Thank you. You just described my situation. I think you saved me from a lot of future hurt I’m already feeling resentful angry and frustrated. I must end it now
He shared childhood memories, stayed in touch with me for 7yrs, poured his heart out to me, we went out and he even invited me to go out of state with him, but at the end it felt like a fwb situation, he guards his phone. He is divorced, commitment phobe. Makes me sad. I walked away almost 2 weeks ago. It's like he loves me but couldn't handle his feelings so pushed me away.
I guess I'm lucky this time. He talks about his time, his children, has told his family about me. There has been no sex, at 8 weeks of dating the desire and want is there but there has been no rush to bed.
I'm fine with being a booty call bc I have autism and it's hard for me to have relationships with guys so booty calls are fine by me sex doesn't mean anything to me its just fun
What if the person is confusing to even understand so it’s all mixed and could be the opposite of the signs, like what if he’s more personal with you and y’all are friends but still only has a sex based relationship, I’ve asked this one guy 2-3x now if what we had was just sex or if we’re actually friends because I don’t mind it being either or both, I just need to know, the last time I asked he said “if it was just sex I would’ve said so” and confirmed once more we’re actual friends, but we’re only around one another normally when it’s just sex related, we both have our medical card so theres weed being one reason to hang but the fact that HE talks about cuddling and spending time with one another, sleeping with each other which wouldn’t be so pretty for him to see lol, he talks about just hanging out and smoking, we’ve talked several times but because he was shady before I have my doubts if he’s legit but I just don’t know, I overthink and it eats me away but then he proves my doubts wrong by becoming social, then becomes distant whenever things get a little more close with one another, idk if he’s just scared of his feeling because he’s that type of person or if he’s really not interested, I need some insight please and thank you 🙏🏻
@@MatthewCoast but there’s also another dilemma. That is, I’m a woman who loves sex. Like really really loves it. So I’m ok, until I find the right guy, to have good sex with someone even if it’s not serious. Yet every single guy I seem to meet does not believe in commitment and if they do, it’s not with me because of my age. 🤷🏼♀️
Well, if you let men have access to you and your body without doing what I suggest, don't be surprised when they don't behave the way you want them to.
@@MatthewCoast you are 100% correct. And since I last wrote, I’ve stopped all of that and am only focusing on guys who are on the same page as me. Thank you for your wisdom and straight forwardness 🙏🏻🌈.
Someone can only play you if you let them.
true.
Thank you. You just described my situation. I think you saved me from a lot of future hurt I’m already feeling resentful angry and frustrated. I must end it now
He lead me on. Met his mum and sister and told me his heart wasn't in it after he got back
He shared childhood memories, stayed in touch with me for 7yrs, poured his heart out to me, we went out and he even invited me to go out of state with him, but at the end it felt like a fwb situation, he guards his phone. He is divorced, commitment phobe. Makes me sad. I walked away almost 2 weeks ago. It's like he loves me but couldn't handle his feelings so pushed me away.
This is all mean
Didnt love you. Be logical. Do you think that is love behavior? It is not. You lived him..you didnt want to accept the signs.
I guess I'm lucky this time. He talks about his time, his children, has told his family about me. There has been no sex, at 8 weeks of dating the desire and want is there but there has been no rush to bed.
Can play me,been there done that,see RIGHT THROUGH THEM RED FLAGS....BYE..😅😂
I was this not long ago and since then nothing happens in my Love Life anymore.
All this sounds familiar...
Yolanda Moore indeed
I'm fine with being a booty call bc I have autism and it's hard for me to have relationships with guys so booty calls are fine by me sex doesn't mean anything to me its just fun
Have some dignity
No Catherine , do not take yourself that way please .
No Catherine , do not take yourself that way please .
I’m the same way, all I need is to know that so I can act accordingly and seek nothing more if that’s the case
These signs are all pretty obvious.
Not me!
Oh not me he doesn't want to have sex he just not a phone person
What if the person is confusing to even understand so it’s all mixed and could be the opposite of the signs, like what if he’s more personal with you and y’all are friends but still only has a sex based relationship, I’ve asked this one guy 2-3x now if what we had was just sex or if we’re actually friends because I don’t mind it being either or both, I just need to know, the last time I asked he said “if it was just sex I would’ve said so” and confirmed once more we’re actual friends, but we’re only around one another normally when it’s just sex related, we both have our medical card so theres weed being one reason to hang but the fact that HE talks about cuddling and spending time with one another, sleeping with each other which wouldn’t be so pretty for him to see lol, he talks about just hanging out and smoking, we’ve talked several times but because he was shady before I have my doubts if he’s legit but I just don’t know, I overthink and it eats me away but then he proves my doubts wrong by becoming social, then becomes distant whenever things get a little more close with one another, idk if he’s just scared of his feeling because he’s that type of person or if he’s really not interested, I need some insight please and thank you 🙏🏻
That is called manipulation and bread crumbing, to get what he wants. 😢
100% of guys
It sounds like you need to meet different guys
@@MatthewCoast that’s EXACTLY what my mom always says lol. Yet they are all different! But the common denominator is me...so...
@@MatthewCoast but there’s also another dilemma. That is, I’m a woman who loves sex. Like really really loves it. So I’m ok, until I find the right guy, to have good sex with someone even if it’s not serious. Yet every single guy I seem to meet does not believe in commitment and if they do, it’s not with me because of my age. 🤷🏼♀️
Well, if you let men have access to you and your body without doing what I suggest, don't be surprised when they don't behave the way you want them to.
@@MatthewCoast you are 100% correct. And since I last wrote, I’ve stopped all of that and am only focusing on guys who are on the same page as me. Thank you for your wisdom and straight forwardness 🙏🏻🌈.
Women need to see this god dammit
If he talks to me about booty he better be referring to a shoe. You get the privilege with me after you sign on the dotted line, not a moment sooner.