These Toxic Boy Moms Must Be Stopped
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- Опубликовано: 5 мар 2024
- Oh BOY! The toxic boy moms of TikTok are never beating the weirdo allegations... Ladies, pay very close attention to this video - You don't want any of these deranged women to end up as your future MIL... These are the type of mothers who would buy their son a gift for Mother's Day, interfere in their son's relationships, sabatoge their son's independence if it means he will never leave home, and even go as far to have their son's compensate for their lack of successful adult relationships! Sound familiar? In today's video, we meet what may be the final boss of toxic #boymoms... They must be stopped!
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These are the women who eventually wear white wedding dresses to their sons' weddings.
Ooh if that happens at my wedding I’d be sooooooo pissed 😤
That part!
Yup!!!!
Cringe AF
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Wait wait wait. These moms ARE SOMEONE'S CRUSTY DAUGHTER. 😂
😂😂
They’re definitely projecting 😅
yeah it sounds like mega projection and probably also some sort of comeback bit about how boys often get to be all "boys are boys" while girls have to conform. so its like they're idk.. its weird
And they grew up to make the prepackaged food they talk of hmm😅
YES! 😂
Imagine if a Dad made ANY of these comments about their daughter. CPS would be at the door in hours.
I wish the dad's could actually step up and stop this nonsense
@@pwmgirl The dads are probably not there physically or emotionally for their wives and that's why the moms project their needs onto their sons, it's sick.
@@iridescentraindropsit's not the mans fault. Most of these men would probably be at work. These women are scary
Actually, as soon as their mind constructed the thought there would be a knock at the door and a red faced wife.
@@hayleym7486 as much as it is a mother's jobe to protect her daughter if the father starts to act weierdly around their girl, same is for fathers. Parents should step up and take actions.
The mom jumping on her son like they're the couple from The Notebook looks like the type of woman who would sleep with her son's highschool friends.
Yes. Absolutely.
So gross
Cringe
Did these ladies forget they are also daughters??? 😂
They are the “crustiest” daughters too haha😂
@@jacobprevost😂😂😂
I think that must say something about how they perceive their own self worth just a bit
@@mercedesyvette2792very good observation
This the one!!!
Someone once said “show me a mom with an obsession for her son and I’ll show you a mom with an unhappy marriage.”
Omg yes
Nobody can make these women happy from boy moms to feminist they're just trash😂
That’s really what it’s about. When you have an unhappy marriage, you focus on your child too much. Especially if you are still in the marriage while you are actively parenting your son. I understand. I don’t think that a lot of these mothers understand and they may be a little bit younger than me. When you love a child so much that you suffocate him you will push that child away. Focus on yourself and your identity because one day that child walks out the door and who are you?
@@SUZSMITH I did it myself. I remember calling my three sons my boyfriends (husband and I were always at odds) and saw a bunch of mommy bloggers do the same one day- they all had noticeably strange marriages themselves. Something about it rubbed me the wrong way, seeing others do it and I haven’t done it since
Facts
As a Mexican girl, the youngest and ONLY girl of 4, my mom 10000% always favored and treated my brothers wayyyyy better than me. And they were terrible to her! But with me? She used me as an emotional and ocasional physical punching bag. But they could do no wrong. As a woman as a daughter its a terrible feeling.
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I get it. My Mom was the same with my sister and I, but my brother is her entire world.
I’m so sorry you’ve went through this, I hope you’re doing better now. Praying for you ❤
Same, but I’m Nigerian. Crazy how this is so widespread.
My mom was the same way. She would fight me if I said anything about my brother.
These are the moms who complain their sons moved 300km away and that their daughters-in-law are horrible, hatred-filled, jealous people.
Yes! They'll just push their sons away
No, boys just marry versions of their moms... that make them move miles away.
“Why do my daughters not talk to me?”
“Why does my daughter-in-law not like me or let me around MY grandchildren?!”
Because there are FIVE “my me my me me”… FIVE ME or MY in these two sentences?!
Edit: Oooops!!! It’s SIX, not five.
These boys probably will want nothing to do with their mothers either. As soon as they grow up and realize how F'ed up their moms were.
Daughter in laws always get the last laugh. Always. That might be what drives the moms insane. They know it too.
17:21 beyonce is the same way
this comment needs to be pinned. I’m not contact with both sides from the boy moms protecting my abuser and getting angry at me for sharing my experience online.
It's called "emotional incest", and it's absolutely DISGUSTING.
100%, this is sick
Whenever I see the words, "Boy Mom" in the bio part of a woman's ig page, I immediately *BLOCK* the page!🤦🏼♀️ Bc I already know that she is going to have some sort of weird obsession with her son(s).
Yeah it's beyond creepy.
Very interesting, I've never heard about the idea of "emotional incest". Life be fucking weird
I would miss TikTok animals, but be okay if they moved over to YT and TT went bye bye. I have to do a pros and cons analysis, but I think the cons might win.
The mum straddling HER GROWN SON, WTAF!! That is beyondinappropriate.
22:25 The "everyone is exploiting their children so it's okay" take, was WILD.
The freaking "boy mom" who openly admitted to brushing off her sons anger and violence by telling her daughters to accept it because "he's probably just having a hard day". Great, you are teaching your daughters to accept that behavior from future partners.
And teaching him to be like that to emotionally regulate.
History repeats itself. Its like every 10ish years, the roles reverse. Like everything, there has to be a balance. Generations before us have catered to men and have had higher expectations for women, its easy to see if we sit back and observe. (Im 32yro/veteran)
Absolutely. Very very concerning.
This is no joke. I had a violent and abusive boyfriend and his mom used to brush it off and blame me for 'not being the right match for him'. But I wasn't the only one that he was violent with, so...
Happened to me with my brother and then I had an abusive boyfriend because I thought men were just allowed to be aggressive. Can confirm.
How hard is it to just say “teaching my son to cook because it’s a basic life skill” 🤷🏻♀️
My son has known how to cook since he was 8! He just turned 11 yesterday and has been making his own mac and cheese for years. He’s experimented with every kind you can think of and loves Beyond Burgers (hubs and I are vegetarian but we don’t force it on him; he can make his own choices when it comes to that; he just loves the Beyond Burgers and chicken patties they make).
Now, I’m trying to teach him how to do his own laundry. Definitely an essential skill and I need to help him while he’s young! My husband was never taught how to do it properly and I can’t for the life of me stop him from just shoving a huge load in the washer so it “gets don’t faster.” Like, no! It’s faster, but they’re not getting clean. I’ve had him smell them after he does this and they still stink and yet, he still does it. So I just have to get to his laundry before he does so I can do it right. 😂😂😂
@@alexandriav3956Good for you! He sounds talented
I saw one woman do it when I still had tiktok. She even blurred out her kid's face. We take the small wins where we can.
@LottieLaRats if I was in tik tok or would dare to show my children online (i would never), that sounds like exactly what i would do.
That doesn't make money.
Teaching my son to feel independent and confident so he can approach your daughter when he’s ready date. Teaching my son how to respect and protect women so he can help your daughter heal her emotional wounds and support her achievement of dreams. Teaching my son how to cook and clean so he can be an equally contributing member of the household. Teaching my son to recognize toxic patterns and how to hold boundaries so he can walk away from relationships that are harmful. Educating my son about the historical and current hardships women face so he can be compassionate and empathetic when your daughter feels angry and undervalued by our society!!!!!!
A true queen mama! 👏🏼
YES! This is how boys should be raised!
One more time for the people in the back!
Me too. The world will hopefully be much better with more children brought up like this. Thank you!
The football players mom talking about how time stopped when he picked her up and she wrapped her legs around him after he won his game is genuinely so embarrassing, uncomfortable and incestuous it’s baffling that she thought that was a normal thing to feel, say and then POST PUBLICLY 😂😳🤦🏼♀️🤢
Note to self. Teach daughter to not tolerate being with a boy that has a toxic mom or toxic mom/son relationship.
Yes!
avoid Greek moms!!
I want absolutely nothing to do with mine...does that count as toxic?
Exactly!
Note to these moms.....Your spoiled, entitled mamas boy will never measure up where my daughter is concerned. You've made sure of that. Annnnd You are the last individual i would ever want to be my grandkids' other grandma.
How about "teaching my son how to cook so he...can be an equally contributing member of his future household"
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I know right! The majority of my boyfriends cooked with their moms
LMAO What a novel idea!! 🤓💡✨
I can't remember the name of the content creator, but her videos say that, teaching my son.....so his future wife doesn't carry everything,,,,,,or something to that extent.
Yes. Exactly. I want my sons to be kind and gentlemanly and supportive of their wives because that will give them a good chance at a happy marriage and a happy stable household for their own children to grow up in. They need to have respect for EVERY woman they interact with and respect for themselves. My children are surely my life but I do NOT want to be theirs.
I am feeling so disturbed. That last "mom" is fully aware of what she's doing. She is stating and showing suggestive stuff ON PURPOSE to bait sick, sick people. ON PURPOSE.
I am. Beyond baffled and disgusted. I feel sick. What the fuck. How do we stop this.
these people ruined the "making sure my daughter can - so your son doesn't -" that was ACTUALLY wholesome and not toxic, disgusting and perverted.
Mother of a boy here. I just want all the moms of daughters to know I'm teaching my son, to love, care for and cherish your daughters. 🖤
Thank you. ❤
Mother of boys too and I’m doing the same. I have always been excited to have future daughters.
Lol, what is happening in our society, this is some crazy stuff!
U sure u aren’t teaching boy to be gay boy like a girl haters
Mom of only boys! Amen same and also raising my sons Christian to get a good Christian woman with values! It works both ways!
❤ girls and boys are both gifts from God ❤
Yes!!! We exist! My mother-in-love is a gem, and along w my mom and grandma, they are my guides to being a healthy, happy, graceful boy and girl mom ❤️
Teaching my daughter to search for their BF's mother's social media so they don't end up with a toxic MIL.
Yes!
Preach, let’s go!
So true!
Amen💅💅✨✨
If bfs mothers social media isn’t travel, personal, gardening, photography, small business, exercise, yoga, or amway level mlm, it’d be worrying
As a mom who happens to have a son, boy moms weird me out! It's so creepy! I just want my son to be a happy and healthy person and when he meets a partner I'll love them like my own as long as they're good to him. That should be what all moms want.
I’m a Psych student, and this type of behavior is called Enmeshment or Emotional Incest. We dealt with this with my MIL for a long time. Our final straw was when she lost her mind when we told her she wouldn’t be allowed in the delivery room. She told my husband that because I’m adopted and she’s the baby's blood relative, she should be allowed in the delivery room and not my mother. My husband had to cut her off and then set some serious boundaries. She is doing better now. I think… honestly idk because I have her blocked. My husband says she is, lol. I have grace with her knowing more about why this happens as this behavior typically stems from trauma, but as you pointed out, it can be hazardous so we do have to have boundaries in place.
I'm pregnant with my first (a boy) and a random woman in tears told me to be ready to "give my son to another woman one day" and I said "Yup can't wait! I'd love a daughter too one day."
She was in TEARS 😭 what's happening to women wthhh
@@user-yc9vs1ku8sSo unhinged like why are you so upset by this 😂😭
@@itslilnguyener no, I meant what's wrong with her, not you girl
@@itslilnguyener I come from a culture of boy mom's I can definetly tell you that it is sick how some women live throught their sons the love they never had to the detriment of their partners etc...
@@user-yc9vs1ku8sOmg no girl! I meant to the woman. ❤️
If Dad's were saying these things about their daughters all hell would break loose.
100% this is sickness and it’s sad there’s a double standard
Yes!!!
THIS!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
but thats the thing they dont do that. the only time weve seen weird dads is in show biz like jessica simpson's dad or britney spears dad. but the weird boy mom phenomena is wayyy too common but no matter how common it is its not okay
Girl dads are a thing actually
It’s not love. It’s possession /ownership.
Your analysis of this video is why I subscribed. You’re a true sister. ❤
I have an older son and younger daughter. I distinctly remember a woman stopping me in the grocery store when my son was a small baby to tell me how a mother/son relationship was the strongest relationship. What is the family dynamic these women are coming from?!
History is s exist. It's created internal misogyny in many women.
Yes, women at work told me there was something special between a boy and his mom.
When women hating other women doesn’t only transcend age groups. It transcends reality. I can’t.
As a mom w a son, this is so disturbing
this is absolutely the grown up version of being a pick me girl!
@@tori6943Agreed.
please explain your comment. i don't understand which women are hating other women and what, exactly, is transcending reality. When you say women hating other women - my understanding is that you mean that person this video is about hating her daughter. Because that's what I was getting from this. Otherwise - I can't rationalize why a mother would expose her own innocent daughter to ridicule and sexual exploitation. I also can't understand a mother saying they love one child over another simply because one is one sex over another. And please justify a mother saying "after all the work I've put in - this (pointing to her toddler) is what I end up with. I'd love to hear what you think is going on from your perspective. I dunno - maybe it's me. I think people are so crazy now that they no longer have discernment or basic human decency and maybe I'm overthinking things so I'd love some clarity on you about this. This is the first I've heard or seen of this Wood woman and, immediately, got the vibe that she might be slightly insane or bipolar or anti-social or something. If others see something different - I'd like to know what they see.
I’d love to get more perspective on what you mean by your comment. If I’m reading your comment correctly, you are saying that the women, including the creator, calling out this disturbing behavior are “hating” on them. What these women are doing on TikTok, especially the ones exploiting their daughters, is horrifying. The toxic boy mom vids are disturbing and gross, but the content focusing on their young daughters to basically attract disgusting pervs for views/money should be banned. I hope I misread your comment.
Imagine if a dad was saying these things about his daughter. There would be police at some of these doors. Disgusting!!
Yepp!!! 💯
Exactly!
You literally just described president Trump and Ivanka....he said he'd date her if she weren't his daughter and talked about her breasts. Yep, the guy whose running again for president.
Thank you for saying that-- I was thinking the same thing. But IDK nowadays maybe the dad could get away with it and just say he "identifies as a 6 year old girl"
@@michelledieboldpanasewicz this is one of the worst comments ive ever read lol
Avery Woods is one step away from auctioning her daughter online. She's what Brook Shield's mom would be if we had social media back then.
"you don't look like you either" LMAO I lost it 😂😂
As a mom of four boys. This is infuriating to me. I did not know this was an issue. They’re essentially trying to create a boyfriend who will always love them and never leave them, and doing that through emotional manipulation.
It is so creepy isn't it? I can't imagine doing anything like this to either of my boys 😂 I want my kids to be happy adults. When they're adults it's down to them to make their own decisions, as a parent it's my job to support them through their decisions.
I couldn’t imagine doing my son like this it’s disgusting
I have 4 sons and this is crazy to me. I love each of my 4 daughters-in-law. I taught my sons how to cook, clean and do their own laundry and they don't expect their gf or wife to do these things for them. They are also training their sons and daughters on all these matters.
So sick
Lol it is funny. I think as parents we should be teaching our kids via our relationship as parents what to look for in future spouses. ❤
“I don’t know what I did to deserve you…”. His Dad. You did his Dad.
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Reading this in bed. I just laughed so hard at this that my bed shook my poor husband awake. 😂
What all these women have in common is an unhappy marraige.
Creating emotionally damaged young men? Who cant form healthy relationships. Thats clearly going to end well.
As a boy "recovering" from my mom. It's great to see a (mostly female) community standing up for us.
I also want to add something which I found underexposed in this video. The parentification these boys suffer is one of the worst parts. The constant pressure to reciprocate the feelings, being sculpted into a "desired partner" and emotional weight put on the relation are life ruining. I'm keeping my lips above water, but damn is it hard to be a full adult and have no clue who you are and what you like.
I also really feel for the neglected siblings. Hate to hear that my experience is also yet another way girls are being disadvantaged.
Thank you for validating a suspicion I’ve had regarding my stepson for a very long time. His mom does this to him and it’s getting to be very concerning. I’m so sorry you went through this. Praying for your healing and the joy of finding out who you are. ❤️
Emotional incest! That’s what it is
Ouch that sounds so painful. Sorry you had to go through that!
Therapy. & tell her she's smothering you. She's filling a void by using you. Not cool.
@@Barefootandchildless my ex did this with his daughters. It's referred to as Emotional Incest. It will truly mess kids up for future relationships.
Raising my daughters not to settle for boys that let their moms cross boundaries like this! 💀
Really need to raise them not to get involved with women like them. All these moms are just worried about women like themselves.
Yep
Eyooooo...!!! 👐
Exactly! And I have both boys and girls.
I have always told my daughter NEVER date a mamas boy
This is wild. My fiancé's mother has two boys and was unable to have more children. She wanted to try again for a girl, but figured the closest thing she could have to a daughter is a daughter-in-law, so she said she always wanted a great relationship with whomever her sons end up with. Needless to say, her and I have a great relationship and women like these toxic boy moms need clinical help.
thank you for calling out toxic behaviors for what they are. people need perspective!
What’s crazy is when they say crusty daughter they are talking about literal children…
The boys that grow up with these boy moms either never talk to their mom again, or rely on them for the rest of lives to function
Yep! My husband is probably never taking to his mom again. Her own doing. Really sad.
My cousin was raised by a single mom, who never told us who the father was…in over 40 years. When he got married, it was fireworks, for sure. He sided with his wife and now she doesn’t see him or his kids.
Yes! Our situation wasn’t really like this, but I would say it still Falls to the category. My husband told his mom that she did not want him to pick aside. But she kept pushing and found out that it wouldn’t be her side.
yep. my parents were always very pandering to my brother. now, my adult brother is unable to even turn on a stove without needing my mother to do so for him because he says he thinks cooking is scary. she doesn’t understand why he’s not more independent. gee, i wonder why…
I suspect that one of my closest friends is the son of a boy mom. I used to think it was sweet that he had a close relationship with his mom because he would always tell me that he was doing this or that for her after work or on weekends even though he was working 12 hour shifts and often only had Sundays off. But the more I got to know him, the more I realized that the reason he was always with her is because she relies on him for absolutely everything. She treats him like a husband. He’s an only child and she raised him alone. He told me that she has a lot of trauma because his dad was awful to her and she’s taken it out on him over the years (I’ve seen a photo of his dad and they look a lot alike). But then because she’s so dependent on him, he feels guilty not being around to help her even though she’s perfectly healthy and able-bodied. He’s been wanting to move out of state for so long mainly to get away from her but he also stays because of her. He’s mentioned that he really wants marriage and a family and he hasn’t told me anything specific but he told me that he realized his mom has been “gaslighting” him for years, she’s extremely overbearing, and that she tells him he’s just like his dad. He’s a really nice person and is also handsome, so he’s the type that could definitely take his pick but I don’t think he’ll be free until she’s totally out of the picture. They fight a lot and he told me that he knows he won’t miss her when she passes, he said he’ll probably feel relieved more than anything.
I only have 1 older sister but when I tell you that my mother told me throughout my childhood, to my face that my sister was her favorite daughter.. also my mother had 3 miscarriages before I was born & she always reminded me of that in the worst way. Holding it over my head as if she shouldn't have had me. We don't talk much anymore in my adulthood.
That’s a horrific thing to say. God loved you and knew you before you were born. John 3:16 ❤ you are loved more than anything.
The first trend is so wholesome when people do it for their daughters, and then it just gets weird when the boy mums jump in. Like for ppl with daughters, they’re making sure they don’t accept poor treatment, that they know their whole worth, so they won’t be taken advantage of. And then with the boy mums it’s like making sure he won’t accept anything less than being waited on hand and foot bc he has a superiority complex lmao
I am a mother of 2 boys. My 8 year old asked me if its OK if I am not his valentine this year. I bought the girl her favorite candy, her favorite flowers, and told my son to be a gentleman.
that’s how it should be ❤ good mother right here
This is so sweet and wholesome I'm gonna gag😂❤❤❤
I hope my daughter meets a boy with a mom like you one day !
As a mother of 4 daughters, I would be VERY VERY concerned if this was the type of mother-in-law my daughter had to endure. Yuck
Yuck is the right word. 🤮
Reddit is full of these poor unfortunate girls who find out far too late they married a Massive Momma's Boy whose so emeshed with MIL they can never have a good marriage
Please do. I wish I had listened to my mom more about my ex and his family dynamic and wished she further discussed it with me before things got extremely ugly and traumatic for me. She brought up concerns about his relationship with his mother and I kind of shrugged it off a little or made excuses. I wish I didn’t because she meddled so hard and caused so many issues and fights. She poisoned his view of my family and made him think I was stealing him away from her and that my family was toxic and so much more. Two nights before my best friend’s wedding she threw a fit and caused a huge fight between them. I was there downstairs. It got really bad he left the house for the night and I didn’t know what happened or what started it. They didn’t talk for over a year. He never told me what happened. He just claimed that he didn’t know what her problem was. It Came out after I left him that she texted him that night if he left with me to go to the wedding don’t bother coming home. He was living with her in the split level house. She had the upstairs apartment and he and eventually me as well had the downstairs. I still don’t know all of the details but he told me basically that the fight started because of that text, he went upstairs to find out what was wrong and she was threatened by me. We had been dating maybe 6-7 months at that point. She caused fights at holidays and caused him anxiety because she would throw fits if we had plans to go to my parents even though I tried making plans with her yet was told to do whatever. I tried to work with her on a lot. Found out that she told my ex she thought all he was to me was a check mark in my life’s list of things I wanted to do. Like find a husband or whatever. She was feeding him anxiety and pretending to be caring and supportive of me yet going back to him and using it against me.
Save your daughters from years of trauma and abuse. Talk to them about healthy family dynamics and to take a look at their future partners family.
I had an awful ex mother in law who was a "boy mom," and I married her "baby." She was awful bc I was taking her baby away. When we split up, she did everything she could to get rid of me and ruin my life. I will warn my daughters about women like this.
I had a MIL like that. When my ex and me argued they slept in the same bed to make me “jealous”
These woman are nuts! I can't even imagine acting this way with my son.
This is giving the same energy as the men who tell their baby girls they can’t date till they are 30. Why are we thinking about children like this?
The pickme to boymom to monster-in-law pipeline is terrifying and real.
The way Avery Woods prefaced her excitement over having a boy with "I was a tomboy growing up" SCREAM pickme. And now she's being a pickme putting down HER OWN DAUGHTER. Absolutely SICK.
Yes! Exactly what I was thinking
I CAN BEAT KIKI IN FIGHT 💀💀
I worked with a girl who is a “tomboy”, she’s very into sports and isn’t very feminine in her appearance. Nothing wrong with that. But she hasn’t grown out of the “ew, pink is girly” phase (she’s 30) and she once said that if she has kids, she only wants to have boys because girls are boring. That was so wild to me because she has both brothers and sisters and she seems close to her sisters even though they’re hyper-feminine. She also has more girlfriends than guy friends, and I know those girls and they’re also hyper-feminine. Idk, it’s so weird because she’s an otherwise very nice person but when it comes to things that are “girly”, she puts them down so much and acts like it’s beneath her.
You literally just summarized my MIL O_O I didn't even realize it until just now. Holy shit.
the same pick me boy mom rarely showing her son in her videos, but has no issue exploiting her daughter and clearly sees how her daughter videos get way more saves than her own and doesnt care what creeps are doing with them. how can someone hate their own gender so much that it also reflects how they treat their daughter because this is what this screams. she has no issue objectifying and getting a bag using her daughter regardless of the consequences but also resents her because making voice overs talking about your dauhter's "rolls" and attriuting this rude toxic voice on her and introducing the world to her in this way is not out of love
All you have to do to realize how CREEPY these moms are is to reverse it and imagine a man were talking this way about his daughter. Everyone would be freaking out!
Right?! The dads version is sitting on the front porch with a double barrel saying you better not hurt my baby girl or expecting any man in her life to treat her with respect
Mini-wife syndrome and it's disgusting
I feel like that is also already pretty normalized
Dads already are protective over their daughters.
@@BRhymesss Yep
the way she talks about her sons photos are exactly how I giggle over my crushes photos as a hormonal teenage girl... not smth to be proud of
I agree. I notice some mothers criticizing every little thing about their daughters but basically letting their sons be coddled. They don’t hold their sons accountable for toxic masculinity.
I’ve warned my daughters about these women. If they encounter mothers like these while dating, I’ve advised them to RUN. These women are doing their sons a great disservice and it’s sad. They’re not raising their sons to be respectful and loving partners to anyone but them. My daughter is dating her first boyfriend. She came home and said “Mom, his mom is normal and funny and nice to me and not a creepy boy mom” all excitedly. Don’t be a creepy boy mom. I’ve found that referring to yourself a “boy mom” is one of the first warning signs. We’re moms. That’s it.
Good for your daughter 😊
Same - I told my daughter about this because she watched my husband’s mother treat me terribly because she hated me - I stole her boyfriend.
It’s not a worthwhile endeavor to live with a MIL who resents you with zero possibility of growing out of it. So it’s best to just watch for it while she’s dating and avoid getting into a relationship with a guy whose mother is unhealthily obsessed with him.
It’s not all of us boy moms 😭 I would never do any of this disgusting shit with my son 🤮 honestly didn’t even know about this whole crazy nasty boy mom shit until this video , I know there are moms like this with their sons , but never to this extent … it’s disgusting and I would never do anything to jeopardize my sons future with ANYONE … this is just 🤮🤮
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well, thankyou for having a brain LOL ☺️🖤. we really do appreciate it.
like OP commenter said tho, calling yourself a, “boy mom” is kind of weird because you’re just a Mother 🖤.
you don’t really ever hear, “Girl Mom!” because a lot of Mother’s say, “Boy Mom!” to show that they are their son’s, “first boyfriend” 🤢.
if you call yourself a, “Boy Mom” but are encouraging your son to be respectful & showing him you will like his girlfriends, i don’t see a problem with it 💜.
thankyou for teaching your son to be a decent human being. you obviously are a good human, too 🖤.
Cool story
Mother of girls here. Why do we have so much negativity towards daughters? I love my girls.
My MIL favors her daughters. Not quite as bad, but it really harmed her sons too. She now favors her granddaughters.
I think this type of favoritism sucks either way.
The amount of times ive heard grown women talk about how they would never ever want to have daughters because theyre sooo much more difficult than boys? and like it was agreed upon this group of ladies. It was so weird
@@mariya_tortilla because people literally expect girls ti be perfect and over raise them and under raise boys
@@mariya_tortillaI would be terrified to have a boy tbh. Like raising a man scares me lol
Sucks. I grew up and albeit my mom was emotionally exhausted she did do favoritism. And it hurt. She projected all her stuff on me and gave me body dysmorphoia. I already had alot of truama and experienced it at school, at home everywhere. I had no escape and it sucked. Usually kids have a safe space at home. I didn't. It deeply effected me and still does. Only reason I haven't cut my mom out like I did my neglectful dad is she agreed to and participated in therapy when I was in temp foster care.
My boyfriend is the oldest of three boys, and when I met his mom she looked at me and said “I love my boys with all my heart, but I’ve always been excited for the day they get a girlfriend because that’s the day I gain a daughter” she is the sweetest and I have a great relationship with her. She proves that it’s possible to have boys, love them, and not be creepy about it
My MIL is odd but she’s been nothing but welcoming to me. She does see me as a third daughter…sometimes it gets a little much. But nothing on these terrifying “boy moms”.
I have 3 boys. They absolutely have my whole heart, but I am teaching them to be contributing members of a household so that when/if they decide to have a partner, they contribute and don't add to the mental load of their spouse. Personally, while I love them deeply, I can't relate to never wanting them to "leave me" because I think watching them blossom into successful adults is the greatest gift a parent could ask for.
Kids should not be content. Period. Parents willingly giving up their children’s privacy, knowing what perverts are doing with that content…it’s absolutely disgusting.
As if making them content isn't bad enough. They are abusing them as well . These women are crazy.
I have 3 children & the oldest 2 are 10 (boy) & 7 (girl). They both constantly ask me to make them a RUclips channel or to post videos of them on my social media. I refuse though because the last thing a child needs is social media PERIOD! I really don’t understand how these mothers can think this is good idea. All these RUclips family channels are toxic af. I would not want that for my children. Of course my children think I’m so mean & the worst for not letting them do it😂😩
I stopped posting my kid’s pictures a long time ago. Then I recently just shut off my social media.
@katiepg6168 they might think you're mean, but at the end of the day, you are doing right by them. Whether they say thank you later in life doesn't even matter. What matters is that they are safe. It's our main responsibility as parents, keeping them safe and healthy.
I agree. Keep children off your content it is so incredibly selfish. These saccony jolys on here. There boy now is all over there channel and saying there now a girl it's abuse. I feel so much for these kids. Dad challenge podcast highlights these channels
this is emotional incest, which is a form of abuse!! it’s so disturbing, and as a daughter of a mother who treated her son (my brother) a lot different than me, i feel so bad for those daughters. these moms are going to get a huge reality check when their daughters get older and choose to distance themselves.
Exactly. It's so gross.
👏👏 YES! Daughters/women are normally the ones who maintain and cultivate familial bonds and plan events like birthdays, holidays, will take care of parents as they age, etc. Most sons/men don’t engage in the same social behaviors. Pushing away your daughter may have serious unintended consequences as boy moms reach senior age.
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Not to mention when their sons fall in love and bail on them! Because…ya know…they’ll want to be with a person they can be in love and have sex with, like a normal human.
YOU ARE SO RIGHT! KEEP ON!!! Love your honest and educated content. Rare these days.
I'm a mom of 6. 1 girl and 5 boys. This is all so uncomfortable. I couldn't imagine acting like these women towards their sons and the comments about any future daughter in laws is horrendous. Thankful to not be a mom caught up in the social media scene. They are definitely toxic.
As a mom of three boys (no daughters), we don’t claim these women. We aren’t all like this. This is beyond bizarre and unhealthy. I feel bad for those kids. They will struggle with appropriate relationships. This is why people go no contact when they’re older.
Thank you! I know most moms are not like these weirdos.
I always thought the im a boy mum trend was parents getting their boys to be useful and cooking etc so their new wives didn't have to do everything... Seriously years ago that was the trend not so they didn't need a woman and were stuck to us!! I'm a boy and a girl mum and I love both my kids .. we discussed Xmas with my son recently as he said someone said he wouldn't have Xmas with us when he was older and it upset him so I explained we could have Xmas on a different day so both him and his sister could have xmasses at two places!! I mean seriously who told him that at ten??!
Really it was heartbreaking to see them come home and talk about their first crush and have their mothers react like that. It was gross.
Wow, you know it all, huh? Mom leaves one RUclips comment and you think you have their whole family dynamic figured out. Shame on you and your arrogance.
I absolutely agree with you 100%.
it’s really disgusting how many parents are fine selling their children’s safety for money and attention. It’s depressing.
I'm honestly starting to question the validity of universal suffrage based on how warped and stupid the average person is. I'm not saying we should decide who gets a say based on race or sex and I get that literacy tests were used poorly in the past, but is it really the worst idea to have some sort of standard before validating someone's opinion? We're even talking about letting felons and people that can't be bothered to get an ID vote. Maybe we're going in the wrong direction.
The next generation of parents won’t even bat an eyelid as they were raised on screens and social media. This is the new normal. No consent and exploiting your family for views and likes is the G to the O.
I find pretty much all social media content a depressing window on our society, generally
I just started watching your vids tonight. I don't comment on RUclips vids much, but I have to say, your integrity, passion, intelligence, compassion, and overall wonderful decency is hard to not comment on.
Keep up the great work!
Much love and respect from Canada. 🇨🇦💙
“She dosnt look anything like me. You don’t look anything like you either” 😭 GAGGED 33:07
My bf had a mom somewhat like this. We dated in high school for 3 years and i finally had to walk away. I loved him so much but his mom. Wow. Ten years later we found each other again. He told me he realized what his mom was doing and he went very, very low contact. We've been back together for going on 15 years now and just within the past 2 years we started allowing his mom to our home. Its absolutely amazing how different she is now! I actually got a random text from her that simply said "thank you ♥️". Nothing needed to be said after. We both understood. Life is much nicer now that she finally realizes her sons happiness was ultimately what she wanted for him. These moms here? They are going to have a lifetime of weirdness and misery and some grossness!
I was thinking that a lot of these moms are inadvertently showing their sons what type of women not to date but not in the way they think they are. I can’t imagine having a mom like that & then wanting to date anyone else who was remotely like her.
I had a similar experience with a MIL that learned from her toxic past. She realized i was not going anywhere.
I'm so happy for you because my in-laws are not fans of me and have publicly disrespected and treated me horribly... in front of my kids even. My husband knows it's wrong but he's used to shutting up and dealing. But now that his wife and kids are involved, he's realizing just how bad her narcissistic traits are and standing up more. It's a long journey for him and to know if my kids will ever have their only living grandparents in their lives. But I'm proud of my husband for fighting through his dislike of confrontation and doing what needs to be done. I don't blame him. I HATE arguing, fighting, negativity. But when it comes to my family, I don't play with that narcissistic bullshit.
I'm glad things changed for the better for you and your relationship❤
My mother in law was very similar to these woman. Unfortunately she never learned her lesson not to meddle in our personal business and cross boundaries before she passed away. We ended up having to go no contact with her all together unless it was an emergency.
It should be: making sure my son can cook cuz one day he’ll be a grown ass man and that’s a life skill.
Haha! Commented b4 you said that! Great minds here. 🎉❤
All I can think is can you also teach him how to do laundry, change a diaper, and load the dishwasher. Sincerely; girl aunt (I'm not having kids but we're all girls on my mom's side and none of my nieces deserve a man who can't care for himself)
And he should be able to feed HIS family. His own partner and children, not his mom.
@@MK-Hogan PREACH!
Teaching my son to cook, so your daughter can have a life partner not another child to care for
Being kind to your daughter in law is the best way to get your son’s future family for the holidays. Most men will literally stay in their own home in their man cave if their wife doesn’t make them go somewhere.
“Run for the hills, girls, I don’t know if there’s a man alive worth this mess…” THERE’S NOT. Know why?? Not only is the mother unhinged, but the adult children of this parent will be absolutely HORRIBLE partners with alll sorts of codependency issues -- IN PARTICULAR with Mommy, and this NEVER ENDS, never. Believe me there.
These are the same moms who are shocked when their son grows up and cuts them out of their lives. And then they still will blame his girlfriend/wife for "turning him against her"
Yup ha I had to force my husband to go to family events for years and finally I stopped and were no contact. It’s my fault though
@@madisencrapo7543do tell. 😅
Yup. That is 100% true. My mother in law is like this and yes she blames me for him wanting nothing to do with her. She can't see it understand it. She accused me of kidnapping my husband. We're happy away from the family. We laugh over the ridiculous things they have said and done. They believe this crap. It's scary.
Like Cindy Watts. She was a proper crazy boy mom. Even blaming her dead daughter in law for her murder.
@@whitneyanders5945 no she didn't. Lmao! That's weird thinking of Chris Watts as a boy when he supposedly killed his children.
That mom that jumped on her son after the game is disgusting
I agree. My son played sports of all kinds and of course I went out in the field after games and we took pics, and gave congratulatory hugs, but never once would I have ever wrapped my legs around my son. In fact, if any girl had run up and hugged my son that way I would have corrected her and let her know that is not appropriate.
I thought it was his girlfriend when I saw the photo 💀
@@lizabeck1221Do you realise what you just said?! OF COURSE IT IS ‘appropriate’ for the girls of his social circle to connect with him this way. It is inappropriate for you to break it up. That is the Oedipus/Jocasta concept we’re discussing here.
@@mrlawilliamsukwarmachine4904I think that’s an unfair take when we don’t know the age of her son at the time. As a preteen or teen girl, yes, jumping on a guy and wrapping your legs around him and snuggling for a prolonged period of time (especially in front of the guy’s family) is inappropriate.
That was the breaking point for me personally.
Thank you for your voice Kiki! You introduced me to anti MLM content and your moral compass continues to be a “true north”!
Imagine if the genders were reversed, people would report almost immediately, not jump to defend them socially.
The way you protect these kids identities in a way that their own parents don’t ☠️🥲
As a mother to a boy, this gives me such major ick. Tell me your trauma with men is unresolved and is projecting into your children without telling me your traumas with men is unresolved and you’re projecting onto your children. It’s weirdo behavior.
super weird
I have three boys, this stuff makes me want to barf, it literally makes me sick to my stomach, I had a mother that was like this with my brother and I was treated horribly, the trauma it causes is immense, I feel so bad for the daughters in this situation, especially with their moms being in an age where they post all this crap on social media, like your daughters will see this, you know that right? It infuriated me for them.
Not to mention the effects it is having on the sons! The relationship lines between a mother and a son have to be clearly defined. If at any time they ever become blurry to the child you're giving them a serious serious complex. Like I'm not even playing serial killers are made this way! This is abuse definitely mental. borderline sexual if this was a man with his daughters the cops would have already been called!
Yup it is definitely trauma with men
My mom treated my brother so much better than me..I basically had to raise myself. My dad also treated my brother better. My mom would yell at me for everything he did. I once had vindication and it was so amazing! This random lady saw what happened at the store and came up to my mom and told her "you're yelling at the wrong child" clearly that woman experienced what I was going through. My mom for a instance had a moment of clarity which was nice. After that she went a little easier on me.
this is the exact same with girl dads, my own father is so obsessed with mine and my brothers love life, constantly saying like ‘you’re gonna dance with a boy one day’ but is in FULL DENIAL about me having a boyfriend, he treats me in the same way as my own mum, its too weird sometimes for me. The way the mothers treat their sons remind me of how my dad treats me 💀
Thanks for teaching me to never say 'boy mom' about myself again. Ever!
The mom hugging her football player son...wow. It's like an infatuation with raising a boy you would have had a crush on in high school. *shiver*
it's so cringy, ugh, it's probably illegal...
Pretty wanna-be rich wine mom defending the ‘boy mom’ for content must not own a single mirror because her rationale reads like that of a serial killer- *’NOMG LOOK WHAT YOU MADE ME DO!’*
I thought that was his sister at first.
Covert mom and football son!!! Without a doubt
It's so gross!!
I'm a mom of a grown 29 year old son. I thought being a "boy mom" meant just rough and tumble play...... these women are weird and creepy! I loved seeing my boy date and grow and be happy. I want a daughter-in-law that makes him happy.
Yes we have a bond and he will always be my baby boy no matter how old he is...but I want him to bond with his soul mate more. I got the willies listening to these women.....maybe they should be renamed "pick me Moms"
This!!! Im boy mom of a toddler I always say boy mom because of the stereotypical boys antics and chaos. Yeah I'll feel a sting on his wedding day but not out of competition but because my baby is growing up like a father feels for his daughter it doesn't have to be weird and shouldn't over power the joy of the day either I expect a little sting like "my little baby 😢" since we do give them away in a sense like the dad's do daughters but I WANT him to find the same kind of love from a marriage like me and his father have. I want to see my daughter in law in her gown and look at her with love and joy as well. We can have that love for our boys and still have room to love their future and partner as well.
I thought the same thing my son is 25. Things like this make me sick to my stomach
Same. My son is 32. I for sure wanted a boy, but it's because I was raised on a farm and helping my dad work on cars and stuff. BUT I also have two daughters. I love them all equally but differently. I hadn't even heard the term "boy mom" until this video. Sooo weird...
@@alexes1381 Your relationship with your son sounds amazing and you sound like you love him so much!!! I hope you have a great time with your son at all stages
I love my sons very much, and I have a wonderful daughter in law because I never looked at my son like he was my boyfriend that some girlfriend wanted to steal. We have a normal relationship and now I have a gorgeous granddaughter too!
These women are absolutely not normal.
I taught both my son and my daughter household skills so they wouldn't be incapable and ignorant spouses to anyone. We have to do our best!
You’re the only RUclipsr who keeps it real! I love your content. SUBSCRIBED!
How crushing it must be to hear your mom talk about how she loves you but your sibling “has her heart.” That is lasting damage.
Oh but having kids is supposed to instantly make you a better person 😂. These boy moms forgot that memo clearly. They are overgrown mean girls.
Even if you have a favorite you should never reveal to anyone who that is.
Right and then will be clueless as to why their daughter never comes around once she leaves the nest 🤦🏽♀️ feel so bad for daughters with mothers like this smh
As a boy mom, this is disgusting behavior that they’re trying to get male validation from their son. Sick.
also a boy mom here, these women FREAK ME OUT!
Also a boy mom…. This behavior towards their sons is disgusting and unhealthy
How would these women feel if their husband’s mother was like this? I’m sure some are and they probably hate them for being so clingy and think they’re pathetic for trying to compete with the woman their son chose to marry. It’s absolutely terrifying
Actually, they probably have really weak/unhappy or failed relationships and are looking for love in their sons. It’s sick.
I just found your channel last night & im obsessed!!! You are everything girl
As a mother of two boys (men now), I find this extremely bizarre and very disturbing
There are a lot of people, probably 99% of the population and especially the baby boomers, that did not heal from their own emotional neglect and childhood and had children for the wrong reasons and convince themselves otherwise. You have to put the work in to do your own inner child healing and Shadow work, to learn to become a whole person without the approval or accolades or attention of someone else. And many people will find it wherever they can get it and have no idea how inappropriate and unhealthy it is and how much damage they're doing to another, it's very very very very common. The mothers are what's considered vulnerable covert narcissist who will likely play the victim and not realize that they are parentifying their boys and turning them into their husbands. Some people have children just to look for something to love them and put on a really great show.
Right I have two boys that are now good men. I find this behavior disturbing too. I don’t watch TikTok except what comes over to RUclips. I had no idea this was a thing.
@@Stefistat I had no idea either
@@jenifernadeau Baby Boomers? Us baby boomers still mostly had our moms at home with us, instead of being in daycare, and we were taught to behave ourselves! Most of us were NOT neglected! Try again.
I also have two boy's. They are still young. This is soooo strange.
Foot ball hug: correction lady. He did not pick you up, you threw yourself in the air at him and forced him to catch you. Creepy! 😂
Thank you! I was waiting on her to point that out in the video but didnt
I noticed it also. NOT a good look.
her caption is cps call worthy lmfao that woman is a freaaaak
Who wears high heels to a football game where you are going up and down bleachers? Oh and of course on the grass where you sink in heels. She knew exactly what she was doing when she threw herself at her son and wrapped her legs around him. She is an attention wh0re!
Just came across your channel today, and after the 2nd video, knew I had to subscribe. I love your content! You're super intelligent with a wide vocabulary, and I'm binging your videos.
Thank you for making a video like this ! Such an important topic
I'm guessing the reason some of these boy moms seem to love their sons more is because they feel threatened, jealous, and in comeptition with their own daughters. The same way they feel threatened, jealous, and in competition with their sons girlfriends. Ridiculous.
Yep, got it in one.
Yep. I lived it.N C for decades.
There are so many takes to this situation and none of them are healthy.
Dude this makes so much sense. I was like I'm a girl, but why is this my mom. 😬 (Don't worry, I haven't talked to her in years and I'm in therapy lol.)
thats just tragic ☹️
“Why are we tearing people down??”
Oh you mean like these women are tearing down their daughters and other people’s daughters?
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You are so witty and sooo on point!
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So glad you're bringing this up its bothered me for years. These women are using their sons to fill a void in their life thats missing especially the single moms they're the absolute worst about it in my experience. Like please. Get a bf lady you're disgusting.
If someone told me that grown women were going to make disturbing incestuous videos of their sons and start fights with their sons' imaginary girlfriends, I would have been in disbelief. Now after seeing these boy moms I can't help but feel sickened by these mother's behavior.
And the behavior of the courts that gave them custody.
These moms need to be on a CPS watch list. Seriously. I wanted to vomit and had to take breaks from this video.
@@chelsmaria Domination of all available men by women through extraction of their utility, sons or not, emotional or otherwise, is typical female behavior for our species normally.
We live in a de facto matriarchy in the West, despite all the propaganda to the contrary, so uncontrolled female exploitation of male utility, and the degradation of female competition to secure access to that utility, will become more an more commonplace.
There is a silver-lining however. No matriarchy is sustainable in our species, and they implode under the combined weight of feminine reproductive value and feminine emotional instability. It will collapse quickly, and painfully for everyone. The symptoms are already on full display:
"Boy, _I am the table." (The limited resource of a human female by nature is more valuable, they instinctively know this.)
"I just _feel_ like I deserve more... than anybody else." (Uncontrolled hypergamy leading to delusional self-valuations.)
Putting them on a CPS watch list will do nothnig, there will be few, if any consequences, and more likely, based on past performances, they will just double-down.
Raised 2 boys, 1 passed away as an adult unmarried and the other one is gay.
These women have no clue what they are doing to their children. 😮
@@axollotat least they raised straight sons who will have kids on their own 😂
Avery Woods exploiting her daughter in so many horrendous ways makes me sick to my stomach. Thank you for calling this disgusting behavior out. That poor little girl :( she deserves better
It's sickening. Laws need to change yesterday and hold these people accountable.
It's terrible.
That's why I love "The Dad Challenge Podcast" - his whole channel is about exposing family vloggers that particularly exploit their children
Ruby Franke, part 2.
This will be soul crushing for her little girl as she enters her teen years .
i knew it would be bad, but it was wayyyy worse than i expected
Love your content!! 👏 Found your Matt and Abby video and have been binging the rest since then! Thankful others feel the same with the rise of families/kids tiktok pages 😩😩 it’s all so disturbing
So this is how evil mothers in law are created
What strikes me is these women, when called out, run to the defense of "YOU'RE gross for thinking it's something romantic/sexual. Normalize loving your children!"
I saw a video yesterday of a dad prepping an insanely overly romantic bath full of rose petals, a dozen roses, mood music, mood lighting, salts, oils, a little drink..... for his daughter.
It was the weirdest thing. And moms immediately used the same "YOU'RE weird" defense.
This is just so icky and it's setting these kids up for enmeshment and codependency.
A few years ago I saw someone saying in a video. Your daughter will date someone that treats her as good as you do as father. Maybe this father preps the bath that way to let het know she is a queen and she is worth the effort. 🤔 What do you think, could it be good intention?
Which can also result in her getting involved with loverboys who do overly romantic in the beginning before mistreating her.
I think the context of the 'nice behaviour' is very important to explain, teach and show the kids.
@@theyarnycaterpillar3563 Or maybe the father can model a good relationship by doing nice/romantic things for the mother?
@@thejessmajeski Well not always the mom is still alive or maybe dad isn't dating. He could still show respect to friends of the family and repect waitress etc.
@@theyarnycaterpillar3563you can set up a fun bubble bath without making it romantic. It implies a level of relationship that would give most of us icky feelings.
@@theyarnycaterpillar3563I think he could do that in a much more wholesome, healthy way. A romantic bath with rose petals etc has extremely creepy innuendo.
Someone calling themselves a boy mom is such a red flag 😂.
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Not really. If they're a mom and have a son they're a boy mom same as a girl dad or girl mom. It's just the creepy things they say that give boy moms a bad name
Right my sister has 5 boys and I have 5 girls.. she calls herself a boy mom and although she’s not THAT kind of boy mom, it still makes me cringe SO hard. Lol ❤
I use to call myself a boy mom...til these people and I had a girl..having both is such a fun journey
that's how i feel about the whole "dog mom" thing - it just makes me roll my eyes up into my head so far
This is such a good video and great points, but I couldn’t focus in the beginning of the video because of your adorable cat in the background🤣
awesome video 👏
I am mum of 2 daughters & 1 son. Love them all to bits & try teach them all to be morally good & respectful members of society…