STORY TIME | I was Blackmailed
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- Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
- My Journey leaving the Adult Filming and OnlyFans Industry - 6 months on.
Diving into my journey with my retired persona / stage name "KC JAYE" and the shift over to reclaiming my actual name, Jess. Blackmail, Bullies, and New Beginnings.
Hi Jess, wow….you had gone through a lot in your life and the fact you had been blackmailed in the process stinks. I’ve been through and I know what it feels like when other people open up accounts in your name, but the other thing where someone drags you and pictures of you naked and spreads it all over social media. I’m sorry that you had to go through that I can only imagine the impact it put on you. I’m glad to see you emerged from all that and to see you in the light and that you’re happy living in the life. I myself don’t do much in the gay thing anymore….I came out in 1974 to my family but to the world it was way different , I came out when it wasn’t cool to be gay? They would heckle you, call you names bully you it was uncertain times then. Better now, but then many of us died in the process or were murdered because of the hate that came from it. So that like you and your partners could live a better life.
Thank you for sharing your experience, I’m so glad much has changed for the better since you came out and that LGBTQ people can live more freely (in the United States) than they have in the past.
I'm so proud of how you managed the problem you were going through. You all seem very happy together and all very handsome. Good luck to you all from use here in the UK.
Congratulations I believe you are being very honest. You are all amazing
Gary
Thank you Gary 🩵🩵🩵
You’re a beautiful person Jess! ❤
Hi Jess im a big fan from Mexico thank you for sharing this with us god bless you and your family and friends
You are so welcome! So happy to have followers in Mexico - We love visiting our family and going on vacation there!
PEACE ✌️ ☮️ 🕊 AND PRAISE!
Hello Jess(KC)! Thank you for sharing that part of your early life that was very traumatic. I can see in your face how bad it was but I'm happy that you found the support of family, friends, and others that get you through it. I'm glad you get to own your KC Jaye persona since is the guy I learned to respect and love but no matter what, you are you so now I get to know you as Jess and I'm excited about it. Now I get to go on this new journey with you as Jess. I am always going to be here supporting you, my friend Love you always!!😘💖👍
Thank you for the continued love and support! It’s always so greatly appreciated by myself as well as Alex and Zac 🩵🩵🩵
Felt the name was a fitting come back from the bullies from you get years! The KC Jaye years were great - now on to even greater things as Jess 🎉
@@JessAlexZac I wish you the best and I'm looking forward to seeing how everything turns out, Jess. Also, I hope you will let me take part in this new journey and find a way to be more in contact like we used to do in OF chat. I missed that! Oh! I'm trying to get used to calling you Jess now but you will always be KC in my heart. Love and positive thoughts from me to you, Alex, and Zac, my dear friend!!💖
Hi Jess, while I did enjoy your earlier work, I am enjoying more the work you are doing with Alex and Zach as the Pineapples. Great evolution. Thanks
Thank you so much for saying so, that is so motivating to hear that this new chapter is appreciated!
Congratulations! Continue to build on your happiness. 😊
Thank you so much 🩵🩵🩵
Its so hard to believe that someone had all that time on their hands to literally harass you and your family in that way. That is truly a sick, cowardly and sorry individual. So glad that the family and friends did not turn away from you and Alex. I started to follow you cause you showed up in my suggestions when I was trolling for gay short stories and your video of you speaking about how you felt about Alex and what he meant to you. showed up. I clicked on it and was really knocked out by how eloquently you spoke of him and your relationship and I have followed you ever since. Let me just say that I'm not your target audience in that Im one of those women who likes Gay stories, movies, books, porn etc.. oh and I'm straight. But hey I'm an ally or at least thats what I'm told. So as we get older some of our thoughts and values change and evolve over time, a sign of growth and maturity, I have found that I know myself better and feel better about who Iam as a woman in the small part of the world that I occupy. So glad that you and yours have been able to arrive at a good and secure place in your lives. Let just say one more thing I use KC in my user name cause I live In Kansas City MO, and cat because I have a tabby cat that I named KC but my first name is Lori. GO CHIEFS!! ;))
Yes, so much effort to seek to harm. It happened in the very early years when I did not have large social media followings and lived in Utah - very well could have been a jilted ex or someone close to us that we did not realize was an enemy.
The BEST revenge was not letting them “win” and going on to having huge amounts of happiness and success over the next 8 years of my career in the industry!
I’m so happy you found us through that old video! I may do some “re-do” videos on this channel that are similar and reflect our life today.
You ARE our target audience - everyone that wants to learn and see how a gay polyamorous throuple lives - that’s our people! Haha, not just “the gays” 😜 (about 30% of our current audience is female - and we LOVE THAT)
Hello to your Tabby KC from our cats Voodoo and Irina 😻
Thanks for being part of our YT family Lori!
@@JessAlexZac Thank you!
Hey Jess! I’m so happy for you! You mentioned in the end of your video about questions… Is there any video in the future on how you met your husband Alex? How you met Zac?
I follow you and your pineapple kids on instagram. I love seeing all of you guys in your love nest!
That is a great idea for a video! Would be super cute sharing. I think we need to get some “pineapple kids” adventures posted as well 🥰🍍
I would bet that the bullies were religious. It is amazing how many religious people have absolutely no problem lying and intimidating. Jesus would be spinning in his grave if he hadn't risen, LOL. Happy Easter!
I worked for a man who is LDS. They can be very nice but they can also be very nasty and exclude you if there’s no chance of converting you. I agree that ultra religious people can be the biggest “do as I say, not as I do” crowd.
@@dave1956 It is no surprise to me that unscrupulous people prosper in religious organizations. All they have to do is fake their belief and, because religious people are literally trained not to question. they are easily manipulated. This is not a slam against the truly spiritual religious people. It's just that many (perhaps most) couldn't care less about the truth or what God really wants them to do.
Dear Jess, I admire your courage, the way you can talk about anything, because you can see how difficult it is for you. I'm glad that you have your family and friends who support you. I had tears in my eyes myself because I feel for you.
ps sorry for my bad grammar but English is not my language but German
I wish you only the best
Srnd Lots of love and hugs❤❤❤
Thank you so much for the message of support! Your English was fantastic 👏 always so impressed with multi-lingual people!
I am very fortunate to have a great support system! Excited for this next life chapter 🎉
Jess, I just came across your channel. I don't usually subscribe to RUclips channels, but I like your vibe. I am looking forward to seeing your updates. Best wishes to you and your family.
Hey Jess, good for you for claiming Jess back. What an awfully horrific time n your life for you and your family,so happy that you have their support. Keep finding more of Jess, be happy with Alex and Zac, the smile on your face when you mention them both says it all ❤❤❤
I can’t help but show it when I talk about them… so happy with our life and this new chapter. 🩵🩵🩵 thanks so much for the continued support
I look forward to watching your vids about how a throuple manages living together. Do you have assigned chores around the condo? How do you manage the holidays when you have three families to visit? And since you and Alex are legally married, what legal documents have you drafter for Zach so he is protected and so he can make decisions for the two of you should the need arise?
Are you planning to move to a larger place sometime in the future - a house with a yard so you can entertain all your families and friends? I look forward to "meeting" Zach and getting to know his story - do you have something coming up to introduce him to us?
Thanks for years of enjoyment and the hard work you put in filming and editing your videos. I look forward to finding your new channel and subscribing to it. Thus far, I haven't seen a link to the new channel but will continue to watch for it. Keep being the gay men you've been for years....and show us how you guys will mature into your new lives.
Thank you for so many GREAT suggestions! I love these and will add all this to our content idea board for future videos with Alex and Zac!
This is the new channel! You are in the right place 💛
That's scary, glad you, Alex, and Zach have the love and support of your families and friends
HUHHHH!!!!!!!the past is the past it was just a history of life ,,To day is a Blessing day,,,Tomorrow is a mysterious day,, who care what people think n say,,all u need to know is who you are n love yourself,,,Straight/Bi/ Gay? nothing wrong to be who you are n move on n keep be happy n healthy ,,thats all my opinion ..
Huggs to You Guys
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Hey Jess, SO PROUD OF YOU!! 😎🙏💖🎉
The sunset in your background gives you a ray of hope, to change for the better
and embrace positive transformations to embark on a fresh journey for yourself & for your loved ones.
Congratulations Jess! Your making progress step by step. Were here to support you always! Thank you 😎💖
Everyone has to learn their life lessons their own way. Some are difficult, some aren't. All I know is that you have to be in control of YOURSELF. I had my difficult times in school, but it didn't last for a huge length of time. I usually ignored the problem and luckily it went away. When I realized why I felt so different, it gave me the strength and power to handle anything that I came across. I never really came out, I think, to everyone else I was already out, and didn't know it. People who knew me, as a person and what I was about, had no problem with finding out I was GAY. I hate hearing of situations like yours and what evil people will do to damage and hurt someone else. Things in life happen for a reason, and you're stronger and destined for greatness because of it. I enjoy your videos, and btw (you have the cutest eyes).
Love your honesty and thanks for sharing your journey. So inspiring to see gay men sharing their experiences to become such useful role models in our community. I’m loving seeing how your relationship with Alex and Zak develops. Enjoy yourselves :-) The peace and happiness you exude is contagious.
Thank you for your honesty and sharing. So glad you have remained strong and with support. Keep following your journey and shine!
Jess, so glad you still giving us a chance to share your life, and your new journeys! The three of you, and your fur babies, are all so cute together. Does an old man’s heart good to see members of our community able to live, love, and be their best selves, out and proud. Best wishes to you all in the new year🎉❤😊❤
Thank you 🩵🩵🩵 hope we can be an example for good and positivity to all. 🎉 gay is beautiful, lgbtq is beautiful, polyamory is beautiful, LOVE is beautiful 🥰
Proud of you and proud of your journey . Much happiness to you and Alex and Zac.
very interesting all this indepth insight of you
Hey
Mad mad love to you 'Jess' ! I knew I'd like you before watching this and learning more about you. Think it's your eyes and smile it has this almost innocent wonder a guy just living and going thru life but it's the genuine hint in your eyes and smile. Shoutout to you and hubbies as well... you all look great!
Sounds like a fun new chapter in your life!
The best chapter yet 🎉🩵🩵🩵
Me and my husbands walked away from the bars when we became three. Guys got too pushy and we just decided enough all we needed was each other and not the hyper sexualised bar scene
We have felt much the same with the bar and party scene - we rarely ever go out to any of that anymore
Thank you so much for sharing your story and journey. It will be exciting to see where your next adventures take you and your family.
So much in the works now - very exciting possibilities ahead! Hope to be able to share much more with everyone in the future 🎉
How are you
You are an amazing young man.
Jess...THANK YOU for your openness and honesty in discussing issues and occurrences that were difficult and painful for you and your loved ones. You're a strong individual and it's awesome to hear that you are triumphing over each of them. Wishing you happiness and success in all facets of your life. A devoted follower from Canada 🇨🇦. HUGS
I’ve never seen you before, but I can see that you’ve successfully embraced your maturity. I hope that the three of you have a long, happy life together.
Jess you are a great guy you are a real good Preston Iam very sorry your family had to see all that keep going on your new path and wish you the very best life
@@lylewoodley6765 thank you so much for the kind words 🩵🤗 was a difficult thing to go through with family
Hey Jess it’s really good to see that you are in an even better path. Very happy that you are happy with your current life and nothing is better than sharing it with those you love.
I’ve been very interested in seeing how you, Alex, and Zack are doing because I am also in a Poly. Monogamous relationship that is going for about 1yr. It is definitely a huge learning curve about yourself, your partner, and the new person entering your relationship. Hopefully sometime in the future you can discuss how you guys make things work for you and how you guys keep the poly monogamous relationship happy. 😊
Glad i can look forward to y’all’s Pineapple 🍍 videos and connect on this topic ❤.
And again happy for you and this new personal journey you are taking for a better future.
So great hearing from a fellow "pineapple" :) Hope you all are doing well! Thank you for the content suggestions! We will add them to the list of topics we want to dive into for future video posts!
Hi Jess, thank you for sharing the trauma of this type of extortion. You are bringing light to a type of extortion that has caused suicides and you are very strong for taking back your power. You are giving voice to the voiceless on this. Can’t wait to see what is next ♥️
The story of how the bully tried to take away your name and assign you a 'new' name that he chose really got to me, as I too had bullies that would use similar tactics on me. Some of them refused to call me by my name, and instead only address me with the 'fun little nicknames' they gave me. I'm glad you were able to take the power back and make light of it. My old bullies should thank me, as they owe me a great debt of gratitude, for if I knew then what I know now, the options I had at my disposal, the power I held at the time to directly affect their little lives, I would have taken from them something much more valuable than their names. Your revenge is happiness and success, my chosen revenge would have been far more destructive to their little worlds than they could have summoned up in the worst of nightmares. Thank you for sharing your story.
Sad to hear you experienced something similar with the renaming tactics. Bullying from childhood/ early years can really stick with you for so many years!
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How many languages do you know?
English is my First language, Mandarin Chinese is my second language, Spanish (not fluent) is my rough third language
If there's one thing California taught me is not to judge people. Thank you for your videos and letting me reminisce about San Diego/So California. Hillcrest and University Ave all the way to El Cajon have particular pleasant memories.
did you go to the police with all this stuff ? sorry if you talked about it in the video. i know someone in the music business who was gay and closeted. he had a guy try to blackmail him and he actually called our states version of the FBI. they did a sting on this guy and he was arrested. BUT of course the news got hold of the story and talked with this guys lawyer and made the guy who was getting blackmailed out to be a horrible person. he ended up losing his career, but he didnt allow the conduct to continue. dont stand for it, DONT RUN FROM IT, take them down !!!!!!!!
I bet the peace you have now in yourself and your relationship with your loves is amazing. ❤ Keep growing and just love and enjoy life.
I find your life interesting to say the least. It wouldn’t be for me but I totally respect you.
I want to applaud you. I admire you and also amazed by you. Being gay my whole life, I never was so intrigued with a person like you. Yes you are very attracrive.....yet you are so much more. I would like to have a friend like you. Best of Life to you.
Thank you so much, this is such a great compliment to me - sincerely appreciated!
Stay strong and stay happy. Some people are just nasty and the best move is to live your best life❤️💜💙
Thank you
Good job not letting the scumbag win and you're right your mum shouldn't of had to see that side of her son's life I know coz I've a 26 yr old who likes to over share verbally and I'm glad I've never seen any pictures 😅
love is love it doesn't see gender all the best of love and luck for the 3 of you in the future 💜🩷🩵
Thank you! Whoever spends their time with bad intentions and such hatefullness is already experiencing karma... They are not happy themselves if they are doing such things. Thank you for the love and well wishes!