that just made me cry. because thats how i acted with my mom as a child, it looked like I was her mother and she was the child, and that completely ruined my childhood, i burned stages quick and now i feel like i grew into a silly child with the body of an adult.
The fact that her daughter said something back to her calmly and mom continued to yell, tells me this happens all the time and her daughter is now used to it. Watch this kid get no money from their full-time childhood job.
You know when I was still using I didn’t care about changing anything ya know. However when my 5 year old son at the time came over to me while I was yelling (at what I don’t even remember tbh) and he said mommy it’s ok let’s play. I snapped at him and the way he just looked so fucking broken, that made me change how I spoke to him 100000%. I work on it every day. When I am mad I will tell him what he tells me- I need a moment thank you. It’s amazing how our relationship has changed since I started fixing my fuck ups. However I would never in a million years exploit my kiddo.
As a single mother I am insulted that she would compare herself with ‘single mothers’ That woman is CRAZY!! Shes insulted?! She should be insulted by her own actions!!! Shes loved and cherished and umm…FAKE CRYING FAKE EMOTIONS!! I hope no one falls for this?!!!!
Omg I never thought about the money aspect as far as Scarlett getting any when she's grown from doing these videos your right shell probably never see a dime
They've started exploiting anyone and everyone, especially since the Citizens United, 14th amendment law was passed. Now that a corporation is legally a 'person,' they are protected in ways they should not be. It's been all downhill since the Supreme Court allowed this ridiculous assertion to become law. And companies have become completely heartless because you don't see the owner face to face ever anymore
It’s because kids are their best customers. My daughter is 4 and she will watch the same video on RUclips Kids 3,000 times over and over again. We’ve banned family vloggers in our house though.
In Chinese tiktok (douyin) kids are not allowed in tiktok live, the live will be cut off once they detect a kid’s face. You can hardsell whatever product you want in the live, but not with the presence of a kid. I think thats a great feature for parents to not exploit their kids.
Right! Makes you wonder why it is on their platform but not on the other one… Just like a lot of other controversial content isn’t being pushed on the Chinese version… They really found a good way to push certain things onto their western audience with the app while also making sure their own version stays government friendly and "clean". The content that is picked up by the algorithm on the app _here_ would never get picked up on douyin. Not saying that there isn’t disturbing and harmful stuff on that too, but when compared it becomes very apparent that those two apps are build very differently and on purpose.
@@justmoon9798 No it isn’t, just prevalent enough now to actually be named, studied, and put forward into the DSM 5 (or 6 depending on the time it takes I suppose)
That wasn’t just raising her voice. That was a frightening tone to take up with a child. I have a feeling that wasn’t the first time she’s treated her kid that way.
She got caught yelling at her for not wanting to film like, six months ago. This isn't the first time she's been caught, so God only knows how often she's yelling at her child. I just hope it's limited to yelling and that she's not hitting her too.
These are the type of parents that get cut off emotionally from their kids once they grow up. The child wants NOTHING to do with them once the smoke clears. Absolutely horrendous!
@@kristaschnarr6979Have you seen a lot of child stars when they grow up? This is essentially the same thing on a smaller scale. Forcing your kids to be entertaining for any sort of content often doesn't go well, to the point where one child star (I can't remember her name off the top of my head, sorry) wrote an entire book called "I'm glad my mom died" talking about what she went through. It's not uncommon for other children pushed into the public eye by their parents to have a horrible relationship with them later on. I know these kids aren't in movies, but judging by what we can see happening behind the scenes I think this will lead to something very similar
@@mmmbepis8643 You can’t judge every ones experience off of the experiences that garner the most attention. Negative experiences get hype, not positive. Life sux for a lot of people in many ways but it doesn’t for others. Live and let live. You don’t know each child or parent. There’s billions of us
@@kristaschnarr6979 Okay, so you say "name some relevant examples" get some relevant examples, and then proceed to essentially say "nuh uh". Yes we can't predict how every single person will turn out, but that's like saying beating your child isn't guaranteed to give them lifelong trauma so it must not be that bad. No, we cannot guarantee what every single one of these kids will experience as an adult, but with existing patterns we can make an educated assumption. Just say you want to be willfully ignorant and move on
yeahhhhh my stomach was already hurting knowing the subject of this video but as soon as i saw that…that poor baby. she deserves a mom who loves her for who she is rather than exploiting her on so many levels.
I can relate with ‘working on your temper’. I grew up in a very aggressive family and I thought the idea of ‘I’m not gonna raise them like I was raised’ was enough to make me a kind and gentle parent, but it’s much deeper than that. I don’t judge partners for yelling or losing their cool, as long as they are actively trying to improve. Breaking generational trauma is hard. ALL that being said, exploiting children for money and views is sick. I’m always looking for ways to help kids preserve their childhoods. Running a business where your child is the center of it, is not fair and I think it should be immediately demonetized.
I completely agree. I catch myself saying the things that my Mum used to say to me, being reactive in the same way, even making the same angry noises or facial expressions. Even if you swore you would be better (and I'm not saying my Mum was a terrible Mum, she had her problems and she did the best with what she had at the time based on her capacity and her childhood experiences) but I still thought my desire to do it differently would be enough. That the research into how to overcome generational trauma, the books and videos, and learning about myself I did prior to having my daughter would make a difference. But your original hardwiring is what you experienced, not what you wish to be like. So it's a constant internal fight trying to overcome what is, unfortunately, your instinctual behaviour at this point. Your factory settings. I can survive to a certain point on my want to be better and employing all the lessons and tactics I've learnt to do it but it can get to a point where all that is left is my personal childhood foundation. This isn't how it is for everyone. Everyone is built differently, I wish my want to be better was enough, but it isn't that simple for me. It's easy to say that by the time you are a parent, you should have learned patience as if it is a simple lesson to learn. As if it's something that every person had modelled to them. And as if a child is not the most trying thing on your patience, as if they don't - on the daily - push you into your most primal brain. I don't think that it's as black and white as she's made it out to be. I think these were unfair comments, as it wasn't just directed at this woman specifically, and she says it from a place of not being a Mum yet. Even with all the empathy in the world, you cannot understand the realities of motherhood until you are in it.
Hearing that poor baby calmly tell her mom she doesn't have to yell broke my heart 😔💔 ...that woman looked like she was about to throw that whole dresser and having a bad day doesn't excuse you treating your child like that...I understand parents get upset and raise their voice ...but she was screaming ...gave me flashbacks of my childhood ..
She wasn't crying because she was sorry to the viewers. She was crying because she was afraid of the spanking she was about to get. My heart is breaking.
When I told my kids to pick up their toys a million times, yes I would get frustrated. I never got frustrated if they wanted to help me build a piece of furniture. No one can get that stuff right the first time 🤦
I’m 24 and can’t for the life of me figure out how to put ikea furniture together, and you’re telling me she’s mad because her SIX YEAR OLD can’t “do her side”. Like most six year olds just learned how to put their shoes on the right feet
When I was growing up, my parents often told me “you are not listening”. Now that I am an adult, I told my dad, I was never “not listening” but processing under pressure. Just because I didn’t react the way (on in the amount of time) they wanted me to, didn’t mean I wasn’t listening. Even now, I have to process what information is coming my way. It’s just how my brain works.
Oof i feel ya! I was nonstop getting the snot beat out of me for not reacting the way my dad wanted me to! Several times i remember I couldn't stop laughing while he was furious, and i was mortified cause i knew i was gonna get beat for it but i seriously couldn't just stop, i was literally using my hands to make my face stop smiling, i know now thats a classic trauma response. He just loved to beat us though so it was gonna happen no matter how i responded so 🤷
Right?? We adults have the responsibility to provide and care for children, not the other way around. We have to do everything we can to ensure they grow up healthy and happy.
As a Mother yes we get frustrated but the first thing they teach you is to put the baby/child in a safe space and walk away and regulate yourself. I've done it multiple times
Absolutely I have six kids one is grown and the other five at home with me, they are all young. Sometimes you have to walk away gather your thoughts and come back when you are more rational and less emotional.
Its not just the yelling its the dissociation. She talks to her daughter like she's not her daughter. The language she uses is something you might use when speaking to a stranger 🤷🏻♀️
I recently knew someone who’s daughter got her drivers license and she (the mom) posted on facebook a picture of her daughter with the paper showing her full name, address, license #, and tons of identifying information on it. She basically doxed her own daughter and made her vulnerable to so many predatory actions. Be better.
Absolutely that is very scary. I could never imagine putting personal information on the Internet of my child let alone any personal personal information at all.
I see so many parents also posting a "first day of school" pictures while tagging their school name and their teacher's names. Like what are you doing? While the child is also holding up a chalkboard with everything that they like. Is that not a common sense not post this stuff online?
Its kinda obvious that thats the case. She said that she would do therapy after watching that video again, but she litterary watched it multiple times while editing it before posting it online. Obviously she didnt just realize she needed therapy after watching the video, she "realized" after the world watched the video.
My dad was a single father of three children. My brother had intense disabilities and medical bills and needed constant and expensive care. He nearly lost everything he owned and did lose his job juggling it all. That being said, He has never yelled at us when we were little like she yelled at her six year old. She is disgusting.
That is fantastic. I commend your father for being a real man they’re not many left anymore. you should give that man a hug next time you see him and tell him thank you for taking such good care of you much❤
Scarlet is such a sweet and smart little girl and seeing her mom talk to her like that honestly broke my heart because I had never heard her talk to her like that.
Ugh it turns my stomach to hear that little baby start crying and apologizing to her mom for not wanting to be on camera.. she should never have been put online this way. This is narcissistic abuse.
Most definitely! The back and fourth of the "kindness" her mother shows her on camera (most of the time) vs God knows what happens when the camera shuts off!!! So horrible poor baby...
I get frustrated when I have to tell my child to put their shoes on because we are running late because they were chilling in their room instead of getting dressed….not because I’m putting them to work to make me money.
thisssss omg. the last time i yelled (not even at my son, but just raising my voice in frustration) was bc i spilled my iced coffee all over the place... not bc he wasn't performing for social media well enough. and i STILL apologized to him for it.
My mom was an alcoholic and was also great at acting like everything was fine. Seeing the daughter having to comfort her mother while she's sad, is showing that the daughter has to be on edge all the time in order to keep herself safe. Being on edge all the time as a kid, can lead to ptss and overall worse mental health as an adult. As someone who ended up with cptsd because of that situation, I feel so sad for that little girl and how her future will look. I hope the mother really gets counselling or the daughter can move out before things really get out of hand.
Yep - the damage done to me by a liar and drunk called my mother made me mask most of my adult life until 1 day I just cracked and it all came out - I'd be about 50 at that time - I wish I could have dealt with it sooner - I felt robbed.
As a single woman with children, I don't even see how they even have the time to record all of the time. I don't really post my babies anymore because ppl are nuts
You are doing such an important job by bringing this child exploitation to light. Filming/photographing children for public content should be forbidden by law.
Coming from a single boomer parent household, my childhood was filled with lots of aggressive eoutbursts that got us smacked a lot of the time. I can’t imagine how hurtful it would be to be used as a cash cow on top of that.
And for it to be shown to everyone! I was also abused and even though it wasn’t my fault I was embarrassed and ashamed to live that way and never had friends over because they’d find out. I couldn’t imagine millions of people including the kids you go to school with finding out!!
There has to be a balance between love and structure. Soft parenting also isn't doing kids any favors. They go out in a harsh World and can't handle it. We see this everywhere now.
@@roxslater1031why is the world so harsh? I guess this depends on your definition of soft, because soft, the way I'm looking at it, you can be soft (or gentle) and still have structure.
I took it as Scarlett appealing to her mom like, “Listen, I’m already embarrassed; do I really have to be on camera again for this take?” Which is also pretty sad. But now that you mention it . . . ughhh, you’re probably right. 🤢
That woman is VILE. Her facial expressions in that video show pure contempt, disgust & despise… & NOT bcuz she was sorry in ANY way whatsoever! She’s seething that she got caught showing her true colors & trying to manipulate the viewers into thinking she’s relatable. Shame on her.
Gosh, her yelling at the kid about the storage unit triggered me so hard. Having a parent who is so emotionally volatile has effects on you that last forever. That reaction all for a storage unit 😥
Scarlett’s mom has always rubbed me wrong. She looks like the kind of mother that yells all the time, and is constantly putting her kids down. And I don’t feel like I’m wrong about that observation.
This is disgusting. She is taking her own childs childhood away. In 10 years time were gonna have people coming out with their childhood traumas of being exploited as a kid. Truly heartbreaking. My heart goes out to all these poor kids that r being used by their own parents for some cash. Some parents dont deserve to be parents.
Omg... threatening to hit her... There is no difference between pop and hit. Teaching her to react with violence when she's frustrated... this is heartbreaking.
The manipulation is scary. This is how she speaks to her daughter. This is how a narcissistic person speaks to their children. As well as adults. She truly thinks that people are going to listen to her. She’s following the text book and throwing it back on her followers. Scarlet was waiting behind the camera. She’s in damage mode trying to save her TikTok not the relationship with her daughter. Also. Note the change of tone in her voice. She’s faking it till she makes it. She doesn’t realise that people are seeming her tri self!! She thinks she’s above and everyone loves her no matter what
The problem is social media and everyone wanting their 15 minutes of fame without any regard to anything else. You saying people are morally bankrupt is spot on.
I see the fawn trauma response in that sweet baby! 😢 She’s already done something on a live where she was screaming at her child to film and her daughter didn’t want to and was crying. I feel so bad for her daughter. I hope people IRL know them and have eyes on them!
Here’s a novel idea, if you’re having a bad day - don’t film that day. If the child is not into building furniture and it’s frustrating you, drop the task until you feel better or do it yourself and allow your child to go play with their toys or have a nap or just do regular kid things.
I think of course money is a big part of this, but I think the attention and fame and constant “you’re such an amazing mom” praise is what REALLY gets these family vloggers addicted to that life. You can just feel the desperation for attention and praise in every word and action these moms post. They totally lose sight of the motherly instinct to protect your child. It’s so sad, it needs to stop.
The scary thing is, people start thinking it's "normal" and "okay" to be frustrated and yell at your kids. You need to stop yourselves before you get to that point, I have been there, it only happened once and then I was like, NO, this is NOT okay, I cannot allow this to happen.
And we're supposed to feel sorry for her? LMAOO She just feels terrible that she accidently posted that moment. When she said "everything happens for a reason" I thought she was gonna say she needed a wake up call or something but no 😭
She was definitely saying that the video not posting should have been a sign not to go ahead and post it. She's not sorry she mistreated her daughter. She's sorry she let other people know.
8:20 I have an abusive mother, That yelling and Scarlet telling her "You don't need to yell" brought me back, The mother doesn't realize those words will hurt her child and mentally mess her up, they did the same with me.
these kids are too young to consent to being video tapped for their parents to make money. I feel there needs to be some kind of protection for these kids with parents with zero boundaries. Thank you for posting these examples and bringing awareness!
Honestly, I fail on the daily trying to not to yell at my kids. Not over something like this… I yell not to drink puddle water, don’t poke the dog in the butt, don’t lick your shoe… I cannot imagine how these parents make these kids preform every single day. My kids won’t even cooperate for me to take a picture, let alone film content like this. Kids need to just be kids.
You aren't alone. Yelling AT them is very different than yelling to do/not do things...like stop licking the fridge!!! BTDT. We do the best we can. No shame in that
i love how kiki touches such touchy subjects and doesn't take advantage of it in someway. if you watch any other video of these topics, which tend to get lots of views, the youtuber will throw a random online therapy, perfume or mattress sponsor 😭 and it honestly takes away all the genuineness out of the video.
I feel you but the creators need to be paid for their work and that’s how they get paid. Some of them put way too many ads but one or two is understandable. I want them to keep making videos so they gotta get paid. I certainly would rather advertisers pay them than me paying them. :)
I got rid of all of my social media years ago (facebook) i never had tic toc or most social medias. RUclips is the only thing i have, but minus my picture, that is the only thing ive posted with my child since getting rid of my stuff. I used to post pics of my kiddos , but had a scary situation that opened my eyes and i no longer do. Parents be mindful when you post your babies, youre opening your family up to anyone with internet .
I have mixed kids. I'm a black mom. My kids ALWAYS talk about the difference in "white mom energy" 😂 It's awkward and uncomfy for some people but ...🤷🏿♀️
Same! I have a white mom like the girl in the video but she never treated me like a trendy accessory. Then again, it was the 90s so it wasn’t trendy to have a lightskinned baby yet
I'm bi racial and I see it too. But I feel it's because Black people are obsessed with Bi Racial half White light skin kids with good hair and smaller noses and possibly light eyes. So bi racial kids are easy to sell to Black community obsessed with us.
@@Pleurigloss From what I see on social media it's Black women too selling and exploiting Bi racial children on social media. Black people women and men are literally obsessed with Bi racial half White light skin kids and especially if we have light eyes. That's just the truth
The is the first comment I’ve ever made on RUclips. And I’ve watched hours and hours and hours of smart people deconstructing things. You have a fantastically unique perspective and have opened my eyes. You are doing amazing work. Keep at it. Please.
I remember finding that account account last year.. its so sad that Scarlett’s mom is still treating her like shit :( Scarlett seems like such a sweetheart.. months ago her mom was trying to justify the mistreatment
Single mum here 🙋♀️ no, I absolutely do not relate. I would never exploited my child and I also would never scream at my kid no matter how frustrated I am. Disgusting excuse for a mum
I've raised my voice maybe 3 or 4 times. Mostly out of fear when my son did something dangerous. It happens. However, I also had strong words with adults for trying to convince me to let him model as an infant and a toddler. If my kid wants to do something he can tell me himself. It's not my place to make him.
At first i was like “oh that yelling isn’t too bad” then i remembered that my parents were way too harsh (borderline verbally abusive) with me as a child LMAO
You make such a valid point on the subject of filters. I'm 39 yrs old and have used filters for the past few yrs. Now, I can't stand pics of myself bc I ruined myself by using them. I am a mom, but I've never used filters on my kids. Other than the silly ones on snapchat for fun.
The fact that she’s TEACHING her daughter to “pop” her dolls for crying.. like that does teach her that crying deserves a physical punishment?? It’s fucked up
I feel like… this has always been a thing with celebrity kids. Because these kids are social media kids, we’re getting a sneak peek on Britney Spears kind of childhoods. 😢
I wanna give a shout out to Kiki; I wasn’t going the influencer route, but her first video convinced me to delete pictures of my daughter that I did have online. Thanks Kiki ❤ before that I don’t think I was educated on WHY people were deleting them.
Obsessed with your channel and your righteous anger and TRUTH You are giving a voice to these children. Keep it up!!! We are all so blinded by this madness, it's not okay at all. It's so sick, and absolutely NOT normal
So glad more RUclipsrs are exposing this trend. It's gone on for over a decade now and I fully believe it's added to the Internet becoming an even bigger cesspool. Making kids the content *and* allowing kids unlimited social media access is a huge reason society is in the shhthole rn. And kids are the only ones paying the price. Could argue some young adults are paying also, at the end of the day.
My heart aches most for the children being mistreated by the single person they should trust the most. Keep up the good work calling these parents out 🙏🏼
This is really disturbing. I’m not really a TikTok user. So I’m glad you’re bringing this to light for people like me. I would put money on the fact that these kids are being even more abused and neglected off camera. We’re only getting a taste of it. 😢😢😢
I agree, Kylie, parents should not put beauty filters on their kids. I have a couple friends who always post pictures of their babies and toddlers with beauty filters. I find it so upsetting because I can't imagine having all of most of your child's pictures with filters. Imagine years from now when they look back at those pictures how they will feel. Great video, this woman is really causing a lot of mental abuse towards that poor little girl, keep calling these monsters out!
Oh man, I just found you and I really need to say, THANK YOU! It is so refreshing to see someone say it like it is. So many people are so concerned about not coming off as mean, I love how you called this pathetic excuse of a mother out. Especially the BS excuse about being a single mother. She is EFFING loving being a single mother at this moment because it gave her a platform for her relentless exploitation of her daughter. When the hell are laws going to catch up with these monsters?
Being a parent is rough single or not. It’s not an excuse. You don’t get a pass for being a “single” parent. She’s sorry we all got to see the real her. I don’t force my child to “work”. I also don’t exploit my child for fake fame and a paycheck tho either. It’s so cliche to say “we aren’t perfect”; “no one is perfect”. Yeah, no shit. We don’t expect perfection. We expect parents to not be major assholes to their children.
Can you do a video on Della vlogs? They were involved in an adoption scam but now have a baby and that baby has been in every video ever since ...carries her around like her own personal mommy accessory 😔
The problem is not just these people, it is the people that follow them and give them a platform. It’s great that you bring these things to light. I don’t post picture of my kids to social media at all, even if my account is private, as I give up ownership of that image as soon as it is posted. I used to post pictures to share with my family and close friends, but not anymore and haven’t for years. As soon as I found out how these images can be used. I also don’t get the need to tell people what you are doing every minute of every day. In the case of this mum, I just don’t think she understands why people might be mad. I don’t follow people like this and refuse to go on tik tok.
Kiki, I am just LIVING for these and other videos since you came back. I enjoy the commentary style, the real and raw topics, the thought put into them, and the actual difference that I really believe your videos will make.
when you said it was tiana and scarlett on the chopping block today i genuinely gasped. i have to admit i had a soft spot for that account when i saw the daily affirmations so i followed them even though i don't follow accounts that exploit children. I had no idea how monetized her platform was and that video made me sick to my stomach. I immediately went and unfollowed as well as reported the account for exploiting minors. shame on me for not holding that woman to the same standard i hold other moms to, clearly i was 100% wrong about her. no amount of positive affirmations can make up for that.
It's so sad because positive affirmations are a super cute idea (even though she's treating her kid terribly behind the scenes) and she could absolutely show that and talk about that WITHOUT PUTTING HER KID ON SCREEN.
I am a single mum and I would never use my child for content to make money. Even when we were struggling, I chose to get a better job and study to improve the situation. If you can't support your child through your own content, you don't have the talent to be a content creator. Selling your child's privacy and exposing them to the dangers of the internet is not a solution. and... "not fair the the people around me" - lady, the "people" is your young child and if you have anger issues you need professional help before you damage your child's psyche further.
These kids end up being the breadwinners and it's absolutely appalling. They're the reason these videos are being watched but nothing protects their welfare or their income, and I cannot stand the "I share them for awareness/education" when it comes to kids with special needs or sharing their parenting style, you clearly can't communicate well enough if you can't explain what you do without showing them!
@@SarahPiperNZ Fathering Autism comes to mind with people monetizing their special needs child. It's astonishing that people would sell out their children over building themself as a breadwinner.
@@dichallis4135 Eeka too, the one with the three adopted kids. I think two have autism and one has something else, one of the kids goes viral for being trans and their whole lives are exploited for the world to see. Just appalling.
"dont gotta yell" Scarlett is more mature than her joke of a mom
exactly
that just made me cry. because thats how i acted with my mom as a child, it looked like I was her mother and she was the child, and that completely ruined my childhood, i burned stages quick and now i feel like i grew into a silly child with the body of an adult.
@@MeowOnTheInternetme too:(
I believe Scarlet just got to walk the in the NY fashion show.
💯🥺
The fact that her daughter said something back to her calmly and mom continued to yell, tells me this happens all the time and her daughter is now used to it. Watch this kid get no money from their full-time childhood job.
You know when I was still using I didn’t care about changing anything ya know. However when my 5 year old son at the time came over to me while I was yelling (at what I don’t even remember tbh) and he said mommy it’s ok let’s play. I snapped at him and the way he just looked so fucking broken, that made me change how I spoke to him 100000%. I work on it every day. When I am mad I will tell him what he tells me- I need a moment thank you. It’s amazing how our relationship has changed since I started fixing my fuck ups. However I would never in a million years exploit my kiddo.
Call cps on her ass
As a single mother I am insulted that she would compare herself with ‘single mothers’ That woman is CRAZY!! Shes insulted?! She should be insulted by her own actions!!! Shes loved and cherished and umm…FAKE CRYING FAKE EMOTIONS!! I hope no one falls for this?!!!!
Exactly what I thought.
Omg I never thought about the money aspect as far as Scarlett getting any when she's grown from doing these videos your right shell probably never see a dime
The fact that companies are OKAY with child exploitation is insane
They've started exploiting anyone and everyone, especially since the Citizens United, 14th amendment law was passed. Now that a corporation is legally a 'person,' they are protected in ways they should not be.
It's been all downhill since the Supreme Court allowed this ridiculous assertion to become law.
And companies have become completely heartless because you don't see the owner face to face ever anymore
They do it all the time. They don't care.
Right but they don’t give actual creative adults these deals.. just exploit tf outta kids.. wtf does she care about a storage unit smh
It’s because kids are their best customers. My daughter is 4 and she will watch the same video on RUclips Kids 3,000 times over and over again. We’ve banned family vloggers in our house though.
Of course companies are unethical. It's shocking to me that the parents happily go along with it.
In Chinese tiktok (douyin) kids are not allowed in tiktok live, the live will be cut off once they detect a kid’s face. You can hardsell whatever product you want in the live, but not with the presence of a kid. I think thats a great feature for parents to not exploit their kids.
When China has better child protection laws than majority of the western world…
Right! Makes you wonder why it is on their platform but not on the other one…
Just like a lot of other controversial content isn’t being pushed on the Chinese version…
They really found a good way to push certain things onto their western audience with the app while also making sure their own version stays government friendly and "clean".
The content that is picked up by the algorithm on the app _here_ would never get picked up on douyin.
Not saying that there isn’t disturbing and harmful stuff on that too, but when compared it becomes very apparent that those two apps are build very differently and on purpose.
Communist China showing the U.S. up in that manner is not a good look.
All it takes is to ruin the younger generation of a country to take the whole country down
This rule should be implemented everywhere. Child exploitation is taken with a grain of sand now
A whole new branch of psychology about childhood trauma has been born.
As someone who works in the mental health field. You are absolutely correct.
Its not new@@BloodSweatandFears
Yup
@@justmoon9798 No it isn’t, just prevalent enough now to actually be named, studied, and put forward into the DSM 5 (or 6 depending on the time it takes I suppose)
@@BloodSweatandFears once again, it's nothing knew. This isn't new. The trauma isn't new
The child comforting the parent….
narcissistic parent and golden child dynamic. The trauma is real. Poor Scarlet 😢
I think she actually said sorry to the audience... As she has been told/shown to communicate through the camera.
Thought the exact same thing….no child should EVER have to deal with that…
“Do your part” is TELLLLLING. Her daughter is her employee. So sad, family vloggers are the worst.
"mommy's gotta pay for botox and lip fillers, DO YOUR PART"
Esp since her daughter is biracial that just comes across much worse now
Yeah unpaid employee at that
I have a feeling that all family vloggers are abusive and explorative psychopaths. That is only my opinion.
I blame the platforms that allow it
That wasn’t just raising her voice. That was a frightening tone to take up with a child. I have a feeling that wasn’t the first time she’s treated her kid that way.
Especially with that man voice of hers
Agree that was a warning
She got caught yelling at her for not wanting to film like, six months ago. This isn't the first time she's been caught, so God only knows how often she's yelling at her child. I just hope it's limited to yelling and that she's not hitting her too.
I remember that! @@annjepsen1621
yess how she said "dude seriously you're not doing it right " like that's your kid not your friend who u banter with tf
The fact that this child realizes her mother is apologizing for views says everything about this mother.
These are the type of parents that get cut off emotionally from their kids once they grow up. The child wants NOTHING to do with them once the smoke clears. Absolutely horrendous!
Oh yeah, name some relevant examples
@@kristaschnarr6979Have you seen a lot of child stars when they grow up? This is essentially the same thing on a smaller scale. Forcing your kids to be entertaining for any sort of content often doesn't go well, to the point where one child star (I can't remember her name off the top of my head, sorry) wrote an entire book called "I'm glad my mom died" talking about what she went through. It's not uncommon for other children pushed into the public eye by their parents to have a horrible relationship with them later on. I know these kids aren't in movies, but judging by what we can see happening behind the scenes I think this will lead to something very similar
@@kristaschnarr6979 Jeanette McCurdy
@@mmmbepis8643 You can’t judge every ones experience off of the experiences that garner the most attention. Negative experiences get hype, not positive. Life sux for a lot of people in many ways but it doesn’t for others. Live and let live. You don’t know each child or parent. There’s billions of us
@@kristaschnarr6979 Okay, so you say "name some relevant examples" get some relevant examples, and then proceed to essentially say "nuh uh". Yes we can't predict how every single person will turn out, but that's like saying beating your child isn't guaranteed to give them lifelong trauma so it must not be that bad. No, we cannot guarantee what every single one of these kids will experience as an adult, but with existing patterns we can make an educated assumption. Just say you want to be willfully ignorant and move on
The fact that she monetizes her biracial child and not her other children… is…
oh ew i thought she just had scarlet! that’s so weird of her wtf
that part^^^^
yeahhhhh my stomach was already hurting knowing the subject of this video but as soon as i saw that…that poor baby. she deserves a mom who loves her for who she is rather than exploiting her on so many levels.
She has other kids????? Fuck man… there’s levels to this shit..
Ooof wtf! That’s double fucked up
I can relate with ‘working on your temper’. I grew up in a very aggressive family and I thought the idea of ‘I’m not gonna raise them like I was raised’ was enough to make me a kind and gentle parent, but it’s much deeper than that. I don’t judge partners for yelling or losing their cool, as long as they are actively trying to improve. Breaking generational trauma is hard. ALL that being said, exploiting children for money and views is sick. I’m always looking for ways to help kids preserve their childhoods. Running a business where your child is the center of it, is not fair and I think it should be immediately demonetized.
I completely agree. I catch myself saying the things that my Mum used to say to me, being reactive in the same way, even making the same angry noises or facial expressions. Even if you swore you would be better (and I'm not saying my Mum was a terrible Mum, she had her problems and she did the best with what she had at the time based on her capacity and her childhood experiences) but I still thought my desire to do it differently would be enough. That the research into how to overcome generational trauma, the books and videos, and learning about myself I did prior to having my daughter would make a difference.
But your original hardwiring is what you experienced, not what you wish to be like. So it's a constant internal fight trying to overcome what is, unfortunately, your instinctual behaviour at this point. Your factory settings.
I can survive to a certain point on my want to be better and employing all the lessons and tactics I've learnt to do it but it can get to a point where all that is left is my personal childhood foundation.
This isn't how it is for everyone. Everyone is built differently, I wish my want to be better was enough, but it isn't that simple for me.
It's easy to say that by the time you are a parent, you should have learned patience as if it is a simple lesson to learn. As if it's something that every person had modelled to them. And as if a child is not the most trying thing on your patience, as if they don't - on the daily - push you into your most primal brain.
I don't think that it's as black and white as she's made it out to be. I think these were unfair comments, as it wasn't just directed at this woman specifically, and she says it from a place of not being a Mum yet. Even with all the empathy in the world, you cannot understand the realities of motherhood until you are in it.
i agree. however actively trying to improve should only mean therapy. there is no other way to truly break generational trauma.
This, 💯
YESSSSS!!!
THANK YOU for touching on the fact that “giving them better than what you had” is MUCH MORE than just a stupid phrase. it takes actual effort.
"I'm apologizing a second time so I can look good to people." That's this woman's mentality. What a narcissist.
Hearing that poor baby calmly tell her mom she doesn't have to yell broke my heart 😔💔 ...that woman looked like she was about to throw that whole dresser and having a bad day doesn't excuse you treating your child like that...I understand parents get upset and raise their voice ...but she was screaming ...gave me flashbacks of my childhood ..
@deannanewman7965 I hear ya. Same here.
It's so sad because that stuff really does stick with you forever
Dang she really screamed. That was crazy.
She is basically saying that it was her daughter’s fault that she got angry 🤦♀️, unbelievable
Her comment about doing “gentle parenting” blew my mind 😵💫She has obviously heard that term before & pretends that is her “parenting philosophy” ☹️
She wasn't crying because she was sorry to the viewers. She was crying because she was afraid of the spanking she was about to get. My heart is breaking.
She wasn't even crying
@@josmclove4426yes she was dork
When I told my kids to pick up their toys a million times, yes I would get frustrated. I never got frustrated if they wanted to help me build a piece of furniture. No one can get that stuff right the first time 🤦
I’m 24 and can’t for the life of me figure out how to put ikea furniture together, and you’re telling me she’s mad because her SIX YEAR OLD can’t “do her side”. Like most six year olds just learned how to put their shoes on the right feet
When I was growing up, my parents often told me “you are not listening”. Now that I am an adult, I told my dad, I was never “not listening” but processing under pressure. Just because I didn’t react the way (on in the amount of time) they wanted me to, didn’t mean I wasn’t listening. Even now, I have to process what information is coming my way. It’s just how my brain works.
Same here.
I feel that.
Processing disorders are often associated with CPTSD. It happens to those of us who were yelled at or criticized for existing.
@@Bingewatchingmediacontentcriticized for existing is the best explanation for my whole damn life.
Thank you for putting that into words.
Oof i feel ya! I was nonstop getting the snot beat out of me for not reacting the way my dad wanted me to! Several times i remember I couldn't stop laughing while he was furious, and i was mortified cause i knew i was gonna get beat for it but i seriously couldn't just stop, i was literally using my hands to make my face stop smiling, i know now thats a classic trauma response. He just loved to beat us though so it was gonna happen no matter how i responded so 🤷
This makes me sick. I was a single parent and I would sell my body before I would exploit my child for internet clout and money.
Right?? We adults have the responsibility to provide and care for children, not the other way around. We have to do everything we can to ensure they grow up healthy and happy.
They just do it because it’s “easy” not thinking about the ramifications. It’s not just a work from home job, but that’s how they think of it. 😢
As a Mother yes we get frustrated but the first thing they teach you is to put the baby/child in a safe space and walk away and regulate yourself. I've done it multiple times
Absolutely I have six kids one is grown and the other five at home with me, they are all young. Sometimes you have to walk away gather your thoughts and come back when you are more rational and less emotional.
THIS THIS THIS!!
Its not just the yelling its the dissociation. She talks to her daughter like she's not her daughter. The language she uses is something you might use when speaking to a stranger 🤷🏻♀️
I would be even nicer to a stranger than that 😭 she’s such an embarrassment
You can tell how annoyed Kiki is getting at parents like this and it makes me happy to see there is still reason on this planet
I recently knew someone who’s daughter got her drivers license and she (the mom) posted on facebook a picture of her daughter with the paper showing her full name, address, license #, and tons of identifying information on it. She basically doxed her own daughter and made her vulnerable to so many predatory actions. Be better.
That was stupid. Wow. Kids shouldn't even have their name online.
Absolutely that is very scary. I could never imagine putting personal information on the Internet of my child let alone any personal personal information at all.
I see so many parents also posting a "first day of school" pictures while tagging their school name and their teacher's names. Like what are you doing? While the child is also holding up a chalkboard with everything that they like. Is that not a common sense not post this stuff online?
@@yanak7159 common sense is not a flower that grows in everyone's garden. 😔😐
She's only apologizing because she got called out..
Its kinda obvious that thats the case. She said that she would do therapy after watching that video again, but she litterary watched it multiple times while editing it before posting it online. Obviously she didnt just realize she needed therapy after watching the video, she "realized" after the world watched the video.
My dad was a single father of three children. My brother had intense disabilities and medical bills and needed constant and expensive care. He nearly lost everything he owned and did lose his job juggling it all. That being said, He has never yelled at us when we were little like she yelled at her six year old. She is disgusting.
That is fantastic. I commend your father for being a real man they’re not many left anymore. you should give that man a hug next time you see him and tell him thank you for taking such good care of you much❤
Scarlet is such a sweet and smart little girl and seeing her mom talk to her like that honestly broke my heart because I had never heard her talk to her like that.
“We are morally bankrupt” 🗣️
We are playing monopoly with brain cells instead of money
Ugh it turns my stomach to hear that little baby start crying and apologizing to her mom for not wanting to be on camera.. she should never have been put online this way. This is narcissistic abuse.
So many red flags! My husband is a mental health therapist and was so disgusted with this. I feel like that kid goes through more than we know.
Most definitely! The back and fourth of the "kindness" her mother shows her on camera (most of the time) vs God knows what happens when the camera shuts off!!! So horrible poor baby...
"God bless us all, we're doomed." Is my new motto
I get frustrated when I have to tell my child to put their shoes on because we are running late because they were chilling in their room instead of getting dressed….not because I’m putting them to work to make me money.
thisssss omg. the last time i yelled (not even at my son, but just raising my voice in frustration) was bc i spilled my iced coffee all over the place... not bc he wasn't performing for social media well enough. and i STILL apologized to him for it.
My mom was an alcoholic and was also great at acting like everything was fine. Seeing the daughter having to comfort her mother while she's sad, is showing that the daughter has to be on edge all the time in order to keep herself safe.
Being on edge all the time as a kid, can lead to ptss and overall worse mental health as an adult.
As someone who ended up with cptsd because of that situation, I feel so sad for that little girl and how her future will look. I hope the mother really gets counselling or the daughter can move out before things really get out of hand.
Yep - the damage done to me by a liar and drunk called my mother made me mask most of my adult life until 1 day I just cracked and it all came out - I'd be about 50 at that time - I wish I could have dealt with it sooner - I felt robbed.
As a single woman with children, I don't even see how they even have the time to record all of the time. I don't really post my babies anymore because ppl are nuts
Same
The fact the kid APOLOGIZED because she didn't want to be on camera was SICK
You are doing such an important job by bringing this child exploitation to light. Filming/photographing children for public content should be forbidden by law.
Coming from a single boomer parent household, my childhood was filled with lots of aggressive eoutbursts that got us smacked a lot of the time. I can’t imagine how hurtful it would be to be used as a cash cow on top of that.
And for it to be shown to everyone! I was also abused and even though it wasn’t my fault I was embarrassed and ashamed to live that way and never had friends over because they’d find out. I couldn’t imagine millions of people including the kids you go to school with finding out!!
There has to be a balance between love and structure. Soft parenting also isn't doing kids any favors. They go out in a harsh World and can't handle it. We see this everywhere now.
@@roxslater1031why is the world so harsh? I guess this depends on your definition of soft, because soft, the way I'm looking at it, you can be soft (or gentle) and still have structure.
@@j.kristineemmonsThat’s what she said
She absolutely told Scarlett to say "you already appologized" that's not a normal kid response.
I took it as Scarlett appealing to her mom like, “Listen, I’m already embarrassed; do I really have to be on camera again for this take?” Which is also pretty sad. But now that you mention it . . . ughhh, you’re probably right. 🤢
I was thinking the same about the sweaty palm comment as well
I can see my 7 year old son saying that but he's autistic so would be confused why I'm apologizing again and he had an advanced vocabulary
@dreamteam9748 same for my 9 yr old daughter ❤
My daughter does. It's not that weird of a response. Some people need reassurance that it's okay.
That woman is VILE. Her facial expressions in that video show pure contempt, disgust & despise… & NOT bcuz she was sorry in ANY way whatsoever! She’s seething that she got caught showing her true colors & trying to manipulate the viewers into thinking she’s relatable. Shame on her.
Gosh, her yelling at the kid about the storage unit triggered me so hard. Having a parent who is so emotionally volatile has effects on you that last forever. That reaction all for a storage unit 😥
Scarlett’s mom has always rubbed me wrong. She looks like the kind of mother that yells all the time, and is constantly putting her kids down. And I don’t feel like I’m wrong about that observation.
This is disgusting. She is taking her own childs childhood away. In 10 years time were gonna have people coming out with their childhood traumas of being exploited as a kid. Truly heartbreaking. My heart goes out to all these poor kids that r being used by their own parents for some cash. Some parents dont deserve to be parents.
Omg... threatening to hit her...
There is no difference between pop and hit. Teaching her to react with violence when she's frustrated... this is heartbreaking.
She's also unintentionally teaching her to expect violence from future romantic partners.
The manipulation is scary. This is how she speaks to her daughter. This is how a narcissistic person speaks to their children. As well as adults. She truly thinks that people are going to listen to her. She’s following the text book and throwing it back on her followers. Scarlet was waiting behind the camera. She’s in damage mode trying to save her TikTok not the relationship with her daughter.
Also. Note the change of tone in her voice. She’s faking it till she makes it. She doesn’t realise that people are seeming her tri self!! She thinks she’s above and everyone loves her no matter what
My heart sank when she said “you don’t have to yell” 😞 poor baby.
The problem is social media and everyone wanting their 15 minutes of fame without any regard to anything else. You saying people are morally bankrupt is spot on.
There’s going to a whole subset of traumatized adults in 10/20 years from stuff like this.
I hope they sue their parents
I see the fawn trauma response in that sweet baby! 😢 She’s already done something on a live where she was screaming at her child to film and her daughter didn’t want to and was crying. I feel so bad for her daughter. I hope people IRL know them and have eyes on them!
Here’s a novel idea, if you’re having a bad day - don’t film that day. If the child is not into building furniture and it’s frustrating you, drop the task until you feel better or do it yourself and allow your child to go play with their toys or have a nap or just do regular kid things.
A little out there but you may be onto something...
She is not going to counseling, she is unstable. That kid is her meal ticket.
Its sickening what these parents do to their kids for the almighty dollar and views count.
Sickening is a very apt way to describe this behavior.
I think of course money is a big part of this, but I think the attention and fame and constant “you’re such an amazing mom” praise is what REALLY gets these family vloggers addicted to that life.
You can just feel the desperation for attention and praise in every word and action these moms post. They totally lose sight of the motherly instinct to protect your child. It’s so sad, it needs to stop.
Oh my word… the yelling at her girl for the unit not being done!! This poor child. She may not like her mother when she’s an adult.
The scary thing is, people start thinking it's "normal" and "okay" to be frustrated and yell at your kids. You need to stop yourselves before you get to that point, I have been there, it only happened once and then I was like, NO, this is NOT okay, I cannot allow this to happen.
I swear I feel like in 5-10 years we are gonna have an onslaught of the kids coming out with their story and how awful their childhood was.
Their stories are going to make for great books (sadly).
Then these mombies will wonder why their kids don’t visit them in retirement homes. 😠
i was thinking about this! we’re gonna have documentaries and biographies coming out titled: “i was a child influencer, this is my story”
I agree but also am not so sure. Alot of these kids are already 18, and enjoy the spotlight themselves and continue to post. But maybe.
I mean they're the kids of millennials... what else should we expect when our generation is the first to emerge after the normalization of perversion.
So if her daughter is making her all this money, she better be paying her and set up a custodial Roth IRA for her. Oh wait. She’d never.
And we're supposed to feel sorry for her? LMAOO She just feels terrible that she accidently posted that moment. When she said "everything happens for a reason" I thought she was gonna say she needed a wake up call or something but no 😭
She was definitely saying that the video not posting should have been a sign not to go ahead and post it. She's not sorry she mistreated her daughter. She's sorry she let other people know.
This ❤
8:20 I have an abusive mother, That yelling and Scarlet telling her "You don't need to yell" brought me back, The mother doesn't realize those words will hurt her child and mentally mess her up, they did the same with me.
these kids are too young to consent to being video tapped for their parents to make money. I feel there needs to be some kind of protection for these kids with parents with zero boundaries. Thank you for posting these examples and bringing awareness!
That poor baby! I can't believe her mother is screaming at her over a stupid promotion. She doesn't deserve that sweet little girl!
Honestly, I fail on the daily trying to not to yell at my kids. Not over something like this… I yell not to drink puddle water, don’t poke the dog in the butt, don’t lick your shoe… I cannot imagine how these parents make these kids preform every single day. My kids won’t even cooperate for me to take a picture, let alone film content like this. Kids need to just be kids.
You aren't alone. Yelling AT them is very different than yelling to do/not do things...like stop licking the fridge!!! BTDT.
We do the best we can. No shame in that
i love how kiki touches such touchy subjects and doesn't take advantage of it in someway. if you watch any other video of these topics, which tend to get lots of views, the youtuber will throw a random online therapy, perfume or mattress sponsor 😭 and it honestly takes away all the genuineness out of the video.
I feel you but the creators need to be paid for their work and that’s how they get paid. Some of them put way too many ads but one or two is understandable. I want them to keep making videos so they gotta get paid. I certainly would rather advertisers pay them than me paying them. :)
I grew up with a mother like her. We no longer speak.
I'm so not used to people getting on camera and telling it how it is. Whew, your honesty was a breath of fresh air. This woman has lost it
I love this side of social media where we are more aware and not falling for their traps
I got rid of all of my social media years ago (facebook) i never had tic toc or most social medias. RUclips is the only thing i have, but minus my picture, that is the only thing ive posted with my child since getting rid of my stuff. I used to post pics of my kiddos , but had a scary situation that opened my eyes and i no longer do. Parents be mindful when you post your babies, youre opening your family up to anyone with internet .
Being biracial I noticed a lot of parents do this when they have mixed kids 😂 I’m not being woke just being real lol
I have mixed kids. I'm a black mom.
My kids ALWAYS talk about the difference in "white mom energy" 😂
It's awkward and uncomfy for some people but ...🤷🏿♀️
Same! I have a white mom like the girl in the video but she never treated me like a trendy accessory. Then again, it was the 90s so it wasn’t trendy to have a lightskinned baby yet
So white moms can't love their biracial babies?
I'm bi racial and I see it too. But I feel it's because Black people are obsessed with Bi Racial half White light skin kids with good hair and smaller noses and possibly light eyes. So bi racial kids are easy to sell to Black community obsessed with us.
@@Pleurigloss From what I see on social media it's Black women too selling and exploiting Bi racial children on social media. Black people women and men are literally obsessed with Bi racial half White light skin kids and especially if we have light eyes. That's just the truth
12:37 My mom is single, has depression, anxiety, ADD, and ADHD and she STILL don't yell at me and my siblings like that, and she has four kids.
The is the first comment I’ve ever made on RUclips. And I’ve watched hours and hours and hours of smart people deconstructing things. You have a fantastically unique perspective and have opened my eyes. You are doing amazing work. Keep at it. Please.
Oh my lord. I would never speak to my child like that. Children deserve just as much respect as adults
I’m so glad you’re bringing attention to this issue and bringing up the filters! I’ve been saying how much I HATE when parents do that.
I remember finding that account account last year.. its so sad that Scarlett’s mom is still treating her like shit :( Scarlett seems like such a sweetheart.. months ago her mom was trying to justify the mistreatment
Single mum here 🙋♀️ no, I absolutely do not relate.
I would never exploited my child and I also would never scream at my kid no matter how frustrated I am.
Disgusting excuse for a mum
I've raised my voice maybe 3 or 4 times. Mostly out of fear when my son did something dangerous. It happens.
However, I also had strong words with adults for trying to convince me to let him model as an infant and a toddler. If my kid wants to do something he can tell me himself. It's not my place to make him.
and of course she's gonna misuse the term gentle parenting and blame her kid for HER temper smh 🤦🏾
11:57 I _GUARANTEE_ she told her daughter to respond with "but you already apologized". I PROMISE YOU.
22:43 I would bet what she was saying with her angry gestures was "Doing these videos pay our bills! You can't act like that on camera!!"
At first i was like “oh that yelling isn’t too bad” then i remembered that my parents were way too harsh (borderline verbally abusive) with me as a child LMAO
Same
You make such a valid point on the subject of filters. I'm 39 yrs old and have used filters for the past few yrs. Now, I can't stand pics of myself bc I ruined myself by using them. I am a mom, but I've never used filters on my kids. Other than the silly ones on snapchat for fun.
The fact that she’s TEACHING her daughter to “pop” her dolls for crying.. like that does teach her that crying deserves a physical punishment?? It’s fucked up
I feel like… this has always been a thing with celebrity kids. Because these kids are social media kids, we’re getting a sneak peek on Britney Spears kind of childhoods. 😢
I wanna give a shout out to Kiki; I wasn’t going the influencer route, but her first video convinced me to delete pictures of my daughter that I did have online. Thanks Kiki ❤ before that I don’t think I was educated on WHY people were deleting them.
Obsessed with your channel and your righteous anger and TRUTH You are giving a voice to these children. Keep it up!!! We are all so blinded by this madness, it's not okay at all. It's so sick, and absolutely NOT normal
So glad more RUclipsrs are exposing this trend. It's gone on for over a decade now and I fully believe it's added to the Internet becoming an even bigger cesspool. Making kids the content *and* allowing kids unlimited social media access is a huge reason society is in the shhthole rn. And kids are the only ones paying the price. Could argue some young adults are paying also, at the end of the day.
My heart aches most for the children being mistreated by the single person they should trust the most. Keep up the good work calling these parents out 🙏🏼
I feel like children services should be contacted this is so sad, poor Lil Scarlett 😔
so much agree
all they care about is that they have a bed and are fed. child services would do absolutely nothing in this situation.
"[She] didn't deserve to be yelled at AT THAT POINT." So, sometimes she does deserve to be yelled at? 🤦♀️
This is really disturbing. I’m not really a TikTok user. So I’m glad you’re bringing this to light for people like me. I would put money on the fact that these kids are being even more abused and neglected off camera. We’re only getting a taste of it. 😢😢😢
I agree, Kylie, parents should not put beauty filters on their kids. I have a couple friends who always post pictures of their babies and toddlers with beauty filters. I find it so upsetting because I can't imagine having all of most of your child's pictures with filters. Imagine years from now when they look back at those pictures how they will feel.
Great video, this woman is really causing a lot of mental abuse towards that poor little girl, keep calling these monsters out!
BAN family channels and using your children for clicks. It's exploitation and they can't consent to it. It sickens me.
I always got weird vibes from this woman… not sure why but I’m not really surprised. Poor lil girl fr.
I also wanna talk about how that first example she showed at 3:19 the mom used the song "Touch my body" to her daughter dancing? like.. 💀 that's weird
Period. Love when YTers are unfiltered and say what needs to be said. Subscribed!
Oh man, I just found you and I really need to say, THANK YOU! It is so refreshing to see someone say it like it is. So many people are so concerned about not coming off as mean, I love how you called this pathetic excuse of a mother out. Especially the BS excuse about being a single mother. She is EFFING loving being a single mother at this moment because it gave her a platform for her relentless exploitation of her daughter. When the hell are laws going to catch up with these monsters?
If people would simply stop watching this little girl get exploited , then she could become a kid again. Switch off everyone……
“The calls coming from inside the house” that’s hilarious.
Being a parent is rough single or not. It’s not an excuse. You don’t get a pass for being a “single” parent. She’s sorry we all got to see the real her. I don’t force my child to “work”. I also don’t exploit my child for fake fame and a paycheck tho either.
It’s so cliche to say “we aren’t perfect”; “no one is perfect”. Yeah, no shit. We don’t expect perfection. We expect parents to not be major assholes to their children.
Well said, 100%. Single parenthood is no excuse for toxic behavior.
Can you do a video on Della vlogs? They were involved in an adoption scam but now have a baby and that baby has been in every video ever since ...carries her around like her own personal mommy accessory 😔
The problem is not just these people, it is the people that follow them and give them a platform. It’s great that you bring these things to light. I don’t post picture of my kids to social media at all, even if my account is private, as I give up ownership of that image as soon as it is posted. I used to post pictures to share with my family and close friends, but not anymore and haven’t for years. As soon as I found out how these images can be used. I also don’t get the need to tell people what you are doing every minute of every day. In the case of this mum, I just don’t think she understands why people might be mad. I don’t follow people like this and refuse to go on tik tok.
As a mother of two babies… I Thank you 💖 for making these videos. Protect the Children at all costs. Society needs to wake up.
Kiki, I am just LIVING for these and other videos since you came back. I enjoy the commentary style, the real and raw topics, the thought put into them, and the actual difference that I really believe your videos will make.
when you said it was tiana and scarlett on the chopping block today i genuinely gasped. i have to admit i had a soft spot for that account when i saw the daily affirmations so i followed them even though i don't follow accounts that exploit children. I had no idea how monetized her platform was and that video made me sick to my stomach. I immediately went and unfollowed as well as reported the account for exploiting minors. shame on me for not holding that woman to the same standard i hold other moms to, clearly i was 100% wrong about her. no amount of positive affirmations can make up for that.
It's so sad because positive affirmations are a super cute idea (even though she's treating her kid terribly behind the scenes) and she could absolutely show that and talk about that WITHOUT PUTTING HER KID ON SCREEN.
Same. I had a soft spot for them also.
I am a single mum and I would never use my child for content to make money. Even when we were struggling, I chose to get a better job and study to improve the situation. If you can't support your child through your own content, you don't have the talent to be a content creator. Selling your child's privacy and exposing them to the dangers of the internet is not a solution. and... "not fair the the people around me" - lady, the "people" is your young child and if you have anger issues you need professional help before you damage your child's psyche further.
These kids end up being the breadwinners and it's absolutely appalling. They're the reason these videos are being watched but nothing protects their welfare or their income, and I cannot stand the "I share them for awareness/education" when it comes to kids with special needs or sharing their parenting style, you clearly can't communicate well enough if you can't explain what you do without showing them!
@@SarahPiperNZ Fathering Autism comes to mind with people monetizing their special needs child. It's astonishing that people would sell out their children over building themself as a breadwinner.
@@dichallis4135 Eeka too, the one with the three adopted kids. I think two have autism and one has something else, one of the kids goes viral for being trans and their whole lives are exploited for the world to see. Just appalling.
@@dichallis4135Mikko from Gentle Autism (I think?) too. It’s sick.
You can tell that the little girl really loves her Mom. I hope the Mom looks inside herself and changes for the sake of her child.