If someone stating the truth about your behavior causes you trouble and you’re not living in a dictatorship then the problem is almost definitely your behavior.
I usually don't comment unless I have something to say, and I just wanted to thank you for that statement. I had an online ex-friend who belittled me, gaslit me, and even painted me as the villain over a simple misunderstanding. She made posts and videos about how I "hurt her". I was silenced for a while, until someone told me to tell what really happened. And when I did, people understood the monster she really was. She kept whining about how I ruined her online rep as more people saw her true colors. No, I never did ruin her reputation. She did that all on her own by doing all that.
True. I would read the last update to see what happened. Apparently the sister (38) cut contact after what the egg donor said and how she realised the mum was very manipulative and she is now on speaking terms reconciling with the op and her father, the ex “broke up” with the mother after she caused to much drama and attacked him, and the brothers of the op have cut all contact with the mother after what she said to them and blamed them for her issues. The egg donor has since gone into hiding. Oh and the op had her baby too, the ex and her are sorting out custody, but I would read the update, far to much to explain here.
exactly! my dad cheated on his ex girlfriend when I was in Highschool and I knew about three of the other women and each time I had something to say. I asked him what was going to happen to us since it was my dad, my brother, and myself living in his ex's house. I had to keep these affairs secret to avoid us becoming homeless and there was nobody for me to talk to. I also didn't get along with his ex but I felt extremely bad about the whole situation. I tried to maintian a civil relationship with her after we had all moved out but she spiraled further into her drug addiction (I was unaware of the drug addiction at the time). It was all such a nightmare and my dad openly admitted to me that he hated her after a while but couldn't leave because we would have been homeless again like we were when I was 11. He was willing to do anything to keep us in a home but desperately wanted to be happy himself. It's been over 10 years since all this happened and my dad has not cheated since, when we talked about all of it I told him that him being cheated on after leaving his ex just seemed like karma catching up to him. I love my Dad but I already promised myself if he cheated ever again I was going to tell the truth to his gf. I may have had no choice in the past but I didn't side with him or agree with any of his affairs. It was one of the worst time periods in my life.
Well then I must have a free pass cus around 160 years ago 20 people from my direct family tree was fund guilty of more then 17 murders in 3 different nations
@@Hikari-y2c do you know about this thing called a church book where your local church wrote down things such as when you where born how many kids you got and what crimes you where fund guity of and then your date od death
You really forgot how bad the poor dad got it. The mother only stayed with him for financial stability.. Slept with him each time after she slept with another man.. Found out most of his kids aren't really his kids.. Found out his daughter knew and never told him.. it was also his HS sweetheart so he spent his entire life with her for this.. my heart breaks for OP and her dad.
same i cannot imagine but at least he is loved by who matters the most in this nightmare situation the kids wanted him to be their father and no other that just says something about this lovely man's character even though he was married to someone so messed up in the head.
Update: the family reconciled after therapy, turns out the OP’s mother groomed him from the age of 14 as a Youth Pastor. (He may be at fault for a lot of things as an adult, but I keep that in mind that his perspective on things are a bit fucked up) OP’s mother is the villain and I hope she has a horrible life
This mother is the most wicked modern day “Jezebel” I’ve ever heard of! 😬I pray for the injured parties to be able to forgive in Christ, and be healed.
I'm kinda sorry to hear that... the excuse that he was groomed seems unreliable... Just like taking a temporary insanity plea for murder/etc.... Maybe it was true at some point, but it has been years!! Even if he wasn't 100% at fault, I find it quite sad that the OP reconciled... Then again, no one wants to die alone...
She did a final update of this story which is pretty wild. So congrats to OP because she finally gave birth to her newborn son. Then she later heard that her mom and the ex were having problems and the ex decided to break up with OP's mom which he did. The egg donor ended up going to prison and she started to bertae the 38 years old daughter because she wouldn't bail her out of jail. I'm shocked to see how the ex decided right there to leave OP's mom, but what makes this more disgusting was the OP's mom was after her ex when he was 14 but didn't start having sex until he turned 18. There's some things I forgot to mention but that's all I can remember from her final update.
As f- ed up as it is I bet part of the appeal was the taboo of sleeping with your partner's Mom. Having them both possibly too. After everything blew up that was gone and reality probably split them apart And 14?? My god this lady is truly disgusting! I wouldn't be surprised if she has some sort of mental disorder like sociopathy or narcissism. Maybe that's what runs in the family? From what I understand it's somewhat genetic
A guy who'd cheat with his wife's mother and a mother who'd cheat with her daughter's husband can't make their "relationship" work? Who'd have thought? They're both so trustworthy.
Yeah. I'm pretty sure the husband split with the egg donor and the egg donor wanted to move in with the 38 year old sister and her husband and the 38 year old did a u turn and didn't want anything to do with the egg donor.
First story: it’s sounds like the op’s mom don’t care about the op’s feels because she moving in with the op’s ex and the fact she enjoyed having the attention is gross 🤮
@@brianisaway Still shocking she was able to get pregnant, with twins at that. If the story is true (because it sounds so ridiculous it could be false) then it is one of the most fucked up things I have ever heard. I think this mother should be nominated for worst mother of the fucking decade. There are some shitty parents that abandon kids and demand stuff afterwards but what this one did was so vile. What went through the mothers head? clearly she didn't love the dude as much as her husband or they both would've runaway together but she saw it enought that she'd continue on, 18 years after? I'm almost certain he could claim abuse on her too since he was only 18. (yes, legal adult but go to a jury and tell them the story of a 52 year old women comforting and eventually within the hour sleeping with the 18 year old partner of her daughter and they'll think abuse of some sort.)
I love how idiotic her ex's family is "OmG YoU aRe A JeRk FoR DoiNg ThiS PuBLicALy" No, the ex is jerk for literally sleeping with his wife's mother, what happened after it is just called the consequences. Yes, his reputation is totally ruined but he only has himself to blame for that.
Bruh that’s gross…this been goin on for years got dam yo that’s crazy and I feel bad for the op father being 63 and finding out most of the children he raise may or may not be his and 2 is actually confirmed to not be his that’s just crazy
Respect to the 34 year old that said she didn't want a test and that the father was always gonna be her father. Even more respect to the father for feeling the same, you can tell the father and OP are genuinely good people and that the mothers side of the family should have been put down generations ago.
This story sounds too unbelievable to be true and if it is, OMG! The OPs mom sounds soooo evil it’s sickening. Bragging to the daughter that she was better in bed and kept her husband happy! I don’t condone violence of any sort but it wouldn’t surprise me if something would’ve happened to mom by her daughter or husband. It’s this type of betrayal that makes rational people do the irrational. Besides the OP, the dads other children may not be his? UNBELIEVABLE. I really hope this story is made up because if not, this is every happy families worst nightmare
It even more horrible for half the family to side with the ex and mother like it was completely ok. Who gives fuck if it was to open OP didn't put it on Facebook.
If you are having trouble finding this believable then you seriously have been kept under a rock, this stuff might not be common, but it does happen. Lesser matters in the same vein of subject are sometimes common depending on where you are in the world.
@@PeanutButterNJellyfishSandwich Oh it happens. I don't know of a case this complicated. But I can say from experience it happens. My mother had an affair, I was the result. Turns out legal dad was already married to another woman. Oh, biological dad had a vescectomy, so thought he couldn't be the father. Until we met for one hour when I was 12 years old. We share a rare bone disorder, also other members of his family have it. So he finally admitted it, but I never saw him again. I feel I did not have a father, either biological or legal. Thinking on it, it is that complicated, just in a different way. I did not even list all the complications in my case.
The fact that anyone can say she overreacted when she was seven months pregnant is unbelievable. Also, why are her siblings on the mother's side? If I were her I would be wondering why me? The mom had several other children to hate but she specifically singled out this child and hated them and stole her husband. Why?
The narcissistic mom needs to create a blacksheep/scapegoat kid in her eyes and a good perfect kid known as the golden child in her eyes too, which would seem to be the 38 year old difficult sister who most likely became a narcissist too and Very likely slept with her brother in law too in order to feel superior to her sister. Also perhaps she felt she deserved the house next door, instead of her sister due to it being inherited from the grandparents via her dad after (thus perhaps kept the secret of the moms affairs from the dad as payback). Narcissists want it all, all of the time at all of the expense to others
She said that the mother told her she felt justified in her hate for her because she got post pardom depression after she was born. (That might be spelt wrong). So maybe that is why she out her hate towards her and not the other children. Obviously it’s not a valid reason in the least to have hate for your child and be justified for those actions.
it happens read the book a boy called it what the boy went through at the hands of his mother who made his siblings treat him the same the boy grew up and wrote his own story
She's the oldest right? Her being the one that made the egg donor have to be tied down so as not to be single mother damaged goods as she put it. OP is 40 then her next sister is 38 and so on
This is the most utterly, dumbfoundingly, logic-defyingly, confusing and disgusting expression of something I think we all thought was only possible in _that_ kind of fiction. I'm fucking appalled.
@@cloudedarctrooper there's a chance op and husband did the deed. Maybe the husband wanted another go and she was tired. Husband and mom does the deed. Mom definitely did the deed with dad bc husband and mom don't use protection (probably the stupidest thing that led to all this conflict) and mom wants to hide her pregnancy with husband as dad's. They all don't use protection. 43 years of the affair. People naturally lubricate while having sex. Vaginal discharge/semen. There's a chance that residue from daughter to father happened and it's disgusting
As unbelievable as this is, I believe it b/c my mom went after my husband. He thought this was gross but was a serial cheater. She was seriously crazy and evil as well. Hopefully OP and dad can move on and heal from this! Prayers for you both! 💖
Honestly this isn't even enough "revenge". I'd go to their workplaces on working days, & publicly out her there, I'd out them in front of their friends, social media. Make sure every damn bar, public square knows the story. If it weren't for the on-going lawsuit. I'd rain hell & go nuclear. & then move to new state & startover.
me too, except she will never be safe in any corner of the world. I would probably make a facebook account about this, rain leaflets about this incident, so anytime someone saw her, they would know that it was that cheating b****
I agree, they would have to wear that scarlett letter everywhere they go for the rest of their lives. This is beyond unforgivable. Something like that would cause a person to snap and unalive the offenders or yourself. Just wicked.
So to get this straight. The mom and the husband did the deed after he vented to her. Husband loved it. So they did it over and over again. And then when caught, they get mad at HER for ruining their reputation? And then admit they enjoyed the fact that they enjoyed it better than their own spouses? THEN the husband does an Amber Heard? God. They are psychotic, delusional, and downright DISGUSTING.
Honestly waiting to see on then news about a mother breaking down and murdering both the mother and the husband. The worst part is, no one could blame her. You can say she could've held it together or just did it the right way but none of them are going through this. I definitely don't think I'd keep it rational and safe if I was OP
3:22 I'm not even that far into the video and I can say with 100% certainty, that OP did NOT ruin her mothers life The mother did it to herself. She is the one who ruined her own reputation. Not OPs
@@xdani_thethinkingneko apparently there was an update that she apparently groomed him when he was 14 but their relationship only started to be physical when he was 18. So yeah.
I'm sure cheating can be forgiven by some, but I doubt cheating with your daughter's husband for like 20 years will ever be forgiven, that is something beyond cheating. I'm also sure her twin brothers will patch things up with the OP, and that her father is right and they are shooting the messenger. I'm sure she could have gone about it a better way than publicly outing them like that, specially her brothers who would be deeply emotionally damaged by this, but I also understand her rage. Both her egg donor as she calls her, and her soon to be ex deserve each other, they are a poor excuse for human beings and anyone on their side is an idiot and deserve them. His children will never forgive their father, and I doubt there will come a time when they look at him with anything but contempt, but I'm also glad they decided to not tell the smaller children until they are much older, because even though the father is a piece of work the children don't deserve that kind of pain, and I feel really bad for the 14-year-old, a very delicate age for a girl, this kid will need a lot of therapy to get over this and will most likely have a very rocky relationship with her father as she grows older. And P.S.: to have the gall to be that involved in a church and do something like this, this is the worst of the worst and why some people hate the church, because of people like her who use it as a vail to cover up how nasty they are while still trying to pass of as a good person. I laughed when the egg donor is pretty much blaming her daughter and husband for the 20-year-affair. the only thing I believe out of her mouth is that she liked the attention, not hard to seduce an 18-year-old, I also doubt her sons will ever be okay with what she did.
Alright. I give in. I think murder should be on the table, especially after the response by the mother and husband was to get angry at the cheated on wife, turn people against her, etc.
Justifiable murder should not be a crime. In this case, OP's dad found out most of his children were actually his son-in-laws, and his wife was perfectly fine with it.
Woo! This is the most intense cheating story Ive heard this year, my heart breaks for the poor wife who caught her mother and husband. I couldnt even imagine the pain she's going thru, talk about betrayal at the highest level.
I was expecting a classic "husband cheats on wife with wife's mom" story, but this was SO MUCH MORE! Not gonna say better or worse, the amount of affairs is devastating, the reaction of some of the family members are.. somewhat understandable, but nonetheless shocking, and the revenge was SWEET!
The revenge hasn't even started yet. The mother is still having her way , getting what she wants. It's not over until OP ruins any chance of the egg donor ever having a home, family, nearly decent job. There is no punishment too much for either. Mother is very much a predator, it's good she got kicked out of the church when she helped with kids. I can't imagine what she'd do if the thought got into her head that those kids are also 18 now or that her own children with the OP's sperm donor are also 18. OP deserves the world after having to go through with this, hopefully she gets a cosmic justice level of revenge.
I can not even begin to comprehend what was going through her ex's mind and why he would do that to such a nice caring and loving wife. As a member of the same sex as him, I am beyond disgusted and mortified from just hearing that story, their is a special place in hell for people like him, even then, hell seems too good. I can not even begin to fathom her emotions right now and want to comfort her but that would just feel wrong seeing as she has lost her trust in men. If that was my wife, which does exist as I am currently happily single, I think I would have killed both of them then and there in a blind rage. You have endured so much and deserve all he love in the world, and I hope you have a save birth.
This just shows how cheating can cause trauma to so many people. Sending so many blessings to this woman and her children. I can’t imagine coming home to find my mother with my husband and then finding out everything else about my siblings this story is extremely tragic.
As a fellow dude myself, I would like to apologize to you because your ex has just ruined every man’s reputation bc there are still some of us good guys around.
"She claims I have essentially ruined her reputation and her life..." Nope, she did that all by herself by sleeping with her daughter's husband repeatedly over the years. How did she never think this was going to be discovered? LOL!
She probably thought the church would protect her, but these days the sanctity of places of worship have been proven to not be so sacred when crimes of the sexual nature have been coming to light. This isn't medieval or even Renaissance times where they could get away with that stuff, even the Pope, but in their heads they definitely still can.
@@1mol831 because she's disowned her mother the moment she cheated with her husband and doesn't see her as anything more than the woman who gave birth to her, so she's considered the egg donor. People tend to call their bio parents egg/sperm donors when they don't want any relationship with the people who gave birth to them after something they did (eg. Abused/ Betrayed etc)
@@1mol831 metaphorically speaking, you can disown your parents in a number of ways not via legal documents, same way parents disown their children by kicking them out. OP has already stopped looking at her egg donor as her mom as she's not worthy of that title
Just saw this video and I am absolutely blown away. I believe that both the mother and husband are truly selfish people with no regards for what others think and truly have no concept or understanding of how wrong they were.
Doesn't excuse the ex for what he did but in an update op said the mom met the husband at church when he was 14 and didn't start sleeping with him until 18. So she basically groomed him.
This story is just sick… what kind of evil people would do that to others. Not to mention, they were PROUD of what they did and had NO regrets. That’s so messed up on so many levels. The fact that some tried to justify it, makes me livid too!
One of the reasons I don’t want to be a lawyer in divorce cases, your defending the messed up side and that sticks with you forever. Like “So you slept with your wife’s mom and got her pregnant and your wife pregnant near the same time… I guess I can try to win that case”. It’s more depressing than it seems.
OP should have sued the husband for emotional damage afterwards to have him pay for her medical bills. I cannot even begin to understand what she went thru and is likely still going thru.
It's amazing that I have heard hundreds of stories about cheating, and this is literally the most horrible one I have ever heard of. Almost evil in hindsight
This op and her father should sue the husband and mother for compensation, for everything they can get, plus have a no contact order so the kids are not subject to their insanity
i already consider cheating the act itself to be unforgivable especially with kids being a factor or being with someone close to their partner's heart. but this story HOLY shit that was seriously unforgivable and disgusting her own mother had slept with her son in law and had twins from it so those kids are not only OP's siblings but step kids as well how vile do you have to be to stoop THAT low thank God OP found out who knows how long these 2 would have kept it up had they not been found out. May those 2 burn forever in hell for this level of disgusting betrayal.
Sadly something very similar happened in my family. No children were conceived THANK GOODNESS!!! But my Aunt (I hated her and her side of the family for MULTIPLE reasons and them just being jerks, narcissists, cruel, heartless scums) she seduced her daughters husband that was only 25 years old. He divorced my cousin and then married my aunt (who was well over 50!)So he was first my cousins husband then began being her stepdaddy. No one on that side of my family seen anything wrong with it!! I am so glad to have not been in contact with any of them for over 30 years!!
What a nightmare. I'm sorry you're going thru this. I'm glad you've got your dad because you've both been betrayed by this church lady. This doesn't reflect on anything about you no matter what your ex says.
Right at the beginning when I heard "We never fought", that was the very first red flag. Ya'll, something else is always up when there's the illusion of no conflict. It means no ones being honest, things are being ignored, and something's about to blow up.
@@1mol831 they did it once a month and obviously great planning and timing. with the house next door, so much easier. they violated the religious spaces too and office probably when everyone went home. people usually have routines and plans. they are basically asking during a month's time where people are and where to bang if not a hotel, which was mentioned
After listening to this. I think what I'm going through is just fine and dandy. Wow, I think that woman's ex and her mom deserve each other. Stay far away from people like that.
There is no excuse for cheating. Idc what kind of "logic" you think is involved, but to completely destroy someone's trust and intimacy with you because you can't keep it in your pants is disgusting and foul. No excuse. I hope she wins full custody and everything that little cretin owns.
It gets even worse. From what the other commenters are saying about the update, the mother had been grooming the OP's husband since he was 14 and the only reason she convinced the husband to date and marry OP was to keep in contact with him.
Cheating is Hereditary? So losing your freedom of thoughts is also hereditary then? She was born unable to think for herself. Thats what shes tryna tell me
Oh. My. Zog. This is tragic. I feel awful for OP. My ex put me through hell too, but nothing even close to what this poor woman is going through. Someone give her a hug for me. I have no more appropriate words.
Fuck man… Imagine your sister (the op) had a supposedly happy relationship with her husband but to find out that your own mother was having an affair with the husband since they were a teenager and to find out she’s been doing this for years and you might not be related to your own father or even other siblings and uncles and aunts or even worse that your also siblings with ur aunts and uncles and possibly others??? That’s just so fucked up… I don’t think I would mentally be able to handle all of that. Just props to the Op and the people who sided with her about handling all of that cluster fuck of a mess.
The narcissistic mom needs to create a blacksheep/scapegoat kid in her eyes (the OP married daughter) and a good perfect kid known as the golden child in her eyes too, which would seem to be the 38 year old difficult sister who most likely became a narcissist too and Very likely slept with her brother in law too in order to feel superior to her sister. Also perhaps she felt she deserved the house next door, instead of her married/OP sister due to it being inherited from the grandparents via her dad after (thus perhaps kept the secret of the moms affairs from the dad as payback). Narcissists want it all, all of the time at all of the expense to others
Cheating is a choice 🤦🏻♀️ the fact the egg donors family thinks it’s hereditary proves that ppl can be born stupid. And what kind of mother is that? She’s not a mother. If they even get together they’re gonna cheat on each other. They had no problems doing it all those years I’m sure they’ll continue cheating. I have to wonder what kind of person you have to be to do that to your family 😒🤔
According to me the one who is in the worst situation is ops dad. I pity the man😓. Having himself and his daughter also cheated by their partners together would have been so hard on him
I just cannot fathom how anybody can defend the husband and the mother here. Both of them are beyond jerks here, and so is the 38-year old sister. I feel bad for the OP, the old father and most of the children here, they did not deserve ANY of this.
"My ex told me yesterday through his lawyers that he doesn't believe that the baby I'm carrying is his, and he wants a DNA test as soon as he's born, because he doesn't want to support a child that isn't his." Hypocrisy, thy name is *projection!* The sheer, unbridled audacity of this man. Holy Mother of God.
Lol I love how the mom says the daughter ruined her life and reputation. No, you doing the deed for 20 years with your son-in-law ruined your life, your actions did.
The first story is devastating. I feel so sorry she had to endure this deception. I pray she can pick up the pieces of her family and live her best life. I hope she records all conversations with involved parties to help her law suit.
There's cheating and then there's cheating with a close relative or friend. I wonder how people like the mom and husband never think that if the other can cheat on this level, then there's no possible way they could trust each other. They'll betray anyone with anyone.
My husbands friend found out his wife and father had been having an affair. The wife and father are married now so the kids grandfather is also their stepfather. Really messed up. Double betrayal.
Wow... And I thought I was in trouble with my controlling super protective mother that whines I am abandoning her everytime I mention getting my own home when I am financially stable. This story deserves a price of most fucked up shit I've seeing latelly. This is traumatizing in a level I can't even conceive.
No. You can move out. Having boundaries with even your parents is a good thing. My mom wanted me to live in the basement until I was "40" and have "a family" there. Ah. No. I moved out and became independent and I love the privacy. Btw... When did your mother move out of her parents' home? Does she still live with her parents? Lol
@@sherriv4860 Oh no, she claims she left her parents housr cause they were abusive, but she is the best mother in tbe world, so is an offense I want to move out. (She left at 19 when married to my dad, who was 40).
@@sherriv4860 Yep, that is true.But no matter the reasoning I use, she had reasonable readons in her head, but I don't. If I leave, I am"abandoning" her.
@@taynahibanez9952 Yeah. She might be like that forever. But you know you aren't abandoning her. Don't feel guilty. I used to feel guilty, but I have to grow up and be independent. Plus, my relationship with my mother is better (since I moved out) than before. We were getting too toxic living together. But your situation is probably different from mine. Do what is best for you. ❤️
Oh hell no! That man wouldn’t be living anymore. Played me for a fool for decades with my mother? Had kids with her? Then had the nerve to tell me she was better than me in bed? Sorry, some things are worth going to prison for and that’s one of them. I think this would be a good case for jury nullification anyway.
"Hey let me introduce you guys; so these here are my uncles, oh, and they are also my brothers." This is so f-ed up, I am more shocked than Jason Statham is in both Crank movies combined at the level of betrayal from these people! It wasn’t even like a fling, or a spur of the moment thing (which are both totally and utterly unacceptable too), but something that's been going on for longer than OP's been married to this massive pile of human garbage! How can anyone defend this egg- and sperm donor?! "Oh, but its in our genes." That is just such a f-ed up excuse to try to justify their cheating, and behave in any kind of trashy way they want, thinking it will exempt them from any and all kinds of responsibility. I hope all the divorces and custody battles work out for OP and her dad. Stay strong, stay together, and support each other. Also, now they know who is worth keeping in their lives, and who has no respect for them. They should go NC and block everyone that sympathizes with those pieces of shits. Too bad they might have to have some contact with the donors in the future, since they share DNA with kids and siblings (some of which are both at the same time, can't belive i am actually writing about this). I wish them all the best. Also, I wonder what sperm donor's parents think about having their ex-DIL's mum become their new (possible) DIL and movie in with them... 🤔🤣
Honestly I'm surprised we haven't seen a news article or channel report a 40 year old mother shooting up her husband and mother then giving off this story. Like I can't even begin to understand what she's feeling and the fact she's still functioning as a reasonable human being is fucking amazing to me. Like she's stuck between a rock and a fucking gross, disgusting hard place. A lot of people would have lost the plot and gone insane based on how close knit all the family and everyone was and just how deep and disgusting the story went. Not like it was even something that happened in the last year or so due to a rocky marriage, it went on longer then the long ass marriage. Op deserves unending support and I'm sure most people who have seen this will agree that they wish they could do something to help.
This is single-handedly THE WORST cheating story I have ever heard. Every time I thought it couldn't get any worse, we'd find out woah another one of OP's "siblings" was in fact her ex's kids! I cannot believe that whole fascade lasted that long, it's insane.
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When someone claims you ruined their reputation by telling the truth, you haven't ruined their reputation, you made it more accurate.
Wow what a great way to put it. It’s not defamation if it’s the truth.
Great analysis
@@anemic666 Thank you
If someone stating the truth about your behavior causes you trouble and you’re not living in a dictatorship then the problem is almost definitely your behavior.
I usually don't comment unless I have something to say, and I just wanted to thank you for that statement.
I had an online ex-friend who belittled me, gaslit me, and even painted me as the villain over a simple misunderstanding. She made posts and videos about how I "hurt her". I was silenced for a while, until someone told me to tell what really happened. And when I did, people understood the monster she really was.
She kept whining about how I ruined her online rep as more people saw her true colors. No, I never did ruin her reputation. She did that all on her own by doing all that.
When I hear stories like these I think to myself being a orphan isn't half bad sometimes
Sometimes ignorance is a bliss/bless
Sometimes being non straight is good
Ehhh
double-edged sword
@@ApollozCul nah
The mom's an extreme narcissist and the 38 year old sister is clearly jealous of OP
They both can go to hell with the Ex-husband.
I wonder if the sister was also having an affair with op's husband...
@@nilianstroy then she's definitely going to hell.
First class.
@@nilianstroy I was wondering that too 🤔 Her attitude was way to weird during this whole thing...
the lack of remorse and refusal to accept responsibility borders on sociopathic
Blows my mind how family take the side of the cheaters, they are disgusting.
They're all going to hell...
That's true
True. I would read the last update to see what happened. Apparently the sister (38) cut contact after what the egg donor said and how she realised the mum was very manipulative and she is now on speaking terms reconciling with the op and her father, the ex “broke up” with the mother after she caused to much drama and attacked him, and the brothers of the op have cut all contact with the mother after what she said to them and blamed them for her issues. The egg donor has since gone into hiding. Oh and the op had her baby too, the ex and her are sorting out custody, but I would read the update, far to much to explain here.
@@Jacqueline-ts1wd I'm shocked the mother hasn't burst into flames stepping into church...
exactly! my dad cheated on his ex girlfriend when I was in Highschool and I knew about three of the other women and each time I had something to say. I asked him what was going to happen to us since it was my dad, my brother, and myself living in his ex's house. I had to keep these affairs secret to avoid us becoming homeless and there was nobody for me to talk to. I also didn't get along with his ex but I felt extremely bad about the whole situation. I tried to maintian a civil relationship with her after we had all moved out but she spiraled further into her drug addiction (I was unaware of the drug addiction at the time). It was all such a nightmare and my dad openly admitted to me that he hated her after a while but couldn't leave because we would have been homeless again like we were when I was 11. He was willing to do anything to keep us in a home but desperately wanted to be happy himself. It's been over 10 years since all this happened and my dad has not cheated since, when we talked about all of it I told him that him being cheated on after leaving his ex just seemed like karma catching up to him. I love my Dad but I already promised myself if he cheated ever again I was going to tell the truth to his gf. I may have had no choice in the past but I didn't side with him or agree with any of his affairs. It was one of the worst time periods in my life.
You know it's bad when they start calling their parent "donor"
I knew a co-worker who told her dad "Happy sperm donor's day!" On Father's Day 😭
Blaming it on the genetics is like giving a murderer a free pass because it might because of his genetics
True
Well then I must have a free pass cus around 160 years ago 20 people from my direct family tree was fund guilty of more then 17 murders in 3 different nations
@@fluffypandagosegame HOW DO U KNOW THAT
Evil might be genetic in some way, but not specifically cheating. Genetics don't control choices like this.
@@Hikari-y2c do you know about this thing called a church book where your local church wrote down things such as when you where born how many kids you got and what crimes you where fund guity of and then your date od death
You really forgot how bad the poor dad got it. The mother only stayed with him for financial stability.. Slept with him each time after she slept with another man.. Found out most of his kids aren't really his kids.. Found out his daughter knew and never told him.. it was also his HS sweetheart so he spent his entire life with her for this.. my heart breaks for OP and her dad.
same i cannot imagine but at least he is loved by who matters the most in this nightmare situation the kids wanted him to be their father and no other that just says something about this lovely man's character even though he was married to someone so messed up in the head.
This is what happens when you stay blue pilled.
He was 18 it’s grooming too
Same. That "mother" is going to hell.
It makes me sad and sick that this happend
Update: the family reconciled after therapy, turns out the OP’s mother groomed him from the age of 14 as a Youth Pastor. (He may be at fault for a lot of things as an adult, but I keep that in mind that his perspective on things are a bit fucked up)
OP’s mother is the villain and I hope she has a horrible life
This mother is the most wicked modern day “Jezebel” I’ve ever heard of! 😬I pray for the injured parties to be able to forgive in Christ, and be healed.
I'm kinda sorry to hear that... the excuse that he was groomed seems unreliable... Just like taking a temporary insanity plea for murder/etc.... Maybe it was true at some point, but it has been years!! Even if he wasn't 100% at fault, I find it quite sad that the OP reconciled...
Then again, no one wants to die alone...
@@karin9620
Like u wd know. I'm sure they know beta than u, as it's their family.
@@tinasmith7630 are you 12? Type like a normal human
@@nicoledoubleyouI am 12 and I can’t understand what is he saying
She did a final update of this story which is pretty wild. So congrats to OP because she finally gave birth to her newborn son. Then she later heard that her mom and the ex were having problems and the ex decided to break up with OP's mom which he did. The egg donor ended up going to prison and she started to bertae the 38 years old daughter because she wouldn't bail her out of jail. I'm shocked to see how the ex decided right there to leave OP's mom, but what makes this more disgusting was the OP's mom was after her ex when he was 14 but didn't start having sex until he turned 18. There's some things I forgot to mention but that's all I can remember from her final update.
Good. I scrolled through the comments for this. They deserve what they get. And I hope the ex and the sister won't go unpunished either.
As f- ed up as it is I bet part of the appeal was the taboo of sleeping with your partner's Mom. Having them both possibly too. After everything blew up that was gone and reality probably split them apart
And 14?? My god this lady is truly disgusting! I wouldn't be surprised if she has some sort of mental disorder like sociopathy or narcissism. Maybe that's what runs in the family? From what I understand it's somewhat genetic
Wow she was also a pedo…not even surprised.
A guy who'd cheat with his wife's mother and a mother who'd cheat with her daughter's husband can't make their "relationship" work? Who'd have thought? They're both so trustworthy.
Yeah. I'm pretty sure the husband split with the egg donor and the egg donor wanted to move in with the 38 year old sister and her husband and the 38 year old did a u turn and didn't want anything to do with the egg donor.
First story: it’s sounds like the op’s mom don’t care about the op’s feels because she moving in with the op’s ex and the fact she enjoyed having the attention is gross 🤮
Leave that! How a 60 y old could get pregnant
@@middleeasternforhire8985 shes NOW 60... wasnt 60 years old 18 years ago
@@middleeasternforhire8985 or however old the youngest kids were
@@brianisaway oh well gosh darn
@@brianisaway Still shocking she was able to get pregnant, with twins at that. If the story is true (because it sounds so ridiculous it could be false) then it is one of the most fucked up things I have ever heard. I think this mother should be nominated for worst mother of the fucking decade. There are some shitty parents that abandon kids and demand stuff afterwards but what this one did was so vile. What went through the mothers head? clearly she didn't love the dude as much as her husband or they both would've runaway together but she saw it enought that she'd continue on, 18 years after? I'm almost certain he could claim abuse on her too since he was only 18. (yes, legal adult but go to a jury and tell them the story of a 52 year old women comforting and eventually within the hour sleeping with the 18 year old partner of her daughter and they'll think abuse of some sort.)
And here I thought my divorce from my cheating ex was bad... this is heart breaking
It truly is man hope you feel better
@@deeotee6966 If you feel terrible but there's someone who feels worse it doesn't make you feel better it makes you feel bad for them
@@aemama88 that’s sympathy
Oh don't worry, I'm sure yours was still bad! This was just fucked to high heaven, infinity and beyond
this is so bad that it becames hillarious to me.
I love how idiotic her ex's family is
"OmG YoU aRe A JeRk FoR DoiNg ThiS PuBLicALy"
No, the ex is jerk for literally sleeping with his wife's mother, what happened after it is just called the consequences. Yes, his reputation is totally ruined but he only has himself to blame for that.
They're churching-going people...
Do I have to explain more?
Bruh that’s gross…this been goin on for years got dam yo that’s crazy and I feel bad for the op father being 63 and finding out most of the children he raise may or may not be his and 2 is actually confirmed to not be his that’s just crazy
Respect to the 34 year old that said she didn't want a test and that the father was always gonna be her father. Even more respect to the father for feeling the same, you can tell the father and OP are genuinely good people and that the mothers side of the family should have been put down generations ago.
@@jhaytea2257 They're going to hell. Suprised the mom didn't burst into flames stepping in church.
@@jhaytea2257 Thank goodness dad talked OP out of confronting them at first. He reminded her to think of her children
This story sounds too unbelievable to be true and if it is, OMG! The OPs mom sounds soooo evil it’s sickening. Bragging to the daughter that she was better in bed and kept her husband happy! I don’t condone violence of any sort but it wouldn’t surprise me if something would’ve happened to mom by her daughter or husband. It’s this type of betrayal that makes rational people do the irrational. Besides the OP, the dads other children may not be his? UNBELIEVABLE. I really hope this story is made up because if not, this is every happy families worst nightmare
Having to think your sisters husband who you think of as a brother is actually your dad, that’s messed up
It even more horrible for half the family to side with the ex and mother like it was completely ok. Who gives fuck if it was to open OP didn't put it on Facebook.
If you are having trouble finding this believable then you seriously have been kept under a rock, this stuff might not be common, but it does happen. Lesser matters in the same vein of subject are sometimes common depending on where you are in the world.
Unfortunately, I can definitely see this happening. There are some terrible people out there.
@@PeanutButterNJellyfishSandwich Oh it happens. I don't know of a case this complicated. But I can say from experience it happens. My mother had an affair, I was the result. Turns out legal dad was already married to another woman. Oh, biological dad had a vescectomy, so thought he couldn't be the father. Until we met for one hour when I was 12 years old. We share a rare bone disorder, also other members of his family have it. So he finally admitted it, but I never saw him again. I feel I did not have a father, either biological or legal. Thinking on it, it is that complicated, just in a different way. I did not even list all the complications in my case.
………I have no words. Honestly I don’t even think a Karen would approve of this and we all know how delusional they can be
Karen would like to speak with.... yeah even Karen's got nothing
Also Karens tend to be religious, so maybe even horrified with this situation.
i would actually love to see Karens rising up together against this monster
Take her down, Karens!
yeah, this story is brutal
The husband’s ability to look his twin boys in the eye and call them brothers IN LAW for DECAdes is whats getting me.
"Hey bro."
- "Actually no, I am your daddy."
"...bro?"
Haha lol so nice and beautiful
The fact that anyone can say she overreacted when she was seven months pregnant is unbelievable.
Also, why are her siblings on the mother's side?
If I were her I would be wondering why me? The mom had several other children to hate but she specifically singled out this child and hated them and stole her husband. Why?
Maybe it’s because she’s the only one that is definitely the child of her husband
The narcissistic mom needs to create a blacksheep/scapegoat kid in her eyes and a good perfect kid known as the golden child in her eyes too, which would seem to be the 38 year old difficult sister who most likely became a narcissist too and Very likely slept with her brother in law too in order to feel superior to her sister. Also perhaps she felt she deserved the house next door, instead of her sister due to it being inherited from the grandparents via her dad after (thus perhaps kept the secret of the moms affairs from the dad as payback). Narcissists want it all, all of the time at all of the expense to others
She said that the mother told her she felt justified in her hate for her because she got post pardom depression after she was born. (That might be spelt wrong). So maybe that is why she out her hate towards her and not the other children. Obviously it’s not a valid reason in the least to have hate for your child and be justified for those actions.
it happens read the book a boy called it what the boy went through at the hands of his mother who made his siblings treat him the same the boy grew up and wrote his own story
She's the oldest right? Her being the one that made the egg donor have to be tied down so as not to be single mother damaged goods as she put it. OP is 40 then her next sister is 38 and so on
This is the most utterly, dumbfoundingly, logic-defyingly, confusing and disgusting expression of something I think we all thought was only possible in _that_ kind of fiction.
I'm fucking appalled.
I'm going blind...
there's actually the possibility that her fluids made it to dad..
@@donovanwick9278 I'm sorry, what?
Would you mind rephrasing that? I have absolutely no idea what you meant...
@@cloudedarctrooper there's a chance op and husband did the deed. Maybe the husband wanted another go and she was tired. Husband and mom does the deed. Mom definitely did the deed with dad bc husband and mom don't use protection (probably the stupidest thing that led to all this conflict) and mom wants to hide her pregnancy with husband as dad's. They all don't use protection. 43 years of the affair. People naturally lubricate while having sex. Vaginal discharge/semen. There's a chance that residue from daughter to father happened and it's disgusting
@@donovanwick9278 say whaa
I cannot comprehend this story. This is simply years and years of evil.
As unbelievable as this is, I believe it b/c my mom went after my husband. He thought this was gross but was a serial cheater. She was seriously crazy and evil as well. Hopefully OP and dad can move on and heal from this! Prayers for you both! 💖
Honestly this isn't even enough "revenge". I'd go to their workplaces on working days, & publicly out her there, I'd out them in front of their friends, social media. Make sure every damn bar, public square knows the story. If it weren't for the on-going lawsuit. I'd rain hell & go nuclear. & then move to new state & startover.
me too, except she will never be safe in any corner of the world. I would probably make a facebook account about this, rain leaflets about this incident, so anytime someone saw her, they would know that it was that cheating b****
@ Dreamscape
Stuff has a habit of getting out.
Agreed.
I agree, they would have to wear that scarlett letter everywhere they go for the rest of their lives. This is beyond unforgivable. Something like that would cause a person to snap and unalive the offenders or yourself. Just wicked.
So to get this straight. The mom and the husband did the deed after he vented to her. Husband loved it. So they did it over and over again. And then when caught, they get mad at HER for ruining their reputation? And then admit they enjoyed the fact that they enjoyed it better than their own spouses? THEN the husband does an Amber Heard? God. They are psychotic, delusional, and downright DISGUSTING.
Sometimes reality can be so scary that you might think it's fake, but no this is reality.
Honestly waiting to see on then news about a mother breaking down and murdering both the mother and the husband. The worst part is, no one could blame her. You can say she could've held it together or just did it the right way but none of them are going through this. I definitely don't think I'd keep it rational and safe if I was OP
dang, and she was teaching children in church for decades?
I'm suprised she survived that long. Suprisingly, she didn't burst into flames.
She must've avoided the Samson and Delilah stories. Then again, she was a hypocrite of high caliber...
OUOUuouOouhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhH
her lessons be like:
"you don't need to smoke or drink to have a good life"
(if you know what that means)
A preacher would never use their position of power to abuse children right? ….Right?
3:22 I'm not even that far into the video and I can say with 100% certainty, that OP did NOT ruin her mothers life
The mother did it to herself. She is the one who ruined her own reputation. Not OPs
Yup. Mother is a scumbag.
Yeah I wonder if the mother even groomed the father as a minor....since she isn't even sure the husband was 18 when it started....wtf 😒 so sick 🤢🤢🤢🤢
@@xdani_thethinkingneko I'm still in shock the mother hasn't even burst into flames in church once. But she soon will in hell...
😈🔥🔥🔥🔥
@@xdani_thethinkingneko apparently there was an update that she apparently groomed him when he was 14 but their relationship only started to be physical when he was 18. So yeah.
Give OP the satisfaction.
I'm sure cheating can be forgiven by some, but I doubt cheating with your daughter's husband for like 20 years will ever be forgiven, that is something beyond cheating. I'm also sure her twin brothers will patch things up with the OP, and that her father is right and they are shooting the messenger. I'm sure she could have gone about it a better way than publicly outing them like that, specially her brothers who would be deeply emotionally damaged by this, but I also understand her rage. Both her egg donor as she calls her, and her soon to be ex deserve each other, they are a poor excuse for human beings and anyone on their side is an idiot and deserve them. His children will never forgive their father, and I doubt there will come a time when they look at him with anything but contempt, but I'm also glad they decided to not tell the smaller children until they are much older, because even though the father is a piece of work the children don't deserve that kind of pain, and I feel really bad for the 14-year-old, a very delicate age for a girl, this kid will need a lot of therapy to get over this and will most likely have a very rocky relationship with her father as she grows older. And P.S.: to have the gall to be that involved in a church and do something like this, this is the worst of the worst and why some people hate the church, because of people like her who use it as a vail to cover up how nasty they are while still trying to pass of as a good person. I laughed when the egg donor is pretty much blaming her daughter and husband for the 20-year-affair. the only thing I believe out of her mouth is that she liked the attention, not hard to seduce an 18-year-old, I also doubt her sons will ever be okay with what she did.
Props to the Father of #1 for handling the situation as best he could.
I feel bad for the twins in the first story
It's all the same sick story
@@EnaSulver5 yea it’s sad twins from an affair from years it’s depressing that they have to live with that fact
@@deeotee6966 with my mental health I would be 6 feet under already. She is really strong
I would literally unalive myself.
@@syrinaskenandore8006 same
Mother sounds like a narcissist and groomed the older sister to be her best friend/on her side in anything.
Yes absolutely; a narcissist at best or a sociopath at worst. She is human trash...
Alright. I give in. I think murder should be on the table, especially after the response by the mother and husband was to get angry at the cheated on wife, turn people against her, etc.
What’s worse is she was after him since he was 14 so she groomed him..
Well murdering the egg donor would just give her more attention in a way and we know she LIVES for it. Shags for it too apparently...
Justifiable murder should not be a crime. In this case, OP's dad found out most of his children were actually his son-in-laws, and his wife was perfectly fine with it.
GET A FIRING SQUAD
Woo! This is the most intense cheating story Ive heard this year, my heart breaks for the poor wife who caught her mother and husband. I couldnt even imagine the pain she's going thru, talk about betrayal at the highest level.
And the father who got cheated on
@sougotokiwa8439 yeah totally, shamefull I didn't mention him.
I was expecting a classic "husband cheats on wife with wife's mom" story, but this was SO MUCH MORE!
Not gonna say better or worse, the amount of affairs is devastating, the reaction of some of the family members are.. somewhat understandable, but nonetheless shocking, and the revenge was SWEET!
The revenge hasn't even started yet. The mother is still having her way , getting what she wants. It's not over until OP ruins any chance of the egg donor ever having a home, family, nearly decent job. There is no punishment too much for either. Mother is very much a predator, it's good she got kicked out of the church when she helped with kids. I can't imagine what she'd do if the thought got into her head that those kids are also 18 now or that her own children with the OP's sperm donor are also 18.
OP deserves the world after having to go through with this, hopefully she gets a cosmic justice level of revenge.
What exactly were you expecting?
This OP's mom is worse that all the serial killers, murderers, psychopaths and criminals in general (not including those who were falsely accused)
I can not even begin to comprehend what was going through her ex's mind and why he would do that to such a nice caring and loving wife.
As a member of the same sex as him, I am beyond disgusted and mortified from just hearing that story, their is a special place in hell for people like him, even then, hell seems too good.
I can not even begin to fathom her emotions right now and want to comfort her but that would just feel wrong seeing as she has lost her trust in men.
If that was my wife, which does exist as I am currently happily single, I think I would have killed both of them then and there in a blind rage.
You have endured so much and deserve all he love in the world, and I hope you have a save birth.
Ikr, who even had those strength to handle all the bs consequences after that
@@ThegreatestVN who need enemies if you're family are one of them
@@ThegreatestVN imagine cheating for 43 years old since that man teenager,
@@ThegreatestVN I just hope that Satan has got a spot prepared for him
It’s crazier that the mother hates her daughter so much. That’s the shocking part.
This just shows how cheating can cause trauma to so many people. Sending so many blessings to this woman and her children. I can’t imagine coming home to find my mother with my husband and then finding out everything else about my siblings this story is extremely tragic.
As a fellow dude myself, I would like to apologize to you because your ex has just ruined every man’s reputation bc there are still some of us good guys around.
Agreed. That scumbag isn't fit to be called a man.
Amen brother.
cringe
Even the sorta neutral guys will usually have better standards than THIS.
Well, the mother was equally revolting, but I'm not apologizing for it. There are definitely great, faithful guys out there. ❤️
"She claims I have essentially ruined her reputation and her life..." Nope, she did that all by herself by sleeping with her daughter's husband repeatedly over the years. How did she never think this was going to be discovered? LOL!
She probably thought the church would protect her, but these days the sanctity of places of worship have been proven to not be so sacred when crimes of the sexual nature have been coming to light. This isn't medieval or even Renaissance times where they could get away with that stuff, even the Pope, but in their heads they definitely still can.
The op had a terrible mother of course theyre not the jerk 😂
Why is she calling the mom an egg donor?
@@1mol831 i think the mom got an egg donor? Im not sure
@@1mol831 because she's disowned her mother the moment she cheated with her husband and doesn't see her as anything more than the woman who gave birth to her, so she's considered the egg donor. People tend to call their bio parents egg/sperm donors when they don't want any relationship with the people who gave birth to them after something they did (eg. Abused/ Betrayed etc)
@@XerXens how does one disown their mother. I have only heard of mothers disowning their child, not the reverse
@@1mol831 metaphorically speaking, you can disown your parents in a number of ways not via legal documents, same way parents disown their children by kicking them out. OP has already stopped looking at her egg donor as her mom as she's not worthy of that title
Just saw this video and I am absolutely blown away. I believe that both the mother and husband are truly selfish people with no regards for what others think and truly have no concept or understanding of how wrong they were.
Doesn't excuse the ex for what he did but in an update op said the mom met the husband at church when he was 14 and didn't start sleeping with him until 18. So she basically groomed him.
this is messed up. they deserve all the humiliation. i can never forgive if this happened to me.
This story is just sick… what kind of evil people would do that to others. Not to mention, they were PROUD of what they did and had NO regrets. That’s so messed up on so many levels. The fact that some tried to justify it, makes me livid too!
If she murdered the grandmother and ex husband, and I was on the jury, it'd be a quick acquittal.
One of the reasons I don’t want to be a lawyer in divorce cases, your defending the messed up side and that sticks with you forever. Like “So you slept with your wife’s mom and got her pregnant and your wife pregnant near the same time… I guess I can try to win that case”. It’s more depressing than it seems.
OP should have sued the husband for emotional damage afterwards to have him pay for her medical bills. I cannot even begin to understand what she went thru and is likely still going thru.
It's amazing that I have heard hundreds of stories about cheating, and this is literally the most horrible one I have ever heard of. Almost evil in hindsight
Nah what a fantasy it is for that dude.
sometimes it really shocks me how ur perfectly happy life can get absolutely ruined in seconds and leave u in shambles
This op and her father should sue the husband and mother for compensation, for everything they can get, plus have a no contact order so the kids are not subject to their insanity
Did the husband actually takes the "doing your mom" jokes seriously?
Bro… her twin brothers are her ex husband’s children. He clearly did
Yes. Yes he did.
i already consider cheating the act itself to be unforgivable especially with kids being a factor or being with someone close to their partner's heart. but this story HOLY shit that was seriously unforgivable and disgusting her own mother had slept with her son in law and had twins from it so those kids are not only OP's siblings but step kids as well how vile do you have to be to stoop THAT low thank God OP found out who knows how long these 2 would have kept it up had they not been found out. May those 2 burn forever in hell for this level of disgusting betrayal.
Sadly something very similar happened in my family. No children were conceived THANK GOODNESS!!! But my Aunt (I hated her and her side of the family for MULTIPLE reasons and them just being jerks, narcissists, cruel, heartless scums) she seduced her daughters husband that was only 25 years old. He divorced my cousin and then married my aunt (who was well over 50!)So he was first my cousins husband then began being her stepdaddy. No one on that side of my family seen anything wrong with it!! I am so glad to have not been in contact with any of them for over 30 years!!
What a nightmare. I'm sorry you're going thru this. I'm glad you've got your dad because you've both been betrayed by this church lady. This doesn't reflect on anything about you no matter what your ex says.
I can't believe there are people out there capable of doing such horrifying things to their own family 🤮
Reality "Well it's about God blessed time you opened the door! I've been knocking for ages!"
Right at the beginning when I heard "We never fought", that was the very first red flag. Ya'll, something else is always up when there's the illusion of no conflict. It means no ones being honest, things are being ignored, and something's about to blow up.
WOW first story is just...DAYUM
60 year old….????
@@1mol831 fr lol
@@1mol831 they had affair since the husband still teenager, they cheat whole family for 40++ years, those adulterous couple are totally insane
@@mohdhafiz9955 I think the story is made up, t doesn’t make sense they could hide an affair for 40 years and leave non trace.
@@1mol831 they did it once a month and obviously great planning and timing. with the house next door, so much easier. they violated the religious spaces too and office probably when everyone went home. people usually have routines and plans. they are basically asking during a month's time where people are and where to bang if not a hotel, which was mentioned
Bro took “your moms hot” to another level💀💀💀
After listening to this. I think what I'm going through is just fine and dandy. Wow, I think that woman's ex and her mom deserve each other. Stay far away from people like that.
How in the world can this woman be held at fault? She is the victim. The mother and husband are dispicable.
There is no excuse for cheating. Idc what kind of "logic" you think is involved, but to completely destroy someone's trust and intimacy with you because you can't keep it in your pants is disgusting and foul. No excuse.
I hope she wins full custody and everything that little cretin owns.
It gets even worse. From what the other commenters are saying about the update, the mother had been grooming the OP's husband since he was 14 and the only reason she convinced the husband to date and marry OP was to keep in contact with him.
Cheating is Hereditary?
So losing your freedom of thoughts is also hereditary then? She was born unable to think for herself. Thats what shes tryna tell me
I feel so so so sorry for her and whoever else are suffering in the family coz of this. And I thought my family were evil
The OPs lawyer must have seen dollar signs in they eyes after they had the sit down with the Eggdoner
This story is so unbelievable but this really happening and experienced someone out there 😭😭😭stay strong ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Holy flippin train wreck. I can't even imagine how the OP and Grandpa feel. At least they have each other's strength through this.
Oh. My. Zog.
This is tragic. I feel awful for OP. My ex put me through hell too, but nothing even close to what this poor woman is going through. Someone give her a hug for me.
I have no more appropriate words.
I’m PISSED
damn, if this was a movie, i would think no way this could ever happen 🤯
Fuck man… Imagine your sister (the op) had a supposedly happy relationship with her husband but to find out that your own mother was having an affair with the husband since they were a teenager and to find out she’s been doing this for years and you might not be related to your own father or even other siblings and uncles and aunts or even worse that your also siblings with ur aunts and uncles and possibly others???
That’s just so fucked up… I don’t think I would mentally be able to handle all of that.
Just props to the Op and the people who sided with her about handling all of that cluster fuck of a mess.
The narcissistic mom needs to create a blacksheep/scapegoat kid in her eyes (the OP married daughter) and a good perfect kid known as the golden child in her eyes too, which would seem to be the 38 year old difficult sister who most likely became a narcissist too and Very likely slept with her brother in law too in order to feel superior to her sister. Also perhaps she felt she deserved the house next door, instead of her married/OP sister due to it being inherited from the grandparents via her dad after (thus perhaps kept the secret of the moms affairs from the dad as payback). Narcissists want it all, all of the time at all of the expense to others
the husband was like "I like those genes!, hot daughter, hot mother".
Cheating is a choice 🤦🏻♀️ the fact the egg donors family thinks it’s hereditary proves that ppl can be born stupid. And what kind of mother is that? She’s not a mother. If they even get together they’re gonna cheat on each other. They had no problems doing it all those years I’m sure they’ll continue cheating. I have to wonder what kind of person you have to be to do that to your family 😒🤔
Your mom and husband showed their true colors and reputations.
How are people against the OP when she's one of the victims?
People are that crazy and stupid apparently.
You don't get to say that somebody else ruined your life by telling people what you did, you ruined your life by doing what you did.
According to me the one who is in the worst situation is ops dad. I pity the man😓. Having himself and his daughter also cheated by their partners together would have been so hard on him
To say that’s messed up is an understatement. Beyond disgusting of her ex husband and mother and the fact they feel no shame makes it even worse.
It's even more worse considering that other people dont see a problem with their actions too.
I just wanna say that if someone says here that the op is a jerk, needs to be checked by a doctor as soon as possible 🤨🤨🤨
Heart breaking😔. May God help her heal from this terrible betrayal.
I just cannot fathom how anybody can defend the husband and the mother here. Both of them are beyond jerks here, and so is the 38-year old sister. I feel bad for the OP, the old father and most of the children here, they did not deserve ANY of this.
Because they refused to accept that they’re in the wrong
"My ex told me yesterday through his lawyers that he doesn't believe that the baby I'm carrying is his, and he wants a DNA test as soon as he's born, because he doesn't want to support a child that isn't his."
Hypocrisy, thy name is *projection!* The sheer, unbridled audacity of this man. Holy Mother of God.
Lol I love how the mom says the daughter ruined her life and reputation. No, you doing the deed for 20 years with your son-in-law ruined your life, your actions did.
The first story is devastating. I feel so sorry she had to endure this deception. I pray she can pick up the pieces of her family and live her best life. I hope she records all conversations with involved parties to help her law suit.
There's cheating and then there's cheating with a close relative or friend. I wonder how people like the mom and husband never think that if the other can cheat on this level, then there's no possible way they could trust each other. They'll betray anyone with anyone.
Those kids are gonna be so confused on what they are to eachother
My husbands friend found out his wife and father had been having an affair. The wife and father are married now so the kids grandfather is also their stepfather. Really messed up. Double betrayal.
I am literally SHAKING! HOW CAN PEOPLE LIKE THIS EXIST!??,
Wow... And I thought I was in trouble with my controlling super protective mother that whines I am abandoning her everytime I mention getting my own home when I am financially stable. This story deserves a price of most fucked up shit I've seeing latelly. This is traumatizing in a level I can't even conceive.
No. You can move out. Having boundaries with even your parents is a good thing. My mom wanted me to live in the basement until I was "40" and have "a family" there. Ah. No. I moved out and became independent and I love the privacy.
Btw... When did your mother move out of her parents' home? Does she still live with her parents? Lol
@@sherriv4860 Oh no, she claims she left her parents housr cause they were abusive, but she is the best mother in tbe world, so is an offense I want to move out. (She left at 19 when married to my dad, who was 40).
@@taynahibanez9952 She still left at 19. Same goes with my mom leaving her mom at 21.
@@sherriv4860 Yep, that is true.But no matter the reasoning I use, she had reasonable readons in her head, but I don't. If I leave, I am"abandoning" her.
@@taynahibanez9952 Yeah. She might be like that forever. But you know you aren't abandoning her. Don't feel guilty. I used to feel guilty, but I have to grow up and be independent. Plus, my relationship with my mother is better (since I moved out) than before. We were getting too toxic living together. But your situation is probably different from mine. Do what is best for you. ❤️
people like those are the reason i have trust issues
Oh hell no! That man wouldn’t be living anymore. Played me for a fool for decades with my mother? Had kids with her? Then had the nerve to tell me she was better than me in bed? Sorry, some things are worth going to prison for and that’s one of them. I think this would be a good case for jury nullification anyway.
Bravo girl, full speed ahead!
I feel bad for the op, but imagine being those twins finding out that your dad isn’t your dad, BRO
Same here.
"Hey let me introduce you guys; so these here are my uncles, oh, and they are also my brothers."
This is so f-ed up, I am more shocked than Jason Statham is in both Crank movies combined at the level of betrayal from these people! It wasn’t even like a fling, or a spur of the moment thing (which are both totally and utterly unacceptable too), but something that's been going on for longer than OP's been married to this massive pile of human garbage! How can anyone defend this egg- and sperm donor?! "Oh, but its in our genes." That is just such a f-ed up excuse to try to justify their cheating, and behave in any kind of trashy way they want, thinking it will exempt them from any and all kinds of responsibility.
I hope all the divorces and custody battles work out for OP and her dad. Stay strong, stay together, and support each other. Also, now they know who is worth keeping in their lives, and who has no respect for them. They should go NC and block everyone that sympathizes with those pieces of shits. Too bad they might have to have some contact with the donors in the future, since they share DNA with kids and siblings (some of which are both at the same time, can't belive i am actually writing about this). I wish them all the best.
Also, I wonder what sperm donor's parents think about having their ex-DIL's mum become their new (possible) DIL and movie in with them... 🤔🤣
You are not the Jerk!
You are the Victim!🤯
But Somebody gotta pay for all that Disrespect, So I don't feel sorry for the Mom at all!😠
Story 1: I truly feel sorry for OP, because any sort of partner that cheated is a scumbag
The floozy gene? I'll admit that's a new one.
I just want to say/ the mother had the wife’s children’s half siblings, but they are also HER half siblings… 5:13
It's stories like this that make you realise how lovely and boring and normal your own family is in comparison ...
Honestly I'm surprised we haven't seen a news article or channel report a 40 year old mother shooting up her husband and mother then giving off this story. Like I can't even begin to understand what she's feeling and the fact she's still functioning as a reasonable human being is fucking amazing to me. Like she's stuck between a rock and a fucking gross, disgusting hard place. A lot of people would have lost the plot and gone insane based on how close knit all the family and everyone was and just how deep and disgusting the story went. Not like it was even something that happened in the last year or so due to a rocky marriage, it went on longer then the long ass marriage.
Op deserves unending support and I'm sure most people who have seen this will agree that they wish they could do something to help.
Not gonna lie if I were the OP, I would have a total mental breakdown and thinking it will be the best time to leave the Earth
What did I just heard?… I don’t even know which part I should be more upset about?
“Mom, why did you and dad divorce?”
“Ask your grandma.”
This is single-handedly THE WORST cheating story I have ever heard. Every time I thought it couldn't get any worse, we'd find out woah another one of OP's "siblings" was in fact her ex's kids! I cannot believe that whole fascade lasted that long, it's insane.