School Teacher Gets Caught Hooking Up With A 5th Grader
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- Опубликовано: 14 май 2024
- Madison Bergmann, 24, has been accused of hooking up with a 5th grader. Chris Hansen chimes in.
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A predator is a predator and a victim is a victim. Doesn't matter the gender of the person, it's illegal and morally wrong.
According to a lot of people, no matter the gender, a woman can't be a predator towards boys (only if she's good looking though). It's absolutely sickening and vile if you read comments *under news reports where the woman is the predator towards boys.
It's also nasty AF. Like... HOW is a child attractive to a full grown adult? WHY??
Exactly. That child cannot consent and will be messed up. Doesn't matter if it's a male or female predator or a boy or girl victim.
@@stephanybrown3226 when I was in 5th grade I wish my teacher would grape me. That dude is super lucky
100%
“Hooking up with” implies consent. Kids can’t consent. Call it what it is. Abuse.
it's rape
Yep. Ken should change the title
I don't think RUclips would be happy with "Teacher abuses 11 year old student" 💀
@@GmmBeast”canoodles” 💀
Unfortunately, YT is in on the censorship thing these days and the title being changed to ab*se would probably cause issues. Also, apparently just seeing the uncensored word can trigger, so we are apparently not supposed to use it uncensored now? IDK, I'm old and the new rules of the internet confuse me
"Hooking up" and "5th Grader" in the same sentence is crazzzy
It’s crazy because it isn’t hooking up. It’s abuse. The creator of this video is disgusting for using that terminology to describe this.
@@FortifiedEarth10:15 It's crazy that the creator said it's not traumatizing for young boys
@@FortifiedEarth do you guys realize how much RUclips censors stuff. Words like abuse will get this video taken down period. You guys have brains. Use them.
I absolutely despise the people who think men cannot be victims of sexual abuse and grooming. They can, it happens, and like ANY sexual assault, it deserves the human right to be seen, investigated, and taken to justice.
It's even worse when other men think it's ok to be preyed on like that..
It’s *mainly* men that think it’s okay and excuse it, and then the “women” who excuse it are the “women” that would do this kind of shit
(Using women lightly just as I would to a male pedofile) I wouldn’t call a male pedo a man so calling a female pedo a woman is wrong too
It's always met with "nice", rather than consolation. It's so dumb
@@crashley47 right, or sadly, they just aren’t taken seriously and nobody believes them because of the stereotype men/boys can’t be victims.
11 years old??? 11 years old??? 11 YEARS OLD
🥴if I was his parent, I would've served life sentence
I know right? What a Chad
@@qigongkylar944 so quirky. degenerate
My thoughts exactly 🥴🤢🤮
@@qigongkylar944you’re an incel grape apologist
My fiance was victimized by his teacher in freshman year. I can confirm it stays with these victims for the rest of their lives. There is no excuse for this level of power manipulation
I believe it 100%. Your fiance probably thinks about his teacher 24/7, thinkin about how lucky he was.
Yep. There's the whole high five thing around friends, but the person who goes through that really feels messed up and broken inside. Even if they seem fine at the moment, it catches up with them in forms of depression, anxiety, anti-socialness, etc. it basically eats you from the inside
@@MrTMVBwhat-
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@@MrTMVByou are a predator
I'm a 23 year old woman. Even the thought of being intimate with an 18 year old gives me the ick. I can't fathom how anyone would see this as acceptable at all gender doesn't matter at all. A minor is a minor and they are a victim of manipulation from the predator.
Thank you, I say this all the time and get shit for it. Personally At 25, anyone under the age to drink is off limits and have been since I was about 23. We have nothing in common. I’ve had brief conversations with 18-20 year olds and they are babies still, to the point I wouldn’t even feel comfortable having a close platonic friendship. The fact that people can’t or refuse to comprehend this is beyond me.
@@LifeIsRootedInLoveOh my god same! The amount of weird looks I get from people when it comes up is just astounding. I just don’t understand the interest in dating/hanging out with people more than three years younger!
i’m turning 21 this year and the concept of even dating someone turning 19 this year is really unappealing and gross to me? to think an adult that is a few years older then me could find an 11 year old “attractive” and per-sue one is deeply disturbing
Ikr... I'm 31 and I feel anyone under 25 is too young. The only time it's normal to like people that young is when your that age yourself but usually you tend to like people the same age as you as you get older as well
I have an almost 20 year old and she’s still like a CHILD to me I can’t even imagine . How people can do things like this .
I’m 39 and I couldn’t date anyone in their 20s but you’re right even an 18 year old although legal it would be SICK
People who say "good for him" in regards to young boys being assaulted by female predators are as bad as the predators who assaulted the children. This is not open for discussion or debate.
Based
Preach 🙌
Fully agree
Mhm
DANE NO😂
"you're the man i want, but thats the boy i want" has me dead as well
this killed me as well xD
Same🤣
LMFAO that was so funny
He was gonna stop himself but the joke must come out
He's so wrong for saying that LMAO
11 years old.. That's not "making out"; that's sexual assault
Yes, you’re right. It’s still called making out though.
@@DarkVWolf It's an *adult* pleasuring themselves with a kid; making out is people of age to consent to such an activity
“I have to be the adult here” girl you ARE the adult! 🙄🤦🏾♂️
It was that phrasing. Completely outrageous. All of this is outrageous
“I have to be the adult” you are, that’s the problem!
Was a victim at 15. Now 33. It's a struggle to be intimate or want to be touched by another. Makes finding a partner hard
Was it your teacher?
@missd3605 Dudette, you wouldn't say that to a girl victim, shut your mouth.
I'm so sorry man, I had similar and never liked contact but now it's worse cause I'm engaged so the honeymoon standards scare me.
Same here except at age 8. I don’t usually use the word “trigger” often but when I do receive compliments I get sick to my stomach because it just reminds me of that time in my life.
@@anglepsycho it's hard, I had it similar also, my partner is understanding but the fear exists anyway
Her husband dodged a bullet. She should be in jail
Ex Fiance actually
he dodged an entire nuke, not just a measly bullet...
She probably will get a slap on the wrist, while men get lynched.
He must feel so disgusted and violated having been with someone like that, Lord knows I would never trust again, id wash myself for hours just to wash any of their DNA off me forever.
She should be under the jail.
Its honestly disgusting that anybody would ever comment that a child wasn't a victim because they were male. I wish anyone who's ever commented some shit like what he talks ab in this video a very terrible week.
Those people saying that are almost as bad as the pdfile
@@SugarSkullsandBitterSoulsNot almost, they're just as bad because they enable it.
It's blatant hypocrisy. If the pedo was a male and the victim a young gay kid, you think the reaction would be even remotely similar...? it's disgusting how people's minds work...
Yes you are right... but also OMG Jesus is subscribed to Ken :o
Wow! Nice!
I think it's more about the perp being female
Just look up the original vagina monologues which included a segment where a teenage girl gets abused but it's "good" because it's two females
I’ve taught middle and currently teach high school students and I’m like 🤮.
Congrats? I don't think one needs to be a teacher to be like 🤮
@@illi6378no one was saying u have to be a teacher to be like 🤮
@@illi6378literally nothing in the OG comment implies they were just talking about teachers, your stupidity is 🤮
🤢🤢🤢🤢 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
@@illi6378she’s relating to the story. It’s not that deep.
as a 5th grade teacher this absolutely DISGUSTS ME
Right?! I am too and that’s just bonkers!
I like that we’re finally getting into the female predators. As someone who lost their virginity at the age of eight to his teacher, the way everyone pretends that this is a male only issue is absolutely infuriating. Predators don’t have a specific gender or look. They can literally be anyone.
I'm so sorry
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sorry buddy. It probably took a long time to fully understood what happened.
I am sorry
Im crying for you, how terrible, so many people failed you, omg
Hi! Childhood SA survivor here, and a dude, to boot. This shit fucks you up. Certain sounds, smells, sights can bring you right back to that moment. It stripped me of my sense of safety, and damaged my mental health for years. It affects you in ways I don't even know how to quantify it. My relationship with women, with trust, with myself, it touched and negatively warped my outlook on life. Years of therapy, and I am not "fixed", but I have learned to manage better.
I’m so sorry that happened to you, I hope you are doing better ❤️🩹
@@Stinky322 much better. Thank you for your kindness.
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I’m so sorry that happened to you and your lifelong challenges. I’m glad you’re getting help, though this should’ve never happened to you to begin with.
your story is very similar to my partner as well. male, CSA survivor. it definitely has longterm, lifetime consequences. i hope you've found supportive friends/partner(s) as well to come alongside you. ty for even anon sharing this story. its important people know it happens to so many young boys out there and it's very rare they tell anyone.
My cousin posted something about female teachers and their students and also basically said he wished he had teachers like that. And I lost it on him. Tore into him about it. It’s disgusting that women predators are glorified
Well yeah cause Lena Dunham exists unfortunately.
See that’s what gets me! It’s mainly men that excuse and justify it, I’ve seen comments like that so often “I wish that was my teacher growing up”
Nah, that should off been me! Not him, it’s not fair!
My mother-in-law tells us stories about how when she was 10 she was dating a bunch of 15 year olds. And then when she was 12 she dated a bunch of 20 year olds. And at 15 she was dating 30 year olds. I was like....MA'AM thats statuary grape! But her excuse "it was the 70s, a different time". Sickening. Even to this day she see's no wrong in it.
Now she's in her 60s and dates 20 year olds. Thats a gross and very broken person right there.
I couldn't even finish this video. Absolutely abhorrent.
I'm from the 70's and that was still wrong! You can't blame a specific time frame. I hope your childhood was ok and your mother's behavior over much younger men/boys didn't affect you the same way.
Sorry, I didn't see MIL. Hope everything is ok on that end.
@@StrawberryPhys exactly! You cant blame a time period.
Yeah shes my MIL and im not that close to her anyways.
I just don't get it. As a 46 yr old widow, I had a 26 yr old begging me to go out with him. What would we talk about? Do I remind him to clean his room and brush his teeth? That's a 26 yr old adult. An 11 yr old is a baby with no life experience, an undeveloped brain and sense of self compared to anyone of even young adult age. As a parent, I would have to use every bit of self-control not to end up in prison if any teacher ever crossed that line with my children.
Perfectly said 👌
Agree 👍
I agree with you because sadly, if us parents took the law into our own hands and did something because the system refuses to protect our children and punish these sicko women we would be the ones in jail, while these gross ladies get to run around on probation harming more innocent boys.
You don't give that 26 year old enough credit! He knows how to brush his teeth and clean his room.
You'd have to talk to him about personal hygiene and fortnite strats.
The dudes pushing 30 and you're treating him like a child lmao.. He's better off.
No matter the gender, if you're under the age of eighteen you're a child still and when an older person preys on the innocence of a child it's wrong, no matter the GENDER.
preach.
Dude, the age of consent in most of the US and the world is only 16. Age of majority and age of consent are not the same thing.
@@Sniperboy5551 The laws and definitions greatly varies around the world and even in the US. Where I live, age of consent is 16, but the person they are with CANNOT be more than 3 years older than them. If a person is with a minor that is at least 16 years old and they are more than 3 years older, they could be looking at getting charges pressed on them and being added to the registered s*x offenders list.
Bruv, under the age of 20 is inappropriate
@@EmmaAreli Not for legal adults who are 18 and 19 years old.
What tickles me about men on the internet is that when women share their SA experiences they would say "what about male victims???" But when there are cases like this they'd joke around, calling the victims 'lucky' 'chad' and what not. The math isnt mathing.
I’m so glad you’re bringing both female predators and child predators to light. I’m a CSA survivor (afab) by a another kid (female) who was a family member of mine and who was also being touched by an adult which led to them doing it to me as an outlet. It messes you up forever, especially how people downplay your trauma because “it was a kid and wasn’t a guy”. I was sexually tortured and sodomized. The fact that people are saying “it’s a male victim and female pred, niccceee” is beyond sickening and I wish for them to never have kids if that’s what they truly think. Better off never being parents than messing up a kids head by saying “you’re a guy, suck it up”.
Yeah, there was a guy at my work who lost it at 11 and everyone just congratulated him even tho he knows it's affected him negatively
My son is 11 and everything about this situation makes me want to vomit.
Like, why did the parents take her on vacation with them?
Why didn't the constant texting alert them to the red flags?
How long was this going on, how many kids knew? How many of those kids tried to tell their parents?
Why didn't the school catch on earlier?
Why was she allowed to resign over a week after the news broke, instead of being fired immediately?
WHY DIDN'T THE OTHER TEACHER REPORT HER?!
And why was that _unnamed_ teacher ALSO allowed to resign??
Agreed! With ALL those questions! Just as a bit of speculation, and as someone with a good couple of decades as a professional in public education, typically when allegations like these are made against a staff member, the first step is to suspend them. They're not allowed on any district property unless specifically invited by, like, the head of HR. This gives the district time to conduct an investigation and consult with district attorneys, report to authorities, etc., before taking final actions. This isn't a bad thing, necessarily, since it helps prevent false accusations and hearsay from ending someone's career. I remember one of my male teachers in a middle school who had discipline problems with one of his female students, so he called home and she got in trouble with her parents. She decided she was going to get revenge, and went to a counselor and reported that he had touched her inappropriately. The investigation uncovered her lies because junior high girls can't keep crap to themselves. So, his career and professional reputation were ultimately saved, but he was suspended without pay for two weeks while that investigation was going on. What I don't understand AT ALL is letting them resign. That's normally done when the district has cause to fire the employee, but they want to extend a little kindness and not ruin their chances of being hired somewhere else. If they're fired, NO district will pick them up. But if they resign, they can make up some b.s. story about why they had to leave before the end of the year that might sound plausible enough for a different district to take a chance on them. So, WHY would any school system want to set these people up to be able to stay in any industry where they will continue to have access to children???
Gee Ken, you know “my stepmother got stuck in the washing machine” on The Hub? Try “twins make their ‘special lasagna’ for their stepdad.” You’ll like it. 🙀😂
I do agree with you - mostly. The only thing is, I don’t think we can blame the parents for not knowing. Kids as young as 8 have phones these days and they are engrossed in them so it’s very easy to mask something like this. When the mum found out, she leapt into action which shows that, had they had any indication, they would have done something about it.
100%
Because...we don't punish people who did nothing wrong. You seem to hate everyone.
My son just turned 13, if this happened to him my husband would have to lock me in the garage to keep me from finding the woman and handling it myself…it is *NOT* okay, gender doesn’t matter, ALL CHILDREN deserve to be protected. 🤬
100%. The media likes to sugar coat their stories too when a woman does the same thing a guy does. A predator is a predator, man, woman, trans, etc.
I bet badass. No u would call the cops and have them handle it for u “hold me back bro”
@@c240flores You must have never met a loving and protective mother. There is a reason the “mama bear” stereotype/analogy is a thing. Heck, I don’t have kids of my own yet, but if my nieces or nephew were to ever tell me that someone handled them in this way… Good luck to that person. Sometimes that jail cell is a safer place to be than out on the streets. I believe parents should be allowed to handle their child’s predator as they see fit (as long as the predator isn’t a family member, obviously). And yeah obviously the authorities would be involved. But as is the case with the DA from Texas that got TCAP shut down for a long while… sometimes the cops are not on the victim’s side, even when the victim is a literal child.
Nobody would blame you
@@KaylynLCastlmao you are actually embarrassing
The trauma is a slow burn with situations like this. The kids don’t realize they are being taken advantage of, not till years later. That’s why even if a victim says they aren’t a victim of SA, it doesn’t matter. SA is SA. No matter what anyone thinks. If they are a child they cannot consent. Period.
As a boy mom, I would have gone balistic. They would have never found the body!
W mom
I wouldn't blame you at all either. This is crazy what out society is becoming and it's getting worse now with AI's ability to feed predators more illegal images. :(
Here in Sweden teachers lose their license to teach and it is written in their criminal records, making them unemployable at schools if something like this happens
as they should do everywhere
That's supposed to happen in the US too
I mean.. they should go to prison as well
They should be locked in gen pop, too!
That happens in the US. It’s an offender registry. You cannot teach, but you also can’t live around children, work anywhere near children, and have various parts of your life monitored forever. Plus they go to prison for it for at least a while. Usually.
This happened to my significant other when he was in 2nd grade. He’s had so many issues with it bc he “liked it” and he struggles with that. Teachers like this are so fucked up. They don’t realize that they mess someone up for life
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That’s so awful. I hope he’s able to find peace about it someday. Despite “liking” it, he was clearly abused and the fault is totally on the older person. I hope he doesn’t blame himself too much. 😞
I just had this conversation with a victim. He's well grown now. Well past middle age. It happened when he was 12. He is now an addict, alcoholic, and predator. He has been with my family for too long. He has prayed on me. His life is a mess. His 80 year old mother takes care of his wife and son. People. Wake up.
As a now dad who used to wish his teacher would do inappropriate things with me, everything has changed I finally understand why I was so wrong
And the fact you had to grow into an adult to understand that is exactly why children cannot consent.
It's crazy how much female predators get away with. Aba and Preach did a video on a case where a teacher SAed her then 15 year old student and had a kid for him. She got sentence to 3 years in jail and custody of the kid was awarded to the woman's parents - not the victims parents. She got parole and only did 1 1/2 years. When she got out she was given custody of the child again and later proceeded to sue the now 20 year old boy that she SAed for child support AND WON!!
That kids future got screwed and the court system literally allowed his abuser to game the system
As the Victim's Mother, I would be having a Conversation with a Private Investigator re: the Defense Attorney, Judge, Perpatrator's Parents & Perpatrator herself.
Not to mention the Prison's Shot Caller.
For sure. There are a lot of cases where boys as young as 12 get their abuser pregnant and then end up straddled with child support.
The thing that many people don't recognize is that women don't abuse less, they simply tend to use more covert methods.
In this context almost exclusively men show up in Chris Hansen's sting, but way more women take advantage of their positions as daycare workers, teachers, etc.
The same applies to DV. Men might be more likely to beat someone to a pulp but women have higher stats in poisoning, assaulting a sleeping person, and pouring boiling water on their partners...
This isn't a competition. We need to be willing to stop ALL abuse and not pretend that the perceived frailty of women exempts them from having wickedness in their hearts.
When I hear cases like this, I am reminded South Park did an episode like this with Ike who was a kindergartener and his teacher pr3yed upon him. Kyle tried to go to the police to report her but they joked around saying Ike is a lucky boy, but when Kyle asked them if they would react the same with a male teacher and female student, they were ready to arrest the hypothetical male teacher.
‘Niccce..’
If the simpsons didnt do it, south park did.
strange how this stuff goes unnoticed.
I remember that episode! It was a funny one! But so true! "Niccccccce"
Yeeeeeeep. SP commentary on this was one of the very first instances I had of being exposed to the idea that women predators are treated differently, as are their crimes and the survivors of their ab*ses. It's ALWAYS disgusted me, and I remember watching that episode in irritation, feeling like Kyle - "WTAF GUYS THIS IS AWFUL WHY AREN'T YOU TREATING THIS AS BAD?"
It's not that it went unnoticed, its that SP and Simpsons, dealing with this, were for us kids growing up at the time MORE than for any adults. The show did what it meant to do - it got us KIDS (and teens) watching to ask the questions like "why don't they think its as serious as for a girl child and male teacher?" and to see, through the absurdity and Kyle's responses to it, how MESSED UP adults and their decisions can be.
My mom didn't ban the Simpsons but DID ban South Park in the home until they got to the first of those seasons where they started to make commentary like that episode more obvious. Then she let us watch it as a means of starting conversations, and I learned a LOT that way. Fact is, the show was like a MUCH MORE inflammatory version of what Roal Dahl (The Twitches, Matilda, Wonka) did with his novels, mocking and questioning the adult world and perceptions. South Park took that and RAN with it, and because of that we were able to see the absurdity and nonsensicality of the way the crime got treated.
As a result, I expect there's more of us in comments today who understood inherently from that point on NOT TO TRUST ADULTS WHO EXPRESS THAT INTEREST IN US. And to question if friends engage in such relations.
I still think that episode was a master-stroke of education for the young on thinking more critically about certain things, esp. where societal norms and cultural considerations are involved.
I was thinking the same thing as well
The absolute abuse of power by an educator that preys on a student. Our job as teachers are to teach, not to destroy.
literally had to make a cps call today at work with a dad's girlfriend and a literal toddler in SA context. Abuse is abuse no matter the gender.
To everyone that can sit there and say oh he’s a boy and it’s not the same, y’all need to be put on a watchlist because clearly something isn’t clicking with how wrong and illegal it is no matter the genders. Big sad
the way society has separated boys and girls so much that SA is somehow different for each of them? like it's a CHILD. a victim. no matter what
@@bunnyellabell exactly
11???? Hes not even a TEEN
Wow as if p3dz don’t go after literally all ages of children from birth to less than legal :/
@@mcoupe69 I know, the impact is harder knowing that he probably hasn't hit puberty yet and has no knowledge about sexual functions, and here she is, GROOMING him before he gets there
@@mcoupe69that’s not the point they were trying to make? They’re just extremely surprised and shocked that she did this to a person this young
Pedophiles know no limits. They’ll do anything and stoop so low just to satiate their sick fantasies and desires. They’re out here raping babies and trying to be recognized as a sexuality in the lgbt community. Such a sad sick world we live in.
He was eleventeen
Ask any survivor male or female, It can take decades to try to get over this, Most never do! Get these predators out of society!
Gross.... Just gross I'm praying for the people who say this is no big deal ☦️
As a teacher with a class of eleven year olds i cannot even begin to imagine how a teacher can do something so heinous.
Cant trust anyone and its so sad
Please forgive my ignorance - do teaching degrees place much emphasis on the importance of boundaries and the legal stuff, or is it taken for granted that people understand (which they should, I'm not excusing it)? No offence to Gen Z or my own Millennial generations but we often seem to be acting and feeling younger than our age, and I see a lot of videos by teachers where they're talking about their students like they've been gifted a roomful of new friends instead of a teacher-student relationship...and then there's the dangerous side of it, like this situation... Do you think new teachers nowadays need to have it drilled into them more that they're the adult in the room, and how messed up things can get if they don't keep this at the forefront of their minds?
@@RaefonB im quite young so cant speak on what teaching used to be like vs modern day but there are some younger teachers that ive noticed blur the boundaries a bit too much - not to the degree of grooming a child, but some people have such low self-esteem that they just wanna be friends with the kids and be "the cool teacher" or "the fun teacher"... at least in the UK you physically are not legally allowed to be alone with a child unless you've had a criminal background check and safeguarding course and ideally completed peadiatric first aid. Its drilled into you from day one what the expectations of you are bcause youre looking after vulnerable children
I feel that every generation has an extreme measure that is severely frowned upon/illegal... it wasn't so long ago that teachers were allowed to punish school kids with a cane or a slipper.
Grooming a child will never be seen as appropriate conduct obviously but when you consider that kids would be beaten with canes for being late to school, imagine what they think their punishment will be for ratting out their peado teacher.
Also social media and texting gives us easier access to people but also gives us more awareness of what is good and bad.
I think a small number of teachers have abused their role since the dawn of time. Its just now so much easier to "get caught" and so much easier to name and shame through social media and TV
@@divinevalentineyt Heyyy, I'm from the UK too! (Cov city, West Midlands) Yeah that makes sense, it maybe being about low self-esteem. Good to know the expectations are drilled into prospective teachers and ofc the DBS checks as well - but it's deffo a worry that the boundaries are blurred for so many of them... Glad you're one of the good 'uns, congrats!
@@RaefonBI can attest in the US that there’s a big emphasis on appropriate teacher-student relationships. I teach middle school and they definitely want to be friends, especially since I’m a younger teacher, but our schools still really hard to have safe and distinct boundaries with kids.
“Women arent predators”
Oh boy do i have some news for you.
I'm glad Ken is covering these stories honestly. So many women just get away with victimizing kids and its disgusting.
The double standards annoy me.
Its weird if a 18yr old women gets with a 35+ year old man. But nobody really cares if a 18yr old guy gets with a 35+year old women
She kinda looks like Liz From 90 Day fiance. Once you see it, you can't unsee it 🤣
As a teacher, who has taught elementary and middle school, these stories make me physically sick. Those are my babies. I see them as my children. How dare these people take advantage of these poor kids???
Thank you for being a good teacher and protecting these kids as I'm a mom to a 10 year old!
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But...they are not your children. Maybe you should quit and seek professional help. It is seriously creepy that a teacher would say that.
@@mikemondano3624Creepy for having human empathy and putting herself in different shoes to ponder how she would feel if that were her child or maybe sibling? And wanting to protect them? If you think that’s weird, YOU need help.
@@mikemondano3624 I spent more time with them during the week than some of their own family members. They saw me as family. I treated them like my family. It’s concerning that you see that as creepy. Maybe you should get some help or look within yourself hun.
The ad I got for this video mid way thru was for manscaped and I wasn’t paying attention when it came on, all I heard all of a sudden was “…the perfect tool for your grooming experience” and my head snapped to the screen like what did you just say?? 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Now that’s the only kind of grooming we need 😂
I feel so bad for that boy. As a victim myself at 9 to 11, it was hard connecting with kids my own age after that. The way it negatively impacts you is immense. I can't even imagine how that boy feels especially with how people treat male victims. I wish him the best and I hope that boy gets the support he needs to recover.
Imagine being the Boyfriend in this one, buying a home, being there for her in bad times, having a great paying job just to get cheated on and replaced by a 11 year old….
The absolute disgust I feel on the daily basis to know that people like this exist out here. Most fifth graders are the ages 11 at most. Some are younger than that some are 10. I was 10 in the fifth grade. To make out with someone of that age range is absolutely horrifying.
Still can’t believe this was my home town. Everyone’s talking about it.
I was 10 in 5th grade
How anyone can be attracted to a literal child is terrifying
I’ll never understand why tf anyone could be smitten by A CHILD! Like, why!? I need to know the psychology especially behind the situations like this. Gross
I believe one aspect comes from being molestation of the older party when they were a child. Theres MANY reasons but thats the one i know of personally
I think another part is control and power, since they’re older and children rarely have the power or strength to fight back. Not to mention children are naïve and can be manipulated easily by predators.
Insane rizz
@@Krystal40553 very true
@@fosterbennington6405😑
I’m really happy to see you highlight this. There are soo many people that don’t see an issue with this type of stuff if a guy is the victim
Childhood s.a has life long damage that people completely disregard.
It makes me livid to hear that people don’t think predatory behavior towards boys doesn’t matter. Boys that are preyed on are more likely to grow up into predators themselves. If that doesn’t show trauma, I don’t know what does…
THIS! They are more likely to continue the pattern/cycle of ab*se that was visited upon them, and even if they do not in THAT form of ab*se they often will side-step to other forms, such as DV.
Wait why tf would a teacher go on a vacation with a student and their family???
RIGHT? I had teachers who changed my life and were friends with my parents and I STILL couldn't fathom them going on family vacation with us.
Edit: my mom was a teacher and my degree is education (so lots of my college friends are teachers), and I've never heard of any of them going on vacation with their students.
Possibly hoping for childcare so that mom and dad don't have to look after their kid on vacation, or hoping to use the vacation as bribery for good grades for their son. Or maybe they noticed the teacher was close to their child and they wanted their child to have company on vacation? Or they were doing it as a way to thank the teacher for her efforts? Idk, but I agree it's weird.
And what did her bf think about that??
@@crystalcrous9510 But if they wanted someone who have company, why not a friend? The only one that sounds EXTREMELY unlikely but at least plausible is the last one you mentioned, as a way to thank her for her efforts. I don't think that's the case though. It seriously makes me question the parents honestly. That's just HIGHLY inappropriate!
Maybe she's bi, and the parents had a threesome.
All the guys saying he's lucky 🤢
I know it’s 2024 but I don’t think an 11 year old should have a phone for texting
Totally agreed, at least not without parental control. I get that it's very useful and handy to be able to be in contact with your parents for example, but they need to have restrictions and control of some kind. It baffles me that kids have this kind of unrestricted access to the internet just like that...
I'd probably give my kid a flip phone or a side kick no reason for them to have a smart phone
Definitely not smart phones. A basic flip phone locked to parent and guardian phone numbers in case of emergency.
If you give your child a phone you have a huge responsibility to ensure the child is not in harms way because of the phone
Yeah they should have a flip phone but also that thingy where you had to buy that scratch card for your phone so you got money on it. Idk how that's called in english. But basically you paid idk 5 dolalrs for a card so you had 5 dollars on your phone... and there were numbers that you scratched with your coin so you typed the numbers of that card. Idk what was american system for that. Sorry if this explanation was confusing.
So even if the kid texted once he spends 5 dollars he can't text anymore.
people who says that the boy scores for having affair with their teacher does not live in the real world and did not take account that 1 out of 5 adults in US has sexually transmitted infections, so imagine being that one 11 yrs old with burning groin, tsk tsk poor kid
the statistic is HAD. sorry im not taking away from your point but the statistic is that 20% of adults have HAD an STI, not CURRENTLY have one. still, i agree with you.
Sending hugs to you two lads. And Mary and all the small folks. ❤
I'm going to say this right now. Would everybody quit saying this woman had "an affair" or "hooked up" with a fifth grader. Let's call it what it is, this woman molested a child.
What she did was completely inexcusable.
If anything you should all be more outraged. Because unlike older people who might be dating someone in their 20s, this is a legitimate crime.
A little kid got molested for god sakes.
This is Mary K. Letourneau and Deborah Lafaye all over again.
*_Their punishment must be more severe_*
women should be punished more than men? is that what youre saying? for the same crime?
@@honeybun3492 no, I meant the predators should get more years locked up
@@ioan1234 oh yeah I agree
Barely over 4 minutes in and I think I've screamed EEEEEEEEEUUUUUUUUUUU! Like 8 times already. CanNOT understand how she's enjoying this kind of act. I might puke 🤢
Some people enjoy it more 'cause' it's wrong, the extra thrill if you would say 😑🤢 that taboo thrill... Gross. I could never understand this kind of shit
Brother euuuu
Had a dark thought when you guys were talking about how girls get lighter sentences... ... Hmmmn.... Maybe it's cause like what you said earlier, guys love sticking their weiners in everything and see it as an accomplishment. Thank you creeps for making it easier for girls to get away with this shit. Cause those guys wished it was them.
@@StonerOfGotham for REAL! 😳
I know a guy from my town who hooked up with the super hot teacher when i was in high school, and it ruined his life. The teacher was his first when he was 16. He never partied, drank, anything. Well he was convinced he was in love with her. When it finally broke, she was arrested. He waited for her until she finally got out of jail. He found out from someone else. He had been waiting for her for several years. So he went to her apartment , confessed his love, and she basically told him she used him because she was bored in her relationship. This crushed him. He turned to hars drugs and heavy alcohol use. He was in ans out of programs. No stable relationships. Talked down from multiole suicide attempts. She ruined his lide. So it kills me when people act like since young men are full of testosterone they are not vulnerable. Theyre still kids
Omg I literally live 15 minutes away from this school! I had no idea. The school systems were very highly rated in this area overall! Good to know!
This is literally out of a South Park episode; when Kyle's little brother had a relationship with his teacher. We joked about this back in the 2000s because of how ridiculous is was yet somehow it ,managed to happen in real life.
It's exactly why they did the episode. It's sadly nothing new, and all the men, cops were like, "Good on you Ike" . Exposing the hypocrisy
@@androgynousmaggot9389I’ve seen a harem manga where the comments are filled with people calling the mc a beta male when the girls are clearly attracted to him because of his trauma. People legit said they wished they were the ones that got r*ped instead of the mc. Some guys are so down bad and starved for any attention from girls that they got jealous of a fictional r*pe victim.
I'm from Mississippi as well, and to see Ken and Dane surprised by this is somewhat sad. My community had 4 schools in the county, small towns, and there was a new teacher/student scandal brushed under the rug every year.
it happened back then too. very famous story out of the 90s of a teacher assaulting a student around this age and they went on to get married when he was 19. later in his life... like a year or 2 years ago he admitted in a documentary that he regrets ever being with her and while he loves his children he fathered with her, he knows now she stole his childhood from him. teacher has since passed from cancer but the documentary is online, i just forget their names atm.
No, they made that episode because it WAS, and still is, going on. I guess you're a bit too young to remember BUT this has been a thing for a while. It's nothing new.
disgusting. what even goes through one's mind to do such a thing??? A FIFTH GRADER
Do you think she used a red pen to correct his spelling and grammar on those notes? How can she not see how wrong it is….Like her brain is garbage… what the funk
I can’t even relate to someone who is 25 so a fifth grader feels unreal to me. I’m glad I don’t remotely understand it.
@@wordnado9788RIGHT?! I'm 31 and wouldn't even want to be with someone 25 lol. This lady is crazyyyy
My son starts 4th grade in the summer… this is sickening.
I was 9 when I started the 5th grade. 😮 That absolutely baffles me how this woman isn't in jail and charged to the fullest extent.
So don’t send your kids anywhere✍️✍️✍️ got it
It’s unfortunate, but that doesn’t mean they are any safer…. Most SA is done by trusted friends and family…. So unless you lock them in a padded room and never let anyone but yourself and the child in the room, there is still danger.
That’s why open communication is important. Your children should be able to tell you ANYTHING.
I think a lot of guys think that “oh, why didn’t this happen to me” have a very “the hub” view on it, never thinking about the ramifications of it
My dad is that guy. I'm a childhood Sexual abuse survivor and we fight about this constantly because he's adamant I should agree with him. It curls my stomach that people can be like this or even think like that.
The fact that you feel you have to keep explaining why this is bad. Is really sad.
Thank you for explaining how the victim becomes the predator.
In 5th grade the only thing on my mind was lunch and recess😅😂 these kids grow up too fast. She took his innocence😢
Imagine being a teacher and walking into your 5th grade class, locking eyes with one of your students, and just thinking "god DAMN!" Seriously, wtf?
Imagine telling someone your ex girlfriend cheated on you with an 11 year old boy, that is so messed up
X wedding guest: So why’d you call the wedding off…
Fiancé: She was caught cheating with one of her students…
X wedding guest: wait.. doesn’t she teach fifth grade???
Fiancé: …yeah 😢😢😢 but he reads at an eighth grade level
Sad thing is how "acceptable" this was by males, overlooked, harassment heaped on the victims, the songs! Hot for teacher is a classic.
South Park hit it right on the nose!
Cops "nice", "niiiice".
No it's more that when the cops are called they don't do anything because women get by with everything and if they don't they lose it the last 29 years is enough proof if men cry or speak up we are mocked i was raped at 15 by a woman called the law the woman laughed at me over it ...
Niiiicccceeee
I'm 35 (woman) and I went to ONE sleepover as a kid, probably around 10-13, and the girl's dad came in our room at night and tried to wake me up and I was awake but didn't move at all. He woke my friend up and brought her in the living room to dance with him apparently (that's what she told me). I'm still traumatized about this and even as an adult wouldn't sleep over anywhere. Nothing happened to me and I still think about it, I can't imagine the poor kids who have it worse.
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So it didn't happen to you and you don't even know if it was more than just dancing, and you've been traumatized for life? Maybe be 100% percent sure you actually know what happened before accusing your friends dad or being a pedo.
@@0b1k3n0bi not gonna lie, if my friend's dad came up to me in the middle of the night, while trying to sleep, tried to wake me up and then decided to wake up one of my friends instead to "dance in the living room", I'd be pretty scared too. Also, the kid who described the "dancing" is (probably) around 10-13 too. Children are very easy to manipulate into thinking there's nothing wrong with an adult's actions, unfortunately.
@@0b1k3n0bi I'm sorry but he tried to wake me up for a good 15 mins he was very insistant. Even if it was "just" dancing, that's creepy as f and you don't do that to kids, why are you defending his creepy behaviour?! I never said he was a p3do btw, you did.
@@0b1k3n0bi I'm sorry but he tried to wake me up for a good 15 mins he was very insistant. Even if it was "just" dancing, that's creepy as f and you don't do that to kids, why are you defending his creepy behaviour?! I never said he was a p3do btw, you did.
I was a victim when I was 7 years old, on multiple occasions. It has stayed with me forever. The affect it had on me as a child was astronomical. I kept it a secret for 10 years. During that time, I was visiting other family members, and I remember looking at their child and thinking "I could never do that to somebody" even as A 7 YEAR OLD CHILD I knew that it was wrong, and that it would mess somebody up forever. The fact that a 7 year old knows better than some grown adults is actually insane.
I’m British and when we were at school we called the place where we hung up our coats the cloak room and I think that’s pretty common here (at least it was when I went to school 30 odd years ago 😳).
Leaving aside the (obviously) disgusting nature of being attracted to someone who is a minor, what also gets me is that anyone who has spent a lot of time around kids knows that as fun as they are at times, they're also extremely annoying, emotionally taxing, and are let's say not the best with personal hygiene. How anyone can look at them and say, "Yeah, I'm into that." is just beyond me.
most predators i've seen describing their attraction to kids mention the control/power imbalance and purity/innocence as huge factors. it's sick. it is NEVER love or even the slightest bit of care for the child. doesn't matter what they wear, how they smell, their interests etc. for most predators it's just bc it's a child.
@@bunnyellabellI could literally never understand because when I think of my niece or nephew all I can think is STICKY, SMELLY, COVERED IN DIRT WITH NAPPY AHH HAIR
Some people be like: "It's only SA if the teacher is male, old and/or ugly."
And the victim isn’t male 😞
I'm a woman and I used to teach math to 11 yo children. If you as an adult think that they are sexy then please seek a professional help. They are SMALL CHILDREN. Not even close to 15 yo teenagers (which is still too young, but at least they start to show some signs of adulthood like having their own opinions, better regulation of their emotions and being more independent on their parents). They are still in that sweet innocent age when they need parent-like love and attention, are exited about kid stuff, and listen to you almost as an idol.
That is DISGUSTING. Put her under the jail
"Honey you're the man I want...but that's the boy I want." Dane, you did a CRITICAL hit with that one! XD
That nuke edit was beautiful Scott. XD
That's straight up gross.
God, every time i think about the kid being 11, my stomach twists. That's horrible.
I don’t know if this is more common now, or if it is just more talked about, reported on, taken more seriously, more easy to get caught (texting, apps), etc. This has been happening a long time. A lot of children, and yes that includes boys, have been abused by trusted adults for ages.
11?!!!! Oh no, they would have to lock me up because I would be throwing hands just as much over my son as my daughter. Wtf "woman" makes out with an 11 year old baby. I feel like crying and get so angry with people acting like little boys aren't going through abuse. This aint 1752 where 11 was a full grown factory worker or miner or whatever.....ugh icky icky icky
Even then. 11 wasn’t an adult. It was a hard working child
@@jeskahaley9616 fair enough point
that's literally so gross! not only was the victim 10-11 yrs old maybe younger but also her student!! I feel so bad for the kid....that is straight up gross man.
I think some of the reluctance to view women as predators comes from the physical imbalance of power. Men are significantly stronger than even grown women, to say nothing of young girls, and the physical differences are frightening from a woman’s perspective.
What people don’t realize is that neither underage boys or underage girls have the mental capacity to give consent, and there is always a mental power imbalance even if physical strength isn’t part of the equation. The adults in the situation are manipulative, criminal, and mentally more powerful than their victims. Being a teacher in this position makes it even worse because that person holds an additional position of authority over the victim.
It doesn’t matter if you’re a man or a woman. As an adult, you automatically create a power imbalance that the victim will have to deal with for the rest of their lives. They will have to struggle with confused notions of authority and power in sexual situations without the maturity or experience beyond that of what their attacker provided.
This and because we as a society still view women and motherly figures to children. And it's "impossible for a mother to hurt a child"
Omfg I kept getting this video on my homepage and I was hoping they would react to it before I caved and watched it first LOL
My faith in humanity slips more and more each day
Luckily these freaks are the minority, although they do seem to be on the rise
Interesting how more and more cases with female predators are coming out lately.
They don't have to hide anymore because after they are caught, nothing really happens to them. Men go to jail and the women get probation. It's a sickness of the HIGHEST order and it's weird. The ones who are in charge of upholding the law are NOT upholding the law and we need to vote these people out.Edit to include: if we as parents were to take the law into our own hands we would get in MORE trouble and go to jail but not these gross women.
@@Shellygrrl2573IT IS A SICK-NESS!! Love aba and preach
I think more are just coming to light (Unfortunately but thankfully). This behavior needs to stop and people need to stop glorifying it.
@@Shellygrrl2573I absolutely HATE the double standard when it comes to female abusers. It needs to STOP!!!
@@limarba9062I wholeheartedly absolutely agree. A crime is a crime no matter if it's a man or woman and needs to have the same punishment. Even a harsher punishment like Ken said.
So sick. How can a mind think like this??? So strange
Im glad we're finally talking about female predators. Sure, young females have it rough, but the boys can too. My male, gay, best friend was SA'd by my gay cousin who was recently arrested for 3 counts of child molestation, he didn't tell me about it till after the cousin left. He cried to me the whole night about it, and was genuinely terrified to tell anyone cause he didn't want him to hurt him. To the people who think males cant be victimized, especially young boys to adult women/men, I'm genuinely curious, how do you sleep at night knowing how wrong and messed up you are?
Gross.
That is all.
No wait... Lock her up with Bertha who's in jail for Assault and misses her Middle school aged kids.
Equal treatment for Diddy and Diddette.
I'm an adult. But this is making me scream like an 11 year old, and swearing like an adult WTF!!!!
To have your fiancé cheat on you with an 11 year old has to be the biggest slap in the face imaginable.
I highly doubt if this was a male teacher and an 11 yr old CHILD there’d be PLEA DEAL WITH PROBATION available!! As there shouldn’t be for anyone that does this, especially in positions of power and influence over children 🤬🤬🤬
Even if the boy did enjoy sleeping with an older woman in the moment can you imagine the emotional impact this is going to have on him? Rejection is hard enough as an adult. Imagine how an 11 year old is going to react to being told “I know that we’ve been touching and making out for the past few months and you think I’m your girlfriend but now I have to be the adult and cut all contact with you and be with my husband.” That’s something that will make a grown man spiral into depression. To do that to a child is cruel. And let’s be honest, the adult in this situation knew it would eventually have to end this way