I am writing this here because there is not a single person in my life with whom I can be this transparent and share whatever I feel. Probably I will again fail this time because I again made the same mistakes and I thought I have resolved those problems. But from last 1 week I realised actually I was just running and running without even realising I am not in the going in right direction. This will be my 4th attempt and 3rd serious attempt. I have no friends in my circle with whom I can ask for help. And now my family is asking me to look for a job and they are right time is running. My friends even tell me to keep preparing in a very sarcastic way and says mujhse nhi hoga chahe jo ho jaaye. I am diagnosed with OCD and depression and took help from psychiatrist at AIIMS patna for more than a year. But I don't know there is something inside me which always ask me to believe in myself again and again. I will start from begining from the very basics again with more n more simple way to tackle out my problems one by one and to learn from my mistakes. I don't know what future will bring all I can do is put more n more effort and stay honest with me. I will take every step carefully this time. I will rise again. Channel like insightias please stay with us people like me need people like you. Peace.
I request you to practice meditation and please read Aditya Hriday Strota during sunrise...pray daily... Have Brahmi tablets twice a day for mental health...May Krishna bless you and may you achieve your goal🙏
Same phase goes in everyone's life, feeling alone and depressive. I have stopped it after 4yrs because it doesn't solve our problems. So going on my passion towards goal.
I have been through depression too. Clinical depression. The best way to deal with it to think positively. Exercising has helped me immensely. Shield yourself from people who bring negativity in your life. Cut them . especially friends who put you down. And build some skill side by side for other exams. Nabard grade A aaega abhi. Dede na. You will feel confident.
There are so many people's like you including me...So don't take it personally...Don't feel bad by failing in this exams...Some goals are so worthy it's glorious even to fail...
Preparing for UPSC requires no less motivation than climbing Mount Everest. The responsibility as an Indian to be the best is also no less. Kudos to all those Indians who are redefining boundaries. Jai Hind!
Friends left when they got jobs. Gfriend left when she got proposals. Parents also look in pity at my situation. Seemed like left out, till i watched this. Hope we all clear through...
Going through, even more harsh. They left me, thinking what if he ask for help(money) and can't return it back. Now, he is not at our level. And Parents think they(my friends) know more ethics than me and have valuable life as compared to me. Some got marriage praposals also. All it hearts but, i just pass a mild smile.
Connected with the girl's part... felt like someone just read my life's book and portrayed it to the point! UPSC is one of a journey of life... everything (youth, career, family, financial stability) is at stake until one succeeds. Nobody counts the efforts, pain, hardwork.
I am preparing after marriage... The saddest part is that once a girl is married no one wants to know what her dreams are, the first thing I got to hear is 'jaldi baccha kar lena' on the next day of my marriage I was told this..i was very adamant I won't fall for this...It's going to be four years of marriage this year, I am preparing, I will keep preparing and I ll clear it soon... I wont let the society bog me down... All the best to everyone....#ShutTheNoise
Who else cried while watching this? It wasn't tears of sorrow, nor of Joy, just extreme emotions and a sense of camaraderie with other aspirants who r dealing with their own struggles in their own way. Respect and Love to all.
Exactly this is the situation most of the girls face during preparation, including me. Have visualised very emotionally. Thank you for this, Extremely needed during this phase🙏
Married to partner who is preparing for same exams.. And crack together.. Enjoy the nights and days together Other profession ke partner se fir samjhota jyda life kam hogi
Left me teary eyed! When I decided to go for upsc no one in my family believed in me then they saw me trying hard to achieve it and today they are the ones who are my support pillars especially my parents. No matter a girl or boy if one crosses 25 journey becomes more tough
This is the perfect representation of how a real UPSC aspirant who belongs to lower middle class goes through. Not less than being in a real war, because this journey can take everything from you-time, family, friends,life partner and perhaps your life in rare case. Nonetheless, this is what makes this journey fascinating. A true aspirant will chose to collapse but not to give up on UPSC. Love for LBSNAA is eternal.
This video brought tears into my eyes.We all love to watch success stories bt never try to know the struggle behind it. All the best to all the aspirants for this yr attempt.Give yr 💯%.
while watching this video, i couldn't stop my tears. We all face these situations daily. Hear so many taunts.. Still a hope in our heart keeps us going. "Jo lga sabko pagalpan vo sapna tumhe sach krna hai."
I am failed in three IAS MAINS , but still I hope that I can do. The most challenging things are to get : robust financial support , better coaching, study materials supportive parents !
I think the most difficult thing is to fight with yourself. Because 'log kahenge' everytime, you win or lose. The noise will never stop. But we must shut the door to enter them. Thats it.
4th attempt, not cleared prelims even once. failed by a huge margin of 28 marks in 2021 prelims. Bring it on, let's see what this prelims holds for me! Sending you all hope, wisdom, and love.
I just had tears. All of us deal with some problem, we fight it out each day. All matters is we keep moving ahead. I really am so proud to be part of this association. Vinay sir has always helped. I wish all the best and lot of success to all aspirants. Thank you InsightsIAS and Vinay sir, to keep us so motivated and inspired. Thank you for all support. 🙏❤
baat upsc ki nahi hai.. ye har us person ko face karna padhta h . jo bhi apne comfort zone se hatkar kuchh different , kuchh bada karne ki sochta h.. koi bhi aspirant ho ko bhi entrepreneur ho . kyuki society or relatives ko ye baat hazam hi nahi hoti ..kher society se koi farq nahi padhta ..jab tak aapke parents aapko support karte rahe. sab jhelne ki himmat aa jaati h. but jab parents bhi taane sunane lag jaaye....
Tooto toot toot kar mar jao lekin sapme ko mat choro or tab to or mat choro jub apko apni family ki situation sudharni ho .laro larne me ya to jeet milegi ya kuch nya tajurba milega to laro khd se khud ke situation se daily pareshan rho taki tumhra ane wala generation pareshan na ho.
This is a common story not only for UPSC aspirant but also for any other job GOVT job aspirant. From outside the aspirant look nothing different than a living human being but from inside or in his/her personal life they faces many things which is never said, never told, never understood, never visible moulding the aspirant as an irreversible process...only compensation is SUCCESS-nothing more nothing less - I BELIEVE
I literally cried watching this video.. This is my 1st attempt and I know that my preparation is not good so I won't be able to crack it this year but still I can relate to this video.. Specially if you belong to a background where people have very little knowledge about this exam or do not have similar surroundings then it's very difficult to carry on.. Most of the people you find around yourself tend to demotivate you rather than assuring you.. But, in this crisis youtube has been a great help to me and specially this kind of channels who are providing you guidance free of cost.. I'm really really grateful for your efforts, sirs and ma'ams 🌼🌼
After this, I can proudly say , I got the best mom ever... As a single parent she supports me , wants me to crack this exam and she really trusts me . She has faith and patience 🥺♥️
every single time i hear this masterpiece with eyes closed, my eyes gets filled with tears of fire, forcing me to push through all the pains, thanks insightias team
The thing is it's the hardest for the students who have no extraordinary stories like these to push them. We the ordinary students who have to push ourselves everyday for the dreams we saw once, have mountains of self doubts to conquer.
Wow from the education to film industry. Every single shot was with full of emotions, a true aspirant can only co-relate each & every shot and dialogues. Thanks InsightsIAS, Insight is Brand with lots of emotions & success path of many aspirants. Thankyou.
Learning after marg without planning for kids is one hell of a time which no one understands...everybody just insults you even ur frnds for not having children after marg nd pursuing UPSC...can't take money needed for any xerox, feeling guilty that u r just a burden, doing household works and not taking care of the health, stress and the fear of exam all combined ,and the question mark in thier faces always questioning us whether u ll clear??orelse wat would you do??? never shuts this noise....much needed thank you...
UPSC me itna Dum nahi hona chahiye ki humare Chehre se humaari muskurahat Cheen le, INSIGHT IAS ne Dhaaga Khol diya Guru ek dum Dhaaga khol diya, Thank u so much from the core of my ❤️👍🙏
Those first line from a mother to her daughter. I felt that......😢😢 When you achieve success everyone is going to praise you. Everyone will there with you. But when you fail na you are the only one who is going to bear that. Nobody will be there nobody.😢
"Jo laga Sabko Pagalpan, vo Sapna tume sach karna he...Manzil tumko tayi karni he..Kyunki abhi to ek aur Jang ladni he" Good luck to all my fellow aspirants, we will Rock. 🇮🇳🇮🇳
Tears rolled up when I watched my own life..3 failed prelims..3 gone years..lost support from all sides..no satisfaction..feeling like stuck in life.still trying to move on.
@aadya Yeah 🙂 we all have only hope 🤞but you have to work consistently and if your plan is not working make changes and watch toppers talk wherever you are lacking in.
Same like you. Please don't quit. There is a path waiting for you. But one thing remeber to find it out. Nurture it with your ambitions. Ypou will reach the destination
Conclusion: we are just feared by society, by people living around us, by our relatives and there are so many....we think that if I won't be able to qualify then how I face them, what they think of us... lots of questions comes in our mind... exactly around three years back I was also in this phase when I failed in IIT JEE ADVANCE exam....I was also in same situation ...but with time I learn that this society, people and relatives have nothing to do with us....now I proudly say I have failed in IIT JEE ADVANCE.... Dear aspirants what I learnt is just believe in yourself....SHUT THE NOISES OFF give the exam without paying attention on anything else✊✊🔥
Very realistically portrayed the emotions one faces during this journey. The noises of all kinds, insecurities and pain of failures may break the spirit of a lot of people.
Speechless.... Someone said...the journey will decide the destination... All the best to all who are going through this phase and be strong. You can and you will.🧡
Isse pta chlta h... Hamare phle dushman bi ghr wale hote h.. Or akhri tak hath thamne wale bi ghr wale he hote h... Bs kismat ki baat h kisko kaise milte h... Support krne wale ya hume duniya k hisaab se chalne wale
Its really easy when people criticize someone,but they dont feel the pain. I have seen my story also in this 4.44 minutes of video. I am a mother of three year kid managing my family, left my well established job to pursue my dream... It was my first attempt, i have given my best but after prelims i cried line anything because there i am missing it by some marks. I recollected myself and then i realised that its a long battle ground and you have to have patience. Manzil zarur milegi par thoda waqt lagega. House responsibilty ke sath study manage kar pana bahut mushkil hota hai but i am trying hard to manage both. Slowly gradually achieving my dream. Hoping for the best.
I can relate myself with the jewellery scene. After seeing that portion I just cried for few seconds and stabilized my mind. "To strive, to seek, to find and not to yield."
I heard the "maa baap pr bojh" today for the first time from a relative I am closest to. dinn bhar tuta sa laga, roya. I collected myself, still tried to study, and came here again. The time is to be tough and shut the noise.
here again on 31st may, 2024, watching with my sister. my pictures sent to a family for "acceptance or rejection" without my consent. I felt pressurised and broken. I love my mother for always supporting me.
How relatable! We all know the success stories of toppers but I think every aspirant is a fighter...fighting both internal doubts and external taunts! #Shutthenoise
Being a psychologist i must say Please make students accept failure too since not all can clear the exam that has just seats in the ratio of 1000/1000000. This motivation with time burden them more.
3 different situations, 3 different characters.. but one thing that matched " THE REALITY"... in these 4.44 minutes ur series caught me with tremendous emotions... These short stories matched not only with me but also many of the aspirants... Really hats off Insight IAS for presenting these beautiful story.. Waiting for more... Thank you 😊
Other side of the coin ... Plz share this with Indian society as much as possible. So that. They can feel the emotions dedication commitment of an UPSC aspirant. Salute to all Who dare to dream.
Last night I was like situation would be different if I went for a private job after 3 failed attempts... But this morning after listening to this, I buckle up myself to grind even harder.. aur ab tode bina nhi chhodunga...
it's motivate me a lot nd specially after reading comments I realized that my problem is not only mine there r so many aspirant suffering from that type of voice..
It's not about ‘who’ it's about ‘why’ you want to become a civil servant, which drives you throughout this journey... If your hardwork is legit, success is on the way, stop not! #jaihind 🔥
Wakai me ye ek exam hi toh hai...magar bura toh tab lagta h jb koi aake apko ye ahsas dilaye ki apki bas ki nhi. Apne galat decision le liya. I cried every day in this preparation. Log to ab bechari ki najar se dekhte h. Akelepan se bhara hua journey. Family support toh hai but family se koi khulke baat nhi krta. Bahut se aspirants h meri tarah jo ish video se relate krte honge. Kya pata aaj ka akelapan kal ka uphaar ban jaye.
This situation is faced by every girl who has some aspirations n moreover if she is preparing for civil services.... Even I'm going to fall in this category soon... Wanna say to every women out there following their dreams that don't stop ladies.. it's ur lyf.. make ur dreams reality
Before preparing examination you can take 1 month to understanding upsc syllabus and strategy because it's not only examination it is all about you . Believe in yourself ❤ Hope you'll crack it soon 😘🇮🇳
Really very inspiring...no words at all.. Of course this journey demands perseverance..Being an aspirant these noises are very common to us..even our family starts considering you worthless but the one who comes up above these noises..shot the bulls eye.
Being a CA aspirant I can feel the emotion,the pain of attempts and the pressure of not passing in first attempt.But Im grateful to god for giving me very supportive parents❤❤. I wish I clear this attempt and also wish all the best for those who have their exams👍. May we all succeed in our lifes fulfilling our goals and making our parents and Nation proud❤.
Such a true story it is.. Facing everyday in our life... How to explain anyone about the situation don't know.. But only one thing can stop this mental stress that is our dedication towards the studies nothing else.It'll definetely help to achieve our goals one day
I felt just a little bit pain of them and it makes my eyes wet. UPSC is a emotion which one need to feel for qualifying it and Insights IAS makes it feel. Thank You Insights IAS ❤️
Beautifully captured the stages of preparation, the respective struggles and the kinds of hurdles each one faces. Got me teary eyed and smiling at the same time.
It's not about only Upsc exams,, all the aspirants who are preparing for government exams face this issues although it's very obvious that upsc is the toughest exam...
every line in this video is relatable we hear many voices not only from society but also from our family, friends, classmates duniya ki voice ko to kese bhi kar ke ignore kar bhi de par jab rat ko sab ke taane dimag me aate hai fir khud par hi self doubt aajata hai kya hoga agar itni mehnat ke bhad bhi result nahi aaya
Everything is So relatable with the interview going guy... Brought tears in my eyes... Nothing to say but we people need some empathy from our near and dear ones.... All strength to all of us.
Even my parents lost hopes this is my 3rd attempt preparing form 4 years even i didnt qualify prelims parents are pressuring to do post graduation .. there is no financial problem for me but everyone is asking whats ur bigger son doing these days no job tell ur son to do something but i will never give up my heart says u can clear my mind says don't listen to anything if u handle this u can easily handle problems faced during ur job
i feel society can be served from other platforms..Be kind on urself..explore other platforms to serve also..dnt b harsh and unhappy..life is short to serve after delaying so much
Thankyou insights for giving us right sight for free so that we can prepare while busy lifestyle. The true number one coaching institute of India with rich content. Love from this UPSC aspirant ❤️
Gave two prelims failed by 8 marks In last prelims 2021 .. But tomorrow is pre but not going to sit for due to some persenol problems.. Am still 24 and people objecting about... Kab tak pdhoge.do attempts me kya krliya...our situation very well expressed by this video... We lost, love, freinds and the exam itself ..fir log bolte hai krte hi kya ho bs kmre me pde rho... But as 'the dangal song ' mentioned ' bhed ki hahakar k badle sher ki ek dahad hai kafi ' we will give them the final blow.. And serve our nation in a ethical way and fulfil our duty as prescribed by our Constitution.. Best of luck to all for your journey ahead.. Jai Hind.
Till evening I was scared of results this time if I didn't get through prelims then how will I face it but After this video roller coaster my complete journey of 2 years in 4 mins now I believe in myself that I can do it for myself thanks for the video 🙏
I am suffering from this situation. I didn't involve any job due to this love. But now I have to a job to reduce my father's economic pressure. Because we don't have money to get admission in any coaching institute to study for becoming IAS. Now I still unable to pay the fees of such institute. Along with the work pressure, I am trying to do self study.
Every second is relatable, amazing efforts. ❤️ It is this process how you face everyone, tackle every situation and still keep going.More importantly,it is the life that is a biggest exam itself.The show must go on. MORE POWER TO ALL !
I have done huge mistakes in my 5 years journey. To be honest, I got so stressed that I Used to waste time like so much of my time thinking that I will become an ias but the ground reality is that you have to work hard and that where uncertainty is sky high. I still want to become but I know that I have to start everything afresh because I started studying without understanding the real demand and now I feel like I should go for MBA. I can't resist the pressure anymore. I have more of regrets and that is not helping me to move on in life. I still have two attempts but my studies aren't up to the mark. My optional is still left. I thought to do it in a smart way but trust me guys everyone gives 2 years proper preparation before their ist attempt. I kept on giving attempts without realising that I have so much to cover but hard luck. I was stuck in prelims. But now I am thinking to start from scratch but it is too late and I am scared because of the pressure. Tell me guys what should I do?? MBA where is the package is good or IAS?
Dear listen to what your heart says, if you want to pursue this you have already given 5 yrs to this you don't really need 10-12 hrs for this prep. Even if you want to pursue MBA you can very well manage to study for Upsc by dividing ur time judiciously. Nonetheless if you really want to become an Ias u must understand that ultimately you are going to have authority. Don't sit on the back seat, you are the driver of your life. No opinions no advice is needed, if you want to use your attempt give it all you have.
Great 😅 this is called emotional selling. 1. Someone from an orthodox family, emotionally and economically challenged, from the slum, an orphan etc are shown as aspirants. Basically you cannot be an aspirant or at least don’t belong to the customer group of Insight IAS if you don’t have a struggle in your life. (Indian idol strategy) 2. Thanks for showing the struggle of a normal aspirants, rather than cashing on to it and preaching, why don’t you reduce the course fees ? People spend years and life savings for this competition, stop this emotional blackmail.
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I am writing this here because there is not a single person in my life with whom I can be this transparent and share whatever I feel.
Probably I will again fail this time because I again made the same mistakes and I thought I have resolved those problems. But from last 1 week I realised actually I was just running and running without even realising I am not in the going in right direction. This will be my 4th attempt and 3rd serious attempt. I have no friends in my circle with whom I can ask for help. And now my family is asking me to look for a job and they are right time is running. My friends even tell me to keep preparing in a very sarcastic way and says mujhse nhi hoga chahe jo ho jaaye. I am diagnosed with OCD and depression and took help from psychiatrist at AIIMS patna for more than a year. But I don't know there is something inside me which always ask me to believe in myself again and again. I will start from begining from the very basics again with more n more simple way to tackle out my problems one by one and to learn from my mistakes. I don't know what future will bring all I can do is put more n more effort and stay honest with me. I will take every step carefully this time. I will rise again. Channel like insightias please stay with us people like me need people like you.
Peace.
I request you to practice meditation and please read Aditya Hriday Strota during sunrise...pray daily...
Have Brahmi tablets twice a day for mental health...May Krishna bless you and may you achieve your goal🙏
Same phase goes in everyone's life, feeling alone and depressive. I have stopped it after 4yrs because it doesn't solve our problems. So going on my passion towards goal.
I request you to take a 10day Vipassana course. This will help you immensely. Peace.
I have been through depression too. Clinical depression. The best way to deal with it to think positively. Exercising has helped me immensely. Shield yourself from people who bring negativity in your life. Cut them . especially friends who put you down. And build some skill side by side for other exams. Nabard grade A aaega abhi. Dede na. You will feel confident.
There are so many people's like you including me...So don't take it personally...Don't feel bad by failing in this exams...Some goals are so worthy it's glorious even to fail...
Preparing for UPSC requires no less motivation than climbing Mount Everest. The responsibility as an Indian to be the best is also no less. Kudos to all those Indians who are redefining boundaries. Jai Hind!
Friends left when they got jobs. Gfriend left when she got proposals. Parents also look in pity at my situation. Seemed like left out, till i watched this. Hope we all clear through...
Don't loose hope...sab acha hi hoga ...Good luck ...
Good luck.. keep working Hard
@@Warrior-ew2nb Thanks man
@@saffronspeaking1018 Thanks. Am trying hard.
Going through, even more harsh. They left me, thinking what if he ask for help(money) and can't return it back. Now, he is not at our level.
And Parents think they(my friends) know more ethics than me and have valuable life as compared to me.
Some got marriage praposals also.
All it hearts but, i just pass a mild smile.
Connected with the girl's part... felt like someone just read my life's book and portrayed it to the point! UPSC is one of a journey of life... everything (youth, career, family, financial stability) is at stake until one succeeds. Nobody counts the efforts, pain, hardwork.
I am preparing after marriage... The saddest part is that once a girl is married no one wants to know what her dreams are, the first thing I got to hear is 'jaldi baccha kar lena' on the next day of my marriage I was told this..i was very adamant I won't fall for this...It's going to be four years of marriage this year, I am preparing, I will keep preparing and I ll clear it soon... I wont let the society bog me down... All the best to everyone....#ShutTheNoise
Same situation
More stength and power to you....Be Strong and keep going...women like you are hope for other women out there
More power to you. Woman like you are needed in the Service. Be ruthless in this pursuit.....best wishes
You gonna make it ❤️
Perseverance+ consistency+self believe, hard work+humbleness=IAS
+right direction
Hello brother 😁
@@Vishwas21_ hello bro
Who else cried while watching this? It wasn't tears of sorrow, nor of Joy, just extreme emotions and a sense of camaraderie with other aspirants who r dealing with their own struggles in their own way. Respect and Love to all.
🥺i cried throughout the video... its just the realisation of struggle everyone is doing and to remember why we started all this?
Yes..👍🏻
Exactly this is the situation most of the girls face during preparation, including me. Have visualised very emotionally. Thank you for this, Extremely needed during this phase🙏
Married to partner who is preparing for same exams..
And crack together..
Enjoy the nights and days together
Other profession ke partner se fir samjhota jyda life kam hogi
Same situation here
Same here 😣
Same here guys... Just believe your dreams and Aage bado issi pagalpanse.
Me also..
Left me teary eyed! When I decided to go for upsc no one in my family believed in me then they saw me trying hard to achieve it and today they are the ones who are my support pillars especially my parents. No matter a girl or boy if one crosses 25 journey becomes more tough
🥺🥺🥺🥺yeah.
Go bless u u
25 journey means????
@@sanchaitabhattacharya5475 age
Tears rolling and goosebumps at the same time❤ only a true aspirant can feel it, that UPSC is not just an "exam" It's an EMOTION...
now join this couching
This is the perfect representation of how a real UPSC aspirant who belongs to lower middle class goes through. Not less than being in a real war, because this journey can take everything from you-time, family, friends,life partner and perhaps your life in rare case. Nonetheless, this is what makes this journey fascinating. A true aspirant will chose to collapse but not to give up on UPSC. Love for LBSNAA is eternal.
Just felt the whole roller coaster journey of mine in 4.44minutes! Tears are the only emotion I can afford right now, for this particular video.
100% I felt the same
This video brought tears into my eyes.We all love to watch success stories bt never try to know the struggle behind it.
All the best to all the aspirants for this yr attempt.Give yr 💯%.
As a 25yr + old girl and multiple attempts, this is very true. But we shall fight and shut the noise!
while watching this video, i couldn't stop my tears. We all face these situations daily. Hear so many taunts.. Still a hope in our heart keeps us going. "Jo lga sabko pagalpan vo sapna tumhe sach krna hai."
I am failed in three IAS MAINS , but still I hope that I can do. The most challenging things are to get : robust financial support , better coaching, study materials supportive parents !
And you belong to you buddy and no one else, and even if no one supports or believe, you've you. You still choose to rise. Everytime.
Best wishes brother. Just keep going. Identity your weak snd strong points. Focus on both 😊you will definitely make it
All the best bhai g🙏🙏
All the best🌼
All the best.
Kisine bilkul sahi kaha hai
Success has many friends but failure is always lonely
Ekdom thik bolechen
I think the most difficult thing is to fight with yourself. Because 'log kahenge' everytime, you win or lose. The noise will never stop. But we must shut the door to enter them. Thats it.
4th attempt, not cleared prelims even once. failed by a huge margin of 28 marks in 2021 prelims. Bring it on, let's see what this prelims holds for me! Sending you all hope, wisdom, and love.
You will clear.. best wishes...
All the best to u for ur future ✨🧿
Wishing you to the best as well :)
You will clear it man...just be focused while attempting questions
@@sankeerthana3706 thanks wishing you the best
I just had tears. All of us deal with some problem, we fight it out each day. All matters is we keep moving ahead. I really am so proud to be part of this association. Vinay sir has always helped. I wish all the best and lot of success to all aspirants. Thank you InsightsIAS and Vinay sir, to keep us so motivated and inspired. Thank you for all support. 🙏❤
baat upsc ki nahi hai.. ye har us person ko face karna padhta h .
jo bhi apne comfort zone se hatkar kuchh different , kuchh bada karne ki sochta h..
koi bhi aspirant ho ko bhi entrepreneur ho .
kyuki society or relatives ko ye baat hazam hi nahi hoti ..kher society se koi farq nahi padhta ..jab tak aapke parents aapko support karte rahe. sab jhelne ki himmat aa jaati h.
but jab parents bhi taane sunane lag jaaye....
Tooto toot toot kar mar jao lekin sapme ko mat choro or tab to or mat choro jub apko apni family ki situation sudharni ho .laro larne me ya to jeet milegi ya kuch nya tajurba milega to laro khd se khud ke situation se daily pareshan rho taki tumhra ane wala generation pareshan na ho.
This is a common story not only for UPSC aspirant but also for any other job GOVT job aspirant. From outside the aspirant look nothing different than a living human being but from inside or in his/her personal life they faces many things which is never said, never told, never understood, never visible moulding the aspirant as an irreversible process...only compensation is SUCCESS-nothing more nothing less - I BELIEVE
I literally cried watching this video.. This is my 1st attempt and I know that my preparation is not good so I won't be able to crack it this year but still I can relate to this video.. Specially if you belong to a background where people have very little knowledge about this exam or do not have similar surroundings then it's very difficult to carry on.. Most of the people you find around yourself tend to demotivate you rather than assuring you.. But, in this crisis youtube has been a great help to me and specially this kind of channels who are providing you guidance free of cost.. I'm really really grateful for your efforts, sirs and ma'ams 🌼🌼
We can ignore this noise but when family leaves you alone it hurts!! Still we fight,we come back stronger.....we win....we win!
"Par tumhe ladna hai" that's the only thing we can do and will definitely do it.
After this, I can proudly say , I got the best mom ever... As a single parent she supports me , wants me to crack this exam and she really trusts me . She has faith and patience 🥺♥️
Same in my case also
every single time i hear this masterpiece with eyes closed, my eyes gets filled with tears of fire, forcing me to push through all the pains, thanks insightias team
Hi, we’re glad to know that it helps & inspires you to keep going. Team Insights IAS wishes you the best! 😊
Showing the reality beyond UPSC prep. Results matters, struggle no one cares. Great video. Teary one.
Not only for UPSC but also for all competitive exams 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Aspritants life🤧🤧🤧🤧😭😭😭🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
The thing is it's the hardest for the students who have no extraordinary stories like these to push them. We the ordinary students who have to push ourselves everyday for the dreams we saw once, have mountains of self doubts to conquer.
Wow from the education to film industry. Every single shot was with full of emotions, a true aspirant can only co-relate each & every shot and dialogues. Thanks InsightsIAS, Insight is Brand with lots of emotions & success path of many aspirants. Thankyou.
Learning after marg without planning for kids is one hell of a time which no one understands...everybody just insults you even ur frnds for not having children after marg nd pursuing UPSC...can't take money needed for any xerox, feeling guilty that u r just a burden, doing household works and not taking care of the health, stress and the fear of exam all combined ,and the question mark in thier faces always questioning us whether u ll clear??orelse wat would you do??? never shuts this noise....much needed thank you...
same situation here..may you get clear the big hurdle this time
UPSC me itna Dum nahi hona chahiye ki humare Chehre se humaari muskurahat Cheen le, INSIGHT IAS ne Dhaaga Khol diya Guru ek dum Dhaaga khol diya,
Thank u so much from the core of my ❤️👍🙏
Those first line from a mother to her daughter. I felt that......😢😢
When you achieve success everyone is going to praise you. Everyone will there with you. But when you fail na you are the only one who is going to bear that. Nobody will be there nobody.😢
"Jo laga Sabko Pagalpan, vo Sapna tume sach karna he...Manzil tumko tayi karni he..Kyunki abhi to ek aur Jang ladni he"
Good luck to all my fellow aspirants, we will Rock. 🇮🇳🇮🇳
Tears rolled up when I watched my own life..3 failed prelims..3 gone years..lost support from all sides..no satisfaction..feeling like stuck in life.still trying to move on.
Dont worry keep trying
Don't give up.
One day you will definitely make it🤞
@@pragyayadav90the only thing left is hope
@aadya Yeah 🙂 we all have only hope 🤞but you have to work consistently and if your plan is not working make changes and watch toppers talk wherever you are lacking in.
Same like you. Please don't quit. There is a path waiting for you. But one thing remeber to find it out. Nurture it with your ambitions. Ypou will reach the destination
Conclusion: we are just feared by society, by people living around us, by our relatives and there are so many....we think that if I won't be able to qualify then how I face them, what they think of us... lots of questions comes in our mind... exactly around three years back I was also in this phase when I failed in IIT JEE ADVANCE exam....I was also in same situation ...but with time I learn that this society, people and relatives have nothing to do with us....now I proudly say I have failed in IIT JEE ADVANCE....
Dear aspirants what I learnt is just believe in yourself....SHUT THE NOISES OFF give the exam without paying attention on anything else✊✊🔥
Very realistically portrayed the emotions one faces during this journey. The noises of all kinds, insecurities and pain of failures may break the spirit of a lot of people.
Is video me har category ko Rakha gya h High class, middle class and lower class ❤ most heart touching videos 🎉❤
Speechless.... Someone said...the journey will decide the destination... All the best to all who are going through this phase and be strong. You can and you will.🧡
Isse pta chlta h... Hamare phle dushman bi ghr wale hote h.. Or akhri tak hath thamne wale bi ghr wale he hote h... Bs kismat ki baat h kisko kaise milte h... Support krne wale ya hume duniya k hisaab se chalne wale
Its really easy when people criticize someone,but they dont feel the pain. I have seen my story also in this 4.44 minutes of video. I am a mother of three year kid managing my family, left my well established job to pursue my dream... It was my first attempt, i have given my best but after prelims i cried line anything because there i am missing it by some marks. I recollected myself and then i realised that its a long battle ground and you have to have patience. Manzil zarur milegi par thoda waqt lagega. House responsibilty ke sath study manage kar pana bahut mushkil hota hai but i am trying hard to manage both. Slowly gradually achieving my dream. Hoping for the best.
flooded with tears.... heared the same taane from my father, each day is a fight, thanks for burning me back 😶
I can relate myself with the jewellery scene. After seeing that portion I just cried for few seconds and stabilized my mind. "To strive, to seek, to find and not to yield."
This is reality for so many upsc aspirants. Almost cried while watching it. But the fight is still on. All the best to all
Yes.. it's not easy to shut those voices.. but it is also not easy to make us leave our passion.. we will fall but we will rise again.
Ohhh wowwwww......you guys make us cry, work hard, work better. Wish you'll be there with us in our tears of happiness #TeamInsights 💕💕
At such times, everyone pulls back, but there are very few helpers. This is the best thing you have ever done
For the dreams which people assume as madness,you must chase…tears rolled seeing that line…
I'll keep coming here till I achieve, everytime I'm broken, everytime the noise gets loud, I'll survive the noise. The war is on.
I heard the "maa baap pr bojh" today for the first time from a relative I am closest to. dinn bhar tuta sa laga, roya. I collected myself, still tried to study, and came here again. The time is to be tough and shut the noise.
Always
Always
always
here again on 31st may, 2024, watching with my sister. my pictures sent to a family for "acceptance or rejection" without my consent. I felt pressurised and broken. I love my mother for always supporting me.
How relatable!
We all know the success stories of toppers but I think every aspirant is a fighter...fighting both internal doubts and external taunts!
#Shutthenoise
Situations can be even worse aspirants, sometimes determination requires determination itself to realise our way.
Being a psychologist i must say Please make students accept failure too since not all can clear the exam that has just seats in the ratio of 1000/1000000. This motivation with time burden them more.
Thanks for raising this point ❤
It is business
3 different situations, 3 different characters.. but one thing that matched " THE REALITY"... in these 4.44 minutes ur series caught me with tremendous emotions... These short stories matched not only with me but also many of the aspirants... Really hats off Insight IAS for presenting these beautiful story..
Waiting for more... Thank you 😊
Every aspirants tear drop makes an ocean larger than Pacific. This is everyone's story. My story as well😔
I'm Depressed. Couldn't even focus bcz of others
jo har roj in awazo se ladte he bhidte hain wo hi to jeet ki paghdi pehente he! thank you insights😊
I'm not UPSC aspirant but I heard this type of things everyone as a newly advocate I can better understand when u don't earn so much but hear so much.
Every UPSC aspirant deserves supportive family or friends.
Exactly the same situation ...
crying while watching the video ...
much connected to everyone ..
Thanks for such beautiful video
Patience rakhna hi hoga humlog ko nhi toh sab ki baton se apna manzil ke raaste se bhatak jaayenge 🥲😔
Not only UPSC its story of every competative job seeking aspirant
Other side of the coin ...
Plz share this with Indian society as much as possible.
So that. They can feel the emotions dedication commitment of an UPSC aspirant.
Salute to all
Who dare to dream.
Last night I was like situation would be different if I went for a private job after 3 failed attempts... But this morning after listening to this, I buckle up myself to grind even harder.. aur ab tode bina nhi chhodunga...
Stay blessed. Stay focused..❤
it's motivate me a lot nd specially after reading comments I realized that my problem is not only mine there r so many aspirant suffering from that type of voice..
This is not a video it is emotion...
It's not about ‘who’ it's about ‘why’ you want to become a civil servant, which drives you throughout this journey... If your hardwork is legit, success is on the way, stop not! #jaihind 🔥
Wakai me ye ek exam hi toh hai...magar bura toh tab lagta h jb koi aake apko ye ahsas dilaye ki apki bas ki nhi. Apne galat decision le liya.
I cried every day in this preparation. Log to ab bechari ki najar se dekhte h.
Akelepan se bhara hua journey. Family support toh hai but family se koi khulke baat nhi krta.
Bahut se aspirants h meri tarah jo ish video se relate krte honge.
Kya pata aaj ka akelapan kal ka uphaar ban jaye.
Me roj feel karta hoo is situation ko. Soch kar rona aa jata hain. Lekin hum karenge dear.
Kash hum ek dusre ko jante hote.
Dekh kr Aisa laga jaise tute hue dil pr kisi ne haath rkha ho....thnx to understand what we're going through 🙏
This situation is faced by every girl who has some aspirations n moreover if she is preparing for civil services.... Even I'm going to fall in this category soon...
Wanna say to every women out there following their dreams that don't stop ladies.. it's ur lyf.. make ur dreams reality
Before preparing examination you can take 1 month to understanding upsc syllabus and strategy because it's not only examination it is all about you . Believe in yourself ❤
Hope you'll crack it soon 😘🇮🇳
Really very inspiring...no words at all..
Of course this journey demands perseverance..Being an aspirant these noises are very common to us..even our family starts considering you worthless but the one who comes up above these noises..shot the bulls eye.
Literary crying to see this message.
Thanks insights ias. 🙏🏿👍😊
The last minute motivation is the best thrust for every aspirants to make a decision "The sky is our limit".
Being a CA aspirant I can feel the emotion,the pain of attempts and the pressure of not passing in first attempt.But Im grateful to god for giving me very supportive parents❤❤.
I wish I clear this attempt and also wish all the best for those who have their exams👍.
May we all succeed in our lifes fulfilling our goals and making our parents and Nation proud❤.
Such a true story it is.. Facing everyday in our life... How to explain anyone about the situation don't know.. But only one thing can stop this mental stress that is our dedication towards the studies nothing else.It'll definetely help to achieve our goals one day
सच में रोना आ गया यार -सबके हालात एक जैसे नहीं होते॥ 🥺
I felt just a little bit pain of them and it makes my eyes wet. UPSC is a emotion which one need to feel for qualifying it and Insights IAS makes it feel.
Thank You Insights IAS ❤️
मध्यम वर्ग परिवारों का घर ऐसा चीज है जो कभी पूर्ण नहीं होता। हर समय कोई न कोई काम लगा होता है या छूटा रहता है...पैसों के इंतेज़ार मे...!!!
Beautifully captured the stages of preparation, the respective struggles and the kinds of hurdles each one faces. Got me teary eyed and smiling at the same time.
It's not about only Upsc exams,, all the aspirants who are preparing for government exams face this issues although it's very obvious that upsc is the toughest exam...
This video also a day before Prelims. 🙏❤❤Brought tears in my eyes. Thank you so much Sir
every line in this video is relatable we hear many voices not only from society but also from our family, friends, classmates
duniya ki voice ko to kese bhi kar ke ignore kar bhi de par jab rat ko sab ke taane dimag me aate hai fir khud par hi self doubt aajata hai
kya hoga agar itni mehnat ke bhad bhi result nahi aaya
Thank you so much Insights IAS..... For such a reality based video......
Soon....... 😊😊😊✌✌✌
Everything is So relatable with the interview going guy... Brought tears in my eyes... Nothing to say but we people need some empathy from our near and dear ones.... All strength to all of us.
UPSC IS SUCH A FEELINGS OF IAS ASPIRANT ❤️👍🔥🤞 SAB HO JAAYEGA DON'T WORRY ASPIRANTS 🤞👍❤️💯
Jo laga sbko pagalpan hai, wo sapna tumhe sach krna hai!!! Manzil tumko tay krni hai! ✨
Even my parents lost hopes this is my 3rd attempt preparing form 4 years even i didnt qualify prelims parents are pressuring to do post graduation .. there is no financial problem for me but everyone is asking whats ur bigger son doing these days no job tell ur son to do something but i will never give up my heart says u can clear my mind says don't listen to anything if u handle this u can easily handle problems faced during ur job
Great you will succeed one day and clear this exam with flying colours 👍👍👍
i feel society can be served from other platforms..Be kind on urself..explore other platforms to serve also..dnt b harsh and unhappy..life is short to serve after delaying so much
Thankyou insights for giving us right sight for free so that we can prepare while busy lifestyle. The true number one coaching institute of India with rich content. Love from this UPSC aspirant ❤️
This one video literally made me inspired to fight back again! Thank you insights
beautifully sums up the financial, social, mental, physical and academic turmoils of this journey.
Gave two prelims failed by 8 marks In last prelims 2021 .. But tomorrow is pre but not going to sit for due to some persenol problems.. Am still 24 and people objecting about... Kab tak pdhoge.do attempts me kya krliya...our situation very well expressed by this video... We lost, love, freinds and the exam itself ..fir log bolte hai krte hi kya ho bs kmre me pde rho... But as 'the dangal song ' mentioned ' bhed ki hahakar k badle sher ki ek dahad hai kafi ' we will give them the final blow.. And serve our nation in a ethical way and fulfil our duty as prescribed by our Constitution.. Best of luck to all for your journey ahead.. Jai Hind.
Till evening I was scared of results this time if I didn't get through prelims then how will I face it but
After this video roller coaster my complete journey of 2 years in 4 mins now I believe in myself that I can do it for myself thanks for the video 🙏
I am suffering from this situation. I didn't involve any job due to this love. But now I have to a job to reduce my father's economic pressure. Because we don't have money to get admission in any coaching institute to study for becoming IAS. Now I still unable to pay the fees of such institute. Along with the work pressure, I am trying to do self study.
Every second is relatable, amazing efforts. ❤️
It is this process how you face everyone, tackle every situation and still keep going.More importantly,it is the life that is a biggest exam itself.The show must go on.
MORE POWER TO ALL !
I have done huge mistakes in my 5 years journey. To be honest, I got so stressed that I Used to waste time like so much of my time thinking that I will become an ias but the ground reality is that you have to work hard and that where uncertainty is sky high. I still want to become but I know that I have to start everything afresh because I started studying without understanding the real demand and now I feel like I should go for MBA. I can't resist the pressure anymore. I have more of regrets and that is not helping me to move on in life. I still have two attempts but my studies aren't up to the mark. My optional is still left. I thought to do it in a smart way but trust me guys everyone gives 2 years proper preparation before their ist attempt. I kept on giving attempts without realising that I have so much to cover but hard luck. I was stuck in prelims. But now I am thinking to start from scratch but it is too late and I am scared because of the pressure. Tell me guys what should I do?? MBA where is the package is good or IAS?
Dear listen to what your heart says, if you want to pursue this you have already given 5 yrs to this you don't really need 10-12 hrs for this prep. Even if you want to pursue MBA you can very well manage to study for Upsc by dividing ur time judiciously. Nonetheless if you really want to become an Ias u must understand that ultimately you are going to have authority. Don't sit on the back seat, you are the driver of your life. No opinions no advice is needed, if you want to use your attempt give it all you have.
Thank U. It will boost the Mental Strength of every aspirant before Prelims.
More Power to You Guys.. Keep Doing like this.
Your feeling of success must be greater than your fear of failure....
Writing during experiencing the fear still i have to rise........
Just because it is taking tym it doesn't mean it is not happening.
Great 😅 this is called emotional selling.
1. Someone from an orthodox family, emotionally and economically challenged, from the slum, an orphan etc are shown as aspirants. Basically you cannot be an aspirant or at least don’t belong to the customer group of Insight IAS if you don’t have a struggle in your life. (Indian idol strategy)
2. Thanks for showing the struggle of a normal aspirants, rather than cashing on to it and preaching, why don’t you reduce the course fees ?
People spend years and life savings for this competition, stop this emotional blackmail.