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@@Motion511n , let me say this I was young when the movement of civil Rights was still flowing, your statement is 💯% truth, please bear with me, there's a statement of the opposite saying the same thing, that's 💯 correct, so now we know without the shadow of a cow that both sides not and cheap. Bear with me please,. So when you hear the statement or the statistics in all the pains on it individual which side do they want to discuss, or talk about, I'm saying talk about the issues but how can we come together, there are different techniques must be applied to men and women who live in the projects can we be honest or do we want to buy into the LIE, the same thing about most educated blacks certain term s and examples should be different, please , understand there are elements that makes a woman or woman mentally and phys ically the same is for the oppos, sex. (So this is the problem both sides will go back and forth with truth but neither side whatever saw the problem your attentions you approach the words that you use signify that you are not trying to solve it issue you just want to talk about the issue)
Black women really need to be more supportive of the black men. It’s a lot of black men killing their families and then turn around and kill their selfs. A lot of black men can’t handle the pressure of living in a society that makes everything hard to achieve. The suicide rate is high amongst black males and it’s not being talked about that much.
That's the attitude I took towards my man when he was struggling. Now he's getting back on his feet again. He's taking steps to help himself now. Sometimes a man need for someone to believe in him.
So you were the masculine leader in the relationship. This is why black women are hella masculine rn. Trying to teach black men how to be a man because he’s probably from a broken home raised by a single mother. Stop mating w/ weak men. It turns women masculine. Black women are masculine because you don’t know how to pick a man properly. It’s not your job to teach him to be masculine and a leader.
There's not even anywhere close to enough women like this. Women who are traditional ladies. So it's going to be hard to see more examples like this one.
@@traviswilliams1398 There’s a lot of women like this, the problem is you passed them up chasing the so-called baddies so it ain’t no different than these females passing up good dudes. Stop chasing these superficial females and get a comfortable 6 and you will enjoy her as a whole instead of dealing with unnecessary bs. Real rap playa
This man that was married and came got me we had sex then he was on phone with his wife. But was only texting her. And I was telling him just go to therapy. I was turning into his mentor like a marriage counselor 😂. Then he turned to me said I need you to have my back? He's a gimini and I wanted to tell him why have your back when your doing this behind your wife's back? I asked him did your wife cheat on you? He said no she don't cheat. I told him that's a lie. This man got a Latino wife fat and he got a 5" dick. In the army. He kicked him out. I told him she kicked u out because she's got a man coming over
@@CLAUDINEtbmoth Immature men does indeed. A mature man does not. 70% of the time women initiate divorce. From these , 90% are college educated. So i think women leave good men way more then we can imagine even when they are with a good man.
I’m not gonna let you fall That’s the woman I am looking and praying for as a wife and I will be praying also not to losing her to another man till death do us apart 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
We've BEEN like this...ya'll just haven't noticed, or run after looks/ body type/ " bad b***" mentality type, and then complain when those women reject or don't have your back. Or..use women like this until you get to where you want to be and then trade her in..
@@grindhard4312 no it isn’t. The ones you don’t want, normally are the ones you need. But that’s what’s wrong with the world. People are trying to please society’s views of who you should be with.
This was my thought as well, but I scrolled before I responded hoping I wouldn't be the only person. I have been THAT woman and I am still THAT woman.... but in the middle of the having been and still being..... I lost everything and had to be my own KING.... It was hurtful and embarrassing, but here I am with sad eyes and sad heart STILL being THAT woman. Being taken for granted and no reciprocating is saddening, hurtful, and embarrassing. But he truly is a great man, strong, and hard working and so many other great qualities, and I will still be there for him however he allows me to be.
Ive seen this kind of supportiveness many times and it's a beautiful thing...only when the support isn't later treated like a springboard. One can only hope its appreciated and reciprocated.
That's very true. But at the same time, you should spring board off of help. Not All the time people stay together because of help. Not All the time do people need to be together because of help. That's life. But if 2 can come together and stay together in that type of situation it is fulfilling to say the least
This woman is gold in this moment and I pray that it also carries overs in other areas of her life. None of us are perfect, but I pray she is perfect for him. This woman touched my soul this morning. God bless them.
If every man has a woman like this the world would run so smoothly just seeing this made me feel good for the both of them all it takes is one person push can bring life changing events that could bring a wealthy healthy future for a relationship
Nope, women are not here for the purpose of trying to do the impossible task of making boys into men. It's exploiting women for your benefit. Do men do this or anything even remotely close to this to turn girls into women? We all know the answer to that.
They do... they're too busy causing her pain while she's trying to build him up. Men need to take more accountability. Y'all are the reason the scales are out of whack and unbalanced
How if we can't both come together together 😂 that's all I'm saying They only separate off of miss understandings form what each other need and don't get I'm looking at the root problem not pointing fingers at all woman and men 🧐 how can you demand something from a person that's not receiving the same treatment you want back that's all I'm saying it takes two to open up and make it easy for each other to love one another because it can be a men out here over loving a woman who don't care the same way it can be a men out here doing the same thing so it all goes down to the root problem people are looking for things in people others have that others don't have any say it's all there fault for it I don't think that's the way it should be I feel like it should come to a point where understanding each other weaknesses can build a strong foundation because as humans we can't always be happy you gone have one sad day out of the month 😂 everybody needs somebody by there side who can just give them a push this go for women and men not just looking at one side a car can't move without the motor 👀 everything has to be on one accord for it to even move the moment the motor is separated you never even get a chance to see if the car drives good I say that to say this if we not out here trying to make it easy to who we are attracted to how can it work if every body operating off of frear I personally do t think a person can be blam for that that's something we are all facing every day so it's not nobody's fault this is how society is set up we just needed to master our emotions a bit more as humans to the point we can love a person to the point we don't hate them 🙏💯 that only can happen if we move with humbleness and genuineness in this society I never understood why a girl would be like your too nice well I read my Bible it tells us to be nice unless I miss something so you have a mixture of different types of people people with money and no character people without money who the people with money hate we are all human at the end of the day
You have everything a man would want in a woman right there we all go through something but when someone has your back like that you never give upShe’s with you till the end do not let her down
Beloved Ones This is a true example of an intelligent strong black woman Now we need to follow up Now we need to see if she is true to her words And now we need to see and hear him Does he see how vulnerable and valuable she is Again Beloved Ones This is 2nd time in my 70+years I heard a female speak so righteous
I hope she true to her words I always dreamed of a woman going through struggle with me instead of grinding on my own and then try to find one like I'm doing now
@@CLAUDINEtbmothStong men and women still need each other. But "Strong" *iNdEpEnDaNT* women?! They don't need men, so we let them be fine by themselves until they hit the wall 😂
No sir, this is a mule who has been conditioned to "ride or die" i.e. put a boy on her back and struggle to do the impossible task of turning an under developed, skill-deficient, male with no drive or ambition into a productive, capable man all at her expense. BW are not getting used by BM to do this anymore. It's sad that we were ever conditioned to do this at all.
I totally agree. You know you got a great woman when you lose everything and she's still sticking by you, she's still by your side. Women like her are extremely hard to find. She's demonstrating great wife material qualities and attributes. Tons of women only love conditionally love their men their husbands bc they're providing. Tons of them don't wanna let their man lead them.
Or maybe, like so many examples have shown, she had your back but you was for the streets 🤨 Edit: Is that better. Some people are dense, some pretend to not get it. Maybe that's why you're not meeting the one you want. Best wishes
@@Apixi Thank you! I don't know where they keep getting that so many men were providing for BW!!! Always double talking The man in the car with this female in the beginning doesn't sound like a provider. He sounds like the typical "don't got his ish together cuz he been out playing too long" looking for a sister to ride or die and engage in struggle love again. Sick of that ish!!
@@traviswilliams1398 yeah I know. I saw it. I concluded from him crying and her saying "if you gotta stay with me and find a job" that apparently, he didn't have a place to stay or job. Anything can happen and a man can be brought down just like a woman can. This just looks too much like a man not coming with anything. She shouldn't have to tell him she'll help him fill out applications all night. That's something he should be doing already, but sounds like she is making the suggestion for him to get a job🤨🤨🙄 My irritation is with this double talk of men screaming at women that they won't let them provide and that's why they don't😂 then they usher in this example of a man not in a position to provide even for himself and once again, make whole videos of praising her for being a mule, because she agrees to carry him on her back. Then the men say she's good wife material, but are they good husband material??? A good woman doesn't always enable you, sometime's she has to let go and let you strengthen your own muscles Nowadays, If a woman is doing more providing than the men, they start screaming and crying that she is too masculine and won't let them lead. If she decides to let them provide, they scream she's a gold digger. If she stays and helps him achieve his potential and he cuts out on her when she builds him up, they say she chose poorly. They are all starting to sound schizophrenic. There's nothing wrong with a woman assisting her man, but many women are tired of starting off at THIS level with a grown azz man. I think too many men are spiritually lazy and lack will power, discipline and focus. You have no business dating, if you don't have a place to stay and a job at the least. But if there are woman who want to keep on diving down there with you, more power to them. Been there, done that and it's exhausting and old. If women can increase their will power to make ish happen for themselves and raise kids by themselves, then these men can re raise themselves
This is so difficult to navigate. My husband had severe mental illness and I didn't realize that until I was committed and simply not leaving. He ended up having to be extracted from our home by the swat team and ultimately killed himself in a VA facility. I had to protect our son because I couldn't protect him from himself. There's a balance and it's a fine line. Edited to add: I tried to let him lead our household but I couldn't let bills not get paid and then our bank accounts garnished. When he was stable and sober he was amazing. But when he wasn't, it just wasn't safe for any of us for him to be in charge of anything.
@@earlem9771 When I insisted the VA stop giving him opiates for his back pain because he kept overdosing on them. I think maybe I just didn't want to see it but at that point it was undeniable and I determined to help him get clean. They were drugging him to simply not deal with him. He didn't need all of that. He had a disk replaced in his back and he had legitimate issues but they didn't require morphine and fentanyl patches.
@@stillsmashin1529 He was the only man I'd ever had a romantic relationship with. When he was healthy he was so charming. Very much an "i got this babe..." kind of man that I could depend on but when he wasn't healthy, he was none of that. He was the opposite of that. I'm done. I'm gonna raise our son and leave it alone. I will live the rest of my days widowed.
That kind of support & motivation from your woman is going to make him love her even more & he is going to go extra hard to make sure they good. Good vid!!!
Man please. What you see here more than likely is another woman who will end having to do everything by herself. Furthermore, men if you woman leaves you while you're down, she isn't for you in the first place. Look at it as a blessing.
It’s a weird internalized situation bcuz in many cases where a man has a woman’s support, he abuses the woman, plays head games, and runs her off, and does much better by a woman who doesn’t encourage him and often nags. If she’s mean and brutal he’s loyal to her. He may complain about it but still loyal. And likewise, women are supportive of terrible abusive men. The more messed up he is the more determined she is to stand by him, and a man who is nice and helpful to her she’s abusive to.
I saw this clip somewhere else and there is zero doubt that this young woman RESPECTS this man, she believes in this man, she trusts this man, and she loves this man. Every man who has EARNED it should be so fortunate to receive this level of admiration.
"Been There Done This" and It has been well worth supporting my man..Men need love,reassurance and support just as much as women..Love Speaks Volumes!!
I did this when he got a construction job because I helped fill out applications he turned his back on me because he felt he was making more money and was too good for me and his daughter. Long story short he lost his job and became humble again. I had to tell him about himself. Sometimes it doesn’t matter if we are there for men. Sometimes they don’t care! Next time I helped him get a job he humbled himself…..anyway another long story short I left him. He misses me. Can’t find anyone else to support and be supportive of him when he needs it. Had a good woman and threw it away. 🤷🏾♀️ now he bitter and angry….he now has about 13 kids prob more. O well 🤷🏾♀️
Thank you. This is the real outcome for many women being loyal and supportive and men taking advantage. And yes.. many are angry and bitter that women are putting a halt to this ish. Now they are trying to rewrite the narrative and come at women in a different way to get the same benefits. It's not our responsibility
Thank you for this. What I've observed growing up was women supporting the man. The men were unreliable and the women had to look out for themselves. Where the "I" fits the equation is self-protection and survival. Now, seeing this I know what being supportive is.
I was that women...for 11 years...I worked 3 jobs...to help him get thru school...helped him get his record straight...helped him get a job at the hospital...I had a stroke Feb. 18th he walked away Feb 28th...But I was not mad because now he is a better man...n even though we are not together...he can help me now take care of our children we have together...but Im a chosen one...so I look at life different...I will help the next black man elevate to the next level...GOD'S PLAN love n light
" It's not easy being a man" It's not easy being Human. It's not easy being a Animal. Just set real boundaries and live up to your word, wether male or female. Men were just taught to be masculine all the time and not be vulnerable, so you assume the responsibility then your partner begans to expect that energy all the time. Men can get a supportive woman just like her and dog her the fuck out, get on his feet and act like the woman never existed, Vice/Versa. Just know what you want and be with someone who wants the same thing as strongly as you.
There are hard objective numbers that show it’s actually harder to be a man, suicide rates, depression. It’s a false equivalency to say the difficulty of being a man is the same as a women. One side results in higher death.
As a feminine submissive wife I see that a lot of (feminist) women, older women seem to be void of this mentality and for the most part have fallen away from their natural positions adhering to a lost value system. They are selfish and view men as "wallets" and disposable.✌🏾 The fact that SHE already as a young woman understands the power of her femininity in this challenging aspect of a relationship is admirable: a woman being submissive, supportive, a team player, commited and loyal. Young Queen definitely 'understood the assignment'. Be great young souls! God bless! ✊🏾💖✊🏾💖
But you said you're a wife. Your husband dignified you with marriage. Your statement is toxic because you should be promoting marriage and not 💩 on "the modern feminist woman". Women should know and understand that "the struggle" which is what this is, is meant for your husband. The "modern chauvinist man", expects to have a woman for years to test out or to keep around as a piece of booty until he finds better. But these men haven't been taught that from the older generations of men. A man should have his finances together first and builds his legacy first before expecting a woman to stand by him. Then if he loses it all after marriage, she needs to be right there with him through the thick of it. And society hasn't fallen because of the modern woman, society has fallen because too many men don't understand building your individual legacy first before the relationship.
Facts. I agree with you. That young woman seem to be in the right path already. If they continue to work together they are getting ahead. There's plenty of men that built for themselves but rather be alone because of fear the woman will use them for money. And it's happened. They post how they've used men everywhere on social media.
@@elektrastone7327 youre the type of woman men should pump and dump tbh cause all youre worried about is his pockets wallet and credit card but thanks for the honesty 😁
As a woman I was in relationships I had to get it on my own with or without a man to the point I kept a job and the men didn't. So I had to carry men but I blame myself because I made bad choices. One thing I learned you can support your man in whatever he wants to do whether it's goin to school getting a job or starting a business. If a man isn't motivated to get up off his azz when life throws a curve ball. I don't care what his woman say to encourage him it's still not enough. Some people are just naturally motivated men and women to pursue dreams and make goals that will take them to the next level. I understand things happen and sometimes we take a loss and yes a woman should support her man 100% but sometimes that's not enough if that individual is not motivated and some people just are not and you got some men whole will tell you they're not working at a minimum wage job. It's better than nothing
I think some women need to leave a man alone if he is not working . Because some women don’t even know how to talk to a man, so support and motivation would be non existence
These types of women usually picks the wrong man to start with. If she's doing all of the heavy lifting while he plays around. She needs to change her situation. Holding her man down are things that a woman is supposed to do however, if she's consistently the only one putting in all of the work, he's just using her for his own selfish reasons. That's not how a team operates.
You said it correctly..i love to support and uplit my man im not with carrying you.. All of that " stay up late looking through application " thats a one man job and if you have too help him or her find a job thats a problem in itself lack of self motivation
This is the FIRST video that he’s made that was true advice for women. He didn’t bash us or make us feel less than because we didn’t understand, he truly showed us the difference in what he’s been talking about and I wholeheartedly understand. Thank you. 👌🏾 Honestly, I’ve been guilty of saying “I got you,” but now I understand that I should have said, “I know that YOU still got us.” I’ve been guilty of jumping in and taking over bills if he came up short, but now I see that I should’ve said something like, “I know you’d have us covered, but we’re in this together” to assure him that I BELIEVE that he will get back on top. I see now that by me jumping in and handling things, I stripped him of his pride and absentmindedly made him feel less than a man. I get it. I truly do. Wise words. I love it. Thank you.
This is probably the first time you listened to the actual words he was saying then…Sick of women getting offended by the truth and reality. Criticism is an opportunity to grow. You feel attacked? Growth and accountability its how you defend yourself.
@@jeremyw9640 No, it’s not the first time I’ve listened to the words that he’s said…that’s why I KNOW that he often bashes women and tries his best to make us feel less than when we don’t understand what he means. I have a journalism degree and in law school-BOTH of those fields of study deals with the cold, hard truth. Im not opposed or even offended by truth…at all. In fact, I don’t mind taking accountability-which I did IF you actually read my comment. 🙃 But, there is a such thing as CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM AND DESTRUCTIVE CRITICISM. He is often destructive while he is speaking his truth. Am I saying that what he is saying is wrong?? No, I’ve NEVER said that, however, you can give people the truth without being BRUTAL AND HURTFUL-which he is MOST times.
I really don’t understand why ANYONE HAD TO Reply to MY post. It wasn’t rude or disrespectful, but here we are with people literally trying to provoke an unnecessary debate.*BIG sigh* 😩 WOMEN can’t ever win-if we don’t understand-they mess with us. If we DO understand-they STILL mess with us. 🙄😫 “What do they want from us???” 😵💫🥺🥹 In my crying Tyrese voice 😓
Man…. This hit home for me. My husband,in recovery had no one. The entire world told me to get rid of him! I made a promise to this man that I will always be here through thick and thin…. I seen this man cry, I stood him up and told him that’s okay then tears we Guna cry them together and keep pushing forward! You having issues with employment due to your recovery that’s okay, I’m work until we can both work! I told him that no matter what you Guna make it! He went back to school, had a situation where he relapsed I made sure not only that he graduated but he did it sober. Ain’t nothing way this black king of mine will go unnoticed! He told special to me! We guna walk this path together! I got you, forever! Needless to say, he married me 6 years ago, he graduated, has an amazing job, is sober and we did it together!
I love seeing this. Men need this type of support, without being worried about being looked down at. She's really there for him. This is being ten toes down for a man. No matter what his struggles.
Once he gets out of the dark place he’s in, he’s going to leave her for someone who he really wants. Unfortunately, she represents a time in his life where he was down and may have a slight resentment towards her. Side note, for everyone talking about masculine and feminine energy, her tone and body language is definitely giving masculine vibes and his is giving feminine vibes. Js
Yes, it's a very, very strong possibility he will leave, and all to common with black men, because this happened to me, once the man I was with got out of the dark place he was in, and got where he wanted to be, he found another woman.
luckily for me, i married a woman like this. i will grow old with this woman. now (after years of struggling) i am creating real wealth and i am DEFINITELY about to share that wealth willingly with my wife and kids. i will never leave her now that i am wealthy!
Not sure why this was recorded, seems like a private matter. However, this is the type of young woman the Gen Y & Z men need to make it out here in this crazy unforgiving world today. She is not showing one bit of selfishness in what she is saying. 💯 so rare.
She will regret it....if she's paying attention to Baby Boomers, Gen X and millennials she will see that this ride or die stuff doesn't make him into man and it doesn't make him HER man if he becomes successful. We all know this doesn't work.
@@teresam5199 Every relation type is filled with risk either for the man, the woman or both. At the end of the day, if you are with someone that aren't a ride or die, when times get difficult or they ain't happy no more because the one they with isn't making them happy. (Not his or her responsibility to make you happy) Then they are a waste of time. The reason why relationships fail is the lack of commitment and respect for each other.
Mental support on both sides that's what makes a relationship growing to love There are so many attributes in a relationship there's nothing like somebody knowing that their Significant other got your back and they support you & your decisions
This is exactly what needs. He looks like he is at a breaking point. She is willing to work with him to get his act together. Every brother needs a solid woman like that
@annette key Isn't it? Like He legit is acting as if men were just such great communicators that some woman demanding to vote just held them down and covered their mouths. Unbelievable!
Some women have done this for their men and build with him together, believing in him, be supporting of him and when the man thought he was successful because he has made some money, she isn't good enough for him anymore. He goes around fornicating with women who are there for his money, women who will never had looked at him when he was still trying to find his feet. It is not only about believing in a man, will the man still love and cherish you when he is successful. Will he remember the path you both walked and the sacrifices you both made for each other when things were tough or will his brain be inbetween his legs when he thinks he has tasted success. I love to see when couples support one another but I have seen what it is like to be toasted aside after believing in a man or woman. Some women also start acting out after they feel they have made it, forgetting who was with them in their journey to success. The main question is why men and women do not want to believe or support their partner in today's society. What went wrong and how can we fix it together as a team.
Nothing better then a supportive women, that’s game for the young guys. Seen that in my wife in our college days, now we 18 years married. He def should lock her down ASAP.
I'm just that kind of woman, I believe in my husband. No matter what I would always tell him that he can do anything, he set his mind to I would let him know that I would help him to find a job. But I had started seeing that he was taking the money and playing the lottery and not taking care of other things that were needed. But I was always supportive of my husband even when he messed up and never down him. it was always use so I get her and she was saying the right thing that's a blessing 🙌 ✨ 🙏 😌
I couldnt get past the first 30 seconds without crying....that was the most genuine moment......when you find a good woman fellas you have to appreciate her....this is the epitome a lifetime partner
Wost women underestimate the real & complex responsibilities of men. It's more than just paying the bill & doing the physical jobs around the home. Great video, keep bringing the truth by keeping it real bro.
This is the type of videos that should go viral. The views sadly come from the bad examples out there so nobody wants to shine a light on the modern but traditional woman who knows how to fight for her family.
She's not traditional at all. She's a feminist who out earns her man and babies him. Lmao, if you have to help "your man" fill out job applications....you're already doomed. Keep that crap in the hood. Don't come to my community with this garbage.
@@FAMD4SH no dummy we are looking for woman that genuinely loves a man and does just look at him as a utility or a bail out plan or insurance plan you dumb ass
One of my biggest fear is being a man that can't provide. Just imagine all pressure. That can break a man. Stay strong if you are going through it guys.
The Energy that all Men need from their Woman. This is the type of Inspiration that enables a Man to work 12 plus hours a day for close to nothing and not complain once! Queens aren't made..... Queens are Born!!!!
I did this for my man for as long as we were together (almost a decade) I did the applications, did the aptitute and math and English online tests for him, made him realise he deserves more in terms of a career. We sat down, did mock interviews, I changed his entire resume multiple times. Because of these things, he gained a 50% pay leap, not over time, but from one job to the next. I used to give him my card to pay for things so je would’t feel as bad, especially when we went to shop for things for him. I encouraged him to go and study when his attitude was that “it was too late”. I When he did go back to school, I helped through the lessons he found difficult, hand-wrote maths worksheets for him and found resources that taught him concepts he was never taught at school when he was younger to help him keep up on class. I gave him a grand a month for a whole year to cover his expenses because I told him to concentrate on studies instead of working part-time while studying. I used my savings so that he could replace an old hand-me-down car he had from his father so he could feel good about what he was driving. Helped him from getting his home repossessed by agreeing to take on half the debt and after that, I invested plenty in home improvements which he had not spent a single penny of his own money on before I came along. I could go on and on. And throughout the entire time, he always found a way to make me feel like i was nothing, and not only that, he constantly told me i was nothing, gave me no affection, he abused me in every way but sexually. I was the fool. I am drained y’all. I don’t know if I have faith in finding a good man any more.
He's still going to fuck it up and then she going to be mad at every other man in the world because the one she believed in disappointing her so now every man will show that action
I remember in the pandemic I lost all my work and the woman I was with at the time turned to me and said: "I make more money than you how does that feel?" During the pandemic I started teaching online I was still making money not the amount I was making before but still I was doing something for myself and my family. Our relationship ended soon after that. I decided to give our relationship a second try this year and it's already over because she doesn't love me for me and that's a solid fact in my head now. She loves the idea of what I can provide and what kind of fairytale life she wants to live. Looking back I've realised anytime she's supported me it came back as a bargaining chip rather than unconditional. Thanks for sharing this video, it's helping me stay with my decision because now she's asking for me back again and my gut says no so I'm guna follow my gut. Give thanks.
FROM A CARNAL STANDPOINT, SHE HAS HER HANDS TIED WITH THE ATTEMP TO SCULPT A MALE INTO A MAN IN WHICH HE SHOULD'VE ALREADY BEEN TRAINED TO GO BUT BIGUPS FOR HER SUPPORT!
Andre Wilson they won’t hear you though. A REAL man plans atleast 10 yrs in advance! If he does he wouldn’t have to go though this. It’s mentally draining dealing with a man like this.
@@FAMD4SH Bruh . The men you speak of are 5% of the population & even they have struggles they would NEVER tell you about so stop promoting this narrative that everything is perfect .
i’m going to love and support my man and always be fair to him because no one is perfect but this man keeps me so happy and i love him so much and we have a beautiful baby together ❤️ i’m with him i’m team him he’s with me and he’s team me always ❤️
If I had this, I would have stayed. A woman who believes in you will be just as excited about your vision as you. If you come home & share your progress or good news with a woman & she doesn't get excited for you...LEAVE
Support yourself like this and you wont need another human being to be your anchor…invalidating Gods place in our hearts and Lives. I believe in the people I Love and I pour into them greatly. A man who leads with his wallet is nothing but an atm…a man who leads from the heart is a King. But remember ladies, he doesn’t need an actual reason to leave. A lot of men out here needing us to do for them what their Mothers never cared enough to do for them and it’s frightening. If your humanity does not precede your gender, you’re not a good catch…period. No check can make you what you know you’re not.
Absolutely my kind of girl! The first time my Man laid his head on my breast and fell into a deep peaceful sleep, I knew he felt like he could be vulnerable with me, not only that he talked to me about what he was going through. I made sure he knew I had his back no matter WHAT!
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Sadly_these_same men get their stuff together and CHEAT....or cheat the while time that "the woman" that's believing in him_is believing in him.
@@Motion511n , let me say this I was young when the movement of civil Rights was still flowing, your statement is 💯% truth, please bear with me, there's a statement of the opposite saying the same thing, that's 💯 correct, so now we know without the shadow of a cow that both sides not and cheap. Bear with me please,. So when you hear the statement or the statistics in all the pains on it individual which side do they want to discuss, or talk about, I'm saying talk about the issues but how can we come together, there are different techniques must be applied to men and women who live in the projects can we be honest or do we want to buy into the LIE, the same thing about most educated blacks certain term s and examples should be different, please , understand there are elements that makes a woman or woman mentally and phys ically the same is for the oppos, sex. (So this is the problem both sides will go back and forth with truth but neither side whatever saw the problem your attentions you approach the words that you use signify that you are not trying to solve it issue you just want to talk about the issue)
Black women really need to be more supportive of the black men. It’s a lot of black men killing their families and then turn around and kill their selfs. A lot of black men can’t handle the pressure of living in a society that makes everything hard to achieve. The suicide rate is high amongst black males and it’s not being talked about that much.
She's in now! But Boy oh Boy. He is going to cheat on her
That's the attitude I took towards my man when he was struggling. Now he's getting back on his feet again. He's taking steps to help himself now. Sometimes a man need for someone to believe in him.
Yes
Facts! And he is blessed to have you, God bless you!
Facts believing in someone is a way different
That's exactly what we need.
So you were the masculine leader in the relationship. This is why black women are hella masculine rn. Trying to teach black men how to be a man because he’s probably from a broken home raised by a single mother. Stop mating w/ weak men. It turns women masculine. Black women are masculine because you don’t know how to pick a man properly. It’s not your job to teach him to be masculine and a leader.
We know women like this are out there but we need to see more examples like this.
There's not even anywhere close to enough women like this. Women who are traditional ladies. So it's going to be hard to see more examples like this one.
WHY
Men have a habit of going after the same types.... Try different types of women and maybe that's where they are hidden....
@@traviswilliams1398 There’s a lot of women like this, the problem is you passed them up chasing the so-called baddies so it ain’t no different than these females passing up good dudes. Stop chasing these superficial females and get a comfortable 6 and you will enjoy her as a whole instead of dealing with unnecessary bs. Real rap playa
@@HeLIElActually no there's not. I'm going for someone I don't want. I don't chase women at all. I chase excellence and greatness.
In my entire life, I’ve only had one genuine girlfriend that encouraged me. She is now my wife
hallelujah.
Glad you did right by her..keep it going🙏🏾blessings
Fucking happy for you bro.✅
Yesssirrrr
happy for you
I agree mental support goes a long way. When your woman says she has your back and won't faulter it makes a difference.
We become Supermen, when a woman has our back and we know it!
This man that was married and came got me we had sex then he was on phone with his wife. But was only texting her. And I was telling him just go to therapy. I was turning into his mentor like a marriage counselor 😂. Then he turned to me said I need you to have my back?
He's a gimini and I wanted to tell him why have your back when your doing this behind your wife's back?
I asked him did your wife cheat on you? He said no she don't cheat. I told him that's a lie.
This man got a Latino wife fat and he got a 5" dick. In the army. He kicked him out. I told him she kicked u out because she's got a man coming over
That man is lucky. You never leave such a woman or you'll be cursed.
I think I am cursed I left some good women
Man I was thinking same shit hope he dont cheat on her boy u can't find them like this no no no no no more. Man am jealous
@@losangelesca5470 you acknowledged it. now seek forgiveness and repentance. God Bless.
Y'all dog women like this every day. I've seen it happen. Y'all use and abuse women like this.
@@CLAUDINEtbmoth Immature men does indeed. A mature man does not. 70% of the time women initiate divorce. From these , 90% are college educated. So i think women leave good men way more then we can imagine even when they are with a good man.
I’m not gonna let you fall
That’s the woman I am looking and praying for as a wife and I will be praying also not to losing her to another man till death do us apart 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Amen💖
AMEN. Jesus Christ is Lord
with that mindset, you dont gotta worry about losing her to another man. God Bless.
Weak AF ... u should be saying that to her... Where are these so called KINGS 👑 ... never mind 🙄😂
@@greenearthblueskies8556 L
Absolutely Beautiful. Black Men Need to See & Hear More of this. The Power & the Words of A Beautiful Woman.
Not from Black Women
woman with a beautiful soul. there i corrected it for you.👍🏾
Any woman actually
White men too!
We've BEEN like this...ya'll just haven't noticed, or run after looks/ body type/ " bad b***" mentality type, and then complain when those women reject or don't have your back. Or..use women like this until you get to where you want to be and then trade her in..
If a woman ever tells me this ...I would believe her. Cause a woman don't do shit like this what she's saying 💯💯💯
🤣 just waiting for the set up.
That’s a lie. Been in my husbands corner since day one. With actions. I do not speak. I DO!!!!
@@kalimbaayinde25 he's saying in general 97% of women don't do this. If it doesn't apply to you why reply ?
Yeah this is unheard of today
@@grindhard4312 no it isn’t. The ones you don’t want, normally are the ones you need. But that’s what’s wrong with the world. People are trying to please society’s views of who you should be with.
Many women out there like her but many men take it for granted and don’t try to hold her down too or take advantage of it
I agree new generation fuck up in American
Amen. 💖
Thank u for Expressing !!! Very important.. it's the taking for Granted part 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Yup
This was my thought as well, but I scrolled before I responded hoping I wouldn't be the only person.
I have been THAT woman and I am still THAT woman.... but in the middle of the having been and still being..... I lost everything and had to be my own KING....
It was hurtful and embarrassing, but here I am with sad eyes and sad heart STILL being THAT woman.
Being taken for granted and no reciprocating is saddening, hurtful, and embarrassing. But he truly is a great man, strong, and hard working and so many other great qualities, and I will still be there for him however he allows me to be.
Ive seen this kind of supportiveness many times and it's a beautiful thing...only when the support isn't later treated like a springboard. One can only hope its appreciated and reciprocated.
That's very true. But at the same time, you should spring board off of help. Not All the time people stay together because of help. Not All the time do people need to be together because of help. That's life. But if 2 can come together and stay together in that type of situation it is fulfilling to say the least
@@willierobinson3438 Yes
Bingooooo
That's exactly how my wife is just like that nothing but positive vibes all day everyday
Is she black?
Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉, what a blessing. Amen💖
Amen. hallelujah. Blessings.
@@HUSTLEMGMT 🤡🤡
@@BOX3DOUT nah you’re the clown SIMP.
This woman is gold in this moment and I pray that it also carries overs in other areas of her life. None of us are perfect, but I pray she is perfect for him. This woman touched my soul this morning. God bless them.
Hallelujah. Amen.
If every man has a woman like this the world would run so smoothly just seeing this made me feel good for the both of them all it takes is one person push can bring life changing events that could bring a wealthy healthy future for a relationship
Nope, women are not here for the purpose of trying to do the impossible task of making boys into men. It's exploiting women for your benefit. Do men do this or anything even remotely close to this to turn girls into women? We all know the answer to that.
Well said..
Facts. For relationships and society.
They do... they're too busy causing her pain while she's trying to build him up. Men need to take more accountability. Y'all are the reason the scales are out of whack and unbalanced
How if we can't both come together together 😂 that's all I'm saying They only separate off of miss understandings form what each other need and don't get I'm looking at the root problem not pointing fingers at all woman and men 🧐 how can you demand something from a person that's not receiving the same treatment you want back that's all I'm saying it takes two to open up and make it easy for each other to love one another because it can be a men out here over loving a woman who don't care the same way it can be a men out here doing the same thing so it all goes down to the root problem people are looking for things in people others have that others don't have any say it's all there fault for it I don't think that's the way it should be I feel like it should come to a point where understanding each other weaknesses can build a strong foundation because as humans we can't always be happy you gone have one sad day out of the month 😂 everybody needs somebody by there side who can just give them a push this go for women and men not just looking at one side a car can't move without the motor 👀 everything has to be on one accord for it to even move the moment the motor is separated you never even get a chance to see if the car drives good I say that to say this if we not out here trying to make it easy to who we are attracted to how can it work if every body operating off of frear I personally do t think a person can be blam for that that's something we are all facing every day so it's not nobody's fault this is how society is set up we just needed to master our emotions a bit more as humans to the point we can love a person to the point we don't hate them 🙏💯 that only can happen if we move with humbleness and genuineness in this society I never understood why a girl would be like your too nice well I read my Bible it tells us to be nice unless I miss something so you have a mixture of different types of people people with money and no character people without money who the people with money hate we are all human at the end of the day
That's why I've been happily married for 11 years. My wife is that for me!
Amen,💖 What a blessing.
You have everything a man would want in a woman right there we all go through something but when someone has your back like that you never give upShe’s with you till the end do not let her down
Preach!!!
Beloved Ones
This is a true example of an intelligent strong black woman
Now we need to follow up
Now we need to see if she is true to her words
And now we need to see and hear him
Does he see how vulnerable and valuable she is
Again Beloved Ones
This is 2nd time in my 70+years I heard a female speak so righteous
I hope she true to her words I always dreamed of a woman going through struggle with me instead of grinding on my own and then try to find one like I'm doing now
👍
I thought y'all didn't want strong women? 🙄
@@CLAUDINEtbmothStong men and women still need each other.
But "Strong" *iNdEpEnDaNT* women?!
They don't need men, so we let them be fine by themselves until they hit the wall 😂
No sir, this is a mule who has been conditioned to "ride or die" i.e. put a boy on her back and struggle to do the impossible task of turning an under developed, skill-deficient, male with no drive or ambition into a productive, capable man all at her expense. BW are not getting used by BM to do this anymore. It's sad that we were ever conditioned to do this at all.
I totally agree. You know you got a great woman when you lose everything and she's still sticking by you, she's still by your side. Women like her are extremely hard to find. She's demonstrating great wife material qualities and attributes. Tons of women only love conditionally love their men their husbands bc they're providing. Tons of them don't wanna let their man lead them.
Or maybe, like so many examples have shown, she had your back but you was for the streets 🤨
Edit: Is that better. Some people are dense, some pretend to not get it. Maybe that's why you're not meeting the one you want. Best wishes
@@Apixi Thank you! I don't know where they keep getting that so many men were providing for BW!!! Always double talking
The man in the car with this female in the beginning doesn't sound like a provider. He sounds like the typical "don't got his ish together cuz he been out playing too long" looking for a sister to ride or die and engage in struggle love again.
Sick of that ish!!
@@Apixi Was due the streets? 🤨What?
@@thealchemist333 The guy in the car didn't say a word. He didn't say anything.
@@traviswilliams1398 yeah I know. I saw it. I concluded from him crying and her saying "if you gotta stay with me and find a job" that apparently, he didn't have a place to stay or job. Anything can happen and a man can be brought down just like a woman can.
This just looks too much like a man not coming with anything. She shouldn't have to tell him she'll help him fill out applications all night. That's something he should be doing already, but sounds like she is making the suggestion for him to get a job🤨🤨🙄
My irritation is with this double talk of men screaming at women that they won't let them provide and that's why they don't😂 then they usher in this example of a man not in a position to provide even for himself and once again, make whole videos of praising her for being a mule, because she agrees to carry him on her back.
Then the men say she's good wife material, but are they good husband material???
A good woman doesn't always enable you, sometime's she has to let go and let you strengthen your own muscles
Nowadays, If a woman is doing more providing than the men, they start screaming and crying that she is too masculine and won't let them lead. If she decides to let them provide, they scream she's a gold digger. If she stays and helps him achieve his potential and he cuts out on
her when she builds him up, they say she chose poorly. They are all starting to sound schizophrenic.
There's nothing wrong with a woman assisting her man, but many women are tired of starting off at THIS level with a grown azz man.
I think too many men are spiritually lazy and lack will power, discipline and focus. You have no business dating, if you don't have a place to stay and a job at the least.
But if there are woman who want to keep on diving down there with you, more power to them. Been there, done that and it's exhausting and old.
If women can increase their will power to make ish happen for themselves and raise kids by themselves, then these men can re raise themselves
This is so difficult to navigate. My husband had severe mental illness and I didn't realize that until I was committed and simply not leaving. He ended up having to be extracted from our home by the swat team and ultimately killed himself in a VA facility. I had to protect our son because I couldn't protect him from himself. There's a balance and it's a fine line.
Edited to add: I tried to let him lead our household but I couldn't let bills not get paid and then our bank accounts garnished. When he was stable and sober he was amazing. But when he wasn't, it just wasn't safe for any of us for him to be in charge of anything.
This is an anomaly.
When did you find out about his substance abuse?
@@stillsmashin1529 so is getting bitten by a venomous snake. But you should still be apprehensive of all snakes venomous or not.
@@earlem9771 When I insisted the VA stop giving him opiates for his back pain because he kept overdosing on them. I think maybe I just didn't want to see it but at that point it was undeniable and I determined to help him get clean. They were drugging him to simply not deal with him. He didn't need all of that. He had a disk replaced in his back and he had legitimate issues but they didn't require morphine and fentanyl patches.
@@stillsmashin1529 He was the only man I'd ever had a romantic relationship with. When he was healthy he was so charming. Very much an "i got this babe..." kind of man that I could depend on but when he wasn't healthy, he was none of that. He was the opposite of that. I'm done. I'm gonna raise our son and leave it alone. I will live the rest of my days widowed.
It's called being the backbone🌍 A man is only as great as the women standing besides him. 👑
This woman is about to make me cry. I wish my wife I had showed this kind of heart for me. 20 years later she wants to be back in my life.
They seem to believe in their boss and pastor tho but not the husband which causes alot of disrespect in the marriage.
That kind of support & motivation from your woman is going to make him love her even more & he is going to go extra hard to make sure they good. Good vid!!!
Man please. What you see here more than likely is another woman who will end having to do everything by herself. Furthermore, men if you woman leaves you while you're down, she isn't for you in the first place. Look at it as a blessing.
It’s a weird internalized situation bcuz in many cases where a man has a woman’s support, he abuses the woman, plays head games, and runs her off, and does much better by a woman who doesn’t encourage him and often nags. If she’s mean and brutal he’s loyal to her. He may complain about it but still loyal. And likewise, women are supportive of terrible abusive men. The more messed up he is the more determined she is to stand by him, and a man who is nice and helpful to her she’s abusive to.
@annette key Exactly!
I was like this I never got appreciated I was took for granted and emotionally abused … no more lol 😂 done with acting like the super hero 😂😂
@@Mouna-s9c There you go!
This young man doesn't present himself like all of those thugs and hobosexuals that yall have dealt with! You are what you attract! Have fun ladies
@@GeeWay73 Maybe not. But he's not attracted to nice decent women. So say that to the guys. Have fun guys.
I saw this clip somewhere else and there is zero doubt that this young woman RESPECTS this man, she believes in this man, she trusts this man, and she loves this man. Every man who has EARNED it should be so fortunate to receive this level of admiration.
Admiration for what? 🤣
@@teresam5199 After reading some of your other comments, you have a wonderful day ma'am and GOD bless you. 😁
@@peculiarmisfit746 You too and He does, every minute of every day. 🙂
@@peculiarmisfit746 🤣😭 a perfect demonstration on how to say “not today” in the nicest way possible. i need to learn from your example
@@C_The_Guy Absolutely, I learned tact from my Marine dad and my time in the Air Force. No way I was gonna make time for that. 😁
"Been There Done This" and It has been well worth supporting my man..Men need love,reassurance and support just as much as women..Love Speaks Volumes!!
I did this when he got a construction job because I helped fill out applications he turned his back on me because he felt he was making more money and was too good for me and his daughter. Long story short he lost his job and became humble again. I had to tell him about himself. Sometimes it doesn’t matter if we are there for men. Sometimes they don’t care! Next time I helped him get a job he humbled himself…..anyway another long story short I left him. He misses me. Can’t find anyone else to support and be supportive of him when he needs it. Had a good woman and threw it away. 🤷🏾♀️ now he bitter and angry….he now has about 13 kids prob more. O well 🤷🏾♀️
Sorry, sis. But the truth is ...this build a man philosophy doesn't work...not for women anyway.
Thank you. This is the real outcome for many women being loyal and supportive and men taking advantage. And yes.. many are angry and bitter that women are putting a halt to this ish.
Now they are trying to rewrite the narrative and come at women in a different way to get the same benefits. It's not our responsibility
EXACTLY!!! Everyone lying like hell in these comments. These men saying they want this and had/have it and lost it 🙄
Oh yea he's used up anyway with 13 kids and no means of supporting them! Good for you sis 👏
@@teresam5199 maybe not for you.
Man he has a good woman. Bro have no reason not to boss up she got your bk 1000%. Respect damn this one hit different.
Thank you for this. What I've observed growing up was women supporting the man. The men were unreliable and the women had to look out for themselves.
Where the "I" fits the equation is self-protection and survival. Now, seeing this I know what being supportive is.
I was that women...for 11 years...I worked 3 jobs...to help him get thru school...helped him get his record straight...helped him get a job at the hospital...I had a stroke Feb. 18th he walked away Feb 28th...But I was not mad because now he is a better man...n even though we are not together...he can help me now take care of our children we have together...but Im a chosen one...so I look at life different...I will help the next black man elevate to the next level...GOD'S PLAN love n light
She's a good one right. When or if he gets on 9 times out of 10 he'll cheat & leave her for a "preference".
Love to see a genuinely caring/supportive woman pouring INTO her man instead of trying to extract FROM men. Beautiful! 👏🏽
I encourage husband and wife to help each other out. Women help yourself first! Then see that the man help you.
" It's not easy being a man"
It's not easy being Human. It's not easy being a Animal. Just set real boundaries and live up to your word, wether male or female. Men were just taught to be masculine all the time and not be vulnerable, so you assume the responsibility then your partner begans to expect that energy all the time. Men can get a supportive woman just like her and dog her the fuck out, get on his feet and act like the woman never existed, Vice/Versa. Just know what you want and be with someone who wants the same thing as strongly as you.
There are hard objective numbers that show it’s actually harder to be a man, suicide rates, depression. It’s a false equivalency to say the difficulty of being a man is the same as a women. One side results in higher death.
As a feminine submissive wife I see that a lot of (feminist) women, older women seem to be void of this mentality and for the most part have fallen away from their natural positions adhering to a lost value system. They are selfish and view men as "wallets" and disposable.✌🏾 The fact that SHE already as a young woman understands the power of her femininity in this challenging aspect of a relationship is admirable: a woman being submissive, supportive, a team player, commited and loyal. Young Queen definitely 'understood the assignment'. Be great young souls! God bless! ✊🏾💖✊🏾💖
But you said you're a wife. Your husband dignified you with marriage. Your statement is toxic because you should be promoting marriage and not 💩 on "the modern feminist woman". Women should know and understand that "the struggle" which is what this is, is meant for your husband. The "modern chauvinist man", expects to have a woman for years to test out or to keep around as a piece of booty until he finds better. But these men haven't been taught that from the older generations of men. A man should have his finances together first and builds his legacy first before expecting a woman to stand by him. Then if he loses it all after marriage, she needs to be right there with him through the thick of it. And society hasn't fallen because of the modern woman, society has fallen because too many men don't understand building your individual legacy first before the relationship.
@Elektra Stone freedom of thought, opinions and speech is so invigorating....so with that 'said', good for you to share yours! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Facts. I agree with you. That young woman seem to be in the right path already. If they continue to work together they are getting ahead. There's plenty of men that built for themselves but rather be alone because of fear the woman will use them for money. And it's happened. They post how they've used men everywhere on social media.
@@elektrastone7327 really funny. These men are responding to modern (feminist) women. You chose them. Or did someone else choose them for you? Lmao
@@elektrastone7327 youre the type of woman men should pump and dump tbh cause all youre worried about is his pockets wallet and credit card but thanks for the honesty 😁
Finally a clip where a woman isn't being bashed & degrading a woman, this is a refreshing change!!!!!!!
Yoo this made me cry. All a man needs is that kind of support. Those kind of encouraging words.
As a woman I was in relationships I had to get it on my own with or without a man to the point I kept a job and the men didn't. So I had to carry men but I blame myself because I made bad choices. One thing I learned you can support your man in whatever he wants to do whether it's goin to school getting a job or starting a business. If a man isn't motivated to get up off his azz when life throws a curve ball. I don't care what his woman say to encourage him it's still not enough. Some people are just naturally motivated men and women to pursue dreams and make goals that will take them to the next level. I understand things happen and sometimes we take a loss and yes a woman should support her man 100% but sometimes that's not enough if that individual is not motivated and some people just are not and you got some men whole will tell you they're not working at a minimum wage job. It's better than nothing
I think some women need to leave a man alone if he is not working . Because some women don’t even know how to talk to a man, so support and motivation would be non existence
A little income can open opportunities. Some folks got to swallow their pride.
These types of women usually picks the wrong man to start with. If she's doing all of the heavy lifting while he plays around. She needs to change her situation. Holding her man down are things that a woman is supposed to do however, if she's consistently the only one putting in all of the work, he's just using her for his own selfish reasons. That's not how a team operates.
You said it correctly..i love to support and uplit my man im not with carrying you.. All of that " stay up late looking through application " thats a one man job and if you have too help him or her find a job thats a problem in itself lack of self motivation
You get with long D pookie with the good hur and wonder why he ain't motivated lol. That ain't no man thats just a male.
Yooooooo…. She’s the truth… who raised her… Just hearing her say those words is powerful!!!!
This is the FIRST video that he’s made that was true advice for women. He didn’t bash us or make us feel less than because we didn’t understand, he truly showed us the difference in what he’s been talking about and I wholeheartedly understand.
Thank you. 👌🏾
Honestly, I’ve been guilty of saying “I got you,” but now I understand that I should have said, “I know that YOU still got us.” I’ve been guilty of jumping in and taking over bills if he came up short, but now I see that I should’ve said something like, “I know you’d have us covered, but we’re in this together” to assure him that I BELIEVE that he will get back on top. I see now that by me jumping in and handling things, I stripped him of his pride and absentmindedly made him feel less than a man.
I get it. I truly do.
Wise words. I love it. Thank you.
You make yourself feel less than you control your emotions & your thoughts
@UCMESNs6OJ52g7XP1NblwnAA
I'm hvn a wonderful day ms. Emotional
This is probably the first time you listened to the actual words he was saying then…Sick of women getting offended by the truth and reality. Criticism is an opportunity to grow. You feel attacked? Growth and accountability its how you defend yourself.
@@jeremyw9640 No, it’s not the first time I’ve listened to the words that he’s said…that’s why I KNOW that he often bashes women and tries his best to make us feel less than when we don’t understand what he means.
I have a journalism degree and in law school-BOTH of those fields of study deals with the cold, hard truth. Im not opposed or even offended by truth…at all. In fact, I don’t mind taking accountability-which I did IF you actually read my comment. 🙃
But, there is a such thing as CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM AND DESTRUCTIVE CRITICISM.
He is often destructive while he is speaking his truth. Am I saying that what he is saying is wrong?? No, I’ve NEVER said that, however, you can give people the truth without being BRUTAL AND HURTFUL-which he is MOST times.
I really don’t understand why ANYONE HAD TO Reply to MY post.
It wasn’t rude or disrespectful, but here we are with people literally trying to provoke an unnecessary debate.*BIG sigh* 😩
WOMEN can’t ever win-if we don’t understand-they mess with us.
If we DO understand-they STILL mess with us. 🙄😫
“What do they want from us???” 😵💫🥺🥹
In my crying Tyrese voice 😓
Man…. This hit home for me. My husband,in recovery had no one. The entire world told me to get rid of him! I made a promise to this man that I will always be here through thick and thin…. I seen this man cry, I stood him up and told him that’s okay then tears we Guna cry them together and keep pushing forward! You having issues with employment due to your recovery that’s okay, I’m work until we can both work! I told him that no matter what you Guna make it! He went back to school, had a situation where he relapsed I made sure not only that he graduated but he did it sober. Ain’t nothing way this black king of mine will go unnoticed! He told special to me! We guna walk this path together! I got you, forever! Needless to say, he married me 6 years ago, he graduated, has an amazing job, is sober and we did it together!
What she said at the beginning is definitely a woman being supportive of her man
She's expressing belief in him👌👌👌
I love seeing this. Men need this type of support, without being worried about being looked down at. She's really there for him. This is being ten toes down for a man. No matter what his struggles.
PLEASE MAKE THE DISTINCTION BETWEEN BLACK MEN AND MEN! Respectfully TWO DIFFERENT WORLDS!
He is already a blessed to have a woman like her.
I pray I find a woman like this🙏
Don't pray to find a woman like her we're all around. Work on yourself to be a loyal, faithful partner who can be supportive back.
I am the same way ! We are each other rock he leads but when he stumble I will not let him fall . Married 13years.
Once he gets out of the dark place he’s in, he’s going to leave her for someone who he really wants. Unfortunately, she represents a time in his life where he was down and may have a slight resentment towards her.
Side note, for everyone talking about masculine and feminine energy, her tone and body language is definitely giving masculine vibes and his is giving feminine vibes. Js
Lol
You right but 😂😂😂
Yes, it's a very, very strong possibility he will leave, and all to common with black men, because this happened to me, once the man I was with got out of the dark place he was in, and got where he wanted to be, he found another woman.
luckily for me, i married a woman like this. i will grow old with this woman. now (after years of struggling) i am creating real wealth and i am DEFINITELY about to share that wealth willingly with my wife and kids. i will never leave her now that i am wealthy!
Not sure why this was recorded, seems like a private matter. However, this is the type of young woman the Gen Y & Z men need to make it out here in this crazy unforgiving world today. She is not showing one bit of selfishness in what she is saying. 💯 so rare.
I'm sitting here wondering why this is being recorded myself.
She will regret it....if she's paying attention to Baby Boomers, Gen X and millennials she will see that this ride or die stuff doesn't make him into man and it doesn't make him HER man if he becomes successful. We all know this doesn't work.
@@teresam5199 Every relation type is filled with risk either for the man, the woman or both. At the end of the day, if you are with someone that aren't a ride or die, when times get difficult or they ain't happy no more because the one they with isn't making them happy. (Not his or her responsibility to make you happy) Then they are a waste of time. The reason why relationships fail is the lack of commitment and respect for each other.
That's a blessing I hope he realizes what he has and never takes her for granted.
I hope alot of women see this as a self help situation,because alot of us don't know how to treat our man this way.GOOD LUCK YOU GUYS
Whoever raised her taught her well and I love it. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💪🏾
Mental support on both sides that's what makes a relationship growing to love There are so many attributes in a relationship there's nothing like somebody knowing that their Significant other got your back and they support you & your decisions
This is exactly what needs. He looks like he is at a breaking point. She is willing to work with him to get his act together. Every brother needs a solid woman like that
NOW THIS IS COMMUNICATION WHICH FEMINISTS TOOK FROM MEN. THIS IS FEMININITY
Feminist did not take that from men. It is very likely that the woman was riding for the wrong one at one point in time.
Nope...this is masculinity...she is fathering him..... something his biological father should have done when he was young.
@@tanyagivens4338 excuses everywhere. No accountability
Lmao!! Feminists took "communication" from men? haaaaaaaa!! Omg that was hilarious and 62 people agreed!
@annette key Isn't it? Like He legit is acting as if men were just such great communicators that some woman demanding to vote just held them down and covered their mouths. Unbelievable!
She's a keeper. Sounds like she was raised right with both a mother and father in the home.
Some women have done this for their men and build with him together, believing in him, be supporting of him and when the man thought he was successful because he has made some money, she isn't good enough for him anymore. He goes around fornicating with women who are there for his money, women who will never had looked at him when he was still trying to find his feet. It is not only about believing in a man, will the man still love and cherish you when he is successful. Will he remember the path you both walked and the sacrifices you both made for each other when things were tough or will his brain be inbetween his legs when he thinks he has tasted success. I love to see when couples support one another but I have seen what it is like to be toasted aside after believing in a man or woman. Some women also start acting out after they feel they have made it, forgetting who was with them in their journey to success. The main question is why men and women do not want to believe or support their partner in today's society. What went wrong and how can we fix it together as a team.
Exactly that's the reality
I took my care of my man, when he was down. I believed in him and loved him no matter what. He got it together and he's the head of the household.
Love This ❤️
It’s so true
I have done this and got burned. I would do it again, that’s my “ gift” as a woman, but I’m so much more careful now.
God Bless Your Beautiful wonderful Soul!!!!!!
@@BOX3DOUT Omygosh Thank you … you made my morning
Blessings ❤️
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We all have as women. Men don't know what they want
Nothing better then a supportive women, that’s game for the young guys. Seen that in my wife in our college days, now we 18 years married. He def should lock her down ASAP.
I'm just that kind of woman, I believe in my husband. No matter what I would always tell him that he can do anything, he set his mind to I would let him know that I would help him to find a job. But I had started seeing that he was taking the money and playing the lottery and not taking care of other things that were needed. But I was always supportive of my husband even when he messed up and never down him. it was always use so I get her and she was saying the right thing that's a blessing 🙌 ✨ 🙏 😌
I couldnt get past the first 30 seconds without crying....that was the most genuine moment......when you find a good woman fellas you have to appreciate her....this is the epitome a lifetime partner
Wost women underestimate the real & complex responsibilities of men. It's more than just paying the bill & doing the physical jobs around the home.
Great video, keep bringing the truth by keeping it real bro.
She's solid bro SOLID don't hurt her she got your back that's real love 💯
Man this is solid 💪🏽
I really thought she was going to go a different direction, now I have chills. Love it
This is the type of videos that should go viral. The views sadly come from the bad examples out there so nobody wants to shine a light on the modern but traditional woman who knows how to fight for her family.
She's not traditional at all. She's a feminist who out earns her man and babies him. Lmao, if you have to help "your man" fill out job applications....you're already doomed. Keep that crap in the hood. Don't come to my community with this garbage.
She's a WIFE! This brought tears to my eyes. I love this channel.
Finding a woman that truly believes in you is the closes thing a man will find thats comparable to a mother's love witch is unconditionally love
Deon Dimicks so y’all looking for a mother in y’all woman?? Y’all men are sad!
@@FAMD4SH no dummy we are looking for woman that genuinely loves a man and does just look at him as a utility or a bail out plan or insurance plan you dumb ass
You shouldn't be expecting your partner to mother you. That means you're still a boy.
She is about to make me cry. That was beautiful.
This is great information, I definitely think this is great advice !
One of my biggest fear is being a man that can't provide. Just imagine all pressure. That can break a man. Stay strong if you are going through it guys.
Well said Sir. She has my respect.
Awesome Truth. Young Queen definately supportive of her King.
My father would never tell me it's my job to fix a man.
It's a recipe for disaster.
You don't have to fix him....but it's ok to support and encourage. Do you support and encourage?
Absolutely....this is NOT a healthy dynamic for a woman. it will end in trauma, disappointment and regret.
The Energy that all Men need from their Woman.
This is the type of Inspiration that enables a Man to work 12 plus hours a day for close to nothing and not complain once!
Queens aren't made.....
Queens are Born!!!!
I did this for my man for as long as we were together (almost a decade) I did the applications, did the aptitute and math and English online tests for him, made him realise he deserves more in terms of a career. We sat down, did mock interviews, I changed his entire resume multiple times. Because of these things, he gained a 50% pay leap, not over time, but from one job to the next. I used to give him my card to pay for things so je would’t feel as bad, especially when we went to shop for things for him. I encouraged him to go and study when his attitude was that “it was too late”. I When he did go back to school, I helped through the lessons he found difficult, hand-wrote maths worksheets for him and found resources that taught him concepts he was never taught at school when he was younger to help him keep up on class. I gave him a grand a month for a whole year to cover his expenses because I told him to concentrate on studies instead of working part-time while studying. I used my savings so that he could replace an old hand-me-down car he had from his father so he could feel good about what he was driving. Helped him from getting his home repossessed by agreeing to take on half the debt and after that, I invested plenty in home improvements which he had not spent a single penny of his own money on before I came along. I could go on and on. And throughout the entire time, he always found a way to make me feel like i was nothing, and not only that, he constantly told me i was nothing, gave me no affection, he abused me in every way but sexually. I was the fool. I am drained y’all. I don’t know if I have faith in finding a good man any more.
He's still going to fuck it up and then she going to be mad at every other man in the world because the one she believed in disappointing her so now every man will show that action
I remember in the pandemic I lost all my work and the woman I was with at the time turned to me and said: "I make more money than you how does that feel?" During the pandemic I started teaching online I was still making money not the amount I was making before but still I was doing something for myself and my family. Our relationship ended soon after that. I decided to give our relationship a second try this year and it's already over because she doesn't love me for me and that's a solid fact in my head now. She loves the idea of what I can provide and what kind of fairytale life she wants to live. Looking back I've realised anytime she's supported me it came back as a bargaining chip rather than unconditional. Thanks for sharing this video, it's helping me stay with my decision because now she's asking for me back again and my gut says no so I'm guna follow my gut. Give thanks.
FROM A CARNAL STANDPOINT, SHE HAS HER HANDS TIED WITH THE ATTEMP TO SCULPT A MALE INTO A MAN IN WHICH HE SHOULD'VE ALREADY BEEN TRAINED TO GO BUT BIGUPS FOR HER SUPPORT!
Andre Wilson they won’t hear you though. A REAL man plans atleast 10 yrs in advance! If he does he wouldn’t have to go though this. It’s mentally draining dealing with a man like this.
@@FAMD4SH Bruh . The men you speak of are 5% of the population & even they have struggles they would NEVER tell you about so stop promoting this narrative that everything is perfect .
This dude is lucky as hell !!! God sent him that women!!!
i wish i had women like this
Amen💖
She a real one, this man shit is hard as fuck… glad to see a brotha actually have some support. It’s a breathe of fresh air. Blessings to them.
Ladies, never give a dude more energy than he giving you . Because believe if the shoe was on the other foot he leaving your ass.
She is a keeper. My man don't ever leave her. She will make your life beautiful.
i’m going to love and support my man and always be fair to him because no one is perfect but this man keeps me so happy and i love him so much and we have a beautiful baby together ❤️ i’m with him i’m team him he’s with me and he’s team me always ❤️
You will be hold up too that as a North American black women remember that when you meet him
The messaging is key between two people. And communication about messaging is so important.
That's black love for you. It has to contain struggle
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She's deserves a grammy
I don't say this often, but he needs to inform his parents he will be proposing to her that very day!
Salute to nubian for her mindset of building and supporting the man👏🏽 🙏🏽
If I had this, I would have stayed. A woman who believes in you will be just as excited about your vision as you. If you come home & share your progress or good news with a woman & she doesn't get excited for you...LEAVE
Only a sober minded woman and a man will benefit from this awesome message . God bless you brother 🙏 .
Support yourself like this and you wont need another human being to be your anchor…invalidating Gods place in our hearts and Lives. I believe in the people I Love and I pour into them greatly. A man who leads with his wallet is nothing but an atm…a man who leads from the heart is a King. But remember ladies, he doesn’t need an actual reason to leave.
A lot of men out here needing us to do for them what their Mothers never cared enough to do for them and it’s frightening. If your humanity does not precede your gender, you’re not a good catch…period. No check can make you what you know you’re not.
Amen
More like what their FATHERS didn't do for them. No woman, not even his mother, can make a boy a man
PERIODTTT!!
That's great that these two sister siblings got each other's back.
I need a woman like that in my life 😔
Amen💖
A mother?
Y'all nakers are the only myn on the planet that need constant uplifting from others. Get off yo a.s do things for yourself. Be a damn man.
Excellent woman congrats to her for being supportive.
Absolutely my kind of girl! The first time my Man laid his head on my breast and fell into a deep peaceful sleep, I knew he felt like he could be vulnerable with me, not only that he talked to me about what he was going through. I made sure he knew I had his back no matter WHAT!
I love her for supporting her man like that. 💕