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When I was younger, I viewed myself as unattractive or undesirable to women. It made me resentful toward them which eventually led to disdain for them. My low self esteem drove my behavior and my behavior created my reality... self-fullfilling prophecy. They did find me undesirable, not because of my looks, because of my attitude. I could never understand why guys who were way less attractive than me got loads more attention, and it made me even more resentful. Finally I realized while I was trying to figure out why girls avoided me, these guys just accepted themselves and didn't give a fuck what anyone thought. That made them relaxed and fun to be around...and more attractive. Looking back, I had so many opportunities slip away. Girls literally begging me to just be happy and likeable. I was my own worst enemy. A lesson I will impart to my son.
I'm kinda of surprised on how much on point some of your takes are. That "cool stoic act" has happened to me a lot as an introvert. But in some circles where I'm more confortable and more relaxed, I have noticed people like me better.
*Confidence, self-respect, and a genuine personality are what truly draw people in. The best connections come from being real and comfortable in your own skin - nothing more magnetic than that!*
Hands on the Bible, it's probably a better feeling to go for it and get it, but, resultswise, handsome dudes only need to lean against a wall and relax. Relaxation is key, whether in having fun or not giving a single fuck
Okay, go deeper and draw up some playbooks for different varieties of handsome, as perceived by women. From burly Jason Momoa types to striking faces a la Tom Cruise, why not
This is true. I was really down and had a very offputting vibe for months after I was severely harassed and stalked by multiple - albeit very attractive - awful women which really hurt. I just closed off and it affected my relationships with everyone else.
Thx so much 4 making this. Was acting pretty masculine, not 2 much with the smiles, and just looking stoic af all the time. Was 2 busy watching all these other channels about being super serious, that i didn't realize i was going in the opposite direction
Handsome man game is for sure the most confusing. Women will show interest in me and chase me when I don’t do anything. When I do approach they are shy. So I never get the opportunity to learn what a warm approach is. Last relationship I met her on the beach. All I had to do was say hello from my gut, tell her she caught my attention I enjoy looking at het, ask her name. (I don’t go to the club or bar). I’d say women act more irrational. The women on your looks level tend to play a more cold game. You have to be able to tell the difference between not interested and speechless. Men don’t like you. A shredded dude in the gym with the hottest babe kept looking at me cause I’m the most handsome guy in the gym. It’s like dude you have 45Lbs of muscle I don’t lol. Girls definitely flirt by making fun of my deep stoic responses. You are right a lot here. To me it’s getting out of your head. Difficult for me as an intellect heavy into philosophy science and history. I’m literally always having “deep thoughts.” I would benefit from hanging out with chill handsome guys around women. But I will not wait around on it.
Some dating coaches say that you should treat every woman the same but i don’t agree because when i’m chill around woman i’m not into they become attracted to me often. so in a way, it’s not always bad to know how to act in such a way they don’t get attracted to you with these woman you don’t actually want… it’s kinda funny if you know what repels them. If you had like a good night with a chick but it was a one time thing and she wanted more you can always act needy… she will leave you alone by herself, you don’t need to do anything else … that’s the power you get if you know what works and what not.
Danny Vera has a video of acting like a female to get more women or something of that sort of title, It makes sense cause I’ve applied it. Have fun at bars and parties and dance and have a good time, that’s literally the equivalent of confidence + attraction as a care free person. You’re in the moment and You have no idea of how much attention or women you end up talking to because of you doing those things. Actually do them to enjoy yourself don’t just hope it works.
Wtf is handsome men's game?Handsome men don't need ''game'',they just win because they're pretty.There are NO obstacles when u're attractive,why are u lying?
@@story1234 That's a very simplistic take,pretty people get so much more.More choices,better treatment from everyone,positive reinforcement from society,positive traits are attributed to them by default and way more leeway when it comes to mistakes. What i mentioned are only a few of the many benefits pretty people experience.
@@yougioele Assuming you are indeed attractive,you only had 1 gf but u had many more w.omen show interest in you,but u couldn't perceive it due to your psychological issues. In that case,you can go to therapy,it's fixable.Being ugly is unfixable,because u can't fix genes.
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When I was younger, I viewed myself as unattractive or undesirable to women. It made me resentful toward them which eventually led to disdain for them. My low self esteem drove my behavior and my behavior created my reality... self-fullfilling prophecy. They did find me undesirable, not because of my looks, because of my attitude. I could never understand why guys who were way less attractive than me got loads more attention, and it made me even more resentful. Finally I realized while I was trying to figure out why girls avoided me, these guys just accepted themselves and didn't give a fuck what anyone thought. That made them relaxed and fun to be around...and more attractive. Looking back, I had so many opportunities slip away. Girls literally begging me to just be happy and likeable. I was my own worst enemy. A lesson I will impart to my son.
That’s me rn
Thanks
Same like me right now. Thanks for sharing, we are not alone haha
Same. Need to change asap
much appreciated for this piece of advice, I can relate to this
Relatable in many levels
I'm kinda of surprised on how much on point some of your takes are. That "cool stoic act" has happened to me a lot as an introvert. But in some circles where I'm more confortable and more relaxed, I have noticed people like me better.
*Confidence, self-respect, and a genuine personality are what truly draw people in. The best connections come from being real and comfortable in your own skin - nothing more magnetic than that!*
It's not the Handsome guy that gets results, it's the average guy who takes ACTION.
It’s not about getting result while compensating ur stature ,frame or integrity,it’s about being urself while expressing yourself n ur desires
cope harder
Yeah and gets married to the wrong chick, gets a divorce and pays alimony for the kids who hate him because she talks smack about you…
Hands on the Bible, it's probably a better feeling to go for it and get it, but, resultswise, handsome dudes only need to lean against a wall and relax. Relaxation is key, whether in having fun or not giving a single fuck
Okay, go deeper and draw up some playbooks for different varieties of handsome, as perceived by women. From burly Jason Momoa types to striking faces a la Tom Cruise, why not
This is true. I was really down and had a very offputting vibe for months after I was severely harassed and stalked by multiple - albeit very attractive - awful women which really hurt. I just closed off and it affected my relationships with everyone else.
Thx so much 4 making this. Was acting pretty masculine, not 2 much with the smiles, and just looking stoic af all the time. Was 2 busy watching all these other channels about being super serious, that i didn't realize i was going in the opposite direction
A breakdown video of celebrities behaviours will be amazing
4:00 I have been an all out authentic guy and I have been a stoic and certain acting guy, The SECOND one wins with women
How did it turn out long term for you?
@@Eviad2219 I am not the relationship and marriage kind of guy, so goes well
@@_arnavmathur yeah well, I am and acting / pretending all the time is an excruciating experience
@@Eviad2219 Every game has its down sides, so as this.. this is the cost of being perfect. Sure you can just tap out and leave anytime you want
This channel was made for me. Just subbed 💯
Appreciate you brother!
Nice work! The Celeb breakdown would definitely be very useful to us
Good stuff. Yeah a celebrity behavior breakdown video would be great.
Handsome man game is for sure the most confusing.
Women will show interest in me and chase me when I don’t do anything. When I do approach they are shy. So I never get the opportunity to learn what a warm approach is.
Last relationship I met her on the beach. All I had to do was say hello from my gut, tell her she caught my attention I enjoy looking at het, ask her name.
(I don’t go to the club or bar).
I’d say women act more irrational. The women on your looks level tend to play a more cold game.
You have to be able to tell the difference between not interested and speechless.
Men don’t like you.
A shredded dude in the gym with the hottest babe kept looking at me cause I’m the most handsome guy in the gym. It’s like dude you have 45Lbs of muscle I don’t lol.
Girls definitely flirt by making fun of my deep stoic responses.
You are right a lot here. To me it’s getting out of your head.
Difficult for me as an intellect heavy into philosophy science and history. I’m literally always having “deep thoughts.”
I would benefit from hanging out with chill handsome guys around women. But I will not wait around on it.
Bro english please
If a guy who thinks he's hot stuff ever says "Women always approach me dude 🤪", ask him if they'd fit in a row boat
Some dating coaches say that you should treat every woman the same but i don’t agree because when i’m chill around woman i’m not into they become attracted to me often. so in a way, it’s not always bad to know how to act in such a way they don’t get attracted to you with these woman you don’t actually want… it’s kinda funny if you know what repels them. If you had like a good night with a chick but it was a one time thing and she wanted more you can always act needy… she will leave you alone by herself, you don’t need to do anything else … that’s the power you get if you know what works and what not.
Danny Vera has a video of acting like a female to get more women or something of that sort of title, It makes sense cause I’ve applied it. Have fun at bars and parties and dance and have a good time, that’s literally the equivalent of confidence + attraction as a care free person. You’re in the moment and You have no idea of how much attention or women you end up talking to because of you doing those things. Actually do them to enjoy yourself don’t just hope it works.
you seem intelligent unlike some other toxic masculine self improvement gurus out here
Its toxic to people who cant handle it.
Fun vibe
Smooth
Man u earned a new subscriber
5:13 thats a great idea im looking forward to that
Uncle Rom is the truth🤴🏾
Would consider doing a video on Body Game?
Yeah I can do that..do you have any specific questions on the topic?
Danny, solid content.
5:32 this is very true
good advice, thank you
Another great content man.
New subscriber bro, solid content 🏆
Breakdowns would be helpful
Breakdown those celebrities!
Since I become more and more handsome, I get less and less sex... :D
😂😂😂 fr shits crazy
Shout out to the o.g. Rom Wills
Some people think I’m gay 😅😅
Haha
Girls have asked my friends that in the past. Because I have style, handsome, and stoic and not all over them
This video must be called "how to be the biggest contagious 304 ever" 😂
Very good
Yes the cool non reactive act gets you nowhere. Creating a party or just a good atmosphere everywhere you come gets you everywhere.
Yes
Lol only less than 500 likes while over 120k likes for motivations.
1:13 I really like your content Danny but this is such a wrong advice
Wtf is handsome men's game?Handsome men don't need ''game'',they just win because they're pretty.There are NO obstacles when u're attractive,why are u lying?
We just get more choices. We are on another level of choosing. Get over that first.
I am a psl god
I'm 29 and only had 1 girlfriend in my life, I'm considered handsome and even Chad. I'm my own worst enemy.
@@story1234 That's a very simplistic take,pretty people get so much more.More choices,better treatment from everyone,positive reinforcement from society,positive traits are attributed to them by default and way more leeway when it comes to mistakes. What i mentioned are only a few of the many benefits pretty people experience.
@@yougioele Assuming you are indeed attractive,you only had 1 gf but u had many more w.omen show interest in you,but u couldn't perceive it due to your psychological issues. In that case,you can go to therapy,it's fixable.Being ugly is unfixable,because u can't fix genes.