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Same.....I really needed a refresher on how certain situations popped off. I think we were engulfed in these shows sometimes, that our initial perception is skewed until these new situations pop, then we go bk and look like, "Ooooohh, damn. I forgot about that." 😂
Right bcuz that bs blueprint for successful marriage was ridiculous. Not to mention Melody lied (fake) omitted, whatever you want to call it....She & Martel both had cheated in 2017 & they had rest of cast agree not to speak on it. Then @ that dinner season 1 epi 1... Melody threw everybody under the bus & went several seasons pretending she never knew, pretended she didn't cheat & it was everybody else's fault for not telling her.
True. Kimmie is fake to me. When Mel invited Tisha & Kimmie over for a chat and massages, Kimmie was very rude to Mel. Called her bougie. It made Mel cry. I'm not a Melometer, but, don't come to my house, drink my champagne, get a free massage, and make slick remarks. Now, Mel, you don't have a "blueprint" fo' marriage. Maybe the blueprint fo' being a doormat.
Kim's jealousy for Mel, is very loud. Mel's blue print to Tisha was not a marriage advice, it was being able to multi task, as being a wife, mother and a working mom. Not to be mini Mel. It looks like Kim's wants Tisha to be submissive to Martel, so that after her wedding she is not alone when Maurice tells her to leave her job.
Tisha completely twisted Mel’s words lol. She never told you to leave your husband & she never said she had a successful marriage! She was pointing out she LEFT MARTELL & started tapping into who SHE was. Tisha was reaching
I dont know how Mel dealt with Martell's ignorance and boyish mentality all these years. She was very clear with him. Gave him chance after chance and he still decided to do what he wanted. Hence his 5th child. Im glad this is replaying because this just makes his BS even more evident.
when martell told the truth about havin multi women and mel said "its ok" cuz thats when she knew yea this ant for me anymore. martell saw his whole life flash b4 his eyes. thats why he back peddled and said i dont want 2 women just you. yea he knew he messed up cuz once a person understands that we are not going in the same direction anymore it time to let go. its over.
Mel was being unbelievably transparent. She had a pig for a husband. You could tell she was hurting while still trying to be a friend. Tisha stretched the truth about she and Mel’s conversation each time she told someone about it. 😂.. Kimmie never liked Mel from the start.
They all disliked Mel and it's really sad. I'm so happy that she is soaring high rn. Leaving Martell and distancing herself from the Scotts was the best move she ever made
Martel's arrogance about "filling a void" makes my blood boil. Now he has lost the trophy and he regrets because Ari, does not fill the void. You lost a good wife in Melody Martel and Ari is still not satisfying you. 😂
The way Tisha described the situation is so different then what Mel actually said. I rewound the tape and Tisha asked for advice and Mel gave it. Nowhere did she say you have to do it my way she just said what worked for her. If Tisha would have used her own mind she wouldn't have to run around asking people "what to do" like a immature 6yr old.. and Kimmie is way over the top. I agree with Mel cutting those caddy jealous women off. They are not real friends. The only one relatable is Melody.
If two people ever completely misunderstood and took out of context the wisdom Mel was trying to impart, it's Tisha and Kimmie. Two hopeless flavours of male identified pickmeishas if I ever saw one. Gosh watching these throwbacks again, with everything that's now happened makes Tisha and Kimmie look even more hateful, jealous and insecure that I'd even thought. Not a good look at all!
Martell should not have even went. He already was doing the most with coleslaw. I just wouldn’t expect men their age that considered themselves businessmen to act like that . Can you imagine how it would be if the cameras weren’t there ?
Ok so Kimmi never liked Mel. Roger that. Mel should feed all these birds with a long handled spoon. I really need for Mel to have a villain arc and really give all these people the BIDNESS!!
Looking back on these episodes and watching Mel and Martel, remind me so much of my previous marriage. My ex was just like Martel except he was physically abusive. All the gaslighting, you don’t do this and you don’t do that but the minute you walk away, they love you so much and think making your life a living hell behind close doors but play victim in public. You’re the worst person in the world. I understand exactly what she is going through. My ex after I left made my life a living hell. Including releasing video that I really didn’t want to do but did it for him. It makes me appreciate the husband I have now. I hope Mel find the love she deserves.
Is sad to see this two evil jealous hating on Melody she means so much good for them this is why god will continue to bless protect her her kides for life more success happiness in all she do her haters jealous evil people will never win no weapon lies formed against them shall prosper
Aww now we see Kimmie for real always been male identified and sketchy. And Tisha misrepresented everything that Mel said to her at lunch but Kimmie is no one’s friend. These women have always been dirty as dirty as the men…
@Phexit, I'm Old "School", When I was Coming Up, There wasn't An Official Term for a Women who Seeks/Confirms their Validations through Male Attachments. While at the Same Time, will Defend, Excuse, and Sympathize for thier Feelings, Morals, and Behaviors. However, these Same Females, Lack Real Concern, Understanding, and Love for Women. Including themselves.😉
@@queentemitayoEven till this most recent season, she’s still team Martell. Like that has to make Mel feel good about her decision to not invite her to her name change😂like girl you still a pick me always will be
I'm glad when we a look back episodes and see things I think Tisha a mel could of been real good friends if it wasn't for Marcel and Kimmie I see she was hating on mel for telling Tisha to stand up for herself
As a stay at home mom, if your partner is not an active participant in the home.. getting a sitter and job will always seem more appealing! Single motherhood and being at stay at home mom each come with their own set of struggles. Its insensitive and tone-deaf to compare.
Just started watching and I must say Mel is better than me. Wouldn’t look at this circle ever in life but let them watch me work. Very jealous behavior I’m seeing.
Lookin back it's obvious that Marsau really didn't want Tisha around Mel, Keke, or anyone else 5hat would be a positive influence. A real man does not want a weak wife who can't think for herself. And the narcissism oozing from the Scott boys is astounding.
Yeah, he wanted her to stay brainwashed only by him. It's similar to being kidnapped & your kidnapper have you for a long time, but once you're rescued you don't want to leave the kidnapper.
It seems like noone liked Mel in the earlier seasons EXCEPT Marsau. Marsau IS def secretly in love with Mel and Tisha knows it. Kimmi dont like Mel cuz she feels inferior to her. Martell was jealous of his own wife and wanted her to fail so she can stay thru the cheating but baby she is WINNING rn and im so happy for her!!
Tisha didn’t tell it the way Melody said it. And Kimmi seems not to care for Mel too much. And how are they talking about Martell cheating when it’s only been talked about as if it was once not as long as it was. Shows they already knew what was going on
Mel was a millionaire at the time of this...change the gender roles. If a man is a millionaire, do wife's complain and cheat because he wasn't taking care of the lawn or take out the trash? He would hire a lawn care service. Why didn't he hire a maid to help out? So the problem I see is that men expect for their millionaire wives to be housewives too... ridiculous....The show newlyweds, Nick was also harassing his wife about cooking as he was spending her millions...
Mel was going through a tough time in her marriage. Seeing someone's marriage begin was hard for her and she did her best. Friends in divorce/infidelity needs grace ❤
Mel wasn't accepting shish from day one but she tried. Martel was never really sorry excuse after excuse. Kimmie never liked Mel and Tisha just delusional
Mel wS not giving Tissha advice, she was speaking about her situation. Tisha wants to be like Mel so bad, she's leading people to believe she's trying to breakup her marriage.
I already don't like Tisha, these videos just solidify why i can't stand her victim behavior in the new season. I knew Mel had her reasons why she was staying away from the scotts. They were so shady towards her. I'm glad she's in a better place now ❤️
Wow, Kimmie really really really has not liked Mel for a while. I've always favoured her as matter-of-fact in her delivery. I never watched these early episodes to see, she really did not care for Melody's energy.
I cannot stand Kim or Tisha. Mel just wanted to help Tisha break out of the role that she doesn’t want to be in. Mel is just trying to be a supportive friend.
So disappointed in Kimmi she is showing her true colors, she is also jealous of Mel. So two faced! Can't believe how are black women keep knocking each other down. Look how Tisha is telling Marsau what Mel was saying. He didn't have to know their conversation bc he will knock it out, shutting her down.
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Cant download the app in Europe
Please how else can I watch this. I'm in the UK. Thanks
Melody chose her peace of mind, which was the right choice she truly fought to stay married. Martell lost a precious 💎
Watching the first season again has jogged my memory on why Mel keeps her distance now. Everybody was soooo fake towards her. It’s really sad 😢
Exactly.
Yesss I started watching after the first season this is my first time really just understanding why everything is the way it is
Its disturbing.
Same.....I really needed a refresher on how certain situations popped off. I think we were engulfed in these shows sometimes, that our initial perception is skewed until these new situations pop, then we go bk and look like, "Ooooohh, damn. I forgot about that." 😂
Yessssssssssssss
It just goes to show how Tisha doesn’t comprehend. Mel definitely didn’t say she wanted to give her the blue print for marriage.
Mel did the right thing beyond a shadow of a doubt! The arrogant and obnoxious attitude Martel had is unbelievable.
Right i can't stand him I bet she regret coming back I think I will stay single
Had??? He's still arrogant and obnoxious
Mel did not say she had the blueprint of a succeed marriage. That goes to show how slow Tisha is
I ain't gonna lie. I'm glad they put these videos up. It really helps to see the dynamic and how they got to where they are now.
🙏
Right bcuz that bs blueprint for successful marriage was ridiculous. Not to mention Melody lied (fake) omitted, whatever you want to call it....She & Martel both had cheated in 2017 & they had rest of cast agree not to speak on it. Then @ that dinner season 1 epi 1... Melody threw everybody under the bus & went several seasons pretending she never knew, pretended she didn't cheat & it was everybody else's fault for not telling her.
Mel seemed so genuine with Tisha in the beginning. Tisha effed that up.
Wrong
And ppl be calling Mel fake, all everybody need to do is come back to the first season and they’ll understand why Mel don’t fool with these folks fr.
Right. I said the same thing cause she knew what they were doing & saying but the producers didn't show us everything. So I'm glad too.
True. Kimmie is fake to me. When Mel invited Tisha & Kimmie over for a chat and massages, Kimmie was very rude to Mel. Called her bougie. It made Mel cry. I'm not a Melometer, but, don't come to my house, drink my champagne, get a free massage, and make slick remarks. Now, Mel, you don't have a "blueprint" fo' marriage. Maybe the blueprint fo' being a doormat.
Kim's jealousy for Mel, is very loud. Mel's blue print to Tisha was not a marriage advice, it was being able to multi task, as being a wife, mother and a working mom. Not to be mini Mel. It looks like Kim's wants Tisha to be submissive to Martel, so that after her wedding she is not alone when Maurice tells her to leave her job.
Tisha completely twisted Mel’s words lol. She never told you to leave your husband & she never said she had a successful marriage! She was pointing out she LEFT MARTELL & started tapping into who SHE was. Tisha was reaching
So sad. Mel wanted to help Tisha, and Tisha couldn't see it. Now look at Tisha.. 6 seasons in and STILL trying to FIND herself.. smh
Facts!!
its crazy watching this back now i can see Mel really was just trying to help Tisha.
I dont know how Mel dealt with Martell's ignorance and boyish mentality all these years. She was very clear with him. Gave him chance after chance and he still decided to do what he wanted. Hence his 5th child. Im glad this is replaying because this just makes his BS even more evident.
when martell told the truth about havin multi women and mel said "its ok" cuz thats when she knew yea this ant for me anymore. martell saw his whole life flash b4 his eyes. thats why he back peddled and said i dont want 2 women just you. yea he knew he messed up cuz once a person understands that we are not going in the same direction anymore it time to let go. its over.
What does cheating have to to with Mel’s business accomplishments. These women are green with envy
I can agree they are green monsters
Kimmi was never married but had so much to say about marriage advice!!! Smh kimmi this is an absolute Nooo!!!
Hater behavior
Those are the main people that be in people business with the I know this and that
She always been weird to me.
she never liked Mel and it shows
He only married her for this sho. Kimmi is Tisha she just can articulate herself well.
Yessss!!!! This right here is so damn true
She was fed up at this point and he didn't even realize it. When a Woman's Fed Up ain't nothing you can do about it🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶
Mel was being unbelievably transparent. She had a pig for a husband. You could tell she was hurting while still trying to be a friend. Tisha stretched the truth about she and Mel’s conversation each time she told someone about it. 😂.. Kimmie never liked Mel from the start.
They all disliked Mel and it's really sad. I'm so happy that she is soaring high rn. Leaving Martell and distancing herself from the Scotts was the best move she ever made
@@muffinlover1716agreed 💯
Tisha is slow, that is not what mel said.
At all. She was talking being able to do both
At all ……
I see why Mel don't be wanting anything to do with her. She twisted everything Mel said in that convo
Mel was just trying to tell her do things for yourself to make you happy
they were laughing behind mels back knowing she was being cheated on while mel is laughing in their face they are in the same boat with her.
The conversation between Mel and Martell was disgusting to witness. Martell was down right disrespectful.
That's why Mel is on top of the world and Martell is barely keeping it together.
Martel's arrogance about "filling a void" makes my blood boil. Now he has lost the trophy and he regrets because Ari, does not fill the void. You lost a good wife in Melody Martel and Ari is still not satisfying you. 😂
Kimmy really didn't like Mel this season and its sad.
So jealous of Mel from DAY ONE
Especially Kimmi
@@Wildflowers24I agree, hands down
Kimmie honey you need the blueprint.
Kimmy has always been a mean girl. She tries to keep it Lowkey.
The way Tisha described the situation is so different then what Mel actually said. I rewound the tape and Tisha asked for advice and Mel gave it. Nowhere did she say you have to do it my way she just said what worked for her. If Tisha would have used her own mind she wouldn't have to run around asking people "what to do" like a immature 6yr old.. and Kimmie is way over the top. I agree with Mel cutting those caddy jealous women off. They are not real friends. The only one relatable is Melody.
Looking at these old episodes Kimmi doesn’t like Mel.
I think she’s jealous because she can’t be Mel. Mel is just an “it” girl she got it all and Caries her self with such grace and poise.
I agree @@unicorntusk1185
Mel had foresight which I believe saved her life ❤
Melody is going through it with her husband and kimmie and Tisha is so cold blooded
MAurice dancing on that girl head got me wheezingggggg lol
Mel, we need a t-shirt with "Mmm, hmm" on it.
If two people ever completely misunderstood and took out of context the wisdom Mel was trying to impart, it's Tisha and Kimmie. Two hopeless flavours of male identified pickmeishas if I ever saw one.
Gosh watching these throwbacks again, with everything that's now happened makes Tisha and Kimmie look even more hateful, jealous and insecure that I'd even thought. Not a good look at all!
Definitely male identified
BMW Black male worshippers and Pickmeishas is sad and Kimmie is definitely the elder and Latisha is the delusional follower
🎯🎯 late replying but this summed it all up……
Latisha is a big liar.
Maurice's behavior at the strip club is still...distressing.
Martell should not have even went. He already was doing the most with coleslaw. I just wouldn’t expect men their age that considered themselves businessmen to act like that .
Can you imagine how it would be if the cameras weren’t there ?
Ok so Kimmi never liked Mel. Roger that. Mel should feed all these birds with a long handled spoon. I really need for Mel to have a villain arc and really give all these people the BIDNESS!!
Wow these early seasons kimmie was showing her azz
The way I holla’d 🤣
She took some1 else husband n was feeling herself.
Looking back on these episodes and watching Mel and Martel, remind me so much of my previous marriage. My ex was just like Martel except he was physically abusive. All the gaslighting, you don’t do this and you don’t do that but the minute you walk away, they love you so much and think making your life a living hell behind close doors but play victim in public. You’re the worst person in the world. I understand exactly what she is going through. My ex after I left made my life a living hell. Including releasing video that I really didn’t want to do but did it for him. It makes me appreciate the husband I have now. I hope Mel find the love she deserves.
And Kimmi wonders why she wasn’t invited the Melodys name change 😂 girl bye Kimmi is such a pick me and hater!!!
Is sad to see this two evil jealous hating on Melody she means so much good for them this is why god will continue to bless protect her her kides for life more success happiness in all she do her haters jealous evil people will never win no weapon lies formed against them shall prosper
I'm glad she left him
I can't stand when a boy oh you not giving me enough attention boy bye
Martell is despicable on maximum levels. I’m so happy that Mel left him and let his Jezebel have his sorry azz
Damn rewatching this, Mel was really tolerating Martel’s disrespect. I’m so happy she got that divorce.
Latisha is a truly backstabbing melody telling Kimmie
Aww now we see Kimmie for real always been male identified and sketchy. And Tisha misrepresented everything that Mel said to her at lunch but Kimmie is no one’s friend. These women have always been dirty as dirty as the men…
What does “male identified” mean?
@Phexit, I'm Old "School", When I was Coming Up, There wasn't An Official Term for a Women who Seeks/Confirms their Validations through Male Attachments. While at the Same Time, will Defend, Excuse, and Sympathize for thier Feelings, Morals, and Behaviors. However, these Same Females, Lack Real Concern, Understanding, and Love for Women. Including themselves.😉
@@phexi419a fancy way of saying pick me
Kimmie can't be trusted
@@queentemitayoEven till this most recent season, she’s still team Martell. Like that has to make Mel feel good about her decision to not invite her to her name change😂like girl you still a pick me always will be
Tishaaa WANTED Mel and Martel there So It would take the attention off of Marsua....cause her butt knows he ain't right
Tisha is a married single mother yikes
So is Kimmy now that she's helping to raise monster.
I'm glad when we a look back episodes and see things I think Tisha a mel could of been real good friends if it wasn't for Marcel and Kimmie I see she was hating on mel for telling Tisha to stand up for herself
As a stay at home mom, if your partner is not an active participant in the home.. getting a sitter and job will always seem more appealing! Single motherhood and being at stay at home mom each come with their own set of struggles. Its insensitive and tone-deaf to compare.
No license at first, not wanting her to work.. hmmm
Just started watching and I must say Mel is better than me. Wouldn’t look at this circle ever in life but let them watch me work. Very jealous behavior I’m seeing.
Wow!!!!! So glad Mel left. Smh
Lookin back it's obvious that Marsau really didn't want Tisha around Mel, Keke, or anyone else 5hat would be a positive influence. A real man does not want a weak wife who can't think for herself. And the narcissism oozing from the Scott boys is astounding.
Yeah, he wanted her to stay brainwashed only by him. It's similar to being kidnapped & your kidnapper have you for a long time, but once you're rescued you don't want to leave the kidnapper.
It seems like noone liked Mel in the earlier seasons EXCEPT Marsau. Marsau IS def secretly in love with Mel and Tisha knows it. Kimmi dont like Mel cuz she feels inferior to her. Martell was jealous of his own wife and wanted her to fail so she can stay thru the cheating but baby she is WINNING rn and im so happy for her!!
You killed it with this comment! Super on point.
Kimmi: Mel can keep her advice.
Me: She didn’t offer you any. It took Maurice 7 yrs to decide about you.
I didn't realize Kimmie and Maurice got married at the beginning of the season
Me either. No wonder she is such a pick me...
Tisha didn’t tell it the way Melody said it. And Kimmi seems not to care for Mel too much. And how are they talking about Martell cheating when it’s only been talked about as if it was once not as long as it was. Shows they already knew what was going on
Omg all them was hating on Mel geez
She formulated The Mel👑l🌬 Print as of this episode 🧮⚒️📊
Kimmie is definitely a mean girl..
Facts😒😒😒🙄
Dumbtell is a whole dog.
Kimmi didn't like Mel she always had something negative to say about Mel.
They really was hating on Mel💯
I LLLOOOOVVEE MELODY’S HAIR SHORT LIKE THIS ❤
The way Tisha percieves things is angering. Im glad she is married to Marsau. He is her Karma.
“You were 22, you probably weren’t expecting anything” Martell Martell Martell….
Y the Scott brothers always in suits
A married single parent Mel needed to stop dealing with them all just messy. Kimmel envy’s Mel
Shoot! Make me a Minnie Mel!!!
Me too. Blueprint hugh...
@@Theeconvonow she charges 3,000 for her help...
@@smallsmall5062and she should charge more. She’s that valuable. The diametrical opposite of tisha and Kimmi
Wow .Tisha really twisted Mel's advice ...Tisha was jealous of Mel from the jump
Watching season 1 puts sooo much into perspective!
Mel was a millionaire at the time of this...change the gender roles. If a man is a millionaire, do wife's complain and cheat because he wasn't taking care of the lawn or take out the trash? He would hire a lawn care service. Why didn't he hire a maid to help out? So the problem I see is that men expect for their millionaire wives to be housewives too... ridiculous....The show newlyweds, Nick was also harassing his wife about cooking as he was spending her millions...
Oh kimmie was a hater
Mel was going through a tough time in her marriage. Seeing someone's marriage begin was hard for her and she did her best. Friends in divorce/infidelity needs grace ❤
They was hating on Mel bc she was a size 0-2 after her children.
That sounds so damn stupid
Maurice dancing on that girl head still gets me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
THAT was DEPLORABLE behavior!!!♟️
Tisha is a lie, she told two different stories to Kimmie and Marsau and this is what Mel told her about the blue print.
The amount of disrespect is jarring.
Mel wasn't accepting shish from day one but she tried. Martel was never really sorry excuse after excuse. Kimmie never liked Mel and Tisha just delusional
This make me look at kimme different 🫤
@own can you put episodes 6 thru 9 please as well
Mel wS not giving Tissha advice, she was speaking about her situation. Tisha wants to be like Mel so bad, she's leading people to believe she's trying to breakup her marriage.
When Tisha talks she sounds like a very bad actress
I already don't like Tisha, these videos just solidify why i can't stand her victim behavior in the new season. I knew Mel had her reasons why she was staying away from the scotts. They were so shady towards her. I'm glad she's in a better place now ❤️
Where is episode 6,7,8 and 9 please
Mel clearly the blueprint itself and everyone else is just bitter dry and anxious🙄
Wow, Kimmie really really really has not liked Mel for a while. I've always favoured her as matter-of-fact in her delivery. I never watched these early episodes to see, she really did not care for Melody's energy.
Tisha need to stop trying to follow behind Mel and clean her own marriage up. Stop trying to make nosey Kimmi think she listening to Mel.
I cannot stand Kim or Tisha. Mel just wanted to help Tisha break out of the role that she doesn’t want to be in. Mel is just trying to be a supportive friend.
IS THE TOWNHOUSE THAT TISSUE AND MARSAU, MEL AND MARTELL'S ?
Tish is a liar, mel did not say anything of that.
Tisha telling lies, all while living in that girl’s house
Tisha is dependent on her husband. He could have three kids outside of their marriage and she wouldn’t leave.
Martel was trying to handle Melody like Marsau was doing tiaha
Tisha feeling like a single parent is valid.
They are all jealous of Mel success and independent
I am OFFICIALLY A MELOMETER.
So disappointed in Kimmi she is showing her true colors, she is also jealous of Mel. So two faced! Can't believe how are black women keep knocking each other down. Look how Tisha is telling Marsau what Mel was saying. He didn't have to know their conversation bc he will knock it out, shutting her down.
Tisha was such a hater that’s y she gets what she gets 😮
Kimmie is NASTY NASTY. Im glad Mo treats her the way he does.