Tori Baird on Loosing Our Canoe While Camping with Our Kids, & What it Means to Paddle Like a Girl
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Tori Baird Talks About Loosing Our Canoe & What it Means to Paddle Like a Girl - Baird Country Ep.2
Welcome to Baird Country, the podcast where outdoor adventure meets personal stories. In this episode, I sit down with a remarkable adventurer in her own right: my wife, Tori Baird.
Tori is the owner of Paddle Like a Girl, a platform where she offers introductory canoeing and backcountry workshops tailored for women. She's also the force behind the popular Instagram page "Tori Goes Outside," where she shares her outdoor escapades and inspires others to embrace nature.
During our conversation, Tori opens up about her journey, from her inspirations for founding Paddle Like a Girl to the realities of moving to a remote location and raising a young family there. She sheds light on her experiences as a mother, including embarking on remote canoe trips and winter camping adventures with a toddler and her five-year-old son, who has disabilities.
Join us as Tori shares her insights into the challenges and joys of her unconventional lifestyle, offering a unique perspective on the intersection of family life, adventure, and the great outdoors. We also explore what it's like to be married to a professional adventurer and the dynamics of balancing our shared passion for exploration with the responsibilities of everyday life.
So, grab your favorite beverage, settle in, and get ready to be inspired by Tori's incredible experiences and her unwavering passion for the wild. Welcome to episode two of Baird Country.
You'll be able to find all my podcasts in the playlist linked here:
• Baird Country - Jim Ba...
Here’s a playlist covering the films from one of the adventures we discuss in this podcast. Yes, this is from the recent trip where we lost the canoes. • Into Alaska - 30 Day O...
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Chapters:
0:00 Introducing Tori Baird
1:39 Tori shares what she’s editing - our current Into Alaska adventure series
4:04 As a Mom, what concerns and anxieties does Tori experience during the scarier parts of these trips.
22:25 Tori talks about getting caught in gale force winds while camping with her kids
59:12 What is Paddle Like a Girl?
1:30:33 What’s it like to not be a whitey in the sport?
Tori, you are amazing! What a great team! Love watching your family adventures! The kiddies are so adorable and love watching them grow!
Jim and the boys are blessed to have Tori. She is what makes every episode look effortless. Plus! Beautiful skin. 😎
Thanks 😊
Tori will always be my hero!!! 😊 You 2 make a great team!
Every couple should have this conversation. Love it!
Alone brought me here, Tori and the kids keeps me coming back.
Awesome, great to have ya.
Charismatic Tori is an outstanding, five star mother & wife. So fun to hear Tori/Jim podcast. We watched every beautiful video you’ve made together and applaud her patience. It’s beautiful cinematography and it soothes & calms us, but with two kids, a dog, and a utube hubby whose DNA has Scottish adventurer, it comes at a cost. That rain episode looked like misery and storm of the century winds and we felt for you & then where H drops the water purifier off canoe on purpose as his rocks, was the moment I’d want to clock him. 😮 Plus, kudos, that’s a-lot of stuff you two haul, set up and portage.
You must have learned how to compartmentalize & you ARE strong and definitely have our respect. Tori breezes thru it all due to her smart, calm thinking abilities. Love the hubby/wife banter. How did you two meet is our big question? Wesley seems like he’s more alert and animated with each passing week and soaking is it all up. ❤ Bravo BAIRD family!
First off...Jim, I am your biggest fan. Jim, thanks for facilitating this interview with Tori who is also an awesome and inspirational woman. I left England with my wife and son in 2004 and settled in BC, Canada. My wife and I have been canoeing together for over 25 years. I have been so privileged to have my wife leave her large family and follow me on a whim to Canada. My wife was born in Jamaica and joined her parents there when she was 10. Over the years we have often commented on the fact that we have hardly ever seen a person of my wife's ethnicity camping, hiking or canoeing. We had to stay strong as a couple when we decided to build a log house recently, it is in a forest, 3500 feet altitude. There are bears, cougars, bobcats and occasionaly Wolves up here. We lived in a travel trailer for 3 years using a 'porta potty' , melting snow to wash, cook with and drink. It got down below -36 a few times. My wife is 4'11 and very strong, physically and mentally, I am so proud of her. This last summer I suggested it was time to move onto solo paddling and I will buy a solo canoe this spring. My wife, Shirley, looks forward to take the next step to raise her confidence solo paddling. So, Tori, I think what you are doing by and filming your adventures with your lovely boys is a wonderful thing and what you do is of incalculable value to women and moreso women of colour. Like you and Jim, we work side by side on our laptops, together, most days my wife is a businesswoman and I am VP of the company. Shirley, in her spare time, is a motivational speaker, student pianist and aspiring writer. I wish you both a lifetime of great adventures, beautiful family memories and good health🛶🍻
What an amazing and well written comment. It made me borderline emotional. I have read several of your comments in the past and I am honoured that you are still watching and listening. Your wife sounds like an amazing person and your lifestyle sounds awesome too. Congrats on building that mountain home! Sounds spectacular.
Thanks Jim, you are a gentleman of good calibre...tough, yet not afraid to show your feelings. I do believe that us men who immerse ourselves in the beauty of Mother Nature, and who find peace, solace and healing in it need to encourage men of all ages who may be struggling with their mental and emotional wellbeing to participate in the great outdoors at whatever level they can. A few years ago there was a bit of a buzz amongst RUclips Bushcraft Channels, facilitated by a guy in the UK, to put out a video called 'Show us Your Steak'...a discussion on mens mental health. I put out a vid and have been thinking of doing it again during Mens Health Week. Keep Up thje Good Work and pass our regards onto Tori.@@JimBairdAdventurer
Torri you and Jim make a great team...but the kids steals the show all the time....love your videos..great interview....love your haircut Jim
Love you two! Keep adventuring and sharing!
Tori you are awesome 👍 I've really been enjoying this family adventure 😊🐺🔥
Love Tori! We watch all your videos of Jim Baird Adventures and any your Family Adventures❤️and especially your TV series on Natgeo You deserve a huge reward from your husband Jim hmm hint hint 🎉🎂💕🍻🍷🌹🌹💐
Tori I love what your doing with "paddle like a girl" giving women self confidence & power is right on 👍 👌 just the best! I love it! ❤️ good for you & thank you 😊 Jim you are a good man who shows deep respect & love for Tori 👌 together you are unstoppable ❤️
This was Amazing!!! Thank you Jim for having Tori on your podcast and Tori YOU are Amazing! Thank you for sharing with us your Journey and you Both for setting such a fine example of True Love and Support for each other. My Heart is So Full of Happy Happy ❤❤❤
Thanks very much
Your wife is an amazing person!!
Tori is a beauty and a beast! You guys are amazing
Tori is a beast - and i mean that in the best way - strong of body and soul and and and..... love your kids and all the adventures
Dude your wife is awesome...my wife will only go camping if it's a hot tent and forget about doing it in deep winter
That's a start 😊
Tori and Jim show what it takes to communicate and actually LISTEN with each other.
Thanks
You two are amazing! Love the videos that include the entire family! Keep up the great work!
My husband and I watched all your adventures especially with the kids. Actually, not enough clips on the kids 🙁. Love the kids, waiting till Thursday to watch you guys is a long wait. We are excited when we see it's a family adventure 😂❤❤❤. Tori I always cheer you on on how to take care of everything, and Jim of course it all began from winning the ALONE, with your brother.
Thanks a lot for that. I actually did film some large scale outdoor adventures for Field & Stream and Canoe & Kayak magazines before going on Alone and was working at creating video content full time for a couple years before going on Alone. It was tough to make ends meet though. I didn’t start doing RUclips until a couple years after winning Alone.
What an incredible insight to the Baird family.
Torie, your awesome !!
In all honesty.... I've followed RUclips for quite a while.
This was my first ever FULLY listened to podcast.... ever.
You guys had my total attention.
Thanks for your content !!
Amazing man, thanks for tuning in and I’m glad it held your attention!
I am very glad that you two did this podcast. Very insightful and inspiring. I’m another woman “born strong” and I also sometimes think twice about jumping in to help my husband for fear of appearing too masculine. I am subtly competitive and (usually) unconsciously lifting, carrying, digging, EXERTING as much or more… masking pain or injury..
I absolutely loved this interview. Tori had better be a recurring guest. Amazing perspective, incredibly articulate, and all types of intelligence.
I understand Tori’s anxiety on this last trip, I was rather nervous watching that trip myself! I think maybe two canoes would have been a safer idea? But I love you guys, you are awesome! And I’m happy for you!
Jim’s beaming with so much love towards Tori. He’s so proud and happy to be with her. 😊 I appreciate Tori‘s honesty. I always wondered how she remained so calm. She just hides it well. lol
I ❤️ Tori !!!
Tori you are an amazing Mamna, wife and role model for your two little boys!
We never miss an episode on your you tube channel and now we are thrilled to be able to watch the new podcast channel…
My husband and I live in the area where Wesley goes to school. And GUESS WHAT?
We met Wesley today!!!
We were at a school event.
What a great honour to meet your son. He has SO much to teach us all. He’s such a bright light of happiness …. Bravo to you both for taking your sons on so many incredible adventures!
Your family is blessed beyond 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Yall are incredible!! When Tori was talking about the comparison between your faces in the canoe, her being stressed and Jim being absolutely happy sounds a lot like our dynamic on our heli trips 😂😂 Chris is having the time of his life and I’m just stressed the entire time. Type 2 fun for sure!
Yey How Happy am I Right Know ❤❤❤
I just love you guys! wonderful family!
I really enjoyed this conversation between Tori & you. It was so interesting to hear her take on the adventures you go on with the kids. Just loved it ❤
Grat Interview guys, love you Tori ❤
Your such a great mom, and take great care of our Jim The Adventurer!
I completely appreciate Tori’s precautionary mindset and her positive outlook. She is a very strong woman in mind and body. I see her competitiveness as an awesome motivation to do more and be more. What a fantastic role model for other women she comes in contact with and especially for your two boys.
Jim is so lucky to have found you, Tori!
I’m truly amazed that you would even consider the monumental task of canoeing with a dog and two small wonderful children!! Absolutely amazing!!!!!
Haha, thanks very much. It is a lot at times for sure. We plan for it to take forever to break camp in the morning and not travel very far each day but even in this trip I think we could have gone slower
You both are the perfect team. As strong as Tori is, no other person compliments her better than Jim and visa versa! Together your a force to be reckoned with!
Awesome podcast the best one I’ve listened to ..Tori you are amazing not only are you beautiful but such a talent and a super mother. I am sure most men are hugely envious of Jim . Love your Instagram featuring the boys .. was adorable to see Westley high five his dad.❤
That was the most epic podcast intro I think I've ever heard
Haha, thanks a lot
What a riviting, entertaining, fun, and informative podcast. I could watch the 2 of you all day every day lol. Its so obvious not only how well suited you are as a team, but how much work you put into deepening your relationship as a couple and a family. The mutual respect and admiration you have for one another is aparent and inspirational.
Tori, thank you for talking about the hard stuff so openly, the more conversations we have like these, the more open minded and informed people become.
Thanks a lot for listen this db for the great comment too. Have a good one.
Tori You Rock!❤️
You two are amazing to listen to, love all of your adventure and awesome family too. Sat through the whole interview with your wife .yah🎉
I love ya Jim, but as a mom, I watch for Tori's reactions to things. So glad to hear her backstory. Love that you are doing a podcast!!!
That was a great interview ! .. she has Shawn James beat … when it comes to the real self reliance of what the outdoor community really deserves ..
What an outstanding partner you have. We love Tori. Everything about her is special. Everything.
What an eye-opening podcast! Loved learning more about Tori and her journey! Thanks for sharing!
You’re welcome, glad you liked it.
What a great interview. Have been following you both for some time and am amazed at the great adventures you are providing for your children. Love the beautiful wild places of Canada that you share with us.
I started to watch this out of loyalty. I was quickly immersed in this wonderful conversation both elucidating and entertaining. Who knew?
Love the stuff. Keep it up you 2. You're an inspiration
Tori is incredible. Such an inspiration for women & especially mamas in the outdoor community! Highly recommend paddle like a girl. Was such a great course. -Tyler and Kassy
I need someone like her good job both
I'm so impressed with Wesley's developmental improvement with the great trips and stimulation that you have provided! Kudos to both of you for being such great parents!!!
Thanks so much to both Tori and Jim for creating this episode! I relate SO much to what Tori was saying about society as a whole thinking women can’t or shouldn’t be able to canoe trip without a man. I often go back country canoe tripping in all woman groups and we have also been asked multiple times if we need help carrying the canoe by men. I know they are likely just trying to be nice but I can almost guarantee they wouldn’t have asked a group that included men and that’s frustrating! I would also like to echo some of what Tori said and recognize all the men who don’t assume we are weak and incapable. I appreciate being given the space to learn new skills and be strong and empowered women in a male dominated activity. Jim and my own husband are both great examples of men who support and empower women in the outdoors.
Thank you Tori for being a voice for strong women who love to do hard things and also for empowering women who don’t think they can do it! The more we can normalize this, the better we will be as a society. You are amazing!
Merci Beaucoup pour ce partage🤗🤗
Really enjoying this "Couples Therapy" 😉😅🤗 I wish you tons of Type 1 Fun with a bit of Type 2 Fun...and Type 3 on Friday nights😊✌️
Can I be honest right quick?!
I’m obsessed with you Tori!!! I very much live vicariously thru you. I’m from Duluth, MN (please come visit!!) and I’m no stranger to the outdoors and all of the fun that comes with the seasons and the wild and all the gifts that the creator has to offer us.
Our sons are the same age (Hudson & my Quartz) and what I love the most is watching you tackle the outdoors with your boys. My son is non-verbal, has level 3 ASD yet he absolutely positively LOVES all things outdoors. Watching you & Jim go on these adventures with Wesley has truly truly inspired me and has shown me that it’s safe outside and that Mother Nature is sooo healing and educational even for our children.
Don’t ever give up Tori! You’re an inspiration to more mothers, woman, BIPOC persons than you can ever imagine 🫶🏽
Sending soooo much love to your home from mine 🤎
PS we put a cow bell on Quartz when we’re outside so we always know where he’s at. (He’s non verbal and will not respond to his name) just a tip for you if/when Wesley star’s walking and even put on Huddy prior to his solo adventures 😉🙃
Your such a role model. You took that first step and med a business. Well done
I love hearing Tori’s perspective and I love listening to you both together. Thank you for being good role models as parents and wilderness guides
I just love the positivity and the love for those beautiful kids. Tori you’re awesome! 👏👏👏🤩🤩🤩💯💯💯
Thanks :)
This is the cutest video! Really enjoyed seeing the two of you have so much fun talking and interacting with each other.
Tori, you ROCK! All the things you do and stand for are so impressive!! Not to mention your motherhood and just how great you represent! Hoping to attend a or some of your workshops in the future!
I’m an avid viewer of Jim’s (crazy) adventures and the family trips. I’ve learned so much about the wilderness y’all visit (Texan here 😉), survival, canoeing, etc. I’m now 62 with a 42 yo mindset learning, living through, and delighting in your adventures. Keep ‘em coming. ❤️
Loved this so much! Tori you truly inspire me! So thankful we found your channel. My family loves watching!
So far enthralled with the two podcasts Jim; great idea. I was so pleased you mentioned Tori's beautiful paddle strokes. I have run RUclips segments just to show friends how smooth she is. Loved seeing you together like this. Nothing beats a strong woman. Pete from Australia.
I hope your kids remember these golden times with their Dad and Mom. I would. I have my own. It's cool.
Tori and Jim, Wesley and Huddy..of course North too..what a great inspiring family..really enjoyed hearing your perspective on things Tori.
Absolutely wonderful interview. What a wonderful life you both have. What I learned is stay true to your dreams, and never give up.
Torri, I am with you! I was worried watching you and the children in the canoe, afraid what could happen if you dumped, a lot of anxiety. I am grateful that the worst you experienced was being wet and cold.😚
Thanks for doing this podcast. I love the honesty between the two of you and your subscribers. Thank you for that🛶💜
This is a great interview. I really enjoyed Tori’s perspective and you two are awesome together.
Much appreciated
Love, love, love this channel.
The best interview ever. You guys are great together. Tori is so transparent and appreciated for that. God bless you and the children.❤️🙏🏼
Tori, you are absolute legend. I understand you as a mother worrying about your kids on the trips, us guys don’t really have those instincts are times. Jim seems like a great guy and is lucky to have you as a partner. Your work ethic while tripping would make you welcome as anyone’s partner. A great team…your or letting life’s challenges hinder your adventures put the rest of us to shame
Good to know she's not just doing this to be a loyal wife.
Good to know she's here because she's into this stuff.
That's way cool and it'll paint that picture that is y'all lol, a little different in my mind.
Really injoy the content.
Keepemcoming
Whoa baby! 20% gradient on the Telegraph Creek Road. I would have been terrified. You guys are brave adventurers. I am thinking sometimes when we are all watching we don't really realize exactly how adventurous that trail or river is in reality. Your kids are very fortunate to have you guys as mom and dad.
Love all your adventures and your family too.
Gotta love people who carry the stro g Victoria name. Great to watch pne of the strongest moms around. Love your adventures. Stay safe.
Awesome podcast guys! And every time I watch one of your adventure, episodes, and see Wesley, I pray that one day he can outgrow his condition. I know he will. I know he will…!
You guys are freaking legendary for the distance you take your kids and the life experience you’ve introduced to them.
Hey Jim, you forgot to ask Tori where she learned to be a better fisher person than you! Great interview. The Baird family has a beautiful thing going on up there in Baird Country!!
Always enjoyed Jim's videos but I absolutely love to see Tori and the boys on the videos. Knowing how hard it is to back country camp/canoe/trek with children and especially kids with disabilities, WOW, you are amazing!! Your kids are very fortunate! You guys show the reality of adventuring and don't sugar coat anything, keep up the great work, you both are AMAZING!!
Tori Baird- The Baddest Mother on the Planet, with such a good voice for a content creator not to mention such healthy looking skin. Natural beauty despite roughing it out there. Great family content, thank you both for putting this content out there and sharing your family with us.
If I ever win the lottery the first thing I'd do is book a weekend with you Tori, love from Scotland UK
Of all the wonderful things I have experienced with Jim Baird, I have to say the very most impressive is the family and what you are willing to do with the kids. Tori, you are a superstar. Seriously.
I loved this entire conversation between the two of you. So insightful, so down to earth and very indepth. Thank you so much for sharing your adventures with us and allowing us to experience some of the highs and lows!
You’re very welcome
Great interview and video Jim and Tori. Both of you are surely rugged and capable but YES when you intoduce your children it is definitely a challenge to be calm and moreso comfortable with what you might do without them in a similar setting. If it helps, I think any mother feels overly concerned even if it weren't in a wild setting but simply leaving the children with a new babysitter for the evening. I get it Tori and talking with each other is so very important, even just to help support each other AS YOU DO HERE!
I loved this interview and the chance to get to know more about Tori! I have 5 children, two who are special needs (one has Williams’s Syndrome) and have recently been taking them out camping by myself. I also recently purchased a boat for us to paddle up and down rivers to camping spots (I live in Australia). Thank you for your words of wisdom and sharing your experiences! And I identify with wanting to go on adventures with the kids, but also feeling the responsibility to make sure the kids are safe and having fun!! :-)
I work for a Canadian Bank headquartered in Toronto. If I am ever out that way I will have to look into taking some extra time to attend one of your classes. :-)
Your a mom Tori It is natural to worry about the kiddies. The cliffs for sure would freak me out and some areas of that river you two were canoeing. Little Huddy is one busy boy who loves to explore , Then you have the care for Wes and his well being understandable. ( Both Kids were enjoying the adventure), You did have both boys dressed appropriately and everyone was fed. Paddle Like a girl is a great program you have going on Tori. What an excellent interview with Tori, she is truly amazing
Fabulous discussion! Well done! I've said it before: I so love how real you are.
Great podcast. First, Congratulations on Paddle Like A Girl. You have grown so much and seems like you keep expanding. My husband and I and friends do canoe trips but there is always so much more to learn all the time. It sounds like this would be for a beginner or intermediate canoeist. The camping part is bonus if you already do that stuff but if you don't, well there's a lot to learn. Oh both amaze me on your trips with the boys and North. But, as a mom myself, Tori you rock it. I can't tell you how many times I've said to my husband, "Tori is so calm in those rapids with those kids, or how does still have energy at the end of the day to set up a tent and cook dinner (I know Jim helps too). You said that you were full of anxiety but you sure didn't show it. I think all moms would have some anxiety with a child as young as Hudson and with Wesley's disability (which btw, makes my heart smile to see how far he's come). We didn't get into canoe trios until after our kids had grown. I'm a worry wart, so I probably would've been a basket case. Something that made me sad is that you feel because of your skin color that people look at you differently or may not take your abilities in the outdoors seriously. Oh my gosh, first, you are so naturally pretty and second, you are so good at what you do....THAT is what people notice. You should be so proud of all you've accomplished and how you make other women feel strong and able. You mentioned that Jim is so passionate about his career.....listening to you.... So are you. I hope some day Paddle Like A Girl will hit the USA so we can better afford to experience it. Thanks for all the honesty in this interview. Wishing you and your family all the best!
Great interview and conversation by a team that loves LIFE!
Again well done Baird's.
Looking forward to more great pods. 👍⛩️
Hi Tori.. I watch your husband's adventures alone and also the family adventures with the children.. and I am always worried about what might happen if the weather changes really bad when you are on the river... and the canoe overturn.. I stop worrying when you get to camp. Then I worry about the bears.. Glad I just watch the video😂😂😂
As the boys get older it will get easier during these trips 😊😊😊😊
Really enjoyed this! Been falling your families trip now for awhile. So cool to here about Torys back story.
You 2 seem like an incredible team!
Our family does alot of camping and tenting and I find so many things relatable.
Also, hearing Torys' side of things really helps with seeing it from my wife's side as well.
Great interview, it shows you are very proud of her. Thanks for all that you guys do. 🛶
Momma Baird's instincts are strong.
Indeed 💕 🐻
I wish I could sit around this table with you guys. There are things I can relate with Tori about, such as envying my friends who had cottages. As a teenager, I would look at the Canadian Tire magazine (rather then the Sears catalogue) to drool over tents and gear. But now, I get to enjoy the nature in all its splendour, with you and the family canoeing the Skitine. It makes me happy to see Wesley thrive as he has, and is visibly a happy little boy. You two make a great team.
When Huddy is older and going to school, please pull him out on the odd Friday to go fishing. My father would do that for me a few times a year. It's my fondest memory!
This was just amazing. I am watching so intently and just love the bond/connection between you two throughout the podcast. I will be subscribing via podcast now as well. Related to RUclips series, I am even getting non outdoorsy people into your series.
Amazing, glad you enjoy it and thanks a lot for spreading the good word. Have a good one.
Another great episode. Love these very relaxing way to end the day.
Listened to the podcast of this episode it was great 👍🏻. I especially liked the both of you revisiting a past trip that emphasized the challenges of bringing your children with you and how that changes how you approach a trip but even challenges you take for granted if it was just the two of you trekking.
You are amazing. All five of you. Thanks for all you share with us. Very much appreciated. 🙂
You two are amazing. I enjoy watching!
You 2 are doing an amazing job! Nice interview. Great content! You 2 Crack me up :)😊
Thanks a lot
I am watching again! 🙂❤️
Awesome, thanks a lot for both times!