Are Dating and Multiple Sclerosis compatible?

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  • Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024
  • Have you found yourself in the situation of having to disclose your Multiple Sclerosis to your date, or are you wondering what to do if this comes up? Here's my tip on how to tackle it.
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Комментарии • 49

  • @bjcronje
    @bjcronje 4 года назад +15

    Hiding my MS is not really an option for me as I am in a wheelchair and use a catheter. I am very much afraid of how a potential partner might react and guess that is why I have been single for the past 7 years

  • @Bloodwolf1617
    @Bloodwolf1617 4 года назад +5

    Thanks Seb for all the great content you’ve been putting out lately. As someone diagnosed this year it’s very comforting to know I’m not in this alone and that there’s an outlet for these types of honest discussions 🙂

  • @lw5682
    @lw5682 4 года назад +10

    Hi from Michigan 🙋‍♀️. I have been married 15 years, but if I was single, I absolutely would tell a date from day 1 about having MS. Not that I could really hide my heavy limp and need to walk with a cane🤦‍♀️. Thats life, I guess!

    • @LifeofSebMS
      @LifeofSebMS  4 года назад +3

      Best to be honest! Creates a foundation of trust :)

  • @AuntTooters
    @AuntTooters 4 года назад +4

    Good advice! I do counseling to people with MS and I sometimes recommend that people bring along a cane "just in case." It will start the conversation.

    • @LifeofSebMS
      @LifeofSebMS  4 года назад

      Exactly! I think it helps remove the stigma

  • @sophiepalmer-doran344
    @sophiepalmer-doran344 4 года назад +6

    this is another relatible topic as i have epilepsy along with other comorbid conditions caused by my seizures had a boyfriend. We had been dating for twelve years .We met in 4th grade I was nine and he was ten. In 5th grade he moved. I was devastated. He was my soul mate thankfully I got his phone number. He is now a graduate of Kingston High School and I planed to marry him sadly recently the twelve year courtship ended with a letter he wrote me he also had disabilities and i told him of my seizures and he was very accepting of my condions and i was accepting of his

    • @LifeofSebMS
      @LifeofSebMS  4 года назад +2

      That’s a beautiful story 🥰

    • @sophiepalmer-doran344
      @sophiepalmer-doran344 4 года назад

      @@LifeofSebMS next time you redo the dignosis story i will share my story again i do not have MS but i have epilepsy along with other comorbid conditions caused by my seizures

  • @astridgarcia9725
    @astridgarcia9725 3 года назад +5

    I love your videos.
    When i decided to start dating after being a single mother for 2 years...
    I got this app and i was ready to meet this guys...then i lost my vision on my left eye....i told the guys that i will need time to get my health in orden and see what was going on with me.
    I keep talking to them..but they were i guess tire of waiting....only one keep on waiting and being supportive.
    When i found out i ha e MS....i remember calling him to tell him that we are done.
    That i have MS and i have to focus on getting better and my kids.
    He listened to me and he told me...
    Well for me you are worth it....im going to be here to support you.
    We meet and until today he is that suport and company for me.
    ♡♡♡♡

    • @LifeofSebMS
      @LifeofSebMS  2 года назад +1

      Yes! This is such a beautiful story! 🧡💪🏻

  • @annettematisz46
    @annettematisz46 4 года назад +4

    Depends on how honest the conversation is then introduce your brutal honesty if you want.

  • @tonyaosborne6881
    @tonyaosborne6881 3 года назад +3

    The real secret to life is to tell the truth -always. Can I do it all the time, no but I'm vane so I am working on it. This advice is for all aspects of life. It's so liberating just to be yourself! For me the only other thing that comes before this is my relationship with God. :)

  • @rajivarumugam110
    @rajivarumugam110 4 года назад +2

    Well said
    Thanks for sharing I agree with what your saying

  • @shahilagh
    @shahilagh 3 года назад +1

    If I go I will say from the beginning that I have chronic issues... not to make it like an announcement but because I am super honest in explaining my life and daily experiences so this will come up naturally ... Having said that though I don’t go to dates because I don’t think I can handle another thing in my life ....

  • @1969bogdi
    @1969bogdi 3 года назад +2

    If you date and you have MS, then you must tell your date about it as soon as possible. MS is not a joke.

  • @brainey001
    @brainey001 4 года назад +6

    Always best to be brutally honest.
    I for example used to have severe trust issues so for me dating someone with any sort of disability would have been a slight mental relief because they are more likely to not do any of the 3 things i worried about most : Drugs, alcohol, cheating.
    I obviously don't know if it's true but in my head it is which is all i needed

    • @LifeofSebMS
      @LifeofSebMS  4 года назад

      That’s what I think too :)

  • @MsDesiree39
    @MsDesiree39 4 года назад +4

    still just chatting on a site but i do mention my MS have not been on a date yet since my symptoms got worse but i will always be honest and upfront about it. no nightime date for me unfortunately

  • @nehir4267
    @nehir4267 Год назад +1

    Well one more time just 1 hour ago I got the sudden cold energy switch after talking for a while despite having told her everything right at the start.
    My ex had ghosted me after telling about my cancer, now I even got ms and other health issues. Honestly if you get ms without being in a relationship then it gets way more difficult than it already is.
    Iam starting to believe its not worth the energy. This is like 7th time since ms diagnosis ... kinda tired Iam probably done with dating.

  • @annarehbinder7540
    @annarehbinder7540 4 года назад +1

    Haven’t had dates since I’m married and and we are exclusive but I’ve had people plural make moves on me both before and after the wheelchair including seeing me crash before and after the wheelchair. Would they for the practical part in my case be ok with some sex life but lot of cuddling don’t know.

  • @gabbyfranks78
    @gabbyfranks78 4 года назад +2

    Wow I'm the 1st I feel special. Lol! Omg get out of my head. ❤ your advice. Hey it's better then bringing a gun on a date. RIGHT ? 🤭🤪🤣

    • @LifeofSebMS
      @LifeofSebMS  4 года назад +1

      Hahaha yeah please don’t 🤣

    • @georgia_123
      @georgia_123 Год назад

      Bring a gun as an option 😀

  • @swathin1991
    @swathin1991 4 года назад +1

    I'm going through same

  • @ergnasn
    @ergnasn 3 года назад +2

    I'm kinda seeing someone but we're not a couple yet. He is diagnosed with MS. I really don't know what to do. He's a good man and I really like him but I also have a chronic illness so if his condition will get worse in the future I won't be able to take care of him physically because I also suffer from some serious health problem. He might find a healthier partner than me so she can be her carer if he ever need one in the future. Should I live in present or am I right having worries? 😔

  • @kimmi9697
    @kimmi9697 4 года назад +3

    im ok with an ms bf

  • @user-xy4ff5yp7b
    @user-xy4ff5yp7b 4 года назад +1

    I think if you own it and mention it in passing then they won’t find it a big deal.

  • @richsaeger8088
    @richsaeger8088 Год назад

    Any woman I go out on a date with knows good and well that I do deal with multiple sclerosis

  • @achimschmidt2547
    @achimschmidt2547 4 года назад +1

    🧡

  • @soaad1983
    @soaad1983 4 года назад +1

    I always like to be honest and I tell them...from 10 men 9 run away

    • @LifeofSebMS
      @LifeofSebMS  4 года назад +3

      Their loss!!

    • @georgia_123
      @georgia_123 Год назад

      Honesty versus rejection.. It is so difficult to handle it..

  • @ulftruffe8723
    @ulftruffe8723 2 года назад

    I got sick, MS. In a relationship.Then i married the man. But after some years he told me its not fun with me. You cant do that and that. Divorce of course. Now in my new relationship he dos not se me as MR MS. We all have problems. And i just happend to have ms. So at least we dont hide.

    • @LifeofSebMS
      @LifeofSebMS  2 года назад +2

      That is so cruel, Ulf. I’m glad you got out of that one and that you found someone else who sees the beauty in you.
      Hvordan kan man kontakte dig? Jeg kunne være interesseret, hvis du altså har lyst, til at høre mere om din historie.
      Mvh Sebastian

    • @LifeofSebMS
      @LifeofSebMS  2 года назад

      Kan det være at din kommentar blev slettet?

    • @LifeofSebMS
      @LifeofSebMS  2 года назад

      Tusind tak Ulf! Ja jeg fangede den inden blev slettet… du får en mail fra mig snart ☺️

  • @shahilagh
    @shahilagh 3 года назад

    has it happened to u that a girl wants to date you :D have u been honest with them telling u r not interested?

    • @LifeofSebMS
      @LifeofSebMS  2 года назад +1

      Hahaha yes, I have been in some pretty uncomfortable situations 🙈

  • @Apollyondrakul
    @Apollyondrakul 4 года назад

    I don't get dates. All everyone sees is my cane. With online, I'm up front about having MS and no one bothers so, I'm done.

    • @LifeofSebMS
      @LifeofSebMS  4 года назад +1

      You’ll eventually find someone who can see past the cane 💖