satisfaction, she dumped him. She is all about the money, period. Never mind for better or for worse, love cherish and OBEY was never a part of the equation for her.
I've seen other of this woman's videos, but even in this one, she said that she lived in a nice, big house with a yard. In the other video I saw her in, she said that she missed her yard, and that she didn't have one at her apartment. With that in mind, did her husband suffer a reversal of fortune? With the way she talked, I got the impression that she was still living at that house up until the time she left. No, what I took from her "upside down" comment was WRT her personal life, her state of mind, and the state of whatever heart she has. The reason I took it that way was because she said she was upside down, followed by saying that she didn't want anything serious or long term. Only damaged people talk like that.
I went on a date with an actress once and she went on for 3 hours (!) at dinner name dropping and going on and on about herself. She had no questions for me. Date number 2 was even worse. That was enough for me. Bleh!
If she's this selfish about men having health issues, it's probably best that she divorced her husband (presumably) before he developed them, rather than divorcing him in the middle of a health crisis.
My dad's second wife did that to him. She divorced him after he had a heart attack. Now he lives with me. The only consolation is 2 hurricanes hit her new house and knocked on its side.
I was married from 1974 to 1981. That was the first and last time. My ex-wife wasn't bad but she was very possessive so it was a breath of fresh air when we broke up. 69 years now, single, and don't even date. I like my life just the way it is.
@@randallschultz7206 Weeeeeeeel What EX would have kept her in practice to have sex with HUNDREDS of men? No matter who is at "fault" at fifty three it won't matter who is to blame when her anus prolapses!!!!
50 minutes and 45 seconds I figured it out she wants to live the glamorous Life that's what she's all about is she feels that she's been missing out all these years she doesn't want to spend the rest of her life married to a boring husband
she's in it for the plot?! HE'S in it for the 'plot' - both northern and southern - and no one can tell me otherwise. erin nailed the intent again, just as last week's story where she nailed it so hard i didn't even feel the need to respond.
I know of 3 men who got the "We have to talk, I want a divorce" from their now. former spouse. Their reason...they just weren't happy..but could give no reason(s) why...wtf?
The sad part is, I know what it feels like. Loyal like a dog and doing things for her that she will never know about. Relationships are like dogs , once she takes it out back and "disposes" of it, there is no coming back.
This is horrible. Im sure her ex husband supported her for all of her adult life, and so now she believes others owe her a free ride in life. I dont understand men in general though, as why would any man date that 53 year old woman when she at the wall and will soon be an antique?
I am so thankful for knowing that a woman like you exist. I pray for you that you receive all the good in return, from what you are providing humanity with what you are doing on here. Bless your mind body and soul. 🙏
Best wishes. Even if you don't have a child, be it you can't have grandchildren, at least you're doing us a great favor, pouring balm on our wounded and scarred hearts, hearing you is better than taking anti depressants. I wish you find the same love and confort you're giving us! You're a much needed wify and motherly figure, and I'm sharing your content around, I hope some mothers share with their young daughters as an example of a level headed woman on the internet, at least we got some.
"Friends checking up on me during the date..." Yeah fellas, imagine her phone continuously blowing up during the date (and her rudely checking it) because everyone thinks your a serial killer. Still want dates, fellas?
Pure Elizabeth Holmes syndrome. She’s playing the part so hard that by the time she realizes she screwed up it will be easier pretend she still believes in her cause than admit defeat.
Erin, you really found a prize with this one. I find it difficult that any guy would be interested in her. Has not been on a date for decades. My late wife and I had 54+ years of wedded bliss. We still went out on dates up until she passed. This example is a disgrace to all real women.
These women need to really understand - YOU ARE 7 LITTLE YEARS AWAY FROM 60! And your looks are gone the second you start menopause, which is any day now! These days, 40 is your expiry date ladies! Start dealing with reality!
Thank you Erin for your podcast segments, and putting the reality of issues that women should step back and recognize/realize for us men and hopefully they start to get it...cheers to you 🍻 take care..
That what it means not to have a purpose. Men must have a purpose whether it's family, job, anything. Purpose. These women sleep around, get pumped and dumped and call it "finding themselves".
Many of us already ran away, and don’t plan on coming back. Make great money, raised with manners, courtesy, respect, have style, plenty of engaging outdoor hobbies. Extremely fit. Great habits and discipline. Women in my society don’t offer anything, besides the rare exceptions out there somewhere.
Women in general are high-risk luxuries. The odds of winning in a casino, where the rules favor the house, are better. Some win big, that's for sure, but the odds are definitely not in the man's favor.
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If you think the grass is greener on the other side, it’s probably because you’ve stopped watering your own lawn.
Oooh that's good! I'm using that! Thanks!
rofl :o)~;
What makes grass greener is cow doo doo aka BS.
@@javiermgtaoism5702like when people with bad lawns have dogs and the only green part of their lawn is where the dog does its business.
Now that is good. I've actually never heard that one.
"Winter is coming" economically speaking; do NOT help any single mother, ever.
Are you suggesting tax avoidance? 🙂
@@kylehorner8782 In a sense, sorta ~
@@kylehorner8782 This times it's civilization collapse. Sorry for the bad knews.
I would only help widows.
I don’t help American women.
Breaking News: 53 year old women acting like 16 year old child.
Everybody: *Not Surprised*
😂 reality is fun😂
🤯
She thought being a single woman at 53 would be the same as being a single woman at 23.
Somebody sould tell her that if she hasn't "found herself" at 53 that this is not a trial run! It's the main event!
I had a coworker who was married for 16 years and told me he and his wife just paid off their house. I said, well you better be careful. They got divorced not long after. People think or men think just because a women will be married to you for years she will never leave.
Women are mercenary creatures. You can never expect them to be loyal forever. Disappoint them not live up to their inflated expectations and they’re gone. Their girlfriends are your worst enemy. They have too much influence over your wife. Oh,you can do better than him,I never liked him anyway.
They’re slow .
Yet another reason for men to stay single.
Because women need to be satisfied
You’re never safe
These videos demonstrate that most women don't learn no matter how long they have lived.
Her ex husband is the luckiest guy in Earth. Talk about taking out the trash!
It probably cost him a lot of money, not to mention decades of his life to find out she probably never loved him and just saw him as an enabler for her lifestyle aspirations. The lucky guys are the ones who never met her, and never have to trread the well worn path already beaten by all the ones she had "so much fun" with.
He has probably moved on to another mistake with a younger, prettier version of this woman. Men never seem to learn.
@@1Elohim1The only mistake is you.
What a nightmare of a human being. 100 years ago she would have been locked up at a mental instituition.
"Find yourself" is polite womanese for "be selfish, focus on only what you want and do only those things"
Yep, nailed it! 😎👍
"Strong and independent. But can't park the car." I love it.
she thinks that is "quirky" and gives her "personality".
They never grow up They Just grow old!!!
I come home to an empty house and I'm married. My wife is seldom home and avoids me when she is. I've come to appreciate the peace and quiet.
😂q
Remember: getting what you deserve is sometimes NOT what you want.
And at least lesson to learn while not get what's deserved is bad prediction for future. .
Thank you for this one Erin. you say things we guys “can’t say.” And you’re right. We just found out an acquaintance just left her husband, he has, believe it or not, breast cancer. When she had ovarian cancer years ago he took care of her, and loved her back to health. Still stunned.
Poor man, my ex wife did that
What guy in his right mind would ever date such a person, I bet the ex is breathing a sigh of relief....
Dating in this instance is a euphemism for getting run through like a village bicycle.
Her ex husband is a lucky man!
They don’t date her they just use her. She will only ever be a just for fun girl and never someone any self respecting man would ever want a long term relationship with
My ex was 52 years old when she divorced me. She has damaged her relationship with our adult kids than she has with me. That doesn't make me happy. It makes me sad. But she is what she is.
I've ran across your channel. Now I'm addicted! I love the insight you bring as woman of God! Thank you!
Applauding this channel. As an older conservative woman, to see beautiful, rational younger women who are advocating for stable families , creates hope.
Thank you, be blessed.
And to men watching, there are women who value men. Who see on a daily basis that the majority of men are amazing, good and protective, hard working for the betterment of society. You are valued, appreciated and you are what keeps society, strong . Thank you.
You're welcome.
Thank you for your comments. We only wish that women like you were the majority, rather than the increasingly vanishing exception...
Main problem is first of all, finding a female to relationship with, and then it's Russian Roulette how it turns out, with increasingly bad results that are snow balling along with everything else.
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More wasted effort on RUclips the great time waster.
My wife divorced me after 17 years and monkey branched to a high school sweetheart. That didn't end well after a year and my 14 year old daughter is completely broken. The victim mentality and the grass is greener on the other side broke my heart and been in therapy for a year now. Thank you for your Videos and keep up the good information you bring💚
Sorry to hear, brother. Keep the faith. There are lots of people in your position, unfortunately. The culture has been destroyed.
Where did he say anything like that? Even if he had, hypergamy is enough of an answer. Plus, a LOT of women won't admit how nasty they are, or that they have chronic cases of Different D Without Consequences For Me Syndrome.
The first mistake was loving her. They must be coldly put under total control to behave.
Your daughter with your constant love and strength will recover
Her trust
With the help of a great therapist
It’s clear by your comment that you are by far the better parent
She’s a lucky girl despite being let down in this betrayal
@@kc6810 Do you also argue like that if e.g. a man cheats on his wife? Note that I'm not disagreeing with you - in contrast to most here, I don't think that every marriage has to be saved, no matter what. - I'm just wondering whether you'd also argue that if a man cheats, it happens for a reason.
I hope her husband can find peace moving forward.
He got peace as soon as she left.
He can't do worse.
Arrested development. This lady is 53 but has the maturity and priorities of a teenager. Growing old without growing wise the most pathetic thing...
That’s how women are
my 53-year-old wife, did the exact same thing after 32 years of marriage. It almost broke me during the divorce. I realized, i had to delete some of my venting i was exposing too much ,
My wife left after 28 years. Our 6 yr old paid the price. It has been hard for me to forgive her for the damage to our child. Now he lives with me and she is alone.
@@kc6810 I can list my consistent efforts to save my marriage for 21 years. The books I read (10,000 pages), the therapist I sought out for help, and the church leaders who came into my home for a year and a half who mostly asked me to adjust my way.
I made significant changes. Then they turned to my wife and told her that this man had proved he wanted to make it work, what do you want to do?. Then she asked to speak to them alone, dismissed me from the room, and proceeded to tell them I had raped her 13 years prior. That was the start of a long list of lies she would spin over the next 8 years in family court.
The next week she stuffed our 5-year-old in the BMW with 16 barnyard chickens and drove down the NJT 5 hours to her parents. I had no idea where she had gone for 3 weeks. With the chickens in the car, I knew it could only be a few places.
When the family court ordered a forensic audit of my family, my therapist told them that when I came into her office, I presented most of the signs of a battered husband.
This world has no empathy for battered men. There are 2,000 battered women's shelters in this country and only 2 for men
My ex is a borderline personality-disordered person who won't go to therapy long enough to be diagnosed.
I'll spare you all the ways she emotionally harmed our child and the continued struggle our child faces as a young adult.
I have a very clean conscience and have done literally everything humanly possible to keep my marriage. BTW, this is a partial list!
@@kc6810 There are always reasons. The vast majority of those reasons fall outside of what many men believe they are committing to when they take their marriage vows. Men are realizing that the vast majority of women have a me centered attitude that makes them unfit for marriage. Men are learning how easy it is for a woman to blow up their marriage and walk away with cash and prizes when he did nothing wrong. Men are learning that every self sacrifice they make during marriage will be used to further exploit them in the family courts. This is why marriage and birth rates are at record lows.
@@kc6810 if she was telling him anything, it was likely couched in "hints" so vague and nebulous that Sherlock Holmes himself would be hard pressed to figure them out!
I´ve had a "mother" like that. She says it herself, she never wanted me and never felt like a mother or a wife.
She just left us when I was 16 and never even called.
Most people don´t understand what women like her do to their sons. I can´t describe the feelings that haunt me since my childhood and I can´t write in one comment what this missing love has caused my life to become.
Don´t get children if you don´t want them. And something in our whole law system needs to change when it come to marriage.
It does not work out for society as a whole the way it is.
I wouldn't worry about it too much.
A guy should get most of his guidance from his dad anyway, so don't morne the loss of your "mother."
I don't come from the same background, but yet similar. I had brothers and a sister, but i was the "middle child." I suppose the point is that i wasn't the baby.
My younger brother got all the attention, and all the great gifts. What did i get? Well, before he came along, parents thought it cute because when i was 2-4, after playing with the toy soldiers (that first belonged to my 10 years older brother), I put them back in the cigar box they were stored in, so I'd be able to pay with them next time. I had noticed missing & broken parts already, so i needed to take care of what i had!
They thought it was "so cute" that i picked up after myself.
But after he comes along, my mother is always telling me that I came from Satan just to make her life miserable.
She used to beat me. She broke broom handles over my head, back, arms, whatever she hit. She threw a heavy mug once at my face, i threw up my hands to protect myself, i still have scars 60 years after that mug broke against my hand & wrist. She never held me, never said she loved me, never said she was sorry for grabbing me by the head, banging it against the wall until i passed out.
All i ever did was try to be good. I was taught by my dad, not only to do all these chores, but to anticipate what else needed doing. So, that's what i did. I did ALL the chores in the house, the yard, i shined everyone's shoes before church, etc.
Younger brother never did a chore. If ever asked to do anything he just giggled & walked away.
He lived in at home until both parents died. He was in county jail for too many DUIs, they brought him electric blankets, cartons of cigarettes, color tv, etc. So, he got to be "big man" with lots of stuff to trade, etc.
And so much more.
I was the neglected one, in spite of what i did, what i achieved, etc. i was rhe only one to graduate college. Little brother kept changing major. But he had potential!
But the bottom line is, i am my own man, i have a great life, I'm resilient, i follow through with things, I've earned the trust of others, i am happily married to a great, beautiful & smart woman for 38 years, etc. i have great character that i made myself, basically. My dad, who was mostly not there (always working), but he taught me work ethic & self discipline, and i took it from there.
I hope my brief story helps you understand to take control of your life, and be your own man. You can be whatever you aspire to be.
What your "mother" didn't build with you, in terms of relationship, is HER loss.
I didn't visit mine before she died. Big surprise.
Had a friend go through that with 2 sons in the mix.
One of her boys is astronomically important
The woman was utterly worthless and wanted to run off and play*
America circa 2024
waouw
A woman who is proudly, and repeatedly, saying she's 'in the streets', you can't make this stuff up.
It blows my mind how public women are with this information. I sent a dpick to a girl I was seeing (which she asked for) when I was 18 and the next week all her friends "accidentally" saw it. Some of her friends tried to hookup with me. Whenever I talk about it people say I should take it as a compliment, but now it's just hard for me to trust women.
It should be common knowledge than women cannot be trusted
It's not a compliment. It only means privacy would never be respected.
I don't believe any of them saw it accidentally. That girl was trying to brag and you didn't send it to all her friends. I wouldn't trust that girl at all if her friends are like that. Makes me wonder how many similar pictures she's seen and acted like that herself.
That lady wants to brag about her sexual exploits to her grandchildren, just imagine what she must have told her children. What a nightmare of a woman.
I'm 55, and my soon-to-be ex-wife, who also has MS, recently ended our 20-year marriage. I was a stay-at-home dad for 19 years, taking care of everything for her, including her weekly injections. Despite my commitment, she lied to the police, which led to me being jailed for 22 days, and now I’m fighting those accusations while going through a divorce. She’s taken our two kids (19 and 17), filed a restraining order based on more lies, and I haven’t seen or spoken to my family in over three months. I had resolved to stay by her side through her illness, but she now believes I was only with her for her money. It’s heartbreaking, but now I just hope to find peace in my life..
I was also falsely accused. It's very common, I know five (5!) other guys who's been through it. As a man you're guilty til proven innocent but truth usually prevails. But you need to get a good attorney! And document stuff. I can also say that single life is amazing! I'm a single dad and I need a date like I need an ashtray on my bicykle.
That's brutal! You sound like a very good man. Very sorry this happened to you. If someone stays with you through illness they truly love you, and she threw it away? I lived with a single mom for 9 years and she eventually labelled me with anger issues and kicked me out overnight. Never let me our cats or step daughter again. It's really twisted.
The children soon needto make up their own mind...
If one wants to find a women who’s been abused u don’t have to search for long. They’ve all suffered from it!!!!!
@@capricornsounduk6023
Total BS.
What does this woman expect? A medal for walking away from 24 years of marriage?
And she left her marriage because she was (a) bored (b) special and deserved more?
I am shaking my head at the level of delusion of this woman.
any woman receiving alimony or child support is a flat deal-breaker.
if she's already squeezing money out of another man, then she will do it to YOU.
Look at her eyes. Constantly looking away. Avoiding confrontation. She knows she is lying to herself.
Every time I see something like this, I am reminded of the immortal words of W.C Fields, "Women are like elephants to me. I like to look at them, but I wouldn't want to own one."
Words to LIVE BY!
I say that all the time. I'm glad to see other men know of that phrase.
ask freud lol
It's not even a hit and run, it's just a RUN.
Right?! I wouldn't hit that with a ten foot pole attached to someone else's dingle...
I bet she was looking at the dating apps for years before her divorce, that will be what caused the breakup, she saw all the goods on show and wanted to try them all.
This woman thinks she's classy and says it but she is not! Erin does not think she is classy, does not say it but she is!
was she EVER "relationship material"??
No
Nope,in the past we could recognize them short skirted at the sidewalk asking a few bucks,now most of them are undercover 🥸
The way she says "the app" sounds soooooo disconnected. Like she is already 200%grandma 😂😂😂😂😂
Oh man she thinks she 23 someone please tell her she 53 please she's strait jacket material now . She needs to act her age
If she was 23, it'd be a Pass. Her attitude makes her a 0.
Don't forget the part where she says she can't wait to tell this story to her grandchildren. What sane woman wants to share 🍆 pic stories with their grandchildren? What sane people would let a woman tell those kind of stories to underage children.
23? ..she’s acting like a teenager
Seems like a lot of women are getting lots of bad advice from divorced women online. Will these Strangers pay your bills? Will they even high-five you during holidays? It's woke nonsense destroying families.
I've got a feeling her ex-husband is a lot happier now.
She's only 7 years away to 60, she better think fast.
The delusion never ends .
"Strong and independent, can't park your car." 😆 🤣
Exactly, I've heard horror stories about men developing health problems and then being ditched by wives.
She said she didn’t sleep with Tyrone.
Does she expect ANYBODY to believe that?
Where can I find a woman like you. I didn’t think they existed in real life. Beautiful on the outside and even more so on the inside. Today’s selfish entitled women need to listen up good to you. Because unless they do they will join the ever increasing line of lonely women. And one thing these women don’t realise that men are ok with and happy walking away and living alone. Women living alone don’t fair so well. Keep living your happy life 👍
My wife lost ALL libido at menopause, and in the subsequent years has refused any and all intimacy. Though she's a very good wife in all other ways, her lack of empathy for my needs is extremely frustrating.
She is being selfish. A wife shouldn’t refuse her husband
Buy a doll or see a pro once a week. imo.
Go get some
She is unfaithful to you. It's a prime way women use to crush men. I am much happier single.
I'm sorry I just had to chime in I'm at 7 minutes and 38 seconds she says she's upside down that means she's a car loan she owes more than what she's worth LOL 😂😂
Notice how she glossed over going up to his place and supposedly not sleeping with him then changing the subject immediately LOL 😂😂😂
Maybe she went Kamala on him... She's not lying 😆
Now you know how bad it is for normal men. This woman friend were part of the problem as well.
Their friends are the worst .
I don't think she realizes her kids aren't going to let her anywhere near her grandkids after what she did. 😮
@FarFromEden you are a treasure. Thank you for all your videos.
She can't get a relationship but is saying she doesn't want one.
You are doing a very good service for men. Those of us among the boomers and a generation or two beneath us were flying blind. We had no idea just how different women had become from our mothers of the WWII generation.... That generation had some difficiencies as well, but there were also many more individuals of solid character back then, and that pertains to both the men and women.
Her first comment says it all, "I am upside down right now". Being "upside down" has one, and only one meaning. Being "upside down" means being financially upside down where your debts far outweigh your ability to renegotiate your assets. You are said to be "upside down" when you want to trade up to a better house, or trade up to a nicer car, but you still owe so much on the first house or the first car that you would come out of the deal "upside down" "under water", etc. What she is saying by that one comment is that she left her marriage because it no longer suited her financially and now she is on the hunt to make her financial situation better. She wasn’t in the marriage for love. When the husband failed to achieve financially to her satisfaction, she dumped him. She is all about the money, period. Never mind for better or for worse, love cherish and OBEY was never a part of the equation for her.
I've seen other of this woman's videos, but even in this one, she said that she lived in a nice, big house with a yard. In the other video I saw her in, she said that she missed her yard, and that she didn't have one at her apartment. With that in mind, did her husband suffer a reversal of fortune? With the way she talked, I got the impression that she was still living at that house up until the time she left.
No, what I took from her "upside down" comment was WRT her personal life, her state of mind, and the state of whatever heart she has. The reason I took it that way was because she said she was upside down, followed by saying that she didn't want anything serious or long term. Only damaged people talk like that.
I went on a date with an actress once and she went on for 3 hours (!) at dinner name dropping and going on and on about herself. She had no questions for me. Date number 2 was even worse. That was enough for me. Bleh!
What actress?
If you don't want to
say the name, first
and last initials, and
a movie or two she
was in.
@@bobgreenfield9158 There are millions of actresses. Why would you think you would know her?
2nd date!?!? What?
If she's this selfish about men having health issues, it's probably best that she divorced her husband (presumably) before he developed them, rather than divorcing him in the middle of a health crisis.
My dad's second wife did that to him. She divorced him after he had a heart attack. Now he lives with me. The only consolation is 2 hurricanes hit her new house and knocked on its side.
I was married from 1974 to 1981. That was the first and last time. My ex-wife wasn't bad but she was very possessive so it was a breath of fresh air when we broke up. 69 years now, single, and don't even date. I like my life just the way it is.
At our age, woman just want us for the things we can provide.
Getting run through at 53 her body is going to fall APART!
Like the Ex Wife of the Casino Mogul from the movie Casino.
@@bobgreenfield9158 Worse because she is out of practice! Like a golf cart racing the Indie 500!!!!!
@@kylehorner8782 then she will that it is the fault of the ex that she is out of practice
@@randallschultz7206 Weeeeeeeel What EX would have kept her in practice to have sex with HUNDREDS of men? No matter who is at "fault" at fifty three it won't matter who is to blame when her anus prolapses!!!!
That man was dressed up perfectly. He had his wallet on him. That's all the attire he ever needed on those dates.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Skeletor out here wildin
"Just like a woman!". 😂
in your 50s and going through another 304 PHASE....
50 minutes and 45 seconds I figured it out she wants to live the glamorous Life that's what she's all about is she feels that she's been missing out all these years she doesn't want to spend the rest of her life married to a boring husband
Imagining a person like this being my grandma I genuinely feel cold shivers down my spine. Thank god my real grandma was a very different person.
she's in it for the plot?! HE'S in it for the 'plot' - both northern and southern - and no one can tell me otherwise. erin nailed the intent again, just as last week's story where she nailed it so hard i didn't even feel the need to respond.
After screwing one man over does she think this guy would give her the chance to do the same to him.
They don't seem to think that the grass might be greener on the other side because the septic system is broken.
I know of 3 men who got the "We have to talk, I want a divorce" from their now. former spouse. Their reason...they just weren't happy..but could give no reason(s) why...wtf?
The sad part is, I know what it feels like. Loyal like a dog and doing things for her that she will never know about. Relationships are like dogs , once she takes it out back and "disposes" of it, there is no coming back.
This is horrible. Im sure her ex husband supported her for all of her adult life, and so now she believes others owe her a free ride in life. I dont understand men in general though, as why would any man date that 53 year old woman when she at the wall and will soon be an antique?
I am so thankful for knowing that a woman like you exist. I pray for you that you receive all the good in return, from what you are providing humanity with what you are doing on here. Bless your mind body and soul. 🙏
Best wishes. Even if you don't have a child, be it you can't have grandchildren, at least you're doing us a great favor, pouring balm on our wounded and scarred hearts, hearing you is better than taking anti depressants. I wish you find the same love and confort you're giving us! You're a much needed wify and motherly figure, and I'm sharing your content around, I hope some mothers share with their young daughters as an example of a level headed woman on the internet, at least we got some.
I can't agree with this enough. Yes.
Absolutely love the host of this channel. This one is for the future. The femme better bachelorette
"Friends checking up on me during the date..." Yeah fellas, imagine her phone continuously blowing up during the date (and her rudely checking it) because everyone thinks your a serial killer. Still want dates, fellas?
"Friends checking up on me during the date..."
FMD - if that doesn't give the game away - nothing will.
@@denishillman5942 what does FMD mean?
@@markymarknj F me dead
They think they can all hide the big lie
she is THE DARKNESS of her darkest time!!!!
“Never been a WIFE”. That has to be the case. I ended up with the same.
She failed to realize that if a guy is dating her at her age, she's just his entertainment until he find something better.
Where do level headed and smart women like you hide? I've been searching for one like you all my life!!!
Pure Elizabeth Holmes syndrome. She’s playing the part so hard that by the time she realizes she screwed up it will be easier pretend she still believes in her cause than admit defeat.
Erin, you really found a prize with this one. I find it difficult that any guy would be interested in her. Has not been on a date for decades. My late wife and I had 54+ years of wedded bliss. We still went out on dates up until she passed. This example is a disgrace to all real women.
Wow. This is going to be a wild one.
That woman's a dingbat for choosing being a semen receptacle over her marriage
I think you’re right.
You can't spell Women without Omen! 🙂
SHALLOW LIFE = SHALLOW WIFE
These women need to really understand - YOU ARE 7 LITTLE YEARS AWAY FROM 60! And your looks are gone the second you start menopause, which is any day now! These days, 40 is your expiry date ladies! Start dealing with reality!
What are the odds that, thanks to current divorce court precedents, her ex-husband’s money is funding this “lifestyle.”
Women have an accountability bypass -she will look back on her life one day and everything that bad that happened to her will be some man's fault LOL
Please make it stop, I want to divorce her.
The arrested development is so obvious with this one.
I love your videos miss. Thanks for being there.
Thank you Erin for your podcast segments, and putting the reality of issues that women should step back and recognize/realize for us men and hopefully they start to get it...cheers to you 🍻 take care..
Take good care of yourself Erin. God bless you!
The worst. Ugh.
Oh! ur back! ur back! oh boy! oh boy! We're soooooooo excited!!
thank🌹u! thank🌹u!
I try to have videos Thursday-Sunday
Thank 🌹 You @@FarfromEden
Bet her ex husband is relieved. Now he can grow old with calm and dignity.
That what it means not to have a purpose. Men must have a purpose whether it's family, job, anything. Purpose. These women sleep around, get pumped and dumped and call it "finding themselves".
"Find yourself" is womanese for "be selfish, focus on only what you want and do only those things, even at the expense of your own children."
"finding yourself" makes me want to ask - are you lost?.
Find yourself to me has always meant coming out - gay or becoming promiscuous.
The grass is greener for the guy who got rid of this "always a tramp"! ❤
Many of us already ran away, and don’t plan on coming back.
Make great money, raised with manners, courtesy, respect, have style, plenty of engaging outdoor hobbies. Extremely fit. Great habits and discipline. Women in my society don’t offer anything, besides the rare exceptions out there somewhere.
Women in general are high-risk luxuries. The odds of winning in a casino, where the rules favor the house, are better. Some win big, that's for sure, but the odds are definitely not in the man's favor.
That's a good analogy.
Ya, there's always that guy who finds a hot chick who doesn't cheat.
Hi Erin thanks for your videos ongoing. They are eye-opening!