Ten minutes before my father passed away, he was in a coma, he suddenly turned to face me and his eyes took on an unearthly brilliance, he was looking straight at me as our eyes were locked! I was totally mesmerised by this and bewildered. Minutes later as he turned away and his eyes returned to normal, he suddenly raised his arms as if reaching out to someone and I assumed it was my mother who had passed away six years earlier almost to the day! My interpretation of this surreal event was my father was saying goodbye to me and my mother had come to help dad pass over! This memory will stay with me forever and I believe I witnessed some very special! RIP mum and dad
That’s a beautiful story Helen. Great you were there with him at that time. My Dad passed very suddenly about five years ago and unfortunately I didn’t get to say goodbye but that just may have saved my heart too. Best wishes to you. Neil
@@666myname666 After my experience with my father I would have to say more spiritual. something extraordinary happened that afternoon. I do not understand it, but know it was a very unusual event, and it was very real!!. Maybe I witnessed his soul getting ready to depart. in any case I feel blessed....
Jake//// It is never easy to lose a loved one. But it helps to know that life continues, and that we will be reunited when we too go to the other side.
After losing my amazing within 2 years, I'm so ready to be with them in Heaven. The world isn't right and people are crazy after COVID lockdowns. I pray to God a lot to please take me home. Miss my parents soooo much. 💔
I'm sorry you feel this way I can relate but in a slightly different way. Can you reply and let me know how you are. Sending love and best wishes your way
A sure sign of brain death, or of the brain dying, is with an increased focus on often regurgitating simple childhood memories of mythological characters you think, or want, to believe are real. It's important to know that the root of the word belief is "to wish", in "I wish there were angels" is the actual meaning of "
..."I believe in angels". Watch for that, the best way to stop braindeath is to go for a nice casual long walk up a gradually increasingly hill, where you breathe deeply to fill your body and mind with oxygen, which is aerating your body, resulting in very refreshingly thinking clearer and along with it feeling happier that you're alive.
@@craigbhill you are so wrong. God is real and heaven/hell exist. I hope you find salvation somehow sooner rather than later. I will pray for you and hope that you discover the spirit of Jesus Christ that exists within you.
I watched both my brother and my father die. There was no rattle or restlessness with them. There was no gasping of air. With my brother he simply started losing color in his face starting at his nose and working outward. He suffered from ALS and just an hour or so before his death a single tear ran down his cheek. He knew everyone was there and I'm sure he was aware of the love that surrounded him. He left in an incredible peaceful way and I am beyond grateful to have been there when he decided to step over into his next adventure. My father was the same. He was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer and died 2 1/2 months later. On the day of his death we put him in hospice. My mother, sister and my brother and nephew and I were in his room and got him settled, it was about 7 pm my mother sister and nephew left to go home and eat with just my brother and I left. My dad did not fight death, he had waited for my mother and sister to leave before he decided to let go. He simply took one breath with a long pause and then a second and then he was gone. In no way do I find this a curse to have witnessed both their deaths. When both deaths happened an indescribable feeling filled the room, something I have never felt before. What ever it was, it was powerful and I'll forever be grateful for being allowed to experience it.
Having lost 3 brothers to cancer I’m very familiar with the death rattle and watching my loved ones pass over to the other side. All 3 were veterans. 2 served during war time. The VA and Hospice care people were really helpful during this time. Thanks to all of you.
Sorry to hear you must have been very proud of them. - i watched my dad die 10 weeks ago he had the death rattle for 3 days getting louder and louder to point i couldnt even speak for the noise. Its still haunting me yet
@@silvana11221122 Until one hears the death rattle it’s truly a harrowing experience Thanks for sharing My youngest brother was a drummer in a rock band so with his sons blessing the last song he heard was Knocking of Heavens Door by Guns N Roses. Everyone in family thought it was the perfect way to send him over to the other side.
@@wecandobetter9821 it was so loud and then kept getting louder - i could stand out the front door and still hear it... not realising it had been getting louder. .. and then suddenly it stopped and his heart movements was clearly visable .. horrific cant get it out head and keep searching you tube to see if anyone else had that experience. my dads last song was amazing grace :( ps... drummers they are the best i hope yours is at peace
Just before my Mom passed away hospice put her on the morphine pump saying she would not be able to swallow or talk just sleep until she passed away. That was around 10:30 pm on Dec 30th.2014. She sat up on the side of the bed until about 3:30 or 4 o’clock in the morning and she drink a whole 2 liter of Coke and talked to all 5 of her children individually. I was the main caretaker of my Mom and she wanted to start with me. When she talked to me I had my arm around her she said she was so proud of me and thanked me for all that I had done for her and I could literally feel a weight lifted of my shoulders it was such a peaceful feeling setting there with her. One of my sisters-in-law told her it was the last day of the year and my Mom said you are right it is the last day and at 8:30 am she took her last breath and she was gone. Lord I miss her so much. She had stage 4 lung cancer.
My Mum passed away from Cancer on 10.11.18 she had Bladder Cancer and Breast Cancer, I still can't believe she's gone she was 77 years old and fought to the very end, R.I.P my beautiful mother.
Hey 85 here. Happy that I got this old. Looking forward to how many more??? My dad died at 46. My son at 30. My baby sister 8 months. God has been good to me!!
I watched my mom go through this process. It is so strange that I knew that she was going to pass. All of my family thought I gave up on her. I didn't. I knew in my heart that she went to be with our lord when she was on life support.
My mom has stage 4 brain cancer. and she's in a hospice facility in n.c.ive been caring for her for 4 years. and it's hard when I tried everything to help her.but she was taken from home and admitted to hospice care in an local hospital. she has stopped eating, drinking, stopped speaking. she's now on an morphine pump that gives her 2.0 of morphine every hour. it hurts so bad to see her suffering daily. the doctors told me that it could be any day now .thank you all for listening.
I lost my mom in September.. I was there when she passed. I sang her into heaven. I hope you have comfort all around you.. Being 24, having 2 kids under 3, and pregnant it's so hard to get past what I saw. The night before she past I didn't sleep, I stayed up comforting her. I knew she didn't have long and we were leaving the next day.
On a lighter note i think my uncle really hated me. When he was about to die he asked me to sit on his knee. I refused as he was in the electric chair.
Death means to me no more pain .worries .going to a better place .heaven will be so great .nothing to be afraid of .seeing our love ones being happy again.
I lost my mother last week. She will be in heaven with my dad, grandmother,grandfather and also with her lovely friends. Death means no more pain for my loving maa.😂
I have been a C.N.A. for 25 years and have seen countless people die. It used to just roll off my back until I started getting as old as some of my residents. I retired from it and now I'm semi retired, but all the death I was around for so many years seems to haunt me. I see just how fradgile life is. And how little time we really have. So live it up and don't take it home, I know that's like asking the imposiable from a health worker but ya gotta find that distraction. Best of luck to ya'll in your carers!
Thank you for a beautiful and sensitive description. You have a very calming voice and I'm sure anyone on their last moments would be comforted by you. I understnad a little more now. x
A friend told me that before a person dies, they may see angels or have spiritual dreams about loved ones who have passed on. It happened to her mother. My mom is almost 98 years of age and I'm her fulltime caregiver. She has been having more dreams of her loved ones who have passed on. She had one very recently where she and a sister who has passed on were at the sisters home and they went out the door and took a walk together. That seems very telling to me. She also has been seeing angels more. She's always been very spiritual and given to visions. But I've noticed this more of late.
I’m so sorry for those watching this that are suffering, I really hope you aren’t in great pain, dying or caring for someone! Been here too many times, really weary of this happening to those I love. I wish I could help, this is brutal, sometimes, don’t get ill yourself, it We all will be there, please take care of yourself too! Hope yours was natural causes, if helps. Knowing none of us are getting out of this place alive, somehow it makes it easier for me hope you find peace, and I genuinely wish you well! ❤️ Sincerely, thanks for providing this.
k0smon nope. 99 percent who die do so crying in pai, their families mourn, i am not a people's person but all the same they will at least pretend to mourn and that is even more suffering.
I wish the hospice workers shared more of these signs with me. I understand why some people wouldn't want to know. I wanted to be there when death was imminent so I could comfort my mother on her next journey. I know some of the dying would prefer to be left alone, but I sensed she wanted me there. At least, I know she is in a better place where she experiences no more suffering.
Wow. My mother at 92 and with dementia is moving towards the end of her life. This statement by a person who clearly is informed about what can happen is very beneficial to me. I need straight answers, and although my mother might not succumb to some of her examples, I know Elwanda is being as frank and sincere as she can be. Bravo. RE.
YOU SIMPLE MINDED FUCK EVERY BODY STARTS DYING FROM THE MOMENT THEY ARE CONCEIVED. THIS IS HUMANITY AT ITS BEST. JUST FACE THE FACT THATN YOU AND EVERYONE YOU KNOW AND HAVE HEARD OF WILL FUCKIN DIE. DONT BE SO FUCKIN GLOOMY GUY THIS SHIT HAS HAPPENED A BILLION , QUINTILLION, TRINTILLION TIMES A QUINTILLION SINCE HUMANS FIRST STARTED SHITTING AND FOULING UP THIS EARTH. hOPEFULLY HUMANITY WILL QUIT FUCKING UP THIS EARTH AND LEAVE IT TO THE RIGHT OWNERS OF THIS EARTH, I AM A SPACE MAN AND I AM GIVING YOU GOOD ADVICE HERE EARTHLINGS. JUST RELAX AND GO AWAY AS EVERYONE HAS BEFORE YOU HAS . YOUR NO BETTER THAN ANYONE ELSE AND DONT DESERVE SHIT TO CRY ABOUT IN WHAT EVER STAGE YOU ARE IN BECAUSE YOU DONT BELONG HERE IN THE FIRST PLACE. YOU FUCKING CREEPS.
I don’t want to get old! I don’t want my kids to have that burden of having to care for me at an old age! I watch my mother struggling to care for her own Mother; who suffered a stroke last year. My grandma is bed-ridden now and my mom is all she has to care for her! It’s really stressful to hear how my mom has zero help! And home-care Assistance is too expensive so she’s left to figure it out on her own!! Really a sad situation that I can’t do anything about since I live so far from her! So I think towards the future and how I don’t ever want to grow old and sickly leaving my children to have to care for me! I don’t ever want to put them through that! Dying young would be best for everyone!
i experience this yesterday afternoon my father inlaw passed away , pretty much word for word what this young lady is saying happened , its something ill never forget , looking into his eyes and you can just feel he wasn't looking back , that was pretty hard to take , R.I.P my father inlaw , you're in gods hands , no pain and no worries
I’m sorry for your losses death is nothing more than a graduation into another life...Check out Age of Truth channel video titled What Happens when you die David Icke Linda M. Peace and Love
Assistance with end of life should be available to everyone. Avoid all the pain suffering and fright. We all get to pass in our sleep, what more can you ask for as a dying wish? Save all loved ones the grief of watching you suffer, it’s a terrible everlasting memory.
Assistance to get out of suffering exists in 6 states. Death with Dignity it is called. If you're terminally ill, a doctor can legally prescribe medication that you can take when you've decided you've had enough pain and suffering.
My father passed a month ago today, my father had to have known he was leaving, any other day the caretakers could contact me but this day they had the wrong numbers. I think my father had alot to do with that. I Love You Daddy.
Thank you for your straight forward & soft manner of your explanation. I witnessed my father's death & I wished I had been informed of what to look for. I did hear his death rattle & thought I knew what it was. But I wondered why his mouth was wide open for a few days.
What are all those conversations about applying electricity to brains after death?Is it true?And if "yes",who will apply?And if "no",where did all those "rumors" come from?Will it be applied to all or to choosen only?It will be helpful to know in advance.Do You have any info?
I am the middle child of six kids(one birth was twins) I sat by my mom the last week of her life. As she exhaled her last breath, the light in the hospital room turned gold. Not yellow - gold. I was hit with awe. As the nurses ran in, the color dissipated like fog in sunlight...
MB//// What a great send-off for your mom. She now enjoys an amazing life in the world unseen. For more information, free download "Life in the World Unseen".
My wife was 44 when she died from leukaemia, I will never forget the death rattle she made an hour or so before the end. I knew she wasn’t aware of what was happening because of the morphine drip she was on. 8th May 1998 was a day that will live with me always.
Please pray for my husband. He is not coping well with my demise. My doctor's are smoking crack. My nurse looked at the doctor like he was nuts. Mental health indeed. No one ever believes me
This is a very practical-, thoughtful- and clinically loving description. She doesn't focus the presentation on her OWN description. Others I have seen doing these on RUclips and elsewhere make it more about themselves than affording useful practical information for those that just want THAT.
SHE DIDNT FEEL LOVING AT ALL TO ME THERE IS A BETTER WOMEN WHO SPEAKS ON THE SIGNS OF DEATH HER CHANNEL IS MIDWIFE2THESOUL SHE IS VERY MUCH MORE CARING AND LOVING THAN THIS WOMAN
whocanitbeifitaintme One thing I will never do is visit the channel that is recommended by an insulting woman who if she had recognised the value in what this woman shared and then added that there was another good channel might have got more hits - the only hit I want to give is not a good one - and lose the cap locks, that's just childish.
I had to watch my grandma go through all of this. It was probably the hardest thing I've ever expierenced in my life, especially since it was the first time I had seen anything like that.
Trust me on this,you don't die..your body dies but you as a being does not die.you are still you but without a body or Vessel. You still see,and hear and see what is going on.and as for me I didn't want to come back.
Its never good bye people :) its just a while before we see each other again... chin up everyone my gran passed away on the 31st of may 2013 and I know that deep down she is ok as she went peacefully. love her so much, I miss her but shes with my granddad now :) I hope these kind words help you all :) xxx
Death is just a scary thought! I never really thought about it until I turned 50. You start seeing more and more of your friends deaths, terminal disease, lifestyle consequences, just scary! I get so I think about it more and more! It's just scary feeling, not knowing when or how, or what's going on inside your body, have no other way to describe how I feel.
There is nothing to fear from death, Tracey...and fear serves no purpose other than to trigger anxiety (which you are already feeling).. I am 47, and I have stood witness to the deaths of a son, a brother, 3 grandparents and 4 friends...and many more will follow if I am here to see it...if I am lucky enough...I have learned to embrace death as a welcome friend..and a necessary part of life.... I have had 3 close calls myself...one when I was 17 (overdose with the need for resuscitation to save my life after I stopped breathing) and I can't say I even had time to fear death... When thoughts of death start to creep in, try distracting yourself with something you enjoy..and remember..when the end comes...it is as normal as being born or taking a breath... You will do fine...and when the end comes there is no sweeter moment...pure release of our imperfect bodies..to an eternal sleep of peace....
فرشید رشیدی فر u must be from the middle east to say that . Ur people always been in war . And also said that jesus Christ was just a prophet but when revieved from the tomb it people didn't believe it t all .
فرشید رشیدی فر Excellent reply, brother! It is amazing to me what constitutes a "Good Life" here in the west... I don't own a brand new car..I don't have a big screen TV, an X box 1, PS4 , boat or a house that keeps me mortgaged till death... I have a wife who loves me...a healthy family and friends, a house that is modest but warm and my own..I only have to work 4 hours a day to live a life with all I need...I wish I had the money to travel (I used to travel and I loved it) and I feel I have a good life..as far as suffering goes, I am lucky..I don't have to worry about disease, clean water or food...and health care in my country is free of charge to me...so I wake up each day and give thanks that my life is good...and I wish a better life for everyone who is suffering..and I try to live outside of my tiny little world...because this is the gift we have been given...and to live as an island would be squandering it.. :-) I wish you a good life, good health, and peace... JJ
فرشید رشیدی فر Thank you, my friend... Are you in Iran? Or are you an Iranian civilian living abroad? I recently got a small glimpse of Iran on Anthony Bordain's show and it is much different than I thought it was..very beautiful..the people were all friendly and smiling, and the food is excellent! I am getting hungry just thinking about it...but I have always loved food from the Middle East.... I think "Western thinking" is a bit of an odd concept..I'm Canadian, so I am able to be optimistic, we are always being compared to Americans, but we are VERY different than they are when it comes to a number of things...I have always felt Canadians and Brits are more alike that Canadians and Americans. I have never liked things that were "popular" just because my peers went gaga for something, and low quality, consumer junk has never garnered my attention, just because it tends to be unattractive to me...and I paid a price when I was a teen..not wearing the must have clothes or doing the popular things in my downtime..but some of the things I enjoyed went on to become very popular years later..so what can I say... Anyway, since it is December 25th I will wish you a Happy Christmas, I hope you and your loved ones have a healthy, peaceful and prosperous 2015...
Much of my fear of death has been diminished due to personal experiences I won't go into here. Save to say that I don't think dying or being dead is not nearly as bad as we think it is!
@@anastaciuswyse9622 follow Jesus if you want to spend your eternity in heaven. Your choice. Jesus is a gentleman and will not force anyone to accept His gift of everlasting life.🙌🙏
I'm an actor trying to nail a death scene and watched this to gain information. So, for what it's worth, I greatly appreciate this video. It hopefully can help save some lives too.
Within two months I watched my mom and dad pass away and everything she says happens just like that . I sucked watching it but it helped to know when it was coming .
We were sat around my grandfather in the hospice when he was dying, his breathing becoming less and less until it stopped. We all looked at each other thinking that was it before he inhaled deeply. We always like to think it was a last joke he played on us, as he was a very humorous guy!
Metal00m fuk hospice .peple need euthanasia .too many suffer too much too long b4 crossing into spirit.its unnecessary .most peple r not understanding that is y they r thevway they r nd limited to wat they believe or dnt believe.if all peple understood we r spiritual beings then those in the worst pain wud b given euthanasia.its wrong immoral to let peple suffer badly for too long and wrong to not allow euthanasia.most dying need euthanasia instead they r left to sufffer terriblly for too long unnecessarily .it's horrible to watch them fade that badly .they shud b euthanized immediately .peple hold onto.to.them too hard and mourn for nothing and some r fake morners.i hate wat this world has become
When my grandma died, they told me she had been talking the night before. I hadn't seen her in six months because I was afraid. I saw her every day for 10 years as a child. When I was 18, she became terminally ill. Turns out smoking literally since Hitler was alive will give you cancer. I got there, she was totally unresponsive. She was doing the whole mouth open deal that this broad is talking about. I talked to my grandmother for at least a couple hours trying to elicit some response. Almost five years later and it hurts just as bad.
I had a lucid conversation just 3 hours before he died. He was semi-comatose but he didn't or my mother to be with him when he died. He made that very clear to me. I asked he wanted to be alone at dinner that night and he gave me a "thumbs up"!
I struggle with this myself. I wasn't there when my mom passed in hospice. I was so exhausted my family took me to eat. Soon as I left she passed. I currently am in grief counseling trying to deal with the regret of leaving. But I was told by several people. Sometimes they won't go with you there. I told myself m I was coming back and more family was coming by. I see she wasn't having it and passed . It still haunts me I wasn't there and it's been a year.
Although people don't have a lot of control over the time they die, they sometimes can hold out just long enough to pass when they're alone. I'm sure he did it to protect you. It was his choice. Don't feel bad.
yes.. all matched with my experience...my father died like the same way in front of my very eyes 6 months back due to pancreatic cancer...its such most tough and horrible time for the family members...life really comes to us some times with the most cruel way.
Thanks for this description. I’m seeing many of those signs in my daughter who is dying of heart failure at 31 from a neuromuscular disease. I’m sitting at her bedside right now, she is sleeping, restlessly. Her urine has gotten dark red and she is coughing now and then. She hasn’t eaten or drank much, she keeps saying she can’t feel her hands. She is in a nursing home but we want to take her home to die. She needs to be in hospice but refused in the past. Hoping now she will accept hospice and we can take her home. But not sure we will make it in time.
My brother died from being stabbed and shot in the heart. I can only imagine how traumatic a death that was. My father died from being shot in the head while he slept. I imagine his death was peaceful. My niece's husband's mom died while sitting up watching tv. She didn't fall over. Her tongue was stuck outside her mouth. Death is as common as the sunset. How one dies is what matters.
Dann////// The end result is the same no matter what the cause of death. The person goes to a place in the afterlife that he/she is prepared for. More info can be found by downloading "Life in the World Unseen".
WELL NOW TRAGEDY HAS STRUCK ME AGAIN MY DEATH LIST HAS GOTTEN LONGER OCT2ND 2016 MY FRIEND WAYNE BELL DIED AND I DIDNT GET TO SAY GOODBYE I CANNOT TAKE IT THIS IS NOT FAIR
When my father-in-law passed he didn't display any of those signs. He had a quick transition, he started breathing fast, he put his hands up in the air and we grabbed and held his hands and told him everything was okay. And then he was gone. The only thing we should have done was wait until Hospice got there. We called his doctor who said 'the choice was up to us to wait for Hospice or call 911'. Hospice had been slow to make the initial first visit, so we called 911. We didn't know better then. Suddenly we were overwhelmed with cops who were treating us like we had just killed him. He had cancer and had been given 12 months to live, this was month 18. The cops didn't believe us. I was in tears and freaking out thinking we were going to be arrested. Fortunately the Hospice nurse called and said she would be there in the morning. We handed to phone to one of the cops and they verified that he was dying soon. To say it was a nightmare is putting it mildly.
I pray when my time comes I don't have to suffer those symptoms... Hopefully I can still have control enough to end it myself! I know it hurts to suddenly lose someone, but I would think it hurts a lot more to see them suffer! I don't think God wouldn't understand someone wanting to avoid suffering... On another note, how did this get in my recomended videos?! Im gonna be sad all day now 😟
On another point, not all those symptoms are accompanied by pain. My mother died in 2017 from cancer.She had the open mouth, restlessness etc But no pain. It had been taken care of.And yes she could communicate, so she would have said if she were in any pain but she wasn't.
Sat with my Mom for a week, never left her side because I didn't want her to go alone. That is my fate but didn't want it to be hers because it didn't have to.
Ive done a video on death on here, done with some humour but im sincere in what i talk about. Life is absolutly crazy when you think about it. All we acheive, all our looks, money, possessions, relationships, experiences, all taken away by the great leveler that is death. No matter how much positive thinking you do in life, that is the realitt :(
My mom is terminal. She has all these symptoms. I now know what that sound is that I hear from her. The death rattle. It’s sad. Thank you for sharing this. My mother refuses Hospice so I take care of her. This video helped 💖
Sorry about your Mom, you are good daughter to be there for her. Being the primary caregiver is tough, I hope you had some help. My prayers are with you and your mom.
Thanks Arianna. ( nice name by the way) I know what you are saying. And i have got a lot to be thankful for, a great son, friends, family etc but still dealing with some stuff and i also think too much sometimes. Life can be great and amazing, at the moment it isn't so. I live in hope !!
Which philosophical or existential question does faith help with? I never said I don't beleive in a higher power, I said I don't beleive in god... The stream of causality, the network of communities, the principles of dependent origination... These are all a much higher power than any individual.
My grandma from my father’s side was suffering and struggled for a while ! She would moarning and also hallucinating gasping of air but my other grandma peaceful died in her sleep without gasping for air or struggles!
I suppose know one knows that when they are born how long we will be here for, and what life we will lead, which is quite interesting, as we are all so unique, but all humans. Before we die, many have their own beliefs, and thoughts of what happens then, but never the less, not so many years ago we could not be here on You Tube, have computers etc, and way back in the dark ages almost nothing at all, so I feel so lucky to be in this era. The only thing I will be really saddened and will break my heart completely is I will never see my family again, or see future grand children grow up which to me would be every thing more than any thing else I could hope for. I believe in God, and I pray to God please let me see my past and present even if it was only a tiny little time at a time while I am in heaven. God Bless every one, and love one another.
YAH BESIDES LOOSING MY MOM AT AGE 12 SINCE THEN IVE LOST MY 2UNCLES MY 2 COUSINS AND MY BIRTHDAY IS DEC7TH MY DAD PASSED DEC 21ST 2007 AND MY GRANDPA JUST DIED 3MONTHS AGO SO NOW IM ALL ALONE BY MYSELF I GOT NOBODY TO TURN TO IN MY DESPERATE TIME RIGHT NOW IM HURTIN BAD IM HOMELESS NO MONEY ONLY THING GOOD THAT CAME FROM THIS IS IM ALL OUT OF TEARS
Nothing worse than losing one family member after another, I know as I'm going through it myself atm and I'm just so grateful that I have my 2 kids and 3 grandkids to keep me strong, wish you had kids or other family to help give you that strength you need :( my thoughts are with you.
When growing up your parents always cared for you. But you are grown now the role reverses and you see your parents dwindled down until one day they pass and you are stuck with the heartache and left with just memories. I know really well but have only my dogs and wife to get me through my life and use the knowledge and advice to guide me . god bless to all with living parents enjoy every minute together
Very informative and nicely presented. We all die at some point, no one lives forever, but most people will experience the death of a loved one at some time in their lives, and when it is parents and family, it's always hard. Many people do not understand the death process and too often discussing it is shoved aside or avoided but one needs to know what to expect if you are going to be involved and she explains it very well. I've taken care of patients when they were very close to dying and when their breathing slowed and they finally just stopped breathing. You need to know what to expect. If it is a traumatic death, it will be different from just someone passing away due to disease, old age, organ or heart failure, but they all stop breathing and then their heart stops and both stay stopped when they die. Most patients today who are close to death are medicated (often due to pain or discomfort) so that they may not be very responsive right up to and at the moment of death, depending, of course, on why they are dying, their age and other factors.
As I worked with patients I knew that we were making them comfortable but spiritually I would let them know God is with them and it's okay to go..such peace in their faces..I want to be with my husband too but I leave it to God my kids and grandchildren wouldn't understand suicide..God bless our world
I had to make the decision to pull the plug on my brother in ICU, he lasted over 15 hrs,my brother's friend had passed the day before in same hospital. ....His sister had to make the same decision and she gave me advice to tell him it's ok to let go....He was my only brother and family. .....He went peacefully after that, I hate death, eyes later my long time BF died,I found him in bathroom. We both had the flu, his birthday was the next day, born in 1949....I recall him stuttering before..I try not to beat myself up for being sick and not being aware.....
There has got to be a better way in the end. I watched my father die in a VA hospice. He had the rattle. I think it was a painful suffocation in the end. These people are a bunch of bullshit artists I asked him to squeeze my hand if he felt pain. Right before he died he squeezed my hand. Telling me he was very uncomfortable.
Ten minutes before my father passed away, he was in a coma, he suddenly turned to face me and his eyes took on an unearthly brilliance, he was looking straight at me as our eyes were locked! I was totally mesmerised by this and bewildered. Minutes later as he turned away and his eyes returned to normal, he suddenly raised his arms as if reaching out to someone and I assumed it was my mother who had passed away six years earlier almost to the day! My interpretation of this surreal event was my father was saying goodbye to me and my mother had come to help dad pass over! This memory will stay with me forever and I believe I witnessed some very special! RIP mum and dad
That’s a beautiful story Helen. Great you were there with him at that time.
My Dad passed very suddenly about five years ago and unfortunately I didn’t get to say goodbye but that just may have saved my heart too.
Best wishes to you. Neil
I'm glad such comforting experiences can be shared. You were blessed. Thank you for sharing this.
Helen are you Christian just asking am curious ?
@@666myname666 After my experience with my father I would have to say more spiritual. something extraordinary happened that afternoon. I do not understand it, but know it was a very unusual event, and it was very real!!. Maybe I witnessed his soul getting ready to depart. in any case I feel blessed....
@@helenmurray9351 Thanks Helen :) Do you feel at peace , grieved, easy or more aware? what would be your feeling when its your time ?
god bless all who need to come to this video. it hurts so much to watch a loved one die.
Jake//// It is never easy to lose a loved one. But it helps to know that life continues, and that we will be reunited when we too go to the other side.
k0smon not really k0smon////. it still hurts a lot.
Jake///// It is your own brain that is feeding you that feeling. Do not allow it to do so, you deserve to feel much better.
Jake//// I think it is you that is sick to entertain negative feelings for so long. It does not have to be that way.
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After losing my amazing within 2 years, I'm so ready to be with them in Heaven. The world isn't right and people are crazy after COVID lockdowns. I pray to God a lot to please take me home. Miss my parents soooo much. 💔
I'm sorry you feel this way I can relate but in a slightly different way. Can you reply and let me know how you are. Sending love and best wishes your way
A sure sign of brain death, or of the brain dying, is with an increased focus on often regurgitating simple childhood memories of mythological characters you think, or want, to believe are real. It's important to know that the root of the word belief is "to wish", in "I wish there were angels" is the actual meaning of "
..."I believe in angels". Watch for that, the best way to stop braindeath is to go for a nice casual long walk up a gradually increasingly hill, where you breathe deeply to fill your body and mind with oxygen, which is aerating your body, resulting in very refreshingly thinking clearer and along with it feeling happier that you're alive.
@@craigbhill you are so wrong. God is real and heaven/hell exist. I hope you find salvation somehow sooner rather than later. I will pray for you and hope that you discover the spirit of Jesus Christ that exists within you.
There is an everlasting Paradise heaven ✨
Home of God here is where everything is peaceful 🙏 in the name of the father the son and the holy spirit.
I watched both my brother and my father die. There was no rattle or restlessness with them. There was no gasping of air. With my brother he simply started losing color in his face starting at his nose and working outward. He suffered from ALS and just an hour or so before his death a single tear ran down his cheek. He knew everyone was there and I'm sure he was aware of the love that surrounded him. He left in an incredible peaceful way and I am beyond grateful to have been there when he decided to step over into his next adventure. My father was the same. He was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer and died 2 1/2 months later. On the day of his death we put him in hospice. My mother, sister and my brother and nephew and I were in his room and got him settled, it was about 7 pm my mother sister and nephew left to go home and eat with just my brother and I left. My dad did not fight death, he had waited for my mother and sister to leave before he decided to let go. He simply took one breath with a long pause and then a second and then he was gone. In no way do I find this a curse to have witnessed both their deaths. When both deaths happened an indescribable feeling filled the room, something I have never felt before. What ever it was, it was powerful and I'll forever be grateful for being allowed to experience it.
+Tim Anderson Thx for sharing...
+Tim Anderson Thank you, Tim.
+Tim Anderson
Thank you for sharing the e beloved story😥😥😥😥😧😧😧😞😞
Naut Important Weight is a proper term. I felt the same. I wish the best for you Naut.
my mother passed in 2005 and i still mourn her. i will see her again when it is my time. i believe this. wait for me mama.
Having lost 3 brothers to cancer I’m very familiar with the death rattle and watching my loved ones pass over to the other side.
All 3 were veterans. 2 served during war time. The VA and Hospice care people were really helpful during this time.
Thanks to all of you.
Sorry to hear you must have been very proud of them.
- i watched my dad die 10 weeks ago he had the death rattle for 3 days getting louder and louder to point i couldnt even speak for the noise. Its still haunting me yet
@@silvana11221122 Until one hears the death rattle it’s truly a harrowing experience Thanks for sharing
My youngest brother was a drummer in a rock band so with his sons blessing the last song he heard was
Knocking of Heavens Door by Guns N Roses. Everyone in family thought it was the perfect way to send him over to the other side.
@@wecandobetter9821 it was so loud and then kept getting louder - i could stand out the front door and still hear it... not realising it had been getting louder. .. and then suddenly it stopped and his heart movements was clearly visable .. horrific cant get it out head and keep searching you tube to see if anyone else had that experience. my dads last song was amazing grace :( ps... drummers they are the best i hope yours is at peace
Silvana 🙏 please be good 💪
Just before my Mom passed away hospice put her on the morphine pump saying she would not be able to swallow or talk just sleep until she passed away. That was around 10:30 pm on Dec 30th.2014. She sat up on the side of the bed until about 3:30 or 4 o’clock in the morning and she drink a whole 2 liter of Coke and talked to all 5 of her children individually. I was the main caretaker of my Mom and she wanted to start with me. When she talked to me I had my arm around her she said she was so proud of me and thanked me for all that I had done for her and I could literally feel a weight lifted of my shoulders it was such a peaceful feeling setting there with her. One of my sisters-in-law told her it was the last day of the year and my Mom said you are right it is the last day and at 8:30 am she took her last breath and she was gone. Lord I miss her so much. She had stage 4 lung cancer.
My Mum passed away from Cancer on 10.11.18 she had Bladder Cancer and Breast Cancer, I still can't believe she's gone she was 77 years old and fought to the very end, R.I.P my beautiful mother.
Miss... 💖💘💙💔
CAROL HIRD so very sorry for your loss
Carol my dear mother passed of bladder cancer in 2015 i miss her so much and i pray for you i know what your going through God bless.
RIP
Sorry for your loss. Mothers are the best
Getting old is is the hardest thing that a human can go through in his or her life
Especially really old
Hey 85 here. Happy that I got this old. Looking forward to how many more??? My dad died at 46. My son at 30. My baby sister 8 months. God has been good to me!!
I watched my mom go through this process. It is so strange that I knew that she was going to pass. All of my family thought I gave up on her. I didn't. I knew in my heart that she went to be with our lord when she was on life support.
My mom has stage 4 brain cancer. and she's in a hospice facility in n.c.ive been caring for her for 4 years. and it's hard when I tried everything to help her.but she was taken from home and admitted to hospice care in an local hospital. she has stopped eating, drinking, stopped speaking. she's now on an morphine pump that gives her 2.0 of morphine every hour. it hurts so bad to see her suffering daily. the doctors told me that it could be any day now .thank you all for listening.
I'm so sorry, stay strong bro
Thanks so much
I lost my mom in September.. I was there when she passed. I sang her into heaven. I hope you have comfort all around you.. Being 24, having 2 kids under 3, and pregnant it's so hard to get past what I saw. The night before she past I didn't sleep, I stayed up comforting her. I knew she didn't have long and we were leaving the next day.
omg I hope you are OK!
My kids keep me happy
On a lighter note i think my uncle really hated me. When he was about to die he asked me to sit on his knee. I refused as he was in the electric chair.
Death means to me no more pain .worries .going to a better place .heaven will be so great .nothing to be afraid of .seeing our love ones being happy again.
I lost my mother last week. She will be in heaven with my dad, grandmother,grandfather and also with her lovely friends. Death means no more pain for my loving maa.😂
Heaven is offered but not all choose it. John3:16. Choose life!
I am spending as much time as I can with my ailing 38yo Wife in Pal care. A 12yo son and 17 month old daughter. Life can be so cruel!
Prayer for you and your children.
+Christy Turner She passed away on June 1st. 😣
***** So sorry, you have my deepest and heartfelt condolences. I will continue to keep you and your family in my prayers.
+Christy Turner Thankyou Christy.
***** your welcome :0)
I have been a C.N.A. for 25 years and have seen countless people die. It used to just roll off my back until I started getting as old as some of my residents. I retired from it and now I'm semi retired, but all the death I was around for so many years seems to haunt me. I see just how fradgile life is. And how little time we really have. So live it up and don't take it home, I know that's like asking the imposiable from a health worker but ya gotta find that distraction. Best of luck to ya'll in your carers!
Do not fear death . A better life is ours with Jesus.
Thank you for a beautiful and sensitive description. You have a very calming voice and I'm sure anyone on their last moments would be comforted by you. I understnad a little more now. x
are you terminally sick babe?
been through it twice now, 7/1/11 my youngest son and my wife on 4/4/15, everything she said is accurate, miss you Cam & Diane
TheBennie102103 Rest in piece Cam and Diane.
+TheBennie102103 may she rest peace. I'm sorry for your loss.
***** thank you
gladius187 thank you
+TheBennie102103 I'm sorry for your loss. You will meet them again someday. God bless you.
A friend told me that before a person dies, they may see angels or have spiritual dreams about loved ones who have passed on. It happened to her mother. My mom is almost 98 years of age and I'm her fulltime caregiver. She has been having more dreams of her loved ones who have passed on. She had one very recently where she and a sister who has passed on were at the sisters home and they went out the door and took a walk together. That seems very telling to me. She also has been seeing angels more. She's always been very spiritual and given to visions. But I've noticed this more of late.
I’m so sorry for those watching this that are suffering, I really hope you aren’t in great pain, dying or caring for someone! Been here too many times, really weary of this happening to those I love. I wish I could help, this is brutal, sometimes, don’t get ill yourself, it We all will be there, please take care of yourself too! Hope yours was natural causes, if helps. Knowing none of us are getting out of this place alive, somehow it makes it easier for me hope you find peace, and I genuinely wish you well! ❤️
Sincerely, thanks for providing this.
I hate death. I hate the human body as it ages and goes toward death. I hate pain.
k0smon nope. 99 percent who die do so crying in pai, their families mourn, i am not a people's person but all the same they will at least pretend to mourn and that is even more suffering.
univ///// 99% eh? Where did you get that figure? Just make it up?
k0smon It is either a guestimate, or could even be a bestimate :-)
im dying cause she said how sick i am
Hate is pain.
I wish the hospice workers shared more of these signs with me. I understand why some people wouldn't want to know. I wanted to be there when death was imminent so I could comfort my mother on her next journey. I know some of the dying would prefer to be left alone, but I sensed she wanted me there. At least, I know she is in a better place where she experiences no more suffering.
Wow. My mother at 92 and with dementia is moving towards the end of her life. This statement by a person who clearly is informed about what can happen is very beneficial to me. I need straight answers, and although my mother might not succumb to some of her examples, I know Elwanda is being as frank and sincere as she can be.
Bravo.
RE.
48//// A great description of heaven is found in "Life in the World Unseen" which you can download for free.
YOU SIMPLE MINDED FUCK EVERY BODY STARTS DYING FROM THE MOMENT THEY ARE CONCEIVED. THIS IS HUMANITY AT ITS BEST. JUST FACE THE FACT THATN YOU AND EVERYONE YOU KNOW AND HAVE HEARD OF WILL FUCKIN DIE. DONT BE SO FUCKIN GLOOMY GUY THIS SHIT HAS HAPPENED A BILLION , QUINTILLION, TRINTILLION TIMES A QUINTILLION SINCE HUMANS FIRST STARTED SHITTING AND FOULING UP THIS EARTH. hOPEFULLY HUMANITY WILL QUIT FUCKING UP THIS EARTH AND LEAVE IT TO THE RIGHT OWNERS OF THIS EARTH, I AM A SPACE MAN AND I AM GIVING YOU GOOD ADVICE HERE EARTHLINGS. JUST RELAX AND GO AWAY AS EVERYONE HAS BEFORE YOU HAS . YOUR NO BETTER THAN ANYONE ELSE AND DONT DESERVE SHIT TO CRY ABOUT IN WHAT EVER STAGE YOU ARE IN BECAUSE YOU DONT BELONG HERE IN THE FIRST PLACE. YOU FUCKING CREEPS.
This is excellent; such specific information, people need to hear this. Thank you so much!
this lady has just answered a question i had 25 years ago when my beautiful mum died thanks for that .
I don’t want to get old! I don’t want my kids to have that burden of having to care for me at an old age! I watch my mother struggling to care for her own Mother; who suffered a stroke last year. My grandma is bed-ridden now and my mom is all she has to care for her! It’s really stressful to hear how my mom has zero help! And home-care Assistance is too expensive so she’s left to figure it out on her own!! Really a sad situation that I can’t do anything about since I live so far from her!
So I think towards the future and how I don’t ever want to grow old and sickly leaving my children to have to care for me! I don’t ever want to put them through that! Dying young would be best for everyone!
It will happen babe just face it.
I am not a Christian but, God bless you for strength to produce this video,
This is a brave and important talk. Thank you for your courage and decency.
Guys please pray for my grandmother!
+Kaitlyn Ellerbe
How is she?
+iska788 probably not too good if she is on this video....
+Kaitlyn Ellerbe I prayed for your grandma, you and your family as well.
Let her departure be peaceful..
+Daniel Callisto that's rude! She's a lot better and she's back to her normal self, so you shouldn't leave comments like that!
i experience this yesterday afternoon my father inlaw passed away , pretty much word for word what this young lady is saying happened , its something ill never forget , looking into his eyes and you can just feel he wasn't looking back , that was pretty hard to take , R.I.P my father inlaw , you're in gods hands , no pain and no worries
I've lost my entire family thru out the yrs...and last yr my hubby.
I’m sorry for your losses death is nothing more than a graduation into another life...Check out Age of Truth channel video titled What Happens when you die David Icke Linda M. Peace and Love
💔💔💔🙏🙏🙏
Maan sorry 4 your losses..
maay thier souls rest at peace!
_GOD BLESS YOU ` KEEP DOING YO THANG FAM.!.!!!
If you want to talk I'll be there just say once. They are in a good place and one day we all will join them eventually
I will pray for your recovery.
Assistance with end of life should be available to everyone. Avoid all the pain suffering and fright. We all get to pass in our sleep, what more can you ask for as a dying wish? Save all loved ones the grief of watching you suffer, it’s a terrible everlasting memory.
Assistance to get out of suffering exists in 6 states. Death with Dignity it is called. If you're terminally ill, a doctor can legally prescribe medication that you can take when you've decided you've had enough pain and suffering.
This is helping me understand my sister's end of life.
Rest in peace dad love an miss you dearly... your spirit lives on through me xxx
My father passed a month ago today, my father had to have known he was leaving, any other day the caretakers could contact me but this day they had the wrong numbers. I think my father had alot to do with that. I Love You Daddy.
I'm sorry for loss of your Father. Jehovah God and Jesus Christ will return him back to you one day.
Ruby////// Have you had any feeling that he is still around you? It is fine for you to tell him you love him, as it is quite possible he can hear you.
Thank you for explaining in the most calm way
Thank you for your straight forward & soft manner of your explanation. I witnessed my father's death & I wished I had been informed of what to look for. I did hear his death rattle & thought I knew what it was. But I wondered why his mouth was wide open for a few days.
What are all those conversations about applying electricity to brains after death?Is it true?And if "yes",who will apply?And if "no",where did all those "rumors" come from?Will it be applied to all or to choosen only?It will be helpful to know in advance.Do You have any info?
I am the middle child of six kids(one birth was twins) I sat by my mom the last week of her life. As she exhaled her last breath, the light in the hospital room turned gold. Not yellow - gold. I was hit with awe. As the nurses ran in, the color dissipated like fog in sunlight...
MB//// What a great send-off for your mom. She now enjoys an amazing life in the world unseen. For more information, free download "Life in the World Unseen".
Fuck off K0smon
Madeline Boyer nice fake story of you hallucinating
BB//// Not likely, Fish Beat.
+Oliepolie. Not fake. I swear to you.
My wife was 44 when she died from leukaemia, I will never forget the death rattle she made an hour or so before the end. I knew she wasn’t aware of what was happening because of the morphine drip she was on. 8th May 1998 was a day that will live with me always.
Please pray for my husband. He is not coping well with my demise. My doctor's are smoking crack. My nurse looked at the doctor like he was nuts. Mental health indeed. No one ever believes me
This is a very practical-, thoughtful- and clinically loving description. She doesn't focus the presentation on her OWN description. Others I have seen doing these on RUclips and elsewhere make it more about themselves than affording useful practical information for those that just want THAT.
SHE DIDNT FEEL LOVING AT ALL TO ME THERE IS A BETTER WOMEN WHO SPEAKS ON THE SIGNS OF DEATH HER CHANNEL IS MIDWIFE2THESOUL SHE IS VERY MUCH MORE CARING AND LOVING THAN THIS WOMAN
whocanitbeifitaintme
Caps lock is a sign of imminent stupidity.
whocanitbeifitaintme One thing I will never do is visit the channel that is recommended by an insulting woman who if she had recognised the value in what this woman shared and then added that there was another good channel might have got more hits - the only hit I want to give is not a good one - and lose the cap locks, that's just childish.
lol 2 the both of u
happy NOW!!!
whocanitbeifitaintme
No.
I had to watch my grandma go through all of this. It was probably the hardest thing I've ever expierenced in my life, especially since it was the first time I had seen anything like that.
Amanda honey was your granny sick or just old?
Death is just like life but without all the pain and suffering.
Trust me on this,you don't die..your body dies but you as a being does not die.you are still you but without a body or Vessel. You still see,and hear and see what is going on.and as for me I didn't want to come back.
Thank you for this video, I wish I’d seen it earlier
Its never good bye people :) its just a while before we see each other again... chin up everyone my gran passed away on the 31st of may 2013 and I know that deep down she is ok as she went peacefully. love her so much, I miss her but shes with my granddad now :) I hope these kind words help you all :) xxx
suffering here is temporary, but the life to come is eternal
Very true and it’s eternal in hell for the lost and eternal heaven for the saved that have trusts Christ as their saviour
Very well told and anyone passing would be have been more comfortable with you next to them. Thanks for sharing. Neil
Thank you, Elwanda. Sad, but you did a clear good job.
RobertE.
Death is just a scary thought! I never really thought about it until I turned 50. You start seeing more and more of your friends deaths, terminal disease, lifestyle consequences, just scary! I get so I think about it more and more! It's just scary feeling, not knowing when or how, or what's going on inside your body, have no other way to describe how I feel.
There is nothing to fear from death, Tracey...and fear serves no purpose other than to trigger anxiety (which you are already feeling)..
I am 47, and I have stood witness to the deaths of a son, a brother, 3 grandparents and 4 friends...and many more will follow if I am here to see it...if I am lucky enough...I have learned to embrace death as a welcome friend..and a necessary part of life....
I have had 3 close calls myself...one when I was 17 (overdose with the need for resuscitation to save my life after I stopped breathing) and I can't say I even had time to fear death...
When thoughts of death start to creep in, try distracting yourself with something you enjoy..and remember..when the end comes...it is as normal as being born or taking a breath...
You will do fine...and when the end comes there is no sweeter moment...pure release of our imperfect bodies..to an eternal sleep of peace....
فرشید رشیدی فر u must be from the middle east to say that . Ur people always been in war . And also said that jesus Christ was just a prophet but when revieved from the tomb it people didn't believe it t all .
فرشید رشیدی فر Excellent reply, brother! It is amazing to me what constitutes a "Good Life" here in the west...
I don't own a brand new car..I don't have a big screen TV, an X box 1, PS4 , boat or a house that keeps me mortgaged till death...
I have a wife who loves me...a healthy family and friends, a house that is modest but warm and my own..I only have to work 4 hours a day to live a life with all I need...I wish I had the money to travel (I used to travel and I loved it) and I feel I have a good life..as far as suffering goes, I am lucky..I don't have to worry about disease, clean water or food...and health care in my country is free of charge to me...so I wake up each day and give thanks that my life is good...and I wish a better life for everyone who is suffering..and I try to live outside of my tiny little world...because this is the gift we have been given...and to live as an island would be squandering it.. :-)
I wish you a good life, good health, and peace...
JJ
فرشید رشیدی فر WTF?
فرشید رشیدی فر Thank you, my friend...
Are you in Iran? Or are you an Iranian civilian living abroad? I recently got a small glimpse of Iran on Anthony Bordain's show and it is much different than I thought it was..very beautiful..the people were all friendly and smiling, and the food is excellent! I am getting hungry just thinking about it...but I have always loved food from the Middle East....
I think "Western thinking" is a bit of an odd concept..I'm Canadian, so I am able to be optimistic, we are always being compared to Americans, but we are VERY different than they are when it comes to a number of things...I have always felt Canadians and Brits are more alike that Canadians and Americans.
I have never liked things that were "popular" just because my peers went gaga for something, and low quality, consumer junk has never garnered my attention, just because it tends to be unattractive to me...and I paid a price when I was a teen..not wearing the must have clothes or doing the popular things in my downtime..but some of the things I enjoyed went on to become very popular years later..so what can I say...
Anyway, since it is December 25th I will wish you a Happy Christmas, I hope you and your loved ones have a healthy, peaceful and prosperous 2015...
Just here checking if i am dying or not after eating 10 teaspoons of salt.
No-one ever need fear death. We are energy and never die. Only this body will die and your part will be over for this time but you will go on and on.
thank you for the video it has helped me a lot, love and best wishes to all of you
Much of my fear of death has been diminished due to personal experiences I won't go into here. Save to say that I don't think dying or being dead is not nearly as bad as we think it is!
The bible says not to fear death.
yeah right how is that possible its life and suffering which we fesr
Just become a muslim,,,you’ll thank me later😀Try learning about Islam and dont follow the media...If you have any questions you can ask me...Nice day😁
Easy for the bible to say. It isn't going to die.
@@anastaciuswyse9622 follow Jesus if you want to spend your eternity in heaven. Your choice. Jesus is a gentleman and will not force anyone to accept His gift of everlasting life.🙌🙏
TheWarriorPatriot
And neither are the believers that have passed on in Christ
Thank you for this video!
I'm an actor trying to nail a death scene and watched this to gain information. So, for what it's worth, I greatly appreciate this video. It hopefully can help save some lives too.
Sometimes death isn't the worst thing 👍
Within two months I watched my mom and dad pass away and everything she says happens just like that . I sucked watching it but it helped to know when it was coming .
Thank you for your delivery. Very informative.
Your video was very helpful, thank-you.
We were sat around my grandfather in the hospice when he was dying, his breathing becoming less and less until it stopped. We all looked at each other thinking that was it before he inhaled deeply. We always like to think it was a last joke he played on us, as he was a very humorous guy!
Went through the exact same thing with my grandpa! I'd say "Don't scare me like that you goofball!"
Metal00m fuk hospice .peple need euthanasia .too many suffer too much too long b4 crossing into spirit.its unnecessary .most peple r not understanding that is y they r thevway they r nd limited to wat they believe or dnt believe.if all peple understood we r spiritual beings then those in the worst pain wud b given euthanasia.its wrong immoral to let peple suffer badly for too long and wrong to not allow euthanasia.most dying need euthanasia instead they r left to sufffer terriblly for too long unnecessarily .it's horrible to watch them fade that badly .they shud b euthanized immediately .peple hold onto.to.them too hard and mourn for nothing and some r fake morners.i hate wat this world has become
When my grandma died, they told me she had been talking the night before. I hadn't seen her in six months because I was afraid. I saw her every day for 10 years as a child. When I was 18, she became terminally ill.
Turns out smoking literally since Hitler was alive will give you cancer.
I got there, she was totally unresponsive. She was doing the whole mouth open deal that this broad is talking about.
I talked to my grandmother for at least a couple hours trying to elicit some response. Almost five years later and it hurts just as bad.
Lmaooo bruh
I am so sorry for all who are grieving. I am crying with you 😭. Peace and love ❤️
I had a lucid conversation just 3 hours before he died. He was semi-comatose but he didn't or my mother to be with him when he died. He made that very clear to me. I asked he wanted to be alone at dinner that night and he gave me a "thumbs up"!
I'll never be at peace with the fact that I wasn't there to hold his hand when my Dad passed away on March 9, 2014.
Bill Randolph focus on the positives. It will only bring you down later in life if you can't forgive yourself
Me too! And i always thought that i want to die too!
Bill Randolph It's ok, you were holding his hand in your heart♡ Jesus is life.
I struggle with this myself. I wasn't there when my mom passed in hospice. I was so exhausted my family took me to eat. Soon as I left she passed. I currently am in grief counseling trying to deal with the regret of leaving. But I was told by several people. Sometimes they won't go with you there. I told myself m I was coming back and more family was coming by. I see she wasn't having it and passed . It still haunts me I wasn't there and it's been a year.
Although people don't have a lot of control over the time they die, they sometimes can hold out just long enough to pass when they're alone. I'm sure he did it to protect you. It was his choice. Don't feel bad.
I don't know how I found this but this made me sad and scared and I want to cry :'(
yes.. all matched with my experience...my father died like the same way in front of my very eyes 6 months back due to pancreatic cancer...its such most tough and horrible time for the family members...life really comes to us some times with the most cruel way.
Thanks for this description. I’m seeing many of those signs in my daughter who is dying of heart failure at 31 from a neuromuscular disease. I’m sitting at her bedside right now, she is sleeping, restlessly. Her urine has gotten dark red and she is coughing now and then. She hasn’t eaten or drank much, she keeps saying she can’t feel her hands. She is in a nursing home but we want to take her home to die. She needs to be in hospice but refused in the past. Hoping now she will accept hospice and we can take her home. But not sure we will make it in time.
How did it go?
My son Brian died at age 30 from a mitochondria genetic defect. 13 years of suffering ended. He was in chronic care hospital for 4 years.
Biggest sign is getting older. Birthdays get you closer.
My brother died from being stabbed and shot in the heart. I can only imagine how traumatic a death that was. My father died from being shot in the head while he slept. I imagine his death was peaceful. My niece's husband's mom died while sitting up watching tv. She didn't fall over. Her tongue was stuck outside her mouth. Death is as common as the sunset. How one dies is what matters.
Dann////// The end result is the same no matter what the cause of death. The person goes to a place in the afterlife that he/she is prepared for. More info can be found by downloading "Life in the World Unseen".
WELL NOW TRAGEDY HAS STRUCK ME AGAIN MY DEATH LIST HAS GOTTEN LONGER OCT2ND 2016 MY FRIEND WAYNE BELL DIED AND I DIDNT GET TO SAY GOODBYE I CANNOT TAKE IT THIS IS NOT FAIR
CS//// Find out where they went. Free download, "Life in the World Unseen". Fascinating reading.
Fuck off K0smon
Not likely, Fish Beat.
When my father-in-law passed he didn't display any of those signs. He had a quick transition, he started breathing fast, he put his hands up in the air and we grabbed and held his hands and told him everything was okay. And then he was gone. The only thing we should have done was wait until Hospice got there. We called his doctor who said 'the choice was up to us to wait for Hospice or call 911'. Hospice had been slow to make the initial first visit, so we called 911. We didn't know better then. Suddenly we were overwhelmed with cops who were treating us like we had just killed him. He had cancer and had been given 12 months to live, this was month 18. The cops didn't believe us. I was in tears and freaking out thinking we were going to be arrested. Fortunately the Hospice nurse called and said she would be there in the morning. We handed to phone to one of the cops and they verified that he was dying soon. To say it was a nightmare is putting it mildly.
I don't mind crossing to the other side, being bullied and my looks have destroyed me many years ago, death is just a wonderful escape
I pray when my time comes I don't have to suffer those symptoms... Hopefully I can still have control enough to end it myself! I know it hurts to suddenly lose someone, but I would think it hurts a lot more to see them suffer! I don't think God wouldn't understand someone wanting to avoid suffering... On another note, how did this get in my recomended videos?! Im gonna be sad all day now 😟
Even if you end it yourself you will experience some of those symptoms. A dying body is a dying body,regardless of the cause.
On another point, not all those symptoms are accompanied by pain. My mother died in 2017 from cancer.She had the open mouth, restlessness etc But no pain. It had been taken care of.And yes she could communicate, so she would have said if she were in any pain but she wasn't.
MY father suffered Terminal Restlessness it was very distressing at the time and he also had the death rattle.
+Carol Jones Thank you for sharing. I'm so sorry, Carol.
+Carol Jones Thank you.
When my dad passed he told me to GO AWAY about 10 hours later he PASSED he knew what was happening
This is the best video I've found about this on RUclips.
Sat with my Mom for a week, never left her side because I didn't want her to go alone. That is my fate but didn't want it to be hers because it didn't have to.
We never die we exist forever infinite consciousness
Borrowed time,all of us
Ive done a video on death on here, done with some humour but im sincere in what i talk about. Life is absolutly crazy when you think about it. All we acheive, all our looks, money, possessions, relationships, experiences, all taken away by the great leveler that is death. No matter how much positive thinking you do in life, that is the realitt :(
My mom is terminal. She has all these symptoms. I now know what that sound is that I hear from her. The death rattle. It’s sad. Thank you for sharing this. My mother refuses Hospice so I take care of her. This video helped 💖
Sorry about your Mom, you are good daughter to be there for her. Being the primary caregiver is tough, I hope you had some help. My prayers are with you and your mom.
May all families bereaved through death of cancer patients be consoled on world Cancer Day.
I cheated death during my black widow experience in 2015 I have a second chance and I am glad to be alive
Thank you for this.
Thanks Arianna. ( nice name by the way) I know what you are saying. And i have got a lot to be thankful for, a great son, friends, family etc but still dealing with some stuff and i also think too much sometimes. Life can be great and amazing, at the moment it isn't so. I live in hope !!
Jeez this is dark
It's really, really sad.
Human life? Sure is, I have trouble imagining something more tragic or ironic than the human experience
sam spin That's because you don't have the right faith to explain deep philosophical questions that haunt humans who don't believe in a higher power
Which philosophical or existential question does faith help with?
I never said I don't beleive in a higher power, I said I don't beleive in god... The stream of causality, the network of communities, the principles of dependent origination... These are all a much higher power than any individual.
My grandma from my father’s side was suffering and struggled for a while ! She would moarning and also hallucinating gasping of air but my other grandma peaceful died in her sleep without gasping for air or struggles!
I suppose know one knows that when they are born how long we will be here for, and what life we will lead, which is quite interesting, as we are all so unique, but all humans. Before we die, many have their own beliefs, and thoughts of what happens then, but never the less, not so many years ago we could not be here on You Tube, have computers etc, and way back in the dark ages almost nothing at all, so I feel so lucky to be in this era. The only thing I will be really saddened and will break my heart completely is I will never see my family again, or see future grand children grow up which to me would be every thing more than any thing else I could hope for. I believe in God, and I pray to God please let me see my past and present even if it was only a tiny little time at a time while I am in heaven. God Bless every one, and love one another.
Death as fact of life.
YAH BESIDES LOOSING MY MOM AT AGE 12 SINCE THEN IVE LOST MY 2UNCLES MY 2 COUSINS AND MY BIRTHDAY IS DEC7TH MY DAD PASSED DEC 21ST 2007 AND MY GRANDPA JUST DIED 3MONTHS AGO SO NOW IM ALL ALONE BY MYSELF I GOT NOBODY TO TURN TO IN MY DESPERATE TIME RIGHT NOW IM HURTIN BAD IM HOMELESS NO MONEY ONLY THING GOOD THAT CAME FROM THIS IS IM ALL OUT OF TEARS
stay strong ok? if you want to talk email me. pvilli92@Outlook.com
Have faith. You are never alone. Jesus is always there for us.
You're homeless and you have a computer. Sure. You also definitely have more relatives than that.
Kuroha Kokonose it's called public computers dipshit. Ever hear of a library?
Nothing worse than losing one family member after another, I know as I'm going through it myself atm and I'm just so grateful that I have my 2 kids and 3 grandkids to keep me strong, wish you had kids or other family to help give you that strength you need :( my thoughts are with you.
When growing up your parents always cared for you. But you are grown now the role reverses and you see your parents dwindled down until one day they pass and you are stuck with the heartache and left with just memories. I know really well but have only my dogs and wife to get me through my life and use the knowledge and advice to guide me . god bless to all with living parents enjoy every minute together
ARE YOU AN IMMIGRANT?
Very informative and nicely presented. We all die at some point, no one lives forever, but most people will experience the death of a loved one at some time in their lives, and when it is parents and family, it's always hard. Many people do not understand the death process and too often discussing it is shoved aside or avoided but one needs to know what to expect if you are going to be involved and she explains it very well. I've taken care of patients when they were very close to dying and when their breathing slowed and they finally just stopped breathing. You need to know what to expect. If it is a traumatic death, it will be different from just someone passing away due to disease, old age, organ or heart failure, but they all stop breathing and then their heart stops and both stay stopped when they die. Most patients today who are close to death are medicated (often due to pain or discomfort) so that they may not be very responsive right up to and at the moment of death, depending, of course, on why they are dying, their age and other factors.
Why is this on my recommended page???
Total Anything : by Cam could your time be near?
I know. I was wondering that too.
why am I here??
As I worked with patients I knew that we were making them comfortable but spiritually I would let them know God is with them and it's okay to go..such peace in their faces..I want to be with my husband too but I leave it to God my kids and grandchildren wouldn't understand suicide..God bless our world
I had to make the decision to pull the plug on my brother in ICU, he lasted over 15 hrs,my brother's friend had passed the day before in same hospital. ....His sister had to make the same decision and she gave me advice to tell him it's ok to let go....He was my only brother and family. .....He went peacefully after that, I hate death, eyes later my long time BF died,I found him in bathroom. We both had the flu, his birthday was the next day, born in 1949....I recall him stuttering before..I try not to beat myself up for being sick and not being aware.....
Well this was cheerful
There has got to be a better way in the end. I watched my father die in a VA hospice. He had the rattle. I think it was a painful suffocation in the end. These people are a bunch of bullshit artists I asked him to squeeze my hand if he felt pain. Right before he died he squeezed my hand. Telling me he was very uncomfortable.
Depends on why disease he died of
I can see that she is compassionate thank you
Thank you for the video. I am experiencing this symptoms.