I'll say this about the body count. What if it's a small number but with a lot of experience E.g having only 2 people but you had a lot of sex with one of them. Then having 10 only to find out each person was a one time thing with little to no satisfaction at all. That should at least be considered
There were sooo honest. I like that they didn't come here to succumb to society standards. They spoke their truth and gave us an insightful convo. LOTS OF LOVE❤
I remember seeing Sishii as a feature on TFG videos (iykyk 😂) and seeing his growth throughout these years has been so beautiful. I hope he remains faithful in his walk with God 🥹❤️
2:53 loved this. Sometimes us Christians dont prioritize that spiritual intimacy as much. We think once the physical intimacy is there, then we can build on that to get spiritual and mental intimacy. I love that this reminded us that once you align with someone spiritually, the rest can and does follow.
I loooove that they said it, finally someone said it!!! Hook up culture is not it! They don't wanna admit but deep down they know but they keep lying to each other and promoting lies. I hope our boys were listening, boy or girl your body is special❤
What Sishii said at 7:46 have a lot to do with the songs we listen to, the movies we watch even adverts everything is centred around sex so basically we are programmed to view sex in a certain way
I love their honesty and their energy. Their brotherhood/friendship is obviously one that encourages openness, a safe space, understanding without judgement.
God bless you Sishi for bringing God into this!!!!!!!! Sex ought to glorify God in every way❤… I love that you’re growing more in the knowledge of God!!!!
I agree that a lot of us are/were pressurized to have sex and the moment you do if then you realise that damn there's nothing bizarre about it and no need to rush but do it when you are ready. That's my two second of contribution don't come for me!!
Was having a conversation with my colleagues about virgin breaking that it was such pressure and after doing it I regretted there was nothing to write home about
Sishi after this I now love you even more...to hear a young famous person speak like this makes me wanna dance💃💃💃💃....listen Jesus is at work in your life you don't even have to say much. Keep it up Dude.
Seeing this & hearing these conversations from men because I remember in high school boys & girls were separated for these kinds of conversations. Girls were told that sex is spiritual & there are attachments and what not but most of the times the boys were just chilling basically. They should've also taught boys to be careful. To care about their bodies & wellbeing. To realise how deep the connection really is. It's really sad to see. But it's always beautiful seeing boys grow
14:09 - 14:13 These two are sick 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Also ladies and gentlemen let's gather around here for just 22:32 🙏🏿❤️ loved this. Very relevant, fruitful, informative and relatable as a member of this generation.
This was fun to watch... I still wish to be on defining but defining love ❤. Edit: I like what Sishii said that it has to be a conversation 10:45 . That's how comfortable ur partner should be during coitus. Sishii .. preach wena baba 🙌. Like that you put God first now 🙏.
This was amazing to watch and quite informative to say the least but mostly inspiring to see our generation speak so much sense and wisdom in topics that are "forbidden" in freindships/relationships.
I love this two🌝they made the conversation very much easier I so wish the people I always conversate with on such matters would watch this❤️💯everything happens spiritually before physically🫠
Finally🥺😑 they're also so well-spoken man !🥺🤒 i absolutely enjoyed this episode Defining❤ ! it's refreshing to see young men say things like these & think they way they do❤🤞🏾 keep it coming man !🙌🏾😌
Yeah having sex nje is actually boring because over time you realise that it starts to eat away at you and suddenly its not so amazing and great anymore. When you do everything for God/to glorify God it just makes it all amazing and worth it. At the end of the Day we were made for God's glory and glorifying him in everything puts for much meaning purpose and joy in it all ❤
The brothers are very straightforward and have an open mind to the questions but despite their conversation, their friendship is more like brotherhood🤝🏾
@@tshiamomasilo6830 True! That's why God encourages us not to engage in sex before marriage because it's not just a physical pleasure, it's also a spiritual benefit.
I'm watching this alone but I'm hiding my face with my hands. So embarrassing to see two young men talk about this. Geez. But we appreciate that there's a platform for these kinda topics.
I’ve always liked you both from watching Gomora, so I thought I’d listen to you hear and I must say, I’m amazed 😮😇 I love the fact that I drawn to you because of looks but little did I know that it was also because of a spiritual connection 🙏🏾😇 I had lost a little bit of hope in finding a spiritual partner but after listening to this, the little light of hope is back on. I pray that God continues to bless you both. Thank you for a wonderful and fruitful discussion 🙌🏾👏🏾
Their honesty and openness is so refreshing! Let us know what was your takeaway from today’s episode with Sishii and Seekay? #RoadTo250K
Not gqom as a mood setter, no words😭
I'll say this about the body count. What if it's a small number but with a lot of experience E.g having only 2 people but you had a lot of sex with one of them. Then having 10 only to find out each person was a one time thing with little to no satisfaction at all. That should at least be considered
@looloo9578 it's not about how many times, it's about the souls you connect with
You can tell Sishi takes his relationship with the Lord very seriously🥺 Well done little bro❤️
🥺❤️🙌 Yeah I Also Love and Respect that Very Much🙇🏽♀️
Right....and i love it.
Hearing someone from my generation speak such words of wisdom in front of nations assures me that I'm not stupid for not doing some things
when Sishi said:'Sex is actually supposed to glorify God.'i felt that since I'm on a celibacy journey.😭😭❣️
This is so amazing seeing young men speaking openly about issues regarfing sex.. Indeed sex is spiritual and should glorify God.
Thank you for tuning in 🥹
Sishii is so beautiful 😭
He is so fineeee😢❤❤
I was looking for this comment. He is so beautiful my ghad!!
There were sooo honest. I like that they didn't come here to succumb to society standards. They spoke their truth and gave us an insightful convo. LOTS OF LOVE❤
I personally don't think so. Or maybe I was expecting the characters they play
Thank you ❤️🔥
I remember seeing Sishii as a feature on TFG videos (iykyk 😂) and seeing his growth throughout these years has been so beautiful. I hope he remains faithful in his walk with God 🥹❤️
🥹❤️🔥
dude that’s my chat too!!
There's nothing more refreshing than youth that love Christ, especially young men. ❤️❤️❤️ God bless you.
these young men are a rare breed amongst us 😅 it’s so refreshing to get young gents who think like these two
2:53 loved this. Sometimes us Christians dont prioritize that spiritual intimacy as much. We think once the physical intimacy is there, then we can build on that to get spiritual and mental intimacy. I love that this reminded us that once you align with someone spiritually, the rest can and does follow.
I loooove that they said it, finally someone said it!!! Hook up culture is not it! They don't wanna admit but deep down they know but they keep lying to each other and promoting lies. I hope our boys were listening, boy or girl your body is special❤
Sishii is actual such a cool human being
Indeed
I love him sm❤️
Their honesty is soooo raw and their connection is flawless and they not sugar coating anything
Nothing at all 🔥
So proud of both guys, particularly Sishi for going against the grain (where sex is concerned) and being courageous about it.
What Sishii said at 7:46 have a lot to do with the songs we listen to, the movies we watch even adverts everything is centred around sex so basically we are programmed to view sex in a certain way
I love their honesty and their energy. Their brotherhood/friendship is obviously one that encourages openness, a safe space, understanding without judgement.
Definitely!
Teddy and Ntokozo are so matured, I love these boys😍😍
We need Oh small stuff and her husband on defining love and defining intimacy please!!!!❤
This!!!!!!
🎉please!!!
Yasssss
God bless you Sishi for bringing God into this!!!!!!!! Sex ought to glorify God in every way❤… I love that you’re growing more in the knowledge of God!!!!
I agree that a lot of us are/were pressurized to have sex and the moment you do if then you realise that damn there's nothing bizarre about it and no need to rush but do it when you are ready. That's my two second of contribution don't come for me!!
Thanks for contributing ❤️🔥
@@DEFINING 🙏
Ma'am, you are absolutely correct!
@@Mikateko_N ❤❤
Was having a conversation with my colleagues about virgin breaking that it was such pressure and after doing it I regretted there was nothing to write home about
This was beautiful. The level of maturity in these gents is insane ❤️❤️I wish I could hear Sishii speak more about his journey, I'm intrigued.
Ohhh please seekay is attractive 😭🔥❤️
Love how they said intimacy is spiritual ❤ Thank you defining.
Sishi after this I now love you even more...to hear a young famous person speak like this makes me wanna dance💃💃💃💃....listen Jesus is at work in your life you don't even have to say much.
Keep it up Dude.
Seeing this & hearing these conversations from men because I remember in high school boys & girls were separated for these kinds of conversations. Girls were told that sex is spiritual & there are attachments and what not but most of the times the boys were just chilling basically. They should've also taught boys to be careful. To care about their bodies & wellbeing. To realise how deep the connection really is. It's really sad to see. But it's always beautiful seeing boys grow
Their Brotherhood is on another level and i just love how honest and real they are😊👌
14:09 - 14:13 These two are sick 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Also ladies and gentlemen let's gather around here for just 22:32 🙏🏿❤️ loved this. Very relevant, fruitful, informative and relatable as a member of this generation.
Need a Defining Friendship episode from them
Wow I need this kind of friendship in my life, matured, raw, honest, and refreshing👌
Just 2 people who are self-aware and making decisions that are working for them. Love it, here. My standards just went a bar higher
I like how matured they are throughout the whole procedure.🎉
I love how Sishi said we must communicate on whether you're both up forgot or no...
Consent is so important
"It's always the cousins" - FR 😭
😭😭😭
DVSN is my go to music. Sept 5th album 🔥🔥
What a wholesome episode 👏🏾👏🏾
Love me some DVSN as well❤
This was fun to watch... I still wish to be on defining but defining love ❤.
Edit: I like what Sishii said that it has to be a conversation 10:45 . That's how comfortable ur partner should be during coitus.
Sishii .. preach wena baba 🙌. Like that you put God first now 🙏.
This was amazing to watch and quite informative to say the least but mostly inspiring to see our generation speak so much sense and wisdom in topics that are "forbidden" in freindships/relationships.
Please Defining friendship for them two
Its so refreshing to see young men speak so much wisdom on this topic. Thank you!
We really appreciated their stance! It’s so important for young men to see sex and intimacy holistically
Their friendship is amazing. They were very respectful when answering. I loved it ❤👍👍👍
I love their friendship I assume what they have is rare in the entertainment industry ❤️
Well believe it or not guys too can be besties or platonic soulmates.
This Convo was one for the books. I loved how they got deep on an emotional and spiritual concept.
When Seekay mentioned Sishi's song 😂😂"no you can"😭😂😂😂
Love the energy❤😊even went to look for the song
It's the inside jokes for me😂. Loved every minute of it.
I love this two🌝they made the conversation very much easier I so wish the people I always conversate with on such matters would watch this❤️💯everything happens spiritually before physically🫠
DVSN always! 🤌🏾🤌🏾
😭😭
This was so refreshing to watch, absolutely enjoyed this conversation and its inspiring
This is my first ever episode and I’ve enjoyed this so much . As a Christian listening to these young man was incredibly refreshing ❤
This was very intimate, especially bc men really aren't as intimate with one another as women❤. I love it!❤
Beautiful conversation 🥹
Glad you enjoyed it!
Arg man I loved this interview 🥺😂enjoyable . These 2 gents are effortlessly cool
As for gqom!😂😭
🤣🤣🤣
Finally 😭💀😂tomorrow has come
😂😂😂😂
Gods timing is always right 🤣🤣
Oh lol🤣🤣🤣😭💀 Re leboha modimo hee🤣💀
What an enlightening episode ❤️s/o to Seekay & Sishii
Enjoyed this so much! The honesty in this conversation was amazing.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Love love this episode 🙌🏾🫶🏾, we got to experience them outside acting. So wise🙌🏾❤️.
Their knowledge on this was so eye opening and so interesting defs enjoyed this
Thank you so much Onthatile!
I'm very impressed, can't lie. And just like that, hope has been restored in the masses.
I love the direction this episode went 🥺
Love their relationship. This is beautiful , proud of you Seekay....
Amazing conversation with Seekay and Sishi👌❤️❤️
Definitely!
Finally🥺😑 they're also so well-spoken man !🥺🤒 i absolutely enjoyed this episode Defining❤ ! it's refreshing to see young men say things like these & think they way they do❤🤞🏾 keep it coming man !🙌🏾😌
Two wholesome gents! This is refreshing. Love their perspective on intimacy
Yeah having sex nje is actually boring because over time you realise that it starts to eat away at you and suddenly its not so amazing and great anymore. When you do everything for God/to glorify God it just makes it all amazing and worth it. At the end of the Day we were made for God's glory and glorifying him in everything puts for much meaning purpose and joy in it all ❤
beautiful episode, I didn’t want it to end 🥺
Love how they carried the conversation!✨
So excited ! 🥰🥰🥰
Hope you enjoy it 🫶🏾❤️🔥
Ahh man🥹the direction this conversation went 🥺absolutely loved this
This was soooooooo beautiful and deep❤ My standards are 10× higher😢❤ Sheeesh!!!!!
The brothers are very straightforward and have an open mind to the questions but despite their conversation, their friendship is more like brotherhood🤝🏾
Oooh i love me some Sishii❤
Same ❤️🔥❤️🔥
Thank you guys for this exceptional conversation .Big ups .
Thank you Sishi and Mr Buthelezi ❤
Glad there’s still people like Sishi in this generation of wks
I'm not used to Teddy Pandergrass speaking English so well😅
😂😂😂
😂
😂😂😂😂😂 this is why you can never sit next to each other. They started laughing as soon as the video started! Such a wholesome POV from both gents 🫶🕯
Do you think sex is spiritual? 🤔
Definitely.
Yes it is
definitely!
I believe it's the most sacred and spiritual act that humans do with one another.
@@tshiamomasilo6830 True! That's why God encourages us not to engage in sex before marriage because it's not just a physical pleasure, it's also a spiritual benefit.
Loved this!😍 I really enjoyed hearing these questions from a man’s perspective.. Ayy the body count convo 😭😂
This set ? 😮💨😮💨😢tewwww good
Thank you 🥹🥹
favourite episode so far
Danko 🥹
Captivating!! This was really wholesome❤🥺
Thank you
They way they started quing in "I don't dance"🤣
This was so beautiful 🥹
Thank you ❤️🔥
These guys are so matured hle 😍😍lovely to watch
I'm watching this alone but I'm hiding my face with my hands. So embarrassing to see two young men talk about this. Geez. But we appreciate that there's a platform for these kinda topics.
❤️❤️thank you Defining for these episodes.
Absolutely LOVED this episode.
God bless and protect them in their industry...true gems
Cool conversation.
That, "I'm not asking! It's the question. " 😹😹☠️ killed me
🥺🥺🥺🥺what a beautiful episode
Thank you ❤️🔥
I like the silent laughter 😅😅😅😅😅
This was an amazing conversation 😊
Thank you ❤️🔥
The questions were wild 😂😂😂
Pleasantly surprised by their openness.Great episode 👏🏾🫶🏾
I’ve always liked you both from watching Gomora, so I thought I’d listen to you hear and I must say, I’m amazed 😮😇
I love the fact that I drawn to you because of looks but little did I know that it was also because of a spiritual connection 🙏🏾😇
I had lost a little bit of hope in finding a spiritual partner but after listening to this, the little light of hope is back on.
I pray that God continues to bless you both.
Thank you for a wonderful and fruitful discussion 🙌🏾👏🏾
I absolutely enjoyed watching this! ❤
Glad you enjoyed it!
This video was so real🥺❤️❤️🫡🫡
Too real 🥹
8:19 Ohhh my Gosh😭💀🤣
You guys are amazing, truly enjoyed this episode so much ❤️❤️😂🙌
8:12 the silent laughter🤣
🤣🤣🤣