trying to figure your life out? this is for you.
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- Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
- "and I'll admit, I feel a little lost right now..."
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"If I feel good in the present moment, then I've lived a good life."
I feel the same in my 30s. I'm 31 now, and my 20s were nothing but going through a major depression with so much family drama. My early 20s was coming out of a deep, dark hole. My mid-late 20s was getting through college and getting my first "big boy" job after college. I'm 30 now with money, freedom, and figuring myself out. I didn't have that luxury in my 20s. I highly respect 20 year olds figuring things out and being secure with themselves. We are all trying to figure life out and sometimes it gets confusing and you will feel lost... and that is okay! Being lost is a step in the right direction. I loved hearing this because I feel like this right now. Love you and everyone in this process. We are all in this together.
I feel you. I'm 35 and in the same place. Finally settled enough to pursue my passions, but that's not always straightforward. 😂
Well, thank you for writing that. I'm in my early 20s, and definitely feeling it. You writing that makes it seem like there will be a more stable, grounded, peaceful way of doing things.😊🌸
#SaveSoil #ConsciousPlanet
I relate to so much of what you wrote. I'll be 29 in a few days, and a part of me berated myself for being slow to "wake up". I felt so lost, stressed, and depressed in my 20's. I'm going back to college and I feel like I am ready to take things on and go after my dreams. Life is tough! We really need to give ourselves the grace to forgive ourselves and grow at our own pace!
Thank you for writing this. Your comment made me feel a bit at ease since I am now in my 20s and feel the same. Also well done on going through all of that. :)
Same here....
Being 16 and feeling like I'm left behind because everyone around me have things figured out. They know what they wanted and who they wanted to be while I'm here still figuring out what to do with my life, with the thought of dropping out from school because it's just exhausting and depressing. I have no motivation to go on anymore and I feel ashamed for being this way, I feel like I'm a disappointment.
I knew nothing about myself when I was 16. it gets better, I promise😉you’ll figure it out
As someone who just turned 20 this video described exactly what I’m feeling
Me too girl! I hope this decade treats us all well 🥹🥹
Talking about the age I'm 23
Just when I was going to say sometimes the best approach is a little less structure in life and a little more spontaneity can be a good thing, you prove it before the end of the video when you approached the girl in the park. We seem to have similar experiences (CPA was one thing, but then you pull out that alto sax at the end…my mind was blown), and I’ve found that I tend to overwhelm myself with too many things, then blame myself when I can’t get everything I set out to do accomplished. Sometimes closing the books, the calendar and just going out with no set agenda and seeing what comes your way is a great way to step back and refresh. But, you already figured that out 🙂.
I agree and I've noticed I always feel the most alive when acting out of spontaneity. I appreciate your thoughts, thank you.
I'm nearly 20, questioning absolutely everything about myself and my life because I'm so confused. I don't know where I'm going, and I don't think I'll ever really know. One thing is for certain though, I'm getting up and dusting off my jeans because I am sick of waiting around for that darned bridge to be built. I'm doing it. Thank you so much for this video.
We don't overthink. We are just analyzing life. It's the same for me. I am not trying to make people see that I am insane by thinking this way. Just like you, I feel like I have a hole that has to be dig deeper for me to analyze what's going on in my life and what to do about it. Thank you for making me feel that I am definitely valid, that my feelings, thoughts, and emotions are valid.
i’m 16 years old but i just dropped out of high school (technically tested out) and i have no idea what i want to do, where i’m going, etc.
i’m also tired of all the adults in my life telling me that i’m young and still have time to figure things out because i don’t. i’m chronically ill and also in a very bad situation in most of my relationships. i don’t have any friends and i want to move out of my house as soon as possible.
i seriously have no idea what to do i’m not worried i’m just lost.
it’s like i don’t have the will or motivation to do anything anymore
time is your advantage so this is the perfect time for you to grow your self-love. do that first and things will fall into place, I promise (it did for me). sending you lots of love🤍
make ur hobby ur job babe
I don't get why you want to move as soon as possible, you're 16, you're with your parents, bills and food are payed for, all you have to do is think about your life and how you'll grow (except if there is an abusive situation that you need to get out of and in this case I would say contact the authorities). Also, you're young, like really REALLY young, it's ok to not know what you want to do, many still don't know what they want to do or how life will go at 30 yo.
You've articulated my thoughts really well. There's so much noise around me and its confusing, I've decided I'll just walk and hope for the best and trust that I'll do great. Thank you Liz. Your visuals are refreshing.
Four words to describe this masterpiece. (Authenticity at its finest.)
I relate to this so much. Just had a mental breakdown. I feel like I often do things that I think people view as the "right" thing. I have a university degree but I sometimes feel like it was the wrong choice and I'm looking into getting another degree but I don't know what the F I want!!
you got this, trust yourself ;)
@Iman Al-Jahmee Saaaame! I also wanna live an extraordinary life and be rich. If it makes you feel better, I'm almost 28. So imo, it's not too late for you! I mean, it's not too late for me either but it's almost as if you're 3 years ahead of me
I’m 23 and have been going through some major depression & anxiety & going through a chronic fatigue diagnosis. I’ve an amazing fiancé, we bought a house last year and I’m in a job I’ve always wanted- yet it’s all a lot of work and has been absolutely exhausting. I can count the friends I have on one hand and I feel isolated myself by not going to Uni. I’ve began to question everything since falling into this depression a few months back but this video feels like everything I needed to hear. Truthfully, I’m in tears. Thank you for making this, I really feels like something has just switched inside me.
You’re clearly an amazing, thoughtful and open hearted person and I wish you all the best❤
wishing you all the best as well🤍
Hi Elizabeth, thanks for sharing awesome tips. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I'm now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family & friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself. This is to encourage someone "you can start anytime to have a reset it's worth it! I'm striving to continue growing cus it's a journey🥰🥰
Congratulations to you Victoria 💖💖 Thanks for encouraging others with your story, I will love to get tips from you too.
@@juliet800 Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on... I hope this is useful to you.
That is so amazing!! Thank you for sharing your story. I really hope it inspires other individuals out there to start taking action♥♥♥
@@melbavic23712 How did you grow to 6 Figure? I'm honestly trying to work on my personal finance this year.
I learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently💯💯
Love every artistic choice in this video. The way you edited, the rhythm, the filter, the music choices. As a new RUclipsr, I feel inspired by your work. Keep it up 🌺
I'm feeling this way at 17,
I want to clear up my head ,
Wanna be happy and feel the peace..........................
I have dreams , bit ones but
And I , myself keep holding myself back.......
I guess I just need guidance
from " adults ".........
This video was great and touched many thoughts that I’ve been having. Being 25 right now has never been more confusing and draining. For the past couple of months, I’ve been feeling numb and outta place since my grandfather passed away. I still have my grandmother and I cherish her every day. Spending time with her more since moving back home, reconnecting to my culture, and getting a permanent job here at my tribal health center. Im grateful for everything but I feel like something is missing. Today was one of those days, i was reminded “one step at a time” and coming across this video made me feel better about my own situation.
Something through out living so far, is that everything happens for a reason. I’m grateful that your alive and able to spread this message, I’m grateful that life steered me to where I’m at now. Go with the flow of life and you’ll end up where you need to be, like here right now, in the present. Truly is a bliss
So relatable... I hope one day, I will learn to trust myself... Yeah, we know what we want. It's just that we lack trust in ourselves. I wish everybody here to be successful in life. MANIFESTING!
I have been feeling the same. I have confidence in myself but at the same time everything around me feels wobbly, like anything can happen any moment. I've been scared for the last 3 months and have suffered severely because of it. I absolutely agree with the noise thing. I think we should try and shut it out as much as possible because hey, we only have this life, and even if we make mistakes, we will be able to hold ourselves accountable and not put it on somebody else. Plus, we will learn so much.
I also have this thing where the people around me see all the potential in me while I suffer from imposter syndrome. They want me to do the next big thing and waste no time at all, but deep down I know that I need a break. Some time off to let myself breathe and then study and ace the next entrance test. Sadly our society is such that it considers a year dedicated to yourself and your well being as a year wasted. As of now I do not know how to make them understand cause deep down I know I cannot.
This video was most helpful. Thank you for being so candid with everything, especially in a world which shows only the best and the brightest. Much love and power to you ❤️
I just discovered ur channel and let me say your video was the visual and emotionall meditation I needed. Your words really spoke to me as I am 19 turning 20 in August and I am so scared of choosing the wrong path and not "live a good life", but I've learned to just appreciate where I'm at right now, a young girl barely figuring out what I want for myself, I accept that and Im okat with that. thank you for an awesome video
Teenage is confusing and scary.....atleast for me
I am a teenager aswell and for so long I felt like this. But the last few weeks I started to really live, dont care and do stupid things because someday I will be an adult and wont be able to do this anymore. I‘m sure that someday you‘ll feel better and it wont be that scary anymore. Life can be so beautiful 💕
@@YourGirlSara222 I just hope so ...... I wish that the new friends i made are worth it and my academic can improve and all over i dont want anyone to compare me to anyone !
I want to learn to be open to more new experiences. I'm not the guy who would go over and ask a stranger to sit with me, and I know if I was on the receiving end of that request I would say no and miss out on an opportunity to meet someone who could potentially change my life. Thank you for this video!
When she approached that girl in the park and asked her to come sit with her I cried because it’s what I want to do all the time but never get to because I’m scared and have social anxiety, and when the girl said yes and they became friends it made me feel like oh I’m really missing out on a lot of things in life just because I’m scared of talking to someone that could potentially become someone special in my life.
I was scared too, but possibility always beats fear☺️
I just clocked 19 last Saturday and I know I've been missing something in my life but my birthday was like an awakening for me, it's like my parents have always kept me in a bubble but I need to take control of my life and for me to convince them to trust me,*I need to trust me*.
RUclips just randomly recommend your video but I think it was a sign .
happy belated bday🎉excited for your journey ahead
This video came by at such the right time.. Thank you Elizabeth! You gave me a sense of clarity within myself. Best wishes to you and everyone else feeling lost!!
wow I came by this video at a perfect time in my life. I am in my mid 20's and I'm a little lost in life like you I did what others told me but I feel like I should be doing more. Way more. The only time where I felt truly happy and free was when I was studying abroad because I finally broke free from people telling me what to do for a little bit. I also took a risk going to a place I've never been before but it felt nice to do something once that I loved and not listen to those who were telling me what to do. This year I want to start taking risk again and in the fall I am applying for a job position aboard I might fail and not get in but it never hurts to try. I don't know why but for some reason I just have a strong and good feeling to go aboard again and travel since I love exploring so much and meeting new people.
super excited for you~
After a rough day and getting my confidence brought down for 2 or 3 weeks and not trusting myself and always ove rthinking I really needed this, thank you so much!
What a wonderfully poetic and articulate young lady you are 🙂The end of this where you plucked up the courage to go and talk to what was clearly in the end, a like-minded soul, shows just how important it is for us to connect (especially when it's outside). I say this as an introvert who's usually more than happy being on my own indoors a lot away from people, despite me being quite the people-person! 😄
just laying peacefully and listening to this makes me feel so so much better, I'm finishing my school and will go in college soon VERY nervous and confused and i love you so much for making this video it's beautiful it's perfect !!
I feel the same in my 30s and you encapsulated what I’m feeling these recent months. You’re not alone.
Hi , I am 16 and I feel the same and this question been stuck in my head for so long so tanks for this video
YT keeps recommending all these beautiful Asian vloggers. gj Great points. Had an poetic feel to it. I feel the insanity you were talking about. Feels like I dug a hole, jumped in, and started pulling dirt in the form of questions over me. It's suffocating to say the least. It feels bad to be in the hole and I ask myself why I am here which leads to answers in the form of dirt that continue to fill the hole. So like any sensible insane person does, I distract myself to stop. Anyway, great vid. Thank you for your insight.
was feeling really down today but this honestly feels like a comfort blanket!! subbed
Hi. Im 20 years old, livin alone, new city, new places, new people, friends, relationships. Starting ADULTING is hard, u need to take responsibilities, u r owner of ur soul, body and decisions... Its scary but amazing, too
"I'm not overthinking
I'm just analyzing" ❤️
this made me tear up🥺 you explained everything that I’ve been feeling this month. I was doing so good the beginning of the year but out of no where I started feeling down. These thoughts just started to make me feel doubtful about myself, feeling stuck and confused, pretty much all over the place. I try my best everyday to keep going and be thankful for what I have in life but it can be hard sometimes. I’m taking this position that I am in my life rn, as a this is happening to me for a reason. Loved the video
Im on my late teens right now and this hits hard like im crying
What I found for myself to help figure out life is to simply form an informed opinion about life or what ever you are trying to achieve. That way you have more conviction what you believe is right and wrong and what you think is important or what you want to change in the world.
I just clicked on this video and after not even a whole minute I had tears in my eyes, just turned 20 and related too much to what you said ._.
This wohle video is just so beautiful and really comforting me. So glad I found this channel
Thankyou so much for adding inbuilt subtitles as a non-English speaker and someone who is learning english it is honestly so hard to understand what the influencers are saying and you're literally the sweetest and gorgeous person I've seen you deserve more support and subs I loved you video love
i love how natural you r keep going!!!!
that was a meaningful message, thank you so much. some of us really needed it
this is so beautiful, im 20 and i think i needed this before i hit 21 and tbh ive been having not so great moments and i hope these days pass as soon as it can and i know ill pull through.
I would like to say that a lot of the confusion and worry is because we care about life so we want to try to find a way to figure out what's going to happen and how we can control it but we can't. Even though we can't I hope we can all trust that there's a God who cares about us and knows what's going to happen and make sure everything works out for our good. That even if we feel like we're not good enough, this God with all the power in the world can give us all we need to get through the downs of life and fly during the ups if we open ourselves up to the love that is there xx
I came across your video and I don't regret it. Thank you for this
omgg i love how fast you channel has grown
Glad to find this video, I'll be 20 this year and currently in college pursuing something that I didn't like to begin with because of circumstances. Kinda reassured me that it's okay to take my time and figure things out along the way.
this video popped up on my page as i’m taking a bubble bath and i related so deeply, life has been so confusing, i needed this ._.
Mrs Elizabeth Chu thank you for making me feel less alone.
Exactly what I needed at the right time. Thank you^^
im 16 and ive felt this
im 21 and I feel like I chose the wrong path. I am not sure I want to be veterinarian. but sometimes it feels right I don't know what to feel. I don't know how to handle my emotions. I think I need to let go of things. I should go with the flow
I really envy you, I cried watching your video. Thank you very much for sharing such a relaxed state, it is difficult for me to empathize, but it can satisfy the imagination. I am in China, and the environment of the whole society is urging us to be a person who can generate economic benefits to the society, but the society gives you very little in return. For example, the beautiful park you found in the video, those harmonious scenery and people, we can't easily find it.
Hi love, sending lots of love. I get where you’re coming from, it’s a very intense environment to be in-lots of voices shouting at you. Hope my videos can bring you comfort, at the end of the day, you are the most important in your life.
I turn 16 this april and got this on my recommendations..youtube do be seeing right through me fr
I am so happy that you approached the stranger! I’ve been in that moment many time of wanting to approach and make a small connection with a stranger but have never gotten the courage to
I really liked the vibe in this video. Thanks for sharing❤
This is so lovely and you made me cry… Thank you 🥹💖
This hit me hard. Moment at the end especially brought a big smile to my face! Thank you for your art x
This video has come to me like a blessing from my guardian angel thank you so much
Hi Elizabeth!~ I just discovered your channel. The vlog was so inspiring and calming as well. It gave me hope and perspective. Thank u! keep going! I wish u many blessings xoxo
I want to thank to you elizabeth, your words are truly went into my soul and heart and brain
This video has been sooo comforting
Thank you, i need words like that sometimes, thank you
me being 16 analysing what life really means but after I've watched this vid, I can see that whatever happens now, it's only gonna be better cuz ✨life is good✨
노래 플레이리스트 너무 좋아요.. 메모장에 적어놓고 가사 찾아서 불러보기도 하고.. 힐링되는 노래 감사합니다 🥰💕💕
Feeling thses emotions lately 🥺anyway thanks for this video. It made me something to realize and hold on🥰
Your video found me at the right time, thank u 🫶🏽
Thank you ❤
this video was so introspective and beautiful. i relate to this so so much. i cant wait to see more videos from you
i have been replaying this video ever since I stumbled upon it due to youtube lovely algorithm and I am so grateful for it. being of an asian descendant myself, i find it so nice to listen to someone that looks like me. Everything you said in this video is told with passion and sympathy. I am planning to make a youtube channel filled with content like yours, as in no bullsh*t, no waking up at 5 am and finish all chores by 10 am everyday, no toxic productivity and hustle culture content.
Nothing is worse than being guilt-trip for not being productive at an age (I'm 21) where we are still discovering and unlearning bad habits from our past especially if we were raised with generational trauma. I want to be able to create a space where people can go and feel that they can slow down and feel what they need to feel because that is what you did for me.
I hope you know that you are making such a huge difference in your subscribers life. For example, today at the gym, I thought I could lift heavier than what I usually go with but I was wrong, a person saw that and helped me put my weight up and ultimately saved my life. Usually I let that situation be because I worry about making social interactions at the gym, but then I remembered how you talk to a random person and became their friend, so I reached my hand out and ask for their name and they asked for mine, then they helped spot the weight that I had initially struggled with. I am planning to get them a gift and the next time I see them at the gym, I'll give it to them.
You did that for me, you changed my mind set. Thank you so much, please keep making content.
thank you ): you just hugged my soul.
This is lovely 🙏🏾. We are all trying to find ourselves
this warmed my soul to watch, like a big hug
Now its really feeling good and easy, after watching video☺️💯
glad i watched this after having this video sit in my history 💀
thank you for sharing this video. meant a lot.
this video is so well made and the shots+colors are so pretty. so grateful that youtube recommended your channel:) and the fact that you made a new friend at the park is so cute!
thank you for this :
thank you so much for sharing this, perfectly put into words
Wonderful video, Thank you!
This is the perfect timing this video was uploaded. Thank you so much♡
even though I am 26 and still living with this parents, I really could use this video rn :c
I am a new subscriber ✨ I love your vlogs!! It is very calming and encouraging. I pray to the Lord that may you always find the assurance and security in Him💖 Please keep vlogging 🥰
OMG I love lavender tooo!!!
I feel like being 20s is all about being lost
thank you for sharing this
This video is so beautiful and heartwarming 💌 Thank you for uploading it ❤
Beautiful video. Inspired me in ways I couldn't have imagined.
Bro I saw this more than one at the same time❤❤
You’re beautiful. Thank you so much.
It is beautiful video, thank you for you work
We need to hug it out boo....same boat❤❤❤💑💑👫👫
Wonderful! Thank you❤
I love this videeo, thank you so much for showing us this!
powerful 💗 thank u for sharing
this is the cutest video, and is very insightfull :)
This is amazing ❤❤
I'm 15 but I feel so lost
Fire video I really needed this
I needed this :)