BULLYING IN KDRAMAS VS AMERICAN TV SHOWS BE LIKE
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- Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024
- Bullies In Kdrama VS American TV Shows Be Like
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The instant change of vibes says everything abt reality 💀
And the way his acting scales up when he presents the korean version is pretty awesome !
it truly does 💀
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@@Squishy_Seal i think its the accent 😭 although i swear the bullies in american tv shows/movie can be over dramatic sometimes but many are very good at acting like the mean girls movie. /lh
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The kdrama bullies be whole mafia bosses in high school 😂
It’s terrifying, and the worst part is they’re all kids
no fr and the bullying is basically attempted murder
@@user-gi4yi2yo8y yes like the people that create these shows are sitting there discussing how many crimes can these 16 years olds can accoplish in 20 mins
the sad part is, most of the bullying shown in kdramas aren't that far off from reality. some of the real life bullying in korean schools are actually even worse so i'd say they depicted it pretty accurately.
North Korea is just one of these school bullies who end up in the government
American bully is the equivalent of watching a comedy whereas Korean bullying would be considered a straight up thriller.
Horror
@@Lunaris3-in-1 No. Thriller. Just like I said.
I'm more familiar with the Korean drama vibe...tho I'm American...😂
@@ElizabethRae Same 🤣
American bully is the equivalent of a kids show and Korean bullying is actualy reality and world wide not just in Korea lol
The bullies in K-Dramas are sooo much more frightening especially because they follow-up on threats...
And that they're an actual sociopath, or part of a gang.
Edit:
If Webtoon has taught me anything about bullying in south Korea, is that the bully can, and will try to *literally* murder the protagonist.
@@commissarf1196 fr, learned that while reading get schooled any many more 💀
2 words. the glory
😭😭 If you get it you get it
@@marei_.668 I get it😢
@@marei_.668 idk who wouldn't get it at this point
I haven't watched many K-Dramas, but in the ones I have the bullying is horrifying to another level and crosses the line in both humiliation and crime standards. In this sketch it looked pretty much like mob protection deal.
It's literally torture in the name of bullying
@@stepasidebiaach Exactly! It's so cruel and horrifying! Often leads to suicides too...
I thought about The Glory kdrama
In webtoons too!
Sad the government is still quite about it and corruption has rotten the justice system.
The thing abt stereotypical bullies in us sitcoms is you can still deflect it mentally (or physically) since they tend to be shallow. But in KDramas, they’re very psychologically damaging bc they manipulate the victim, and even their family members and teachers. And they tend to gaslight people. So it’s very next level
American bullies are prideful jocks whereas Korean bullies are sadistic psychopaths
the stereotypical bullies in us sitcoms are usually meant for young kids witch is why they act like that while in the Korean one he showed it was based off of adult shows and real events that are not meant for kids...what i'm trying to say is that there are horrifying bullies like this all around the world and are very real and not just in Korea lol. (no hate btw just wanted to say something lol)
@@Alexo-o ohh yeah I see, and I do agree. I’m sorry if what I said came out wrong!
Theirs is like PTSD X 5😢
@@Alexo-o I think, inadvertently you pointed out something else, too. Essentially he was comparing sitcoms to dramas. And sitcoms are always going to be sillier and more lighthearted even when dealing with more serious subject matter. Either with how they deal with the actual subject matter or by including a silly B plot.
The most horrifying thing is there actually was a real-life hair iron burn bullying case in Korea
There's some crazy bullying in America as well that led to kids dying or committing suicide, but these are just the rare exceptions. Most bullying is more subtle and can torment someone for years.
The Glory
The least thing you could worry for asians is that theres less mass shootings
@@jeevieseverino3949 because there is no guns, if guns were allowed in Korea than Rip all the schools
i have literally been watching the show with my sister. OH MY GOD. i feel like i would have been able to stomach the first episode better a year or two ago. but man, it flared up my anxiety and it made me EXTREMELEY SAD. It wasn't even like a quick hit or anything they freaking held it there!! It's also so hard to believe that no adult would do a SINGLE thing. (even though when i was being picked on in school and i told a teacher, they told me to either ignore it. or if it was a boy doing it "he's only doing it because he likes you") that shit only happens in anime so that was a load of crap XD but i'd think to that extent someone would have done SOMETHING.
Can confirm as someone who grew up in an Asian country 😂 In middle school, my friend (a sweet, innocent one she was) was legitimately receiving death threats. Some people were planning on running her over with a motorcycle… I had to go talk to the kid who had access to the vehicle so that they could maybe change their minds. It felt like a hostage negotiation but somehow I succeeded?… I feel like even to this day, that was still the most dramatic and surreal thing that happened to me
Which Asian country?! Damn that’s crazy
That crazy why they wanted to kill her?
@@oceansapphire1311 it was China
@@nesrineg6496 The whole premise was extremely stupid - basically two moms got into an argument over trivial matter and somehow the kid of one mom wanted to hurt the kid of the other mom (aka my friend) because of it. No one was going to gain anything but jail time from the situation, which was probably why it was possible for me to talk them out of it
@@catbothelen glad that you were able to salve the problem and any way there's no reason that justifie this thoughts
The korean part was so well acted, it actually made me feel uncomfortable.😂 Great job !
@@lucasfagundes7059 sure whats wrong?
It did, biggest whiplash ever 🤣
It's the "it's just a joke" for me lmao. Gets me every time. But in all seriousness, it hits differently when you realize that the bullying in Kdramas is much more realistic and accurate than we think.
Where i'm from (not korea but this case was also because of bullying in my country), a group of rowdy teens literally burned down a religious school, and the punishments they gotbwas sent to juvie and extended to prison time once they turned 18. In normal cases, those crimes would literally land them jail sentences
There's also another case in a military colleger where one of the students died because of "ragging culture". The dorm mates that did it got prison time as well. Again, usually this lands you death sentences!
@@zebimicio5204 that's terrible!
Worse per a recent interview in recent episode of “ASIAN BOSS”.
i think in k-dramas they are toned down, wich means there are cases that are actually worse
@@lucasfagundes7059 how can I help you?
I think the reason why the Korean approach is so much scarier is because in the American version it’s just straight up ‘I hate you, so I’m going to take away your opportunities to fit in’ whereas the Korean version is ‘we’re friends aren’t we, and friends help each other’ which is way more manipulative.
No. Its actually because there are way more consequences for bullying in America than in Korea. So Americans are forced to result to a lesser way to bullying
Na bro , americans majority are just big talk , they only care about fame and so while their bullying is only limited to making a protagnist look dumb, thats it .. where as in korea its not about fame ... its about ego and thus they want to be feared by everyone and if someone doesnt fear them then they find physical ways to do so
I'm pretty sure you'll find this kind of manipulation anywhere in the world.
I only think it's more prominent in K Dramas because it's a sure fire. Like horror movies nowadays going full graphic.
That's one of the major points I find them generic.
I think it’s more how each country’s writers use bullying as plot device. Bullying is always manipulation in some way.
I think kdramas often focus a lot on the societal hierarchy and corruption and this shows up in how the corruption protects the bully.
In a U.S. drama they often don’t use societal corruption as a plot devise.
I also think US dramas-even serious ones make the bulky characters the comic relief which even if we hate the bulky gives them a different vibe from the kdrama bully.
Bullies in both are often caricatures of the real thing.
@@fatimahammad9871That is most definitely not true here in America we most certainly don't care about who you're parents are meaning if a Korean bully tried that in an American school not only could they get arrested for assault but they could get their ass kicked by multiple people because unlike Koreans, we Americans actually use our fists and stand up for each other
I am legit traumatized by some of the k dramas I watch that depict kids bullying each other.
lmao true that
Hi, I'm looking to get into kdrama, would you have any recommendations for shows that made you feel this way?
@@whochangedyoutube try 'Weak Hero Class 1'
@@still3360 noo i couldnt finish It, It was too heartbreaking for me. I had grow too attacked to them their friendship 😭
@@mamorumobushi2217 i watched it, it was amazing, it was sad and it made me angry, but the production i think was amazing, and it was a great choice to cast Park Jihoon as main lead
i cried so hard when it ended
The kdrama one is giving The Glory💀
It is the glory!! I’m glad someone else also got the reference
@@Gunita23 yess
@@kaixx_999 So accurate
Bro it was so hard to watch those scenes 💀
@@henal05 lmao fr💀
The cliche bullys from US sitcoms and tv wouldnt last two seconds in the Glory. Yeon Jin is on another level
Glory is actually way too good 😂 like the bullying alone puts it on a diff lvl and the revenge goes crazy(tho it was dragged a little at the end still fire tho)
and was based on a real life instance...
@@seeyafornow2642 wait that was real 😐...
@@TSH425 yeah the show partially picked up from a real instance....th real instance is no less horrifying tho. if you want to look it up, would recommend dark asia with megan's video on it
@@seeyafornow2642 wait what's the name of the video or the incident I'm now actually curious
The bullies in kdrama are always straight up psychopaths 😭 you even see the bullies getting bullied by other bullies. It's just a cycle of continued abused and torture from everyone 💀
As an American with a Korean friend, this is factual.
You’ve lost some fingers, but hey, they’re not invited to your birthday party anymore. Lol
@@KeilaBevins LMFAO
Spiritually, I agree
@@KeilaBevins BRUH FR-
It is terryfing how school violence, not bullying, violence, is dealt with in South Korea. It is one of those things I find highly disturbing about this society.
Yup same
Could you explain further? Are you Korean or in the school system there? Not that American schools are free of violence, but I've always had a soft spot in my heart for Korea since being stationed there when I was in the Army.
@@willchurch8376 Not korean but I heard that often teachers and principals would ignore things because they don't want to ruin the school's reputation.
@@thatnohrianscum6475 That actually happens in American schools too. Not because they have good reputations, but because the school admin doesn't want to get flak from the district and superintendent.
They are worse than Americans.
Genius, as always. The way you use your voice to convey these characters...literal chills!!
Seriously, The bullying I've seen in Kdramas is straight up horrifying and no one does anything to stop it. Kdrama bullied don't deserve detention, they deserve jail, I'm kinda traumatized by the type of bullying they show. Like, they go all or nothing with these things. Even though its very exaggerated and more severe compared to western shows, I kinda like the way they portray it. It's actual bullying and peer pressure instead of cliche bullies that take lunch money. I don't mean to say that American TV show bullying is okay, no type of bullying should be allowed. I just mean that Kdrama bullying is probably more accurate to the type of extreme bullying people actually experience.
In Kdramas the bullying is very realistic to real bullying in Korea sadly.
@@Maddie-123-p88 I've heard many people say that Korea has a large bullying issue, I hope it improves though. It must be awful if its very realistic to Kdrama bullying
@@Meeekuuuu Even The Glory is inspired by some real event bullying that got exposed.
It’s so not exaggerated. It really be like that… it’s hazing culture, like considered a rite of passage almost. I experienced a tiny bit of it and don’t want to go into too much detail, but it was terrifying. I get why kids suicide over harassment, your life is hell every day.
Maybe they should change the shows. Because honestly kids do get influenced by what they see on TV. Also as an American it’s really bizarre to hear and I don’t understand that at all, being completely honest.
I read a lot of manwha lately-Korean comics-and it was really strange to me all the bullying in it. It honestly is kind of not interesting in a way because literally every single story is basically about bullying. I’m not even joking.
It was perplexing to me, and still is. I started noticing it and I was like, good grief ANOTHER story about bullying, wth.
I can’t even explain how strange it is.
And I even grew up with a disability. I born with a disability.
But I never ever have seen anything as ridiculous as the bullying in Korean media.
And yes, I say ridiculous because it is. It’s silly. It’s over-reacting to every little thing.
So, anyways I think media should change. I know you guys in Korea might find that insensitive but it’s true that essentially standards in society do come from things like media. If every single story shows teenagers doing these crazy things then that’s kind of normalizing that behavior in my opinion.
And trust me, it’s NOT normal. As an outsider this is not normal behavior.
the fact that the kdrama bullying is mostly what happens irl is saddening.
This
I've seen a ton of comments on K-dramas where people from countries all around the world claim they've experienced/witnessed severe bullying at their schools too. It's a global epidemic that's been going on for a while. I mean, even I, as an American kid, would find notes shoved in my locker advising me to take my own life. My mom literally picked up and moved us to a neighboring city bc it got so bad. Also remember a girl in one of my classes not showing up to class for a week bc she had gotten beaten by a group of bullies.
Definitely true, but the issue is that with Korea they live in a culture where they HAVE to use honorifics. Therefore if someone is considered 'younger' or of a lower class then the bullying is almost more accepted. Parents pay the schools to not say anything, the teachers try to get out of dealing with bullies and those who do bully (more like torture) they get off typically with a slap of the wrist and that's that-- whereas if you're caught cheating, then you'll be expelled. My point is that they almost endorse the bullying and schools jump through hoops to appear to be the perfect school. A poll showed that 1 in every 10 korean gets bullied-- PHYSICALLY bullied, not just verbal. 1 in 10 deal with phsycial abuse. Worse, 25% of students are suicidal and 25% of those students are because of severe bullying.
Kids just get away with stuff and it doesn't show up on their record while the victims suffer. It's a huge HUGE issue over there. This video goes over it pretty well: ruclips.net/video/7hp4BLP1tYg/видео.html
@@siiiiiuu7 I've not heard any of this situations when i was in school(from a state in India). Ofc there had been some bullying around happening especially in college in the name of ragging(now there are strict rules against it to the point you get dismissed from the college)but it's not this severe and normalized as in sk. Like I've never known scl bullying is a thing before watching kdramas.
I do want to point out that the bullying that most often happens in American dramas is different (and usually more straightforward) than the more serious bullying that happens in American schools.
THIS. People be acting like bullying doesn't ruin people's lives over here too. It's a serious issue, no matter where you are.
I'm sorry but I don't think I understood what you're saying here, you meant to say Korean dramas instead of American, right? If that is it, then I agree, there are serious bullying cases in America too, I've personally never heard of it like outside of the stuff that's happened in Sorority and Fraternity hazing, but I assume it happens
I would say it's usually not at the same level? At least consequence wise, Korean bullies can literally get away with murder just because they're minors, that doesn't just happen in most other places
@@clartblart3266 No, I said what I meant. The kind of bullying that is often portrayed in American dramas is not exactly the same as the kind of bullying that actually happens in American schools. The bullying that occurs in American dramas tends to be very outright physical or emotional abuse, and while this type of bullying does occur in schools, there is also a lot more subliminal bullying that can be more difficult to "prove" as bullying, so the victims may struggle to have it addressed.
Bullying in Korea is always like this. They bully psychologically and mentally, not always physically. The bullies always prey on the people they usually see as weak and troubled in psyche or character (e.g. loners, conscious of their appearance, poor socioeconomic/family background, no family/orphan, etc.) -- these are the ones who are easy to manipulate and abuse because they are always looked down not only in school but also outside - by the general public themselves. Meanwhile, bullies in America depend more on a person's status and identity in a specific area only. Like if the person is in a specific well-supported community or group in the school (e.g. sports clubs like the football team, cheerleading team, etc.), the students will not touch you. As long as you have a certain reputable/good identity and are part of a group that is loved not scorned in that school, no matter if you look gorgeous or plain, rich or poor, with living parents or not, you will not be bullied.
@lemonssssssss4Bullying happens everywhere and bullies will always find a reason no matter how small it is to do it. When it comes to bullying, there is no worse/greater than the other, all of its kind still give painful trauma to the receiving end. It's just that, as this video tries to, it differentiates how bullying is often done in Western vs Eastern (US vs Asia). It's a representation of today's bullying in these areas. But who knows, maybe psychological bullying DOES happen in the West (America) but was just kept or ignored too. It's like a disease where there are many factors that contribute to it and culture and tradition can play a part on it. Hopefully schools will have more preventive measures to avoid such cases. As far as I have researched, few years back, Korea and Japan are the two countries with the highest suicidal cases and most of them are due to trauma from related incidents.
There is psychological bullying here in the States. Mostly with girls though.
idiot, it's television and fiction hahahaha
This is pretty tame compared to I donesian bullying
@lemonssssssss4 Bullying only 'is worse' to people who are not being bullied and looking at the two situations from the outside. To the kids in each situation, it likely feels just as hopeless and lonely.
"wer gonna have a dance off" i cant🤣🤣
Bruh, I remember when I was younger, that's what I thought high school was gonna be like. I thought that I would meet some annoying bully arch-nemesis from a popular clique and then we would try to face off each other doing stuff like that and that I would be able to attend their Sweet 16 Birthday Party and meet some jock and fall in love with him and drink tons of punch. As I got older, I realized that bullying is no joke, it really can psychologically affect someone in a negative way, and the trauma can last until adulthood for some students. Also, situations like "dance offs" aren't likely to happen because nowadays, bullying is mostly done online.
@@Kureemyvery Smart thought process, saw right through, yk what i'm talking about, but still, your secrets safe with me, happy life friend.
@@PabloArturo-qf5ky I don’t know what you’re talking about, but thanks.
although real life bullying cannot be compared based on country, the way american tv portrays bullying in their entertainment is as if they've suddenly switched to a cliche sitcom whereas kdrama bullying is actually so terrifying. they start off pestering you, telling you they're your friends and then one thing leads to another and they're basically sweeping the floor with your body. the glory, weak hero, save me, school 2015 and so on. people actually struggled watching these shows.
I heard bullying in Korea is more brutal and sadistic, can't say I blame them for struggling to watch them
I am in tears.🤣 The Korean part was like a manual to successful leadership in school 😂. There is no dance off when in comes to free snacks. There are only efficient hair care products which make your blood run cold.
K-dramas do not mess around with this stuff. It's all in or nothing and I love them for it
The aumont of gaslighting in kdramas and k movies, has no boundaries😭
The bullying in American shows can be intense too like in Stranger Things or It or really most 80s teen films (they had it bad). I do agree bullying in kdramas and j-dramas are out there.
literally the bullying in 13 reasons why vs the bullying in the glory
13 reasons why feel ridiculous to me because the number of times they try to shock the viewers instead of leaning into the horrors of one or two issues. It is basically "she gets bullied, but then she is also being stalked, also she gets r*ped by stalker, oh and don't forget that she loses all her friends AND-"
Everyone’s talking about how bullying in K-Dramas are so much scarier but the fact that it’s consistently showed in K-Dramas must mean it happens often in South Korea, which I think is scarier that people like that actually exist.
kdrama bullying gives me some " gaslighting" vibes.. this is really toxic to be honest.. it's so hard to be in such a situation 😕💔💔
Bullying in American TV is like a kindergarten fight
And on kdrama the bullies should straight up be in jail
Yeah. But that not how it is on reality. Like I'm british and the bullying in real life is so much worse than what is shown on tv.
i was a victim of bullying in an asian country and i kid you not, the bullies in kdramas are so close to reality it's scary. like most comments said, bullies in US shows are meant for kids and shallow/cringe ass teens, but the bullies in kdramas are usually to raise awareness for the general public.
As an American, I've only ever been mocked for how I talked, made fun of for how I looked, and ignored by the "popular" kids. It did bother me at a young age but I really just learned to stop caring as I entered high school. I'm just glad I graduated last year. I can't even imagine how much worse it would've been if I was a transfer student attending school in South Korea.
I am so sorry it happens in real life too even more brutal in korea
Yes, of course, in Korea there are massacres and clashes with the police 😂
The fact that korean netizens themselves said that real life bullying there is actually much worse than what k-drama portrays. From what i know korean justice system is too lenient on minors so kids aren't scared to harass people since there's barely any repercussion even if you're caught
I think in East Asia, it's common to sweep abuse and bullying under the rug and reputation/image/saving face is more of a priority than protecting your own kids.
The changes of vibes of the korean bully is faster than my Internet 💀
The curling iron is giving me the Glory flashbacks... the flashbacks go all the way back to Dear Boy and Dokgo. There are a lot of manhwa & dramas about bullying. I've read so many. Bullying in manga and manhua is not the same.
Ya nailed it! From writing to the vibes. I keep replaying your "Rrrr" at 34 secs. There's something so comedically genius to me there. It's a perfect display of the difference in aggression between american tv and kdrama.
We know that even if he'll be paying for their lunches, he'll still be losing a finger or two. 😭😭😭
istg I would rather die then be bullied in a Korean school 😭
He actually potrayed a tamer version of bullying, even tamer than webtoons and kdramas which already have tame representation of what goes in korean schools. 😢
For real??
the most terrifying is that school violence in south korea is 10x worst than what’s shown in K-dramas
You mean as disturbing as K drama bullying are, real life is much worse?
ARE WE GONNA TALK ABOUT HOW GOOD THAT ACTING WAS????
I remember watching boys over flowers and having stop for a few years but the bullying gave me nightmares. 4 dudes straight up kidnapped the MC and dragged her into the bathroom and the red her guy asked her how to make pancakes while this was happening like it was a normal day. 14 year old me couldn't handle it.
I feel like the American bully gonna get bullied when they come to Korea 💀💀
a guy of 1.90 I doubt it, besides the Americans are crazy, don't you watch the news
Only because of the way Korea is with bullying but it would be a different case in America because not only would they get arrested if they went that far but they would probably be jumped by other students for being a bully
Believe me, these cases of Bullying are serious in Korea due to the laws, in the USA it is different, I literally dare to say that Bullying in the USA, which is really serious, involves harassment on networks much closer to what 4Chan does.
That includes even legitimate attempts at murder.
They’d get hit with good ol’ homophobia for the zesty LA voice lmaoo (I’m Korean and this is a joke)
U clearly dont know anything abt american bullies lmao irl theyre way more harsher and more violent than korean bullies believe me
Ohhh great job! Your K Drama Bully voice was icy cold and would stop anyone in their tracks. That Busan dialect brought me back to so many gangsta K Dramas I'd seen and enjoyed throughout my 18+ years of viewing history. 💜💜💜
Ok .... no need to showoff 🙄
Jokes aside his acting is amazing, and his voice caught me off guard I was so used to the hOIIIIYEAH lol
Now I wanna see how the k-drama bully deals with the quiet kid lol
I’d watch that 😂
The Glory, it is
Weak hero class 1
LMAO two final boss round one FIGHT
gyuhan from "shotgun guy" manwha almost did that if the monsters didnt attack the camp they place would become an average american school
See, the K-Drama bullies are actually smart and know how to mess with your head.
yes how good they know how to torture people? lol
Bullies in kdramas are terrifying. But the other thing I notice is there are never any teachers around. Like two students could almost kill each other in the classroom before anyone shows up to stop it.
Bullies in US dramas usually do there thing in places to avoid teachers but kdrama bullies do it right in the classroom.
K drama bullying really sends chills down my spine. They ruin the entire life of the victim.
"run away before i make you run away, eeerrrrr" 😂 0:32
So cute 😍😍🤣🤣🤣
Bullying in my USA school was just as scary as any k drama. The bullies would track you down around town and corner you. If you fought back that just meant that thirty assholes would be looking for you for the next 6 months to get pay back. I used to walk around with weapons of my own as I feared for my life.
did u ever tell your parents?
What area were you in? That sounds awful.
@@user-zh6lz7vc3j For what? So they can be killed?
In reality, if it is directly from the police, many parents foolishly go to schools and become targets of young people.
Felt like I was watching 90s after school sitcoms
I love how violent bullying is in kdramas, but soooo subtle when it comes to sex or romance
Thanks for making us smile. Keep up the good work.
I was told by a colleague who was born and raised in S Korea that the bullying in Kdramas is probably the only thing that accurately depicts Korea.
I used to think that people were trippin when they cancelled kpop idols for bullying in middle school. Then I found out Korean bullies are little psycho sadist from watching survivor testimonies. Trigger warning: one girl talked about how her bully threw boiling hot water on her legs, and she had scars.
They make American bullies look like Prince Charming, and some of the bullies in my school were blooded.
Honestly, it’s pretty sad to see how those were mostly based on real events. I wish there were more k-dramas where they stand up for themselves. This type of sh*t never happened to me cuz my parents always told me that I may be beaten up, but I need to, at least, punch them back once. So maybe I can help anyone…
*how to beat bullying: a guide(?) by me*
So, I never was a victim for many reasons, such as it is not so common in my country and I often fight people when they try to get big on me. So here’s some things I do and recommend. Hope it can help you somehow.
*-Dont be scared of retaliation!*
Stand up for yourself, you’re not supposed to bow to no one but people u admire. I know it may sound “oh, you think it’s easy” but it really is crucial to tell others and to do something about it. If u don’t do it, hardly someone will do it for u. You are the most important being in your life, protect yourself, know your worth. Bullies tend to ignore people who are confident cuz they need someone to fill their needs of superiority complex.
*-Improvise Weapons*
In a situation the bullies are in a bigger number or u are in a physical disadvantage, always search for things u can use as weapon. If u see a chair, use that. Bullies usually give up when they realize u will defend yourself. They want people who will quiver, so they can feel powerful.
*-Act crazy, pretend you’re not scared*
Depending on the country, acting crazy by screaming, laughing meanly and sh*t talking (such as saying u will revenge and etc) will make them back off. However, there are cases they will want the thrill of making u bow to them, these are the ones u should worry. If that’s the case, it can escalate to extremely dangerous situations, which lead to our most important topic…
*-Tell the police!*
I know it’s scary and u don’t want to make a fuss about it, but just as I said at the start, you are the most precious in your life, protect yourself at all costs. If the family of the bully is rich and people will try to make u give up, or even if the police doesn’t take it so seriously, *post it online* maybe even tell small media… we live in a society that uses social media for everything, use that in your favor.
*-You must have something u can use as a threat against them.*
If none of the above work, this is a powerful move that can make u win in any situation in life. It is not ethical, I don’t personally like it, but sometimes it’s necessary. Don’t pity them, they would not do the same to you, better be sorry than hurt. Just like in war, the more you have to lose, the less u will want to fight, same goes for humans. You must know your enemy to fight him, find a secret, anything that could mess up this person and use this as a threat. As long as is not too much and it’s legal, u are only protecting yourself so don’t feel sorry.
And, the worse case scenario: they get physical.
*-How to Physically defend yourself:*
*-Always aim for deadly parts*
The human body is strong, therefore, hardly u will kill someone only using your strength and no weapon, so don’t worry.
*•Places to aim and how to do it:*
*•Addams Apple*
*Use with caution, this can get dangerous*
Punch the neck right at the addam’s apple(works for both genres) so they lose their breath, this will give u one minute or even more, use that to get help. I would rather be cautious, u don’t know how fast that person can recover and how much time u will need to get help. Personally, I would h*rt the person even more (by kicking/stepping on their legs so they won’t follow you and specially aim on their belly button or even the Addams Apple again, cuz losing breath is the most effective way to imobilize someone that isn’t used to fighting). After securing time, run.
*-Nose*
Punching someone in the nose is a very good way to gain time, the nose is one of the most painful parts of our bodies, since it’s mostly cartilage and has many capillaries providing blood.
*-Intimate parts*
kick/punch, anything u do to someone’s private parts will hurt them. People usually think it only works for men, but it works for both genres. However, it does indeed hurt more in men, since it’s the most sensitive part of their bodies. In a woman, if you can’t aim at her lower half, punch her breast with all your strength and right in the middle. I’m sure this will give u some time.
*•Temples*
*Use with caution, this can get dangerous*
This one is for people who are strong and are very body conscious. Aiming the temple the right way and using enough strength can make someone pass out. It is harder, but it’s certainly more effective. Use it with caution!
*•Chin•*
*Caution, this can get dangerous*
Fighters love to punch this area cuz it makes your brain “rotate” inside of your head and it also moves the liquid we have in our ears that keeps us standing. Punching someone at the chin the right way can make them pass out or even get more serious consequences.
*-Feet:*
Step at their feet with all your strength and your might and they will feel excruciating pain. The upper part of our feet doesn’t have much muscles protecting the thin bones we have in that area, therefore, stepping at it can cause great pain.
*Thats it, hope it helped anyone*
just want to add that the reason women will be hurt if you kick them in the privates is mainly because you quickly hit a bone if you kick them between the legs. the bone is more towards the front/below the belly, so if you need to hurt a woman badly, for self defence....
Thank you :D
This is the best comment.
With this I can assure you that you did not have serious bullying at your school. I remember the case of a boy who defended himself and was killed on the way out.
Really, if you are going to say these things, put the warning "ONLY DO IT IF YOUR BULLY IS A NORMAL BOY AND NOT A GANG MEMBER". I say this as a Latino, who has seen many follow this stupid advice, with the younger brother of a Mara.
@@yuanpucasn4955 I’m also Latina HAHAHA from Brazil. This is for normal cases, not a gang member though. Nobody is stupid to stand up against people from gangs, just use your brain a little buddy
BRO I’M DYING RIGHT NOW 😂
i really hope anyone going or having gone through this can stand up back again. i met one of my bullies back in high school and i was shaking with fear thinking of all the years of torment that i went through.
It's totally unrelated, but I'm from India. And there hasn't been even a single instance of bullying in my school. Bullying isn't a very common thing in schools here. You might be teased by your friends(actual friends) but you can do the same. School life is very peaceful here tbh❤
i agree
0:53 “and we’re gonna have a dance off” IM DEAD
bullying in kdramas makes me SO mad and not to victim blame but i would simply not sit there and take it i'd be like....yo grown up? my literal life is being threatened over here
The Korean tv show bullies are more close to reality than usual American ones. When I was a kid a big thing was kids getting burned with cigarettes or beaten (sometimes also filmed )or basically sexually assaulted or that game where the knife goes between your fingers but they on purpose stab your hand. I never have actually seen the American version of bullies in real life. I am from Eastern Europe and I went to 4 different schools.(had nothing to do with bullying)
Your acting and scripts are so accurate I genuinely feel like I'm watching a bullying scene right now lol
kdrama bullies are definitely more realistic, I think back and realize how psychological some mf’s are to control and bully people back in highschool
Ahh yes the glory, what a kdrama
The funny thing is that K-drama bullying is like the watered down version of real life bullying in Korea
@K Y when did I say that? And when tf did I ever mention America?
they always say the cringiest bullying stuff😑
How to stop bullying in america: dance offs
You had me at the "ha it's a joke" part and "do you really need all your fingers to study"
i watched too many kdrama bullying scenes to the point i understood everything he said without even looking at the subs
I could write a story on how to deal with bullies in any school or college or university in any country including my own, but that wouldn't be enough to actually stop real life bullies from doing stuff to innocent victims, even if they fought back. That being said, I was nearly a bully before I dealt with real life consequences for my actions and it took me awhile to realize that I don't have to live with my pain from my past and present. Sometimes you need empathy with bullies, because violence is not always the answer when someone else tries to avenge their friend or relative against you. Believe me, I had to learn that the hard way.
Keep up the good work.
Can I see the story, I’m working on one too and maybe we can combine our ideas
@@redfatseal2407 I haven't written anything yet. I have been trying to figure out what to write first, but there's too many story ideas to choose from.
@@NatalieAliciaNorment yeah, sometimes when you know a lot you don't know where to begin. Writing down ideas can be overwhelming
Manipulation tactics is spot on , i watched some kdramas shows and that was like watching worse than any horror movie i watched , also i remember i was being so pissed off on the bullies which means actors did a damn good job portraying the bullies
I simply already know this is gonna be fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
"Just joking, we are friends aren't we?" Is so realll
Yeah according to all the kdramas I watched, Korean bullies are no joke, like they can bully you from middle school, to high school and collage. And the bullies come in all forms, like they might be a straight A student with rich parents to poor gangsters 😅
Kdrama be taking tings LITERALLY But I love them
Why do comedians even try when u exist
I am glad that I grew up in such an environment where the maximum thing they will do is ignore you and won’t take you play with them. Thats all🙌
Korean ‘bullying’ in kdramas is attempted murder 😭
Kdrama are literally "How about we literally comitt a crime" like it makes so much sense why bullying is taken so seriously in Korea because they out here setting people on fire.
When you're able to finish his sentences, it means you watch to much Kdramas 🤣. Love it !!
That was scary😫 he's so good! Took me right to an anime adaptation as he spoke💕
The glory reference had me dead
It's because Korea recognises it as an actual problem
While america, and most countries actually, still try to deny or downplay the problem
American bullies in tv shows are written like cartoon caricatures compared to the K drama bullies 😂
Asian kids who grew up in East and South East Asia know first hand how terrible and manipulative bullying can be there. Most adults don't do anything in fear of "controversy", because they want to keep the reputation of their school intact.
While bullies from more improvished families can be dangerous, I personally believe the rich kids are the worst. They can literally do whatever they want; blackmail, sexual assault, even manslaughter and still get away.
I pray for whoever is going through that type of treatment right now. I got over it by taking martial arts and just legitimately standing up for myself, being well versed enough in local law and having friends who care. I hope you do those things too.
Years ago, my first kdrama was Boys Over Flowers, and let me tell you as a westerner I was not prepared 😂 The whiplash from toxic bullying to dramatic embraces was too much.
"I only had everyone at school physically and mentally try to break you down because....I love you." "ALMOST PAAAARADIIIIISE"
K dramas bullying is chilling and frightening to the bones. Cos 1, they come up with threats that could only be from a psychopath and 2, they follow up on these threats. Like the heck, in every kdrama student series, they always have a bully who looks freaking cool, dresses outside of the school appropriate uniform and has 4 or 5 boys tagging along like minions who do their bidings. Don't even get me started on their girls. I'm still in love with kdramas cos it's realistic just as bullying in my country is. We rarely show it on screen though.
excellent👏..we can relate it with "The Glory" drama they literally burned the victims with hair iron..😔😔
The acting for bullying in Kdrama is on point that it's scarier than a horror film (and I indulge in horror). Especially after watching The Glory, Penthouse and Weak Hero Class 1...
“Do you really need 10 fingers to study” 💀
Even in manhwas (korean comics) too. How bullying was done there were absolutely terrifying, and how it could lead to s*icide or even murder. One of the most horrifying bullying I've seen in a manhwa is in Yeonwoo's innocence. It's so jaw breaking how the bully didn't get any consequences for their actions
The glory was the best drama I have seen so far. The bullying was so difficult to watch tho
I don't watch K-dramas but I read manhwas and the bullies are either like this or they beat up and publicly humiliate their victim(s) to make them do everything they want, generally buy them stuff, do their homework and carry their stuff for them
Jesus, I have never seen a KDrama but that was horrifying
The glory and girl from nowhere is the top bullying dramas.I hope you don't pass out...lol
No wonder bullying is such a big issue in South Korea. The way the bully manipulates their victims is horrible but smart at the same time
Bro the thing abt K-drama bullying(from what I’ve seen) is that the bully threatens them and beats them up, and then is like “we’re friends, right?” Like manipulating them. Basically like it justifies what they’re doing somehow? Just an observation😅✨
Kdrama bullies do absolute straight abuse to the main character