"Tik Tok Ruined Our Relationship" w/ Ghost Hlubi & Seemah | Asking For A Friend | DEFINING

In this episode of 'Asking For a Friend', we talk about relationships, friendships and hustle in your 20s with Ghost Hlubi & Seemah #DEFININGAFAF #RoadTo200K
Send us your scenarios, our advice is free: forms.gle/AEcSTCgBrxrsv4QCA
PANEL:
Dennis Ngango: @Dennis Ngango (IG)
Noma Plaatjie: @nomacles__ (IG)
Bongani Baloyi: @Bongani_RSA (IG)
Ghost Hlubi: @Ghost.Hlubi
Seemah: @s.eemah_x
This segment was inspired by Cindryrella!
Producer: Dennis Ngango
Videographer: Bongani Baloyi + Gigabytes Productions
Host & Editor: Dennis Ngango
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[@DEFINING]

Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed seeing Ghost Hlubi & Seemah on the channel 🔥 Should they come back for #DEFININGLOVE ?? 👀👀 #RoadTo200K

[@thembelihlegema123]

Yea.!!!!❤

[@grace_mampofu]

Yes

[@roszarefilwe9081]

yes ❤

[@izzyh5806]

Yes please 😢

[@lisah_m3849]

Yes

[@hlo7166]

Noma is the girl!! I always love her perspective!!

[@DEFINING]

She’s 10/10

[@zuluthechosen_one]

S/O to Seemah for giving Khanya his flowers...we need more Girlfriends like her

[@DEFINING]

💯💯

[@seelogaboipewe1167]

Ah owai

[@dimakatsomolepo7443]

Compartmentalize your friends ☝🏾 and also what Noma said from 11:56
All your friends can't be your close friends, uzofa 🤣. Once you understand that your friends play different roles in your life in line with the timelines of communication, adult friendships become so much more manageable

[@DEFINING]

Easier said than done Sana

[@malibongwedladla6874]

One thing the Defining team will do? Deliver. Y'all deliver every time. You have a great eye for collaborators (like Asking for a friend episodes),! there's always good chemistry and you speak on things that actually matter to people. Shout out to you guys. May God give you more grace to reach the whole world ❤❤

[@DEFINING]

Thank you so much 🥹🥹❤️

[@hlengiwedlamini9830]

The wisdom that Noma has❤

[@DEFINING]

10/10

[@busisiweab9123]

Yesss ghost is right, give her another chance tell her to delete and if she refuse break up

[@Laviniatleonard]

Mm tiktok ruined our relationship and you thought it was theirs😂.

[@nonhlanhlaradebe2809]

Yes😂😂😭😭😭

[@bridgetmosarwe9629]

I feel like this was such a great episode, honestly Seemah and Ghost were the best people to talk about this with, honestly the best one so far ❤

[@DEFINING]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@tshepomoj_]

This the first time I have ever watched defining and this was the best, I actually needed this chat of relatability especially when you on the come up. Need more content like this hey! Love the balance chat on non-negotiables that was very tier.

[@DEFINING]

Thank you for Tshepo! Hope you subscribed ❤️

[@palesankondlo1395]

Twas nice to see our faves on a sit-down typa vibe❤️
Ey bandla, balance is a tough on. I agree with all that was said, you need to understand the season you’re in and honour that and sometimes even go to the extent of filling in your loved ones so they can understand too. I also agree with the non-negotiables because I believe those are the things that also keep you sane/grounded even through the grind.

[@DEFINING]

🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@busisiweab9123]

Ohhh but I understand Bongani is fair to cut someone of, that you have been helping to better themselves but bona at the same time they are lazy not helping themselves because i can help but at the end of the day you have to meet me half way by helping yourself yhoo or else ill leave you behind and be with people who takes themselves serious. This life thing you must be focused or you will die broke

[@DEFINING]

So true 💯

[@ofentsemonyele]

noma !!! im a 20 years old female and im learning so much from her ❤

[@itsnomacles]

I’m glad you find value in my words ❤️

[@DEFINING]

Love her ❤️

[@thembangwenya7563]

I thought it was a Defining Love episode lol

[@Kayt27982]

Sorry 😂 but It says Defining AFAF.. 🤭🤭

[@Botse_Maaboi]

Thought I was the only one 😂

[@DEFINING]

Soon 😆

[@thembangubeni99]

Asking For A Friend Never Disappoints Literally 😭🔥🔥🔥thanks for great content DEFINING 🙏🏼❤️

[@DEFINING]

Thank you Themba 🫶🏾❤️

[@Roy_trades]

The lady with glasses .. she concluded the whole video .. have daily goals that way you will be able to tackle anything that comes your way 🙌

[@DEFINING]

So true!

[@thembelihlegema123]

Yeap Sorisha’s Husband.!!!

[@BrownSkinnedSemuhle-eo5hv]

that’s was a very teaching session. as an individual I learnt a lot of things I can use in life from maintaining relationships to financial stability also to being successful while maintaining a healthy lifestyle. thanks guys that was amazing🏆

[@DEFINING]

Thank you so much 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@chaoana.lerato]

What a great episode.
Otherwise, a friend like Bongani is a need 🤞🏽

[@nokuthabamangena]

Noma🥹🥹🥹 you speak so much sense 14:58

[@DEFINING]

She was on to something 🔥🔥

[@lulekaponi370]

Such a wholesome episode ❤❤❤

[@DEFINING]

Dankoo

[@nolohopem4004]

Ohh please!!! I enjoyed this soo much

[@DEFINING]

Danko ❤️🫶🏾

[@amohelangboyce1991]

Why is it funny watching Ghost and seemah having a serious conversation 😂😂😂

[@DEFINING]

Come on Amohelang 🥲

[@Ngasii]

12:10: YES! I myself am the kind of person who is big on not only knowing what kind of friend a person is to me but what kind of friend I am to them together with the mutual dynamic we share within the friendship. It is covert but there is a constant mentall check-in to ensure that even if an element of outgrowing at any level happens that it needn't build into something that feel painfully uncomfortable.

[@DEFINING]

Such good points!

[@financefinessehubb]

Ghost: You know what part of being successful, you to surround yourself with successful people....
Seemah: blushing in love 🤌🏾🥺😊😊😂😂😂

[@Mogweriii]

LOL saw it too 😂❤

[@DEFINING]

❤️❤️

[@athidlova8246]

Loved this episode👌. Young and wise

[@DEFINING]

Thank you Athi ❤️

[@busisiweab9123]

After seeing the Thumbnail came running ❤️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💃

[@DEFINING]

❤️❤️❤️

[@siyanelisatomose2368]

I just love HBD's jacket plus green is my color❤

[@DEFINING]

Glad you like it too ❤️❤️

[@asisiphomamali9887]

Great episode❤very insightful

[@DEFINING]

Thank you ❤️

[@waronasediti7532]

Loved this so much❤

[@DEFINING]

Thank you ❤️

[@rixongilemalomane4293]

This was soo nice, i really enjoyed it

[@DEFINING]

Thank you 🥹🙌🏾

[@speakenglishwithashley]

I enjoyed it so much I didnt even realised it was over

[@DEFINING]

Thank you Ashley 🥹

[@leratomoepya478]

Loved this ❤

[@DEFINING]

Thank you ❤️

[@simthandilepreciousmayekis934]

Wholesome episode 🥹🙏

[@DEFINING]

Danko ❤️

[@seratiphaleng]

Everyone on this table is amazing in their own way, omg 🥺

[@DEFINING]

Thank you Serati 🫶🏾❤️

[@Liim2324]

Great conversation🔌 there’s something I learn🫂

[@DEFINING]

Thank you 🫶🏾

[@thandiedollar4789]

Watching this after their breakup 😢Ronaldo example not making time to have dinner with family now resonates.

[@happywings15]

That thing there’s no such thing as balance is true. You have to plan it out in the month. In a week you can’t do everything all at once, but fit it in since it’s a priority it may not fit easy but do it

[@THEESTARQUEEN]

I enjoyed this🥺❤️

[@DEFINING]

❤️❤️

[@thaat.gurl_ley]

Did y'all see at how Seemah looked and smiled at Ghost😊😍 11:08

[@DEFINING]

🥹🥹🥹

[@khanomukhuba5233]

I only knew about these 2 guests against my will through Twitter I've never looked through their content because of choice. I'm only watching this because it's on DEFINING and I know it's going to be good. ❤

[@itsnomacles]

We hope you were able to see a different side to them ❤️

[@DEFINING]

Thank you Khano 🫶🏾❤️

[@JustCaraDube]

This panel is so smart

[@DEFINING]

Thank you 🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@user-vx2xq3vi4o]

Bongs guys

[@Serah.kachokammanja_]

Enjoyed it👌❤

[@DEFINING]

Thank you

[@tshepang_gm]

I enjoyed this video so much 😊

[@DEFINING]

Thank you Tshepang

[@Diversity..]

Team Hlubi🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@DEFINING]

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@asavelamavika1591]

How about an influencer edition of asking for a friend. Bring back Seemah and Ghost with bo King Oumar, Thato, Zillewizy, Lebo, Segzy Unicorn and others.
Otherwise I enjoyed this video!!

[@DEFINING]

Have you seen the other influencer edition we’ve done 🫶🏾❤️

[@sasnippetsasnippet1429]

That was very very good episode it's so entertaining and so matured and mostly advices were given I loved it now I'm waiting on another episode 😂❤ subscribe y'all

[@DEFINING]

New episodes dropping soon 🫶🏾❤️

[@Mrcreacts]

its DEEP🔥

[@DEFINING]

🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@Blac_Kcandy03]

I agree with Ghost

[@DEFINING]

🙌🏾

[@SAMU_MTSHALI]

I need a friend like Bongani 😊

[@DEFINING]

He’s top 2 and not 2

[@kim121ful]

Balance doesn't exist, it's a scam😅

[@DEFINING]

So true 😂

[@MODIRWA]

Noma is so wise

[@DEFINING]

Very

[@theeoneroom8454]

I am excited for this one i am on few seconds already 😃

[@DEFINING]

Hope you enjoyed it ❤️

[@JustCaraDube]

That second scenario!!!😭 yho

[@DEFINING]

It was too real🥲🥲

[@Messiah925wadem_tingz]

They way they were busy say mhh 😂mhhh😂mhhhh

[@cheesecakelover48]

desperately waiting for a new video🥺

[@anelemaphumulo1488]

Listening to Seemah's views on the first scenario about that girl fetching her ex to do Tiktoks after Ghost pulled that mammi dearest stunt after their fresh break-up. Ghost is so childish and inconsiderate of other people's feelings, he would probably not date anyone who wouldn't be on his RUclips anytime soon.

[@liyemamazizi872]

“Maintaining the non-negotiables”

[@DEFINING]

NB‼️

[@JustCaraDube]

“Yho jow, ke kopa 20 tao “📍

[@DEFINING]

😂😂❤️

[@preciousdokwana6919]

What's Noma handles I wanna follow her

[@DEFINING]

@nomacles__

[@elizabethletsoalo5941]

😂😂😂😂❤ Dennis and miking Bongani 🤣🤣🤣👏🏿in his intro

[@DEFINING]

😂😂😂😂

[@coco_strawberry_]

I get Ghost's points

[@DEFINING]

Same

[@YouTuberscircle]

i agree with ghost the is no balance bro we gotta get the bag eyy buh its not always the case

[@DEFINING]

💯

[@nosiphokhambula5036]

can we please have defining love of Ghost and Seemah 🥺

[@DEFINING]

We’d love to see it ❤️

[@amarenteyi]

Well that didn't last😭💀

[@MISS_Ntuli]

@@amarenteyi 😂😂😂😂😂

[@DonRichliders]

My sister chose clout over respect ...

[@twitchthewonderboy]

"Mmmmmm....mmmmmmmmmm...mmmmmmm.....mmmmmmmm...yeahhhhh" everytime someone is talking. 😂😂

[@justzama3726]

Seemah undim wena i over think oko

[@JustCaraDube]

“Why le jola? Why le jola ? Why le jola?” 13:00💀

[@DEFINING]

😭😭😭

[@kekananellymokgaetsi6582]

Not me enjoying this😏

[@DEFINING]

🤪

[@sakhilenkomo1776]

20 billion people emhlabeni 😂🤣🤣 sae sabaningi boh

[@DEFINING]

😂😂😂

[@Koenat]

Call daddy g

[@DEFINING]

He’s been on DEFINING Before

[@Natasha-yv6os]

Bongani is talking nonsense his just running his mouth

[@itsorganist7540]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@asitandileyanxa3026]

Lol 20 billion

[@DEFINING]

😂😂😂

[@thefreak_tamii]

I love how all of you guys have different perspectives but all of those make sense on their own and also make sense together, I appreciate how all of you guys are open minded and I actually learnt from the discussion 🫶🏾🤍

[@DEFINING]

Thank you so much. It was a great group

[@user-us8kb5zc2x]

Lilitha Deliwe 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉😅😅😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@user-us8kb5zc2x]

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